What should you do if you're friend-zoned?
Vložit
- čas přidán 3. 08. 2022
- Chatting with Vivienne about the friend zone. Is it possible to get out of it? How do you know when you're friendzoned? Would you even want to date someone after someone is friendzoned? How can you be explicit about romantic interest without coming on too strong or being too vague?
Vivienne's IG:
/ weivienne
My instagram:
/ chrisjereza
If you're reading this, comment "chris is friendzoned"
chris is friendzoned
Love watching ppl generalizing their personal experiences as if it is science.
So now it's my turn:
Every time i got together with a "hell yes", they were crazy or using me for something else. Twice i spent years "waiting" for people. Once it was a 2 year relationship and the second is currently my wife. But what do i know, i don't have a CZcams channel nor royalty free background music.
Cheers
This isn’t meant to reflect on your video, but I think “friend zone” is such a stupid term. It makes it seem like having friends is the worst thing in the world.
Isn't it though? It's just a time sink and all the best ideas can be consumed through media these days
exactly, real friends are rare and hard to find.
sexual and romantic relationships are everywhere and easy.. its like people only want to have intercourse and thats it, waste of time.
for real
People in the friend zone romanticize the concept, and they subconsciously want the feeling of longing, chasing, and the eventual potential relationship they dream about. Unfortunately, the concept is reinforced through the media they consume (movies, tv, books, music, etc), and the chasing after the idea of "one true love". And hell, I can't blame them, some of that media is great, and it can be easy to romanticize aspects of your life. But eventually, you gotta get out of that movie theater.
Very true, excellent points! 👏
Try to be the person you want to be and try to pursue relationships that you can honestly say will be the best for you. You can't change other's and shouldn't try to. People grow and change. The only way out of the "friend zone" is if the other person decides through their own accord.
Thank you so much for this video. I’ve had a very close friend who I’ve been into for a decade and whenever we hangout, her and I always hit it off and it goes really well. I’m talking like she’s the best woman in the entire world and there’s nobody like her. She started dating a guy who’s decent three years ago and I’ve told her that I just want her to be happy. We hung out a couple weeks ago and it went really well and I told her that I have feeling for her that I’ve had to put on hold while she dates this guy and that I’m always available for her if she needs a shoulder to rest against. She said that I’ve always been a good friend and that she never thought of me as a potential soul mate. Idk what to do. I love this women. Please give me good advice.
I feel for you, but you need to value yourself more in this situation in order for her to value you more. Your attention, your love etc is valuable. You can't just be a shoulder to lean on. She already made it clear she doesnt think about you as a potential soulmate, yet a girl could meet a guy who hasn't done anything for them and immediately view them as a potential soulmate. That means everything you done for her up to this point hasn't worked, and doing more of the same thing is very unlikely to make a difference. I'd advise you to do the following: Accept that you may never end up with her, work on yourself (working out, skin care, save money, etc). Become a higher value version of yourself. She and other girls will notice the difference, don't make it so obvious that you are waiting on her and be open to new girls
You got a good friend :-)
what if i find someone on a dating app and turns out she has a small youtube channel... can i just comment on every video lol esp. if i deactivated my dating app?
This is old info - This info was already out at least in 2013 (at least that's when I first discovered it). In this information age, this should NOT be a secret.
WOW.... people-pleasing can be a form of manipulation. she nailed it there.