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Omg, yes! Parents are always thinking that teens have no clue what they're talking about. Always saying that we can't feel a certain way about things that happen in our lives, because we haven't been through what they've been through... Honestly, I get where they're coming from, but they need to know where we're coming from. I love my parents with all my heart. I'm adopted, but they've been more of a parent to me than anyone else ever has, but they don't completely understand it all still. Things happen and parents putting teens in a bubble and not letting them do anything isn't going to help them, it does more damage than good. And for any parent who reads this, if you're like this, don't think you're child's rebellion is out of hatred towards you, it's not... I love my parents with ALL my heart, but sometimes parents need to ease up a bit. I know you don't want your child to make the same mistakes as you, but you can't control that. They may not make them when you're around but when they leave or go out into the real world when they're no longer under your protection, they are more likely to make the same mistakes or worse. I just want you all to know parents do their best, and it may not always seem like it. I'm 16 years old, and through the foster system, I've been through more than a lot of people ever have or ever will go through... My parents really try, and I am SO thankful for them, I got really lucky with the ones I got! I get that they need to ease up a bit, and any other teen that reads this may agree with this, but trust me, they try and it's hard sometimes. Go easy on your parents and try to understand where they're coming from, and if you feel like you're not being heard then talk to them. Sorry if this offended anybody, that was not my intention.
Hey THANKS SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS, actually i was having a drawing project for teens problem and found ur comments while listening to this video the words that ur describe as parents putting teens inside a bubble gives inspiration for me thank you so much and also i agree with u parents often thinking that we don't understand many things in this world because we just have a puberty and we just new in facing the reality world well actually the facts they are our main reason why we understand hard reality so quick
Cara Scott I'm sorry you have been thru the system I have been my whole life and finally with my grandparents but it's been hard asf I see were your coming from and yes they need to be a bit easier to let there kids do things them selves and learn from there mistakes not from your parents mistakes
@@rhyleeblack1839 And, honestly, the thing is when you're trapped inside a bubble you tend to go crazier when you're free. See, as a teen, most people are out experiencing things in the world so when they are an adult certain things are no longer of interest, but when you don't get to experience things as a teen, when you're on your own you're going to want to do EVERYTHING. That isn't good for a kid, either.
@Cara Scott. I was adopted to my family at the age of 8, and moved in with them when I was 7 and I’m 15 now and it can be hard to tell them what is happening with me sometimes! I went through a lot when I was younger, my birth dad was put in jail when I was still a baby, my birth mom smoked and drank a lot and was always angry for some reason so there were constantly holes in the wall in her bedroom cause she would just punch the walls and it was really scary, and we were constantly moving due to being poor and the houses just kept getting smaller and smaller. I was the only girl with four brothers and then my mom got a “boyfriend” and he and my birth mom constantly fought and screamed at each other and were physically hurting each other and he sexually abused me at the age of 3!!! AGE OF 3!! One day I went to my grandmas house and told my aunt what was happening at home and so we went to the police station and they asked me some questions about my home situation and they had a family that night to pick me up! I never got to say goodbye to my mom, my brothers, but especially my twin brother. I went through 5 families in just 4 years and now today I’ve been adopted to a wonderful and caring family! my twins and little brother were put into foster care as well, today I live with my annoying little brother but my twin lives just an hour away! So I can still see him about 2 times every 7-9 months! Which isn’t enough and we have grown SO much closer because we don’t see each other that much but I miss him every second he’s not with me 🥺 he’s my twin, we are like one person, he’s my best friend in the whole world and makes me the happiest person in the world when I can spend even just a couple days with him! Anyways sorry for the long adoption story, there is so much more I could say but it’s already long 😂
i'm sorry: i'm sorry i cant be the perfect child i'm sorry i cant open up to you when i feel hurt i'm sorry that i'm a mistake i'm sorry i cant live up to your expectation i'm sorry that i am a embarrassment i'm sorry that i'm not your favorite child i'm sorry i feel this way i'm sorry ..... about my life. i still and will always love you❤️
Why's it always the child's fault? Parents:Your crazy! Your only young you don't even know the meaning of depression or stressed out is. Stop overreacting! Your just being a moody teenager! Who knew parents could be so dumb.. why don't hey understand that a person is moody for a reason! Why do they refer to the moody person as a teen i mean i have been depressed as a child it can happen to anyone at any age. We all have a heart. Its not our fault if the heart replays memories the mind wants to forget.
bruh whenever I hear some person say some dumb shit like this im like " u know that the youngest kid with depression is four but your right were all too young and were just being a dramatic, moody teenager on our period, so sorry, don't mind us, its not like were real stressed you know trying to figure out life." GMFU
I can relate. I hide my feeling and if im happy its fake. If i sad i hide it cause i tell myself not to cry because its a weakness. Even if i know its not. Even when i get hurt and my teamates on the footy feild ask if im ok i might be tering up hut i still say im fine. The only time ive felt like ive really fit in was a state footy carnival. Me and my teammate clashed heads and i ended up with the black eye i tried hiding it and i didnt wanna cry. But they all saw it and knew i wasnt ok. For the rest of the game the prtected me they put even more effort just to not let me tackel anyone so it didnt get worst. I just wanted to continue playing like i normally would becaus ei hat attention. My oarents say im an attention seeker and i only care for myself but its not like that. They just dont understand. I actually dont care about myself. I care more about the nature and environment than myself but just trying to protect yourslef in the world is selfish to parents just because they didnt have to protect themself back when they were kids because the world was safer.
I once broke down in front of my sister and without thinking, she told my mom and now my mom thinks I am being overdramatic about everything and compares me to everyone.
I'm really sorry for you.I don't know why parents can't understand that we can have anxiety/depression at all ages not only when we grow up and become an adult and we can understand what does that mean and how does it feels like.My mum,too,compares me to everyone,more precisely my cousins,and that really hurts me because it was just like,she's trying to tell me that I'm not good enough but indirectly.I hope that the situation will get better and that your mum will,one day,understand you and finally give you a lot of supports.😊🤗🖒
i'm really sorry. i hope whatever you're going through gets better. just remember you are amazing, intelligent, and loved way more than u think. luv ya
Can relate at 13 got to much fake friends, drama, anxiety,and depression, insomnia but my parents think I'm just doing to for attention....guess they will never truly understand....
Honestly,in my life everything is fine,its just that my family don’t understand me and school is stressing me out.Parents scold us saying we lock ourselves in our rooms,they just don’t know we are suffering inside there because we are hiding our feelings and emotions because they’ll never understand
I remember that teen period in my life. It was very frustrating at times. You are trying to figure it out and at times things felt so extreme. Some were. Some weren’t, looking back. At times “teenagerdom” could be regular, regular, regular, good day, great day, then next moment “what the...” you’re in your head, and bam. I was hurt, angry, disappointed, with myself but also realizing that the adults around me didn’t know everything I felt they should have. Things happen that you may feel they don’t understand. They may surprise you. If not, please find a counselor, mentor, or teacher you can talk to. But be willing to listen too. I didn’t know to look for that. I was also afraid of sharing what was going on. Whether you’re normal or an anomaly, you won’t know you have common ground with others unless you speak up. I had to learn to step over my usual. Shoulders back, not slouched. Care about yourself. You have value outside of your friend group and your family. Some people have it rough. Use those situations to step up, not step down. Take track, or a sport, leave it on the court, or the gym. If you’re creative, write it, art it, sing it, math it, map it, clean it, cook it.... but don’t eat it all share it. Other people can’t accept you more than yourself. I wish that I would have known then that others my age were going through similar things. My Mom always said “Pick your friends wisely!” but when you’re young, sometimes you just pick who picks you. Know Dear person you don’t have to have all the answers. We are all figuring out at different levels. It may not feel good all the time, but there is a lesson and beauty in each ugly stage. You just got to stick around to the end to get to it. I pray that you will be given new perspective and that you will learn how to deal with these anxieties and frustrations in a healthy way, not a perfect way. Just perfect for you. Writing, art, and prayer got me through. I also had a few close friends that I could share some things with. A few, not a plethora. I was nice to everyone, but everyone is not your friend.
Parents: oh you're 13, How would you know about depression? How would you know know about anxiety? How would you know about heartbreak? Gosh what are the schools teaching you? I don't understand how an adult who clearly knows about what is going in the world today, would think that a child doesn't "understand" depression or anxiety, well guess what parents! we do! some of us have to deal with fear and maybe even guilt of the past. overthinking is very common for any age not just teens or "adults". But what I don't understand is that our parents are the ones we are supposed to go to with our fears. But how are we going to do that if all you want to say is "you're a kid, you're going to be fine. you're not depressed, stop it"
Mine started when i was 12. And i suffer from anxiety as well, and the fact that nobody knows what i’m saying (because of the odd way i talk in my own language) makes it even harder to express myself. I once didn’t get a good result when i was 12 (about 70 something) and i got through a lot of thoughts, even as far as giving myself a “red pen mark” (which isn’t red pen) on the left arm. My parents thought i was influenced by someone, or perhaps i was overly pampered. But seriously, new and old lives are so different, if they thought beating can help with anxiety, i have no idea anymore. You need a this 🫂🫂 ur not alone
This is so relatable. All parents need to hear this song because it's like parents think that just because we are teenagers we are incapable of love or that we don't get heartbroken or depressed. We feel emotions just like they do so why do they not treat our emotions how they would like to treated when we or sad or moody. We are obviously sad for a reason that must mean a lot to us.
I hate that so many people assume things that turn out to be so wrong but it doesn’t teach them anything and they never say sorry. Also the fact that parents have to always be right gets me so mad and sometimes causes me to stress out so much.😔😔
This reminds me of 2 things: 1: Me- I wanna be an actress when I grow up! Dad- you’d have to be very lucky! Me- why? Dad-well... lets just say you’re not “gifted” in that subject Me crying my eyes out: Dad- whats wrong? Me- I feel like I’m not good enough Dad- *continuing to not listen or care*
I know/think it’s already late to give you an advice, but I’m gonna tell you something: first of all, don’t listen to him girl; second, if your dad doesn’t believe that you’re gonna be an actress, I DO believe in you! (and if you become an actress, I wanna see your movies or tv shows or whatever🤠) and third one, YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE GOOD ENOUGH!
This song really speaks to me, I have battled neglect from my parents even at age 11. It really helps to know that Im not the only one who feels this way.
Yoo! So I'm 15 now, and ig your 19 now? So does it get better? Like how long does it last? Because I've been getting abused and treated like $hit for years by my dad. And I relate hard to this song. I made some bad decisions, because I wanted away from my dad. But the cops found me. And I know your probably thinking "Why didn't she just tell the cops and get help?" Well I did. That's where the "You ever think that you might be overreacting?" Part of the song hits hard. I was crying and begging the cops not to take me home. I told them that I was getting beat at home! I hade bruises and scars from it that I showed them... And they said "Your just a rebellious teen who wants to get out of trouble. Stop overreacting. You probably deserved it when he beat you." And then brought me home. I got beat for running away. So yeah, does it get better?
Finally someone else understands what I’ve been feeling forever. Thank you so much! this song is the best thing to listen to when your upset and just need to calm down!
@@madisonsylvia4542 Maybe for you, but thinking about suicide sucks. All depression are different. Also I didn't mean this to be rude if u find it to be 😅
I’m 12 years old, and I literally can relate to this. Especially the part when she says “High school’s been a terrifying one.” For me I just started middle school and it’s already really hard. So I bet if I’m in grade 7 or 8 I’ll probably soooo depressed and stressed. And the homework they give are just too much.
I do agree they give way to much homework in middle school. I know it sucks but you’ll get through it just like I did. I would say it gets easier but that would be a lie. As we grow up we simply become a little better at coping. The best advice I can tell you is to find what makes you happy and something you enjoy. Finding what you enjoy can help make the day seem happier and less daunting. It’s okay to take breaks sometimes to recharge before doing work. All in all I hope this helps at least a little and I hope it gets better for you.
Oh boy.. being a 7th grader, told my teacher that they’re giving us too much homework and it gave me a lot of stress, my teacher was like “you’re too young to be stressed out, wait till you go to 9th or 10th grade, it’ll be even worse.” My parents were like “you’re too young to be depressed!” Like come on, I’m not from where they were from before! I’m from a new generation!
I know this was 2 years ago. But I hope you pushed through and parents understand they just don't want you to go through the same hurt they did at your age. Being a teen is one of the hardest things you'll go through until you have your own.
"They Say Were Crazy And Useless, Making Stupid Excuses" And "Oh We Know More Than What We Tell You But Can’t Always Put Into Words" Why Is That My Life In Three Or Four Lines? :I
I know people can relate, and I totally understand that. But lots of people forget how much our parents do for us. They make sure we have a roof over our head, clean clothes on our back, and food on the table. They make sure that we are at our best even when they're at there worst. If your parents are ignoring you like this, they most likely have a *ton* on their plate. God bless parents, they bring light to darkness, sun to shade, and leaves to trees. Mom and Dad, I love you to death and more.
Wow, I'm so sorry, and I know multiple people have already said, but you aren't alone, also, I'm unofficially adopting you. I need to know your fave food, color and song. Then, you need to listen to said song on repeat while looking at your fave food... but it's your fave color. lol, I'm here for you, no matter what, I know I'm just some rando on the internet, but I hope this helps brighten your day because you are valid and a beautiful person. *virtual hug*
parents need to think before THEY speak. before you say anything to them just think about how they’re going to feel, that’s the thing with parents they say think before you speak but they don’t think before THEY speak. if you’re depressed they say you don’t know what depression is or you just want attention, they just don’t understand..
Yeah, I few months ago my dad got angry at me because of some schoolwork I failed to do (it was during lockdown and I was doing online school) and he called me a disappointment, he apologised later on and acted like nothing happened and didn’t give a crap, but it affected so much and even now I tell myself that I just disappoint everyone and no one likes me
Nothing hurts more than seeing children with their parents and they ask you where is you dad or mom and you have to say I don't have them . When I reality they left you at 3 years old on the street
Same.I suffer from burn out too and when I try to make my parents understand that I have a mental (I think mental but i'm not surr,I'm not a doctor in general)illness saying:"Mum/Dad,every morning that I wake up I feel like I didn't get any sleep,I'm so tired...i can't feel like I'm moving and controlling my body"They just say:"it's because you watch too much your phone"or"it's because you sleep too late".Why does everything is the phone fault?Why can't they take the hint?
Why, just why is it always the kid/teens fault? I really, really want to know. And no i am NOT too young to understand the meaning of ‘stressed out’ or ‘depressed’ its not always a part of being a teen, or becoming one. Sometimes...we really are. I understand you try, but maybe not always hard enough. You may never understand, and thats ok, but at least dont always blame us. It isnt always my fault my mind wont stop reminding me of memories or things people have said, that make me hurt, break down, and cry. Or when im locked in my room. You know why i am? No you dont. You may think you do..but you dont. Have you ever thought maybe a kid/teen really could be hurting? No, apparently not its just always because “you’re always on your phone too much.” Maybe, my phone (music specifically) is my escape from things..from reality, and whats going on. Ever think i wonder what would happen if i kill myself? Ever think i sometimes want to? No. You are too oblivious to notice, or even care. Parents... You really, really miss out on a lot. Sometimes pick up on the little things, that lead to something larger. Not just assuming right away. That makes me so frustrated. Especially when they blame it on something that actually may help me. My goodness, parents. You really dont understand. Just to make it clear: anyone struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, and suicidal things... it will get better. I promise you with my entire life it does. Life is a roller coaster, with ups and downs, but you always will make your way back up.
I appreciate this and I 100% agree! Majority of parents don’t give two shits I swear. As they say every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child. I’ve dealt with my parents not understanding as well. I’ve honestly been depressed since I was about six or somewhere around there. I was always kinda neglected and my so called friends never wanted to hang out with me or do anything I wanted to do. I’ve had so many times that have felt like a blur that my mind has made me forget. And it always frustrates me when people say “just talk to someone” cause like I have and when I do it never works out. The time they really started taking my issues seriously resulted in me talking about and them never mentioning it again and never helping me. They think that one little brief of what goes on in my mind is gonna solve my depression. No maybe it would help with sadness because that’s temporary but depression is different. I realized I wrote a whole rant… sorry about that lol.
OMG she's so good. These song's touch my heart. The songs make me remember when my Great-Grandpa, would sometimes tuck me in, and sing a song to me. And, it made me fall asleep. Music is power!!!!
Dead mum and dad, I’m sorry I’m a failure Im sorry I let you down I’m sorry I’m not the kid u wanted I wish I could’ve done more I wish I could be happy with you I wish we never argued I wish we got along I wish I wasn’t useless I wish I wasn’t hurting the way I am I wish I was normal... I love u mum and dad And I’m sorry but I love u both even if I am a failure 🥰
I turned 17 last month & I can relate to this song since I was 12 years old, someone finally made the perfect song to say everything that I can't. Thank you ♥
They think we have it so easy because our jobs are school and chores, but then you get deeper. You realize friends you’ve had for years hate you and they’ve been using you or you discover sexuality or you can’t describe this feeling or explain why you cry every time you leave a room. You can’t explain the anxiety you feel, and you hate being controlled by everyone when you’ve done nothing wrong. Sometimes you feel numb, sometimes you’re exhausted for no reason, and sometimes you feel like crying and locking yourself away. We’re not all stupid, we’re just scared and trying to discover ourselves. You’d understand if you remembered what it was like and how painful and scary it is to try to figure out who you are, keep up with school, and whatever else is going on in your life. You might think we’re stupid but really we’re just hurt and think you won’t care or just call us dumb.
Anyone have friends that don't want them. Parents that don't understand them. People who say that because you are young you can't be sad. because I am here for anyone who has gone through the same.❤
Yoo! So I'm 15 now, and ig your 17 now? So does it get better? Like how long does it last? Because I've been getting abused and treated like $hit for years by my dad. And I relate hard to this song. I made some bad decisions, because I wanted away from my dad. But the cops found me. And I know your probably thinking "Why didn't she just tell the cops and get help?" Well I did. That's where the "You ever think that you might be overreacting?" Part of the song hits hard. I was crying and begging the cops not to take me home. I told them that I was getting beat at home! I hade bruises and scars from it that I showed them... And they said "Your just a rebellious teen who wants to get out of trouble. Stop overreacting. You probably deserved it when he beat you." And then brought me home. I got beat for running away. So yeah, does it get better?
Hmmm sounds familiar... Me: Mom I want to learn korean and become trilingual! Mom : No Me: why? Mom: because it’s too expensive! Me : then I can teach myself Mom *laughs* Like you could ever do that! Your too young to learn something like that. You need to work and get good grades in school. Get a job , find a home and move out! Me:.... My mind: just you try and stop me.
@@user-hx6ti6tq4r Yes but it's not that professional when it's on yt and my parents don't let me on CZcams a lot :( And I need a good computer first ;-;
She's right in a sense you should be working on your grades and graduating. Y'all don't understand that your parents through the same stuff as you if not worse, they know what there talking about!
I can relate to mostly everything except the age and school 12 and middle instead of 16 and high school but yea I can relate to it thx for the lyrics it’s beautiful
Relating to this song is one of the most hardest things. I go through fake friends every day. I have anxiety and depression and my parents just think I'm acting. It's hard being bullied and being misunderstood by everyone around you
Me: Mum...I’m feeling pretty depressed lately... Mum: Ugh, ur such a dramatic teen!! Stop making stupid excuses for love! Me: ... Mum: WHY AREN’T U ANSWERING ME?! Me: I-I-I... Mum: ARE U TALKING BACK TO ME?! GO TO UR ROOM!!
This happens to me so much- I finally get the courage and confidence I need to tell my parents about something want open up to them about and I say it and they think I'm overreacting or just want attention then they end up yelling at me then I get lost for words then they end up yelling at me more and it just- Turns into a mess..lol don't worry your not alone
Im only 11 years old and every word of this song makes a tear slide down of me face😢 . I wish I could tell this to my parents but telling them how I really feel is the hardest thing in the world for me
Many people say they relate because they're depressed, but I don't think you have to be depressed to relate to this song. I had a stage where I was always depressed and it was horrible and lonely and I did that to myself. I mean I understand that there are things that bring us down and there are always going to be things that we're never going to like, but I had to learn that I had control over how I felt and I wasn't going to let the things I can't control, control me. It's all about your mindset. When I was two I was put into foster care, and because of that I always thought that no one could ever love me because the people who gave birth to me and shared my DNA couldn't. I was adopted when I was 7 and continued visits with my birth parent until I was 9 until something happened and the judge said it was illegal for my birth father to see me. I now have amazing parents that a lot of the time I don't agree with and at most times, I feel, don't understand me. Then I have to realize that they're only human and they make mistakes just like I do.
I can relate to this because my parents say that I don’t have depression and that mental health isn’t a thing at 12 but my cousin died and they don’t understand now hard that has been
Did someone actually say that to you? or did someone tell you that they said that to them or what? Because to be honest I've never heard anything more insane. just wow
@@hellobye4054 try your best but maybe not sometimes you dont need to be perfect because nobody is perfect you should be proud of who you are thats all i can say right now
You dont need to be perfect, you're perfect for me♡ Being you is more important! I know you care what people say but forget them. Love look at yourself- you're beautiful, amazing, funny, kind and perfect just the way you are
I'm glad I have a mum who understands my pain, my dad died when I was 10 and my mum has never said I was overreacting or being dramatic, because since then i have had mental breakdowns on and off. This song just really hits hard and I love listening to it.
How can adults have lived through all these emotions, forget, say "I was a teenager before, remember," then criticise us for having hearts and emotions? Yes, I do remember, but do you?
The fact that teens are trying to figure out emotions and such and figure out their place and wants to ask parents for advise but can’t get any. Or the fact that you do show emotion like anger, they fucking tell you have an attitude, not all parents are like that but a lot of em are
I feel like that too it’s just not fun, I feel like I can’t be myself around them, and they try to force me to say why I Cry, but they don’t listen, I literally ran away from home one time because of the mental stress, but all they think about is how I was physically hurt, not how I was mentally affected. I will cry at the smallest things too when they y talk to me because of bad memories. But they think I’m just faking It for attention
Here's my advice, mind you, it will take guts. So, it's 3 AM at your house/apartment/other living space. You slowly wake up, get down from your bed and hook up your phone to your very powerful speaker. Then, at full volume, blast this song. (make sure your door is locked and blocked off by heavy shit like your dresser, a chair, a shelf... etc.) Then, once your parents stop screaming at you to turn off the music, hopefully they will actually listen to the lyrics and possibly have a civil conversation with you without being asshats.
I always thought "When I become a teenager, I can do real fun stuff and I'll be free". Now that I'm 14, I sometimes wish I could go back. Where there was no bullies, no anxiety, no stress, no fake people. Back to a time when I was actually happy....
..image a 9 year old having to deal with a divorce...it’s so painful to take in..all the screaming and fighting, I just can’t take it anymore! What even worst for me is that I just found out that my ‘best-friend’ is a fake one...I also heard my ‘other true friend’ talk trash about me and how she’s faking being my friend... I can relate to this song a lot.. it helps me cope with all the sadness and pain left...❤️
middle school's been a hell of a ride for me. i've been through so many ruff patches- whether it's fake friends, no friends, drama, anxiety, sadness, too much work, and parents that sometimes that don't know about your pain. it's all been such heavy weight on my shoulders and there has been many times where i have sat on my bathroom floor for hours bawling my eyes out praying for help. so to let you all know, i'm so sorry for whatever you're going through, and just know that you aren't alone. luv ya:)
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I almost cried.....this song speaks for me
Im crying rght now
omg i did cry
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It does dosent it
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“We don’t cry because we want to”
That hit me hard
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@@jessiecho7494 I thought it was just me 😂
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Omg, yes! Parents are always thinking that teens have no clue what they're talking about. Always saying that we can't feel a certain way about things that happen in our lives, because we haven't been through what they've been through... Honestly, I get where they're coming from, but they need to know where we're coming from. I love my parents with all my heart. I'm adopted, but they've been more of a parent to me than anyone else ever has, but they don't completely understand it all still. Things happen and parents putting teens in a bubble and not letting them do anything isn't going to help them, it does more damage than good. And for any parent who reads this, if you're like this, don't think you're child's rebellion is out of hatred towards you, it's not... I love my parents with ALL my heart, but sometimes parents need to ease up a bit. I know you don't want your child to make the same mistakes as you, but you can't control that. They may not make them when you're around but when they leave or go out into the real world when they're no longer under your protection, they are more likely to make the same mistakes or worse. I just want you all to know parents do their best, and it may not always seem like it. I'm 16 years old, and through the foster system, I've been through more than a lot of people ever have or ever will go through... My parents really try, and I am SO thankful for them, I got really lucky with the ones I got! I get that they need to ease up a bit, and any other teen that reads this may agree with this, but trust me, they try and it's hard sometimes. Go easy on your parents and try to understand where they're coming from, and if you feel like you're not being heard then talk to them.
Sorry if this offended anybody, that was not my intention.
Hey THANKS SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS, actually i was having a drawing project for teens problem and found ur comments while listening to this video the words that ur describe as parents putting teens inside a bubble gives inspiration for me thank you so much and also i agree with u parents often thinking that we don't understand many things in this world because we just have a puberty and we just new in facing the reality world well actually the facts they are our main reason why we understand hard reality so quick
Cara Scott I'm sorry you have been thru the system I have been my whole life and finally with my grandparents but it's been hard asf I see were your coming from and yes they need to be a bit easier to let there kids do things them selves and learn from there mistakes not from your parents mistakes
@@rhyleeblack1839 And, honestly, the thing is when you're trapped inside a bubble you tend to go crazier when you're free. See, as a teen, most people are out experiencing things in the world so when they are an adult certain things are no longer of interest, but when you don't get to experience things as a teen, when you're on your own you're going to want to do EVERYTHING. That isn't good for a kid, either.
@Tessie Turner Sorry, I was just speaking from my point of view... This could happen to anyone
@Cara Scott. I was adopted to my family at the age of 8, and moved in with them when I was 7 and I’m 15 now and it can be hard to tell them what is happening with me sometimes! I went through a lot when I was younger, my birth dad was put in jail when I was still a baby, my birth mom smoked and drank a lot and was always angry for some reason so there were constantly holes in the wall in her bedroom cause she would just punch the walls and it was really scary, and we were constantly moving due to being poor and the houses just kept getting smaller and smaller. I was the only girl with four brothers and then my mom got a “boyfriend” and he and my birth mom constantly fought and screamed at each other and were physically hurting each other and he sexually abused me at the age of 3!!! AGE OF 3!! One day I went to my grandmas house and told my aunt what was happening at home and so we went to the police station and they asked me some questions about my home situation and they had a family that night to pick me up! I never got to say goodbye to my mom, my brothers, but especially my twin brother. I went through 5 families in just 4 years and now today I’ve been adopted to a wonderful and caring family! my twins and little brother were put into foster care as well, today I live with my annoying little brother but my twin lives just an hour away! So I can still see him about 2 times every 7-9 months! Which isn’t enough and we have grown SO much closer because we don’t see each other that much but I miss him every second he’s not with me 🥺 he’s my twin, we are like one person, he’s my best friend in the whole world and makes me the happiest person in the world when I can spend even just a couple days with him! Anyways sorry for the long adoption story, there is so much more I could say but it’s already long 😂
This song is so relatable
This is how many people can relate
👇
I hope you learned or are still learning now!!
i'm sorry:
i'm sorry i cant be the perfect child
i'm sorry i cant open up to you when i feel hurt
i'm sorry that i'm a mistake
i'm sorry i cant live up to your expectation
i'm sorry that i am a embarrassment
i'm sorry that i'm not your favorite child
i'm sorry i feel this way
i'm sorry .....
about my life.
i still and will always love you❤️
😭
Gurl forget them in my eyes u are the best u
@@najado1645 thanks
I feel the same......
😭😭
I thought that being a teenager would be fun but I never expected that I would get two new friends with that - Anxiety and depression
BTS Army no you didn’t all you got was being said and scared
please don’t self diagnose
I almost got those two friends but bts saved me 😢
BTS saved me too
i have no one i can trust but bts are the only people i love in this world..everyone alse i have met are so fake..bts saved me
Why's it always the child's fault?
Parents:Your crazy! Your only young you don't even know the meaning of depression or stressed out is. Stop overreacting! Your just being a moody teenager!
Who knew parents could be so dumb.. why don't hey understand that a person is moody for a reason! Why do they refer to the moody person as a teen i mean i have been depressed as a child it can happen to anyone at any age. We all have a heart. Its not our fault if the heart replays memories the mind wants to forget.
bruh whenever I hear some person say some dumb shit like this im like " u know that the youngest kid with depression is four but your right were all too young and were just being a dramatic, moody teenager on our period, so sorry, don't mind us, its not like were real stressed you know trying to figure out life." GMFU
I can relate.
I hide my feeling and if im happy its fake. If i sad i hide it cause i tell myself not to cry because its a weakness. Even if i know its not. Even when i get hurt and my teamates on the footy feild ask if im ok i might be tering up hut i still say im fine.
The only time ive felt like ive really fit in was a state footy carnival.
Me and my teammate clashed heads and i ended up with the black eye i tried hiding it and i didnt wanna cry. But they all saw it and knew i wasnt ok. For the rest of the game the prtected me they put even more effort just to not let me tackel anyone so it didnt get worst. I just wanted to continue playing like i normally would becaus ei hat attention.
My oarents say im an attention seeker and i only care for myself but its not like that. They just dont understand. I actually dont care about myself. I care more about the nature and environment than myself but just trying to protect yourslef in the world is selfish to parents just because they didnt have to protect themself back when they were kids because the world was safer.
WolfvesGame 04 hey i’m the same way i’m here for u.
Park Jimin RIGHT!! My parents always say this I don't know a single thing about me
Nicole Pinelook I'm also 11 and depressed
Any other fellow 12 year olds who can relate or is it just me?
yo dude, your not alone :)
Ur not alone
me...
Pooja Regmi me..
meeeeeee
I once broke down in front of my sister and without thinking, she told my mom and now my mom thinks I am being overdramatic about everything and compares me to everyone.
I’m sorry about that, that’s messed up I’m here if u ever want to talk
I'm really sorry for you.I don't know why parents can't understand that we can have anxiety/depression at all ages not only when we grow up and become an adult and we can understand what does that mean and how does it feels like.My mum,too,compares me to everyone,more precisely my cousins,and that really hurts me because it was just like,she's trying to tell me that I'm not good enough but indirectly.I hope that the situation will get better and that your mum will,one day,understand you and finally give you a lot of supports.😊🤗🖒
Yesterday I broke down infornt of my parents and I regert it 😔I just couldn't control my emotions 😢 buddy I feel so weird with them 🥲✌🏻
i'm really sorry. i hope whatever you're going through gets better. just remember you are amazing, intelligent, and loved way more than u think. luv ya
I felt you, man, teenagers have to suck together
Can relate at 13 got to much fake friends, drama, anxiety,and depression, insomnia but my parents think I'm just doing to for attention....guess they will never truly understand....
Relatable
I ca n. My parents are horrible to me
My life 😞
Honestly,in my life everything is fine,its just that my family don’t understand me and school is stressing me out.Parents scold us saying we lock ourselves in our rooms,they just don’t know we are suffering inside there because we are hiding our feelings and emotions because they’ll never understand
same:(
I’m 13 and can relate, parents say we don’t know what we’re on about, finally some people that understand me ❤️
Relatable
We "don't know what anxiety or depression really is" right? Or am I just projecting?
I can't tell only hide and avoid tears
im turning 13 rlly soon and have already been experiencing these kind of things. i hope when i hit my teen years it won't be so bad.
I'm 14 and my life has living hell. Very lil ppl don't understand and I feel not alone when I hear her music. 😊❤❤
Me too, it's hard, but my names Bella too!
Are u Kalebs ex
Same
That's dramatic
I remember that teen period in my life. It was very frustrating at times. You are trying to figure it out and at times things felt so extreme. Some were. Some weren’t, looking back. At times “teenagerdom” could be regular, regular, regular, good day, great day, then next moment “what the...” you’re in your head, and bam. I was hurt, angry, disappointed, with myself but also realizing that the adults around me didn’t know everything I felt they should have. Things happen that you may feel they don’t understand. They may surprise you. If not, please find a counselor, mentor, or teacher you can talk to. But be willing to listen too. I didn’t know to look for that. I was also afraid of sharing what was going on. Whether you’re normal or an anomaly, you won’t know you have common ground with others unless you speak up. I had to learn to step over my usual. Shoulders back, not slouched. Care about yourself. You have value outside of your friend group and your family. Some people have it rough. Use those situations to step up, not step down. Take track, or a sport, leave it on the court, or the gym. If you’re creative, write it, art it, sing it, math it, map it, clean it, cook it.... but don’t eat it all share it. Other people can’t accept you more than yourself. I wish that I would have known then that others my age were going through similar things. My Mom always said “Pick your friends wisely!” but when you’re young, sometimes you just pick who picks you. Know Dear person you don’t have to have all the answers. We are all figuring out at different levels. It may not feel good all the time, but there is a lesson and beauty in each ugly stage. You just got to stick around to the end to get to it. I pray that you will be given new perspective and that you will learn how to deal with these anxieties and frustrations in a healthy way, not a perfect way. Just perfect for you. Writing, art, and prayer got me through. I also had a few close friends that I could share some things with. A few, not a plethora. I was nice to everyone, but everyone is not your friend.
I love her, she's not like other singers, she sings the truth not the "can be's" but the "u already are"
Parents: oh you're 13, How would you know about depression? How would you know know about anxiety? How would you know about heartbreak? Gosh what are the schools teaching you?
I don't understand how an adult who clearly knows about what is going in the world today, would think that a child doesn't "understand" depression or anxiety, well guess what parents! we do! some of us have to deal with fear and maybe even guilt of the past. overthinking is very common for any age not just teens or "adults". But what I don't understand is that our parents are the ones we are supposed to go to with our fears. But how are we going to do that if all you want to say is "you're a kid, you're going to be fine. you're not depressed, stop it"
Mine started when i was 12. And i suffer from anxiety as well, and the fact that nobody knows what i’m saying (because of the odd way i talk in my own language) makes it even harder to express myself.
I once didn’t get a good result when i was 12 (about 70 something) and i got through a lot of thoughts, even as far as giving myself a “red pen mark” (which isn’t red pen) on the left arm. My parents thought i was influenced by someone, or perhaps i was overly pampered.
But seriously, new and old lives are so different, if they thought beating can help with anxiety, i have no idea anymore.
You need a this 🫂🫂 ur not alone
This is so relatable. All parents need to hear this song because it's like parents think that just because we are teenagers we are incapable of love or that we don't get heartbroken or depressed. We feel emotions just like they do so why do they not treat our emotions how they would like to treated when we or sad or moody. We are obviously sad for a reason that must mean a lot to us.
Now I know that someone posted a lyrics song 2 hrs after her vids posted WOOOOOOOOW I call that a Fan!!!!
Gamer_ _life hell yeah 🤙🏼
Lol
I hate that so many people assume things that turn out to be so wrong but it doesn’t teach them anything and they never say sorry. Also the fact that parents have to always be right gets me so mad and sometimes causes me to stress out so much.😔😔
Anyone else completely obsessed with this song because it is beautiful and extremely well-written?
ikr its so relatable
This reminds me of 2 things:
1:
Me- I wanna be an actress when I grow up!
Dad- you’d have to be very lucky!
Me- why?
Dad-well... lets just say you’re not “gifted” in that subject
Me crying my eyes out:
Dad- whats wrong?
Me- I feel like I’m not good enough
Dad- *continuing to not listen or care*
I know/think it’s already late to give you an advice, but I’m gonna tell you something: first of all, don’t listen to him girl; second, if your dad doesn’t believe that you’re gonna be an actress, I DO believe in you! (and if you become an actress, I wanna see your movies or tv shows or whatever🤠) and third one, YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE GOOD ENOUGH!
At least you have the balls to share your dream job with your parents. I can’t tell my parents anything
Yea I rlly wanted to be an actress but my mom told me it was unlikely so now I don’t want to or try to because my mom discouraged me
What’s the second thing
@@camrynbennett1447 the one that says “me crying my eyes out:”
Her voice is smooth and so calm. Teenagers like myself can relate so much to this song
This song really speaks to me, I have battled neglect from my parents even at age 11. It really helps to know that Im not the only one who feels this way.
Turning 16 in 15 days... I relate to this more than I’ve related to anything before 💔
Yoo! So I'm 15 now, and ig your 19 now? So does it get better? Like how long does it last? Because I've been getting abused and treated like $hit for years by my dad. And I relate hard to this song. I made some bad decisions, because I wanted away from my dad. But the cops found me. And I know your probably thinking "Why didn't she just tell the cops and get help?" Well I did. That's where the "You ever think that you might be overreacting?" Part of the song hits hard. I was crying and begging the cops not to take me home. I told them that I was getting beat at home! I hade bruises and scars from it that I showed them... And they said "Your just a rebellious teen who wants to get out of trouble. Stop overreacting. You probably deserved it when he beat you." And then brought me home. I got beat for running away. So yeah, does it get better?
You know when u listen to a song and just sit and think, "i wish i wrote that", this song makes me feel that exact way 😳❤️
Yes.
I wish my parents would listen to this song and understand to what we’re going through.
Finally someone else understands what I’ve been feeling forever. Thank you so much! this song is the best thing to listen to when your upset and just need to calm down!
I am 17 and this speaks to me. This song is so relatable
Ur 19 now!!
Speed up 1.25x, it’s amazing.
THE PIANO THOOOOO!!!!!😍😍😍
Ty! 3)
Thanks! I have adhd and hated the slow music :)
Sharalena Bakken adhd is not an excuse for not liking slow music, it’s a personal preference.
hyper A I’m saying I hated it because I didn’t was waiting for the next beats and it annoyed me
this hits deep
*I didn’t believe depression until I was 10.I had no idea how bad it was.*
Same for me
Mine started when i was 3
I’m 11 and I have it. It sucks let me tell you people who didn’t have it!
@@Erm657 I have it but it's not that bad I'm 13 ......
@@madisonsylvia4542 Maybe for you, but thinking about suicide sucks. All depression are different. Also I didn't mean this to be rude if u find it to be 😅
I’m 12 years old, and I literally can relate to this. Especially the part when she says “High school’s been a terrifying one.” For me I just started middle school and it’s already really hard. So I bet if I’m in grade 7 or 8 I’ll probably soooo depressed and stressed. And the homework they give are just too much.
Me too but "high school has been a terryfying one" just change that to "school" cause it stresses me out to much homework...
I do agree they give way to much homework in middle school. I know it sucks but you’ll get through it just like I did. I would say it gets easier but that would be a lie. As we grow up we simply become a little better at coping. The best advice I can tell you is to find what makes you happy and something you enjoy. Finding what you enjoy can help make the day seem happier and less daunting. It’s okay to take breaks sometimes to recharge before doing work. All in all I hope this helps at least a little and I hope it gets better for you.
Oh boy.. being a 7th grader, told my teacher that they’re giving us too much homework and it gave me a lot of stress, my teacher was like “you’re too young to be stressed out, wait till you go to 9th or 10th grade, it’ll be even worse.”
My parents were like “you’re too young to be depressed!”
Like come on, I’m not from where they were from before! I’m from a new generation!
Finally someone who writes a song that actually can relate to my everyday life I love it and your such an amazing singer keep doing what your doing🥴🖤😉
Danielle Kirrie this isn’t her singing, it’s Tate’s, but yeah her singing is really great
I can relate at 11. Love this sing listened to it 5 times
Does anyone else feel like giving up because of parents and school?
yup
Yes....
I wish I could go to school I'm supposed to be doing hs and instead I'm being homeschooled
I know this was 2 years ago. But I hope you pushed through and parents understand they just don't want you to go through the same hurt they did at your age. Being a teen is one of the hardest things you'll go through until you have your own.
School
"They Say Were Crazy And Useless, Making Stupid Excuses" And "Oh We Know More Than What We Tell You But Can’t Always Put Into Words"
Why Is That My Life In Three Or Four Lines? :I
I know people can relate, and I totally understand that. But lots of people forget how much our parents do for us. They make sure we have a roof over our head, clean clothes on our back, and food on the table. They make sure that we are at our best even when they're at there worst. If your parents are ignoring you like this, they most likely have a *ton* on their plate. God bless parents, they bring light to darkness, sun to shade, and leaves to trees. Mom and Dad, I love you to death and more.
"they say we're crazy and usless" Yep, that's my entier life in 6 words. (I can't spell and I'm lazy lol)
Same :((((
oh no I'm so sorry
Damn.💔😓11 and felt all of this before and still do but my parents think I haven’t went trough depression when I already did and still am🤧😞
Not alone, it kinda has taken over my life and like I don't know anymore.
Your not alone. I'm 11 too and my life is shit
Wow, I'm so sorry, and I know multiple people have already said, but you aren't alone, also, I'm unofficially adopting you. I need to know your fave food, color and song. Then, you need to listen to said song on repeat while looking at your fave food... but it's your fave color. lol, I'm here for you, no matter what, I know I'm just some rando on the internet, but I hope this helps brighten your day because you are valid and a beautiful person. *virtual hug*
I'm 9 turning 10 in 4 days and I relate lol
Ash LaLiberte I wanna be unofficially adopted!!! Lol
I accidentally pressed on this..... I'm glad I listen instead of left it :)
parents need to think before THEY speak. before you say anything to them just think about how they’re going to feel, that’s the thing with parents they say think before you speak but they don’t think before THEY speak. if you’re depressed they say you don’t know what depression is or you just want attention, they just don’t understand..
Yeah, I few months ago my dad got angry at me because of some schoolwork I failed to do (it was during lockdown and I was doing online school) and he called me a disappointment, he apologised later on and acted like nothing happened and didn’t give a crap, but it affected so much and even now I tell myself that I just disappoint everyone and no one likes me
Nothing hurts more than seeing children with their parents and they ask you where is you dad or mom and you have to say I don't have them
.
When I reality they left you at 3 years old on the street
*I'M SCARED OF DEATH BUT I'M TIRED TO LIVED IN THIS WORLD*
Yea m too
How r u now?
That's deep. But true tho 😭👏
I get it. You're strong, you will get through it. Look up to God
Same😭
This is literally the only lyrics video for this song. Love it and also tysm!
the original video by tate has also the songs lyrics
my parents think the only reason i'm sad all the time is because i'm 'not getting enough sleep' but really it goes a lot deeper than that.
Same.I suffer from burn out too and when I try to make my parents understand that I have a mental (I think mental but i'm not surr,I'm not a doctor in general)illness saying:"Mum/Dad,every morning that I wake up I feel like I didn't get any sleep,I'm so tired...i can't feel like I'm moving and controlling my body"They just say:"it's because you watch too much your phone"or"it's because you sleep too late".Why does everything is the phone fault?Why can't they take the hint?
I know its sad
Why, just why is it always the kid/teens fault? I really, really want to know. And no i am NOT too young to understand the meaning of ‘stressed out’ or ‘depressed’ its not always a part of being a teen, or becoming one. Sometimes...we really are. I understand you try, but maybe not always hard enough. You may never understand, and thats ok, but at least dont always blame us. It isnt always my fault my mind wont stop reminding me of memories or things people have said, that make me hurt, break down, and cry. Or when im locked in my room. You know why i am? No you dont. You may think you do..but you dont. Have you ever thought maybe a kid/teen really could be hurting? No, apparently not its just always because “you’re always on your phone too much.” Maybe, my phone (music specifically) is my escape from things..from reality, and whats going on. Ever think i wonder what would happen if i kill myself? Ever think i sometimes want to? No. You are too oblivious to notice, or even care.
Parents...
You really, really miss out on a lot. Sometimes pick up on the little things, that lead to something larger. Not just assuming right away. That makes me so frustrated. Especially when they blame it on something that actually may help me. My goodness, parents. You really dont understand.
Just to make it clear: anyone struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, and suicidal things...
it will get better. I promise you with my entire life it does. Life is a roller coaster, with ups and downs, but you always will make your way back up.
I hear u!! ✨✨✨
I appreciate this and I 100% agree! Majority of parents don’t give two shits I swear. As they say every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child. I’ve dealt with my parents not understanding as well. I’ve honestly been depressed since I was about six or somewhere around there. I was always kinda neglected and my so called friends never wanted to hang out with me or do anything I wanted to do. I’ve had so many times that have felt like a blur that my mind has made me forget. And it always frustrates me when people say “just talk to someone” cause like I have and when I do it never works out. The time they really started taking my issues seriously resulted in me talking about and them never mentioning it again and never helping me. They think that one little brief of what goes on in my mind is gonna solve my depression. No maybe it would help with sadness because that’s temporary but depression is different. I realized I wrote a whole rant… sorry about that lol.
OMG she's so good. These song's touch my heart. The songs make me remember when my Great-Grandpa, would sometimes tuck me in, and sing a song to me. And, it made me fall asleep. Music is power!!!!
I am crying right now I can relate so much and I am 13
The youth in 2020 are gonna be the best parents they will understand what everything is ik parents rn say they know but they don’t
Dead mum and dad,
I’m sorry I’m a failure
Im sorry I let you down
I’m sorry I’m not the kid u wanted
I wish I could’ve done more
I wish I could be happy with you
I wish we never argued
I wish we got along
I wish I wasn’t useless
I wish I wasn’t hurting the way I am
I wish I was normal...
I love u mum and dad
And I’m sorry but I love u both even if I am a failure 🥰
Are ur parents alive? I'm sorry but your "dead" should be "dear", yes...?
I feel so oo oo bad
Love you stay strong
Omfg this is gonna make me cry- dammit 😔
@@vixrr5860 the song ?..
"Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child "...
I turned 17 last month & I can relate to this song since I was 12 years old, someone finally made the perfect song to say everything that I can't. Thank you ♥
I'm so broken and this song is me but I'm fourteen and really needed this
I love this song, whenever I am really feeling down, it just makes me feel like there is someone there for me.
They think we have it so easy because our jobs are school and chores, but then you get deeper. You realize friends you’ve had for years hate you and they’ve been using you or you discover sexuality or you can’t describe this feeling or explain why you cry every time you leave a room. You can’t explain the anxiety you feel, and you hate being controlled by everyone when you’ve done nothing wrong. Sometimes you feel numb, sometimes you’re exhausted for no reason, and sometimes you feel like crying and locking yourself away. We’re not all stupid, we’re just scared and trying to discover ourselves. You’d understand if you remembered what it was like and how painful and scary it is to try to figure out who you are, keep up with school, and whatever else is going on in your life. You might think we’re stupid but really we’re just hurt and think you won’t care or just call us dumb.
i can see the emotions in this song
Anyone have friends that don't want them.
Parents that don't understand them.
People who say that because you are young you can't be sad.
because I am here for anyone who has gone through the same.❤
"Were not crazy Romantics but we still know what a heart is."
I’m reading through the comments and I just started crying because no one should have to feel like this (numb)😅😫
Men... This is very relatable. I can understand this even though im only 11
Kim_ Yeolie same (im 12 but still)
Am younger and am crying
Im 10
I just turned 16 🤗
Now this song perfectly describes me...
Yoo! So I'm 15 now, and ig your 17 now? So does it get better? Like how long does it last? Because I've been getting abused and treated like $hit for years by my dad. And I relate hard to this song. I made some bad decisions, because I wanted away from my dad. But the cops found me. And I know your probably thinking "Why didn't she just tell the cops and get help?" Well I did. That's where the "You ever think that you might be overreacting?" Part of the song hits hard. I was crying and begging the cops not to take me home. I told them that I was getting beat at home! I hade bruises and scars from it that I showed them... And they said "Your just a rebellious teen who wants to get out of trouble. Stop overreacting. You probably deserved it when he beat you." And then brought me home. I got beat for running away. So yeah, does it get better?
Hmmm sounds familiar...
Me: Mom I want to learn korean and become trilingual!
Mom : No
Me: why?
Mom: because it’s too expensive!
Me : then I can teach myself
Mom *laughs* Like you could ever do that! Your too young to learn something like that. You need to work and get good grades in school. Get a job , find a home and move out!
Me:....
My mind: just you try and stop me.
Same! I really wanna learn computer science but my parents... 😞😭
@@cici_kpop_dance You can watch lessons on computer science now thanks to youtube :)
@@user-hx6ti6tq4r Yes but it's not that professional when it's on yt and my parents don't let me on CZcams a lot :( And I need a good computer first ;-;
Yes stay strong
She's right in a sense you should be working on your grades and graduating. Y'all don't understand that your parents through the same stuff as you if not worse, they know what there talking about!
I can relate to mostly everything except the age and school 12 and middle instead of 16 and high school but yea I can relate to it thx for the lyrics it’s beautiful
Same but I'm 13
Literally same
@@kayleebedell5482same brook, but can still relate, but dont tell ur age online.
Ashna Saluja what is wrong to tell our age in Internet? The fuck with you
same but i am one year younger
15 and i can relate it a lot 💔❤️
i can literally relate so much its hard...
This song is sooooo relatable
Relating to this song is one of the most hardest things. I go through fake friends every day. I have anxiety and depression and my parents just think I'm acting. It's hard being bullied and being misunderstood by everyone around you
Can u please put this on spotify😭❤️
Megan M it’s on an app called musi
I hope parents are listening to this 💔
Me: Mum...I’m feeling pretty depressed lately...
Mum: Ugh, ur such a dramatic teen!! Stop making stupid excuses for love!
Me: ...
Mum: WHY AREN’T U ANSWERING ME?!
Me: I-I-I...
Mum: ARE U TALKING BACK TO ME?! GO TO UR ROOM!!
Dino Buccolier #B͟L͟M͟ this is like the #1 interaction with my parents 😢
I’ve felt this my mom always says why aren’t you talking and I can’t answer
This happens to me so much-
I finally get the courage and confidence I need to tell my parents about something want open up to them about and I say it and they think I'm overreacting or just want attention then they end up yelling at me then I get lost for words then they end up yelling at me more and it just-
Turns into a mess..lol don't worry your not alone
This is my parents.. I-
i was already crying when i heard the song and cried even more when i read the comments
Same
Im only 11 years old and every word of this song makes a tear slide down of me face😢 . I wish I could tell this to my parents but telling them how I really feel is the hardest thing in the world for me
Many people say they relate because they're depressed, but I don't think you have to be depressed to relate to this song. I had a stage where I was always depressed and it was horrible and lonely and I did that to myself. I mean I understand that there are things that bring us down and there are always going to be things that we're never going to like, but I had to learn that I had control over how I felt and I wasn't going to let the things I can't control, control me. It's all about your mindset.
When I was two I was put into foster care, and because of that I always thought that no one could ever love me because the people who gave birth to me and shared my DNA couldn't. I was adopted when I was 7 and continued visits with my birth parent until I was 9 until something happened and the judge said it was illegal for my birth father to see me. I now have amazing parents that a lot of the time I don't agree with and at most times, I feel, don't understand me. Then I have to realize that they're only human and they make mistakes just like I do.
I can relate to this because my parents say that I don’t have depression and that mental health isn’t a thing at 12 but my cousin died and they don’t understand now hard that has been
I feel this song soo much!! It’s like we don’t have a voice on how we can feel! I feel exactly like this
“We’re not crazy romantics but we still know what a heart is” 💔
2.5m whattttt!!!!
2.6
Cause it's tate mcrae🎵🎹
it's 2.8m now 🤭congrats 💜💜
2.9m! :D
Almost 3m niw
I've listened to this so many times
The words that hurts the most as a single child is... "If I had 2 children, I would love the other one more."
Did someone actually say that to you? or did someone tell you that they said that to them or what? Because to be honest I've never heard anything more insane. just wow
@@petamaster-gv4vn yes, my dad said that to me when I was younger, I can't un-forget it till now.
This my most favorite song that she wrote💜💜💜💜
Omg this song is so meaningful... I'm listening to this musical music over and over again 😭
" shes probably just gonna start her period soon. "
"It's just a phase"
Oh yeah I’m 12 that’s what my mum says and I’m like oh maybe someone else happened but I can’t tell her cause I need to be perfect
@@hellobye4054 try your best but maybe not sometimes you dont need to be perfect because nobody is perfect you should be proud of who you are thats all i can say right now
"You're being over dramatic."
"You're such a drama queen."
"You just want attention."
Even tho my parents don't say this often I know this is what they are thinking with the look they have on their faces.
"and know that when its cracked it rlly burns" hit hard
You dont need to be perfect, you're perfect for me♡ Being you is more important! I know you care what people say but forget them. Love look at yourself- you're beautiful, amazing, funny, kind and perfect just the way you are
I’m 11 and I can relate to much.
Julia Wood same
Same I can relate sooo much even tho I am 11
dude you think you got it bad rn just wait your only 11
@Nevaeh Rodriguez that's the problem with society today. You're want she wrote this song about. At any age you can have depression or anxiety.
I'm glad I have a mum who understands my pain, my dad died when I was 10 and my mum has never said I was overreacting or being dramatic, because since then i have had mental breakdowns on and off. This song just really hits hard and I love listening to it.
That's so relatable I'm literally crying
I can litterly relate at the age of 8 l have so many problems
Omg ty I was looking for this EVERYWHERE
How can adults have lived through all these emotions, forget, say "I was a teenager before, remember," then criticise us for having hearts and emotions? Yes, I do remember, but do you?
The fact that teens are trying to figure out emotions and such and figure out their place and wants to ask parents for advise but can’t get any. Or the fact that you do show emotion like anger, they fucking tell you have an attitude, not all parents are like that but a lot of em are
I feel like that too it’s just not fun, I feel like I can’t be myself around them, and they try to force me to say why I Cry, but they don’t listen, I literally ran away from home one time because of the mental stress, but all they think about is how I was physically hurt, not how I was mentally affected. I will cry at the smallest things too when they y talk to me because of bad memories. But they think I’m just faking It for attention
Never related to a song so much. I wish I could show my parents this video but i don’t know how to.
Jessica Mitchell just talk to them it might be hard but just give it a chance and if they don’t care say what you feel its hard but you have to try
Here's my advice, mind you, it will take guts.
So, it's 3 AM at your house/apartment/other living space. You slowly wake up, get down from your bed and hook up your phone to your very powerful speaker. Then, at full volume, blast this song. (make sure your door is locked and blocked off by heavy shit like your dresser, a chair, a shelf... etc.) Then, once your parents stop screaming at you to turn off the music, hopefully they will actually listen to the lyrics and possibly have a civil conversation with you without being asshats.
I relate. Life is tough especially when no one understands you. This song is my feelings in lyrics.
I always thought "When I become a teenager, I can do real fun stuff and I'll be free". Now that I'm 14, I sometimes wish I could go back. Where there was no bullies, no anxiety, no stress, no fake people. Back to a time when I was actually happy....
same
I know it’s been 2 years..but I’ll always come back to this song and cry to it.
13, and can relate
this hits too hard. thank you for making this song im a new fan of your music
This song really touched my heart
..image a 9 year old having to deal with a divorce...it’s so painful to take in..all the screaming and fighting, I just can’t take it anymore!
What even worst for me is that I just found out that my ‘best-friend’ is a fake one...I also heard my ‘other true friend’ talk trash about me and how she’s faking being my friend...
I can relate to this song a lot..
it helps me cope with all the sadness and pain left...❤️
After 2 hours of the song being posted someone does this ur amazing for doing the lyrics so ealt
Literally my parents. They think that I need counseling when really I just want to be left alone....
I really wish this was on Apple Music..😢
middle school's been a hell of a ride for me. i've been through so many ruff patches- whether it's fake friends, no friends, drama, anxiety, sadness, too much work, and parents that sometimes that don't know about your pain. it's all been such heavy weight on my shoulders and there has been many times where i have sat on my bathroom floor for hours bawling my eyes out praying for help. so to let you all know, i'm so sorry for whatever you're going through, and just know that you aren't alone. luv ya:)