looking forward to change after a lifetime of staying in my comfort zone

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  • looking forward to change after a lifetime of staying in my comfort zone
    I just wanted to share an update and how I’ve been working on not only accepting, but at times, even embracing great change in my life and letting go what I cannot control to make more room for blooming where I’m planted. This is a crucial mentality, I’ve found, for entering parenthood, finding new friendships, leaving unfulfilling relationships, and making any big or small decisions when it comes to life in general. I lived in fear for a very long time, and to this day I am tempted sometimes to let it control me, but I do a bit better each day and my life has become more full than ever before.
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Komentáře • 654

  • @TheCottageFairy
    @TheCottageFairy  Před 9 měsíci +298

    The squeaking you hear at the start is my dog aggressively playing with his chew toy 😂 sorry about that! Haha, he’s such a goof. Thank you for being here! I hope this video brings you some moments of comfort and joy. I have re-opened my Etsy shop again for a small batch of orders ❤ thank you all and warm hugs

    • @neva.2764
      @neva.2764 Před 9 měsíci +12

      The fae will be thrilled with their lovely house!! 😍
      Did you ever receive presents from the elementals? Things they leave in your house?
      (I have!) 😊
      I'm sure they pick up on your energy when you're in the forest! ❤
      Michael Singer has great content (books and podcast) on surrendering 😉😃
      Enjoy your pregnancy Paola! Having a baby growing inside you is a miracle ❤

    • @TheBellisGardenWitchAvril2
      @TheBellisGardenWitchAvril2 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I like.

    • @esthersanchez2264
      @esthersanchez2264 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Dearest Paola, Its grand that you and your husband are expanding Ur family. The benefits of having children most likely outway the obstacles. We have been programed to value the comforts and material pleasures over what really make life worthwhile. Love, life, laughter, learning are a few of the treasures and rewards that raising children offer U. Much love to all Ur family. 😁💜🪄👛🌈 👨‍👩‍👦

    • @Karen-ve6ds
      @Karen-ve6ds Před 9 měsíci +4

      I love everyone’s comments about you becoming parents. I agree. Yes it’s hard work, your whole life will shift and when it does you just roll with it and you wouldn’t want it any other way. ❤

    • @AngelaDeBartolo
      @AngelaDeBartolo Před 9 měsíci

      Lol my dog does the same! He loves his squeaky

  • @mdmcgee
    @mdmcgee Před 9 měsíci +968

    I have two very small children 20 months apart (intense) and I have never once looked back on my life before kids with longing. This life with them is far and away better than my life ever was without them. My only regret is putting it off for as long as I did. Everything you "lose" is temporary. People tend to conflate the first few years of parenting (the intense years) with all of parenting. Eventually kids sleep, develop their own interests, want their own space, and you have time again for everything you did before kids. More often than not, you have buddies now who want to join you in your interests. It's so fun and I wish our society had a more positive attitude about family and children.

    • @micheledau1294
      @micheledau1294 Před 9 měsíci +72

      Well put! As an older lady and mother of three adults now, I confirm everything you said:)

    • @Renee.101
      @Renee.101 Před 9 měsíci +54

      Thank you for your valuable comment. As a 29-year-old female without children yet, it’s incredibly unmotivating and difficult to navigate all the negatives the society has around children.

    • @suegentry2913
      @suegentry2913 Před 9 měsíci +45

      Agreed in every way. I had two children and now am a grandmother of one. I can't think of any other path that has been as rewarding, beautiful, challenging and full of love and satisfaction. 😍

    • @CrisOnTheInternet
      @CrisOnTheInternet Před 9 měsíci +17

      My sister and I are 23 months apart , I had a pal growing up, we shared clothes and toys. I hope your children enjoy that companionship for life as we do ❤.

    • @andreaschmall5560
      @andreaschmall5560 Před 9 měsíci +19

      How has society looked negatively upon family and children? The world of people is screwing up many things but I don't see that society has as a whole has frowned upon family
      and motherhood.

  • @deskgamesix
    @deskgamesix Před 9 měsíci +294

    I'm a dad with two sons who are now 24 and 28 years old. Looking back now I realize the very best days of my life were spent helping my wife raise these guys. The years just melted away and suddenly my boys were men and living on their own. My wife and I come home to a quiet house filled with the happiest memories imaginable yet it makes me sad. Someday I'll get around to fixing the dent in the front door my youngest put there when he hit a foul ball. Someday I'll throw away the goofy trophy sitting on my desk that my oldest son made for me when I won our family's fantasy football league. What I wouldn't give for them to be little again. I pray that you and your husband will embrace the coming years because you guys are in for an awesome ride.

    • @gailann7813
      @gailann7813 Před 9 měsíci +9

      So very true!

    • @donnawatson845
      @donnawatson845 Před 9 měsíci +7

      So true. My mom used to say " I'd give anything for you guys to be little and living at home again ". Now I get it. My kids are on their own and doing well. But man i.miss them at home❤

    • @N-A-uw5fp
      @N-A-uw5fp Před 9 měsíci +3

      That is the sweetest comment! 💗 I adopted 2 baby girls at 43. They’re 10 weeks apart. My girls are now 15. It’s been an amazing and bumpy journey, but there is no greater love and it’s so important to allow their natural wisdom to stretch and grow us too! They really appreciate it and learn from us working on ourselves as well. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧

    • @nsbunnell
      @nsbunnell Před 9 měsíci

      😭

    • @mrsupchurch2987
      @mrsupchurch2987 Před 9 měsíci +1

      So so true. Beautifully said.

  • @Brittreads
    @Brittreads Před 9 měsíci +267

    People are so quick to tell you “just you wait you’ll never sleep again, you’ll never have alone time” well as a mom I’m here to tell you….just you wait until you hear their cry for the first time, just you wait until those snuggles make you want to burst tears of joy. You know what tired is, I’m sure you have been tired before! What you don’t know, and you will soon know, is how beautiful and truly magical it is to be a momma. Just you wait, your gonna know a different kind of love you never knew existed, and it’s wonderful ❤️

    • @mandyboltz9403
      @mandyboltz9403 Před 9 měsíci +20

      This is so true! My husband and I heard the same things before our daughter was born. The world now has color, I don’t know how else to describe it.

    • @rebekahcunningham7007
      @rebekahcunningham7007 Před 9 měsíci +8

      Beautifully said ❤

    • @AGL01772
      @AGL01772 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Agree, and also just wait until they grow up and start their own lives, all because of what you did as a parent to set them up for a good life. All worth it!

    • @StarshineInTHEnorth
      @StarshineInTHEnorth Před 9 měsíci +6

      So wonderful✨🪶

    • @minimalmomgreece
      @minimalmomgreece Před 9 měsíci +5

      I have to add that you will sleep again for sure, you will have your alone time. Just not the first period of time.

  • @stephanieodom8813
    @stephanieodom8813 Před 9 měsíci +146

    Becoming a mother is the greatest gift! I never miss the days before we had our daughter. We can’t imagine our life without her now!

  • @karicastanza5216
    @karicastanza5216 Před 9 měsíci +61

    I'm 50 and am a cat mom only, but your childlike soul will definitely be a serious asset to you in your new journey in life. I was blessed with a mom who had the same soul. You are going to be a great mom!

  • @Maria-fd7re
    @Maria-fd7re Před 9 měsíci +97

    Your child is gonna be blessed to have you, not only as a mother but as an educator! With your imagination, playfulness and beauty, you will guide her/him to discover the magic and wonder in the world! Through out this process, you will heal and reinvent your childhood. Bendiciones a toda la familia en su nueva era que han comenzado!❤

  • @ashleybergstrom8934
    @ashleybergstrom8934 Před 9 měsíci +182

    Omgosh, having my two sons and five grandchildren enhanced my existence so much. Lost nothing, gained the world. So much so, wish I could go back and do it all over again!

    • @nafiseh212
      @nafiseh212 Před 9 měsíci +3

      How interesting..God bless them

  • @courtneyawalsh
    @courtneyawalsh Před 9 měsíci +167

    Your mini films truly are better than anything to come out of Hollywood in the last decade. I love them. Thank you for your love offerings to us. I, for one, deeply enjoy and feel inspired by them. 🙏🏼😘

  • @cynthiagawin2991
    @cynthiagawin2991 Před 9 měsíci +10

    I had seven children. One boy and six girls. I gave up my career as an RN to stay home and raise them. We also homeschooled the children. I loved my home career! No regrets! Now they are grown and doing well. I just became a great grandmother. I have 27 grandchildren . Blessings galore!

  • @wendyjo9267
    @wendyjo9267 Před 9 měsíci +35

    Having children is the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. It’s like an extension of your heart on legs ❤

  • @SharonG-ip3ll
    @SharonG-ip3ll Před 9 měsíci +17

    Your child is so lucky to have such a whimsical and creative mother. You and Luke are going to be wonderful parents.

  • @bethyoung4030
    @bethyoung4030 Před 9 měsíci +34

    Best thing I ever did was open my heart to the gift of adoption as I was unable to have babies. The snuggles, the look of love on their faces when they see you, providing for another...all priceless!! Love my boys💕💕

    • @happinesss2
      @happinesss2 Před 9 měsíci

      Amazing!! Thanks for sharing. I’m so happy for you and your family 😊

  • @Alicia-fy3je
    @Alicia-fy3je Před 9 měsíci +118

    I was 27 when I had my first child, and 30 when I had my second. My girls are 13 and my oldest will be 16 on Sunday. I never really thought about 'losing' anything when I had the girls. I didn't feel as if I missed out on anything. While parenthood can be difficult (I can't believed I survived through having a newborn and a toddler at the same time), I can honestly say, my most happiest moments in my life have been with my daughters. I am so excited for you and again, congratulations to both you and your husband, and we are wishing you a happy, healthy pregnancy

    • @n1313_
      @n1313_ Před 9 měsíci +2

      Happy birthday to your eldest daughter ❤❤

  • @kathif8598
    @kathif8598 Před 9 měsíci +48

    What you will "lose" is nothing compared to what you will "gain" in becoming a parent! ❤ There will be days when you wonder how you survived without having a child to love you unconditionally. Your love has no limits! Thank you for sharing your life with us. I'm so glad you have received baby items from viewers. I wish we were closer; I have a lovely crib I would give you. Hope Luke recovers quickly. Love you, Paola! ❤❤❤❤

  • @janedoe09
    @janedoe09 Před 9 měsíci +96

    At 70, being a single parent a week before I turned 43 I never thought I'd have a child...he's 27 now, has aspergers and continues to be the love and purpose/meaning in my life. I have two words that I hope will bring you and anyone who passes by some peace of mind if put into practice. Accept and Adapt. Much love, the days can seem eternal and the years fly by. Peace and Healing To You and Yours and To The World At Large 💜💜💜

    • @elizabethheyenga9277
      @elizabethheyenga9277 Před 9 měsíci +5

      Turning 70 in January, beautiful words. You said it perfectly - the hours hang heavy at times (heath limits my activity a lot) but the years do fly by.

    • @Jenny-mo8bu
      @Jenny-mo8bu Před 9 měsíci +9

      I love "accept and adapt!" Those are powerful words when we sometimes feel powerless.

    • @janedoe09
      @janedoe09 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@Jenny-mo8bu 💜💜💜 especially in todays world! Peace and Healing to you and yours :)

    • @janedoe09
      @janedoe09 Před 9 měsíci

      Yes, health issues for sure, I only have one kidney due to cancer. But what is worse for me is the isolation, most of my friends have moved away or gone another path and we not longer connect and my family, with the exception of my son are all gone. I thank God for the people I communicate with on line! Sending you My Best and Pre-Happy Birthday@@elizabethheyenga9277 💗💗

    • @Jenny-mo8bu
      @Jenny-mo8bu Před 9 měsíci

      And to you as well!@@janedoe09

  • @ElizabethPoet
    @ElizabethPoet Před 9 měsíci +20

    I never felt I lost anything being a parent. Only that I gained love. More importantly, the blessing of giving love each day.

  • @kristinjayne6720
    @kristinjayne6720 Před 9 měsíci +3

    My son had his first at 40. He had always said he wouldn’t have them. In the year after his precious sons birth he says to me “Mom, my heart has been burst open so wide. I didn’t know…but now I understand” I’m so proud to be this wonderful father’s mother.

  • @hilariecalijo4643
    @hilariecalijo4643 Před 9 měsíci +5

    The fall air is undescribable ,so fresh and relaxing❤. You never lose, only gain amazing experiences, joy and love. Things only become more amazing and beautiful, I promise. I’m at my 54th year and seeing new Beauty with my grandson…❤❤❤my sons birthday is today, November 10th. He’s my heart,mine is the 15th. Beautiful fall month 💕

  • @johndej
    @johndej Před 9 měsíci +52

    Wonderful video!! One thing I've learned over the years is that change happens no matter what we do. It's all about how we accept it. Have a wonderful week!!

  • @loristasko3237
    @loristasko3237 Před 9 měsíci +22

    Good for you.
    I can relate. 🙏
    Change is the only constant. Children are such a gift. The ultimate blessing.
    Be present. 🌸

  • @Jer.616
    @Jer.616 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Having my little kids around were some of the best years of my life. Don't listen to the haters.

  • @rechellethackray
    @rechellethackray Před 9 měsíci +47

    Dearest Paola, I am sending you a big hug. From one woman to another, I want to tell you how proud of you I am. How far you have come, how much stronger you are (even though you may not feel it at times) and how beautiful your world is because YOU CHOOSE to see it that way. Life is about the small things. They are so important because it means your in the present, your living for not just the future but for now. Your little fairy house is absolutely darling! The way you shot part of your video between those two trees framing you was beautiful. You see beauty in everything and that is such a precious gift, one in which your baby will learn from you...... how precious!! I cannot tell you how absolutely saddened my heart is to hear that those close to you are being anything other than joyful and excited about this next chapter of your life. Please believe me, as a mother of 3 incredibly precious children, that this little baby is such a blessing and will bring you joy like you have never known before. I don't quite know how to explain a heart that is filled with SUCH happiness and upmost, unconditional, bursting LOVE, but that's what is heading your way sweetheart. Your going to make the most AMAZING Mum. Let any negative words just bounce off you Paola as being a mum is the best experience you can have in life. I'm sending you so much love and chicken noodle soup for Luke. I hope he feels better really soon. Stay healthy, rested and above all, your gorgeous self. Xo

  • @dianesavant2818
    @dianesavant2818 Před 9 měsíci +19

    I have two daughters 22 months apart. I lost nothing and gained more than I ever imagined❤

  • @sylviatorres7043
    @sylviatorres7043 Před 9 měsíci +36

    Although becoming a mother will not always be easy in the years to come, it will be the most rewarding choice you've ever made! The love you will feel for your child and the love and joy they will fill you with will be profound. My son is in his late twenties now and although he is going through some tough times, my love for him continues to grow and I will always be there for him during the highs and lows of life. It is a life long commitment but in my opinion, the most important one in life.

  • @nickynisbet6247
    @nickynisbet6247 Před 9 měsíci +7

    That was lovely. Much love and best wishes from Scotland. I loved being pregnant. Parenthood can be difficult, challenging and exhausting at times. However on balance it's an incredible, life enriching experience. I am so grateful to have been able to fall 🍁 pregnant at age 39 🙏🐀🍁

  • @debrahemerson7238
    @debrahemerson7238 Před 9 měsíci +9

    You are going to become a wonderful Mother . . . I would want you as a mom myself! And look at what you will be able to teach your child - all the magical books you have and your imagination and art work! Best of this season, and much love!

  • @janetclaireSays
    @janetclaireSays Před 9 měsíci +8

    My 3 children were spaced out. I had my first son when I was 24, my daughter when I was 30, and my youngest son when I was 44! Each experience was different. Needless to say I've been raising children most of my adult life! 💕 I now also have a 4-year-old granddaughter who also has a fairy house!

  • @shadowivy
    @shadowivy Před 9 měsíci +1

    Children are Gods greatest blessing. There is so much more to be gained by them . I could personally not imagine how I ever lived without them.

  • @LLopez-sx1jr
    @LLopez-sx1jr Před 9 měsíci +60

    Sometimes parenthood can be difficult, but oh my goodness does the food outweigh the difficult. I learned with my first to always look for the silver lining. Each season has it's difficult parts whether it be lack of sleep, illness, them getting into everything (like cheerios over the whole house, herbs and spices spilled for the hundredth time, etc), but each season ALSO has its own silver lining. Sometimes it's their sweet smiles, their little coos, when they learn to give kisses and hugs, giggles, caresses, each unique in their own special way for that season. Breath those in as deeply as you can because you'll miss those silver linings in other seasons. I can already tell that you are a wonderful mother, Paola. What a blessed little baby you're growing in your womb. Love from California.

  • @traceybulloch3401
    @traceybulloch3401 Před 9 měsíci +18

    Motherhood truly is the greatest gift. As a mum of 3 my advice to you is to embrace it.❤

  • @alisongregson4740
    @alisongregson4740 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I will add my 2 cents. I did not want children initially but have 2 sons who are now 26 and 22. They have made me a better person, taught me more than I ever imagined possible, and filled my heart with so much love. There were challenges but no regrets. I don't like change either but the sense of purpose that my boys gave me made all of that adaptability required manageable. I wish you joy with your family.

  • @MargotBrown
    @MargotBrown Před 9 měsíci +1

    I have a 2/4/6 and newborn due in January. I cannot imagine one day without them in my life. God blessed me beyond, all good changes!!

  • @annathompson3034
    @annathompson3034 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Thank you for inspiring me. This video is timely for me, as I still fear change most of the time, but as a result, I often feel unfulfilled. I want to create change in my life, and “one day at a time” is such a comforting reminder.

  • @angelahagood3639
    @angelahagood3639 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Isn’t it wonderful to start receiving little baby gifts? That nesting instinct was very strong in me with both of my babies. How sweet a time! Hope health returns quickly to hubby. Thank you for the beautiful nature footage! Kitty in the cupboard is too cute! I love digging potatoes! It’s like a food treasure hunt!

  • @jesseownes3056
    @jesseownes3056 Před 8 měsíci +1

    As a mother to four boys, (27, 20, and 14 year old twins), I can assure you, you will not loose but gain a lifetime of things you will NEVER regret!! Motherhood is by far the greatest gift I was ever given!! You, my dear, are going to be an amazing mother and your little one will rise up and call you blessed!!🥰

  • @terrijohnson9266
    @terrijohnson9266 Před 9 měsíci +6

    I don’t really understand why people are so quick to say things that are negative, so I’ll say this: you’ll be amazed at how much you can love another person when you become a parent. Such a gift! Enjoy the journey!!

  • @brandyjean7015
    @brandyjean7015 Před 9 měsíci +17

    As you embrace treasuring every moment... I have faith you will discover the joy in Motherhood as well.

  • @kippdeefamily5875
    @kippdeefamily5875 Před 9 měsíci +23

    I have an almost 2 year old. She has enhanced my life so intensely. I still do all the things I love...hiking, camping, paddleboarding, gardening...I just do them with my little one. She loves joining in and it's absolutely wonderful to see the joy and excitment in her face!

    • @jordanphillips8007
      @jordanphillips8007 Před 9 měsíci +4

      That sounds like my two year old daughter! It’s so much more fun doing that stuff with her, especially when she picks a pocohontas dress to wear while doing them

    • @FlwrCats76
      @FlwrCats76 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Was the no sleep hard? I can barely function when I have 5-6 hours sleep (frazzled, stressed, cry more, emotional, triggers migraine). The most scared I am is how parents are up all night but then have to commute in traffic that morning at 7am and work all day, how do you do it when you're so tired? I would literally crash my car. I'm scared but want children.

    • @kippdeefamily5875
      @kippdeefamily5875 Před 9 měsíci

      @@jordanphillips8007 they really do make it even more fun!

    • @kippdeefamily5875
      @kippdeefamily5875 Před 9 měsíci

      @@FlwrCats76 I was also worried about the lack of sleep, but you just get on with it for the sake of your baby. Accept help or ask for it. It's not easy, but the no sleep is short-term.
      I don't know where you are from, but I'm from the UK, so we get good maternity leave. Time to focus on your new baby, caring for them and yourself as you navigate parenthood.

    • @jordanphillips8007
      @jordanphillips8007 Před 9 měsíci

      @@FlwrCats76so two things, they do eventually sleep again even though it doesn’t seem like they ever ever will and with my second I didn’t find the nights as hard because I had proof that they’re not forever since my first sleeps a solid 12 every night. You kind of get used to being tired in general but that sleep deprivation feeling that makes you feel sick does go away!

  • @mikdunks
    @mikdunks Před 9 měsíci +1

    My first comment here, but I’ve been watching for about a year. You are going to be a truly amazing mother. I thought I wouldn’t marry until 30 or later, thought I would travel the world…married at 19, babies at 21 and 23…26 now….so.much.joy. Being home with them, cooking, cleaning, baking, spending time outdoors, it’s a beautiful, beautiful dream. Every season has its trials, but it’s by those trials that we continue to grow into the best version of ourselves. Having family close by to pour into me, teach me, and pour into the lives of my children has been the biggest blessing. I know you are a reader..Charlotte mason’s volumes are full of so much wisdom in parenting, homeschooling, and life in general. I wish I had discovered them before I had children, some of her principles have changed my whole world. Maybe you can check them out this cozy winter💛

  • @mastandstars5869
    @mastandstars5869 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Thank you for talk about lifestyle changes seeming impossible at the beginning and how it was helpful to focus on small consistent changes.
    I appreciate this video ❤ and you

  • @Kayprofessor
    @Kayprofessor Před 9 měsíci +2

    Hear me out. I lost a lot when I had my son. It has been devastating. I lost my career, I lost sleep and youth, I lost free will and many options. But I mean so much to my baby, and my baby means so much to me. Nobody loves me like my son does and I love no one like I love my son. I have so much love to give him that I was not given and so much to pass down in the legacy of my parents. There are so many things you can’t fully understand about the universe until you experience creating something with free will that you are responsible for. I needed to understand this part of life before I leave. My soul is older and wiser, more forgiving and softer towards others. I am closer to God because of this experience, and that is worth it.

  • @magengrooms5511
    @magengrooms5511 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I watched you about a year and half ago. I gotta say to you: there is a change. There is a happiness, twinkle in your eye now that was now there before. So wonderful to see. :)

  • @Pamcreatesjournals
    @Pamcreatesjournals Před 9 měsíci +5

    The very best change in life is adapting to be a parent. The most incredible time in your life is bringing a part of you and your husband to life. Cherish every single second because they are gone so quickly. Everyday is a chance to make the most positive, love filled memories for a lifetime. Congratulations you are about to know a love like no other. 💕

  • @captainpharaoh
    @captainpharaoh Před 9 měsíci +7

    Your life doesn't end. It simply changes. Whatever you may end up losing, you'll eventually not miss as your next chapter brings you rewards and experiences you could never have dreamed of...and would never trade for anything.

  • @roserosa8276
    @roserosa8276 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Loosing and gaining it comes with life childhood, teenage, youth, adult, etc. please do not forget each of these moments that makes who you are in your life and value them, so you can tell the before and after with all your love because you will share with your little ones. Your little ones will love so much to learn about you. 💗

  • @francescawollaston2227
    @francescawollaston2227 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Dear Paola, another lovely video…..thank you for starting my Saturday with love and all things pure and good ❤ I have two beautiful daughters, who are now 29 and 27. Best thing I have ever done in my life…I think the thing that I would say is - the change from a couple, to having a baby, is definitely sometimes challenging . The sleepless nights were the biggest change for us. I wasn’t prepared for the constancy of a little one and the 24 hour demands, but somehow you just cope. The best advice I was given, was make sure you get out every single day, otherwise it can feel a bit like Groundhog Day.
    Sending love and all things positive your way. My girls are the greatest joy in my life. And the love you have for your children is unrivalled! Xoxo Francesca ❤❤

  • @jenniferkessener1111
    @jenniferkessener1111 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Raising my boys was truely the happiest time of my life! You have such a beautiful love ofnature and art, it is even increased with the wonder and joy of seeing it all through a childs eyes. There are hard days, when phisically exhausted, but those pass, and the blessings are many.
    Love the little fairy house! My husband justbrought me rosehips today!😊

  • @clairecooper9931
    @clairecooper9931 Před 9 měsíci +2

    There’s nothing to lose when you have a precious gift on the way ❤ your little fairy house is beautiful. Hope Luke is feeling better. Have a wonderful week ❤

  • @susanmary4752
    @susanmary4752 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Moved to South Florida from New England (I absolutely hate the heat) to be close to our new grandchildren and wouldn't change things for the world. You're right in stating not to focus on the loss but the gain you obtain. ❤

  • @tracyjohnson3178
    @tracyjohnson3178 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I truly believe it all comes down to how people look at life, is it half full or half empty. Yes, having a child changes everything. The joy we have received from raising our son I cherish. Yes, sometimes there are challenges but it’s amazing with the love and modeling you give your child, they will take on and you start to really notice this when they are becoming an adult. I know your child will be so lucky in your loving home!

  • @Widdershins.
    @Widdershins. Před 9 měsíci +4

    I am glad you are getting what you wished for. Congratulations and all the best on impeding parenthood! I must say I was quite reassured in your last video that the focus of your channel is not going to change. So many of my favorite CZcamsrs started families and suddenly the who purpose of filming their lives and travels and adventures became solely about the new addition to the family. I understand that they are besotted with their child -- unlucky child indeed if they weren't -- but as far as their viewers were concerned, it was the equivalent of being invited over, only to be forced to watch home videos and look at albums of pictures and vacation snaps that have nothing to do with us or why we became friends in the first place. Updates are always welcome; being force fed family life by those who are not our actual family is less so. Thank you for realizing this and letting us know that we can still look forward to your usual lovely take on life in general, not parenthood in particular. Meanwhile, wishing you good health!

  • @carolyndalton7775
    @carolyndalton7775 Před 9 měsíci

    Being a mother Was amazing, but me being a grandmother is a blessing beyond measure.

  • @meganfrancois9474
    @meganfrancois9474 Před 9 měsíci +10

    You are going to gain so much sweet one! Your love and connection to childhood and the magic it contains is going to connect you to motherhood in a blessed way! You and your little one are going to have a beautiful journey full of adventure together!❤️

  • @susieaguayo5386
    @susieaguayo5386 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Paola, congratulations on the little bundle of joy you and Luke are expecting.
    So happy for you!
    I was unable to have children of my own but God has blessed me with 3 Wonderful step kids I call my own.
    Enjoy this new chapter for it too will be temporary. They grow up so fast.
    Blessings to you 3 during the holidays.
    🌻

  • @HappyGirl4666
    @HappyGirl4666 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I have been a mom for 26 years and I don’t even remember a life without my boy. He has added to my life in every way possible and I am so grateful for him. ❤

  • @ThingsAbove333
    @ThingsAbove333 Před 9 měsíci +4

    The fun thing to recognize about change is that since it's always happening...it's a constant too. So although the change it's self can be unique each time...change arriving can have the comfort of being expected, counted on and fixed. Change is the only thing that remains the same 😊

  • @user-iu5ob8uw6j
    @user-iu5ob8uw6j Před 9 měsíci +4

    Congratulations!! Being a parent is a rewarding life long experience! You will love being a mommy! ❤

  • @tkmxx763
    @tkmxx763 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Becoming a mom is life changing and truly a blessing! I have two boys and cannot picture life w out them 💙

  • @sheilavanduynfote5539
    @sheilavanduynfote5539 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Paola, change is inevitable but always in a good way. Having a child will definitely change your lives in a very positive way. I am 72 and had my daughter when I was 26 and my son when I was 33, I am so very blessed and now I have one granddaughter and 3 grandsons. I also want to thank you my Etsy order came yesterday, my granddaughter loves fairies and the 3 prints I ordered she will love. Springtime, Dandelion and the Fairy cottages. The bookmarks and the stickers will also put a smile on her face, the phrases on each card are so inspiring ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @marthafawzy
    @marthafawzy Před 9 měsíci +1

    I’m a mom of three beautiful boys. Let me tell you it’s not easy but it’s the best thing ever happened to me. I couldn’t understand how can someone love someone more than themselves but here we are ❤so grateful and thankful to be a mom

  • @danieleigh6468
    @danieleigh6468 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I have two girls two years apart and I would never go back to before I was a mom. The love you find w your kids is a love that u can’t explain. You can still have your life just work around your tiny humans. When they get older they can do things you enjoy w you. It’s truly a gift.

  • @henegar4
    @henegar4 Před 9 měsíci

    Love your videos. You almost seem otherworldly to me. You have a beautiful voice and you make me want to be like you so much. I will soon be 70 years old and I don't think you are ever too old to improve yourself. This is my hope. Prayers, love, and blessings to you, your husband, and the precious baby you are carrying. 😊💖💖🤟👣👣

  • @irenetovar7756
    @irenetovar7756 Před 9 měsíci +3

    What a wonderful experience you and your husband are in for. I had one son, now two granddaughters, and one great granddaughter. They are my life and love. God bless you all.
    I love your little fairy birdhouse, so adorbs.

  • @Shortstacksandticktacks
    @Shortstacksandticktacks Před 9 měsíci +2

    It's normal to miss certain aspects of your life before having a baby. Being a parent can be draining, scary, and exhausting. It can be extremely difficult to learn how to balance your child's ever changing needs with you own needs. You can acknowledge those unpleasant feelings, and still love your kid more than anything.

  • @catherinelaffargue4418
    @catherinelaffargue4418 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Dearest Paola. All that you do, all that you are, bring light and joy to the world.
    Thank you for that.
    As a new mom….never forget you are you, first, then a daughter, a wife and a mom.
    So it’s exactly like you said : it how you choose to see things that make life good. Motherhood is just like that!
    Enjoy your moment! Sending rubans of kindness and light to you and family.
    In kindness.

  • @ginnyburley9552
    @ginnyburley9552 Před 9 měsíci

    I often think about change in the way that trees change with the seasons. Some things are lost at the right time and are regained later. Marriage requires changes too, but gives so much to fill in the aspects lost. A child is a miracle and miracles bring amazing transformation. Things will go just as they should for you.

  • @Mishkamoreland
    @Mishkamoreland Před 9 měsíci +3

    Having my son was the best thing that ever happened to me. I thought I knew what love was, what happiness was, then I had my son ❤ children are the best blessing

  • @hamsterrad3885
    @hamsterrad3885 Před 9 měsíci

    I have 3 children age 29, 27 and 23.
    Greatest gift in my life.
    Enjoy it, time passes so fast.
    Greatings from Germany ❤

  • @Sthemingway
    @Sthemingway Před 9 měsíci +1

    Your opening remarks about approaching change from a place of "what can I gain" vs "what is gone" is very relevant.

  • @KawaiiAli
    @KawaiiAli Před 9 měsíci +3

    I just want to go on an adventure in the forest with you to find all the little treasures! Hoping Luke feels better!

  • @annmarie3520
    @annmarie3520 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I had my three girls very close in age and I loved it! I called them my 3 little ducks! Now they are all grown adults and they’re still my 3 ducks in my mind!😘❤🙏🏻✨

  • @donnawatson845
    @donnawatson845 Před 9 měsíci

    Life has a way of happening. You'll be ok. It's what makes the world go around. You will still be you. Only blessed even more!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 God has a plan

  • @arianahoule7223
    @arianahoule7223 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Oh, yes, advice from well-meaning friends and family. Before I had children, I had the best advice on how to raise them...then I had them...I knew nothing. You will be an amazing mother. You are wise beyond your years. Your heart knows what is best for you.
    Sending loving and peace-filled thoughts to everyone.

  • @NoeticEidetics
    @NoeticEidetics Před 9 měsíci

    Kids are just miraculous and wonderful. They will change your life in the best way. Congratulations!

  • @daisyfieldparrks9320
    @daisyfieldparrks9320 Před 9 měsíci +1

    It was nice to see your dad in the video. Tell him his internet family said hello (yes we've adopted him as our dad. smiles)!

  • @esterhudson5104
    @esterhudson5104 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Here in Poulsbo; we’ve had the most epic autumn I can remember. Spectacular year for color. Your neck neck of the woods is equally beautiful. Great video.. 😊 Many thanks for sharing.

  • @errollleggo447
    @errollleggo447 Před 9 měsíci

    Cool Autumn days are made for a hot cocoa a nice chair or sofa and a good book, and maybe a small nap. Books always put me to sleep.

  • @Thefunfamily_3582
    @Thefunfamily_3582 Před 9 měsíci +7

    You're going to be an exceptional mother to that baby. I sense that about you by the way you care for your animals. Congratulations again, Paola and Luke! Please continue to film new videos on your channel. We all enjoy the content here.

  • @EnglishCoach3Ts
    @EnglishCoach3Ts Před 9 měsíci

    I have a feeling you are going to find such wonderful and unique ways to enjoy the changes with your new little one. Having my children did in fact change my life forever. Yes, there were difficult times but I gained so much I have never had any regrets. Enjoy every moment with your new little one. It goes so fast (sometimes it doesn't feel like it). Much love and joy to you and your family.

  • @BarbyDailey-Rurallife40
    @BarbyDailey-Rurallife40 Před 9 měsíci +3

    You'll gain so much by adding to your family. And as a grandmother and great grandmother, I can say that your parents will have a new joy in life too- a love beyond words. Your fairy house is adorable- I wish I could find some rose hips but we don't seem to have any wild rose bushes around my home. Take care sweet Paola. 💖

  • @queenbee3647
    @queenbee3647 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Congratulations. You will be an awesome Mom. I have a daughter and I would rather spend time with her more than anyone else I know. Shes an intelligent, educated, kind, witty young woman. She is on the spectrum and her perspective on things always gets me thinking. Dont be afraid of spoiling your baby. Love them as hard as you can. Time gets away from you and theres no going back. 🌹

  • @ankewolf793
    @ankewolf793 Před 9 měsíci

    I learned to love change & the unknown. We are all boundless creatures, we re smart & creative and will find a way to see all the opportunities that come with change and and are in the unknown. Love ♥️♥️♥️

  • @wendywarswick5457
    @wendywarswick5457 Před 9 měsíci

    Taking change one day at a time is by no means simple, it's smart.

  • @Ponzuu28
    @Ponzuu28 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Congratulations and you’ve inspired me to do something crafty! I wish you all the health, wealth and happiness. Have a fantastic weekend.❤

  • @sylvain123
    @sylvain123 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I am thrilled for you Paola. I hope your husband recovers quickly. I wasn't blessed with children, I went through menopause in my 20's. May you have a healthy pregnancy. You live in a beautiful place for children. So much nature surrounds you. Inspiring for adults and children alike. You will be a wonderful mum 🦋🌻🌼🕯️🕊️😻

  • @biancas2639
    @biancas2639 Před 9 měsíci

    The gift of a child overrules what you might loose! That is a great experience to gain.

  • @sandrazboinski6473
    @sandrazboinski6473 Před 9 měsíci

    I hope your hubby feels better soon. I am not blessed with any living children but I have walked along side siblings and friends as they enter parenthood and all of the adventures. There is such a blessing and grace to this season and chaos and joy. Embrace it all. Be well

  • @vickiecorby8063
    @vickiecorby8063 Před 9 měsíci

    Your new blessing in your life will bring you such joy that you’ve never experienced in your life, Paola, Congratulations on your new blessing.

  • @chantalberube1246
    @chantalberube1246 Před 9 měsíci

    Incredibly beautiful your fairy house, I love it ! Thanks again for all the beauty you bring to us in so many ways.

  • @aproverbshome173
    @aproverbshome173 Před 9 měsíci

    Wow! God gave you a child that is a gift! From above you are blessed.

  • @dominikab4856
    @dominikab4856 Před 9 měsíci +1

    That cute moment, when You show Your project to Your Husband ... 😍🥺

  • @Juliajustjoined
    @Juliajustjoined Před 3 měsíci

    After dealing with two sassy toddlers all day your videos are my only source of relaxation

  • @lifewithmisty1
    @lifewithmisty1 Před 9 měsíci

    Children are the greatest gift, I was blessed with 2 👬 boys who are now 18 and 13😊 you will be a great mom.

  • @luisv7117
    @luisv7117 Před 9 měsíci

    I find myself in a land devoid of the enchanting embrace of autumn. Oh, how my heart aches for those cherished moments spent wandering through the woods! The soothing whispers of rustling leaves underfoot, the vibrant hues of nature's paintbrush illuminating the world around me... All of it, so dearly missed. Alas, here I am, yearning for the gentle caress of fall's arrival. My soul craves the solace that only nature's symphony can provide, as it dances upon my senses like a delicate cello melody, intertwining with the very essence of my being. Oh, how I long to once again immerse myself in the embrace of the woods, losing myself in the infinite beauty that exists within their ancient branches.

  • @lilcricket4379
    @lilcricket4379 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I've always thought what a cool mom you would be! Being little and learning from you while we laugh and comfort one another. Digging spuds with dad 😊 is sweet... Important tasks of love & the miracles of nature 🌱 💗

  • @emmy9660
    @emmy9660 Před 9 měsíci

    God bless you both as you start a family together. I have no children so count your blessings when they come which I know you will. Love your gentleness and creativity. Love from Scotland. Peace be with you. Stay cosy.

  • @terrychancellor4593
    @terrychancellor4593 Před 9 měsíci

    Love the fairy house! I have taught many children in summer art camps how to make these and they get so creative with them!! You are so lucky to have reindeer moss growing locally, I have to purchase mine from the craft stores. Trust me, you will lose nothing with this little blessing. Sometimes some things go on hold for a while but it all returns. Enjoy every moment, it goes by so quickly. My children are now all grown and it seemed to happen in the blink of an eye. I'm glad I took life slow with them, read a lot of books with them, explored, encouraged creativity and put off tv and electronics for as long as possible. They grew into intelligent, caring individuals that I truly love spending time with and love seeing how many of their friends adore them as well. They are selfless, brave, respectful, and my greatest blessing. May you know such joy as I'm sure you will, you are a perfect role model. ❤️

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 Před 9 měsíci +3

    It's growth, not loss. Moving forward is exciting! Thank you, Paola. Feel better soon! Luke.

  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb Před 9 měsíci +2

    The Fall 🍂🍁🍂 vibe is so lovely ...