Building New Habits

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  • čas přidán 26. 10. 2016
  • In this short video, Mingyur Rinpoche speaks of how to overcome laziness in our meditation practice through building new habits. He also explains how this is linked to one of the biggest hindrances in practice for long-term practitioners. You can discuss this teaching in the Monthly Teachings Forum under the topic Building New Habits.
    This video includes subtitles in Arabic, English, German, Portuguese, French, Russian, Bulgarian, and Spanish.
    To learn more about meditation or about Mingyur Rinpoche and his teachings, please visit the Tergar Meditation Community online at tergar.org.

Komentáře • 251

  • @vishaljotwani8617
    @vishaljotwani8617 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Thanks Dear Rinpoche, am trying to practice meditation, Vipassana to deal with bad memories, anger, fear, sorrow and stay healthy and active, fortunate to have such a good teacher like you.

  • @jasminkakaramustafic1699
    @jasminkakaramustafic1699 Před 7 lety +91

    I wish I can spend 1 year with you I think I would never be the same is nice to have Angels like you on this planet

    • @KK-in1tb
      @KK-in1tb Před 4 lety +3

      Hey u can be and it's not that I m trying to console u ...but when u can see good in other it means u are already having that factor to become so..

    • @klausfischbach601
      @klausfischbach601 Před 4 lety +6

      Hallo Jasminka Finaly its not so difficult to stay with Mingyur Rinpoche. Shure, to got to Nepal or follow him all over the world is realy difficult. But Tergar exists in very many counties. So there are the teachings of Joy of living quite near. There are Groups, and Rinpoche travels a lot. So to be in contact with his beautiful teachings and mind is not so difficult. And practicing his teachingd is... not easy, but it makes realy feal coming home!

    • @radhikaraj5971
      @radhikaraj5971 Před 3 lety

      I sometimes think the exact thing.

    • @Gregoz987
      @Gregoz987 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for giving so much to help us improve our ways.

  • @mladenmilosavljevic8607
    @mladenmilosavljevic8607 Před 7 lety +160

    What an amazing human being... Thank you very much, Mr Rinpoche.
    I'm christian, but I highly respect your religion, and I enjoy your smart talks, since there are little people around me with whom I can speak about some complex, smart things, like this. Greetings from Serbia. Best wishes, Mr Rinpoche.

    • @sadhana3205
      @sadhana3205 Před 7 lety +31

      this has nothing​ to do with religion... please understand & religions are creation of ppl
      this is complete science.... these practices are universal and it is for everyone..

    • @seralary
      @seralary Před 7 lety +19

      You will never hear a Buddhist Monk to say to anyone something like this:o your ar not a Buddhist,than you can not take part of meditation .
      The Buddhism is a way of Living for all of us.And I am say that as a Christian who found in Buddhism so many Answers about life.

    • @Truth0700
      @Truth0700 Před 7 lety +4

      Yess! I was born and raised Christian too! Jesus' teaching were twisted for control! @Sudipto Chowhury You are SO right. People are awakening :)

    • @mladenmilosavljevic8607
      @mladenmilosavljevic8607 Před 7 lety +4

      Yeah, I did some research on the subject, people. You're totally right. Thanks for your replies.

    • @sadhana3205
      @sadhana3205 Před 7 lety +6

      Phase Nonapp​​​​​ please donot confuse it with faith (blind faith), teachings of Buddha and other yogis are not about having blind faith in something....
      What the Buddha teaches is about the truth of how the nature works....they see how things or reality is for real...because our mind in the beginning is full of impurities and delusions due to the conditioning of our mind...it just like when u hit someone without realising that the other person is getting hurt u r in the state of ignorance & then soon when u realise it that it did really hurt him soon u feel compassionate and guilty.....
      When u raise your consciousness and begin to realise things,soon u ll find that we ourself bring suffering to ourselves..
      "Beliving in God "and "seeing what really is" are therefore two different things...
      I hope the answer helps
      :-)
      By the way u don't have to be a Buddhist to understand and follow the teachings of (Buddha) . He was not a God just a human who saw like other yogis how nature really works and what is it that brings us suffering.

  • @sheilakirwan9462
    @sheilakirwan9462 Před 4 lety +7

    Thank you Rimpoche ...your voice and manner is so soothing ...🙏🙏🙏🌈🙇🙇🙇

  • @Curiousnessify
    @Curiousnessify Před 5 lety +10

    If i wasnt lazy and spending time on youtube i wouldnt have found this video :)

  • @sumit18281
    @sumit18281 Před 3 lety +2

    🙏 Thank you so much Rinpoche 🙏

  • @OfficialELTB
    @OfficialELTB Před 4 lety +3

    Live for the sake of it, enjoy the process, conquer yourself for the love of action not the result.

  • @AnhinhDesign
    @AnhinhDesign Před 6 lety +92

    'Dont be attached in the result'. Thank you so much. I really admire his famous book 'The joy of living'

    • @vajraayudha5062
      @vajraayudha5062 Před 4 lety +6

      It comes from 5149 year old text of Gita from Krishna on the Kurukshetra battle front ..

    • @1kSubscribersSoon.
      @1kSubscribersSoon. Před rokem +1

      @@vajraayudha5062 the great yogis get enlightenment through one sentence " Apna deepak, swayam bano" . But the foolish can't get enlightenment through the whole library...
      Ek suraj, puri andhakar ko, jhooka deta hain..

    • @Chrisbbilger-yp4fz
      @Chrisbbilger-yp4fz Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@1kSubscribersSoon.❤

  • @baljitsinghjhajj696
    @baljitsinghjhajj696 Před 2 lety +2

    Gratitude 🙏thank you so much 🌹

  • @neeranangia9609
    @neeranangia9609 Před rokem +1

    Thankyou, it would be wonderful to meet you atleast once in my life, thankyou for all the wisdom.

  • @david.thomas.108
    @david.thomas.108 Před 4 lety +9

    We are fortunate to have such teachings, thank you.

  • @purnimasingh8780
    @purnimasingh8780 Před 7 lety +29

    thank you You are so calm

  • @charlierana4420
    @charlierana4420 Před 5 lety +6

    Thank you 🙏 Rinpoche la may you live long and benefits all sentence being ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💰

  • @islandbreeze2102
    @islandbreeze2102 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you 😊 for this teaching. In a nutshell: Rinpoche said: Establish a “Daily Practice” routine. Like getting up and brushing our teeth every morning. It becomes an automatic habit.

  • @raymondtheys9826
    @raymondtheys9826 Před 5 lety +10

    The way I love this dudes video's...Thank you Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche !

  • @ABHISHEKMISHRA-hg1dj
    @ABHISHEKMISHRA-hg1dj Před 3 lety +2

    Great respect to the monk..
    Feeling blessed after watching this video...

  • @fhf3223
    @fhf3223 Před 6 lety +2

    A wonderful thing I've never thought about is the absolute value of non-attachment. Even to be compassionate and help others is something to not be attached to, 'cause sometimes we're unable to do so...

  • @abhimanyuhowshe7873
    @abhimanyuhowshe7873 Před 2 lety +1

    Really a good and humble teacher. NAMSKAR.

  • @vishesh8746
    @vishesh8746 Před 6 lety +7

    he is soo. cool.... no pride like sathguru and osho for wisdom

  • @bob.hudson
    @bob.hudson Před rokem +1

    Absolutely relate to this bring awreness to your tasks even for 10 minutes. That is the trick.

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Master🙏

  • @TheHandOfMadness
    @TheHandOfMadness Před 5 lety +3

    Trust in the prossess. Love the prossess. Trust in Love and Love trust.

  • @shielamartinez8991
    @shielamartinez8991 Před 3 lety +1

    I feel like you were talking about me you have given me something to work on starting 1 at March 2021 Thank you

  • @akihuangmusic
    @akihuangmusic Před 3 lety +2

    I really feel Peace when I listen to your sharing is full of love. Thank you so much 💞

  • @nicholassharma424
    @nicholassharma424 Před 4 lety +9

    Every one can overcome from anxiety and depression,
    Simply step
    When Negative thought come either you ignored or change that negative thoughts into positive, for example your Thought I am bad make this to I am good , do this for month you will overcome anything, trust me

  • @trishratanagiri2588
    @trishratanagiri2588 Před 5 lety +4

    Thankyou, my bhuddist teachers used to tease the lay people. Asking "who is doing, Who is saying, this that the other. Encouraged effort to do regular morning and evening meditation. Could be short, 15 minutes in ones daily life. Then take the energy and apply it to every moment of your life. Using it as life meditation. Questioning, recognition of lasy, over active, or negative habits. Advice if all else fails, to try to use small step approach, by replacing a negative habit, with a positive habit. That way you're not concentrating on l can't do this or that. But rather building positive themes, by small regular steps. Cultivating positive qualities, allows the negative themes to fall away naturally. Other wise if you chase them forcefully, with big stick, you may inadvertently create, a situation, where they merely hide, to resurface at a later date. Thankyou for reminding me of their past wisdom. Meta to all beings. Aum Shanti.

  • @alibalushi4691
    @alibalushi4691 Před 5 lety +2

    I come from that of the word which some circles have a perception of the practice of yoga and Meditation has got to do religious Faith. This presentation has been an eye opener.thank you very much

  • @MrYatesj1
    @MrYatesj1 Před 6 lety +12

    I find it best for me to do the daily practice at the same time every day. It helps me get in the groove of doing what really does need to be done (meditation is very important for my mental and spiritual heath) Blesings

  • @Lhamulharipa
    @Lhamulharipa Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much Renpochela for your teaching ,this helps me a lot 🙏

  • @editeisabelfaria5618
    @editeisabelfaria5618 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you Master! É muito dificíl. Não é preguiça é meditar nas discussões...

  • @sheetal74
    @sheetal74 Před 3 lety +1

    Grateful for your wisdom.

  • @pemachoedon9272
    @pemachoedon9272 Před 7 lety +9

    Thank you Rempoche! I have been listening to you lately and it has helped me a lot to control my emotions and my thoughts and especially my "panic attack". I didn't meditate much but in usual life I have been changing the way of my thinking.

  • @uviral
    @uviral Před 6 lety +14

    Very nice and beautifully explained, thank you very much
    as someone said...
    There is a misconception that Buddhism is a religion, and that you worship Buddha.
    Buddhism is a practise, like yoga. You can be a Christian and practise Buddhism. I met a Catholic priest who live in a Buddhist monastery in France. He told me that Buddhism makes him a better Christian. I love That.
    - Thich Nhat Hanh

    • @karthidrive55
      @karthidrive55 Před 4 lety

      There are 2 varients in Buddhism.. Varients 1: Buddha is a human, he have advised human to be a better person by practicing good things.. Varient 2: Buddha is a god he have all magical powers and stuff like that

  • @kalapurna3252
    @kalapurna3252 Před 6 lety +161

    I can speak better english than this man but this man can communicate better than me....humble soul.

    • @456inthemix
      @456inthemix Před 4 lety +5

      Rinpoche is authentic.

    • @luxlux8247
      @luxlux8247 Před 3 lety

      ✨🙏🏽

    • @tenzinsangpo2221
      @tenzinsangpo2221 Před 3 lety +8

      This is the difference between to SPEAk and to TELL. Waves from Spain. I never study english, bit I I don't need it. I just use the words I know and mix them to make a sentence you can understand. Easy, insn't it. Everything is in your mind...

    • @ANDHRA7
      @ANDHRA7 Před 3 lety +1

      Who asked you ?

    • @heynowyouarearock
      @heynowyouarearock Před 3 lety

      @@tenzinsangpo2221 Awesome!

  • @mariaharald9779
    @mariaharald9779 Před 6 lety +5

    ~om mani peme hung hri~...greetings from2 musicians (sitar & tanpura) from germany........(maria&harald,the nectar of the night)...we like your clips ...

  • @fme3406
    @fme3406 Před 3 lety +1

    Thankyou for the video, I love your talks, they help me a lot

  • @CaptainAMAZINGGG
    @CaptainAMAZINGGG Před 5 lety +7

    He's just the loveliest ever, and also, hilarious :') I infinite percent adore him :3

  • @ClaudioCarneiroclown
    @ClaudioCarneiroclown Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you! Great to hear that now!

  • @vivek7298
    @vivek7298 Před 4 lety +1

    So beautifully you explained..

  • @elizabethfrench8511
    @elizabethfrench8511 Před 4 lety +1

    Thankyou, very helpful video 💜🙏💜

  • @Ashishprajapati12480
    @Ashishprajapati12480 Před 3 lety +1

    Simple, beautiful, meaningful talk

  • @sirdystic8439
    @sirdystic8439 Před 7 lety +4

    Thank you Ming

  • @Curiousnessify
    @Curiousnessify Před 5 lety

    Love this guy

  • @erick6102
    @erick6102 Před 7 lety +15

    Very helpful

  • @Groovy213
    @Groovy213 Před 7 lety +15

    Thank you very much for these insights :)

  • @LONGLACA
    @LONGLACA Před 7 lety +1

    thank you!

  • @zinrozh359
    @zinrozh359 Před 7 lety +3

    You are the best!

  • @Pomperiposa
    @Pomperiposa Před 3 lety

    I love him!

  • @theeeediotr
    @theeeediotr Před 6 lety

    Thank you!

  • @AlisonBryen
    @AlisonBryen Před 7 lety +3

    You understand the workings of the human mind so well!!!

  • @Positively2011
    @Positively2011 Před 7 lety

    Thank you Rinpoche 🙏🙏🙏

  • @nobodylea
    @nobodylea Před 6 lety +1

    I absolutely love the colours! Truly an excellent video that helps to improve myself. Thank you! :)

  • @inlander311
    @inlander311 Před 5 lety

    Thank you Rinpoche 🙏

  • @TheHandOfMadness
    @TheHandOfMadness Před 5 lety +1

    I only had time to meditate for 6 minutes this morning and it was wonderful.

  • @vishalsrivastava3656
    @vishalsrivastava3656 Před 5 lety +9

    @10:00 the last part is awesome

  • @JesseNickelltheFourth
    @JesseNickelltheFourth Před 6 lety +1

    Awesome teaching!

  • @interiordesign6040
    @interiordesign6040 Před 7 lety +27

    Please please please will you do more guided meditation ever month I can't meditate with out guide... thank you for these amazing videos!!

    • @ugyen1955
      @ugyen1955 Před 4 lety +7

      Interior Design I think it’s better to practice the same guided meditation video again and again and again everyday and soon learn his advice by heart so u can guide urself . I listened to Rinpoches guided mediation again and again and I try mediating without guide and slowly slowly I can guide myself a little by little . Ultimate solution should be to guide urself . Best of luck 💕

  • @paulwharton1850
    @paulwharton1850 Před 6 lety +4

    Excellent advice - Thank you it helps me a lot.

  • @ikigalatea
    @ikigalatea Před 4 lety +1

    I love him so much ❤️

  • @modernmonk9629
    @modernmonk9629 Před 5 lety +1

    thank you🙏

  • @rhodoracristinacalizo1645

    Thank you Mingyur Rinpoche

  • @wynnwijaya7657
    @wynnwijaya7657 Před 7 lety

    Thank you.

  • @xefilz
    @xefilz Před 4 lety +1

    Gracias, gracias, gracias.

  • @am-cu6hw
    @am-cu6hw Před 6 lety

    Thank you so much 😀

  • @glenn3646
    @glenn3646 Před 7 lety +1

    so simple and yet very informative

  • @varunam7156
    @varunam7156 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much 🙏💕

  • @Shi.j
    @Shi.j Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @premzorba4732
    @premzorba4732 Před 3 lety

    THANK YOU Rinpoche!

  • @fazerpets4290
    @fazerpets4290 Před 4 lety

    Omg i love this man❤❤

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 Před 7 lety

    thank you very much..

  • @marikoasmara4923
    @marikoasmara4923 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you so much. It means a lot for me. I will start to mediate from today.

  • @swapnilsrivastava3759
    @swapnilsrivastava3759 Před 5 lety

    You are so sweet and humble 😇

  • @geetharajanb6413
    @geetharajanb6413 Před 5 lety

    Thank you Sir 🙏

  • @jameshubbard5681
    @jameshubbard5681 Před 7 lety

    I'm just learning. Thanks for the video . )

  • @davidwilkie9551
    @davidwilkie9551 Před 4 lety +1

    "Nothing is either good or bad but thinking makes it so", and the observation that fears and fears of bad habits like arguing should be invited in during meditation because arguing with someone, including yourself, is positive when you understand why, ..against is negative, but is a misinterpretation of what is positive. (You can't not think of pink "elephants in the room" by attempting to unthink)
    Human relationships are the sum of interactive positive habits, we support each other with constructive supporting arguments, if we can integrate the argument successfully into our own self...
    Meditation is a kind of mind science, balancing the holistic equation/resonance of the universal self.

  • @downtoearth5108
    @downtoearth5108 Před 2 lety

    Nga mihi (thankyou) Rinpoche. Very very helpful insights. Noho ora mai (Be well).

  • @cassgully4758
    @cassgully4758 Před 3 lety +1

    Amazing video thank you so much ❤️

  • @katyblythofficial
    @katyblythofficial Před 3 lety

    Thank you 🙏

  • @TheSunnickey
    @TheSunnickey Před 7 lety

    Thank you

  • @pkskyw
    @pkskyw Před 6 lety

    Thank you! :)

  • @sundarapushpam9898
    @sundarapushpam9898 Před 6 lety +1

    Best. Don't be too much attached to your results. Too good.

  • @i.a.-infiniteawareness4991

    Thank you for your wisdom and teachings.God bless 🙏

  • @swap_sid
    @swap_sid Před 6 lety +1

    Wonderful being. Grateful to watch his videos. Thanks Sir.

  • @markouwerkerk4899
    @markouwerkerk4899 Před rokem

    Absolute madlad 🔥🔥♾

  • @user-he5to9lf7t
    @user-he5to9lf7t Před 3 lety

    Thank you~

  • @TheJaugietis
    @TheJaugietis Před 7 lety

    Thank you :)

  • @fernaes7002
    @fernaes7002 Před rokem

    Thanks for this vídeo

  • @OMSONi108
    @OMSONi108 Před 2 lety

    अभ्यासेन वैराग्येण👍

  • @amitjana5641
    @amitjana5641 Před 5 lety

    great guide

  • @chudasamaamruta7812
    @chudasamaamruta7812 Před 4 lety

    Thankyu sir 4 give advice

  • @wy2z3ng4
    @wy2z3ng4 Před 7 lety +4

    OM tashi deleg soha

  • @hicklif
    @hicklif Před 4 lety

    Excellent words. I consider myself as lazy. And as you say. Step by step is good way to make a good habit and aply on conduct. Thanks

  • @christinamock7264
    @christinamock7264 Před 5 lety

    Very sweet. Also made me giggle. Thank you.

  • @mairepcod4063
    @mairepcod4063 Před 3 lety

    Thanks, 🙏

  • @buddhaexhumed9922
    @buddhaexhumed9922 Před 2 měsíci

    Namo Buddhay.. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

  • @adityatayde9566
    @adityatayde9566 Před 4 lety +3

    Your voice is so peaceful and I will change my routine from now onward
    We only have one life
    Thankyou sir

  • @laurasmith7421
    @laurasmith7421 Před 3 lety

    ❤️🙏🏼thankyou

  • @xefilz
    @xefilz Před 4 lety

    Gracias

  • @abhijeetchakraborty2905
    @abhijeetchakraborty2905 Před 5 lety +1

    Grt thanks

  • @ommanipadmehum3143
    @ommanipadmehum3143 Před 4 lety

    For the liberation of all sentient beings