The Best Revenge Is Letting Go & Moving On With Your Life (Inspirational Speech)
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- The Best Revenge Is Letting Go & Moving On With Your Life (Inspirational Speech)
The best revenge is not taking any revenge at all. It is moving on with your life. Making YOUR LIFE better and better and better. There's no need for grudges or resentment when your focus is on building your best every life experience.
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While i appreciate the Video and the overall Message that the Best Revenge is to get happy :) and taking back Your Power, i would be very carefull if i were You with the Wording because some People have been so damaged by Emotional Manipulators or Narcissists, that they might feel too pressured or weak by not being able to stand up as fast as you might say here...... Please be carefull. Never blame the Broken or Hurt ones, even if they are Healing, IN ANY WAY! Allow Time. Its important to get Therapy, especially Trauma Therapy and also UNDERSTAND how they been manipulated in Order to Heal. It takes a bit more then such above Video. Yes and Prayer too. However be as kidn as our Saviour Eashoa=Jesus, was. Michelle here on YT, "From Surviving to Thriving" does great Work regarding understanding the narcissists abuse and how to free oneself from such toxicity. You might be interested in colab. with her. :)
Fearless Soul yeaaaaa I move on thanks for sharing ❤️✌🏿👌🏿
We can do it guys. We were fine before them so we will be fine after them! ❤️
Toni yeah we can do it ✌🏼
We can do it just stay strong.
I disagree. I mean, maybe I was fine before them.
But now, ‘after them’, I am and will be a fucking beast. 💪🏽
Ill be much better. I promise!
We will.
Maybe we were fine before them
But after them, we’re beasts 💪🏽
The best revenge is succeeding after them.
They always come back begging to be apart of your life again when they see just how powerful and strong you really are.
I love you so mucj..girl iam from india but what you said i hope she will😭😭
Its true
Yeah you were right now she came..should i go with her again?
@@atulbisht870
Noooo.. she will break your heart again
@@atulbisht870 pls dont take her back. Its risky
Forget about your ex, especially if they're the one broken up with you. There's no reason loving a person if he/she doesn't love you back like you do. There are billions of people out there, better than him/her, trust me they're out there!! Trust yourself, believe in yourself, work on yourself. The best revenge is moving on and succeed in life.
You’re absolutely right
Thank you very much 🙏
Amen!
Awww.thanks alot, I will work on my self 😭😭No turning back.
@@olive5in161 it not easy to move on am in the same situation but l have promise myself to stay out from her and be happy in myself.....life is too short to be with someone who don't value you
This guy once told me "kill them with success, bury them with a smile" and wow was he right.🙂
I love it
If you’re watching this know that you’re a humble person,know that you being hurt is not an accident it’s God’s love for you ,know that God wants you to be successful to have a better and healthier love ,know that your best is on its way and most importantly know that you’re a good person because trust me bad people are not watching this kind of videos.
😢😢😢thank you for motivation
Thank you
Thanks
Thank You ❤
Thank you
I love the comment section in videos like these because its people encouraging other people, teaching people from their own lesson. There is still humanity left in this world and I thank you for that.
Its true ... :)
I can totally relate to what you are talking about.
Thats soo true and i still kinda hv hope their is good people that will not hurt. You and love you the way you are .
Couldn’t have said it any better!
Same here man. We're all in the same boat I guess. We all want each other to recover, because we know we didn't deserve this pain we're feeling.
I met him when he was at his lowest, in 2 years I helped him get on his feet, I helped him get into school, connect with his family, I helped him become financially stable, and he left after without looking back.. he chose this woman who he met in 3 months instead of me...
I just want to live in peace and stop with these dark thoughts..
I'm happy that asshole, chose that women over you. You deserve more and a guy who appreciate you!
Liz thank god girls like u do exist i wish someone like u come in my life cause there are very few people who understands the importance of relationship
sorry💔
You are a high value woman. Life removed from you pain and suffering. Let go, move on one day at a time. It hurts but it will pass. If somebody walks away let them walk.
Same thing happened to me ..built him up he had nothing. Got him a truck, helped him with his job build credit for our future and he left me. He left me to go party and hangout to be with friends to be himself as he say. Im so hurt i put so much in the relationship im just broken.
Please Jesus help me to forgive and forget and move on!
He already has...
I prayed this to God as well. And then the next morning, I accept the things that I can't control. I accept, I forgive, I let go and I'm moving on. God always listen to us. :)
@@Beadacut_ Unless he has air pods on(I am making a joke)
@@alinastanescu4430 HAHA Hi! I have airpods and Yes God has airpods as well. XD Be safe!
I hope you've already moved on
“The best revenge is improving yourself.” Imam ali as
I agree with you
You gave me something I have been looking for
True sir
It hurts being silently left ❤️
If you couldn't be his/her love of life be the greatest lose of his/her life.
True. But that's what makes one stronger than ever before. While it's good to revisit the past one must ensure to move on ☺️
WOW
Just experienced being silently let go by someone I thought was the best person I had ever met. Wow that was painful. No warning. Things were so great, I guess at least for me, and poof...gone. Ghosted. It's taking some time to heal, I'm trying hard. This was a lesson for sure, I never experienced someone do this to me for no known reason. Very painful.
Keep strong bud, most of us on these pages hv been through this hurtful phase
So nice what you wrote. Painful and true at the same time. Thank you!
Trust me guys, remember these three things and you'll never be sad:
1) Don't torment youself over your past mistakes. We're humans. It's happened, it's over. Stand tall and be free of it!
If someone wronged you, forgive him/her but don't burden yourself with pain, regret or anger for their mistakes. You have a wonderful life so where's the time to carry every experience like a wound?! LET GO!!
2) It's just a piece of the puzzle: the big picture. Now you think of it as a mess. But 2 years from now, you'll finally get to look at the bigger picture and thank god that it happened for good. It's all a chain. Even the painful events lead up to the best days!!
3) You're the best and I believe in you. God bless you and have a good day!
Totally freaking AWESOME, I really needed that!!!!!😉
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Karma will take care the bad person..if you still care abt them it's your karma.. don't care just let go from the hurt...accept..cry..free your mind.. move on
@@butterflyshrutie even me too.. sometimes you'll feel so strong.. sometimes you will be back down again.. it's a healing process.. it will take all your strength..makes you feeling stuck..starve all your energy ..you may feel numb.. trauma happens...
Try 5 4 3 2 1 and stop your unconscious..self awareness is the key
please find new purpose in life... Whatever you want..take your time for a year or lesser than that..don't get stucked
Last thing
Forgive yourself..you don't have to forgive the person who had done wrong
Life is unfair.. everything is temporary...
Let god inside your heart..
If you still feel so bad.. please go ahead and try donating food with poor people..
Don't forget this is just a phase situation not your entire life
Karma is real
karma has a 2nd class stamp on it, & karma doesn't finish work until it has delivered all its letters to the rightful receiptients!
Exactly what I did, I cried real much, let everything go and moved on. Felt like a burden been lifted up.
Thanks be to God. He is the only one who mends our wounds and makes us whole again.
This makes us feel better but the real win is not caring and building a life you want.
Realizing you don't want someone back changes everything. Keep moving. Leave no track, Don't look back.
You left a track, Mohican.
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🙄🙄🙄🤭
yeah he really broke me
Best revenge is to free yourself from all the anger and hate. Forgive yourself and forgive the other person. Pursue your dreams and be successful.
This is what I needed to read today. Truly it’s what I needed. Thanks!
A True Love Official you are gorgeous!!! Thank you for this video I just sent it to my bestie...💙
Just omit ‘best revenge’ and you got it figure out bang on....
whether we do or do not forgive the other person , the most important thing to do is to accept that it has happened , we are not alone it happens to so many people every day around the world , it's life , it happens in life
I guess you live up to your name
U guys I came back here in the middle of the night today to let you know that it's been 3 months and 2 weeks and I'm happy that it is over I dont want him anymore and I'm looking forward to the future keep reminding yourself how u really want to be treated and how tht person couldnt do it for you and you deserve nothing but the best! Keep working on yourself because better days are coming !❤
How to do it.. its just a week he left me with nothing
Thank you 😊
Liezl Justiniane pray to God he Will show you the way
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It's been close to 3 months. Occasionally I miss the facade he portrayed to pull me in, but I feel better because the baggage is getting lighter.
Best Revenge:
- Go through the emotions, feel it, and let it go.
- Take the stepping stone to improve yourself - that includes your mental health.
- Pretend that person that hurt you as nonexistent - make no contact and stay away from social media.
- Go outside and walk for some fresh air.
- If it's time, meet some new friends - through a local community center, an event that correlates to what you believe in (whatever that may be), etc.
I hope this helps to some of you guys!
Mental Heath / Emotional Heath is not so easy to recover or just impossible. That's why law of cause and effect came into the picture. (You will reap what you sow).
Sometimes, evil people children pays off.
Thank you
😊❤
I'm sorry but for me. I have to hurt them in exchange. People say afterwards you feel bad or its not good. That doesn't apply to everyone. Because I've never regret my decision and felt good always. Plus after I've gotten the relief from the revenge then I forget about whoever has wrong me, and continue forward.
I wish I could hold hands with all the broken ones! Am also a broken one... And am fighting off to be a stronger and determined young lady! Always remember God .
Fatin Bkolino Hanna I hold your hand strong lady ❤️
Beautiful comment ❤
you just showed everyone that you’re the strongest! keep going💛
Hold me dear i am on the same boat
symbilal bilal stay on your boat and sail right on out of the Harbor!!!!! For its only those Brave Enough, Strong Enough, and Courageous Enough to leave the safety of the shoreline, unable to see what lies past the point of the skyline and what the eye can see........ to Find Your Future!!!!! You have to be Willing to Burn Your Boat.....so you have no way to return to your past!!!!! Your New Journey Awaits You! Don’t Be Afraid! You Got This! Have a Blessed Day!!!!!
Sometimes leaving is the best gift you give to yourself.
Tracey Hughes that's what I am working on. I need to keep working on becoming completely self sufficient and independent. that'll be my revenge, as well as forgiveness.
Exactly cause holding on for more time can cause the worst kind of pain and betrayel there is no more reason to be in past .its better leave it forget it .and restart our life with happiness
No doubt!
Correct...
I let someone who did me wrong ruin my mindset and damage my life for EIGHT YEARS. To anyone reading this feeling lost and betrayed, DON'T let them do this to you. Don't try to get revenge, two wrongs don't make a right. Forgive - as hard as that may be, but it will take away your hate - and forget. Don't let it ruin your future jobs, relationships and development. Don't be like me. You can do it : )
You did the BEST-EVER THING before God, as told by God: that is LETTING GO.
But only one thing saddens me. DON'T CALL YOURSELF AS "GENERAL WASTE".
Nobody is waste. You are PRECIOUS to God. All human beings are PRECIOUS to God.
You and all are CHILDREN of God. How come King's children can be waste? They are ROYAL BLOODS having only GOOD QUALITIES. How come you call yourself as 'General Waste'? Hereafter, please DON'T.
Pray to God for HELP (not for hours together with tears, but for a few minutes with FULL faith).
Long hours of study is required when one studies WITHOUT CONCENTRATION.
Most research scholars will agree that studying for less time is enough, if there is UN-WAVERING ATTENTION while studying.
Sunlight FOCUSED through lens burns paper or straw. When no focus is there or sunlight is scattered, the sunlight looses its power. Likewise, if FULL faith is there, prayers can be brief.
What you ask, you WILL get. Jesus said 'BE SURE, YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU ASK FATHER IN MY NAME'.
Jesus FURTHER said, 'You saw my miracles. Don't think I only can do miraculous things. YOU WILL DO MUCH BIGGER MIRACULOUS THINGS THAN ME (GOD)'.
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I dont really know how to do that .. i wish i can forgive ( just so that i can keep going without thinking or getting scared !) But i can't ..
Been there
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Before I seen this I wanted to get even so bad that’s all I thought about lol.
Time heals everything. Keep fighting and work on yourself.Everything will fall into its place
💯🤜🤛
"he who controls others may be powerful, But he who has mastered himself is mightier still." - Lao Tzu
Awesome words
Seriously. The sooner you move on, heal & become happy, the quicker you find a real one and realize you never needed them to begin with.
Oh and they always come back.
But by then it’s too late and you don’t need them anymore ❤️
Edit: Thank you for the likes :).
Are u sure they always come back when your gone and happy with someone better than them or will they pretend to be happy for u
This comment must be from a girl, in that case, they most likely come back
So true
"and you don't need them anymore" 👀👀that's exactly the secret formula! If u guys are working on yourself and u are still feeling the need of her, you are not going to be succes at all. Learn to be indipendent fron the people and from the circumstances... Your half is climbing the mountain on the opposite side! 👀💪🏻
Soooo true
Love and positivity to anyone reading this. I hope something good happens to you today & tomorrow & everyday after
Thank you. Same to you.
Thanks 😊
Thank you, I broke up with my boyfriend because he didn't respect me, but I don't blame him. I'm grateful for the time we spent together... Now I want to become the best version of myself ❤️
Same here 😭
Why don't you blame him?
What if he realized that what ever he said or what ever he has done was his mistake and he is in guilt and want to appologize will you accept his sorry? And will you give him another chance?
@@Exoine_ we spoke an year after the break up, he told me I made a lot of mistakes with him and it’s not correct… I think he wasn’t the best person for me and now I have also another boyfriend!
It's just normal to hold grudge against someone who had hurt you. I did try to do things that could hurt them back but I realized, you don't need to take revenge. Just be humble because God said, "Whoever humbled themselves will be lifted up and whoever exalt themselves will be put down." The best revenge is moving on and make your life far better than them.
Thank you
Thank you
I used to think that way, but it's hard to forgive them. But is better to forgive and forget them. Once you let go and forget about people who hurt you. God will lead you to another opportunity and a better path.
Amen
Did he finally worked u moved on?..bcoz i cant..i cant let go :( when he went with other girl it kills me more
Almost scary how this video appeared when I needed it the most, wow! Thankyou!
Not scary, perfect timing, as usual.
Fearless Soul easier said than done
affliction42 same here..!!
inspirational
affliction42 #TRUTH. just popped up today :)
I use to think the best revenge is moving on... it’s not. The best revenge is living well, flourishing happiness and massive success in your life.
Nah, I achieved massive success and I'm still not satisfied...I used to feel that way, but now that I'm here I still want more revenge. I need to see it.
Thats moving on brother
@@MaurandisDaRadusFilms that aint moving on, its your choice
Let's also remember there was a time in life we did not know them at all. Let's try our best to go cus on that time.
be kind to ur ex even if they have hurted u as a reflection of u, ur kindness that how good person u are. and then just disappear from their life and never look back it's the best revenge
yes i am kind that's why i did nithung wrong with her even she offered me such abad thing that can't even imagine a girl can do... but i just went away her last words if u love me thn go away from my life and never ever msg my new one... its 5 months i didn't met her or msg his new guy... but daily my mind tell me to take revenge how can u left her betraying dumping u and u got the chance but u did nothing.. i daily say i am kind i love her truely she destroyed my feelings... its hard to hold it on that what physical mental and emotional feeling u shared with her now new guy will do that always that black side comes to me i cry over it and do nothing.... really love is the worst thing that is created in this planet...
Maham Noor
I relate with the thought completely
Trump 2016 well some never cared. And some used to care but the feelings faded
Maham Noor b he my me
We had
micku cute hey dont worry.... i can understand ur pain.... dont think about that stupid girl... u r not made for her
The best revenge "creating the best version of yourself"
True. That's what I'm trying to do 🙂
I literally read this comment as it appeared in the video. Nice
@@bala30892 😊🤗🤗🤗🤗 me toooooo
@@vivianamieres ☺️
💯🤜🤛
Today is the day I changed🙏🏾 Praise God
Everything bad that has happened to you, is a lesson to build your character. The worse thing you can do is let your character fall because of the bad things that have happened to you. Maintain your character and keep going and you will reach places no one else has reached before.
Seriously, after I forgave, moved on and no longer have contact with those people, all the anger have gone and in its place peace. Life is so much better
Same here. I forgave him, and try my best to move on with my life. Built a better life and be a successful person. He has not forgive me but that is not my business, he blocked me and i deleted my account. That's how he treat me; never want to be a friend anymore. I am not hating him for that, i just hurt a bit without anger. If that's what he want, i will move on.. The next time we see each other, i will see you as a stranger, not a friend but if somehow we would work together, i will see you as a colleague, a new you and a new me.. Never look back to the past~
I wish i could do that
how ? help me i really need help
That'ts the key, now i know that I was unable to forget my ex boyfriend cause I was continuously trying to know about him, looking for him on social media etc... now it's all peace. I'm happy for you Gummobear
sometimes anger is imp to fire your ass....depends upon person 2 person...
I wish letting go and move on was that easy. I am fighting...
Awa Belle same ...
Same... how are you now?
Same here. Cheated 2 weeks after the narriege
Fight more and more and u will win
letting go is hard work. it may take a long time. but, we have to make the effort. holding on to the resentment and the pain hurts us as much as that other person hurt us, maybe even more. love yourself. think about all your good qualities. don't give that abuser the compliment of focusing on how they hurt you. you go, girl !
Those who say get over it, have never been through the heartache, it don't work as simple as that.
I agree. 😔
indeed
So true
You have no other option though. You can sit and feel miserable all you want but time doesn't wait for you.
Let GOOOOO, free yourself of the burden of heartache. Be Free.
Remember you only have you and when they left you ,they left you with yourself. Why keep on hurting the only person you have left?
Not that simple... Some of us still trying to get over our past relationship 😢
We are hurt but we will heal. Stay strong! 💜
I don't blame anyone, I blame myself for being stupid!! I forgive them and I want to move on!!! I'm a happy soul, yes I am thankful for the strength they gave me!!! I am a loving kind good person, I absolutely know that now!! I have purpose passion and so much love to give and work to do, for the greater good of mankind and I'm going to get going
The best revenge is success !!!
Marina Harrop
Wish you all the best
Be happy 😃
Marina Harrop u should not be against yourself girl
Very motivational
Marina Harrop for 4 years i helped a lady an her kids after she laughed an said she lied an used me omg it hurt but i told her friendship over she told me everyone was right about her she was useing me after she kept calling i said findly our friendship is over im done with u for life i was in the hospital once diagnosed with multiple sclerosis an she had me on imo video chatting her sister came to her door asked her what u doing she said talking to a bitch dieing from brain cancer then look to see my reaction when i got out the hospital i still sent her money to feed her kids after she said she only had water after she laughed an said she lied had plenty of food and plenty of money i got to let this anger go
No revenge. But I never want to see your face again..
the diamond lucario cross fighter no contact
It’s very hard because we go to the same school and I try my best not to look at her
@@sadaqnur2651 it can be done in silence and avoidance. Though also being respectful.
yeah
You should face them. At that day they would regret for dumped you . So be the best of you. Make you better in all
I am 30 years old. It took me 16 years to learn this. I am so much happier.
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It’s always satisfying to see the one who hurts u is hurting too.. I will walk away but i will make sure the one who hurts me suffers too.
The best revenge is no revenge.
Move on Be happy
Thank you
This is what I needed to hear tonight. I have cried. But those tears won't be in vain. Thank you.
Johan Nieves
How are you now brother?
Same here Johan. I liberated myself by setting him free... I feel better now. I am going to make my future now. I will become d best version of me... 😊😊😊😊😊
Me too crued a a lot now no more cry
People don't deserve a broken heart
When you give all your heart to someone you don't always get it all back
Yeah ! Its been a year since she left me and i cant move on how hard i try
I agree 🥺💔
well karma would do the work .. thats left. but u r true..
That's The saddest part
Thank you guys for being brave and seeking help which consequently helps others to see they're not alone. In such times we need each other ❤️ God bless anyone reading this.
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If u want to live in peace.. forget about those people who cheated on you... dont talk with common friends...dont get any information about them... take care.. once u knw that they r happy, u will suffer again... thats y delete them permanently from ur mind
Am in league with you , Khushi.
Good
Easier said than done.
Exactly it cause more pain when we know they are happy without us its better move on end forget every thing about them
Right
Cutting of all communication helps too. It worked for me and sped up the healing process. Going back and forth on the phone, email, face to face and texts prolongs the healing process.
Right brother.
@Playlists4TheSoul That's the best thing if she does not love or care about you she should stop messaging you and leave you alone. That's what an ex is. It can be an ex friend, ex wife or girlfriend or anything else. Because it is in the past. She is ruining your future. Good luck 🍀
Playlists4TheSoul go no contact for as long as u can. Take the time to heal she is ur ex for a reason . Move on . Learned how life without her . U were fine before she came into ur life . U must be stronger brother . Keep ur head up .
If she is a narcissistic person u better go no contact ASAP .
Yes. No contact after breakup helps a lot. Four years and till today no contact, no face to face meet up. . .my life better without him. I am succeeding in my career. I am more happy without him. I bless him for giving up his love for me and thank my ex bf for making me focus in my career . In the coming future I will love my husband so much. I lost someone whom I truly love in the past but I haven't lost someone who is yet to come who will love me truly. At first I felt so loser when he broke up with me through phone but then I realised God was working on me for a better plans ahead of me. I thank God for making me to get over him.
Why I just found this video.. I have wasting my 30 years in life to hold grudge, hatred and anger to my bullies.. I havent moved on yet and my life is miserable because I cant take responsibility and just blamed them.. I have to change my mindset and move on and be the best version of myself
Like we are on same boat.I will also find some better way for improving.
Instead of saying:If it wasn't for them , I would be happy
Start saying:
Because of them I am more stronger
Because of them I am more happier
Because of them,I am unstoppable
:-)
And l say amen 🤲🏼
Yes Lord let me move
On mentally and release my sorrow
In Jesus name Amen !
Lorrie Kelly Amen!
Amen
This is my reality, but i must continue to learn and understand myself and not blame myself for everything.
Forgive yourself..... it’s time to move on
Lori Favela correct same wth me..bt i have to move forward
Lori Favela Wish u all the best!!
mine reality too...😊☺
It's not easy to move on
Whoever has made this, you made me cry like a baby for an hour but you eventually helped me out by taking out all the sorrow from my heart and you made me feel better. . I hope one day I will be strong enough to face the world.
I was DEEPLY hurt by a romantic breakup. It took me years to finally get to a point where I did not feel so much intense emotional pain. Some people seem to rebound rather quickly from hurts, but some of us, like me, do not. If you are able to do that, then good for you! We are all different. I even sought therapy for a time, but it wasn't effective for me. I heard a lot of the same messages that your clip encourages. I've come to accept my new normal, and I have made progress in moving on with my life; however, I will never forget. Unfortunately, I'm not able to DELETE the memories. They still replay from time to time.
Best words.. Revenge is Actually not taking revenge at all..😍🤗
Who agrees..😊👆
Nobody asshole
I agree just move on with a smile on your face knowing you tried to do all you can. They will know their loss in the future when you realise your future is bright and a happy one
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Right because if you do what good is it going to do. It's not even worth it. At this age I got to much to loose. My home, my income, my family, and my accomplishments are important to me.
Yes
*SILENCE AND MOVING ON* 😎💪
Jebasteen 7 short but true ☀️
Yes slience is golden . 🙏
That's not up to me with u!
@@boygood3141 cruelty to your mom esp when she was a great mom...
@@ranadeed2309 not all the time
"The best revenge is massive success."
~ Frank Sinatra
2 weeks ago i got released from a 2 week treatment program. While I was in there getting treatment for my mental health, i was introduced to this channel. For the longest time I blamed everyone around me. I blamed my abusers and anyone who was apart of my trauma. I was miserable. Always negative. Since I went to treatment I had my eyes opened. I had to let it all go. I had to heal. I had to forgive them and take responsibility for my life now. I was tired of the same old cycle. Now I wake up and watch one of these videos every morning. I do positive affirmations. I don't dwell on the negative anymore. I feel so free now. So happy. So grateful. I love this channel. And this video really hits home. Hits home hard. 💜
The best revenge is to live a good life knowing it's a better one than 'they' will ever have. Smile at it, be joyous. Karma will take care of it all
Do you really believe in karma?
@@sapnasood1814
Everyone believes in karma and mostly Hindus like us
I am an atheist bro but i think KARMA exists. There is always an opposite reaction for an action.
thank you so much for this. Thanks. my ex wife kicked me out and got engaged to another man on the same day, stole my money from the bank, used my personal information she had to do fraud, lied that we were ever married, made a fake Facebook account pretending to be a minor and tried to blame me for rape, tried to get me arrested by lieing that I beat her up and harassment...Police found me innocent but It left me bruised emotionally and almost had a mental breakdown. .I really needed this. Thanks guys thank you again. God bless
Ishaaq Chihuri wtf she is a fucking monster dude!!!!
Najib Hareed she was a human devil just to say the least! She is trying to find where I live at the moment. Sending my first wife messages lieing its about my kid. She tried to get me to lose my job by saying I was harassing girls in the gym but little did she know I don't work there anymore! I have never seen such an evil person in my life! I spoke to all her ex partners and she messed them up too. I spoke to her mom and her response was, "So what?". This Pakistani family is evil indeed. I have met such an evil family. I am glad Allah took me away from them
Just keep ahold of evidences and texts that will prove everything coz u may never know how this will go next you might here she is dead and you to be blamed so keep everything brother and May Allah bless you with a nice woman in your life. We all go through tragedies and problems just make sure you never sink your ship.
Thanks brother. I kept all my original messages and also screen shot them just in case something happens. Just pray for me. Thanks may Allah bless you too
Ishaaq Chihuri I will pray for you. I hope you get out of this mess. I can understand how it feels when someone you love turns on you. I'm here if you wanna talk. And yeah you've done great by saving everything. You have the upper hand now.
Pray for me Guys!! I need everyone's blessings😭😭 I'm broken 🥺
Darling, I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man👱 who helped me bring back my ex-husband who left me a few months ago and now my ex-husband is back. I am very grateful. Send him a message for any help💁 whatsapp @ (+2347044509792) 👪💖💯
"where your focus goes your energy flows" don't even be focused on how broken you are, focus on something bigger than you ;God, your career, helping others etc. forget about trying to make them see you (they will though I'll give you that)
Prayers for you.....
@@coolgirl1170 Finally by God Grace I'm here in Holy land of Israel for work .. All of the sudden all process went off very well and I'm into my new Career ..Thanks for your Kind words . . Remember me in your prayers 🙏
@@harperharp6836 Thank you so much 🙏
So real! I was seeing this woman for 9 months and talking on the phone and texting everyday. We are both single parents and me on a dating app. I thought she had mutual feelings then when I asked about a relationship she said after 6 months she's going with the flow. I was left so confused and by all that time talking and seeing each other you should know what you want with that person. I truly had real feelings for her and it crushed me. We don't speak anymore and always look for red flags and games. I deleted online dating and I'm not wasting my time for months on someone who doesn't know what they want. Rejection can crush your self worth and these videos remind me that you are worth it!
I learned that looking back on the past is taking over your life and its not a good sign for your future. Thank you for helping me moving forward
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i needed this right now. im so depressed and lost. i just hope someday ill be able to look back and thank her for leaving me for someone else. I believe in karma and everything happens for a reason
MZ J I'm in the same boat my wife left me for another man ,but it's not gonna work if we torment ourselves thinking like that ,this is all still very fresh to me to but I turned to Jesus and it made me feel so much better ,I'm telling you you should try it. look up that song tell your heart to beat again by danny g somthing.its great bro Jesus loves you bro we will both get through this !!!!
right. i always talk to God everyday and ask for strength and guidance. yes we will get through this. thank you. and btw im a girl :)
MZ J yes stay strong okay? For yourself, for God, and for us. Stay strong. It's okay to cry about it, to release emotions but don't wallow in it make something great of yourself. Work on goals, becoming a better version of yourself and don't give up on healing your own heart. time will help, God will help, it all starts with you.
I'm going through the same shit brother. 4 months no contact but still thinking of her every day
Yes, karma has no address.. just let them be..
I left my entire family. I miss them every now and then but I feel good and much happier. Now I'm in the process of leaving my partner, I can't wait to be free. Life is short live only with those who respect you. God bless you.
Hallelujah, Whoever reading this, I pray you would have great vision and excitement about your future. God has wonderful plans for you, and He will give you the grace to fufill them all! Amen ❤💕
Darling, I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man👱 who helped me bring back my ex-husband who left me a few months ago and now my ex-husband is back. I am very grateful. Send him a message for any help💁 whatsapp @ (+2347044509792) 👪💖💯
I've also been mentally hurt by my ex-girlfriend. After 6 months, I am still recovering. Hearing these sort of "take revenge by having a good life after they're gone" things, I feel better, but if you think about it, it is still your Ego that is feeling better. It is not real you. It is the "hurt you" that's saying "Hey look, I am doing good. Thought I'd be crying, huh?". I think true relief will come when we finally find the strength to forgive them and let go of the desire for the past to have been any different.
I wrote this two months ago, and reading it now makes me feel so grateful because now I feel fully recovered. No longer feeling anything negative towards my ex. I remember sitting in the bathroom crying and saying out loud "I let go, I am independent of you". From that moment on, I've felt nothing but relief. Wish you all who is hurting the same.
@@samataldazharov9394 i am just waiting that to happen with me
I love him so much that I don't want to take any revange. I miss him too much. When I was angry at him for calling me mistress and spice in his life . I cursed him with my words and walked out of the relationship. Later he said he wanted to marry me but I had decided to marry a person who wants to make me his wife not a mistress. I love him but I don't want any revenge on him.
@@samataldazharov9394 hey how are you doing now.
letting go of stress is the best thing ever negativity never has a good outcome only more pain and heartache love yourself for who you are and great things will happen for you
Laura Croft thank you very much for your kindness stay awesome
Kelviyun Jones thank you for your simple explanation of that. I had to copy that one down! Eloquent writer simplistically!!!
Letting go and moving on was one of the greatest achievement in my life for all the pain I've gone through I choice to let go and forgive. Thank you so much for the inspiring message that strengthen me
Sitting in a dark room and realizing why why Do I feel this way. That everything that happens in my life is my fault and that I deserve not having happiness in my life. It’s hard to try to keep a smile on your face when all you see is darkness
"but thank them for showing you exactly what you don't want" ........Yes, I text my ex husband from time to time (kids involved) and thank him for cheating on me.
I am so much happier now!
You thank him for reminding him what you don't want in a husband (which is cheating). You DON'T thank them for cheating. Smfh. Unless you're like "thanks for cheating and proving to me that you're not the one".
awesome and how did you manage to work through the divorce as I am going through this as my partner just moved out and left me with my kids as i am working on it
Strawberrysunset23 no, she's can thank him because she can find someone better who wont cheat
Those first 2 lines hit me like a rock
Two weeks ago,
I had a stroke like that i could never get up from!
I beileved in her so much, i trusted her soo much cuz she made me to! But i didnt know that she was cheating on me all along! I had no idea that a person would do like that, and am still surprised!
You know when you believed in someone so much and the did exactly the same thing that you never wanted them to do! That time, the time you found about that i think death could be less painfull!
It hurts, i thought i cant breathe amymore!
I donno! But i still love her
Maybe im just a fool
You are not a fool, but uou need to let go. Somepeople are better very far far far away from us. Imagine they never existed, that it was just a bad dream. You will see why it happened in time. There is always a reason why. Life will give you the explanation.... in time.
Move on, let God take control, and learn to trust that better days are coming. Just have faith! YOU ARE BLESSED!
do nothing and let Karma works
Phil Makak not karma, YHVH
right
i wish karma was real
karma is real and mentioned in the New Testement in the Bible.
Karma is fake
If you want to get revenge you gotta do it your self
Moving on feels better than any revenge
This is another best lesson I learned in my life.
Iam thankful to God each day and to my best friend, my better half and most importantly love of my life. Iam grateful forever.
I thank God today, tomorrow and forever.
Life is SOOOO much better AFTER THEY ARE GONE!!! Those are the most powerful words EVER
I just realized moving on dose not only apply with your loved one. It applies to others things too. Moving on is necessary in any place where you feel like you are in place where you don't belong. Thank you for sharing.
"Every day is a new day, and you'll never be able to find happiness if u don't move on."
Overwhelmed by the message. 62 and heartbroken. The pain is unmeasurable
Makes me cry so much. Taking responsibility and letting go are indeed much harder than playing the victim.
No life is perfect, we going to continue to go though things until we die. You just have to figure out what’s the ones best fighting for.
it feels sooo good to leave that baggage behind! Relationships are for weak-minded individuals who only feel validation in other's opinions. Live for yourself and love every moment!
Pr C yep!
Saya X not necessarily true. Just like everything, such an experience is temporary. Love has an equal effect on the brain as cocaine and essentially only a drug that nature created for procreation. No one needs such a thing to be ultimately and continuously happy for their entire lives. I did have a very good relationship once for 5 years. I ended that amicably and it was the most liberating experiences of my life. Happiness starts from within and I never get lonely. Not everyone can understand it, I get it. It's like how I can't understand those who go crazy without companionship.
Pr C couldnt agree more
Saya X Different strokes for different people. However if you can't learn to be happy by yourself, you can never be happy with another person. You don't need relationships to thrive. They don't last forever. But you yourself are a complete whole being. If you're dependent on another person for your happiness, then you're in a relationship for the wrong reasons. It takes strength to be alone, and a lot of people in this world, really don't know how to live alone for a long period of time.
Speak for yourself 😂
Best video on CZcams!!! I listened to this 3 times today...and there’s no words to describe how much this has helped me. Thank you!!!
Idk why my gf left me I found her kissing with another person.
Idk I was giving my best..
Idk may be am ugly..
Idk why ....
Even she noticed me she ignored and keep on kissing him .. Idk why
u really helped me now am happy ... I'll show her I am not the person what I look ..dude thank you so much for this video.
you made not my day
You made my life 🌻God bless you 💕😊
I'am a fighter 🌻it's time to move on
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this video. I was in a toxic relationship, it only lasted 11 months but we have broken up 4 times. I have now opened my eyes and I WILL move on and not go back into that miserable hole. The best revenge, is indeed to let go and move on. I will win when I move on, agreed!
I just lost the love of my life... And it's hard... hearing this means so much. Thank you to the speakers and the person who made this. It means alot ❤
Bless every soul going through the same thing I am 🙌
If you are going to practice revenge; dig two graves. (Buddha)
Confucius said that
@@5784Eva yeah bro
I am love. I am forgiveness. I am gratitude. I am oneness. I am free 🙏
Thanks.... 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Two wrongs don't make it right but it makes you feel a hell of a lot better
Wow and it is so hard to move because the pain is so intense and the fear and that is why we never want to move on..I thank you for this because no amount of anger and resent and bitterness will help but make you bitter ..So rather move on because the best revenge is to be successful and dont anyone to undermine your worth because when they gone,you can realise your worth and what your made of because now you wont just take any person,because you know your value and worth..I know my worth and value and that is why I wont just take any woman because when I want a woman,I look at her worth and how she values herself and treat others because if she serve people ,she just might not serve and appreciate you..So make sure if you take,dont take out of revenge but becasue you ready to move and dont waste any woman or mans emotions if you not sure about them ,rather let them go because someone out there might be looking for someone like that...So i am waiting on not just a woman,but A wife becuase the bible says,He who finds a wife,finds favour with the Lord...
I really really needed a message like this. I spent so much energy trying to make them feel the pain they caused me, but now I realize how exhausted it made me feel. It didn't matter how much pain I knew they felt, it wasn't enough. Now I know how to really be free.
Thank you for this message. You saved a soul.
All these comments and the video really helped IM CRYING COS I FEEL SO HYPED TO MOVE ON. thank you guys
Thank you. I needed this now. I'am planning to move to another place. New work, new environment and hopefully to gain new friends. May God help me and continue to bless and forgive me.
I pray for u!
Today i decided that i am moving on taking back the power i once had . Thank you for showing me that i fon't want you ,i once did ,but not anymore . You aren't what i expected .
Let's have a new life
Sahar Maghraoui Stay strong
This comment made my day. Exactly 5 seconds ago I was broken but this🙏 now I can feel good I guess👼
Every person i knew has hurt so much that I have a mental disorder. Everyday seeing them is harder, painful than before and right all I can feel is anger and hatred for the ones I loved the in life and I cant find a solution to this. Everyday I wake up confused saying to myself the is better without me but sometimes I what I made them feel they have made me go through each day because I loved. I just feel i wanna make them feel the pain they have caused me for 2 years. But after listening to this I get it taking its just gonna cause you more pain. Its going to be next to impossible to me but i believe I can make it because with GOD everything is possible. Amen.
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Have heard this video daily like almost for 4-5 months 4 years back then. It indeed helped in ways. And indeed best revenge is taking no revenge.
This helped me so much. Thank you for this video. I'm going through a really hard and painful time right now. I wish everyone that is going through pain and suffering that has been caused from someone else to move on and let go. I know it's hard and i'm trying my best to let go. I loved her so much and she left me. I'm going to learn from this and become a better version of myself. Thank you again for this video.
Sebastian R hi how are you now?
Yes update :D
Same happened to me man. She left me for someone else. I did want her back but now after she handled things I think I can do better.
wish you only peace and true love xx
I've forgot the toxic person....and thankfully moved on....nobody can dare hurt me now
I noticed she was cheating on me on 28th Dec 2019.....
This is the fourth time ladies have betrayed me.....I hate love......Love is Scam....
I am gonna move on.......I am strong, I believe in me.
Be strong brother, May God be with you in this moment of Pain 💐
Same as me4🤣🤣.. Evrytime got ditched.. But I Still Love them but don't want them anymore😊
Bro my ex cheated on me on the 29th... these girls aren’t loyal anymore these days
Certainly you deserve better. At the right time you will get it ..
2 girls betrayed me. I loved sincerely . But I don't know where is the problem .When I look them ok for me. When I talk them ok for me . But they are cheating. I don't know how to trust a girl. Totally overwhelmed them ..