How To Stop Being Shy And Quiet - 12 Tips To Overcome Shyness
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- čas přidán 12. 06. 2024
- Follow these strategies and learn how to overcome shyness and become more confident in life. Self consciousness can be a major factor and a cause of a lack of self confidence. But, if you don’t start talking to people, you will never stop being shy and awkward. It’s important to practice talking more openly with friends, family and even complete strangers.
This sounds scary at first, but if you want to overcome shyness and social anxiety, you need to put yourself around people. You will get used to it. So give yourself a chance and start saying yes to invitations. This will allow you to be around people and socialize with others who share your interests.
Taking care of yourself can totally boost your confidence! Even just small things, like: showering, flossing your teeth and keeping your nails trimmed can make a big difference in how you feel about yourself. In addition, to gain confidence and self esteem, find something you enjoy and know you are good at. Knowing that you possess some unique quality will help you accept yourself - wholeheartedly.
By practicing the self confidence tips on this list every day, you can slowly overcome shyness and become more confident, until you can publicly display who you are - without fear of being judged.
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The main reason of shyness for me is my height... Everyone teases me bcoz of my short height...And so I don't like to socialize thinking that everyone will make fun of me!!😢😢
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Owesome
the clickbaity thumbnail gave me a bad first impression and in fact this video has come up recommended before and I didn't click on it for that reason. But after giving it a chance the content was good
I’m so shy I feel like everybody is judging me even when they’re not
Same I feel uncomfortable around some people
I wanna be a judge in the future
yea me too
Same
Same army💜
Shy, quiet or introverted people thumbs up! Let's see how many of us there are. 😊 There's nothing wrong with us! We are who we are, we are perfectly fine and we are not on our own. 😄 Lots of love to each of you 😘
Lol I agree but being socially awkward is embarassing honestly.
To Priscilla Owusu Pankyee
Your initial reaction might be to feel embarrassed or you have an option to concentrate on something positive about yourself. At the end of the day, most shy or introverted people are perceived badly by themselves not by others.
Introvert doesn't mean shy though
Introvert is far from being shy 🙄Im an introvert too I prefer silence over talking but that doesn’t mean that I dont want to socialize,there are certain times when I just want to blurt everthing inside my mind and become an extrovert or maybe im both lol cant understand myself
raul castaneda
Maybe you're an ambivert?
My problem:
1.Bad at making friends
2.Always quiet
3.Insecure always
4.Looks at yourself in the mirror too much
5.Always different from other ppl
5. It is ok to be different. You will develop your own identity.
Same
omg you're so different and quirky and unique!!! you're always different from other people wow!!!1!1!1!!
@@suryanshu_jha sometimes it's sadly true
I also looks at the mirror to myself too muchhh ...
It's so easy to say "accept yourself, don't be shy, be open with people, trust yourself!"
But they can't understand how hard it is for me :(
I can accept myself easily but that is difficult for me to talk with relatives friendly
If you don't accept yourself, don't expect someone will.
Nobody helped me with that so i started to help myself
True
@@callmeflower6901 which procedures are you doin to help ur self
with my friends, you wouldn't even know I'm a shy person but once I'm in a class without my friends I instantly become so shy
Maggie Same😖😖😖
my butt hurts
Same 😭 it’s nice to know that there’s other people though
Maggie omg same
That’s the same for me because last year I would get in trouble and would talk a lot but now all my friends aren’t in my class anymore so I barely talk anymore
We all shy people are very active and comfortable on internet but in real life we're exactly opposite.
Yes. I feel like the internet is like a safe spot to do whatever we want (minus telling personal information)
super true ;-; i hate this
y so accurate
Yes you are right
Yes you are right bro
I wish my whole classmates were shy and awkward just like me:')
They are
Same
I also 🙁😗
Same
Yes
I can't even talk to my aunt or any side families without them talking to me first. Like back then I was really close to my cousins but then I grew up and now I can't even have a conversation with them.
I also have experienced this
Finally someone who feels like me. The awkwardness between our family members, trust me I know that feeling
Exactly like me I didn't even talk with them still now sometimes they asks "is she dumb?"but what to do I am so shy to talk with others😢
I had no idea anyone else felt this way! I jus hope my cousins and extended family know how much I love them even tho I feel shy around them cause I hardly ever c them anymore
Same, I also feel awkward around relatives especially when our families don't see and interact with each other as much, we rarely visit each other so it's so awkward sometimes, my dad has like 5, 6 or 7 siblings who are my aunts and uncles and they have all have children close to my age and older, my mom was an only child. When we go visit them my siblings and I are always hesitant and even don't want to go since we don't interact much with them especially me since I'm so shy and socially awkward, my mom gets hesitant too but she say we've gotta make an effort, I don't interact with my cousins much except with my two cousins who are women, both in their mid twenties, I'm 19, they are so nice to me and I enjoy talking to them, we are like the only few girls in our family tree, I'm the youngest girl, I have another cousin who lives in mexico, she is 30 and I barely know her, the rest of my cousins are guys and so are most of my dad's siblings, he has two sisters. When we visit them, I only shake hands and greet and ask how they are doing and they ask me the same but I feel so awkward inside and from there I go sit somewhere and just be on my phone, this is how is it at parties and social gatherings, there are so many people and they all interact sometimes my dad be interacting with so many people, my mom interacts with a few, my brothers sometimes interacting together with some of our boy cousins and then there is me who is just sitting there on my phone, it's so hard to start a convo even with my relatives 😭😭😂😂
I used to be talkative when I was a kid but so much happened to me I turned into a completely shy introvert. I can't even make an eye contact.
YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING IF YOU WANT BETER LIFE! ITS YOUR LIFE
@@finter6827 what do i gotta do? Please tell me
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@@susankoech I believe this youtuber can explain better name is "How To Beast" and
@@susankoech czcams.com/video/Ff0-MhZ4Idw/video.html
@@susankoech thats one good video
To all the shy people out there
Let's be friends
Faith Darden yay
Hi
Ok
Hii
We should make a shy group
I'm sensitive.
I'm shy.
I'm lonely.
I'm quite.
I feel insecure.
Weak.
Cries easily.
But...
✨💛but i still love myself💛✨
Edit:uthtcmbngvbvgdd jgjbjhgggjgjgufvhhfurefhv MAMA I'M FAMOUS 😭😭😭😭😱😱
You nice, keep going 😌
One word for u :
Army?
@@gt-8353 Let's start with Boy scouts first
Cool story. Sensitive is good and all but you need to have a pair at the same time.
Yeah I’m not buying it lol but do you
I'm jaelous with my classmates because they can actually talk infront of class with confidence and I'm just looking at them trying to imagine that's me
dear… creat your best version of yourself.. just creat how and who you want to be.. how you want to live.. and imitate it.. you’ll be what you want when you face your fear and stay away from your comfort zone
Same me 😭
IM SO SHY AND I THINK PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING AT ME 😧
Ugh! I feel you..
It's fine!!stay strong your amazing!!
Shout at them "WHAT ARE YOU STARING AT ME FOR?" or stare back
Youre the only one who thinks of that. That's what my friend told me.
Same here when I go out
I'm not a shy person. The problem is that sometimes I don't know what to say I always run out of topics
Josue lopez ikr me too
Me tooo!!!! I would talk to everyone if I would know what! It's annoing!I'm not shy I just don't know what to talk about!
I got the same problem.
Yeah me too. But i am also shy and socially awkward.
I have the same problem. I just can't find a way to start a conversation with someone.
Is anyone else confident but just an introvert or their mind goes blank when meeting someone new? Just me? Ok
I'm exactly the same.
I like meeting new people. ...hi
@Deuz Lobusta No one ever tries to talk to me in real life I feel like I'm living in a fucking ghost world, as for me I never know what to say to anyone so I never end up talking to anyone
@Deuz Lobusta Thanks for the response it helps, good luck to you
@@krispysback happens with me most of time
Sometimes when l walk l feel like l'm on the red carpet when everyone stares at u
Exactly
I end up walking like a zombie.
@@idonthaveaname.7911 ,😂👍🤣
Exactly same I feel very shy to walk when people are around
Why is this so true??
I'm even feeling shy to comment on some video
True
kkkkkk
Same
You'll get over it just do it more often
@@mepmop616 i believe in you♡
It's annoying how people say "do you talk"??? Or they ask your friends "does she talk??" And when you finally say a word they are all like "OMG, she can talk!!!"
Punch them
Duyfer fur you don’t just punch random people, and you’d get In trouble
People dont realize how hurtful those comments are.
Ik so annoying
@@bprvgtim9603 Ya that was my situation about 2 yrs ago thankfully not anymore but gurl it is really annoying
Nowadays I am learning to be myself and also learning to not care about others thoughts 😤😤😀
same so hard for me
👍👍me tooo
Same! It takes time but you know the saying, "the best things take time" 🙂
I already thought of this a year ago I didn't help
I never thought I was shy but like every person in my class is like “your so quiet you never talk”
Sooo now I’m here😑😓
That's what I do. I don't care If any of my classmates find me in here, all they have to do is read how i feel
Sameee😭🤣
i’m going through the comments and i finally feel like someone understands me
Same
Same
Same I'm here for you
Same😌
@@saoirsehegarty2764 hahaahaha,I was thinking the same thing!😂
The problem is when I try to push myself to talk I end up making situation awkward. I dont even know how to talk like a normal person anymore.
Same here
Same
Ikr like sometimes i don’t even know what i am saying
Ugh I relate so much! like if I'm in a group and they ask my opinion, they look at me and wait for me to speak, I usually don't know what to say, I stutter and end up saying something awkward making it awkward cause they're just like what?😭
Same here 🥺 and it feels so fake , and I tell myself it's not me , why I'm doing this
Shy people seems to have two characters....i.e. comfortable in online but shy and timid in reality😁. It's me🤣
Same 2ll
What?! We're the same 😅😅🤣🤣
Exactly 🤕🤧
Same dude
count me in hahaha
At school when the teachers call for me for attendance my anxiety goes 📈📈
But then at home I'm literally *the opposite*
being shy is different from social anxiety.
@@nalaerii2362 what’s the differences??
@@lara-vu4ie hi!! I'll use dictionary definitions to clarify this, so u know it's not just coming from me :)
to be a shy person: "nervous or timid in the company of other people."
social anxiety: "an overwhelming *phobia* of social situations like meeting or speaking to people."
social anxiety is a *disorder* that possibly stems from childhood or certain social experiences the person has been through, while shyness is more of a trait and can be more temporary + isn't necessarily a part of your personality but also isn't a disorder.
In general, the main symptoms that separate shyness from SAD are:
-The impairment of functioning that it causes in a person’s life
-The intensity of the fear
-The level of avoidance
according to an article about this,
"People with social anxiety disorder don’t just feel nervous before giving a speech. They may worry about the speech for weeks or months beforehand, lose sleep due to anxiety, and have intense symptoms of anxiety during the feared situation such as a racing heart, shortness of breath, sweating, or shaking.
The symptoms usually do not go away but get worse as the situation progresses. The person with SAD usually realizes that their fears are unfounded but is still unable to control them."
I hope this helped!
I'm not quiet...I just afraid if I'm being ignored...😂
Exactly what i feel
"what if i say something and get ignored that would be soo awkward maybe i should just stay quite" i am way to shyyy
I’m really quiet when I talk so sometimes people don’t hear me and that just makes me feel like oof I don’t wanna talk.
Same tho 😗
Yaaa i think im too!!
Same here but i can't make eye contact with the person 😔🤦♀️, i think i'm kind of a shy girl 😌
Why don't they teach these stuff at school 😭
OMG thanks for the likes💓
Yes..
Because increase our confident is so hard
there is nothing wrong with being shy though
@@raninafisah23 no because learning that Mitochondria is the power house of a cell is more important than this!!😂
Ha trust
Exactly
First of all when I go outside I feel people are staring at me .and the second things is that I don't know how to talk to others without any fear 🥺
is it just me but i get sweats all over my body just because of the thought that everyone is looking at me and judging my whole being.
I see “ She’s so Dumb” look everyone’s face. It’s terrible, I’m some situations I feel everyone thinks I’m ugly and stupid.
I can give a presentation perfectly without feeling awkard
But I don't know why I can't talk with my relatives without felling insecure
My lot of relatives calls me dumb for this. next year I try to change myself And be socialize
I always feel like my life would be so much more exciting and meaningful if I didn’t have social anxiety
True.
Social anxiety is bad men
I think I'll be shy forever. When I'm talking to someone I do some very weird movements because I feel extremely discomfortable and nervous. I can't even pay attention to the conversation because I think the person that I'm talking to is thinking about how awkward I am all the time. It's an infinite loop and I can't get out of it or even control it. (Yeah, I need some serious help)
Hitlerzinho Kawaii I can relate sooooooooooooo much
Yeah
Me too some times
All my life i was told that im shy and too quiet...that did nothing but fed my shyness
Me too omg
It just makes me feel like defined and labeled and people won’t allow me or accept me to be any other way.
It’s ruined my life too, in so many ways. Not having any friends at all for your entire life changes your life. Because of it I’m a stripper because I have no friends anyway, so who is even going to judge me for being a stripper?
Every time I try to go out and make friends I get bullied and targeted for being shy and awkward, in turn making me even more shy and awkward as well.
that was in the past and unfortunately affects the present now but the past cannot be changed, right, i have to move on, be confident so i won't fuck my future as well. Don't let your shyness destroy your life guys, don't look back, don't look around, look ahead and smile. Peace
Same
Everyone at my school just labels me as shy and quiet. It’s really depressing :\
The Hound I've overcome self doubt and other internal problems and have discovered self love. I encourage you all to believe in yourselves and fuck any and all negativity. If nobody else gives a damn know that I do and I believe in y'all. I just graduated high school I'm 18 and I don't know if I'm ready for this fucked up world yet. Smh 😔
I am shy + afraid
I am active when I am alone but when I see people my character suddenly changes
I behave like seeing humans for the first time and that is so weird
Me too
Me too
Same. Here
That's me
Mee too 😭😭😭. Infront of other my body movement transform to more shy movements.
“Easiest way to overcome social anxiety is to say whatever is on your mind” - Axel Dobbins
People: why are you so quite? Are you shy type?
Me: why tf are you so noisy? Are you annoying type?
thats what im thinking to.
😂 haha
You are right 😂
Good one
Quiet* 😅
when i realize how many people are like me i dont feel alone anymore, i just cant relate to all the annoying people out there
Me too
Yeah I feel like making friends with some peeps here
Ikr so many ppl out there are introverted, shy, quiet, ext, but the thing is..I CAN NEVER FIND THEM AT SCHOOL AND STUFFFF
After reading some of the comments It makes me feel happier to know that I'm not alone and can relate :)
I m very shy that I am not talking with anyone that I m very emotional ... I don't make friends for the worry of I lose them🙄 ; I even not able to talk confidently..😣
Edit - I see all comments all are relatable...I m very happy that anyone is like me!!
Thnks for reading 😜❤
*When you're still shy after watching this...*
Same
Same ;-;
Me 1
Me too
😆😆😆
am very happy to know that there's many people like me. Sometimes I feel like am not normal
Same here
HAHAHAHA
I always feel as tho there's a wall between me and my friends/family.
I'm nothing like them.
I feel the same way
Same we feel you
Step one: accept yourself
Me: closes video
*I knew this was going to be impossible*
Edit: Heyyyyy its been 2 years since I've commented that and I just wanted to say that I am now confident in myself and less shy, no I didn't follow the video but things do get better
Nailed it
You can change this
@@musabadam3059 how-
haha.. same xd
fr
I'm a shy and introverted person when I meet new people. But I do talk to them with a 'not so comfortable' feeling. And when I start to know them, I become the most talkative and extorverted person
Judgement is the top reason of shyness and lack of confidence. Sad but true.
Twice Tzuyu x Itzy Ryujin Ik I’m always scared that someone is gonna judge me for who I am so that’s why I keep to myself...
Twice Tzuyu x Itzy Ryujin
100% agree. This is the reason I changed and became shy... No matter what, someones always going to have something to say.
People talk bad about me when I didn't even do anything
Same,I don't say anything because I think I sound dumb.
So true 100%
I'm very shy to Asking question or answer to teacher even I know the answer I just don't want to say... It's hard to change 😕
I really didn't expect there are so many people felt the same feeling....
Guys I'm really happy to let u know this...Everyday, I am reading so many quotes and learn to do it in my life...
U guys always should need to think that different people need to be don't care about others...
Just live for u & for u only 🤗🤗🤗
Confident is the key of success 🗝️🎹 If u want success, come n join with me friends....We are confident squad 😘😘😘
I'm the same way
Same
What exactly came in to your mind that time ?
Same and there was a time that my teacher call me in front of my classmates and hold chin then forcing me to talk in front of them
It is 😔
When I'm with my friends I'm the weirdest person ever but when I'm like not with them I'm so shy especially when my crush looks at me I feel shy and look away :/
Agreed
I am so shy I can talk to you in text about anything but in person i won’t talk to you lmao
Did i just find my sister in the chat i say so much in real life i cant even say hi
alfred aquino same here
Me too.
Me too
same
I hate being shy!! I'm crying knowing that I have to watch this video so people would stop saying i am shy!!
I'm in the same boat
I feel sorry for you
Sorry hun
Nita Bailey having social anxiety disorder is like being tortured, unfortunately it never goes away.
I ABSOLUTELY HATE IT!😭😭😭
Shy people are actually sympathetic and good hearted people.
I used to be extrovert kid
Watching a cartoon where silent kids was looks cool dark
But
Now being introvert and shy gives me depression
I've just accepted I don't like being around people
You lie to yourself ... Deep down you want have friends and a love life .. don't let's your anxiety fuck your future and make you a desperate person without life
Faith Greene perfectly fine as long you enjoy it
Fahrudin Catic thank you
Faith Greene I’m with you Faith
Me too
'making eye contact '...thats really difficult for me. I can't even last one second looking at someone else 😭
me either but im working on looking at people straight in the eye when im talking to them.
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Try looking at the thing above the others eyes no idea what's it called in English ^^ it's "stirn" in German
Honey don't feel lonely many of us can relate I just don't understand why some of us are nervous like this I know it's natural but when I act awkward I feel embarassed.
purple herbiscus me too
I used to be a very talkative person and had a lots of friends. Then I moved to another country. Here I'm so shy even though I've found some good friends. I'm not fluent in their language. So, I talk less. Anyway this video helps me a lot. Thanks. Thanks for the people who've read this.
I'm anxious talking and chatting with my new classmates. I don't know what to do until I saw this video. Thank you!
*How CZcams knew that I am shy and quite and recommended me this?*
Happened for me too bro
I dont got this video im not shy
There everywhere
If you know what i mean
Same😅
Haha same.
When I talk people I feel shy but when I chat I'm different 😂😂
mohammad al amin same
mohammad al amin *MEEEEEEEEE*
mohammad al amin that was me a year ago, believe me shyness get worse by the time
mohammad al amin same lol!
Same
Eish I'm so shy... I'm always alone in my room... I have low self esteem... Im really trying to change but it doesn't happen 😭😭😭
i’m a very quiet person and VERY very shy. loads of social anxiety. so this one time i ended up doing this drama class where i had to audition for a part, and we all had to sing a song. when it was my turn i didn’t sing the song. i whispered it. my teacher though, was aware that i was extremely shy and anxious. she understood me and asked if i was nervous. i said yes, and she said she gets it and everyone is nervous their first day. she said i didn’t have to finish the song. she ended up giving me a small speaking part and asked me if i was okay with that. it was the kind of part i wanted since it was my first time. i love people like her because they understand social anxiety and shyness. a lot of teachers make you talk louder, or get mad when you can’t speak up. i’m just glad Miss Lindsay understood.
Are you here because you are shy??
Once Stephan hawking said that quiet person has loudest mind.
Edit: If you are shy and quite, then you got some super power. Don't think about your superpower as how others think instead search how you are benefited by it.
You know, I m quite person and I don't tend to be shy- it comes automatically.(You don't really need to control it, but be prepare for next time, when you gonna visit others- they may point you out like why are you so quite?why are you shying? So be ready for those situation.)
Learn how to deal with them.
Let me tell you one more thing- quite and shy person do best in the society. So smile & go ahead in your journey, you are going right way!
Not all quiet people have loud minds.
True i don't talk but i think a lot in my mind.
Ive social anxiety
True
@@user-cq8pq8hq8e same as me I think alot!
I’m so shy I hardly even talk in school
Same here
I am so low confident....i feel like a loser...
Me too #😥
i’m so glad i have people i can relate too
Same but when its lunch time and im with my friends im the loudest😂😂😂
I always critisize and compare myself to people's standards, and it always made me anxious and depressed. This video was helpful, I feel like trying to socialize and meet new people.
im so shy i was absent for two days straight in class and no one even noticed, not even the teachers. Im fucking invisible.
That always happens with me!! v_v
Everyone says i am to quiet and shy or i can't speak it's just make's me lose my confidense 😢
alpha wolf me too bro
patriarch wolf same😢
I've experienced the same. You just gotta be positive about yourself, don't listen to those people you can change that. All you need to do is practice, it really will get better, trust me! :3
You why we loose confidence? It is because we think looking confident is looking good and we can’t look bad. There is nothing wrong with looking bad. After all we’re still human being, don’t need to be perfect all the time. Embrace looking bad and free yourself from that mental trap.
@@roundlaker007 Yeah, it's ok to be shy. Just be yourself :)
1. Accept yourself
Well that'll be easy, I've only been trying to do that for a whole *year*
Accept the whole year🐷
Cat Crazy Caticorn riiiiiight🤧🤦🏽♀️😔
I've been trying to accept myself for 5 years now and still trying :/ so yeah lol same
i’ve been trying to do that for my whole life 😍
Ah I have finally found my kind of people who understand the struggles
Bro, this video is THE ULTIMATE video to end shyness once and for all, once again I'm in your debt, friend, I cant thank you enough, I sub.
I am so shy while talking with anyone this video is so helpful 👍
I can talk to people if they strike up a conversation with me but I feel shy when others don't try to talk with me.
Same
Holy shit!!!! The exact same thing happens to me
Shmu10 me too
I cannot talk to someone I don't know unless they talk to me first.
Even then I really only give one/two word answers.
My family and two of my friends are the only people I'm completely open with and even with them I keep a lot closed off and hidden.
Mee too
Same here but I been just asking peoples name and some of them open up after awhile
I am feeling happy that there are the people like me shy.
Yeah...
I am also feeling happy
Kya hum iss baare mein ek dusre se baat kr skte hain....
✋ same amma
when I'm with my close friends, I'll be the first who's start a conversation and I'm not ashamed if I make a funny face but when I'm in a class without my friends I instantly become so shy
samee
I use to be shy, but then i discovered something: whenever i had a problem ( felt pain or had an exam or forgot something to do or whatever) my shyness disappeared and i could talk just like that, i wasn't embarrassed in a group of people, i was a different person... So this means that shy people pay to much attention on themselves, they protect themselves, they feel like they are in some kind of a danger all the time... Just don't pay attention on YOURSELF, or at least try not to
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It feels good while reading the comments that there are so many people like me. I hardly find a shy person like me in the actual life.
I am always in the search of a person who is shy like me, does anyone else do that?
Btw never found anyone like me so far.
Shashwat Choudhary ; me too
@@iduiniemmanuel9422 I guess I am not alone then.
Ya
shashwat did you use to study in central school Dubai before?
stop findind yrr try to make youeself more confidentt u have no need to find other nake special as much special others try to find uu but not u
Is it Just me Or whenever i get a Compliment I became Shy as Hell.
Mystic Donutz yes sameee
Yeah it’s personality.
Yes i becomo tomato
Because of the fear of for example not giving a correct answer to a question the teacher asked. There is this weird feeling when u disappoint someone when they just complimented you.
its not just you
To stop saying "I am shy" and starting conversations with known/unknown people are the things that have been helping me a lot
I've been really shy for the last 3 years, I never tried to fix it but thanks for the video, I'm gonna try these, hopefully they work 😀
Whoever made this video, you don’t understand. To get rid of social anxiety and shyness isn’t something we can do on 1.2.3. It takes lots of lots of time
You right
100% Agree.
Yesssirrr sadly
Ya exactly
Yes, it would be easier for someone scared of heights to jump out of a plane than a shy person to speak to a crowd.
1:10,this is what my mother tells me "No one is looking at you,they are busy looking at themselves,don't feel shy".😂😂😂
Thats true
😅😅it's right
I'm too afraid of what people think of me. Hence, I try avoid conversation with them 🙄
I cant even look at someones eyes i tried but my eyes is looking away on its owner
+Qurrota A'yuni Mar'atut Tabrizah thats paranoia😌
I'm shy and introverted person but after watching this video it enlighten me so much. Thank you, from now on I'm optimistic to be as good as other confidents out there.
My insecurity peaks when I comment on a video where every other comment have likes in thousands but mine still gets ignored which I feel also happens in real🙂🙃
I thought I was only one who is like this but their are many 😮
Hi
I know :o
Hi IAM Tamil
I don't like being with people for a long time they drain me..
same my parents thinks it werid not my fault I need alone time with cats and sleeping
Yea especially at a place with a lot of people. I like small groups or just being by myself lol. Gives me anxiety.
Same i thought im the only one like i even make excuses just to get out
hi. what does ( drain) mean
So youre an introvert
I am so grateful for this video. It’s really inspiring for me and the author give some a really great advices. Thank you so much
Thank you so much for uploading this kind of video, it really helps a lot.
I feel less shy when I pretend to be an alien from space.
Dawn Captain lol
Haha
Dawn Captain think others as your long lost siblings 😋
Lol
Dawn Captain 😆😆😆Alien? ?
It's really awkward when you try to speak and get frequently interupped by someone else whose normal speaking voice is louder than yours after waiting for a lull in the conversation to try to jump in
😂😂😂
Exactly!
Samee :(
It really is awkward....
I met this guy and he is soo nice.. he sees me so shy sitting in the corner of the group and he keeps talking to me. Now i want to make a whole conversation with him but i’m sooo shy!!!
I've been shy my whole life I hate the fact everyone thinks I don't talk. Only my friends know how I really am. I wish I could just talk without being so scared of what people think of me :/
I am very very shy..I have met millions of shy people but not one if them are as shy as me...😭...at school I'm known as the "quite shy girl"...I try not to be shy I try to talk but no words come out of my mouth...I often shake extremely during presentations...I can't control it....i dont say not one single word at school ..not one word comes out of my mouth..and the days I do, the whole class gets shocked coz they hardly ever hear my voice ..i jus wish someone was like me.
Edit:! I'm so glad that I found out I'm not the only one!..I feel more confident now and not so alone. Thank you all and Its great to know that there are still some beautiful hearts left in this world. ❤
Honey I understand you I'm also shy know that you're not alone in this there are many people like you and I.There are many famous singers and performers who have achieved a lot they didn't allow their shyness to hold them back.Personally I feel shyness can't be overcome shy people are naturally born this way.But I believe you can achieve a lot.
Priscilla Owusu Pankyee 😢thank you
hey dear.. i use to be the same when I was at school, i never use to talk to anyone but girl u know we shy people are very creative but feels shy to tell anyone about our talent...im sure u must be having lot of talent, just believe in yourself and don't think what others will think. just enjoy and do what ever you like n you will see that slowly ull overcome from ur shyness. not completely but yes ull feel good n confident. today I m not the same person as I use to be in school I've changed a lot. n i believe that you too can do that😊🌻
kratika lad thankx i feel much better knowing I'm not the only one..yes you are right I am very talented, and I'll try to believe in myself.❤ thank you for giving me hope that things will turn out better. 🏆👑🔥
m here
I wish I had invitations to decline...
Justlaura i feel u
Same 😭
Hahaha ikr
Justtamara me too😭
hahah same here
Me trying to being social
Me: hello
Stranger: hi
awkward silence
Again
Me: hi
Stranger: hello
(My mind)
WTF🔥🔥🔥
sameee
Hello
I'm feel like we were brothers in previous life
lmao same 😭✊
Why does the same happen with me
As a physically challenged woman I've been shy my entire life but it's totally worked out for me because whenever I'm in public situations everyone ignores me which is exactly what I want.😁
You know back when I was 7 years old, I always used to be an extroverted person. But ever since I grew older, I feel left out and became an introvert.
Same here
😓😓😓
Introverts don't equal shy tho
@@Lee-qy8zs same
IKR so unfair 😢😭
One time our teacher was chatting with us, a group of 8 people, and suddenly told everyone not to talk except for me. All of them waited for me to talk but I didnt say anything. After a few seconds of silence, they continued their conversation. It was really uncomfortable.
Kari Cast this was me for a year but with the whole class instead of 8 people.
You guys are not alone
kari kari was your teacher trying to embarrass you, or hoping to spark your brain into action.
ikr and it would feel like a long time
Girl! i hate those teachers, do they even realise that it makes us more uncomfortable.
I really appreciate this opportunity to stop being shy
What a world! If u can't talk due to shyness, they think it's ur attitude 🥺
Im so shy and tommorow we have a experiment show individually in front of the class one by oneeee!! Im so scareddd!!!😭😭😭
How did it go??
I hate presentation
I hate being in front of class and im insecure about myself :
Ive read your comment girl, keep going!
Omg these things kill me!!!! I understand youuu😭
Scrolling through the comments had me felt relieve that i am not alone and many ppl are actually experiencing what i am going through 😣
I’m only quiet because whenever i share anything people always judge me 👀✌️
Shyness is a disease for me high school sucks for me because I am lonely because of my shyness. Some people asked me if I wanted to sit with them. I really wanted to say yes but my shyness prevented me from sitting with them. I always wish there was a shyness club where a group of shy people are gathered together and become friends.
I can understand u😯
i m also very shy
Me too. I've got that too.
Kinda similar to your situation but I don't consider myself shy (only around women) But I do suffer from social phobia , it prevented me from making new friends. As a result , I didn't have many friends in high school. I didn't have any friends at all in college. I'm 23 years old and I still don't have a girlfriend. But its okay because who says you need a woman to make you happy. I'll just get a pet to keep me company.
Can relate although I think I would've said yes if people wanted to sit with me
I was so shy back then. But I decided to overcome my shyness by engaging myself in customer service kind of work. I deal with local and foreign clients and tend to adjust my self into different kinds of people with different kinds of attitude. Now I can see that I'm improving and saw that I developed my skills in approaching people.
When something scared you, don't try to walk away. You need to face your fear. You'll eventually see the best version of your self😃
Great saying 👍
It is true. You have to overcome your shyness. People don't care what you do. They are always busy improving themselves.
How??
You are so right. Thankyou so much thus helped me loads😘
I hate how people will be like " omg you can talk!" and then my confidence goes⬆↗➡↙⬇ and in class i never raise my hand because i will turn into a literal tomato and because i hate how everyone has to look at you and i hate that
Sameeeee I rarely raise my hand in class and my teachers are always like RaIsE YoUR hANd MoRE
Same and one time this boy force me to read something out loud
SAME I GO RED LIKE A TOMATO
I luv is when I raise my hand people just close their eyes And ears .😂 I am sure i always raise my hand
SAME.
I literally can't handle too many eyes on me when i speak, my mind goes blank and forget what i was going to say and i will talk very quietly almost whispering.