I suspect my wife cheated on me and our newborn is not really my child | EP 3.
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No there is just too much coincidence to leave this, he needs to confront the wife asap and do a DNA swap with the baby and himself without letting anyone else know if it
I would invite "Mark" over for dinner and keep the glass he drinks out of to get his DNA for a paternity test. I also agree with Hodo that there are insecurities from both sides and that needs to be addressed internally before articulating anything to anyone else, insha'Allah khair Allah guides all parties involved to do the right thing Allahumma Ameen.
Waiting for this to do an update as this is very unfortunate and very odd beheaviour. With many questionable things the most shocking thing in the 1st day baby comes home. Normal mother wod want to be alone with baby and rest. Mark comes bashing with gifts n wife shout at hubby to let him in. This very unusual odd
There is a Hadith similar to this where a man doubted the paternity of a child because they were darker. The child being darker in itself is not a reason to suspect. Genetics are a tricky thing and our kids don't always look like us. That said, he doesn't have to let anyone know if he gets the child's DNA tested. This is simple to do. He should have the child tested and keep that information to himself because if he is wrong about his wife, this level of mistrust alone could ruin a marriage.
As a muslim woman she shouldnt be so close with a non mahram man phone number chatting ect.
Agreed
I feel so sorry for this brother, he sounds like such a nice guy who doesn't deserve this. Hope he gets a DNA test ASAP!
He should tell Mark that he knows what happened and if it did happen, Mark will confess for sure!
He should man up and get a paternity test!
I think the shade of the baby isn't as a big of a deal. I am Pakistani as well- My grandparents are around the same skin tone as me, but my mother is lightskin. The hospital staff were shocked that a brown couple had a white babyđ
Yes and many light Pakistani couples have dark babies
Everyone's giving the wife the benefit of doubt. My guts saying something. She's comparing him to Mark physique. She's got his number. This mark is showing up with gifts on the 1st day the baby delivered? He shows up in their house when baby comes with more gifts, wife gets angry at the husband that she wants mark there. Most wife's want a break and be alone when they first come home with their baby.
Major gaslight is the grocery shopping that Mark left, when husband came back late. She's just shrugs her shoulders at the question of why not order off a delivery service?
She openly physically compared mark to her husband saying how much more handsome mark is.
These hijabi s in the video are really biased. Their something going on. The husband needs a dna test
The moment your partner shows they are not comfortable with you talking to a person who is the opposite gender out of respect you should distance yourself from that person..brother needs a DNA test then he should then from there he should make whatever decision he feels best.. and he should speak to mark as a man and tell him stay away from his wife .. problem is sometime people have a problem and just leave hoping it will get better without actually doing anything
Finally the lighting is better and I can actually see the writing at the back
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Btw ruksathi is the cermony after nikkah when the bride moves in with the groom or grooms family x
Amazing as always! I really hope there's an update to this đą
He should just get the child tested, and depending on the results go from there.
Imagine if the roles were reversed and he was acting that way with a non Mahram women.
The fact the Mark turned up to the hospital with gifts and again at home ASAP as they discharged ,that is his baby, or atleast he wanted to confirm his or not his
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There are two sides to every story however as a Married Muslim woman she shouldn't be entertaining Mike, and closed that door. It all starts from a meaningless conversation until you end up committing zina. At the same time unless you see your wife committing zina (plus witnesses) you can't make accusations like this. It's a serious thing! He made a mistake when he invited Mike to his house and introduced him to his wife.
Witnesses is not needed in this case. There is sth called Lian in islam, in which a husband can accuse his wife of zina without 4 witnesses. The concept is in the Quran n Sunnah. For example: Sura Nur. By Lian if a man can disown a child which his wife got pregnant with by cheating on him.
And plus even without four witnesses ppl can get to know abt der spouses adultery. For example, one might end up encountering their spouse while committimg zina. And we can get divorce for adultery in islam.
So if a dna test is done the poor father and it turns he has not fathered the baby. Without the 3 witness does that mean she hasn't committed zina. As all the other signs are there.
She's doesn't wear a hijab in the house, gets a non mahram in house with shopping. And shrugs her shoulders at why didn't she get it from a delivery app instead?
And gas lights him
@@mohana.6185 he can disown the child. Read my comment above.
@@sophiesumleen7872 these hijabi in the video are so biased she gas lit the husband so many times. To having marks personal number, to gift shopping. To comparing mark to husband and putting husband down. I find really odd that Mark comes rushing to the hospital on 1st of delivery of baby with gifts. N when the baby comes home the wife shouts at husband to let mark in , and brings gifts. Something is happening and these hijabi are just as bad as the wife as they gas lighting the husband on social media. It not even a close friend its a neighbour. She doesn't even tell the husband that she already has the groceries - she let's the husband rush around shops after a long day while she sits comfortable. She's treating her husband badly. I would like a part 2. I feel for the husband. This behaviour is going beyond friendship and it has obviously crossed a boundary.
@@sophiesumleen7872 what is still lian in Islam?
do a dna test.
Why did the video end suddenly without finishing? Is there going to be a part 2?
1st thing I noticed is the way he described Mark. 1st 2 words he said about him After saying that he is East African, Is big and bulky. And the wife keeps talking about how hes well built. I think mark is just being nice just being nice but the husband is insecure about him and the wife might be wanting him. I say leave that poor Somali guy alone lol
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He should have left her before this happened
This is one of the reasons why you shouldnât invite a non mahram to your house⊠my husband has many good friends but my husband and I have decided for me not to socialise with them (I wouldnât want to anyways). Men have ghirah over your women! đđŒ
Rukhsati means like âgiving awayâ. Sometimes in south Asian countries the nikkah is done first instead of an engagement. This lets the bride and groom plan their wedding and all the other functions freely together. Rukhsati is event where the girl goes with her husband. Next event would be the final walima.
He needs to do dna test alone and if comes out it's not his, he should talk to his about it.
Love you channel , Keep up the good work đđđœ we NEED an update on this, Iâm too invested now haha, part 2 asap.
And thatâs just one side of the story I will make a judgment when I hear both sides because you never know⊠maybe the husband is just jealous and insecure đ€·đŸââïž
Yeahhh what I thought so too. It seems like he wants to believe she is cheating..
He is definitely on something, why would your wife had markâs number, why is he everywhere he isnât meant to be in. I fully understand the husband position regarding this
This is horrible. Get a DNA test
is it just me or does the girl on the right looks like maya jama
I come from a very similar background: and I see two scenarios here. Usually like the guy mentioned that moving to UK seemed like another world to them, there js a chance when people experience such a major change in their lives, that they sort of lose value and enjoy experiencing this sort of â freedomâ. This happens to newbies a lot often than the people who are used to this environment already. His Wife maybe experienced this hence the interactions with him without much hesitation and other things Only Allah knows.
Second scenario would be the wife being very sure of herself, seeing him nothing more than a friendly neighbor helping her out and maybe as a â friendâ like you mentioned in the video. On this side the husband may be experiencing low self esteem and of course a right to jealousy as his ghira as a man. Whereas in in the wife doesnât think of it that deep.
Now once again since they said they are from Pakistan, we all know how the color of the babies generally works. The grandparents or anyone in their family could have been darker causing the baby to look so. I have members in my family with their kids having blue eyes when their parents have brown eyes. Because their ancestors Did.
Allah Knows furthur. The wife definitely needs to be more communicative
What if the baby was swapped in hospital? It's not like it hasn't happened before
I would ask to see marks baby pictures and compare
I can't find this episode on spotify
Wonder the outcome of this predicament
DNA test if i was him i'd get a dna test asap
Do a paternity test, if it not your child then you can accuse her, not before any evidence
Nah I donât believe that she got pregnant with Mark. Maybe she was flirting and lonely. Baby coming darker is not a sign. They change color while growing. But he canât continue thinking that so he needs to dna test secretly
The thing with men telling stories is they never say if they gaslight their spouse on a daily basis or are mean to them in general. The way he said it seem like he's just an innocent young married man but he may have compared his wife to some other woman he found attractive or worse. And there is a difference between being close with a guy and breaking your couple by cheating, like you said he may not know if his wife was close to guys in Pakistan so he can't just accuse his wife of cheating that's way too easy. What kind of husband are you to your wife so you have doubt this easily ? I'm not unvalidating his feelings but i've heard so many husband having doubts over bs and going around playing the victim. The excuse of the baby is dark is too dumb to be studied. It's may be just me but he sounds very controlling and doubtful with his wife.
still if she cheated those are no excuses. no one asks a woman as well when she thinks her husband is cheating, oh so how were you treating him that is considered rude and terrible. men and women can cheat and can be terrible and abusive spouses
@@GHo224 I totally agree but what I'm trying to say is controlling men always find something weird in the behavior of their spouse. If he's not the kind of guy i think he is then yes the wife is clearly having a weird behavior with their neighbor.
Also when women tell stories ppl always try and make them selfs look the best donât matter what gender
@@alexandrab5904 Also true...
'I'm not invalidating his feelings' goes on to invalidate his right feelings. It would have been easier for you to say you unequivocally support women when they are wrong than give us this nonsense diatribe.
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Itâs funny how you think of excuses for the female but when ur talking about men you donât defend anything be consistent sisters he should confront her look at life threw a manâs prospective for once stop making excuses for blatant disrespect
Bruh they encourage this behaviour tbh
To me the husband sounds super controling and insecure too...
Get a dna test