I’d like to hear exactly what happened. We are here to teach, encourage each other pls ...people heal through these testimonies. If you could drill them abit more and if they could open up abit ...
What's the big deal in dads raising their own kids singlehandedly ? Who said it's the women's job ? Its a 50/50 share of responsibility. People expect only women to be single with kids. Its high time men learn to take care of their kids and not expect gratification. Its their job too
It's not possible when you're dating to know everything about someone. Some of these things you come to know them when you're already settled. But if it's meant to, it'll be. If it's not, even if you force it, beg for it, pray for it, it'll not work.
Mwakideo pole for what happened brother. Take heart because you are not alone and your situation is not unique. It happens every day. Let me guide you what you should have done and what you should be doing sir. 1. Be always lively and loving. Act as a mother and father for him without bias 2. Never paint a negative picture of your X to her son. Be telling him its well and one day he will come to know what happened but lest he knows that you will always be there for him throughout. 3. Do anything and everything but never prioritise love over your son. Your son must gain precedence over your new lover but also do not use your son to torment your lover. It is a delicate balance but workable. We are always there for you incase you need marital and premarital counselling. 4. Now that you are dating a kidded woman with a daughter in the mix, be very careful never to allow them start sleeping with each other especially at teenage age. Guard their space jealously. It is good you got your son someone to bond with and keep company. 5. Mwakideo, in your narration you haven't told us what efforts you made to redeem your marriage. As a man you could have done more before you call it quits. Besides cheating any other issue could have been resorted-Maybe. But maybe you have your personal issues beyond public info we are getting. Marriages break. 6. Mwadideo you sound hurting son. You were real hurt. It was CHEATING no doubt. Your two pastors were the best-Pole sana. Now, learn from your mistakes. Be available emotionally, sexually and in Communication. These three areas are critical. You married beauty not heart. Joyce your show is great, keep it up. Your man is coming to your life soon. We wish you the best. Mwakideo didn't know his woman deeper which also happened in your case. Listeners, learn from this experiences and do more. Know your partner more and fight for your marriage before you quit
Proud to know this gentleman JM. May you find the strength and guidance that can only come from above. You're doing what some men won't even bother trying so great job Sir 👏👏 My only prayer is that you find happiness in this new woman and marry her. I pray you treat each other right. It's sad and extremely distabilizing for a man to choose you and your child from a past relationship and later change their mind
Nmekufeel mazee.. Ua mature.. Au confident enough to say u loved ua family en tried every means to get her back. Sasa we focuse NA life experience is The best teacher.
This story has hurt me deep. God knows you JM. God knows your heart. Whatever these marriages are going thru is totally a scheme from hell. May God refresh you bro
I love the advise; as a man " do everything to save your marriage so that when you leave your conscious is clear." Marriage is tough especially when one party doesn't want to put effort in trying to work things out.
Being a singer dad is not an easy thing.I have done it since 2016,kids need both parents but there's a scenario where a young child is subjected to violent environment.Instead of doing what will land u in jail,take care of ur kid,i know a mother should take care of a kid but when she becomes violence n abusive u have no choice but to be a mom n a dad at the same time.So mwakideo,tuko league moja n God will see us through.
I am moved so much..this guy is talking to so many pple..👏👏👏I pray that he will succeed in the second marriage. But for a woman to leave a marriage..kuna mahali huwa amefikishwa..you either shall have betrayed her..until she decided to do warever she did..Women don just leave..I swear.
One of the guys I respect a lot,, such a humble soul,, I rem you going through this period but I'm glad you soldiering on. Happy to know you as a friend.
Mwakideu used to bless me zile days alikuaga HOPE FM kwa Shangilia I bless God for him. Pole for what happened bro. JG thanks alot wewe ni wa baraka. My advice; Hama hio timu ya Arsenal kam Chelsea.
Get in to marriage because you want, lower expectations let life flow with whoever you choose,my take is this seek God first before getting to it because He know what is good for you ,some get in to relationship then call God when they have already choose the path that why they find it hard,
Long and deep story he says but elaborates nothing. but hata ikiwa wife cheated on him or whatever there must have been more mpaka he is staying na mtoto. I think background history had been hidden from him, and when true colours started revealing ...waah the pandora box was full to overflow. He is still healing so raw emotionally. Hope he is ready to move on
My respect for Mwakideu has gone a notch higher. Much respect man and all the best in your newly found love. Asa child brought up by a single parent when dad passed on at a very young age, I tell you, we understand you parent, love, appreciate and fill the gap of the absent parent with your love. Don't ever doubt that from your son ever. Hata akianza hullabalu za teenage, don't. My mum is an apple of my eye and I was my dad's heart. All the best man and keep up JG.
Mwakideo is hiding alot... he doesn't sound like a victim but the perpetrator! The story behind is infidelity he cheated and the wife cheated back hahaha n he felt like it's not easy to forgive... I stand to be corrected but feeling this is it... he took the girl back home and he was told you get what you give he felt it was unfair
Pole sana my dear,but let's not judge......if mwakideu was the cause,then he would not be given custody of a very young child. And again when men are promiscuous, then generally don't accept church intervention. Pole sana ndugu.....
Oh uh poor man .....😌. I think the best person to relate is one who has confidence and healthy secure guarded heart..... I think 🙂 . That's maoni yangu.
Kweli sana Kaka. Do all the research you should do before you get into a marriage. I feel that our brother here is not saying much, just going round in circles... You sound very evasive Mwakideu. Get healing, let God be your guide,and I pray Christ protects you ahead. If she was unfaithful,pole sana. Asante kwa kumficha alichotenda.Hongera sana. Tunakuombea mema ahead.
There is nothing like doing your home work... actually this is life n mistakes makes part of it... When you love someone you can't even see what's not there like the future of your partner failing you... pray for your spouse
He said that "men who are single parents are not given credit''. If you were an active participant in caring for your child you would have found it easier,, What he should have said is men should participate more in taking care of their kids.
One sided story is not quite convincing...is like he is not healed yet...needs to forgive to heal and be free, else he has made a good effort to come out public. May God help him .
As soon as someone starts a conversation with “mimi ndio nilikosewa” knowing so well that the other party is not around to give his/her side of the story, iko shida. No one is a saint Mwakideo, especially when it comes to marriage. Clearly, in this interview one can sense self-centred personality and masculinity tendencies. Hakuna mtu anaamka tu na kuanza vituko Hebu tusaidiane hapa jamani. What was your role in enabling the distressing behaviour?
Yes i normally tell my hubby sex is the main thing that brot us together...kama ni love i gt it from the moment i was born..kama ni kids its thru sex we gt dem
My dad means a world to me, he is not alive for me to tell him this. My mum is a foreigner and when she came to kenya it was demanded that she had to sit form 4 again in Kenya before she trained and she did, while at college my dad kept me from about a year of age, am told i was prone to pneumonia and at times he would pop in hospital with me late in the night and one time the nurses asked where the mother to this child was ... it not easy being a dad present for your child, so hats off from me
i would prefer someone to heal first before been interviewed, if you can tell what exactly happened then to me i think the interview lacks alot of meaning
Polite disclaimer Joyce my sister...... In your natural form you are a queen of hearts. You indicated you wish to get hitched one day?Avoid excessive makeup. They make you look older than your age and beauty. You send different signals at each show. You have figure, beauty, wisdom, great character, Godliness and kind heart. Your makeups make prospective men stay away, at least for those that are in your dating league-40s and 50s. Such men love natural women. Forgive me for my point of view and consider/accept my earlier disclaimer with humility. We love you big and wish you the best in your shows and love life
Wooou!huyo wife alipoteza,this guy ni wale ata akikosa ako there to tell the truth.he was a focusing man but God had a good reason to y alikatisha mapema,take heart.
@@taluj2298 remember the husband said he's also a human being, so he can make mistake, but the husband to an extend he takes back to your family ,and the parents are now beging the husband to take his family back, their must be something serious. OK its good to listen both.
I’d like to hear exactly what happened. We are here to teach, encourage each other pls ...people heal through these testimonies. If you could drill them abit more and if they could open up abit ...
U are a very strong Man ,and single women an men have to think twice before rushing to a partner I have learnt something from this show
A good guest However if one is completely unable to share the challenges faced, let him stay away from media until one is ready to share.
Absolutely 💯💯💯💯💯
What's the big deal in dads raising their own kids singlehandedly ? Who said it's the women's job ? Its a 50/50 share of responsibility. People expect only women to be single with kids. Its high time men learn to take care of their kids and not expect gratification. Its their job too
It's crystal clear you loved your wife.... Thank God now you have peace of mind... God know it all....
It's not possible when you're dating to know everything about someone. Some of these things you come to know them when you're already settled. But if it's meant to, it'll be. If it's not, even if you force it, beg for it, pray for it, it'll not work.
Hutusaidii juu husemi problems ilikua nini. Just story telling. JG hapa hujatusaidia
Safia Ahmed Absolutely💯💯💯💯💯
Mwakideo pole for what happened brother. Take heart because you are not alone and your situation is not unique. It happens every day.
Let me guide you what you should have done and what you should be doing sir.
1. Be always lively and loving. Act as a mother and father for him without bias
2. Never paint a negative picture of your X to her son. Be telling him its well and one day he will come to know what happened but lest he knows that you will always be there for him throughout.
3. Do anything and everything but never prioritise love over your son. Your son must gain precedence over your new lover but also do not use your son to torment your lover. It is a delicate balance but workable. We are always there for you incase you need marital and premarital counselling.
4. Now that you are dating a kidded woman with a daughter in the mix, be very careful never to allow them start sleeping with each other especially at teenage age. Guard their space jealously. It is good you got your son someone to bond with and keep company.
5. Mwakideo, in your narration you haven't told us what efforts you made to redeem your marriage. As a man you could have done more before you call it quits. Besides cheating any other issue could have been resorted-Maybe. But maybe you have your personal issues beyond public info we are getting. Marriages break.
6. Mwadideo you sound hurting son. You were real hurt. It was CHEATING no doubt. Your two pastors were the best-Pole sana. Now, learn from your mistakes. Be available emotionally, sexually and in Communication. These three areas are critical. You married beauty not heart.
Joyce your show is great, keep it up. Your man is coming to your life soon. We wish you the best. Mwakideo didn't know his woman deeper which also happened in your case. Listeners, learn from this experiences and do more. Know your partner more and fight for your marriage before you quit
Proud to know this gentleman JM. May you find the strength and guidance that can only come from above. You're doing what some men won't even bother trying so great job Sir 👏👏 My only prayer is that you find happiness in this new woman and marry her. I pray you treat each other right. It's sad and extremely distabilizing for a man to choose you and your child from a past relationship and later change their mind
Nmekufeel mazee.. Ua mature.. Au confident enough to say u loved ua family en tried every means to get her back. Sasa we focuse NA life experience is The best teacher.
This story has hurt me deep. God knows you JM. God knows your heart. Whatever these marriages are going thru is totally a scheme from hell. May God refresh you bro
I love the advise; as a man " do everything to save your marriage so that when you leave your conscious is clear." Marriage is tough especially when one party doesn't want to put effort in trying to work things out.
Being a singer dad is not an easy thing.I have done it since 2016,kids need both parents but there's a scenario where a young child is subjected to violent environment.Instead of doing what will land u in jail,take care of ur kid,i know a mother should take care of a kid but when she becomes violence n abusive u have no choice but to be a mom n a dad at the same time.So mwakideo,tuko league moja n God will see us through.
I am moved so much..this guy is talking to so many pple..👏👏👏I pray that he will succeed in the second marriage. But for a woman to leave a marriage..kuna mahali huwa amefikishwa..you either shall have betrayed her..until she decided to do warever she did..Women don just leave..I swear.
Pole sana ndugu heeeee,may God see you through
I feel like we have bn given 10%of the story...the gentle man has not totally healed,I pray for his speedy emotional and psychological recovery.
For real he has not healed he is kinda hurting
And with a case in court, it's important kupitia juu juu coz Everything you say can be used aganist you. It's good to be enlightend.
Mwakideu good advise - Take time, know background very very well, know family background and really do your homework very well.
Huyu ni bro wa Alex Mwakideu. Great story but angeleeza what happened iwe a reference point and a lesson to others
One of the guys I respect a lot,, such a humble soul,, I rem you going through this period but I'm glad you soldiering on. Happy to know you as a friend.
This man requires counselling
Mwakideu used to bless me zile days alikuaga HOPE FM kwa Shangilia I bless God for him. Pole for what happened bro. JG thanks alot wewe ni wa baraka. My advice; Hama hio timu ya Arsenal kam Chelsea.
Get in to marriage because you want, lower expectations let life flow with whoever you choose,my take is this seek God first before getting to it because He know what is good for you ,some get in to relationship then call God when they have already choose the path that why they find it hard,
Long and deep story he says but elaborates nothing. but hata ikiwa wife cheated on him or whatever there must have been more mpaka he is staying na mtoto. I think background history had been hidden from him, and when true colours started revealing ...waah the pandora box was full to overflow. He is still healing so raw emotionally. Hope he is ready to move on
Mwakideu keep up...you are not alone..Joyce thank you for such a programme.People are opening up.
Good job Joyce Gituro!! Keep going ;-)
Thanks dear ulipotelea wapi?
My respect for Mwakideu has gone a notch higher. Much respect man and all the best in your newly found love. Asa child brought up by a single parent when dad passed on at a very young age, I tell you, we understand you parent, love, appreciate and fill the gap of the absent parent with your love. Don't ever doubt that from your son ever. Hata akianza hullabalu za teenage, don't. My mum is an apple of my eye and I was my dad's heart. All the best man and keep up JG.
Mwakideo is hiding alot... he doesn't sound like a victim but the perpetrator!
The story behind is infidelity he cheated and the wife cheated back hahaha n he felt like it's not easy to forgive... I stand to be corrected but feeling this is it... he took the girl back home and he was told you get what you give he felt it was unfair
Pole sana my dear,but let's not judge......if mwakideu was the cause,then he would not be given custody of a very young child. And again when men are promiscuous, then generally don't accept church intervention. Pole sana ndugu.....
He's respectful to his son's mother that's why he's not xplaining much
He is a gentleman and he respects the mother of his child. That is why he is not putting ALL his business out there.
Oh uh poor man .....😌.
I think the best person to relate is one who has confidence and healthy secure guarded heart..... I think 🙂 . That's maoni yangu.
Pole Baba. Yasasa ifanye kazi tunakuombea
Very inspiring, woi beauty is not everything
Such an inspiring story,i'm also in a journey of healing and finding my inner peace.
Kweli sana Kaka. Do all the research you should do before you get into a marriage. I feel that our brother here is not saying much, just going round in circles... You sound very evasive Mwakideu. Get healing, let God be your guide,and I pray Christ protects you ahead. If she was unfaithful,pole sana. Asante kwa kumficha alichotenda.Hongera sana. Tunakuombea mema ahead.
Fun of alex mwakideu from milele. I thought it was him.😭😭😭.ANYWAY HERE AFTER MONICA KAGONI SHOW.🙏🏿❤
There is nothing like doing your home work... actually this is life n mistakes makes part of it...
When you love someone you can't even see what's not there like the future of your partner failing you... pray for your spouse
very true. homework and all cannot make anyone 100% perfect. life still happens
Nimesoma kitu muhimu Sanaa.... God bless you 🙏 Justin na joyce
Karibu
He said that "men who are single parents are not given credit''. If you were an active participant in caring for your child you would have found it easier,, What he should have said is men should participate more in taking care of their kids.
One sided story is not quite convincing...is like he is not healed yet...needs to forgive to heal and be free, else he has made a good effort to come out public. May God help him .
offcourse to you women it cannot be a womans fault there must be another reason its so typical of you self righteous gender
As soon as someone starts a conversation with “mimi ndio nilikosewa” knowing so well that the other party is not around to give his/her side of the story, iko shida.
No one is a saint Mwakideo, especially when it comes to marriage. Clearly, in this interview one can sense self-centred personality and masculinity tendencies.
Hakuna mtu anaamka tu na kuanza vituko Hebu tusaidiane hapa jamani. What was your role in enabling the distressing behaviour?
He was clearly cheated on.
Usijali maisha lazima yaendelee pengine Hakua ubavu wako..... Horesha ngolo mwanidu.....
Nice!
Bro, like ua pieces of advice...u can b vry good marriage counsellor..be blessed men🙏
May God give you more happeness
Nice
I feel like ths show was very poorly done...as in,story iko so shallow..that's my take
Yes ,the guy is very very shallow in his sharing?! ,anasema tu vitu zilifanyika,..it can't help someone out there...
Pole bro...it's life.
Whatever that happened must have hit you really hard.
Sasa si useme shida yenyewe ilikua nini. Utueleweshe banaa
He said the case iko kotini. So he cannot discuss the problems that led to separation.
A very good advice
Ngai.... Hii kitu ya dating na kukaa na mtu ni come we stay not wife!
Frankie was right telling us moureen was galfred 😂😂😂😂
Mwakideo. ....u really inspire many.thnks for your gud encouragements
Some of this relationship if you minus sex they have nothing to offer
Yes i normally tell my hubby sex is the main thing that brot us together...kama ni love i gt it from the moment i was born..kama ni kids its thru sex we gt dem
Weeeh ....... let me leave this alone .
My dad means a world to me, he is not alive for me to tell him this. My mum is a foreigner and when she came to kenya it was demanded that she had to sit form 4 again in Kenya before she trained and she did, while at college my dad kept me from about a year of age, am told i was prone to pneumonia and at times he would pop in hospital with me late in the night and one time the nurses asked where the mother to this child was ... it not easy being a dad present for your child, so hats off from me
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I love your channel but the problem is l only speak English
In my community we call single men Ithetha..
Joyce stop laughing at everything coz some things are emotional.
Well said
i would prefer someone to heal first before been interviewed, if you can tell what exactly happened then to me i think the interview lacks alot of meaning
Very true mbona hasemi what the wife did to him
Very true
He should have opened up what went on
Story is very shallow. One-sidedness is not the full story. People should own up to their mistakes. Blame games are getting old!
What exactly did she do?
Polite disclaimer Joyce my sister...... In your natural form you are a queen of hearts. You indicated you wish to get hitched one day?Avoid excessive makeup. They make you look older than your age and beauty. You send different signals at each show. You have figure, beauty, wisdom, great character, Godliness and kind heart. Your makeups make prospective men stay away, at least for those that are in your dating league-40s and 50s. Such men love natural women.
Forgive me for my point of view and consider/accept my earlier disclaimer with humility. We love you big and wish you the best in your shows and love life
Amen
Ata sija notice makeup, it must be very light and she looks just fine.
Joyce wachana na watu huyu she is sick,you are beautiful
Wooou!huyo wife alipoteza,this guy ni wale ata akikosa ako there to tell the truth.he was a focusing man but God had a good reason to y alikatisha mapema,take heart.
Until you know the other side of the story
@@taluj2298 remember the husband said he's also a human being, so he can make mistake, but the husband to an extend he takes back to your family ,and the parents are now beging the husband to take his family back, their must be something serious. OK its good to listen both.
@mudave yes thenks.
The advice towards the end..💯💯💯✔️👌🏾
Oh yeah! Thanks for watching
Lol... Ok.
Uliwachwa maybe and am sayin maybe you hav bein unfaithful may be wewe ni narcissist,she's not hear to defend herself.
🤷♀️
Is he related to Alex Mwakideu?
Yes big brother
Why did you decide to take the wife to her place.Men don't take ladies back to their parents it is a lady to pack and go
It depends on the culture, alimtoa kwao so alimrudisha kwao
Na je huyu ni ndungu Yayule mwakindeo wa milele?
Yes, he is