Ratna Pathak Shah On Her Relationship With Naseeruddin Shah | The Male Feminist
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- Ratna Pathak Shah talks about her relationship with Naseeruddin Shah and how she used to bully Supriya Pathak during childhood. She shares how her upbringing defied societal norms, thanks to her progressive parents, who never discriminated between Supriya and her and encouraged both sisters to learn to drive. She recalls her grandmother's reaction to the birth of two granddaughters.
Ratna Pathak Shah with Siddharth Aalambayan for the 75th episode of 'The Male Feminist'
Location courtesy: Mitron Bandra
1:20 - Was Mumbai safe?
1:48 - Eve teasing incidents
2:12 - Delhi is unsafe for women
2:50 - Family being against girl child
3:15 - Influence of their mother
3:30 - Ratna Pathak’s father was a liberal man
4:00 - No gender discrimination at home
5:08 - Motivation from home
5:35 - Ratna Pathak’s father was unhappy with marriage
6:00 - Ratna Pathak’s mom being Naseeruddin’s Bestfriend
6:10 - In laws never asked to ‘Convert’
6:28 - Supportive in-laws
6:55 - Hacks for a successful marriage
7:35 - Naseeruddin coming from a traditional background
7:56 - Ratna Pathak on not having gender roles after marriage
8:08 - No labels in relationships
8:20 - Ratna Pathak and Naseeruddin Shah as parents
8:35 - Ratna Pathak on kids growing up backstage
9:18 - Being a mother of 2 boys
9:46 - Imparting period and sex education to boys
10:00 - Parsis are not cool about menstruation
10:20 - Getting sex education from books & gossip
11:10 - Didn’t want to know sons’ love life!
12:08 - Having Supriya Pathak as a sister
12:25 - Ratna being an emotional bully to Supriya
12:50 - Comparison between Ratna & Supriya on sets
14:00 - Breaking stereotypes
15:25 - Portrayal of women in films was very limited
16:30 - Sexualization of women in movies
17:05 - Lipstick Under My Burkha
18:35 - It’s not easy for men to stand up
19:15 - Kaamwali Bais are an inspiration
20:50 - Old fashioned ideas of men and women
21:25 - “Main Mard Hoon” dialogue in Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
22:50 - Pay disparity during Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
23:50 - Consenting adults having sex is not wrong
25:10 - Idea of a modern woman today
25:30 - Feminism
26:10 - Changes during menopause
27:54 - Red flags
28:42 - Green flags
29:00 - Message to your 16-year-old self
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She’s a delight to watch every time she’s on an interview! Wisdom, dignity and strong persona do come very rare these days and she’s one of them for sure.
She is full of grace and wisdom. We loved having her on our show!
Totally agree.
100% . Cant agree more !
Absolutely smart, confident witty and dignified 💖💖
Everyone loves her bindaas attitude towards life and people's ideology in our society BOLD with brains
Why label relationships..actually this is what spirituality teaches us, and believe me once we put it into our daily life being life's great!
Thank you hautterfly for bringing her and the candid show is just amazing 😊
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I so relate to her views about songs like " Aap ki nazron ne samjha pyar ke kaabil mujhe". God so damn regressive. Why should I be considered kaabil by some damn male?? Or " Sajna hai mujhe sajna ke liye“ or " Charnon mei jo na jagah paoon ". I hate these patriarchal songs. When will men learn?????
Wonderful conversation...she's always a delight to listen to ...so uninhibited
Agreed!
Such a beautiful , sharp , crisp interview.. thank you :)
Love listening to her! Everything she says is absolutely true. We need to see her in some good roles on the OTT platform.
Always look forward to her interviews
👏 Thank for this interview
Maza aaya ye interview dekh ke . Bht kuch sikhne ko mila . Kafi interesting laga .
Amazing woman, amazing interview!!🎉🥳
Ratna Ji is in excellent epitome of the modern thinking woman!!👏🏻👏🏻
I totally can relate to her…👍🏻
Love from London ❤️
Always love to watch her nd listen her❤❤boss lady❤
She always reminds me of and has a huge resemblance with my friend Divya. I absolutely love this lady.❤
I love this lady ...oh ..god.. where has this breed of artists gone...
Was waiting to see Ratna Mam on the show. ♥️🤌🏻
Thanks Siddhaarth for bringing her. ✨🌻
We really had a wonderful time interviewing her. So much to learn from her!
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Is it only me or does the video feels really rushed? There are no pauses in the video to give a thought or feel anything.
Very nice episode
So inspiring❤
Wonderful conversation
Always a pleasure listening to her❤❤
Agreed!
I liked the interaction.💌
Why camera change so much it's distracting
Absolutely love her thoughts
Sameeee!
punjabi grandmother married gujju pathak so love marriage so why no to girls . i am from matriarchy nairs in kerala we celebrate girl child at least in oldtimes. now ig is changing.
Not gujju pathak is Brahmin up bihar😊
Maybe because the first married someone of totally different ideology sort of man and the second daughter married a second hand husband , already married with children.
As she said her mother and her husband had a Rocky relationship.
So, parents are usually tensed for their children.
She is the same woman who criticized karwa chauth,the brainwash is evident.
@@praagyaanandjha8691 Her mother was Gujarati (Dina Pathak) also a film actress, married to Pathak, someone from North.
Meanwhile Monisha , Mummuji wahan gae he they toh free ki coffee pi aate ! 😂
Meanwhile mummy ji, Don't be so middle-class Monisha! 😂
She is so intelligent
With consent sex is wrong when an lover misuse women for sex in the name of love
I only love to watch her and Naseer sir’s interview in Bollywood. It’s a treat always!
She is just too good. Point about Mills and Boon is so to the point
Always favourite ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Really important topic.
I love Ratna pathak as a person. ❤
Superb Siddharth Greta job 🎉
She is wonderful!
I just luv ratna mam...so spontaneous n intelligent 😊
She is!
She is!
Why she gives her opinion on serious stuff , why can’t she stays in her zone & do her stuff
These pseudo intellectual overtly glorified with weird world view are nuisance
Ratnajee never fails.
True that!
She's so right about delhi and mumbai crime scene
I like love her views... Sadly I dont know any women like her..
Wow it was worth watching ..superb loved it
We are glad you loved it. What was your favourite part of the interview?
Heeba is her step daughter right..The same girl who was found hitting veterinary doctors and helpers at a vet clinic for not attending her pet first just cause she's Naseer's daughter.
No
I find her very animated when she speaks….reminds me of Frances mcdormand
no i couldnt help it. i was helplessly in love with and dreaming about something like mills & boons all my life, and I always will. genre: soft romance. it wasn't too raunchy and had just the right amount of everything.
god, I always hated saas bahu soap opera. they were so toxic. i was dying for something fresh all my life during teens and I just hated my mom being glued to those dumb, shitty k soaps. all I remember is my good old Doordarshan programs.
I'm glad someone finally said it. patronizing is a red flag.
So much of camera shifting. Really distracting.
Its irritating ..
Its so annoying
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Why is the video soo short? Seems like it is edited to much
Beautiful and intelligent, in and out ❤
How the way she is keeping her leg on the table ?? Is this Nice mannerism Attiquites ?
Yes it's absolutely fine since she isn't interviewing to get hired for a job. It's a very casual setting just like chatting and hanging out with a friend.
@@raulera5202its disgraceful for a person
@@bhargaviyathiraj5597 to each their own, if Ratna effin Pathk Shah felt like doing it she did it, the interviewer beared it why does anybody else need to point it out and keep the hell continue talking about it. As I'm very sure she is very unapologetic about it. We need to get out of the sanskaar trap. Aisa kuch nahi hota hai.
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Maya sarabhai 💅🏻
Forever favourite character! But we also loved as Imran Khan's mom in Jaane Tu ya Jaane Na😍
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ekta kapoor should be banned those serisls ruined our lives we were not watching but there was nothing good coming because of them the movies of 199oscwere bad songs were cheap , old doordarshan seriels rajini , udaan etc were so envouraging but by thevtime we came to high school these regressive serials came up
So true .. Doordarshan serials were the best
So privileged 😂
Soo
She comes across as a Fake.
The interviewer seems to be paid by the guest....unke har ek baat pe haan haan...yeah yeah...interviewer is supposed to understand their view not necessarily agree to it. And it's so disrespectful to show such good songs in bad light...it may have seemed regressive but the song might have fit in the situation of the movie... By disrespecting the song u have disregarded all those people who worked hard on that song. Aur yeh jo itna modern bank phirti hai...apne time pe kisi ke liye aawaz uthati Hui Nazar nahin aayi...only thing she could say is "shayad main tab yeh position mein nahin thi" ...to bring the change, to voice out opinions u don't have to be in a position to do so. She always is seen demeaning hindu culture and traditions. This is the same woman who spoke vile about karwa chauth. U r free to express ur views but not by disrespecting one's own culture or tradition or way of living. Just like u have ur own choice...rest also have their own choice.
its called a personal opinion.. you seem to be a snow flake
she never disrespected any culture she just spoke the truth,, there Is no evolution in this culture.. I will say the same thing. why is there so much feminism in India.. you may be the type to observe karma chauth, and hide your menstrual cycles hush hush types and who knows maybe you sit at your mans feet.. I agree with Ratna, Karva Chauth is a stupid tradition I do not care what the significance is. Its my personal opinion. and tumhe kaise pate k isne awaaz nahi uthayi.. tab kaha social media tha? koi awaz Utha tha ta to koi print nehi karta tha.. you should go and enjoy your saas bahu serials.. that suits your personality best. :)
if its your choice then go live your stupid traditions.. why do you care to point out Ratna.. but you have to come n bark here!! no wonder India isn't growing n people aren't changing.. its because of people like you
Another woke ..woke up.... If u have guts put out a video on halala, and burkha and yes about taharrush jamai ( kabhi suna bhi hai ya pata nahin)
I wish I understood Hindi. I like really her attitude. Fortunately some parts of interviews are English. 🤍
Wonderful conversation
We are glad you enjoyed it. What was your favourite part of the interview?
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