How To Banter Like A Pro
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 8. 12. 2021
- In this video, you'll learn how to banter like a pro.
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"Be student".
Learn from the professionals .
That's a great advice, in life too.Ever since I've shifted my mindset into a student (questioning and observing) mindset. Things changed.
Good work Myke.
Love that!
Who are some of your mentors?
Hands down the best video Iâve seen on this topic. Straightforward and no fluff. New sub!
Glad you liked it!
Which tip did you like the most?
Imagine me, an Aussie, having to look up "how to banter". Shammmmme
At least you're doing something about it now!
this is awesome, this might change my life in regards to mindset
What was your biggest takeaway from this video?
I think my personal problem when it comes to banter is that i usually don't really know what to say in the moment. When one of my friends says something funny i come up with things i could say in my head, but won't say them because i don't believe they will be funny, fitting or witty. So i guess i've got confidence problems too.
Couple that with the fact that i'm usually not the fastest person when it comes to answering questions.
Now sometimes i might something that actually makes people laugh, and in nearly every instance of this happening it was by accident, so i wasen't even trying to say something funny. I dunno mayby they laugh because of how honest i can be in a conversation.
As a result of this, i tend to play it safe and stay mostly quiet, which i hate doing.
Mayby some of these issues is the result of my damned autism, which can cause social skill problems for those who have it.
Sounds like there are 2 issues here: low self-esteem and not understanding humor.
If you tackle those individually, you'll be able to banter better for sure.
You're not damned at all, you just have to work on your skills, it's not too late that's for sure!
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What do you recommend for not thinking quick on my feet and having a blank mind when talking to others?
That's usually a sign of being too self-conscious and worrying too much about what others think.
Either that or you didn't prepare what you want to talk about ahead of time.
What are you currently doing right now to improve your banter?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I have never bantered in my life, please tell me where to begin learning how to do that. I just listen and ask questions in conversations and say the minimal. I seem to lack creativity in coming up with something to say that's interesting.
Az, it seems like he hit it on the head and youâre being too hard on yourself. What you could try doing since coming up with your own material is to start listening to comedians, find jokes they told that resonate with you, and retell them, youll develop your own style as time goes on, the whole trying to say the least amount possible has power, the whole âless is moreâ
Thank you so much
Thanks for your video. I'm going to work on tip #3, "Write Down Random Ideas" first.
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Is this practice only normal in the US, or also UK, Australia, etc?
I appreciate your very informative video. I like it when people says "you're a great person, I dont care what anybody says about you." Or "I take back most of what I said about you." Do you have any recommended comedians to learn from?
It really depends on your type of humor.
Learn from someone who you resonate with the most!
Omg I couldâve guessed all these points, but I literally donât know what banter is made of and how it works. People tease me, and I donât know what Iâm supposed to do. Do I tease them back? How? Why?
you can match the banter with Quik wit itâs quite fun
yoooooow just found out about you now, paused. Macapinlac sounds Filipino. If you are a fellow kabayan and this video is good you just got a new member. lets see
Sure am, born in Manila! Where are you from?
I truly enjoyed watching you! I myself is also kabayan from Cebu Cityđ”đ
Engineer here. LoL you got me..đ
What kind?
I have a question, I don't think you might be able to read this, but I been struggling to figure this out for a while. When I'm talking to my friends or other close people, I feel like the things I say gets people uncomfortable.
I have been able to find out I've been saying a lot of sexual and racist or weird jokes that when I see others do, it makes people laugh. In the video it says to not do these at all, but I feel like it can be controlled especially how nowadays my friends and others make jokes like this but when I do it, I think I do it too far or at the wrong time, but I don't know when or how or should I.
I hear that for sure. What have you tried so far to fix this issue?
Have you seen my other video on the best jokes to make people laugh?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery So far I dont really know. I got that some things can be used as jokes are ok and randoms statements about it out of the blue is bad or when you say a statement not meant to be racist or sexual you should just leave it like that and say "I didnt mean it" going more into it tells people to say to you "stop talking"
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I'll look into it.
Wow thanks for warning me. Now I will hold me and my friends away from you guys.
Good advice friend
Banter is bullying if the other person isn't enjoying it
Totally agree with you!
What's been your experience with that?
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Hi- my experience has been bad with this particular issue unfortunately.
I have been on the receiving end of unkind banter which I didn't enjoy, didn't invite, and the person became passive aggressive when I called them up on it.
I don't "banter" and would consider it immature & abusive.
But then I'm autistic so maybe I don't understand the point behind the biting sarcasm and joking around that it supposedly is.
It seems juvenile, unnecessary and superficial to me!
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I can enjoy teasing from somebody who I know extremely well and who I know really cares about me.
The person "teasing" (or making "matey banter" with) me was not in either of those categories, so he was therefore a "jerk" I guess.
He's never apologised or taken responsibility for it all.
Despite the fact his remarks caused me YEARS of extreme distress, as he ridiculed a really serious orthodontic treatment I had to have, for one.
How do you suggest that I let it go?
Thank you đ .
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Sitcoms, comedies, and funny movies make me cringe and hate the laugh tracks. Iâm on the spectrum where I struggle with social skills and confidence, Iâm very serious and I can passive aggressive or passive than assertive. I feel that religion and politics separate us more than connect us. I donât talk about sex or poen. I find flirting is easy in theory but difficult in actuality. Itâs so easy to be put into the friend zone or creepy zone. Yet I am learning with these mkdules on how to flirt as a beginner as I do want a GF one day. I just have to practice a lot. Itâs not so much the small talk or open-close convos. Itâs more I tend to mock than banter. Iâm learning not to be the shy guy/nice guy even though I am quiet. I am mkre of an introvert than extrovert. A social introvert and intuitive extrovert. Iâm learning not to beat myself up and self-doubt. Also to nkt freeze as much(be scared of my voice or what to say).
What if you don't enjoy banter. The perception of friendly banter being friendly would assume you know each other and there is a positive and not a negative aspect of the banter. Some if not most banter in work atmospheres are toxic. It's easy to be toxic back if you understand Psychology and the individual doing the banter, but why? Just to show you're smart and can't be put down? But in order to do that you'd have to out banter the other. So why start a situation anyways? It's mostly based on perspective and perception. If someone is having issues with their own thoughts. Why let them continue their delusions?
You don't need to engage in it if you don't want to!
It was just banter
That's exactly right!
So my wife has been receiving texts from a guy that she considers "a friend". I saw a couple of those texts. "I was thinking of you when I was in the shower." And, "I fantasize about you." When I confronted her she tells me it's playful banter. Is that really called playful banter?
I donât know if this is a joke or not.. but these texts are most definitely not banter
Not a joke. Those are the texts and she even confessed there are more texts but she's insisting it just banter talk.
Well whatever it is ⊠leave her lmao
How does that make you feel?
That's tough one isn't it?
Asian families do be serious đ
This is too much of a pep talk
You only help STEM professionals? I know that's niche' but also cliche' & stereotypical.
What makes you say that?
He primarily helps stem professionals because they lack social skills
He doesnât just teach stem pros
It's a stereotype for a reason!
Zzzz
NEVER SAY SORRY to a woman
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Tf kinda incel shit is this?
This is a wild comment
You don't say sorry. Go fucking fix shit. you're a man
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I hate banter.
Why tho
@@user-li5lp2gw6i Bad experience and dumb ppl who used it. It felt forced not playful and always on expense of someone. It seems like they wanted to really hurt that Person personally Most of the time.
@@akur3578You cant take banter seriously but I understand its not for everyone, but its fun when they match the banter!
I saw and witnessed myself that "banter ppl" are rejected Most of the time. Caus of their arrogance and stubborness. I do not like banter and I will Never use it, also that removed the banter ppl away. You speak Abt empathy, but everyone who was into banter, was a awefully illoyal friend and a horrible Person if you know them better. Sorry not sorry.
I think its bad a video like that is out there. I also dont watch it to End. I needed 3 mins to write this comment.