Do you think you’re ready for marriage

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  • čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 88

  • @WhatTheFWAFA14
    @WhatTheFWAFA14 Před 4 měsíci +30

    I was obsessing over marrying someone and we both have a lot to learn and fix with Allah. I think I should start praying to be a better person!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +5

      Yeah that’s the best thing to do focus on Allah and you

  • @maimunasaw
    @maimunasaw Před 4 měsíci +20

    "Scratch out the timeframes" not only for marriage, but in general - yaaaaas, love the honest and raw insights

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +3

      Absolutely

    • @4bdl224
      @4bdl224 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Also do not just scratch it out for the sake of it. Work on yourself and make the actions for it to happen. Otherwise it would be a mistake in my humble opinion.

  • @SheCanSmile
    @SheCanSmile Před 4 měsíci +26

    this was so wise. i needed to get close to Allah first; I realise this now when I look back at my life.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Honestly we’re all learning together sis ❤️

  • @1OddlyOdd
    @1OddlyOdd Před 4 měsíci +6

    Very few women are actually ready for marriage very very few most are incredibly dependent on so many different things except Allah swt. May Allah make us from the people He loves and grant us people who remind us of Allahs love

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +5

      Ameen Ameen but I don’t agree with this sentiment, many great women out there focusing on Allah swt and themselves

  • @ServantOftheMostHigh
    @ServantOftheMostHigh Před 4 měsíci +13

    This touched my soul right where it hurts the most. ❤. May Allah bless us with the best. Amiin
    Jazakillahu khairah sister 😇

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Ameen ya rabb sis & for you too, sending love ❤️❤️

  • @Orooj
    @Orooj Před 4 měsíci +15

    I 100% agree with you on this! I’ve honestly have been doing this myself and I’ve placed the rest in Allah’s hands. Thank you for the great video!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      As you should bbe & may Allah swt bring you your person

    • @Orooj
      @Orooj Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@meiiilin Thank you lovely! InshAllah for you as well :)

    • @user-pb6kz8bp5h
      @user-pb6kz8bp5h Před 4 měsíci

      Hi sister I agree when u said a good men is for good woman I know Allah is going to bring me a good Woman to be wife ❤🎉

    • @fridawsbamba1641
      @fridawsbamba1641 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@user-pb6kz8bp5hhope u are a good guy urself

  • @f4iry__mermaid245
    @f4iry__mermaid245 Před 2 měsíci +1

    "Are you a good person to deserve a good person"

  • @kitt7477
    @kitt7477 Před 4 měsíci +2

    From a wife of 25 yrs, marriage is NOT about cooking & cleaning, but it’s about obeying & conforming yourself.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +5

      Definitely not about cooking and cleaning 😭😭 May Allah continue to bless your marriage 💓

  • @user-hw2yu2tp6n
    @user-hw2yu2tp6n Před 4 měsíci +3

    May Allah put Baraka in our time.

  • @amaduimurana9825
    @amaduimurana9825 Před 4 měsíci +9

    May Allah Almighty grant u more knowledge (Beneficial one ) Meiiilin.❤❤❤

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Allahumma ameen and you too

  • @farukmukhtar
    @farukmukhtar Před 4 měsíci +3

    sure thing, Allah's time is the best

  • @muritalasikirullah3814
    @muritalasikirullah3814 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is honestly insightful. BarakaLlahu fiik

  • @aasiyahfauzi3262
    @aasiyahfauzi3262 Před 4 měsíci +4

    completely agree on your views on marriage, another close companion of the prophet, Um Aymen, who was like a mother to him married Zayd ibn Harith after the hijrah to madeenah and gave to Usama ibn Zayd, one of the most beloved children to the prophet, at quite an ‘old’ age, marriage, children, theyre all according to His timing, if its not meant for us in this dunya, its promised in jannah

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Absolutely, all His timing which is always the best. Jazakallahu khair for the reminder

  • @samiraosman46
    @samiraosman46 Před 4 měsíci +6

    love this, and i like your personality, feels like im listening to a friend! May Allah increase you in goodness and knowledge

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Thank you!! We are at this point 😂, Ameen and for you too 💕

  • @Colourcoateddiaries
    @Colourcoateddiaries Před 26 dny

    sis, I know so many people that met their person and they don't even pray. it's alway good to grow closer to Allah and become a better muslim but that's not always the reason why your marriage is delayed.

  • @Aleeya_Haq
    @Aleeya_Haq Před 4 měsíci +4

    MashAllah sweetie. You have spoken on this topic with such maturity and wisdom and given practical tips to help your audience. May Allah bless you and keep you on this path to success. Ameen 🩷

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Ameen and you too, Jazakallahu khair habiba 💕

  • @Deek_kimiko18
    @Deek_kimiko18 Před 4 měsíci

    Yea sis that's true we will expect to get good ones in the near future .

  • @user-hj5si3fs2c
    @user-hj5si3fs2c Před 4 měsíci

    wise words, from a wise woman. Ma Shaa Allah.

  • @princess0176
    @princess0176 Před 4 měsíci +4

    This literally came at the right time x

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Alhamdulilah ❤️

  • @OmarIbnAlKhattabIsMyRoleModel
    @OmarIbnAlKhattabIsMyRoleModel Před 4 měsíci +1

    You're the only person i listen to the podcasts of. I'm the most impatient person to exist and i can't keep up with long videos,i skip them but you!!! You sound like a Big sister giving advice on deen. Thankyou so much for being here and giving us a chance to learn from you. Love these!❤

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      aww I’m honestly honoured 🥹❤️because there are some great podcasts out there

  • @monchez254
    @monchez254 Před 4 měsíci

    Masha'Allah habibi

  • @shehudeennurudeenolusholao8039
    @shehudeennurudeenolusholao8039 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Wa Alaykum Salam Waramotullahi Wabarakatu. Maasha Allah.

  • @aspengrey1898
    @aspengrey1898 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I remember when I was dumped by a guy and each time I opened my facebook page, someone was married. I stopped using Facebook. Now I'm in my studies. I don't think about marriage anymore 7:32

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Alhamdulilah a blessing 💕

  • @shimmer4771
    @shimmer4771 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I am 26, a virgin. I was a little stressed about marriage. I need to focus on Allah and hus guidance. Then, when the time's right, Inshallah, he will send me a good husband.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Ameen and may He reward you ❤️

  • @sabibabee7776
    @sabibabee7776 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Merci from Paris Meiliiin❤

  • @_-FreePalestine-_
    @_-FreePalestine-_ Před 3 měsíci

    The more I focus on my relationship with Allah SubhanahuWaTa'ala, the less I obsess over marriage.

  • @Phauzia549
    @Phauzia549 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thank you! Your videos are consistently helpful and appreciated ❤

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Alhamdulilah ❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @manouk6725
    @manouk6725 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This jilbab looks beautiful on you Allahuma Barik

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Ameen! Jazakallahu khair ❤️❤️❤️

  • @loveislam3801
    @loveislam3801 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Assalam o Alaikum, FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH I LOVE YOU SISTER
    Alhamdulillah❤

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Waleykum Salam, love you all for His sake too ❤️❤️❤️

    • @loveislam3801
      @loveislam3801 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@meiiilin May He for Whose sake you love me, love you” أَحَبَّـكَ الّذي أَحْبَبْـتَني لَه ' 🫀

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      @loveislam3801 Ameen ya rabb ❤️❤️

    • @loveislam3801
      @loveislam3801 Před 4 měsíci

      @@meiiilin ❤️🫂

  • @Maryam-rw7cx
    @Maryam-rw7cx Před 4 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @bilalnekere3811
    @bilalnekere3811 Před 10 dny

    Ma sha Allah how are you doing

  • @WhatTheFWAFA14
    @WhatTheFWAFA14 Před 4 měsíci +2

    My question is how to even find husband when you’re a busy doctor in residency

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +2

      Honestly it’s all about leaving it in the hands of Allah He’ll place you right where you need to be to find your person in sha Allah

  • @fatimamrabat6140
    @fatimamrabat6140 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love you so much sistre

  • @yourtravelmate4767
    @yourtravelmate4767 Před 4 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @zakiyufuggfgghhufeidshuaib7857

    Assalamu Alaikum, jazakallahu

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Waleykum Salam, wa yakia

  • @ilmam9603
    @ilmam9603 Před 4 měsíci

    Which verse is the one about change and the mountains

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Sorry I don’t know if I said verse, but it’s a Hadith

  • @maryammalik1374
    @maryammalik1374 Před 4 měsíci

    😊

  • @purrroff
    @purrroff Před 4 měsíci

    But I'm a teenager and I've had negative experience as growing up in my whole childhood i saw domestic abuse and i fear marriage so much and whenever my mom brings a topic about it i cry alot and it is my biggest fear. I have told my mom multiple times that i will never marry to which she responds that i shouldn't be saying this as Allah s.w.t could get angry with me. Also in our culture there's no such things as being ready for marriage for a girl they just set a specific age 22 which my mom told is perf for it uhh Its just creeps me out . Its just sooo scary man . I swear whenever i get a thought of marrying i cry so much 🥺💔

    • @user-ge3ut2bk5l
      @user-ge3ut2bk5l Před 4 měsíci +1

      Salaam sis, you’re not alone. I’ve seen videos and posts that remind people that Allah SWT can do anything, including uniting people with a genuinely good and pious Muslim unexpectedly. If anyone would like to get married someday but are afraid of bad marriages specifically, then they can make duaa to Allah SWT to grant you a pious spouse. It shouldn’t be up to a community when someone gets married, I’m sorry about the pressure that can cause. I hope that you can heal from your trauma and you can find pious and good company in your life that bring you peace. May Allah SWT bless you

    • @purrroff
      @purrroff Před 4 měsíci

      @@user-ge3ut2bk5l omg you're so sweet Ameeen . May Allah grant you the best spouse for you too who you would find peace with and who would be exactly up to your standards and desire Ameen❤️❤️❤️

  • @sadafjamal5451
    @sadafjamal5451 Před 4 měsíci

    What about one sided love

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci +1

      It’s okay to be a loving person but go where your energy is reciprocated

  • @fatima.muhd_
    @fatima.muhd_ Před 4 měsíci +1

    🤍🤍🤍

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Aymana44
    @Aymana44 Před 4 měsíci

    Let us just not get married🙄

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Wait wdym 😂😭

    • @Aymana44
      @Aymana44 Před 4 měsíci

      @@meiiilin It's just I see it when a girl or a woman wishes for marriage she looks stupid, especially when they ain't successful and it's so frustrating

    • @Qalaska
      @Qalaska Před 4 měsíci

      @@meiiilin Asalama alaykum sister can I have your email address please

  • @ludwigrando5603
    @ludwigrando5603 Před 4 měsíci

    Yees this is very good but auran says very clearly, islam cang married no islam, only islam or believer slaves 2 sura 2.221
    Im not married islam believer muslim woman

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  Před 4 měsíci

      Yes a Muslim women we can only marry Muslim men