The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On (Episodes 1-8) - Recap + Review

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  • @mercyjane
    @mercyjane Před 2 lety +72

    Nates was bitter about missing out on all his choices and couldn't allow her woman to also choose someone else. The proposal was extreamly fake, just an ego boost of not being picked by anyone.😂😂😂

  • @dondi2129
    @dondi2129 Před 2 lety +93

    Here’s my view on the cast:
    Zay is a diamond in the rough. He needs a woman that’s strong , patient and nurturing. Also he has to react less and listen when given constructive advice.
    Shanique: she gives me dawn Richards and robbin givens. Sweet and Sour. I think she’s very elegant, opinionated, and beautiful. I also feel that she is too rigid, and very immature. I think Randall fits her list of things to achieve vs what she actually needs
    Randall: He seems to be the most level headed person in the cast. I do think he’s stringing Shanique along but I can understand why. Shanique is wifey material but she needs to mature up some more to his level.
    April: loved her. She kept it real with her man. She is extremely extroverted and her partner seems to be the opposite. I think she would be better off with someone similar to her.
    Jake: he seems nice but he needs to keep it real. He wants to keep his options open
    Rae: She don’t know what she wants and I think she would benefit from spending some time alone. She seems sweet but zay is too much of a project for her.
    Madlyn : not my favorite. She didn’t know how to hold her liquor when talking to ppl. She only wanted Randall because he was black and approachable.
    Colby: A waste of time, effort and energy. He was just as messy as Madelyn. Didn’t care for him to much either.
    The other two couples should have never went on the show. What waste of time.

    • @lisa9701
      @lisa9701 Před 2 lety +12

      Spot on!

    • @RememberTheLord
      @RememberTheLord Před 2 lety +18

      Rae is not sweet, she’s lowkey awful… punching Zay ignoring him while he’s crying? Everything… she couldn’t even find one good thing to say about him :( it broke my heart. The way Shaniques family embraced him felt like something he needed

    • @lisa9701
      @lisa9701 Před 2 lety +3

      @@RememberTheLord And Zay was completely innocent?

    • @sadadevries5875
      @sadadevries5875 Před 2 lety +7

      They all need (trauma) therapy!

    • @donnabohanon1570
      @donnabohanon1570 Před 2 lety +7

      I agree about Zey. He would benefit from therapy. It’s too much to expect a partner to support him in resolving his deep emotional trauma. I hope he gets some help.

  • @Bendueee
    @Bendueee Před 2 lety +41

    Madelyn definitely gave me that vibe too! All her friends did.

    • @kaeshalae1
      @kaeshalae1 Před 2 lety +4

      Girl madly gave me that vibe OFF RIP. She was too head strong with Colby to be so naturally understanding and so easy with Randall. Total witch craft🤣😩

    • @lauraaliaga1898
      @lauraaliaga1898 Před 2 lety +1

      I didn't want to presume as a white woman, but Madlyn was straight up fetishizing Randall imo, it was almost predatory. And her friend group, Jesus what-does-the-H-stand-for Christ! 😳

    • @teecop4735
      @teecop4735 Před 2 lety

      I think she’s a selfish BI+&$ ! She’s a horrible human and her friends are the same any guy to come across these women be carful truly self centered pos !

    • @Rachel_Martin90
      @Rachel_Martin90 Před 2 lety +7

      She gives me mean girl vibes. The type to give you some information just to see your reaction.

    • @KobiButKoKo
      @KobiButKoKo Před 2 lety

      All she wanted was the D from Randall. And all of her friends were on that same wave. Like how did your good friend “hook up” with your bf and y’all are still all friends. That’s not my ministry lol

  • @selemawit9411
    @selemawit9411 Před 2 lety +76

    I just binged the first five episodes because of this review.
    I agree, madlyn and the black guy it hit seems to be a physical/fetish thing. They keep talking about how much they have in common but I feel they never mention what those things actually are 🙄
    Plus madlyn pissed me off when she was talking about Randall in front of the girl he came with. She doesn’t seem like a nice person.
    Idk what kolby sees in her.
    Alexis was crazy omg 😳
    I’m gonna keep watching.

    • @briajewell2908
      @briajewell2908 Před 2 lety +9

      If u continue to watch Colby is just as crazy. He's just good at hiding it in the beginning. But madlyn completely pissed me off. Very unlikeable.

    • @YodiJohsonna
      @YodiJohsonna Před 2 lety +2

      @@briajewell2908 Madelyn pushed Colby to be the way he was in the end by bringing him into the situation. After the weeks apart he started feeling himself and didn't have the same energy towards Madelyn as far as just her having his full attention and him being in aww over her

    • @selemawit9411
      @selemawit9411 Před 2 lety +4

      Yeah Colby seems narcissistic the more I watched. He blamed her for kissing other girls at 4am outside of the experiment to make it real for her. His behavior likely contributed to hers.

    • @carlyrios8297
      @carlyrios8297 Před 2 lety +1

      Did you notice how Madelyn from day one wanted to get into Randall's pants the whole time chasing his tail, but when Colby tries to have something of a connection with someone else like her, Madelyn got jelous as soon as Randall turned her down from sex. Then she played victim as soon as he called her out for wanting Randall. That girl is treacherous! Not saying Colby was perfect, he was quite delusional in thinking a relationship would work with Madelyn.

  • @Youngmacho
    @Youngmacho Před 2 lety +23

    I can’t handle how Jake just the moment he finds another woman completely changes his attitude over April, all this “I love her, I love her” but now he seems to dislike her. April is such a sweetheart and she’s not afraid to let people know what she’s feeling and she wants Jake but he doesn’t want her anymore it’s obvious. April is better off alone she deserves more

    • @tea6306
      @tea6306 Před 2 lety +2

      Jake seems like the type that's been told his whole life what to do/who to be with out of respect for his mother & that's not healthy. He literally broke down the 1st week after realizing April walks over him in their relationship. That was so intense to watch b/c they BOTH realized it & said that was such a hard thing to go through. I like them both & think they needed this to realize they don't actually NEED to be together & there's nothing wrong with that.

  • @Ricardodiaz17762
    @Ricardodiaz17762 Před 2 lety +40

    I cheered when April called out Nate's fake AF proposal. I came around on April too. She's loud and passionate but she's a sweetheart. She just loves hard and has fertility problems.

    • @michaelholmes4622
      @michaelholmes4622 Před 2 lety

      I like April to. She just talk to damn much, but besides that she’s sexy af, nice body, a little freak and go the extra mile for her man. Couldn’t ask for more

  • @SM4LYY
    @SM4LYY Před 2 lety +27

    April was probably the only person I was rooting for ♡♡♡

    • @alb5801
      @alb5801 Před 2 lety +4

      I wasn’t. She was loud, too talkative and super annoying AF!

    • @xn2886
      @xn2886 Před 2 lety +1

      @@alb5801 like these are the worst qualities you can have in a relationship lol

    • @jimwaxer8166
      @jimwaxer8166 Před 2 lety +2

      At first it seemed like she wanted to be married and have kids and who was going to be her husband didn’t matter. But I did change my opinion of her. She does seem like she would be fun and I liked her blunt honesty.
      But Jake’s mom and her checking out his phone probably is too much for Jake. He probably feels pressured and always under a microscope and that might make him feel like he would want to walk away and be free even though he does care for April.
      April can be a lot to be around all the time.

    • @SM4LYY
      @SM4LYY Před 2 lety +2

      @@jimwaxer8166 I absolutely agree. I do think that she has a big personality. But I like that she was very content about trying to become better instead of looking elsewhere. Maybe Jake isn't the one, and if he's not, I just want him to be honest about it. Probably why I'm rooting for April because she's just so honest and I just want her to find happiness.

    • @SM4LYY
      @SM4LYY Před 2 lety

      @@alb5801 lol, she definitely is loud and too proud, but I guess that's why I like her? She's just honest about who she is.

  • @kelseybell1018
    @kelseybell1018 Před 2 lety +26

    I'm so glad you said something about Shanique dad! The first time I saw him I didn't see that it was her dad and I totally thought it was her brother When zay was at the dinner. Then when it was Randall at the dinner I saw that it was her dad! I couldn't believe it

    • @gypie88
      @gypie88 Před 2 lety

      That dad is fine!!!

    • @zagorskaewelina
      @zagorskaewelina Před 2 lety

      My dad has unfortunately passed away but he had me at 19 years old and he has always been a handsome young-looking guy, like Shanique's dad :)

  • @MiniSpears
    @MiniSpears Před 2 lety +38

    Nate proposal was fake af

    • @alb5801
      @alb5801 Před 2 lety +3

      IKR…He just didn’t want Colby with his girl with 3 weeks! 😂😂

  • @UmuHas
    @UmuHas Před 2 lety +39

    I really liked Zay but the more we saw of him the more I felt like he has a lot of destructive behaviours, to others and also towards himself. I think under everything he's a good guy who wants to love and feel secure in his relationships but he doesnt know how to cope in healthy ways when he's not getting what he needs. When he drinks he gets to this place where he's quick to pick fights and misattribute his hurt onto others. When he was drunk and grabbing rae up as she was trying to leave and kept violating her boundaries when she repeatedly asked for him to stop, all of that is very worrying and dangerous behaviour even if its coming from a place of hurt and desperation. Idk man, theyre all young and I just wish they had better tools to deal with their personal issues as well as proper help with navigating relationships. I agree with you though, rae seemed checked out coming into the process almost like she had already fallen out of love with him and wanted to explore other people (perhaps also hoping he'd find someone else and make it easier for her to break up with him?). She shouldve been more honest with him from jump bc this man has been wrecking himself holding onto this relationship with her.

    • @alb5801
      @alb5801 Před 2 lety +2

      Rae was super annoying. If she really wanted to leave she wouldn’t have been there when he got back at 0800 so some of that was her attention seeking for sure! He was not harming her or “ grabbing her up” he’s a big dude. If he grabbed her up she would be snatched the fuck up! After she was saying no I’m leaving blah blah blah….they sat calmly and had a conversation on the bed. She called him drunk and disgusting. But how disgusting is it that she was kissing a dude she met only two days ago. Then she had a gold box of sex crap under the bed that her and Jake had used when Zay moved back in. That’s utterly disrespectful. She could have thrown that in the garbage. She is an attention seeker. She almost deserved to get snatched up. If there was ever a reason(s) for a woman/person to be snatched up Rae would deserve it!

    • @DeathGodPain96
      @DeathGodPain96 Před 2 lety +10

      @@alb5801 Woah Woah , now you can't say someone deserves to be snatched up just for saying mean words. What you said there wasn't a really nice either but that wouldn't justify someone being physical with you. Now thankfully nothing like that happened but she was asking him to back off and he wasn't, so he was crossing a boundary.. it was uncomfortable to watch cuz you never know how people react in those situations.

    • @UmuHas
      @UmuHas Před 2 lety

      @@alb5801 Once again justifying abuse. You clearly dislike Rae and condone her being harmed. Nothing anyone says, nor how they interact with someone else outside of their partner warrants violence. Since you have so much to say about what Rae should and shouldn't have done why don't you keep that same energy for Zay and say some dumb shit like how if he really wanted to leave that night over how she was treating him he should have never returned at 0800 to watch her leave him. Utter nonsense.

  • @HishamMahmudinOC
    @HishamMahmudinOC Před 2 lety +20

    Randall, Jake & Madlynn are crazy to stay in their previous relationships
    Jake & Rae are literally a "Where have you been all my life?" pairing
    Randall & Madlynn seem to have a good wavelength.
    Given April's health issues, not everyone can empathize with her, so she needs someone assertive, but patient (that's not Jake)
    Not sure Zay's lifestyle is compatible with modern marriage

  • @gray_7
    @gray_7 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Whoa that Change of Heart logo…I never would have thought of it again but it was instantly recognizable 😅

  • @fh7041
    @fh7041 Před 2 lety +17

    Randell gives off the person who is having an identity crisises. He doesn't know what he wants, and who he wants. I feel like he views Shanique as a best friend/ someone who he is comfortable with, I felt no sexual attraction or intimacy between them. He seems to be emotionally unavailable. I feel Shanique is a beautiful, kind, smart, fiery princess but she needs to stop with the facial expressions it says a million words LOL. she also needs to listen and then communicate. She also needs to move on from Randell he is not for her at all. I feel like Shanique was a good friend to zay, she did not let him get away with his BS. I was honestly cheering for zay, not to gett married but to to grow as a person and i hope he does outside this show.

    • @cyes1156
      @cyes1156 Před 2 lety +3

      Randall is the most level headed, patient, compassionate person on the show.... He should RUN away from Shanique......She is very bossy, combative, and a poor communcator when conversations dont go her way! She dominates conversations with men! Her energy is very masculine

    • @fh7041
      @fh7041 Před 2 lety +8

      @@cyes1156 Yes Randall is all those things you mentioned but he is also stringing her along, indecisive, and he does lack the confidence or certainty to lead a relationship. He doesn't even know what he wants and is easily swayed. He stayed with Madelyn for a week and was talking about love and how she is such a great person one he can see marryings that are flaky AF. I do think Shanique can be bossy and does lack communication skills. Personally, she seems masculine in energy cause he is in his feminine.

    • @cyes1156
      @cyes1156 Před 2 lety +2

      @@fh7041
      I think Shanique is masculine because that's her personality!!!! She was very combative and bossy with Zay as well.....Zay is far more aggressive than Randell yet she still managed to stand toe to toe with Zay when they were living together (a man way bigger and way stronger than her)....Just disgusting!
      I agree that Randall is indecisive....He needs to become more decisive and assertive to get the hell away from Shanique he deserves better!...,... Shanique even admitted that she is handful AND she admitted that she likes a softer man like Randell that allows her to be who she is🤣🤣!!!! Which is masculine smdh!!!
      Masculine women attract feminine men! Masculine men attract feminine women!
      Madelyn is a cooocoo bird..,. Her emotions are all over the place.....The way she treatd Colby in the very beginning just wow.....Now she expects grace from Colby after how dismissive she was to him!?!?! Colby is the nice guy and Randell is a nice guy......We all know what women think of nice guys......And take a look at how Shanique and Madelyn treat their men both nice guys go figure!! Both men are very handsome just all around good dudes!!!! Those two men should get the hell out of there
      I think Rae is the most feminine woman on the show by far..,....Zay messed up with that one!!!

    • @fh7041
      @fh7041 Před 2 lety +5

      @@cyes1156 I can agree Randall and Shanique are not well suited in a healthy way from what I saw on the show idk about back home cause he was really reserved I could not even see any chemistry or intimacy between them. I honestly don't think Zay was masculine or feminine he just seemed in a lot of hurt and confusion. He gave leadership over to Shanique so I can see why she was more masculine around him. you might be right that generally, she does have that energy.
      I think Colby and Madelyn are like Bonnie and Clyde. He loves how she ignores him yet praises him. He liked how she calls him out but still comes back to him. He likes how she treats him like a bug in moment and the most interesting person the next when they get phycial. She likes how passionate and performative he is to her. But she also finds him annoying. they love the push and pull. They are crazy together, they know each other's flaws and still, go back for more happily.
      Let's not play naive both guys are not "nice guys" they are both great at keeping up images. They choose to be with women who they say don't like( their toxic or masculine traits) but go back for seconds, thirds, and so on. They only do that because they LIKE it, they get back at the women in their own ways but it's the same circle. Look at Randell for example who was attracted to and had nothing but praise for Madelyn who seems to be a more toxic version of Shanique..... The same thing he doesn't like about Shanique, Madelyn has in spades. Look at Colby talking about how much he loves madelyn when she can be so harsh with him and he keeps going back.
      If in the end, both couples end up together it just shows how much like actual are attracted to those negative traits they were going on about.

    • @cyes1156
      @cyes1156 Před 2 lety +1

      @@fh7041
      We can agree to disagree with the nice guy observation....... Those two men are as patient as you can get in a time where the bad boys will leave women like Shanique and Madelyn high and dry because the second they see attitudes like those two women they'll have sex and run......At the very least Randell and Colby are patient!! I do believe that Randeel and Colby are indeed push overs and passive aggressive, and lack dominant/assertive energy which is the reason why i would say they're toxic.....
      Are these above couples meant for each other (the masculine women verses the push over guys) in that sense yes! But its such a toxic outcome!! Will Smith and Jada type stuff.....Those men will be emasculated by Shanique and Madalyn if they decide to marry

  • @tupacisalive1236
    @tupacisalive1236 Před 2 lety +17

    Zay gives me abuse vibes,Shaniqua deserve better,Maddy needs to learn how to hold her liquor.

    • @t4325
      @t4325 Před 2 lety +6

      Shanique is strong enough to handle Zay. But she doesn't need to waste her time raising a grown man. He'll rob her of happiness. He is a bad choice for Shanique and Rae.

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 Před 2 lety +4

    I feel like Madelyn & Alexis were drunk most of the season. 🥴🥴

  • @Sherirose1
    @Sherirose1 Před rokem

    Why are you so amazing with your analogy? You're a brother from another mother. Seriously stop making vidoes. I'm addicted now coz you keep it so real. I love you take. Keep doing it and always stay true. (insert compass sign here)

  • @BirdLadySpeaks
    @BirdLadySpeaks Před 2 lety +7

    This is the second video where I have been on the edge of my seat waiting to here your opinion and you hit me with the “Please stand by.” Lol!!!! Get video as usual. I don’t watch these shows, but I love your reviews. 💛💛💛💛

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +1

      Hahah I just try to keep the viewer on the edge of their seat :)

  • @aisharedux781
    @aisharedux781 Před 2 lety +36

    Alexis is a living nightmare. It always blows my mind to see people that manage to be ridiculous, abhorrent and over confident all at once!
    I’m with you with the Madlyn/Randall theory. Her sex crazed chase was giving Mandingo curiosity fetish and the way she kept throwing it all in Shaniques face was giving White girl trying to self validate and prove something to herself.
    It all reminded me of that episode of Insecure when the White girls were shaming Lawrence after the threesome!
    Jake kinda seems like he’s BEEN over April and Clyde is a raging narcissist.

    • @janessamarie4601
      @janessamarie4601 Před 2 lety +3

      If Jake was smart he would RUN from April.

    • @elizabethkamau9959
      @elizabethkamau9959 Před 2 lety +9

      I agree...who is clyde though

    • @fashionizkee8734
      @fashionizkee8734 Před 2 lety +1

      @@janessamarie4601 right she talking about she might be pregnant I think she was lying

    • @boitumelodibetso8719
      @boitumelodibetso8719 Před 2 lety +1

      @@elizabethkamau9959 this comment is sending me! WTF is Clyde for real though?

    • @elizabethkamau9959
      @elizabethkamau9959 Před 2 lety +1

      @@boitumelodibetso8719 I don't remember a Cylde. I agree with everything else she said.

  • @LadeOla
    @LadeOla Před 2 lety +22

    I'm gonna binge watch this today, I already know this ain't gonna end well.
    Ladies, if he is financially stable and he ain't asked you to marry him after a year (especially if you are already living together) he don't want YOU to be his wife.
    Don't waste your good years waiting on a man who ain't got no intentions on making you a wife that you want to be (that's if you want to be a someone's wife).

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +9

      But also it might not be a “YOU” thing. Maybe he doesn’t wanna make anyone his wife. But I trust if you living with someone y’all already had that talk. Or…we would hope so 😬😬

    • @LadeOla
      @LadeOla Před 2 lety +4

      @@TaitsTake after binge watching this show today, I was right to say... "he just don't want to marry YOU"

    • @newpatchincoming6574
      @newpatchincoming6574 Před 2 lety

      Lool, ridiculous

  • @mikatu
    @mikatu Před 2 lety +8

    To me the alternative couples seem to be better than the original ones, except for colby+april.

  • @Carmen55422
    @Carmen55422 Před 2 lety +9

    I completed all eight episodes. Production had to bring back Alexis at her bachelorette get together to be the mean girl and cause confusion. I liked Love is Blind much better. They all seem not ready for marriage. Zay needs counseling he's immature(stays out all night ) and he can't control his temper , than wants to cry , really . Any woman needs to watch out for him because he will pop off in a minute. Good recap , thanks for doing all the current episodes at one time.

    • @alb5801
      @alb5801 Před 2 lety +2

      Alexis was annoying AF! She was shooketh when Colby said he wasn’t attracted to her! I think that she thinks she is some kind of prize which she is not, or it’s not obviously apparent

    • @justshawnae
      @justshawnae Před 2 lety

      So do you know him personally?? You saw half of what went on

  • @yahayra7679
    @yahayra7679 Před 2 lety +5

    Madelyn gave me that same impression of wanting to fetishize Randall. Especially when all her friends met him, like look at this. Randall is not a zoo for them to gawk at :/

  • @MrsHarder08
    @MrsHarder08 Před 2 lety +9

    I was about 10 yrs old watching Change of Heart! That was my show. I had no business watching that, lol... I haven't seen this show but will check it out.
    I am not married but definitely would like to be one day. I can't see myself giving anyone an ultimatum and most likely would not marry someone if they were to give me one. I think 24 yrs old is a bit young but I have known quite a few people who married that young or younger and are still together 8+ years later. Lucky them. There are quite a few shows out like this and I think we have hit the ceiling on these shows, lol.
    Are you married or would you get married one day? What, you're divorced? Oh that's crazy, lol

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +1

      Hahah someone stayed to the end 🥰 but yea that Change of Heart time slot was gold. I loved all those stupid ass shows! Now look at me lol

  • @sophien5416
    @sophien5416 Před 2 lety +1

    I love how you review these videos! I like how concise and humor you are. Totally agree with most of what you observed.

  • @theorderofthebees7308

    Glad , I found this channel great reviews , a dash of humor and interesting insights !

  • @kbace
    @kbace Před 2 lety +2

    "Jake looks like CGI."
    Hilarious!!! The dude does look like he's from an anime show.

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety

      I said he looks like that animation from The Polar Bear Express 😹

  • @elizabethkamau9959
    @elizabethkamau9959 Před 2 lety +6

    I loved the review. I did not like Madyln at all. I found her rude and annoying af. Colby at first acted so wholesome however as the episodes went by, he definitely has some toxic traits. Colby and Madyln are so mismatched and incompatible. Randall comes across as bisexual nothing wrong with that, Shanique will not find what she's looking for in Randall, it just won't work. Nate and his fake proposal was just embarrassing poor girl didn't know what to do she only said yes to not embarrass him. She was not Nate's first choice. That was messed up and it isn't going to work. I did like Zay I just feel he has to work through his traumas and Rae was not interested at all and she should've at least been honest with him. Alexis was way over herself got mad that nobody seemed interested in her. Like how dare the guys not find her attractive? Lmao Jake did have a change of mind about Rae after the conversation with his mum. Hunter needs to mentally prepare himself for a life with Alexis. Yikes

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 Před 2 lety +2

    None of these couples are ready for marriage. 2 years is honestly not a long time at all especially considering their ages.

  • @justineste-marie6998
    @justineste-marie6998 Před 2 lety +3

    I think what annoyed me the most about Colby was how he tries to look like a nice guy but keeps thinking he knows what’s best for other women and speaking for them without actually listening. Like how he said he could help Lauren realize she wants kids when he should just support whatever her choice is or how he went to another girl to make the experience more real “for Madlyn”. Also didn’t like how Jake said he wanted kids in a year or two but has unprotected sex with April, seems to me like he might be taking advantage of her fertility issues. Maybe he isn’t but it’s not very considerate of her feelings

  • @rayrebel
    @rayrebel Před 2 lety +2

    I literally got married at 24 and divorced at 29. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Bruh.

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +1

      I know I’m not supposed to laugh but I do love this comment!

    • @rayrebel
      @rayrebel Před 2 lety

      @@TaitsTake I wasn’t supposed to laugh either but here we are.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @shatemahampton6720
    @shatemahampton6720 Před 2 lety +2

    You said what I was thinking… Mind READ!! 🤣🤣🤣💯✅ I enjoyed listening to you💕 I think this show was interesting but none of them are READY to get married PERIOD!!

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety

      Really appreciate you watching and commenting, Shatema!

  • @theorderofthebees7308
    @theorderofthebees7308 Před rokem +1

    Zay , most certainly has issues -
    There is a lot of stuff he could unpack - he flew off the handle so many times .

  • @JenlovesYu
    @JenlovesYu Před 2 lety +18

    I think this show is trouble. It just causes more issues in relationships, including violation of trust. Most of these participants are way too unstable to even be thinking about marriage at this point.
    My favorite person was April. Like you said, she wasn’t who she appeared to be at first. You think she’s this flighty dumb chick, but she’s incredibly rational. She also loves hard. Jake was lucky to have her. However, I didn’t think they were compatible.

    • @michaelholmes4622
      @michaelholmes4622 Před 2 lety

      I think they are compatible, I think Jake needs a break for a bit and she won’t let him. I feel Jake would come back after sometime exploring other options

    • @JenlovesYu
      @JenlovesYu Před 2 lety +1

      @@michaelholmes4622 Compatibility for me means that should have the same foundational priorities and timelines, want similar things, and have similar goals for the future. He wants to travel and wait on having kids. She wants kids yesterday. That’s not compatible.
      Their communication styles are also completely different and their personalities clash.
      She’s very outgoing, talkative, headstrong, and knows exactly what she wants. She’s driven and ambitious. He’s more reserved, quiet, and goes with the flow. However, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have his own thoughts or goals. She just tends to push her agenda on him and he doesn’t feel heard or like what he wants matters. While she’s trying to be understanding and listen, they just keep bumping heads. It leads to resentment, which you could clearly see when Jake and April reunited and he blew up at her.
      I personally love April, but Jake doesn’t bring out the best in her and I’d say she doesn’t really bring out the best in him either. They’d certainly be good friends, but there’s just too many things they’d have to overcome to be on the same page.

  • @DaniNouveauWitch
    @DaniNouveauWitch Před 2 lety +1

    Love your channel! New subscriber.

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 11 měsíci +1

      I’m so freaking late…but I THANK YOU!

    • @DaniNouveauWitch
      @DaniNouveauWitch Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@TaitsTake haha better late than never, still ❤️ your content

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 11 měsíci

      @@DaniNouveauWitch so nice of you. Truly thank you :)

  • @TallCurvyGirll
    @TallCurvyGirll Před 2 lety +4

    Taking it back with change of heart. Elimidate. Blind date.

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +1

      You don’t know nothing bout that!

  • @joseph2ne
    @joseph2ne Před 2 lety +1

    You are hilarious!

  • @lajourdanne
    @lajourdanne Před rokem +1

    You are too funny! 😂

  • @Miss_Liz_
    @Miss_Liz_ Před 2 lety +1

    “Overground gold digger” 😅😅👸thank you for this recap!

  • @Myfrenchstar
    @Myfrenchstar Před 2 lety +3

    I hate Jake and the way he treats my baby April

  • @leahdavis9434
    @leahdavis9434 Před rokem

    If you don't mind subtitles there's multiple versions of these shows. The Ultimatum France was insane. Love is Blind Brazil is wild, Love is Blind Japan is more mature and less dramatic, and there's some more countries of both being filmed. UK is next for LIB

  • @teecop4735
    @teecop4735 Před 2 lety +1

    She wasn’t a good digger o think she just said this in case he didn’t pull through because when he asked her she didn’t think about it , also she is the one who gave the ultimatum. That was just an excuse in case she got hurt . I’m glad 🙂 for them

  • @caitlindn
    @caitlindn Před 2 lety +1

    Loved your spoiler breakdown and review, I don't mind knowing what happens in reality tv shows. I'm gonna watch this show and enjoy the drama 😂 reality shows are my guilty pleasure

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +1

      Caitlin my BFF! I was hoping you found your way here!!!

    • @caitlindn
      @caitlindn Před 2 lety

      @@TaitsTake I started watching today, and I'm glad Alexis got proposed to and left the show, just because the obvious 😂

  • @egypt1279
    @egypt1279 Před 2 lety

    Loved this reaction!

  • @KrucialKelz516
    @KrucialKelz516 Před 2 lety +2

    Spot on review. I hated April at first but damn she grew on me and was the realest one on the show! Crazy that she’s one of the youngest too! Zay’s temper was NOT it. Shanique’s genes are crazy good. She was also the prettiest. Colby is toxic and now I’m glad Lauren escaped him. Jake is a gaslighter which is sad for April. And totally Lied to Zae about what his mom thought of her 😬. I also agree that these kids wanna get married so bad but they’re so young. Like LIVE A LITTLE! But maybe cuz it’s the south, to your point. Ahhh, Netflix got another weekend from me. And I’m not even mad.

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety

      Nice comment! You touched on the real issues. A lotttt of people mad he lied about that mom thang. But I guess he ain’t wanna hurt her feelings. 😬 Also I’m glad we here on Team April!

  • @kakaeyoka6395
    @kakaeyoka6395 Před 2 lety +3

    I think Jake proposes to the eye lash girl,. She broke up with Z for him, I hope he doesn't though,

  • @champ0682
    @champ0682 Před 2 lety +1

    Need that “Everything every all at once “ up next

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety

      You don’t know nothing bout that thang!!!! Watched that last week. BRAZYYYY

  • @hallieedwards5281
    @hallieedwards5281 Před 2 lety +6

    I binge watched this and my option on April defers from you she was so manipulative and Colby was definitely using reverse physiology Madeline

  • @Leah-gx8gn
    @Leah-gx8gn Před 2 lety +1

    Damn Tait really did his research on marriage 😀 because of the wedding pictures in the background I always assumed you were married🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +1

      Lmao i gotta study these thingsssss! 😇

  • @teecop4735
    @teecop4735 Před 2 lety

    Married 33 years tougher 37 , I was 22 when we met 25 when we married two years then one year to plan the wedding . Marriage has NEVER FELT HARD TO US did we fight HELL YEA horrible but it never was about us ! It was over the kids , money , and out side forces like family drama. I mean it if your relationship is hard then it’s not right . When they say the first year is hard no nope it isn’t ! You KNOW if you go through with it your going to regret it . You have to be selfless . You need a faith . You need to listen . It’s a choice to love ❤️. If your looking for the eternal honeymoon give up now . Good luck 🍀 to everyone who plans on marriage . It’s so worth it .

  • @elohoiyamu7274
    @elohoiyamu7274 Před 2 lety +1

    Lool about your take... strong facts though.

  • @rayrebel
    @rayrebel Před 2 lety +1

    Did you react to Singles Inferno yet? Or Love & Leashes???? I think your reaction to those would be so funny

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety +2

      I haven’t heard of those! What network?

    • @rayrebel
      @rayrebel Před 2 lety

      @@TaitsTake Netflix friend. Yes i said friend, we are friends now lol

  • @happymama2793
    @happymama2793 Před 2 lety +3

    I REALLY want to sew Colby link up with
    A Therapist.

  • @dee_pendable1
    @dee_pendable1 Před 2 lety +1

    Whew! I hate/love shows like this. It's good TV, but unsure couples often stay together because they don't want to start over with someone else, or they don't want to or know how to work out their issues, or they don't want to hurt the other person's feelings. These shows give them an easy out.
    Predictions: NO to Zay and Rae, but they could get back together. It depends on Jake. (Their behavior isn't new to them, yet she gave the ultimatum)
    Colby & Madelyn: YES. Should be a "hell no" but she just might say yes.
    April & Jake: YES. I hope they both grew from their experiences.
    Shanique & Randall: YES. She needs to grow up, but he's not gonna let her go.
    Zay is my favorite, the most real. I'm glad he met Shanique. If he was in a good mental state, I would have put ALL my money on them. But, he needs therapy. He is such a genuine guy, but too much emotional baggage. It was amazing how he opened up to Shanique's family. Also, the scene with Rae, her sister, her mom and Zay was very telling. They kept it real, but it was interesting how they all went into "therapy" mode when he started getting defensive.
    Colby is cringe. He's antagonistic and manipulative. Run, Madelyn (even though I have no love for her either)
    Nate and Lauren: NO. Won't work. Nate watched two of his choices get snatched and proposed out of desperation.
    Hunter & Alexis: Yes. (Until he can't make more money than her. Then, she's out)

  • @KobiButKoKo
    @KobiButKoKo Před 2 lety

    I agree with you. This show needs to have a cast that’s aged up. At the very youngest 28 (and I really only say that for women who desperately want kids). And I didn’t think of it but it could be a southern thing. The show was set in Austin, TX and I’m from Louisiana and it is a lot of traditional values around marriage down here. But I am happy that they chose a different city for this show outside of your typical L.A., Atlanta, Miami.

  • @alb5801
    @alb5801 Před 2 lety +9

    Jake look like CGI. Hilarious 😂 I feel for Zay he is not the most articulate young man so when he is unable to get his point across or feels teamed up on he gets frustrated! I agree Madelyn is going to reject Colby. I think Jake is going to propose to April. I think Zay will still propose to Rae. I think Jake stopped liking Rae seriously after the visit with his mom, his side conversation with his mom was so pro- April! I didn’t have a favorite person. April was loud, obnoxious and annoying AF! I didn’t come around! I FF when she came on the screen. Madelyn was annoying she just wanted to F**k Randall, it was so obvious. Alexis couldn’t believe Colby was NOT attracted to her, how dare he! Rae and Jake got right into the kissing, and whatever the gold box entailed, very disrespectful to Zay to keep that box in the room instead of trashing it. Shanique was beautiful and regal! Zay was nice looking, tall, he had nice a body build. He seems like a genuinely nice guy that needs some counseling to deal with his childhood trauma. Randall was very nice looking, his tattoos were surprising for his clean cut look. He was giving me not exactly straight maybe bisexual vibes. He seems a little conniving and scheming with Madelyn, it makes me wonder has he cheated before, and if not, will this make him want to date around. Colby was nice looking, but a douche! He seemed all about Madelyn at first especially when he shot down Alexis so quick. Jake was okay looking, he had a deer in headlights look most of the time. He will end up back with April letting her call all the shots!!

    • @Loralou4455
      @Loralou4455 Před 2 lety +2

      I’m glad I’m not the only one who picked up bisexual vibes from Randall. There’s a scene where Shanique got into a taxi and left him there after an argument and his mannerisms were just …….

    • @Ricardodiaz17762
      @Ricardodiaz17762 Před 2 lety

      @@Loralou4455 Exactly, I got the same vibe about Randall too. If my Southern granddaddy would've seen this show he would've said: "That boy got a little sugar in his tank." 🤣

    • @elizabethkamau9959
      @elizabethkamau9959 Před 2 lety

      @@Loralou4455 yes I caught that as well.

    • @elizabethkamau9959
      @elizabethkamau9959 Před 2 lety +1

      Spot on review. I however did not like Madyln at all. I found her rude and annoying af. Colby at first acted so wholesome however as the episodes went by, he definitely has some toxic traits. Colby and Madyln are so mismatched and incompatible. Nate and his fake proposal was just embarrassing poor girl didn't know what to do she only said yes to not embarrass him. She was not Nate's first choice. That was messed up and it isn't going to work. I did like Zay I just feel he has to work through his traumas and Rae was not interested at all and she should've at least been honest with him. Alexis was way over herself got mad that nobody seemed interested in her. Like how dare the guys not find her attractive? Lmao

  • @anthill927
    @anthill927 Před 2 lety

    Awesome review lol

  • @deeroberts1940
    @deeroberts1940 Před 2 lety +1

    Subscribed I don’t wanna be done lol geee why the Ultimatum

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety

      Haha couple more hours until the finale!

  • @writeousrhema
    @writeousrhema Před 2 lety +2

    Her dad looked SO young. And yeah I definitely want to get marriage but I believe most people should not because their mentalities are not right for it

  • @ichiban6004
    @ichiban6004 Před 2 lety +2

    I just finished the season and this is my lengthy take. Can't stand Madelyn , towards the end she grew on me a bit but I cannot understand why she looks half asleep most of the time? Forcing Randall to have sex with her was weird ...but honestly I think Randall would have done it if he knew it wouldn't be filmed. Shanique is insanely immature , I feel bad for Randall having to deal with her constantly walking away like that I would have dumped her ages ago this is the exact reason he's not sure if he wants to be with her and she does nothing to change it. Kolby seems sweet but I think because Lauren didn't choose him, he was trying to take advantage of this -cheating pass- they were all giving each other. Ppl giving him too much sh*t about those numbers, he knew Madelyn was doing her thing so he wanted to do his...remember this show is nothing but a cheating pass... like is everyone forgetting Madelyn was literally trying to full blown f*CK Randall ? Lol ..I think he gets a pass I'm sorry, she wants him to apologise for that ? I don't like Alexis but I did like hunter for choosing her when it was down to choosing someone, you can tell he truly wants to be with her. Lauren has a great butt..my god girl is packinnnnn but unfortunately her bf is a p.o.s. hopefully she sees that now. Jake and rae, i think most men are drawn to a more calm demeanor in women when it comes to marriage. They want someone that they don't ALWAYS fight with and who constantly picks at them. I think this is why he's drawn to rae, I just find her so unattractive physically ..facially..idk sorry..I don't get it. I wanted to like her but something about her just seems so weird...Him having videos of her twerking and her first words in the interviews being "I know how to f*CK" she just seems trashy idk. I think Jake could do better. He did enjoy this experiment a little too much tho and with that I think April has her answer right there. The guy is not really ready for marriage he's super young and curious about what's out there. No idea why they're trying to have a child and it still sort of shocks me how young they all are..22...23 ..I mean wow..they're not kids but damn still so young and most of them have only been together 2 years. I'd wait maybe 4? Idk just me. My favorites to watch were Jake and April, I love April's personality and she really handled the jealousy well. She really let him immerse himself in this and when she thought she was pregnant she told him it was a false alarm right before he has to choose between the women , which I thought was cool. She could have easily been psycho and pretended like she didn't have her period or something. I think life with her would never be dull , the whole rae thing is pure lust and I think he'd get bored with her. This whole experiment is horsesh*t , giving people a pass to cheat and dangling all this intense temptation just to see if they'll come running back..stupid lol but great show would watch again. It also really goes to show how easy it is for people to fall for each other. It was a room of like what? 20 people ? And most of them managed to find someone they were into almost right away , interesting isn't it ?

  • @theorderofthebees7308
    @theorderofthebees7308 Před rokem +1

    The women who liked Cody - she was so extra - how you gonna get mad that’s her not attracted to you . That’s not how it works - none of it not at all . And you snd his ex look nothing alike . She was trippin absolutely

  • @brown14suga
    @brown14suga Před 2 lety +5

    The concept of this show is so wild and awkward! Every couple needs to break up!
    Madlyn has a black man fantasy.

  • @derrickvermont9806
    @derrickvermont9806 Před 2 lety +3

    I thought Iyana's parents on Love is Bling looked too young

    • @dqvolskashterka
      @dqvolskashterka Před 2 lety +7

      They were not her biological parents, they adopted her. So may be the age difference is not big there.

    • @t4325
      @t4325 Před 2 lety

      Absolutely and Shanique's father also looks very young.

    • @derrickvermont9806
      @derrickvermont9806 Před 2 lety

      @@dqvolskashterka I forgot about that.

    • @derrickvermont9806
      @derrickvermont9806 Před 2 lety

      @@t4325 It's that Caribbean flavour lol

  • @smadga
    @smadga Před 2 lety +3

    amazing video. I'm waiting for you to propose

    • @TaitsTake
      @TaitsTake  Před 2 lety

      You giving me an ultimatum?? 😹

  • @hollywoodmarine
    @hollywoodmarine Před 2 lety

    My nigga is hilarious, let me subscribe 😂

  • @nohaahmed3044
    @nohaahmed3044 Před 2 lety +4

    What is wrong with April!!

    • @alb5801
      @alb5801 Před 2 lety +2

      High strung, ADHD, No Filter. Madelyn almost told her off at the girls night out but felt bad for her and reeled it in!

    • @msbutterlove4619
      @msbutterlove4619 Před 2 lety +2

      Nothing I ♥️ her

  • @monty_nt
    @monty_nt Před 2 lety +2

    I hope Jake and Rae give it a go. They genuinely clicked. Unfortunately, Jake's Mom will make it difficult for them. She is in love with April. They must have similar personalities bc April doesn't seem like what a mother would want for her son. Kinda all over the place, but good heart under there that may blossom with age. Jake's Mom thought Rae was reserved, but just need to give time to get know her. Let your son do his own picking,

  • @nellelove4899
    @nellelove4899 Před 2 lety +1

    You don’t know what gold digger means lol but everyone has their opinion.

  • @teecop4735
    @teecop4735 Před 2 lety

    It was his monmy

  • @princessvaeh7018
    @princessvaeh7018 Před 2 lety

    after three episodes I'm getting less intrigued