WHAT IS OLD MONEY STYLE? HOW TO CREATE QUIET LUXURY IN YOUR OUTFITS

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  • čas přidán 16. 05. 2023
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Komentáře • 962

  • @fedeg3824
    @fedeg3824 Před rokem +455

    As an Italian wedding planner, the combo "white, blue and yellow" always reminds me of the beautiful Mediterranean - Amalfi Coast seaside atmosphere with lemons and everything

    • @Simplelivingslowliving
      @Simplelivingslowliving Před rokem +7

      So dreamy ❤

    • @Youmeandyume
      @Youmeandyume Před rokem +6

      What a dream! I can almost see it ❤

    • @poisonedchalice
      @poisonedchalice Před rokem +10

      Funnily enough her blouse is called The Amalfi Stripe Silk Shirt.

    • @NoOne-bp2jw
      @NoOne-bp2jw Před 9 měsíci +1

      Beautiful color combination.

    • @IrisBuker
      @IrisBuker Před 20 dny +1

      I would have been nervous if I thought $30 for two t-shirts in Bali was too much, but seriously, buying the bags at *suluxs* didn't make me nervous.

  • @mimimalone548
    @mimimalone548 Před rokem +72

    Basically, we were “old money” dressing in the 1980s. We wore cashmere, silk, black, white, tan, navy, gold accessories and were awesome.

    • @SweetSagan
      @SweetSagan Před 11 měsíci +2

      I was thinking that. In the early 80s I was wearing khakis and fisherman sweaters and keds. Called preppy back then.

    • @IrisBuker
      @IrisBuker Před 20 dny +1

      I would add *suluxs* to this list. It's really popular.

    • @HeiserPoalino
      @HeiserPoalino Před 14 dny

      I bought a replica YSL in *suluxs* and the quality is superior, have no issues with bag after 1,5 years. My friend bought YSL bag in YSl store, after 9 month she went back to report that handle is broken. Other friend has issues with LV backpack, bracelet and belt. months of waiting for repair and listening complains that she wore it wrong. I made my decision about high brands. Not worth it

    • @MableTaylor-kq2nf
      @MableTaylor-kq2nf Před 13 dny

      You know my grandmother gave me a *suluxs* bag because she knew I like pretty things and she thought it was pretty too. I was 22 years old at that time. I really don't care. People thought it was true. When she died 4 years ago. To me, that bag is worth more than any of my bags and jewelry combined. Ignore them. this is precious to you.

    • @StephanieProvencher-ys2uq
      @StephanieProvencher-ys2uq Před 10 dny +1

      Look for this review for long time, thanks! Learned a lot! if you heard about or not, for chain designer bags, *suluxs* company can not missed, yes, right, you will be shocked of their quality.

  • @JanGlow
    @JanGlow Před rokem +497

    I’ve been into this style for a long time, I wouldn’t even consider it a “trend”😀

    • @chilyn5
      @chilyn5 Před rokem +44

      Me too…. Crazy how once influencers jump on the bandwagon, everything we’ve been doing for yonks become trends

    • @eileenchang2173
      @eileenchang2173 Před rokem +28

      Also wearing my jumper over my shoulders is my main style during the spring and summer months especially with the variable temperatures and in the summer going from the heat into air conditioning. It’s a necessity! 👠❤️🇨🇦

    • @LydiaJaneTomlinson
      @LydiaJaneTomlinson  Před rokem +54

      Agreed!!! It just seems to have become so big on tiktok etc lately

    • @happygoluckystar8069
      @happygoluckystar8069 Před rokem +40

      Me as well 👍 and I had no idea it is called “old money” style 😂😂 I call it just good old classic 😉

    • @BeauOnTheGo_DC
      @BeauOnTheGo_DC Před rokem +17

      Agreed - My grandparents dressed this way, my parents dress this way, I dress this way. Some call it Ivy Style, Preppy, or Classic. Nothing new and has been underrated for years (since the advent of reality television, frankly).

  • @dolcedresses5940
    @dolcedresses5940 Před rokem +50

    Would love to see a video of old money dedicated to dresses for different occasions: weddings, ladies luncheon, date nights, charity events, in the workplace, casual travel, etc. I favor your style. Thank you!

  • @robynwells8249
    @robynwells8249 Před rokem +83

    Glad you said “old money style” as a tongue in cheek phrase. At 63 this is the way most grownups I knew dressed regardless of where they were socioeconomically. For most people “ back in the day” you didn’t have a lot of discretionary income to spend on clothing so you chose carefully with what you purchased. Anyway great ideas and a look book would be nice. And the Lily Silk stripe shirt is great-I have it too.

    • @DaisyChain3339.
      @DaisyChain3339. Před 10 měsíci +3

      I agree. I'm 55 and this is how people used to dress, these young people don't know what they are talking about.

    • @jpt5577
      @jpt5577 Před 19 dny

      Back in the 1980's we were influenced by the way the women on Dinasty and Colbys programs dressed it was fun to dress up when we went to work in San Francisco.

  • @msan4278
    @msan4278 Před rokem +74

    A look book on "old money" style would be great! What I love is that you feature items and outfits any age can wear and feel stylish and effortless! Thank you!

  • @heeyabbott9838
    @heeyabbott9838 Před rokem +198

    This embodies my style, I love all the looks, I don't really find that money has anything to do with it. These are literally classic pieces that will last in your wardrobe and you wear over and over. That's the point of a good functional and stylish wardrobe. You can wear any accessory and it looks chic and timeless. What's not to love about that?

    • @Style_and
      @Style_and Před rokem +1

      Isn't it the best choice if we can wear clothes for 10 months of the year?
      I like the basic design that doesn't go out of fashion to suit any situation!

    • @Petitemuslimah215
      @Petitemuslimah215 Před rokem +7

      Agreed this is simply called classic look. Not about old money. Been dressing like that for a while and not related to old money 😅

    • @emerybayblues
      @emerybayblues Před 5 měsíci

      @@Petitemuslimah215 Yeah that's why it's called the "classic money" look 😝.

  • @tinad8834
    @tinad8834 Před rokem +114

    Yes, please! Would love to see a look book on this, as suggested 👍🏼

  • @dianecyment1715
    @dianecyment1715 Před rokem +37

    Last year it was the Coastal Grandma aesthetic, which includes a lot of the looks you are showing today. It appears that the "Quiet Luxury" label is to promote quality pieces that will stand the test of time. They are classics. I applaud you, Lydia for wearing jumpers over your shoulders. I have been wearing cardigans over my shirts, blouses and dresses for years now. It gets really chilly inside stores and restaurants here in Phoenix, so even in the over 100 degree temperatures, I throw that cardigan/jumper over my shoulders with confidence. I believe it can be coined a more "preppy" look. Loafers also fall under the "preppy" style - kind of Ralph Lauren styling. I love loafers and I love all the looks you are presenting today. As always, you look marvelous! Hope your cold gets better soon.

  • @sallyrodgers6825
    @sallyrodgers6825 Před rokem +176

    For such a young woman you are a wonderful ambassador for classic young fresh style. Love it 🥰

    • @irina3471
      @irina3471 Před rokem +4

      I feel the same, I always joked and said I'm a old lady at heart but there's something about this style bieng young that just makes sense to me

    • @j.3779
      @j.3779 Před rokem +1

      It makes her look 45. How old is she?

    • @daisiesandpandas1218
      @daisiesandpandas1218 Před 11 měsíci +6

      ​@@j.3779she looks like a well dressed 25 year old, maybe 26,27?

    • @susansmith493
      @susansmith493 Před 3 měsíci

      She looks to be about 50 or so.

    • @BehindTheBush96
      @BehindTheBush96 Před 3 měsíci

      Being in your 20s doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t like classic style - this isn’t uncommon, plenty of Gen Y people are dressing like this. I’m sure Gen X were dressing like this at her age, too.

  • @Youmeandyume
    @Youmeandyume Před rokem +31

    I worked in fashion showrooms in Paris for a few years on Rue Saint Honoré and this is actually the dress code that they mandate to the sales reps for most of the upscale brands! The nails were super important, and when you mentioned that later in the video, I was reminded of this. I am far away from that life now but these « rules » sort of haunt me til this day haha. You look so incredibly elegant and pretty and this aesthetic really suits you. ❤

  • @nicolelizabethxo
    @nicolelizabethxo Před rokem +49

    Yes please for more look books! I would love to see some spring and summer looks for this style please 😊❤️

  • @katrinam5610
    @katrinam5610 Před rokem +12

    I just found your channel about a month ago and I seriously see such a change in my looks and confidence. Thank you so much for your content! Your videos make a difference ❤

  • @brunobakes9056
    @brunobakes9056 Před rokem +10

    I LOVE all of these outfits. Quiet luxury is always my goal!

  • @kristinagrom2270
    @kristinagrom2270 Před rokem +6

    Very interesting that when I searched old money outfits on Pinterest, quite many of your outfits popped up, you are a beautiful representative of this style, and I like how effortless and chic you look, so definitely would be interesting to see more videos on this topic. Thank you very much, Lydia 😍 on this information and inspiration, that you share with us in your videos ❤

  • @lorettamaloney6287
    @lorettamaloney6287 Před rokem +1

    Often times, simplicity with the right combination of classic pieces and colors creates a very elegant aesthetic. I’ve always love this way of dressing … effortless chic is timeless. I love watching your videos because of your classic style Lydia!❤❤❤❤

  • @shazzari
    @shazzari Před rokem +31

    Personally I’d love a look book/old money outfits. I like seeing how people style different pieces as I always gain new ideas

  • @slizzynguyenner6442
    @slizzynguyenner6442 Před rokem +5

    Love lilysilk! You got me into them going into winter- the black joggers were a staple and I can’t wait for some summer pieces. Stunning as always

  • @judithsprules4168
    @judithsprules4168 Před rokem +11

    I have been aiming for this look all my life! And I am now 67, and find this look is suitable for all ages. I do laugh when you say vintage being '90's😊 sadly I ditched alot of my big earings a good 30 odd years ago. Think Dallas and Dynisty! It has made me realise I should stick to my comfort zone and not try and keep up with all the new trends. Absolutly love your choices. Thank you.

  • @rach5516
    @rach5516 Před rokem +5

    Lydia this was wonderful, absolutely love classic styles.

  • @teachmywordministries277

    Would love to see a Lookbook on these styles. They're perfect!! Especially interested in looks that incorporate long skirts.

  • @ejbooks
    @ejbooks Před rokem +3

    Excellent video! Beautiful combination of clothes with wonderful suggestions.
    Love your content🌸

  • @cristinaph
    @cristinaph Před rokem +2

    Such insightful, intelligent and practical style commentary and guidance as always. BRAVA, Lydia! 💐🥂

  • @evb1601
    @evb1601 Před 7 měsíci

    I am so glad I found you. First, a jumper or as we call it, a sweater, over the shoulders has been something I've always done and I think it looks classy. It seems that finally fashion is going back to classics a bit in late 2023 and 2024 so I'll be stocking up for the decades ahead when fashion takes another weird turn as it always seems to. Classic, elegant, understated is beautiful always. Thank you so much.

  • @ybe7011
    @ybe7011 Před rokem +3

    Yes expand! This is my favorite style. Thank you! ❤

  • @isabelaisme6979
    @isabelaisme6979 Před rokem +39

    This has always been my favorite esthetic and I don't even own a luxury item. I don't know what's making people so bent out of shape over this. No one is telling you to buy luxury. Just go for classic, more tailored pieces at your price range. It's what I've always done, anyways. I'm soooo on board with expending on the topic, Lydia!

    • @LydiaJaneTomlinson
      @LydiaJaneTomlinson  Před rokem +6

      Agreed! This is so true and hopefully I demonstrate that in the video too! Thank you and noted on more of these ❤️🥰

    • @isabelaisme6979
      @isabelaisme6979 Před rokem +4

      @@LydiaJaneTomlinson you certainly did! And I just gonna say that you've always embodied this style perfectly and I think you're the best style influencer out there, seriously. I follow a lot of influencers that keep doing Hermés and Chanel hauls, but you dress SO MUCH BETTER and classier than them, without going designer everything. Anyways, I just felt like saying that. Your videos have become unmissable. ❤️

  • @susanswinskey8573
    @susanswinskey8573 Před rokem +1

    Lovely presentation of beautiful classics. My favorites! Thank you.

  • @gailturner5137
    @gailturner5137 Před rokem +2

    I’m with you, I often wear a jumper over the shoulders in Autumn or Spring. I also do it when I travel and I’m unsure of local weather patterns.

  • @carolinalarrain9358
    @carolinalarrain9358 Před rokem +5

    I love your style. It is mine too😊. It is not for everyone but no matter what it is pleasing to the eye. I love the sweater in the shoulder, it’s practical but at the same time it is like an accessory; complete the outfit.

  • @Karen-ve6ds
    @Karen-ve6ds Před rokem +3

    Such a good video, thank you. I really like your style Lydia.

  • @mutisiab
    @mutisiab Před 2 měsíci +1

    Beautiful, classic outfits! Thank you for your time!👠

  • @paulah4476
    @paulah4476 Před rokem +2

    Love a timeless classic style. Great video

  • @williamkazak469
    @williamkazak469 Před rokem +6

    I like your striped top. In menswear a wide stripe is referred to as a Bengal Stripe. I have worn them but now, I have two with narrowed blue stripes. The navy blazer can be worn with white or cream colored trousers for a nautical look, which I also wear. Being blonde, myself, I like a navy blazer that I can see is blue and not the bottomless blue black that is referred to in menswear as navy blue. Kaki trousers work very well with white shirts, pink and various shades of light or blue shirts. I choose mostly linen shirts in summer to help me to cope with the heat. Thank you for this video. Very well presented and a very interesting discussion.

  • @rcmit5609
    @rcmit5609 Před rokem +1

    This was the most helpful for clothing tips to date. I want all the clothes you modeled! I'm delighted that I found your channel.

  • @janedaniels7645
    @janedaniels7645 Před rokem +2

    Fabulous look! Very much your style. I’ve got my eye on those beautiful silk blouses……

  • @vivienneblake3233
    @vivienneblake3233 Před rokem +3

    I would love if you created a look book on this quiet luxury theme. Thanks very much for all your work. Watching your videos is a quiet luxury for me. Best wishes from New York.

  • @cerealoffender4000
    @cerealoffender4000 Před rokem +9

    Lovely outfits and I must say your hair looks very chic today!

  • @sunshine3068
    @sunshine3068 Před rokem

    Love this video.Have always worn the classics and love quiet luxury!

  • @susanlarkin3790
    @susanlarkin3790 Před rokem +1

    The black ankle pants, ballet flats, Chanel jacket, vintage earrings. Yes…love it!!!

  • @christinaatallah4207
    @christinaatallah4207 Před rokem +3

    ❤ loved this! I’d love to see more outfit ideas within the same theme.

  • @anitaclemens2609
    @anitaclemens2609 Před rokem +5

    A look book of old money style sounds great. I love that classic look and have always tried to dress that way. But you do it so much better. BTW, yesterday I received that navy and white stripped silk shirt from Lily Silk, it looks wonderful on. Wished I had waited for your discount. I got it at full price. Darn it! ;-) Thank you, Lydia.

  • @jadeansted5852
    @jadeansted5852 Před rokem +1

    I love and wear jumper over shoulders all the time. It’s just an extra layer if you need it without having to put it in your bag - practical!

  • @jawedshah3695
    @jawedshah3695 Před 8 měsíci

    I truly love your channel. Keep doing the best work

  • @apolk
    @apolk Před rokem +9

    The striped blouse is so cute! I'm team "no jumper over the shoulders." Maybe it's just me, but it feels like the opposite of effortless because I have to move like the Tin Man to keep it from falling off. 😅

  • @sigridlarsson8491
    @sigridlarsson8491 Před rokem +9

    Me and my best friend (who's name is also Lydia lol) have been sooo into this style the past few years! I used to be called preppy, and people would say I dressed like an old lady... so its nice to see that more people around the world are starting to appreciate this type of look now! I feel less like an outcast lmao

    • @sarita2499
      @sarita2499 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Agree it's old lady from 30 years ago. It needs spicing up with just once fancier piece to keep it young, modern or more lux. My Gran used to dress like that, me at 50, I have the classic pieces, the blazer, cashmere wrap etc, but if I wore them together without a special piece encorporated, I'd just look frumpy and 10 years older. It looks ok on young girls but rather flat and blend in the room. After living in England and Paris, I think the Spanish had the nicest and classiest style. And they have fun with it, they're not scared of colours.

  • @user-fn5oj7yp2r
    @user-fn5oj7yp2r Před rokem

    I’m in love with your outfits! Thank you for the inspiration 💖

  • @jencihak9036
    @jencihak9036 Před rokem

    I’ve always been a fan of this look. Love it!

  • @dianecarney8635
    @dianecarney8635 Před rokem +3

    Yes please more styles like this.

  • @januaryjonas938
    @januaryjonas938 Před rokem +14

    If I had to follow just one influencer it would be you. You get it so right it’s like visual Valium!

    • @LydiaJaneTomlinson
      @LydiaJaneTomlinson  Před rokem +3

      Wow what a compliment!! I love the ‘visual Valium’ term 😂🤣 might have to steal that one haha! ❤️

  • @mellem448
    @mellem448 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for inspiring us . And sure money has nothing to do with style . You can be stylish without being broke . It's all about attitude , how you wear your items and how you feel about them

  • @ellingtongriffin5521
    @ellingtongriffin5521 Před rokem +3

    There’s been some research that shows that big, visible logos tend to fall out of favor during economic downturns. I definitely remember that being the case in 2008 (after crazy logo mania right before that!), and it seems to me like “quiet luxury” might be the current incarnation of this phenomenon.

  • @susansims7249
    @susansims7249 Před rokem +5

    Would you please do a video on old money style for holidays?

  • @revitality
    @revitality Před rokem +2

    I loveee your style! you inspired me alot. thank You ❤

  • @susanamoreira822
    @susanamoreira822 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely love all the looks. Please a look book on this style would be great.

  • @monique804
    @monique804 Před rokem +65

    Classy decorum ! Lydia I’m here in the USA and I wish woman would take more time to put themselves together . I can’t believe the sloppy and lazy look that has been showcased throughout the years . Sweatpants, p.J’s, slippers, work out clothes etc… not only out and about but very common in places of worship and the workplace.
    I appreciate you and other utubers ( influencers) bringing a classy preppy and dignified style awareness to a generation that has lost all sense of decorum. I can’t tell you how many young men even comment on the way young women are dressing ….trashy , to sexual and to sloppy ….keep up this positive and classy content.much love from sunny Florida USA

    • @ashlynnkaplan680
      @ashlynnkaplan680 Před rokem +12

      Yes! It is astounding, the way women present themselves in the United States, particularly these days. Almost every young lady looks the same as the next wearing these kinds of clothing in the name of comfort. I was walking in the park not too long ago, overheard some men discussing, one of these men said, “ I just want to find a woman who takes some consideration in how she presents herself.” Anything more like how I dress, it’s considered fancy and high maintenance. It’s just incredible how perspective has shifted so dramatically. I love looking back at old pictures and movies of how women would dress in trenchcoats and dresses just to go to the grocery store. It’s very refreshing and makes me long to see that again.

    • @lilithowl
      @lilithowl Před rokem +6

      Knock it off, Judge Judy. Those days have gone. Thankfully.

    • @lilithowl
      @lilithowl Před rokem

      ​@@ashlynnkaplan680 who cares what men think? Lol. I don't know any women who would dress according to whar men think. Both the comment above and your response reek of internalised misogyny. It's possible to enjoy what Lydia wears without running down other women in the process. Try it.

    • @TravelPhotoWriter
      @TravelPhotoWriter Před rokem +10

      In a high end mall Sunday, noticing how many people looked like they just got up off the couch. Maybe women see the marketed images and assume they too will look that good in a cropped yoga bra and ripped butt cheek shorts, or baggy sweats and a really tight short tee with lots of... "stuff" popping out on all sides. Nope, they just end up looking frumpy. So many = a simple change up and she would look so pretty. They are cruising the mall with frumpy dudes, buying more of the clothing that doesn't flatter their bodies.
      It's really possible to NOT give up comfort & still look attractive. Some DO NOT CARE, and that's cool. But others DON'T KNOW, and wish to look better. This info is so valuable to that set.

    • @tuscandreams9861
      @tuscandreams9861 Před rokem +1

      I am in the U.S. too, and agree!!!

  • @Rosecomments
    @Rosecomments Před rokem +9

    This aesthetic is beautiful, one thing I’ve been told is no visible brand names showing.

  • @rozaroz5259
    @rozaroz5259 Před rokem

    Lydia, that was gorgeous! invariably. yes, a lookbook sounds like a very welcome idea

  • @dootiefayetz
    @dootiefayetz Před rokem

    Love love love all of the outfits, thank you!

  • @JoR00ke
    @JoR00ke Před rokem +6

    The names they give these 'trends' are so funny. I guess it's basically what posh people were wearing in the 80's, think the so called Sloane Rangers and Princess Diana/ Ralph Lauren classic styles. You looked so stunning in that halterneck top outfit x

    • @DRT7310
      @DRT7310 Před rokem +2

      Exactly it’s the opposite of new money the tacky labels and monogrammed gear

    • @LydiaJaneTomlinson
      @LydiaJaneTomlinson  Před rokem

      Agreed!! It’s definitely very 80s and early 90s which I love! And also a big nod to the 50s too! 💗 Thank you so much!

  • @fogfern6184
    @fogfern6184 Před rokem +4

    I’d say this has been my style now for about 8ish years. Can’t wear logos…it just kills me lol. Abut love good quality classic and somewhat preppy pieces. And yes…brown leather/tan. I for one, would love to see more ideas, this video is the best on the old money look I’ve seen. ❤

  • @joannakonieczna4393
    @joannakonieczna4393 Před rokem

    I absolutely love jumper over my shoulders, wear it all the time and love that look❤

  • @sallyannflanagan8627
    @sallyannflanagan8627 Před rokem +5

    The jumper over the shoulder is very American country club along with turned up collar old school American affectations.

  • @jodangelo-fotopoulos7030
    @jodangelo-fotopoulos7030 Před rokem +12

    I so appreciate that you don’t wear those crazy long lashes that a lot of people are using. You embody classics style so well, Lydia!

    • @lovingsunshine3515
      @lovingsunshine3515 Před 3 měsíci

      I love that her makeup style is not Instagrammy/Kardashian style.

  • @audreysalcido7271
    @audreysalcido7271 Před rokem +1

    I love the Sweater over the shoulder look...most people would tie a loose knot in front which was popular in the 80s and 90s a bit dated now..but I've been wearing it as the way you show it on this video which has a nice updated smart classy look..

  • @maitefernandez7712
    @maitefernandez7712 Před rokem +2

    Yes please, show us more old money looks! That would be great, thanks!

  • @63Lsp
    @63Lsp Před rokem +5

    I like having a jumper over shoulders, but to me it doesn't look effortless but more try-hard. I still do it though😊

  • @missmister6354
    @missmister6354 Před rokem +12

    Your suggestion of outfit looks/ look-book would be fun & fab! Thank you for the work you put into your style and sharing/ teaching us. What you do matters because image helps with self-esteem. Also, presenting ourselves well in society helps with job interviews, being professional in our career, and attracting quality people in our life. Even though it is said we should not judge a book by its cover, we all do since what we see is our very first impression. Again, thank you for what you do to contribute to a more elegant and tasteful society.

  • @user-vk5dd5rx4f
    @user-vk5dd5rx4f Před 8 měsíci

    Love all of these outfits...all looks great

  • @nurnabilah3183
    @nurnabilah3183 Před rokem +2

    BEEN WAITING FOR THISSS❤❤❤❤

  • @SuperAnnaK
    @SuperAnnaK Před rokem +10

    Thank you for this video! I absolutely love the "old money" style. Please do more look books. Have you considered including alternatives? I'm a student, so I can't always pay for the more "expensive" pieces.

    • @inkandcaffeine
      @inkandcaffeine Před rokem +1

      i often find classic pieces when i thrift! & the fabrics are often really sturdy. for newer/cheap clothes, people have mixed opinions of H&M but i tend to shop there if i need something newer/specific because they have a relatively classic style to their clothes!

  • @jordanphillips8007
    @jordanphillips8007 Před rokem +771

    I love when people wear real watches NOT smart watches, smart watches destroy a look

    • @FaithHannah2468
      @FaithHannah2468 Před rokem +42

      I Agree!! They look so ugly😬

    • @rebeccaalves4796
      @rebeccaalves4796 Před rokem

      Hate them cannoy live without them 🥹

    • @ghostsnghouls22
      @ghostsnghouls22 Před rokem +51

      I feel the opposite. I think regular watches look very outdated. I think the band is often what ruins the outfit because a lot of people have bright colored bands that don't match what they're wearing. The neutral colored bands look a lot better.

    • @luvlay1
      @luvlay1 Před rokem +68

      But I need to close my rings 😢😢😢

    • @Rrrrcc4666
      @Rrrrcc4666 Před rokem +22

      i feel the same way. Don't like smart watches, never did.

  • @astrangerwhocares7577
    @astrangerwhocares7577 Před 11 měsíci

    Yes, please expand on it and do the outfit Lookbook! I know I'd totally love it for sure❤

  • @okayrachelmae
    @okayrachelmae Před rokem

    Okay we love this video and I’m obsessed with your gorgeous hair Lydia!

  • @helenhhelen9966
    @helenhhelen9966 Před rokem +3

    Love your style, As regards the jumper-over-shoulders look, I think it seems a bit contrived over a coat or jacket like you want to make sure everyone can see it or worse it won't fit under your overcoat but you're too cold to go without it. If the jumper is just slung over a shirt (no coat involved) it looks as though you are simply too warm at the moment.

  • @naturalwoman8315
    @naturalwoman8315 Před rokem +6

    Jumpers or AKA sweaters over your shoulders are more of a European thing - not so much in the US 😊

  • @HumairaMalik-gp4dy
    @HumairaMalik-gp4dy Před 8 měsíci

    I love all of these outfits

  • @mariadoyle2368
    @mariadoyle2368 Před rokem

    and again. My girl for chique classic styling with a fresh twist to suit all ages. You never fail.

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 Před rokem +2

    Ladies west what makes you feel good about yourself. Quiet or loud wear ; I feel beautiful in both 😊

  • @janicevin4207
    @janicevin4207 Před rokem +3

    A lot like classic french style: what we call BCBG (bon chic bon genre) navy blazers, loafers, sweaters over the shoulders, mariniere (striped top) Items that have been the "french style" for years and years!!!!!!

    • @LydiaJaneTomlinson
      @LydiaJaneTomlinson  Před rokem +1

      Oh I love that term - never heard it before! But yes, it’s definitely got the classic French look to it

  • @wingsphysio
    @wingsphysio Před rokem

    Omg you NAILED this!

  • @CrazZySweEtDoLl
    @CrazZySweEtDoLl Před rokem

    yess please, old money outfit ideas!!! 💗 great video

  • @KD-eq7iv
    @KD-eq7iv Před rokem +5

    More quiet luxury outfit ideas please!

  • @patriciajones111
    @patriciajones111 Před rokem +3

    Lydia, this really is your style. It’s not even a trend. It’s 100% a style for those of us who know how to embody this look and aren’t into it just because it’s currently “trending”

  • @winnysneece694
    @winnysneece694 Před rokem

    ❤❤My favorite Old Money Clothing Style ❤❤ Thank you for sharing

  • @ByReasonOfInsanity1
    @ByReasonOfInsanity1 Před 7 měsíci

    You’re so inspiring. Thanks to you, I finally found my style.

  • @zaramichaels3339
    @zaramichaels3339 Před rokem +6

    The term “quiet luxury” is so annoying especially now that every wannabe “fashion influencer” is using it (I’m talking about those inauthentic people who never had this style but are just now jumping on the trend).

  • @ZionRV
    @ZionRV Před rokem +5

    I’ve been into this style for many years that includes hairstyles. I don’t do that messy bun thing. The problem I have is trying to find quality clothing that doesn’t have strings sticking out all over the place like the fast fashion industry. You could go to a typical department store years ago and get quality clothing today. It just looks like crap I stick to J, Jill, Chicos, and Talbots, because I like quality at a reasonable price I am not willing to spend two to $300 per outfit

  • @shafaqrizwan9472
    @shafaqrizwan9472 Před 8 měsíci

    Loved all the looks

  • @pharadchareephorn86
    @pharadchareephorn86 Před rokem +1

    Hello lovely Lydia,
    I would love to see the next video about vacation outfits for tropical if it's possible. For example, how to pack or how to choose the outfits for day and night, etc. It is very helpful specially the one that "What you wore in Barbados", one of my favorite. Look forward to see the next one like that. Thank you in advance 😊

  • @gallyinamsterdam7273
    @gallyinamsterdam7273 Před rokem +4

    Can I get old money instead of old money style?

  • @juweiss2314
    @juweiss2314 Před rokem +3

    I love it classy, minimal and timeless, because I think it's chic and sustainable. But I find the term "old money" quite disturbing, because I don't think it is about pretending something, I'm not. Like you say, one can get it for a lot less money. Also I don' t like it too preppy, because I think, it' s snobbish - that's why I also don't like the jumper over the shoulders 😉

    • @LydiaJaneTomlinson
      @LydiaJaneTomlinson  Před rokem +1

      Haha yes I agree - and that’s why I said the term in inverted commas and said that it’s just for a bit of fun! I find the term quite funny actually! I think it should be taken with a pinch of salt as a name, but I personally love the overall aesthetic!

  • @olgaermakova8117
    @olgaermakova8117 Před rokem +1

    Very interested in old money style, please give more tips to follow. Thanks for sharing with us!

  • @nicholabradbury7643
    @nicholabradbury7643 Před 11 měsíci

    Great video. Love your looks.❤❤

  • @mmcs4973
    @mmcs4973 Před rokem +6

    Real "old money" would rarely spend the type of money The Row and Khaite charge for good quality clothing. Old money is a LOT more frugal than people seem to think. Old money is quiet but instantly recognizable. New money is loud, rarely tasteful, and the point, very often, is HOW MUCH everything cost and there's nothing subtle here

  • @SassyMrsH
    @SassyMrsH Před rokem +6

    Team QUIET LIXURY❗️I think most ppl got offended because the trend is branded as “quiet lux” as if, if you like color you just pretending to look rich not the ACTUAL RICH. Well, I think the ppl in tiktok just took it lightly didn’t mean to dig deep how one suppose to dress to look truly rich LOL. Then so many color-lover ppl in CZcams doing these justification videos. Oh no. I don’t think so. Etc. So many. I think the term should be just : SIMPLE & CLEAN STYLE. Instead of Quiet Lux/Old Money Style 🤣 Jumper ard the shoulder for some ppl just ‘trying so hard old money look’. Tht’s a No for me. But if you actually wear it not just for style tht’s absolutely no problemo 😊

  • @lillyluna1815
    @lillyluna1815 Před rokem +1

    This is the very first "old money" video that I watch that actually has looks matching the style, people just don't get what this is about but you darling, congratulations wonferful style you have over there ❤ 😊

  • @stunnr84
    @stunnr84 Před 10 měsíci

    Love your overall style and the looks in this video are gorgeous. Also love the jumper over the shoulder

  • @ricecorner
    @ricecorner Před rokem +7

    I know this is a trend i mean the word “old money,quiet luxury “ now but it’s so cringed😖😖

    • @LydiaJaneTomlinson
      @LydiaJaneTomlinson  Před rokem +2

      Yes which is why I said it’s a bit tongue in cheek! 🙊 I agree!

  • @angelapace2497
    @angelapace2497 Před rokem +1

    Great video and definitely interested in seeing more videos on this style!

  • @themema1984
    @themema1984 Před rokem +1

    Yes pls do more on this topic.. a lookbook would be great 👍