Slid into Her DMs and Wrecked Her Car
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- The plaintiff started dating the defendant after they met on social media. When the defendant went to jail, the plaintiff supported him and even paid his child support. The plaintiff is suing her ex for car damages because she claims he borrowed her vehicle and crashed it. The defendant insists he does not owe the plaintiff a dime.
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There is absolutely nothing a man with seven kids can do for me besides remind me to take my birth control.
Seven kids with NO JOB
Right 😂
And you know it
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hell Yesss
Seven kids, incarcerated and she said OKAY. Chilllleeeee...the bar is set to hell.
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That's all that she qualifies for
😂😂😂
Set to hell 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
DATS A TRAIL STR8 DESTINED 2 HELL
She paid his child support??? Women gotta stop being that vulnerable, desperate, naive and just not smart!!!!!!
Facts! 💯
Exactly, I would be to embarrassed to even say something like that and the icing on the cake was her looking for a father's day gift after. She should have gifted her damn self...
Desperate AS HELL
Exactly! All it took was, "hey beautiful" and she was taking care of the bum and paying his child support, smh
Can't tell these types of women nothing and there's a lot of them.
Fall for anything... The more dusty the man is, the better for them.
His last sentence really has me speechless, most men can just look at a woman and tell if she is gullible or not and they can use them. Just because a man tells you your beautiful, does not mean there a good man. Sometimes just say thank you and leave it there. I really hope she learned her lesson. 😫
My mouth literally dropped after that last sentence. Like the audacity of you to say that. Wow.
Mine too !! I literally said N***a what you say
Damn now you know when a guy TELL YOU YOU NEED TO DO BETTER THAN HIM 🫠🫠🫠🫠🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
Me too. Speechless!
That’s a blk man for you! Super predators
That last statement made me so angry and frustrated. There are a lot of good men out here who strive to be productive citizens who struggle to make meaningful contributions to those that matter. Something is severely wrong with this guy's mentality because real MEN have a legitimate job!
A man without a job is undatable, not debatable 😂🤷🏽♀️
And 7 kids on top of that. No way on God’s green earth would I date a man with 7 kids and/or jobless
Clearly not 😂😂 but should be
That applies for a woman as well. Or does it not because you want to be subsidized? Just wanna sit at home all day and take pipe when your man gets off work
Exactly. Then add 7kids, ignorant, no skills, no hustle, no assets, probably doesn’t even take the garbage out 🙄 she’s a fool.
@@Jac0b22 a lot of you men want that tho. A woman totally dependent and available for them.
Not a goal on her mind, just with her legs open 🙄
7 kids no job , what else did you like about him 😂 judge Mathis a trip
Ikr😂😂😂
I died laughing on the treadmill when I heard that 😂
@@ejioforlouis lmao, me too. People was looking at me like I was crazy lol
Love judge Mathis for his wit and calling out the foolishness.
his prison background...he's a keeper lol
She should have turned her dms off after the 7 kids alone. His other pathologies should have made her block him completely.
You should of stop squirting all over the place
Okaay iyanla! He got too many"ain't gots" first of all🤣
Exactly!!💣
@@Meca1986 Cryingggg😭😭
self esteem issues will get You played
Basically since he was honest about having no home, no job, 7 kids, being fresh out of jail and needing someone to pay his child support she said I’ll take it. 🤦🏽♂️
🤣🤣🤣😭😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Exactly what the heck was she thinking. I hope she learned her lesson 🤷🏽♀️
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He did all of that to her then told her, "maybe you need to get a guy with a job next time". 😶🌫️☠️😂
I couldn't believe he said that at the end either..She definitely needs to move on from him because he's too content with having nothing in life
🤣😅😂🤦🏿♀️. 😎
Right! Stunned by his lack of accountability. It's her fault that she decided to demean herself by going with him. No apology. Nothing. He basically admitted that she didn't want him to use her car. That was probably the one thing she was against. She paid the child support and the rent, but for some reason, the car was the last straw.
😂😂😂
I’m glad he said it! That’s exactly what she needed to hear.
The defendant has ZERO interest in acquiring a job, let alone a skill trade. He didn’t even seem to understand what JM was implying when he made the comment *”You been treating me like I was your son, and your baby”* Talking about *”That’s an understatement”* 🙄 I also cannot imagine a scenario where I would ever catch myself paying some dude’s child support. The plaintiff did this to herself.
What some women do to have a man
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He definitely didn’t understand what the judge was saying at all. I couldn’t believe all of the things she was willing to admit that she overlooked just to have a man. Smh
GM, that part@"I would never catch myself paying some dude's, child support".
IKR like WTH & WTF COULD NOT BE ME!!!!
Trust me she wasn’t the only inbox he was in . He was just trying to see who was going to bit . 😊
That part..==She was incarcerated right along with his BS. Carsh dummy ⚠️ 📢 alert!!!
Dude wasn't listening. Damn Judge was giving out Wisdom!
Yes he is right Mr lady you have all the Red flags n you still deal with all the bull shit have you have to deal with the out come of all the bull shit the come with it too if look like you just want some body not quality man who will to help you get up in life help pay your bills rent food make love to you n More
"He was charming except to the ppl who are hiring" JM😆👊🏾
He was charming with exception of people who hire !! I’m dying !! 😂🤣
That's right. Get to the core of the matter very quickly instead of all the nonsense.
JM is so on point with the shade lol
Audience didn't even catch it lmao
He wasn’t no dang charming. Ain’t nothing charming about having 7 kids, no job, and a record. That’s off top…she was just desperate.
That went over my head., I had to rewind it 🤣
Wow as a young black male myself trying to get myself up in the world judge Mathis is truly an inspiration. I know sometimes he goes in tangents but I respect the lessons he teaches.
You will succeed!
You're on the right track young man, that's beautiful. Keep pressing and pushing, you'll receive everything you're working towards! ❤️ Judge Mathis is definitely an inspiration! I could listen to him everyday.
Young man, I agree. I wish you the best in your life journey. Be the inspiration that our young black men need.
Facts
Facts. I watch him so much he’s like a distant uncle at this point. So I listen to every story because what makes a OG a OG is the experience and stories they have and tell. It’s up to the younger men out here to listen and learn. Uncle Greg always been on point and inspirational. He gives the game and I soak it up. Never ignore the gems from the OGs.
And in the end, that’s really who he is and how he felt. That’s a shame.
I can’t believe he actually said what he said in the very end, 🤦🏽♀️
That part
I'm happy he used her women do it all the time
I guess the dating market really is a cess pool. No job, jail and paying somebodies child support 🥴
Dating pool SUCKS for women bc we outnumber men 4:1. Yet n still, I'll be single my whole damn LIFE b4 I pay another bih for her kids wit my dude. Sis was desperate af😫😭
@@Bih1stOfAll right 😂
A lot of women date men like this and turn around and call men Who have their stuff together “too nice” or “corny”. Smh
Swimming in shit!
Find something else to focus on if you cannot find a compatible, crime free partner. Lowering your standards all the way down to HELL should not be on your list of alternatives.😬
I can’t believe the defendant with his sob story like he wants someone to feel sorry for him and I don’t 😂
This a whole mess 😂
I never heard JM tell the story like this before he got me in my feelings!
I've heard him tell this story a few times before but for some reason I teared up this time from how real he got with the young man.
I cracked up when he said maybe you need to get a guy with a job next time 😂 he knows he’s a bum
HE has the nerve to say "next time, I think you need to get a man with a job." Wow! YOU THINK!? Just goes to show, he wants nothing in life but babies that he can't take care of. Smh
It really shows how warped his mentality is making that ridiculous statement to her at the end.
Taxpayers take care of his kids
He's one of the most trifling people I've ever seen.
JM is not going to pass up a chance to talk about himself.
😂😂
I know 🤦🏾
As he should! Show the dusties that their excuses are really NOT an excuse
Omg I had to skip past all that 😂 like we’ve heard that story over 100 times & he’ll never get tired of it
If my story was like his, I would too lol
When he told her “you probably need a man w/ a job next time”… know that felt like a slap in the face
HE HAS THE BAD TASTE IN HIS MOUTH NOT HER HE GOTTA PAY HER
Word.
Of course he is going be charming, I mean... he already has 7 kids
😅😅😂😂😂
Shoo he the Charm King! I remember back 1 time when I had 2 cars, Own Apt ,1 child and females did not want to settle down . Majority Women like guys who thy can save smh Its Not Up For Debate Ladies...I seen it All My Life
7 kids no job and she snatched it up with the quickness docta
Yet guys like me are single and unnoticed. They either want to take care of a man or be taken care of by one. Really no in between
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Not "docta" like Mathis be sayin🤣🤣
Snatched from what? lol Hopefully, she wasn't in competition with anybody
41 years old nothing to show for his life but 7 children, debt, full of excuses...smdh
What's even more pathetic is he'll find another woman like her out there again. Probably all of his baby mamas were like her, cause I'm sure he's got more than 1. Surely no woman would be that foolish 7 times, get what I'm saying!?...smh! 🙄
He'll never be done paying child support. They'll be taking it out of his social security!
@@joannturner1453 That's true! 😌
He's your type as well big Shirley
He has his GED😂😂😂😂
GET EDUCATED Dummies….
Congratulations JM!! What a wonderful testimony!! 🎉💖🎉
"Hey Beautiful" is definitely the opportunists motto😂😂🤣🤣
😂
😂 precisely!
Hey Queen 😂
@@scottrogue946 that too😂
The THIRST is still so REAL🗣️Hey beautiful, hey queen🤦🏾♀️.
I can relate...I went to college and begin the process of going through dcsf to get Licensed to obtain my daycare. My juvenile record came up and I fought and did dispositions and all to beat the system and judges to pursue my career and it all worked out🙏🏾 Don't let your past dictate your future
Amen...tht is beautiful
@@kendraheard8240 Thanks much mad luv
Inspiring.
@@KennuhWayne I concur
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Just listening to the opening narration I can spot some of the red flags about this guy: first, he has 7 kids. Second he needs someone else to pay for his child support
And no job, stability or accountability.
He'll find someone else to pick up the slack
First, he has 7 kids. Second, he has 7 kids. Third, he has 7 kids.
Zero
My 16 yr old son was with me when I turned this episode on and he said “who is that mom, 7 kids, whew, turn it up” and I did. He needed to hear this lesson about taking every opportunity afforded you and making one when needed! I always tell him he can go further than a lot of these kids, cause he done been through some things and from that comes experience …. The other lesson was one I learned some time ago, take the compliment and move on sis! If he can’t add to what I have, in every aspect, keep it moving sir…
4 years with no job? Hell nah.
Judge Mathis kept it so real w/the defendant.
Did he and he rarely do it like that. This my 1st time hearing he stayed n a crackhouse for 2yrs while finishing law school that's deep
Judge Mathis Story is so inspiring coming from a rough background.
Keep telling them judge Mathis! We need father figures like you in our community that make our men and women take accountability! no excuses! Even for myself I need to get back in school. Thank you for always using even your downfalls as motivation to help others know that we can make it past our failures
Even myself. SELF, start and finish.
People don’t need judge messy. They need their own pappys, like his had
Did u go back to school ? If not it’s a new year tommrow put your self first
“Next time find a man with a job” lmfaoooooo ma’am stop dating
Broke men that make excuses smh. As a black man I'm ashamed 🤦🏾♂️
And I am ashamed of her for knowing he had seven kids from seven different women, he had no job, no ambition, no car or "cor" as she says. Both are a disappointment.
@@joannturner1453 💯
@@joannturner1453 EXACTLY!
@@joannturner1453 LMAO. "cor"
What's crazy is how many women keep picking those guys ower good men.
21:29.......The defendant's closing statement let's you know everything you need to know about him as a person. ⚖
No her opening statement let you know
Dang JM story is remarkable. He said they held his license for three years but he still didn’t go back to his old lifestyle EASILY but didn’t. Wow
I lived in Saint Louis, I went to trade school. I caught three buses and the metro link so I could get a trade. I completed the program and have been gainfully employed since then. I didn’t have my own place and managed to figure it out! He could have figured it out if he wanted to.
Amen! Congrats to you! 🙂
Hope you'll make it out of Raggedy St Louis pretty soon. Congratulations
@@knightclassic1Yep! Got TF out of STL.
He was a premeditated USER when he slipped into her DM. And after what JM said, hope he make a change, but I doubt it. He on to the next.
"A premeditated user", lol. That is funny
Sniffed out a love sick puppy
@@Ladylovebug26 Yes, he knew it and that's what he does latch on her for a ride forever how long. He's all those things she said at the end. And his reply was shameful.
@@savethechild1953 EXACTLY!!! He thought he was really saying something with that response!
Is it so rough out there that an unemployed jailbird, with 7 kids is an acceptable mate? Geez.
You 'll be surprised
And wearing a Chef coat to boot
Only for those seeking love in all the wrong places.
Sis, no.
She seems so sweet. She deserves more in life!!
I’m sorry I gotta say one more thing. He had NO JOB, SEVEN KIDS, FRESH OUT THE JOINT, and for some reason, she thought he was going to pay her back for the car.
And did she say she felt bad for it getting him a gift for Father’s Day? She was paying his child support there is the gift gtfoh.
Oh he went to jail while they were together.
This lady has a self issue 😒. I mean self esteem in front of the 0.... she did things not even a wife with do.
Paying child support she is the daddy 🤣 should’ve got herself a gift tf
I'm flabbergasted too.
A gift u definitely going pay back lol
How does she think he's going to pay her this money?
The show is paying the judgement.
Luckily she’s going to get her money from the courts. He will have to pay the court back.
@@K_Cole0128 Oh really. I didn't know the litigants would have to pay the court back.
@@callmejd7536 I believe they do.
@@K_Cole0128 I don't think so, but you may be right.
The judge is so smart & hilarious at the same time I just absolutely love him 😅❤
Yeah he cool when he ain’t dtm
@@smaxksum5685 in my opinion he only do the most when folks come in his courtroom on the foolishness 🤷🏾♀️🥴
That “ come on man on Father’s Day” killed me , he looked at him like man damn
did he really just say she needs to get a guy with a job and he has 7 kids?!
I was flabbergasted!
I was bewildered when he said that. Tf
It's true though. Plenty of red flags and she ignored them.
@@robinaaayyeee DUDE HAD A BITTER TASTE IN HIS MOUTH
@@kfitz192 ofcourse it’s true but for him to say it out of his own mouth like he’s proud of not having a job is wild
Paid his child support?! That’s just ridiculous…He’s not even married to her. They only dated for four years smh …. She should have had a female judge to hear her case so that the lady judge could have gotten on her a little bit. JM was so concerned with getting on his case; however, she’s half the problem. She is just as much to blame as he is. Just ridiculous…
When being lonely goes bad!!!! And thirst for affection and acceptance! Prime example
I had to rewind the very end to make sure what I heard was wtf I heard...this guy is something else
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She was basically a "female John" paying for bedroom adventures...because that's all he has going for him. She could not have reasonably expected of man with seven kids, almost no education, no job, and a criminal record to be anything other than what he turned out to be. Now, she's mad at the "prize" she applied for. I'm not indifferent to the personal and systemic challenges that hindered his progress, but this middle age woman HAD to know what she was getting.
Prize 🤣
People will only do to you what you allow. No company is better than bad company. Choose wisely❤️
Whoo Chile, she should be embarrassed telling this story. JM need to ask what's wrong with HER.
There’s a lot of levels between high maintenance and zero standards.
He's disrespectful but he told her the truth that you should get a man with a job next time. Never tell the narcissist that they are a narcissist.
I love how JM used this as a teachable moment, but can we hold her accountable for trying to be a hero! He couldn’t even go stay with any of his kids mom🤔🤔🤔 that should have said enough! 🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️
Did he just say “I think you need a dude with a job”
Wow! What a LOSER!
He had the audacity to say you need a dude with a job. The standards have fallen significantly!
@@symontemplar1418 exactly! And it further proves that he learned nothing from JM testimony.
Yep. Putting the blame back on her, even if it makes him look terrible.
“Maybe you need to get a guy with a job” 💀💀💀 I hope she listened to him and got TF on
Defendant:Maybe u got to get a man with a job next time 🥴🤦🏽♂️wth 😂
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How do men get women without having jobs?? I really want to know 😂
Because that's all that she qualifies for
@@bigamemphis10 naw, she definitely worth more than that.. if she working, she deserves a working man at the least
@@bigamemphis10 Be honest. You're saying she has to scrape at the bottom of the barrel because you think she's not attractive .
@@christophercolumbus1705 a job doesn't make a woman date worthy.
@@symontemplar1418 I never said that she wasn't attractive, but if a man that's 40 years old, makes excuses, has 7 kids and no job and she accepts it, then that's what she qualifies for.
Lol😂I was not ready for that last comment lmbo 😂
Judge is a fool. " She didn't bring me no Band Aids". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She seems to be a beautiful soul and her intentions are pure! I pray that she finds someone who truly loves her❤
Pure intentions with a lack of brain power and self esteem.
she slow and thirsty !!! its 2022 women cant still be this naive
@@peacefaith560 EXACTLY 💯
I pray that she learns to love herself
@@peacefaith560 Especially at her age. Like come on
Damn “Get a man with a job”😮 did it for me
I fast forwarded and JM was stillll talking about himself 🙄
Lmao 😂
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Judge Mathis' life story is so inspiring. I learn something new EVERY TIME he tells it!
Judge Mattis is a representation of “what the enemy meant for evil, God turn it for good”
Amen 🙏🏾 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Damn. At the end he said "maybe you need to get a guy with a job." That's something up right there. And where do we pay someone else's child support who is not your husband? What is wrong with her? She's that desperate to be with a man that she would do something stupid like that? 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
She did some things that most wives don't even do!!!! This lady needs Therapy!!! How do you pay the man's child support????? And no commitment, paying all the bills,this lady has a self esteem issue that only God can heal. I never heard anybody on this show say "I paid his child support ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️shesh!!she's!!! And then he had the nerve to teach her a lesson about choosing someone with a job...smh
Even a Squirrel can find a nut..js
Look at blue shirt in the back when she say seven kids 🤣🤣🤣
😂 I had to go back... 🤣
I pray that she has learned a lesson from dating this shell of a person. To be so bold and say, “I think you just need to get a guy with a job next time” is wild. Honestly, his whole last statement made zero sense.
You know I really respect judge mathis testimony to that young men cause Even though times may get hard and it looks like it's over you can't give up
Waw his last statement shows who he really is, I am glad the judge called him out
Exactly, her insurance lapse has nothing to do with your having wrecked her car. You still owe her.
Judge Mathis speech need to go on loop for most Blsck men, literally none of them take accountability it’s always someone’s else’s fault. A lot of them don’t want it bad enough to work, the crack era did a number on our people…
No... Racism & White supremacy did a number on our people.
The defendant is an example of why Black men are at the bottom. Black women need to stop being a mother to these grown men. He told her at the end " maybe you need to get a guy with a job next time". Even he know he ain't shit
As a black woman, I will never accept a comment like that towards black men. Sorry ass men come from every race. Do not single out black men. That was a highly disrespectful comment for you to make.
@@BIGLIPNIKKIAs a Black woman, I said what I said. This case was an example of my comment.
Lmao, you may be at the bottom with him but I'm not lol. I wouldn't even associate with a man like him. He wouldn't be anywhere near my circle of upstanding men that I associate with. 40 and still making excuses, naw.
@@bigamemphis10 You're an outlier. I'm speaking collectively. Reputatable stats will unfortunately show that Black men as being at the bottom
@@jroyal4480 where can I find these stats that you speak of. Because everybody yell stats and be wrong as hek.
She said she took care of him and paid his child support like she was proud of that 😩🤦🏾♀️
Plaintiff come on now, this is so embarrassing to watch. So, a man with 7 kids, not working, but you date him because "he's charming" what am I missing here?🤔 She's old enough to know better, and now wants to sue🙄😒
For four years and they lived together 😬🥴
You're not missing anything. The plaintiff is missing much. Self-esteem, common sense, eyesight.....................
PREACH👏👏👏
@@cyyrious , smh, talk about DESPERATE! 🙄
While I understand the SOMEBODY ANYBODY PLEASE syndrome, please DON'T do it. STOP saying you were helping, b/c your kind of help means you're signing up to be used, dragged, disrespected, lied too, exploited, cheated on & hurt if you survive.
He was gonna FCK up some more stuff if she kept messing with him. Ma'am you'll be left with nothing b/c he doesn't value himself or anything else. If you meet them when they're sorry, let them remain sorry without your input!!
Dude went from job to job Bed to bed!!! 😂
Lol the defendant giving dating advice to the plaintiff at the end was ridiculous
“I’m like OKAY” no NOT okay! LOL!! Man bye lady! Ugh
This is now one of my favorite JM episodes. You are such an inspiration and I admire your strength. I absolutely love how he takes the worse situations and he turns them into a lesson. I wish I could meet him one day. (Haha I'm a super fan) Love JM
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾JM was STATING ALL FACTS... WE Must have/take accountability... He has 7 kids, how in the HELL WOULD HE NOT WANT to get a decent trade in order to care for his children, even if not for his damn self🤦🏽♀️
JM kills me. Family support is everything bc 18is just a number. Why do parents or guardians stop having your back at that age? That's when life really begins. That's when u need them the most. Self motivation really isn't taught until later in life after so many f ups and that's why so many of us start prospering later in ages!
When she said she paid his child support notice the man behind her nods in agreement while the lady shakes her head 🤣🤣🤣
Judge i love when you tell your story, i get more and more inspired every time i watch.(need to at least obtain my Bachelor's )
Judge Mathis is the only one who cares about the lack of insurance
It must be a state thing…
She paid his child support and what now 👀👀👀
Yup. Incredible.
Charming 🥴🧐..how? Sissss!
"Maybe you just need a guy with a job."
And that's not gonna be you, huh? Way to listen to the judge. I feel sorry for every child conceived with this man.
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He didn't come to pay her back he came to get a lecture much needed sometimes this type of tough love is needed by someone with status
Judge Mathis dropped some gems in this episode. It really helped me open my eyes to some things
He didn't hear a WORD JM said because he was "Tooooooo busy Trying to Give his Po Man Story" He will always be the LOW LIFE he is until he change his mindset and as long as he can find women like her he will continue giving his POOR MAN story to any females with Low self esteem. I believe she would take him back if he just apologize for that last statement.
he just told her can't nobody ride you unless you are bent over
He has an excuse for everything smh
THIS NI- I mean DUDE TOLD HER SHE SHOULDA DATED A DUDE WITH A JOB?!?!? Dafuq!!?
That last statement shows how immature and irresponsible he is. And the defendant needs a job because of all that child support he neglected to pay.
The way he tried gaslighting her at the end and failed 🤣🤣🤣
I know he didn't say " maybe you need to get a man with a job next time." The audacity!!! This woman deserved so much more. I hope she now knows her worth and value. It's better to be alone.....