7 ways to level up in your 20s!!! | stop wasting yours and start doing this! | practical tips
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- čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
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F A Q
- Where are you ?
Lagos, Nigeria.
- How old are you?
I’m 23 years old, my birthday is on September 26.
- What camera do you use?
For my main videos use the Canon M50 and I vlog using the Sony ZV1. - Jak na to + styl
1. Be disciplined
2. Plan everything
3. Educate yourself
4. Mind the business that pays you
5. Invest in yourself
6. Learn to budget
7. Pick your friends carefully
Thank you so much
Thank you ❤
Thank you :)
Ain't you awesome? So thoughtful of you. Well done and thanks
Thanks alot
Thanks for sharing awesome tips sis. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
@@eiraantoinette6793 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
I hope it is useful to you.
@@gracedaniels6172 How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you grace keep it going 🎉👍
@@monicapep2474 I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
What you said about discipline being the glue that holds everything together is the TRUTH! I learned the hard way that you can have the best plans and goals, but if you're not committed to putting in the work, nothing will ever get done
I swear. Nothing is ever really easy
Please tell me how to start😭 I’ve been trying but the motivation is not there:(
Currently learning this.😅😩
True
I'm currently going through this 😥😥😩
I'm 24 and I've spent several years unhappy because I was too passive. I'm trying to take full control of my life so I don't have anymore regrets. It's been rough. I appreciate this video so much.
I swear just loosen up a little🥺
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda no
This!!!!
You got this!
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda no thank you🙂
Instead of studying for my test, I'm watching this "discipline is glue" 😭😭😭
😂🤍🤍
Garl am with u🤦😂😂😂 I keep saying this is the last one😭😭😭😭
Same here 😂😂
Yes🤣
Me too
🌷🌷🌷I will add one very important thing: start healing your childhood traumas sooner if you have any (I think the majority of us have), find a good therapist, don't underestimate their work. I started my healing process at 29. Now I am almost 32. I am amazed how my perspective on things have changed. Even though I did my best in my 20s, I see that I missed a lot of opportunities because I acted based on traumas. So ladies, add this to your list 🌻
SO IMPORTANT! 20s is the best and perfect time to start healing. @Kamsi Nnamani This definitely should be pinned at the top
Ok🥺🙏🏽❤️
Thank you
I love this
when she said “i promise google is free” i HOLLERED. sometimes i really do be forgetting
😂😂😂
“You’re no longer a child..your actually not” 😭😭 draaag me sis!
Love from S.A 🇿🇦♥️🙌🏾
😂😂 I dragged myself too sis😩😂🤍
Yhuu, I felt this one too🤣😭😭😭
She dragged me from her chest 😥🤣🤣
Bejng disciplined is so keyyy...last year I made a decision to be more discipline with everything I do ...be it my workout, content creating, studies etc...like I saw a big difference..it was life changing for me ..
Discipline is keeeey. Discipline, consistency, patience, persistence. Omo this is for life.
I havent even seen the whole room that you’re sitting in, but from what I can see, ITS SOOOO NICE!!!!
Aww thank youu. You can watch the room tour🥰
Me in my 30s learning this because I have not planned anything nor disciplined myself 😔 and I’m not happy with life cause I know I have so much to offer but my excuses has more “value” than my goals… don’t procrastinate y’all
Don't forget that one can plan but also learn to include GOD in your plans. I used to plan alot and I was turning in circles until I started praying to God and letting him direct my life. My life was never the same again. Let's normalise prayer and not listening to what people say. God has the final say
@@annamayyy9771 FACTSSS!!!
It’s not too late queen👏🏽👏🏽
It's not too late huni
“if you fail to plan, you plan to fail” a word.
Podcast recommendations: 🎥🌸Bechdel cast(portrayal of women in movies),🗣🇫🇷Duolingo, 💋💅🏽The Girls Bathroom(girl talk), 🌐Michelle Obama(deep conversations), 🧖🏾♀️Naked beauty(skincare), 💎✨Quality queen control, 👩🏾🏫science vs, 🌎99% invisible(miscellaneous info)
Your fave?
Where can I get them from
@@_gracia_chantal same question
@@_gracia_chantal audible
@@nyaguayee5553 audible
this is really good advice. i’m dealing w anxiety and depression so even clicking on this video was hard for me bc it seems overwhelming considering i don’t have any personal goals, i think i should just start a little at a time for now. like waking up the same time everyday or going on a walk
Good idea , just start somewhere!! You got this👏🏽👏🏽
yes, i’m in the same boat, i’m 20 and feel so behind in life because i don’t have any goals. but that’s definitely a start
Same
Yes👏🏾👏🏾❣️
TRUE after uni you realise that most friends you had were "organinc" just from school and now you need adult friends very tricky.
To add to the first tip, one needs discipline and consistency in EVERYTHING. I learnt that during my weight loss journey and that’s what I constantly tell my subscribers.
girlllllll me too! The consistency and discipline is real!!!
I should be studying but here I'm watching kamsi talk about discipline and planning 😭😭.
😂 we’ve all been there ❣️
samee, but its worth our time to know lol
So u can listen more and not study💓😊I get it😂🤝
😅😅🤣🤣🤣
Same
I JUST LEVELED UP SUBSCRIBING TO YOUR CHANNEL. This was so good, thank you!
GIRL SAME , like shiiit I wanna be you friend too!
Omg Jenny
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5) there’s beauty in not replying
6) invest in yourself
-look the part, act the part, do the part
7) BE GOOD WITH MONEY
8) be mindful of your friends
-no mind is an island
Shout out to you bc im in my late 20s and wishing i didnt get in a relationship from 19 to almost 24. Its okay now but thats one regret.
Oh wow🥺 must have been rough letting that go🤍🤍 no regrets..only lessons❣️
Same sis, sameeeee.
Be kind to yourself everyone makes mistakes but atleast you've learnt from it
Im scared now ,currently 21 and in a 4 year relationship.help!
@@beccakavejata3215 hi Becca, this might be so hard to hear but you really shouldn't be in a relationship at your age. You need to learn and achieve a lot before you get consumed by relationships and all that comes with it. Ask yourself why you're in this relationship and what you're gaining from it. Be really true to yourself and you'll see that you don't need this at your stage in life. You can also talk to a lot of women that started dating early or married early and they never have good things to say about it. Please read more, research more and listen to a lot of experienced coaches and you'll understand. Don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you what to do, just dropping my own 2 cents.
This is some of THE BEST advice I’ve heard on leveling up! It’s not just about superficial things, it’s about a whole lifestyle change and embodying a different version of yourself entirely - which requires the sacrifice, the discipline and the action that you talked about
Am almost turning 21 the urge of becoming this elegant mysterious lady has been knocking in me...i want to be this independent mysterious beauty queen...am trying to master these advices😩
I'm not 20yet but this is so inspiring.
She is soooo me
Read books....
Write books...
So... Me
I'm 17 and I thought I was listening to my self...
Love you...❤
I actually agree with the need to start it early(since the video is focusing on those in their 20s). In fact, the earlier(teen period) the better. Plus it is never too late for those in my age range, 30s and above. It may seem like you are doing too much when your peers cannot relate but trust me, it will pay off along the way. Be disciplined. It starts from there.
I’m a podcast lover as well. I listen to podcasts while doing chores and music while I’m working. Some podcast recommendations:
• Everything is We
• I said what I said
• You don’t have the range
• F & S uncensored
• Two queens in a pod.
I have some others but these are my faves atm.
Ouu thanks queen❣️
Ouu thanks queen❣️
My favorite is I said what I said 💯
I started listening to podcasts this year and I don't know how, but it's helpful
Hi , I’m interested in listening to podcasts too . Is there an app I could download to get them please ?
These tips are spot on, with discipline comes things you didn't think you can achieve. Or even you achieve things faster with a great mindset!
Omg exactly ✨
I really love this channel. Well done, sis. Will definitely share
One thing missing in the vid is the importance of keeping Christ close. We need Him to get through so much.
💯💯💯
True
Amen. I was waiting for that
‼️❤️
Facts
Podcast “Habits of a Prosperous women” she’s the truth!
Please where do I listen to this?
??
Set goals
Yes, girl, I love to plan, and creating a vision board can help out a lot too. It gets you excited about your future which we all need a visual of how we want to live our lives. Just remember it's all in God's timing! Having faith in yourself, being consistent & praying. You will be successful & live a prosperous life!
Exactly!!!! “Mind the business that pays you” Kamsi be spitting facts 💯🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Lori Harvey has mastered the art of being unbothered.
I love that for her 😍
You can’t have a father like Steve Harvey and still be bothered about what anybody thinks...
If you are having sex in different relationships, my dear you are not disciplined. LORI HARVEY is not disciplined. My dear choose your role model carefully
@@didimarcus277 what does that have to do with discipline?
@@didimarcus277 sex is the same whether in one relationship or in different relationships sir
Love this video !!!
I needed to really hear this😘😘
I really appreciate this Kamsi, thank you so much❣️
This video popped up just as I was thinking about how to not let my summer go to waste
I absolutely loved this!!!!!
Omgg I love your energy
i’m 21 and just finished uni and i found this SO helpful. i want to get into content creation and start leveling up in my career and finances. i just need to plan my shit out and be disciplined ur literally soooooo on point. thanks so much girl
Good babe you better make a plan and start I already subscribed so keep it up
@@amaniibrahim5599 you’re so sweett omg ahhhh i gotta get to work
I really love this video especially about discipline 👍🏽
Love this video a lot!! Thanks for this.
I needed to hear ALL of this!
Discipline is the key. I'm even learning from ur consistency, I'm applying it in my business too. Glad you even make a content about level up. Yass... Love it like
You’re welcome hun
The major issue with youths in their 20s that need discipline is SEX. Hopping from one relationship to another takes a chunk of your success life. So many youth have delayed their dreams because of this RELATIONSHIP SAGA before they realise it, they are in their 40s
@@didimarcus277 exactly you're damn right
The best advice I’ve heard from my mate 🙌🏾
Love this! Blessings to you🥰
very insightful 💖💕 love this!!
Planning everything really levelled up my life, because it gave me actual practical steps to follow through in order to do better, which later helps me to be disciplined! Those were great tips:)
Our £80 candle gloriously shining in the background 😂😂
As in ehn🤣🤣
Lmao putting her to work o. She must produce that money back
😂😂😂omo
Na by force oooo
Lol...I love us...
Loved every minute xx
I needed this talk this week !
omg i’m new to your channel but i’m so happy i found it! you’re so gorgeous and your aesthetic is BEAUTIFUL, but you’re content is inspiring and you seem so down to earth and I’m so excited to join ur following to see you grow 💗
Displine is actually really important💯
Really enjoyed this! Thanks girl
Guyyyyyy, this is so inspiring ❤❤❤❤
Such a brilliant video. Your 20's is the time to prepare for the future you deserve🙌🙌
This is THE best video on CZcams 🔥 it’s the way that EVERYTHING is on point for me! The beauty, the knowledge, the humor, the home decor, the makeup 😚👌
Loved this video !!
Love it!! Thank you for sharing
Well we all know kamsi has the personalityyyyy🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
I will deliberately listen to this every day. Not everyone deserves your energy. I'm so motivated right now. Keep it up
Everything about this...thank you! ❣️
these are literally the best tips i’ve heard! thank you
So I was looking for a video to send to my daughter to help build her mindset when i stumbled on this..you got me hooked plus we share same birthday..Nice.
it's the final look for me & I love how I take so much away from each video
I love this sm! Definitely subscribing! Love your way of thinking!
imma have to watch this again but thankyou so much 💕🌸
Ooo, look at our ‘larger than life’ candle sitting pretty 😅
I totally loved watching this video 🌸🌸. I lovvve podcasts too.
Favorite podcast that teaches me is “Unf*ck your brain” which is all about thought work and how you can use it every day in life
I love your words of wisdom 💕
Love this, your setup, and your personality!
Love videos like this! Super insightful.✨
thank you love!
this video is the motivation i needed! Honestly I had so many life changes recently that it threw me into dark place and now i’m trying to get back. thank you for this. also i know that candle must last forever
Your decor looks very nice
Such a great video!!
That friendship point is so on point.
The planning tip is something I've been doing since I was 17. I'm 20 now btw. Planning days before, or at the latest a day before, helps me move forward with things I'd been pushing back or things that need immediate attention. If someone calls or texts to meet up in the middle of me achieving things on my list, na them sabi. 😂
You're awesome! Love this
Thank you so much for this! Really helpful 💛💛
Definitely hits different when you hear these from someone your age. Love the tips 💕
Ikrr thanks love
podcast recommendations - Seasoning this UK Podcast. 2 black girls in their 20s living in Scotland!
Thank you for this episode 😊
Very insightful.
I find this video super helpful. Thank you, Kams!
Ok I think I need to work on my friends tooo
Absolutely LOVE how you said to stop thinking about other peoples business. Your so right about it being a waste of your time! It sounds simple and almost selfish but if you want to improve yourself then you need to change what you invest your thought into😝❤
I needed this video,thanks Kamsi🙏
SO SO SO SO GOOD! I love everything about this video.
For point 5, I do this all the time. I have an exam this week that will by God's grace usher me into one of my biggest dreams. Please wish me all the best and pray for me.
That is, investing in my goals.
Success is yours in your exams
@@lifestylewithmatty5671 Awwwww....Amen! Thank you so much. You are so sweet. You will be specially favoured by God in Jesus' name. Amen.
How did your exam go @Juliet Ambali...All the best, sis😘😘
@@olatanyealuko9757 Awwww....Thank you so much, sis. It went fine. To God be the glory.♥️💓💗❤️
Exactly disciple is the key !!! And won’t work if you don’t have self discipline. A lot of us know what we want but without discipline you won’t do anything. You just keep procrastinating like me.
Thank you kamsiiiiiii!!! You’re the best love 💕
Thanks Kamsi this was really helpful.
i loved this video! im 18 and working on leveling up as i enter my 20s and these tips were so great!! discipline is THE KEY to achieving goals and becoming your best self! i also totally agree that as you get older it can be harder to make friends with similar mindsets, that why i love finding videos like this because its like all of my BFFS are on my computer screen lol. love your vids, keep it up sis
Podcast Recommendation: Unlocking Us with Brené Brown.
Great tipss!
I needed this. Thank you.
I definitely agree and relate to all these tips! Great video,great advice.
Well, this video, in particular, got me to subscribe, and I must say this is one of the best, if not the best level up at 20 guides I have seen. I love your filming setup; the point you made about networking is really an important one, it is also one that will take anyone far, it's not even a Nigerian thing only. Oh! wow, I am just noticing this video was put out on the 7th of March.
Do what makes you happy 💗✨
I love this babe
girl you are spitting facts , love this video