I don't care where you land on the Dr/Not a Dr side, if someone tries to belittle you or your job on a date, politely leave. Someone trying to establish dominance early in the relationship is a major red flag.
People like you read too much into it. He most probably wasn't trying to belittle her or dominate her, just believing himself to be absolutely right about dentist not being real doctors.
Incorrect! If you say you are something you're not then people will call you out for it.. She said she's a doctor but she is not a doctor, she is a dentist..
@@rpmmoth712 My bf of 6 years was a dentist and his father as well in NYC. They never ever once responded "doctor" when asked their profession. But they did always always respond "dentist".
the exact same story and wording was posted online about 3 years ago with different people. People laughing with 'influencers' like these are a huge red flag
She could’ve been a neurosurgeon, and he would’ve said something to knock her down. He’s trash. Glad she got the red flag immediately so that she could get out.
If she was a neurosurgeon, then she has all the right to call herself a doctor. But the guy was right-dentists are not doctors; and claiming that you are is misleading. It’s like a janitor calling themselves “a doctor of waste disposal”-it’s just weird. Why not be proud of your profession (whether dentist or janitor-both of which I deeply respect) rather than twisting & inflating your job title?… I would trust a dentist with my teeth & mouth, and that alone. Anything other than that (heart, lungs, kidneys, stomach, muscles, etc.)-forget about it. I’m trusting a doctor. Because that’s what they do.
@@celestialknight2339 This argument is dumb because 1.) a physicist can be a doctor too without knowing anything about the body, illnesses, or medicine (look up what the word "doctor" means) and 2.) even if we just consider health, dental health is extremely important.
@@baifububa LOL Dental surgeons are not just “Dentists”. They are literally doctors/surgeons. The key term there “surgeon”. Just like a heart surgeon or lung surgeon-all of whom are doctors. But a plain old dentist is not a doctor. Simple.
I am a dentist, and I have heard this trolling all my life. Mostly from friends in other branches. Some have even addressed me as a glorified janitor (no offense to the profession... deep respects to people who keep things clean). I just wait until they have a toothache and then take them to a janitor to get their teeth "cleaned".
Would they call plastic surgeons doll makers that’s rude people need life threatening dental surgery all the time or infections in the bone help people eat sold food that drastically changes there health for the better
Indians love shitting on other people . I'm a physio . I know how you feel. Fuck ! I feel bad when they say dentists aren't real doctors . Andar se I be like "bohot manhoos lag rahe , rehne do" 😂😂
That is so rude!!! As someone with chronic teeth issues due to genetics mixed with poverty and minimal dental care as a child and now having 3 children/pregnancies that take a toll on teeth as well…. THANK YOU for all you do. I have fillings in almost every tooth, I’ve had 3 teeth pulled, I have 3 crowns and root canals. I have an amazing dentist who for me has been borderline a psychologist for me through hard visits. The scariest work to get done that requires the most patient and caring person to do their job. Ps I can tell your an amazing person but how you respect janitors as well.
@@Ghosty716I mean she is if she went through all the certifications and degrees and exams to get the title Dr then she is one. Even anthropologists who get a doctorate degree are Drs
She looks Indian. In India dentist doesn't considered as doctor in general public view. Technically they are doctors. I guess she may be gone date with some Indian finance dude
@@devrajswain In the Indian GOVT system... If MBBS/BDS/ ayush graduates enter regular Govt service... All of them are Grouped as Group A gazetted officers starting at LEVEL 10 pay scale and their official appointment letters will be written with their names with the preffix Drs. The only profession that calls themselves Drs but the Govt dsnt are Physiotherapist. They are kept at level 6 same as Govt Staff Nurses. And are not given the preffix Dr .
in our language we actually don't have the word "dentist" we only say literally "Teeth Doctor" , so no dentist in our culture have gone through a conversation like this 😂❤
and also in Latvian, Russian, Estonian, Slovenian, and Finnish-probably many others as well, but I only know about these ones-use the combination 'teeth doctor' in their respective languages. Since at the end of the day, all doctors specialize in a specific field, be it lungs, hearts, reproductive organs, teeth, or anything else related to the human body, you do not get one doctor for everything anyway. Maybe a general practitioner, but they will just know basic overall stuff in order to send you to the correct specialist @@beldinlov13
US trained dentist here. We are doctors, just not medical doctors and I would never pretend to be a physician or act like I do what physicians do. My patients call me doctor (lol or sweetie or dear, with older patients). I also wouldn't introduce myself as a "doctor" first thing when someone asks if that's what most ppl are all upset about - I would simply say dentist. We do learn about the whole human body though, at least in the US. The curriculum is pretty similar to medical school the 1st and 2nd year. 3rd and 4th year we specialize in oral health/oral medicine/dental specific classes. Annnnyway, all that said, we do some intense surgeries in the mouth. Extractions where we are drilling & removing patient's jaw bones, placing dental implants, full mouth reconstructions, IV sedation, disinfecting and removing nerve tissue, doing oral biopsies and so on. That's just on the general side. Oral surgeons are DDS/MDs usually and do 4-6 years POST dental school training. Sometimes our patients are really sick, I have to know about their systemic issues before procedures bc I can technically kill them . Ppl forget we do irreversible things to your mouth which can affect your whole body. And we definitely can get sued like any physician liability wise. It's not all just fillings and cleanings. But alas, the public doesn't care. It's fine. I'm glad most ppl don't need these intensive dental treatments and only see the most basic things we do. Most ppl hate the dentist anyway :'D
You are honest and down to earth and I love your answer. You're the most humble and realistic person here. Yeah, (especially after reading the answers here) that's what I was wondering, why didn't she just say she was a dentist in the first place
I'll never understand why people think dentist are not doctors... Teeth an important part of the human body. People die from something as small as a tooth infection
@@vegetable0327lol neither dentists are. if they were medical doctors, they’d get the same education as medical students, then choose that specialty and learn from there like all the other MDs. and you can’t just call yourself a “doctor” without actually earning the doctor title, they are shortened as dt. instead of dr. for a reason. it’s like calling yourself a professor with no actual conformation or evidence of being one.
because anything that has an association with human health doesn’t automatically make you a doctor. also being a doctor doesn’t depend on your opinion, it’s a status that you earn after years of education and you get a certificate for that. and since we’re talking about who’s considered a medical doctor specifically, dentist are most definitely not MDs. they would get that title if they were doctors, but they get the dentist title instead. BTW being a dentist is totally cool and an amazing, important job. it’s just kind of stupid that they trying to convince you that they’re doctors. it’s like nurses trying to call themselves doctors. you don’t have to be a doctor to make yourself feel more important. if you don’t have the title, you’re not a doctor, simple is that. it’s not something you can call someone as an opinion.
@@uraharakisuke39 well thankfully you're uneducated opinion is not recognised because the US considers dentists and dental surgeons as medical practitioners in the same standing as MDs. True that depending on the country the recognition of dentists changes. FYI a dentist is a medical professional who is skilled and licensed to practice prevention, diagnosis & the treatment of malformation, diseases, and injuries in the teeth, mouth and jaws. And like the girl in the video says it takes years of experience and residency especially in countries like the USA. Why else do you think they charge an arm and a leg for their services.
@@desmonidesnot really.....doing a medical degree is the hardest thing in the world. If someone can't appreciate that, then they are not marriage material.
Seriously, they are able to prescribe everything from antibiotics to opiates and administer gases. They also deal directly with bones, nerves, infections and everything that can happen within the mouth/gums/nerves. It’s outrageous to think that is not a doctor - just with expertise in most matters of the mouth.
@@MarsMcCarthy to add to your more serious approach, if you think dentists aren't doctors, but you let a dentist do these things to you, that means you let random people do anything to you as long as they can sell it to you.
@@sn5806I was about to say this. Both seem like terrible human beings with a chip on their shoulder. Trying to feel superior over others instead of being humble.
Dentists are doctors and in nearly every other country than America are also respected as doctors. So it seems it’s a you problem. She isn’t full of herself. Everyone with a medicine license has the right to be proud of their achievement and call themselves a doctor.
@@sn5806they work hard to earn the title. Doctor of dentistry, dealing with teeth is almost as bad as working in a sewer. All the dentists, or orthodontists you’ve probably went to whether it’s a root canal or a cavity takes a lot of precision and technique dealing with the limited space they are working with.
Everyone wants a healthy set of teeth and a great smile. Healthy mouth, healthy body. The teeth and mouth are part of the human body. I consider my dentist my doctor.
He was negging. Which is a common thing some people do when they're incredibly insecure about themselves. It somehow checks out that a person who calls themselves 'finance bro' would neg.
Obviously you can’t tell before you’ve even met someone ever, since that term is somewhat vague…corny but still vague. Stop trying to blame her as if she can read the future. Easy for you to say after you’ve heard the end result.
Pretty much regardless of how you feel about dentists and whether or not they should be called doctors; trying to bring someone else down or dismiss what they say about themselves as false is always a red flag.
as is introducing yourself as a doctor when you know what that means to people, its a weird thing to 'explaining' you actually are just as good but you arnt irl still, idk but I would not go on a second date with someone artificially bloating their ego like that
no I wouldnt, the closest thing we have,we call it a podo therapist, as it is in line with physiotherapy but I live in Europe so I dont think its the same. As I understand they do years of undergraduation, work in the hospital for years and have the same basic medical degree as phycisians@@NinjaThatLongboards
I agree. I don't have a problem with calling them doctors. However, I do think it's a little weird not to specify your dentist. When asked what you do for a living. Pretty sure most dentists do. Really not worth arguing about. Especially for the first date. Save it for the second one. Lol
How is it automatically bringing someone down when it's plain logic? If someone is delusional or misleading why can't you dismiss what they say about themselves?
It's semantics. As a dentist, I never go around calling myself a doctor. I am a doctor, but for some reason there is a distinction to differentiate one's self as a dentist vs a medical doctor.
@@franbihary8939a chiropractor is NOTT a doctor and that’s not even a comparable conversation. Chiropractors do not go to medical school and what they do is technically alternative medicine. Basically pseudo science
As soon as he said that, she should have walked out. The first line of disrespect, is a test. After that, it doesn't get better. As women, you need to understand that you don't have to explain yourself. Don't need to change anyone's mind. You spent 8+ years to let some stranger, degrade you?
Mhm. More women need to gain confidence. It's been time to stop giving trash men more chances or even another second to disrespect you. Walk up and leaving. Ghosting men. Turning the other cheek mid-conversation and going off. It's been so ingrained in many women's minds to explain ourselves and and put up with bs.
I have a doctorate and my husband has a high school diploma & has done really well for himself in management. I am constantly amazed at his people skills, event planning, ease at public speaking & ability to navigate workplace politics. Some of these are natural gifts and some due to his military training. Why must we devalue others based on an imaginary, socially invented heirachy?
I agree with some of your statements & I wouldn't devalue your husband's accomplishments. However, the real point is that on this date, this man chose to argue with someone he should be trying to impress. Yes, the man asks the woman out on a date, so he is trying to impress her. He showed himself to be combative. While you may have a doctorate in a field like education, your income may not exceed significantly what your husband makes. However, I believe this man felt intimidated that she had an earning potential that far outstripped what he could command.
This is so bizarre! I would never have thought that the very people who have helped me with all sorts of dental problems, including wisdom teeth removal and installing implants, might be look down on by anyone, especially non-doctors! Mad respect for any medical specialist!
lol no, this is incorrect. In the US, dentists removal wisdom teeth. Usually, they're oral surgeons, who are drs who complete dental school and specialize in OMFS residency. During that residency, they can choose to also get their MD. It's either 4 years after dental school or 6 years after dental school if they're doing the DDS/MD tract.@@PippyPappyPatterson
I don't think they call themselves finance bros. People who make fun of them call them that. They simply say they work in finance. Or they may say their actual job title.
I had a guy get down on me for my education when we first met. Let me say, I do not make a big deal about my education (masters degree), nor do I think someone without a degree is lacking in any way and this guy asked! But any time I said something he didn't agree with or he said something I didn't have knowledge of he'd say, "Come on, college girl, you really don't know this?" Or, "I didn't think someone with a degree would feel this way." Made me feel 2 inches tall the way he was going on. It was obvious being college educated made him feel insecure, despite me showing an interest in his career, which was pretty successful, so not sure where the insecurity was coming from. But when I told him I wasn't interested in a second date, he accused me of being prejudiced against him because he didn't go to college. Pretty sure I dodged a bullet there. 🤦🏻♀️
Well, flip side is i went out with a woman who put on her Tinder profile that she went to Harvard. I made a little joke about it and she got all offended as if i looked down on educated people and elites. So i looked her up and she went to one of those 4 week Harvard sponsored courses anyone can get in to lol
Just because we don’t use the term colloquially for everyone, doesn’t mean they are not tested, titled, & officially recognized as a doctor. General doctors are simply the most encountered by general public. Being a doctor just means you have the highest recognized level of specialization within your profession. Medical doctors = M.D. Dentists have: D.D.S. = Doctor of Dental Surgery and D.M.D = Doctor of Medicine in Dentistry or Dental Medicine Pharmacists have: PharmD = Doctor of Pharmacy Academics have: PhD = Doctor of Philosophy
yeah but noone with a PhD goes around saying they are a doctor when asked what they do, its just like saying: I am college graduated, it means nothing about your job, just the level you studied at. She knows there is some overlap but its def not the same, all other MD's went through medical scool and thén specialized, even phychistrists/ Its weird she feels like he is rude about it and uses the common assumption to make a point, about how she is just as good as an MD
To be fair she seemed a bit insecure herself and trying to lift herself up. But I respect her nonetheless, and that guy was out of place to try and call her out in that circumstance. But if you’re a dentist, just call yourself a dentist. Be clear and proud of who you are. Saying “doctor” is very misleading. A lawyer (who is a “doctor of the law”) and theologian (“doctor of theology”) is misleading to call themselves a doctor. Same with a dentist, who has a totally different degree in teeth & mouth health. That’s just a fact, sorry :/
@@celestialknight2339You just compared a dentist, who do habe a medical degree, to a PhD and you thought you ate 😂 This thread is full of id&ts trying to justify how she's actually in the wrong and how she's actually insecure, you can't make this sht up 😂
@@SA-ey6nt A nursing home care provider might also have a “medical degree.” But that doesn’t make them a doctor. Please stop playing around. Language matters.
@@celestialknight2339we found the finance bro... she is considered a doctor period. she didn't mislead him either bc she explained she does dentistry. he just couldn't handle it.
@@celestialknight2339and language does matter because in my language and in other languages we refer to dentists as teeth doctors if you would literally translate it. so 👍
If there was a major issue in your mouth you actually do have to go to a proper doctor though, not a dentist. You go to an oral surgeon or an ENT or maybe a plastic surgeon... Not a dentist.
@@2twin2kyou do realise that an oral surgeon is a dentist don't you? It's just an extra specialty after graduation. Just like a doctor can go on to specialise as a surgeon. Also no you don't go to ENT.
@@aesinamoral maxillilosurgeons are actually... MDs not dentists. It's just that the requirement is so close that some end up with both MD and a DDS because it's just a few extra courses but without that, they are MDs
Don't worry. She will still know the basic life saving procedures to save your life if that situation occurs. Because they're taught that too. If they're not performing them doesn't mean they don't know them.
You would be lucky then, they are trained on CPR, can administer drugs and many other things that probably would keep patient alive until the planes touch ground
In my country dentists are called dentists, they are not recognized as doctors. The training here is different so I guess that’s why. They can be called doctors if they get a doctorate but not just from getting licenciatura. I didn’t know in US it was like that 😱 Odontólogo or ortodoncista depending on the specialization is more common to use here.
He was rude, but, I agree with him. in my country doctors are not classed as doctors and it would be very strange for a dentist to tell someone that they are a doctor (unless they were referring to having a doctorate degree)…
Most languages word for dentist translates directly as "tooth doctor". They're doctors. Being a specialist in a specific medical field doesn't suddenly mean you're not a doctor. And yes, oral health is medical. People can die from untreated tooth infections. How the hell is that not medical?
It's also bizarre to try to start out a potential relationship by arguing with the other person. He was testing how much disrespect he could get away with.
@@M0butu the german word for meat is Fleisch and it's used for both meat and flesh. you could also translate it as tooth flesh, but tooth meat is also correct.
It does seem a bit strange that she would refer to herself as a doctor when casually asked. I would think most dentists would just say they are dentists?
Yeah, actually dentists that do “residency” are those who try to apply for specialty after graduation, a set of stuck up tryhards (typically not all). A DMD can work the day they graduate, unlike MDs who study extra years in order to practice. So yeah, big red flag from both, the dude wasn’t cool about it but she ain’t that type of doctor lol. I say I’m a dentist but ppl still call me doc
From her accent, she's probably Indian. In India, dentists are considered doctors even though dentists do not go through medical school, they go through dental school. So to boost their egos, in India, dentists refer to themselves as "doctors" instead of just saying "I'm a dentist". But the guy was not wrong. Dentists are actually not the same type of doctors as MBBS or DO
Dentists are definitely a type of doctor, but I think it comes off bad to call yourself a doctor instead of a dentist..... it has to do with being humble and realistic and relating to other people
@@chloro8306 Not trying to be rude or anything but who tf imagines a dentist when they hear the word 'doctor'?? Ofc I know they are doctors but they're defo not the first type to come to mind when talking about doctors.... atleast not for me
@@airplanedude3103it doesn't matter. He should have just said okay and continued with the date when he she specified she was a dentist. Dude just sounds obnoxious and arrogant
@@praz7what comparison is that? Dentist? nurses? janitors? Dentists can't be nurses and nurses can't be dentists. They all do different roles. For your information not all dentists perform surgeries. Dental surgeons do.
@@melissacole1821 my staff call me by my first name but they refer to me as 'Dr.(my name) .' when talking to patients. Or they say 'The dentist'. If I said I'm a doctor it would imply a Medical doctor, which is misleading. Most of my patient call me by my first name too, they pay my salary they can call me whatever they like😊
Thank you, these people in the comments are absolutely ridiculous. They should know the heavy connotation that comes with calling yourself a doctor outside of academic spaces implies medical practice, which is evidenced by how finance bro had to literally ask a follow up question to get her real occupation. Ridiculous
All those who say dentist isn’t a dr, have a tooth ache, root canal or dental extraction - u will never dare to call them NOT a dr, dentists are the most important doctors ever
OMG- my cousin just graduated dental school-she’s the first in the family to have a degree past masters so I am sooo proud of her but can NOT believe the amount of people that tell me their relatives are ALSO DENTISTS-when they are actually hygentists and TRULY argue this-HOW are aooooo many people sooooo dumb?!? Also, fun fact- my cousin is ONE MILLION dollars in student debt after all the school and it’s EXTREMELY difficult to get into dental school!!!! I hope this girl in the video gets the recognition and respect she deserves in the future
Dentists are not doctors… At least legally they are not allowed to state this in any healthcare setting outside of their own practice, as it’s misleading. I’m not hating… I’m a pharmacist who also received a doctoral degree but I don’t tell patients I’m Dr. Whatever in the hospital where I work. Neither do the physical therapists, occupational therapists, physician assistance, nurse practitioners who might also have the same level of education, completed a residency and/or be board certified. He didn’t need to say that but she is reaching and overcompensating when people in healthcare know this.
You're wrong. The protected title for medicinal doctors in the USA is MD, which stands for the latin Medicinae Doctor, or Doctor of Medicine in english. Anyone getting a PHD gets the title of doctor in their respective field. PHD stands for the latin "Philosophiae doctor", meaning doctor of phylosophy in english 😅 The fact that english speaking people decided to call physicians "doctors" is a bit weird in all other languages, since doctors comes from the latin word "doctor" which simply means teacher... For example, in french, a PHD is called a "doctorat", and physicians are called "médecin", which doesn't have any similarity as you can see since anyone can get a "doctorat" in any field, which logically makes more sense than calling physicians "doctors"
Dentists are real doctors. Dentists hold doctoral degrees and therefore are considered “doctors”. Now is a dentist a medical doctor? In most cases, no. But they can still prescribe medications, as you can see. As a pharmacist, I’d think you’d know that. Of course there are differences in this field but in some professions, like a dentist, you can be a doctor at the same time. For example: When you go to the dentist, do you say “Dr. __” or “Mr/Ms/Mrs.__”? Same question goes for a pharmacist. (I’m not trying to trash your profession by the way. I apologize if it sounds like it)
Seriously. Like they got doctors who work on just feet. Plastic Surgeons don’t get their doctor status contested. But some people will go to hell and back to attack the dental field
@@akosua8779No, its a reach the same was therapists and veternarians would be reaching if they are telling people their profession is doctor. If people with doctorates want to be called Dr. So and So...fine, you earned it. But if someone asks your profession and you say youre a medical doctor? You didn't put in that work, and you're trying to give yourself a status that wasn't earned. Be happy with what you are or do better, playing word games, and playing with people's assumptions isn't lying but it's close.
Yeah ok but saying you're a doctor instead of just saying you're a dentist is really misleading 😅 if you were proud of your job you'd immediately say dentist. Dentists are just as important as other medical professionals, and it's a great and well respected job. No need to mislead. Be proud of it
Same difference. And anyway why does it matter on a date? If the girl is smart, kind and is a dentist, what's your problem? What a missed opportunity! Guy could have had free dental services for life if he played his cards right. Dental services are crazy expensive and he's not really financially-savvy if he could not make good on that opportunity.
In Europe you don’t call dentists doctors. Actually once I tried to make an appointment with a dentist and asked for an appointment with the “doctor”, the sectretary was so confused and said “Do you mean you want an appointment with the dentist?”
Dentists may be doctors but don't typically refer to themselves as such. I feel like dentists typically tell you they are dentists not doctors and some other doctors do this also, maybe a cardiologist would be another example.
@khunden teeth are the hardest bone in your body and their health is an indicator of the health of your body. They are the only visible bone in your entire body. The number of conditions of can diagnose by examining them is myriad. So yeah, ortho called back and said 'keep calm and carry on'.
Whi the fuck says they're a doctor when they're a dentist? I understand a dentist is a doctor. What I don't understand is why she didn't just say "I'm a dentist."
@@prettygemini3432 because majority of people don’t see dentist as doctors. She knew that from deep down but her insecurities and her big ego was in the way. If I were a dentist and said I’m a doctor and girl told me dentist aren’t doctors I would’ve just laugh and move on to the second date. That’s the difference between men and women.
@@easylife6348 is that not what she did? She said she didn't see them again. And I'm glad she's correcting people and educating them because they deserve the recognition for their hard work. Medical school and dental school is not easy at all
@@prettygemini3432 yea but at the same time it’s not that serious. A lot of people don’t know, can’t let your ego stop you from what possibly a good thing right in front of you. There’s plethora of women ghost men for the smallest things and they think it he’s toxic, or he’s a womanizer, or he’ll about to break her heart, and all that nonsense they be assuming and overthinking about. That’s why men need to have game, meaning he have to be careful how he walk, talk, breathe, eat, how he wear his clothes, how he tied his shoes, how he look, how he smell, how he think, how he not think, why he talk, how he spend his money, how he not spends his money, all just to make the girl feel comfortable being intimate with the guy shes dealing with. I know this is an exaggeration but a lot of women be too damn judgmental of how a man is.
I remember when I was dying and needed oral surgery. When the dentist came into the OR, if I was able to speak, I would have said, "But you're not a real doctor! A Finance Bro told me so!"
So fyi some oral surgeons actually have both a dental doctorate as well as a medical doctorate since some schools require them to take classes at both the dental and medical schools for this pathway. So sometimes you’ll see DDS MD or DMD MD after their names. There’s a lot of overlap between dental and medical school as it is but these folks basically have to overlap even more. Usually the oral surgeons are the best trained of all the dentists
In Norway the word for dentist is 'tannlege', which literally translates to 'tooth doctor'. The same is true for many other languages as well, e.g. German and Japanese.
And she SURELY interested in his earning potential enough to go on a date. Yeah, he’s an asshole, IF, she’s reporting accurately…and he was clearly NOT INTO HER at all for him to say that. He would have told her exactly what she wanted to hear otherwise ;)))
The fact that the mouth alone is linked to overall health is why dentists are actually really important. Going to the dentist regularly can reduce the risk of certain cancers, heart disease and even some forms of dementia. He definitely dropped the ball with this sweet lady
Why didn't she identify as a dentist? Dentists are highly trained, but laypersons often see them differetly from a doctor. They both seem to have ego issues.
@@lockonstratos7787 It doesn’t even matter if you care about her profession. She cares about it, or she wouldn’t have spent all those years studying for it.
@@censusgary and that's fine she can care all she wants, what I'm getting at is women seem to have this stupid idea that a man wants a successful career women. Reality is MEN DONT CARE, a man will date a fucking cashier just the same as he would date a women who has a successful career like a doctor or lawyer, the point is to men your job doesn't fucking matter and women need to learn men dont give a fuck about you job so quit acting like that's what men want when its not.
High key - as someone who works in ~finance~ and sees the result of their work- dentists often make more money than medical doctors. (obviously depending on the specialty but by and large it's the case.)
Modern usage of the term “Doctor” correlates with “Physician.” She knew her response would be misleading and seems insecure about being a dentist. If she was truly proud of it, she would’ve said dentist. I have mad respect for dentists who own their work and are proud to admit they’re a dentist. Not someone who has to refer to technicality to make themselves feel better😂 You’re a dentist, not a doctor. You have a PhD, you’re not a doctor. You’re a Physician who saves lives? You’re a doctor. Wake up people, you’re stretching here trying to defend her.
Dental school is just as tough as medical school, and you even have to learn cardiology because many heart issues reflect in teeth. I know multiple dentists who have saved lives becaused they spotted a cardiac issue while working on a patients teeth.
Yes, all of that is true, but it doesn’t make them doctors. Let me repeat your comment: “X ray techs have to go through tough training and schooling, and they learn all about the body, pathology, and health. Plus they have saved many lives.” But none of that makes your local X ray tech a doctor. An important job? Oh yes. But a DOCTOR? (Physician)…No.
@@jcwarner90 A doctorate = a PhD. Most dentists do NOT have a PhD, unless they decide to earn one (which is a minority of people). I think what you meant to say is a _doctoral_ degree-which is completely different. It is therefore still misleading to call yourself “a doctor” (as a dentist) because most people understand that to mean a medical doctor/physician, which dentists are NOT. According to the American Medical Association (Policy H-405.969; ‘Definition of a Physician’)-and I can’t believe I even have to do this-but they clearly define a physician as: *_”An individual who has received a "Doctor of Medicine" or a "Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine" degree or an equivalent degree following successful completion of a prescribed course of study from a school of medicine or osteopathic medicine.”_* And they also CLEARLY require anybody who falls outside of this (which includes dentists) to refer to themselves as, and I quote, a *_”NON-PHYSICIAN”._* If that doesn’t tell you enough, I don’t know what will. But hey, go ahead and send the AMA a passionate email if you disagree!
These are the facts, dentists are dental surgeons, and "doctors" are physicians, who depending on their specialities are specialists of their fields like radiologist, oncologist, etc. Just because theyre specialists DOES NOT mean that theyre no longer doctors right? A dentist is someone who simply gets an early specialisation. Believe it or not, we're still taught the entirety of anat, physio, biochem in our first years which is literally the same thing taught to mbbs students in our first year besides dental subjects. We're just doctors who specialise in teeth. Simple as that. We'll refer to ourselves as dental surgeons just as often as mbbs graduates refer to themselves as physicians. Its only fair. At the end of the day, both dentists and physicians are every bit as "doctor" as each other.
It’s wild that same people who push the principles of hard work and respect, have no problem devaluing the drive and determination it takes to be a doctor of ANY profession. Doctor simply means you have the highest degree of specialization within a given field.
"I need to see a tooth doctor," said nobody, ever. I get it - they go to medical school and such, but the reality is, most people call dentists, dentists. Dentists call themselves dentists. So why did this woman say she's a doctor? Because she was trying to impress her date. It backfired. If she'd just proudly said "I'm a dentist" maybe the date would've gone differently
It was over the moment he called himself a finance bro
WHO DOES THAT 💀
I just paused this video for that. As a scumbag, I can detect it from a mile away. He had it in spades.
Right 😂😂😂
He wasn’t a real “finance guy”
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I said it, dudes do crypto and podcasts then call women useless 💀💀💀💀💀
astrology for men
@@villaineramatriarchyno. They’re mentally unstable
I have yet to meet a a finance bro who wasn’t insufferably autistic or at least acted like it
Well on averge women dont contribute Money to the country since they Take more Money than they contribute by taxes
Ikr lol
If you go on a date with a guy who calls himself a 'Finance Bro' you should expect douche baggery like that 😂
😂
9 times out of 10 they just mean they spend a lot of time on Twitter arguing about shit coins and losing money
@@ViridianFlowlol TRUE
And if you go on a date with a dentist who calls themselves a doctor you should 100% expect a delusional woman 😂
I don't care where you land on the Dr/Not a Dr side, if someone tries to belittle you or your job on a date, politely leave. Someone trying to establish dominance early in the relationship is a major red flag.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
People like you read too much into it. He most probably wasn't trying to belittle her or dominate her, just believing himself to be absolutely right about dentist not being real doctors.
@@banerjeehome5913you're probably the red flag
@@shreeyagupta4761or just dumb😂
Incorrect! If you say you are something you're not then people will call you out for it.. She said she's a doctor but she is not a doctor, she is a dentist..
He was trying to bring her down. Guys do that to feel superior
She brought herself down, by saying she was a doctor and she is a dentist
@@hollystiener16dentists are a type of doctor
@@hollystiener16 There are different kinds of doctors goofy
@@rpmmoth712 My bf of 6 years was a dentist and his father as well in NYC. They never ever once responded "doctor" when asked their profession. But they did always always respond "dentist".
Yep
Her: “..who called himself finance bro”
Me: say no more sis. We already know 😅🤣💃🏽
Ahhh I screamed at this comment 😂🎉
She's obviously lying and you're dumb for believing her.
And she called herself a DOCTOR 🤡🤡💀
@@Hellotherettdont be an anti-dentite
I'd ask him: "WTF is a 'finance bro'? A stock broker?" 😂
He'd probably say yes.
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No like he said it was his nickname or alias not his occupation
@@PaulGuy good one 😂😂😂
Someone who inherited their money
The fact that he’s a finance bro was already a red flag 😂😂😂💀💀💀
Facts
Both seem sus tbf
the exact same story and wording was posted online about 3 years ago with different people. People laughing with 'influencers' like these are a huge red flag
She could’ve been a neurosurgeon, and he would’ve said something to knock her down. He’s trash. Glad she got the red flag immediately so that she could get out.
If she was a neurosurgeon, then she has all the right to call herself a doctor. But the guy was right-dentists are not doctors; and claiming that you are is misleading. It’s like a janitor calling themselves “a doctor of waste disposal”-it’s just weird. Why not be proud of your profession (whether dentist or janitor-both of which I deeply respect) rather than twisting & inflating your job title?…
I would trust a dentist with my teeth & mouth, and that alone. Anything other than that (heart, lungs, kidneys, stomach, muscles, etc.)-forget about it. I’m trusting a doctor. Because that’s what they do.
@@celestialknight2339
This argument is dumb because 1.) a physicist can be a doctor too without knowing anything about the body, illnesses, or medicine (look up what the word "doctor" means) and 2.) even if we just consider health, dental health is extremely important.
@@celestialknight2339 there are dental surgeons. And they are also dentists. And still, a PhD=doctor
@@baifububa LOL Dental surgeons are not just “Dentists”. They are literally doctors/surgeons. The key term there “surgeon”. Just like a heart surgeon or lung surgeon-all of whom are doctors.
But a plain old dentist is not a doctor. Simple.
@@celestialknight2339Is an OBGYN a doctor then? Because I would trust them with the female reproductive system but not with my heart and lungs....
I am a dentist, and I have heard this trolling all my life. Mostly from friends in other branches. Some have even addressed me as a glorified janitor (no offense to the profession... deep respects to people who keep things clean). I just wait until they have a toothache and then take them to a janitor to get their teeth "cleaned".
Would they call plastic surgeons doll makers that’s rude people need life threatening dental surgery all the time or infections in the bone help people eat sold food that drastically changes there health for the better
Dentists are a special type of people and I highly respect them because I could not be up in people’s nasty ass stinky mouths all day long.
Indians love shitting on other people . I'm a physio . I know how you feel. Fuck ! I feel bad when they say dentists aren't real doctors . Andar se I be like "bohot manhoos lag rahe , rehne do" 😂😂
No offence but Most of the time oyur ejust making teeth Look nice, ...Not the Same as a cardiologist
That is so rude!!! As someone with chronic teeth issues due to genetics mixed with poverty and minimal dental care as a child and now having 3 children/pregnancies that take a toll on teeth as well…. THANK YOU for all you do. I have fillings in almost every tooth, I’ve had 3 teeth pulled, I have 3 crowns and root canals. I have an amazing dentist who for me has been borderline a psychologist for me through hard visits. The scariest work to get done that requires the most patient and caring person to do their job. Ps I can tell your an amazing person but how you respect janitors as well.
His insecurity yelling at her
Lol yeah, but I don't get why he'd have that insecurity tbh. Finance is good and well paying too.
@@epicbusboys520in this economy?
@@suntzu751 yeah finance is awesome
@@epicbusboys520he's prolly investing in Bitcoin or crypto lol not actually having a finance degree
@@epicbusboys520 He isn't insecure, she is. Dentists never respond to what they do for a living as a doctor. That and her vocal fry would make me run
Confession through projection, he was a fake accountant so he thought she was a fake doctor 😂😂😂
I mean she's not a doctor
😂😂😂
@@Ghosty716I mean she is if she went through all the certifications and degrees and exams to get the title Dr then she is one. Even anthropologists who get a doctorate degree are Drs
She looks Indian. In India dentist doesn't considered as doctor in general public view. Technically they are doctors. I guess she may be gone date with some Indian finance dude
@@devrajswain In the Indian GOVT system...
If MBBS/BDS/ ayush graduates enter regular Govt service...
All of them are Grouped as Group A gazetted officers starting at LEVEL 10 pay scale and their official appointment letters will be written with their names with the preffix Drs.
The only profession that calls themselves Drs but the Govt dsnt are Physiotherapist. They are kept at level 6 same as Govt Staff Nurses. And are not given the preffix Dr .
in our language we actually don't have the word "dentist" we only say literally "Teeth Doctor" , so no dentist in our culture have gone through a conversation like this 😂❤
Indonesian? Because it is in my language too! People who make a fuss over this is simply an insecure desperate
german too! zahnarzt: zähne is teeth and artzt is doctor:)
in Arabic too ^^ @@beldinlov13
Grüße aus BaWü
and also in Latvian, Russian, Estonian, Slovenian, and Finnish-probably many others as well, but I only know about these ones-use the combination 'teeth doctor' in their respective languages. Since at the end of the day, all doctors specialize in a specific field, be it lungs, hearts, reproductive organs, teeth, or anything else related to the human body, you do not get one doctor for everything anyway. Maybe a general practitioner, but they will just know basic overall stuff in order to send you to the correct specialist @@beldinlov13
"Oh, and how many years did you go to school to become a "finance bro"?" 😂😂😂
Six hours at the University of TikTok! 😜
Oh he walked past some Figures (female) and decided he was A specialist in FIGURES😂😂😅👏👏
They make a shit tonne on wall Street and dentists ate not real doctors
@@Lindsayluver13 yeah im pretty sure those peiple there dont call themselves 'finance bros' 😂
@@Lindsayluver13 why they given the title of "Dr" after they done with med school then?
US trained dentist here. We are doctors, just not medical doctors and I would never pretend to be a physician or act like I do what physicians do. My patients call me doctor (lol or sweetie or dear, with older patients).
I also wouldn't introduce myself as a "doctor" first thing when someone asks if that's what most ppl are all upset about - I would simply say dentist.
We do learn about the whole human body though, at least in the US. The curriculum is pretty similar to medical school the 1st and 2nd year.
3rd and 4th year we specialize in oral health/oral medicine/dental specific classes.
Annnnyway, all that said, we do some intense surgeries in the mouth. Extractions where we are drilling & removing patient's jaw bones, placing dental implants, full mouth reconstructions, IV sedation, disinfecting and removing nerve tissue, doing oral biopsies and so on. That's just on the general side. Oral surgeons are DDS/MDs usually and do 4-6 years POST dental school training.
Sometimes our patients are really sick, I have to know about their systemic issues before procedures bc I can technically kill them . Ppl forget we do irreversible things to your mouth which can affect your whole body. And we definitely can get sued like any physician liability wise.
It's not all just fillings and cleanings. But alas, the public doesn't care. It's fine. I'm glad most ppl don't need these intensive dental treatments and only see the most basic things we do. Most ppl hate the dentist anyway :'D
You are honest and down to earth and I love your answer. You're the most humble and realistic person here.
Yeah, (especially after reading the answers here) that's what I was wondering, why didn't she just say she was a dentist in the first place
She's South Asian (Indian) and in that culture, dentists ARE considered doctors. So, it may be a cultural difference.
@@kasa9884 “According to the American Dental Association (ADA), a dentist is a doctor specializing in oral health.”
I appreciate Dentist very much even though it’s sooo expensive it’s important to be able to chew and take care of your oral hygiene
Correction : Feared 😦
Not hate. I hope that's a bit better.
He clearly was jealous and wanted to lower your standards by projecting his insecurities on you.
How can she have standards when she looks like that.. & has to feel inferior by being called a dentist
Exactly
When you try so hard to bring someone down, it stems from insecurity
@@raffpants618misogynist in denial spotted.
@@raffpants618she’s a dentist and you are a nobody 😂
Insecure Men always do that , and then call themselves Sigma 😂😂😂😂😂
I'll never understand why people think dentist are not doctors... Teeth an important part of the human body. People die from something as small as a tooth infection
Do you consider nurses to be doctors?
@@crestfire8008 No. They're nurses for a reason. Nurses aren't a seperate category of doctor.
@@vegetable0327lol neither dentists are. if they were medical doctors, they’d get the same education as medical students, then choose that specialty and learn from there like all the other MDs. and you can’t just call yourself a “doctor” without actually earning the doctor title, they are shortened as dt. instead of dr. for a reason. it’s like calling yourself a professor with no actual conformation or evidence of being one.
because anything that has an association with human health doesn’t automatically make you a doctor. also being a doctor doesn’t depend on your opinion, it’s a status that you earn after years of education and you get a certificate for that. and since we’re talking about who’s considered a medical doctor specifically, dentist are most definitely not MDs. they would get that title if they were doctors, but they get the dentist title instead. BTW being a dentist is totally cool and an amazing, important job. it’s just kind of stupid that they trying to convince you that they’re doctors. it’s like nurses trying to call themselves doctors. you don’t have to be a doctor to make yourself feel more important. if you don’t have the title, you’re not a doctor, simple is that. it’s not something you can call someone as an opinion.
@@uraharakisuke39 well thankfully you're uneducated opinion is not recognised because the US considers dentists and dental surgeons as medical practitioners in the same standing as MDs. True that depending on the country the recognition of dentists changes.
FYI a dentist is a medical professional who is skilled and licensed to practice prevention, diagnosis & the treatment of malformation, diseases, and injuries in the teeth, mouth and jaws.
And like the girl in the video says it takes years of experience and residency especially in countries like the USA. Why else do you think they charge an arm and a leg for their services.
"alright, well you can call me "dentist bro" then i guess. we can both look stupid together."
😂😂😂
That’s actually marriage material attitude
😂😂😂😂😂
@@desmonidesnot really.....doing a medical degree is the hardest thing in the world. If someone can't appreciate that, then they are not marriage material.
As soon as he started abusing her profession, he was the biggest red flag.
If my dentist is not a doctor, I switch my dentist.
Seriously, they are able to prescribe everything from antibiotics to opiates and administer gases. They also deal directly with bones, nerves, infections and everything that can happen within the mouth/gums/nerves. It’s outrageous to think that is not a doctor - just with expertise in most matters of the mouth.
@@MarsMcCarthy to add to your more serious approach, if you think dentists aren't doctors, but you let a dentist do these things to you, that means you let random people do anything to you as long as they can sell it to you.
Don't they also study anatomy and physiology? They also prescribe meds. I'd be so worried if they weren't doctors😂
But then you keep switching dentists right? Since by his logic dentists aren't doctors 🤔
@@The-Celestial we even switch cardiologists or gastroenterologist for various reasons, so are they not doctors?
So sorry you had to go through that Doc
@@sn5806I was about to say this. Both seem like terrible human beings with a chip on their shoulder. Trying to feel superior over others instead of being humble.
Dentists are doctors and in nearly every other country than America are also respected as doctors. So it seems it’s a you problem. She isn’t full of herself. Everyone with a medicine license has the right to be proud of their achievement and call themselves a doctor.
@@sourcandy6469 in the UK a dentist calling themself a doctor when asked what they do for work would be considered an insecure weirdo
@@sn5806 I'm an Arabic speaker and dentist is literally " doctor of teeth" in Arabic, and yes, they're called "doctor", because they're a doctor.
@@sn5806they work hard to earn the title. Doctor of dentistry, dealing with teeth is almost as bad as working in a sewer. All the dentists, or orthodontists you’ve probably went to whether it’s a root canal or a cavity takes a lot of precision and technique dealing with the limited space they are working with.
Everyone wants a healthy set of teeth and a great smile. Healthy mouth, healthy body. The teeth and mouth are part of the human body. I consider my dentist my doctor.
Nah. Not Everyone. Not “Everyone.” /
Not speaking for finance bro here, but I'd rather have an actual doctor look after my teeth than a random stranger
@@a.little.blurry You sound like you somehow got scammed into a homeless man off the street digging around in yo mouth… uh wut
Especially when they start performing surgery on your teeth haha
@@a.little.blurrylol what do you mean actual doctors look after your teeth? Only dentists are qualified to
He was negging. Which is a common thing some people do when they're incredibly insecure about themselves. It somehow checks out that a person who calls themselves 'finance bro' would neg.
Her first mistake was going on a date with someone who refers to himself as a “finance bro”
Desparate times desparate measures..... although good for her for avoiding that disaster....maybe next time
Obviously you can’t tell before you’ve even met someone ever, since that term is somewhat vague…corny but still vague.
Stop trying to blame her as if she can read the future. Easy for you to say after you’ve heard the end result.
She found that our later on the date. So we can't blame her
What do you expect from a person who is a dentist and call herself a doctor 😂
Again blaming the woman....like why??
Pretty much regardless of how you feel about dentists and whether or not they should be called doctors; trying to bring someone else down or dismiss what they say about themselves as false is always a red flag.
as is introducing yourself as a doctor when you know what that means to people, its a weird thing to 'explaining' you actually are just as good but you arnt irl still, idk but I would not go on a second date with someone artificially bloating their ego like that
@@Puuws ask yourself this: what if she was a podiatrist? We'd all call her a doctor, but is it really any different?
no I wouldnt, the closest thing we have,we call it a podo therapist, as it is in line with physiotherapy but I live in Europe so I dont think its the same. As I understand they do years of undergraduation, work in the hospital for years and have the same basic medical degree as phycisians@@NinjaThatLongboards
I agree. I don't have a problem with calling them doctors. However, I do think it's a little weird not to specify your dentist. When asked what you do for a living. Pretty sure most dentists do. Really not worth arguing about. Especially for the first date. Save it for the second one. Lol
How is it automatically bringing someone down when it's plain logic? If someone is delusional or misleading why can't you dismiss what they say about themselves?
It's semantics. As a dentist, I never go around calling myself a doctor. I am a doctor, but for some reason there is a distinction to differentiate one's
self as a dentist vs a medical doctor.
Oral health is medical though.. what do you call an optometrist.. an eye doctor.
What do you call a chiropractor? Doctor, right? Isn't a chiropractor a little bit different than a spine surgeon?
@@franbihary8939a chiropractor is NOTT a doctor and that’s not even a comparable conversation. Chiropractors do not go to medical school and what they do is technically alternative medicine. Basically pseudo science
No matter what, still doctors
Right. So is Jill Biden. Lol.
Imagine a "finance bro" telling you YOUR qualifications in life 😵💫
Dude really was feeling himself a little TOO much.
As soon as he said that, she should have walked out. The first line of disrespect, is a test. After that, it doesn't get better.
As women, you need to understand that you don't have to explain yourself. Don't need to change anyone's mind. You spent 8+ years to let some stranger, degrade you?
Exactly. The best thing to do is walk off and don’t turn back.
Mhm. More women need to gain confidence. It's been time to stop giving trash men more chances or even another second to disrespect you.
Walk up and leaving. Ghosting men. Turning the other cheek mid-conversation and going off.
It's been so ingrained in many women's minds to explain ourselves and and put up with bs.
He is right. She is not a doctor. She acts like victim.
@@VarunK-ii8eb Nope, she isn't a victim, she's laughing at the fool. Victims cry.
@@mtngrl5859 nope. She acts like one.
"I'm gonna ask you to dinner and then I'm gonna put you down by talking 'ish about your profession"
Sounds like a reaaaal keeper!
He didnt put her down.
@@borkug1566Seems like you don't know what a doctor is. Trying googling it.
Still contributes more to society thrn he does. And yes shes a doctor
So many guys like this in the world too making it too easy for the good ones 😂
@@VarunK-ii8ebstfu He did
Jokes on him, she's so sweet and smart, and was kind describing their interaction as a silly thing instead of bitterly. 10/10 wifey material
Finance mf is telling her she’s not a doctor?!?! Bold. 😂
He must have been watching redpill manosphear podcast.
Are you in medicine?
@@Women-hate-meNah he is right.
Because she is not a Doctor.
@@attentioncestpaslegal7847she's either a Doctor of Medical Dentistry, or a Doctor of Dental Surgery. She's a specialized doctor.
I have a doctorate and my husband has a high school diploma & has done really well for himself in management. I am constantly amazed at his people skills, event planning, ease at public speaking & ability to navigate workplace politics. Some of these are natural gifts and some due to his military training.
Why must we devalue others based on an imaginary, socially invented heirachy?
I agree with some of your statements & I wouldn't devalue your husband's accomplishments. However, the real point is that on this date, this man chose to argue with someone he should be trying to impress. Yes, the man asks the woman out on a date, so he is trying to impress her. He showed himself to be combative.
While you may have a doctorate in a field like education, your income may not exceed significantly what your husband makes. However, I believe this man felt intimidated that she had an earning potential that far outstripped what he could command.
This is so bizarre! I would never have thought that the very people who have helped me with all sorts of dental problems, including wisdom teeth removal and installing implants, might be look down on by anyone, especially non-doctors!
Mad respect for any medical specialist!
A dentist isn’t a medical specialty. They don’t go to medical school.
MDs do wisdom teeth removals, dentists don’t
I'm a doctor of philosophy. Mad respect for me as well please
lol no, this is incorrect. In the US, dentists removal wisdom teeth. Usually, they're oral surgeons, who are drs who complete dental school and specialize in OMFS residency. During that residency, they can choose to also get their MD. It's either 4 years after dental school or 6 years after dental school if they're doing the DDS/MD tract.@@PippyPappyPatterson
@DuckPrime next time someone around you having an impacted tooth or let's say an abscess go ahead and operate on them, see how that works for you 😊
The fact that he called himself a finance bro should be already a red flag.
the economy is the worst it's ever been, anyone calling then a finance bro is capping on being a loser who's dragging us all down
I don't think they call themselves finance bros. People who make fun of them call them that. They simply say they work in finance. Or they may say their actual job title.
@@gioluvs1893 Just like dentists don't call themselves doctors when asked what they do for a living
@@gioluvs1893they do. It is preppy speak. And it is vulgar in this economy
@@jesseleeward2359 either way it's a well deserved title. They still act like frat boys
The economy is the worst it's ever been? I believe that statement qualifies you as a finance bro.
I had a guy get down on me for my education when we first met. Let me say, I do not make a big deal about my education (masters degree), nor do I think someone without a degree is lacking in any way and this guy asked! But any time I said something he didn't agree with or he said something I didn't have knowledge of he'd say, "Come on, college girl, you really don't know this?" Or, "I didn't think someone with a degree would feel this way." Made me feel 2 inches tall the way he was going on.
It was obvious being college educated made him feel insecure, despite me showing an interest in his career, which was pretty successful, so not sure where the insecurity was coming from. But when I told him I wasn't interested in a second date, he accused me of being prejudiced against him because he didn't go to college. Pretty sure I dodged a bullet there. 🤦🏻♀️
You did. I'm proud of you. He's a misogynist prick.
Well, flip side is i went out with a woman who put on her Tinder profile that she went to Harvard. I made a little joke about it and she got all offended as if i looked down on educated people and elites. So i looked her up and she went to one of those 4 week Harvard sponsored courses anyone can get in to lol
😂@@kevinl8440
He got down on you or went down on you ??
Just because we don’t use the term colloquially for everyone, doesn’t mean they are not tested, titled, & officially recognized as a doctor. General doctors are simply the most encountered by general public.
Being a doctor just means you have the highest recognized level of specialization within your profession.
Medical doctors = M.D.
Dentists have:
D.D.S. = Doctor of Dental Surgery and
D.M.D = Doctor of Medicine in Dentistry or Dental Medicine
Pharmacists have:
PharmD = Doctor of Pharmacy
Academics have:
PhD = Doctor of Philosophy
yeah but noone with a PhD goes around saying they are a doctor when asked what they do, its just like saying: I am college graduated, it means nothing about your job, just the level you studied at. She knows there is some overlap but its def not the same, all other MD's went through medical scool and thén specialized, even phychistrists/ Its weird she feels like he is rude about it and uses the common assumption to make a point, about how she is just as good as an MD
Dentist isnt doctor 🤣🤣🤣 lol i miss the scene from hangover
This guy the definition of manplaining 😭
Mansplaining involves describing something correctly. He didn't even do that. So he is just a definition of an idiot.
No. Mansplaining is when a man explains the patently obvious, because he assumes the female listening to him is stupid.
Mein Lieblingswort auf deutsch ist "herrklären" 😂 echt schlau! veil besser als "mansplaining"
Actually though
Nah this is womansplaining.
Obviously guys was feeling inferior and trying to drag you down! Ugh
To be fair she seemed a bit insecure herself and trying to lift herself up. But I respect her nonetheless, and that guy was out of place to try and call her out in that circumstance.
But if you’re a dentist, just call yourself a dentist. Be clear and proud of who you are. Saying “doctor” is very misleading. A lawyer (who is a “doctor of the law”) and theologian (“doctor of theology”) is misleading to call themselves a doctor. Same with a dentist, who has a totally different degree in teeth & mouth health. That’s just a fact, sorry :/
@@celestialknight2339You just compared a dentist, who do habe a medical degree, to a PhD and you thought you ate 😂 This thread is full of id&ts trying to justify how she's actually in the wrong and how she's actually insecure, you can't make this sht up 😂
@@SA-ey6nt A nursing home care provider might also have a “medical degree.” But that doesn’t make them a doctor. Please stop playing around. Language matters.
@@celestialknight2339we found the finance bro... she is considered a doctor period. she didn't mislead him either bc she explained she does dentistry. he just couldn't handle it.
@@celestialknight2339and language does matter because in my language and in other languages we refer to dentists as teeth doctors if you would literally translate it. so 👍
Being supportive of each other is the biggest indicator for long, happy relationships.
She is like Ross from friends who called himself a doctor because he had a doctorate in paleontology
“Help I my teeth are in pain and I am bleeding from my mouth!!” “ oh sorry I am not a doctor just a dentist”
If there was a major issue in your mouth you actually do have to go to a proper doctor though, not a dentist. You go to an oral surgeon or an ENT or maybe a plastic surgeon... Not a dentist.
@@2twin2kyou do realise that an oral surgeon is a dentist don't you? It's just an extra specialty after graduation. Just like a doctor can go on to specialise as a surgeon. Also no you don't go to ENT.
@@aesinamno they have 4-8 years more education and training than dentists and happen to work in the medical field rather than the dental field
@@2twin2ksounds like you got dropped on your head
@@aesinamoral maxillilosurgeons are actually... MDs not dentists.
It's just that the requirement is so close that some end up with both MD and a DDS because it's just a few extra courses but without that, they are MDs
When someone asks a dentist what they do for a living, is it common to say "I'm a doctor"? I feel like they would say, "I'm a dentist". No?
its hella weird, all other doctors go through medical scool, even phychiatsts
I think most would say dentist but the proper way to respond is to clarify and then move on, not how finance bro did
some one on a plane: HELP WE NEED A DOCTOR
Dentist on plane: 🙂
Don't worry. She will still know the basic life saving procedures to save your life if that situation occurs. Because they're taught that too. If they're not performing them doesn't mean they don't know them.
I'm gonna be doctorate in law. I know basic life saving procedure 😊
You would be lucky then, they are trained on CPR, can administer drugs and many other things that probably would keep patient alive until the planes touch ground
They know enough to provide first aid...
Then they'd actually have a chance of getting saved
Love her. Dude messed up. She seems sweet and obviously smart and knows her stuff.
In my country dentists are called dentists, they are not recognized as doctors. The training here is different so I guess that’s why. They can be called doctors if they get a doctorate but not just from getting licenciatura.
I didn’t know in US it was like that 😱
Odontólogo or ortodoncista depending on the specialization is more common to use here.
Bro watched the hangover before the date
I was thinking the same thing and actually I never knew people thought this about dentist until I saw Hangover!
He was rude, but, I agree with him. in my country doctors are not classed as doctors and it would be very strange for a dentist to tell someone that they are a doctor (unless they were referring to having a doctorate degree)…
Which country is that? Because a dentist is a doctor everywhere 😂
@@prettygemini3432not really in Latin America is different
@@florenciaromero9810 just because the general public is ignorant doesn't mean they're not doctors. Dentists are doctors everywhere.
@@florenciaromero9810latina here, we call them doctors.
Most languages word for dentist translates directly as "tooth doctor". They're doctors. Being a specialist in a specific medical field doesn't suddenly mean you're not a doctor. And yes, oral health is medical. People can die from untreated tooth infections. How the hell is that not medical?
It was a conversation between a fake broker and a fake doctor..😂😂😂😅
Frrrr😅
The german word for dentist is literally teeth-doctor. It's crazy how fragile some male egos are.
It's also bizarre to try to start out a potential relationship by arguing with the other person. He was testing how much disrespect he could get away with.
I love that the German word for gums is "tooth meat" 😂 Deutsch ist nicht ohne Grund meine Lieblingssprache
@@onionbubs386🫶
@@onionbubs386 wouldn't that be rather "tooth-flesh"?
I thought 'meat' is only used for food.
@@M0butu the german word for meat is Fleisch and it's used for both meat and flesh. you could also translate it as tooth flesh, but tooth meat is also correct.
It does seem a bit strange that she would refer to herself as a doctor when casually asked. I would think most dentists would just say they are dentists?
Yeah, actually dentists that do “residency” are those who try to apply for specialty after graduation, a set of stuck up tryhards (typically not all). A DMD can work the day they graduate, unlike MDs who study extra years in order to practice. So yeah, big red flag from both, the dude wasn’t cool about it but she ain’t that type of doctor lol. I say I’m a dentist but ppl still call me doc
From her accent, she's probably Indian.
In India, dentists are considered doctors even though dentists do not go through medical school, they go through dental school. So to boost their egos, in India, dentists refer to themselves as "doctors" instead of just saying "I'm a dentist".
But the guy was not wrong. Dentists are actually not the same type of doctors as MBBS or DO
@@G-cisHarmonia Fr. But I consider dentists as my doctor just like any other doctor that deals with my health.
Dentists are definitely a type of doctor, but I think it comes off bad to call yourself a doctor instead of a dentist..... it has to do with being humble and realistic and relating to other people
Yeah it def comes across as though you are a physician
Its like that episode on Seinfeld..jerry didn't think a dermatologists can save lives 🤣🤣
The guy is being an "Anti-Dentite"
@@John_Rogers😂😂😂
Meanwhile on another youtube short a guy named Finance Bro is talking about some dentist calling herself a doctor which is an immediate red flag 😅
YUP! I've watched that video. That guy filmed her on the date and uploaded it.
Share that vdo bro
in his defense, when someone says doctor I picture a doctor not a dentist......
Apparently, dentists, when asked what their profession is, they say, "Doctor."
a dentist is a doctor of the mouth/teeth. this is like saying when someone says doctor you picture a doctor not a podiatrist
@@chloro8306 Not trying to be rude or anything but who tf imagines a dentist when they hear the word 'doctor'?? Ofc I know they are doctors but they're defo not the first type to come to mind when talking about doctors.... atleast not for me
@@airplanedude3103it doesn't matter. He should have just said okay and continued with the date when he she specified she was a dentist. Dude just sounds obnoxious and arrogant
There are diff kinds of doctors... Dentists specialise in dental matters
My dad is a dentist and never in his life has he told me that he was a doctor.
He is in fact a doctor. Just because he never told you doesn't mean that he's not.
I call my dentist, "Doctor."
They are doctors for teeth (well yeah obviously).
They most certainly are not nurses or janitor. They perform same operations in your mouth that a surgeon would perform in your stomach or foot.
@@praz7what comparison is that? Dentist? nurses? janitors? Dentists can't be nurses and nurses can't be dentists. They all do different roles. For your information not all dentists perform surgeries. Dental surgeons do.
Doesn't change the fact that he's technically a doctor, and that he's called Dr. [his name].
I'm a dentist and I never call myself a doctor. My title is Dr. , but my job is a dentist.
But your patients and staff call you Dr, right?
@@melissacole1821 my staff call me by my first name but they refer to me as 'Dr.(my name) .' when talking to patients. Or they say 'The dentist'. If I said I'm a doctor it would imply a Medical doctor, which is misleading.
Most of my patient call me by my first name too, they pay my salary they can call me whatever they like😊
yeah, dentists are not doctors. Many people out there who have Dr. title but aren’t actual medical doctors. like PhD holders.
Thank you, these people in the comments are absolutely ridiculous. They should know the heavy connotation that comes with calling yourself a doctor outside of academic spaces implies medical practice, which is evidenced by how finance bro had to literally ask a follow up question to get her real occupation. Ridiculous
@@LuminousKugelblitzIf you have a PhD you are entitled to the title DR. It’s ignorant people thinking that only physicians are doctors
All those who say dentist isn’t a dr, have a tooth ache, root canal or dental extraction - u will never dare to call them NOT a dr, dentists are the most important doctors ever
OMG- my cousin just graduated dental school-she’s the first in the family to have a degree past masters so I am sooo proud of her but can NOT believe the amount of people that tell me their relatives are ALSO DENTISTS-when they are actually hygentists and TRULY argue this-HOW are aooooo many people sooooo dumb?!? Also, fun fact- my cousin is ONE MILLION dollars in student debt after all the school and it’s EXTREMELY difficult to get into dental school!!!! I hope this girl in the video gets the recognition and respect she deserves in the future
Your girl got scammed, my wife graduated 249k in debt in dental school
You can work hard, and not be "a doctor" in the laymen sense
😂😂 which respect? Physicians's respect lmao. Don't try to look bigger, misleading people cause your insecurity
I call my Dentist, Mark.
😂
Dentists are not doctors… At least legally they are not allowed to state this in any healthcare setting outside of their own practice, as it’s misleading. I’m not hating… I’m a pharmacist who also received a doctoral degree but I don’t tell patients I’m Dr. Whatever in the hospital where I work. Neither do the physical therapists, occupational therapists, physician assistance, nurse practitioners who might also have the same level of education, completed a residency and/or be board certified.
He didn’t need to say that but she is reaching and overcompensating when people in healthcare know this.
You're wrong. The protected title for medicinal doctors in the USA is MD, which stands for the latin Medicinae Doctor, or Doctor of Medicine in english.
Anyone getting a PHD gets the title of doctor in their respective field. PHD stands for the latin "Philosophiae doctor", meaning doctor of phylosophy in english 😅
The fact that english speaking people decided to call physicians "doctors" is a bit weird in all other languages, since doctors comes from the latin word "doctor" which simply means teacher...
For example, in french, a PHD is called a "doctorat", and physicians are called "médecin", which doesn't have any similarity as you can see since anyone can get a "doctorat" in any field, which logically makes more sense than calling physicians "doctors"
Dentists are real doctors. Dentists hold doctoral degrees and therefore are considered “doctors”. Now is a dentist a medical doctor? In most cases, no. But they can still prescribe medications, as you can see. As a pharmacist, I’d think you’d know that. Of course there are differences in this field but in some professions, like a dentist, you can be a doctor at the same time. For example: When you go to the dentist, do you say “Dr. __” or “Mr/Ms/Mrs.__”? Same question goes for a pharmacist. (I’m not trying to trash your profession by the way. I apologize if it sounds like it)
Well she is doctor specializing in oral health. That's just plain facts in Canada and the U.S.A doctor is not a reach.
Seriously. Like they got doctors who work on just feet. Plastic Surgeons don’t get their doctor status contested. But some people will go to hell and back to attack the dental field
@@akosua8779No, its a reach the same was therapists and veternarians would be reaching if they are telling people their profession is doctor.
If people with doctorates want to be called Dr. So and So...fine, you earned it. But if someone asks your profession and you say youre a medical doctor? You didn't put in that work, and you're trying to give yourself a status that wasn't earned. Be happy with what you are or do better, playing word games, and playing with people's assumptions isn't lying but it's close.
A dentist saying “I’m a doctor” instead of just saying “I’m a dentist” is the most cringey insecure thing that I’ve ever heard 🤣🤣
💯%. It makes nooo sense 🚩. She could have just said “I’m a dentist” from the beginning.
I've seen some of her content. Her whole personality is her justifying dentists are doctors 😂
They are, but why not just say I am a dentist?
An idiot with CZcams knowledge is more dangerous than those psychic patients 😂😂
@@LevelUP84some people get triggered that she is a doctor 😂😂
And they are just CZcams qualified
@@beluga7270right!
She is smarter than some random “finance bro.” Dodged a bullet.
if she was so smart why didn't she just say 'im a dentist'? i really dont get it, if you aren't a physician just say your specialty
@@squarecrackerpipe down incel
She's South Asian. In that culture, dentists ARE doctors. She did clarify, she said doctor- teeth, dentist.
@@kasa9884 Does she practice in India or the USA? Which culture is she living in?
@@squarecrackerbecause dentists are doctors, you plank
Yeah ok but saying you're a doctor instead of just saying you're a dentist is really misleading 😅 if you were proud of your job you'd immediately say dentist. Dentists are just as important as other medical professionals, and it's a great and well respected job. No need to mislead. Be proud of it
I was looking for this exact comment
it's not misleading she's literally a medical doctor. is a podiatrist not proud of their job if they say they're a doctor?
Same difference. And anyway why does it matter on a date? If the girl is smart, kind and is a dentist, what's your problem?
What a missed opportunity! Guy could have had free dental services for life if he played his cards right. Dental services are crazy expensive and he's not really financially-savvy if he could not make good on that opportunity.
@@RapK-fu2shYou're assuming she's actually any good at her job...
@@chloro8306 She is literally not though. She does not have an MD.
In Europe you don’t call dentists doctors. Actually once I tried to make an appointment with a dentist and asked for an appointment with the “doctor”, the sectretary was so confused and said “Do you mean you want an appointment with the dentist?”
You know this guy takes it in the office and was trying to make himself feel better 😂
Dentists may be doctors but don't typically refer to themselves as such. I feel like dentists typically tell you they are dentists not doctors and some other doctors do this also, maybe a cardiologist would be another example.
How do people forget teeth are bones...... THEY'RE DOCTORS
Ortho called, they said no 😂
No. It’s called a dentist
@khunden teeth are the hardest bone in your body and their health is an indicator of the health of your body. They are the only visible bone in your entire body. The number of conditions of can diagnose by examining them is myriad. So yeah, ortho called back and said 'keep calm and carry on'.
@@tinachristine4573 no sorry, ortho never called back
@@khunden and you never read basic anatomy and physiology, so they would never call you in the first place.
Whi the fuck says they're a doctor when they're a dentist? I understand a dentist is a doctor. What I don't understand is why she didn't just say "I'm a dentist."
Why shouldn't she say that though? If a dentist is a doctor?
@@prettygemini3432 because majority of people don’t see dentist as doctors. She knew that from deep down but her insecurities and her big ego was in the way. If I were a dentist and said I’m a doctor and girl told me dentist aren’t doctors I would’ve just laugh and move on to the second date.
That’s the difference between men and women.
@@easylife6348 is that not what she did? She said she didn't see them again. And I'm glad she's correcting people and educating them because they deserve the recognition for their hard work. Medical school and dental school is not easy at all
@easylife6348 You don't know shit about women. Every comment of yours is sexist. You're literally outing yourself as a misogynistic incel.
@@prettygemini3432 yea but at the same time it’s not that serious. A lot of people don’t know, can’t let your ego stop you from what possibly a good thing right in front of you.
There’s plethora of women ghost men for the smallest things and they think it he’s toxic, or he’s a womanizer, or he’ll about to break her heart, and all that nonsense they be assuming and overthinking about.
That’s why men need to have game, meaning he have to be careful how he walk, talk, breathe, eat, how he wear his clothes, how he tied his shoes, how he look, how he smell, how he think, how he not think, why he talk, how he spend his money, how he not spends his money, all just to make the girl feel comfortable being intimate with the guy shes dealing with.
I know this is an exaggeration but a lot of women be too damn judgmental of how a man is.
"Stu you're a dentist"
-Phil
I remember when I was dying and needed oral surgery. When the dentist came into the OR, if I was able to speak, I would have said, "But you're not a real doctor! A Finance Bro told me so!"
Performing oral on dying patients uh
So fyi some oral surgeons actually have both a dental doctorate as well as a medical doctorate since some schools require them to take classes at both the dental and medical schools for this pathway. So sometimes you’ll see DDS MD or DMD MD after their names. There’s a lot of overlap between dental and medical school as it is but these folks basically have to overlap even more. Usually the oral surgeons are the best trained of all the dentists
In Norway the word for dentist is 'tannlege', which literally translates to 'tooth doctor'. The same is true for many other languages as well, e.g. German and Japanese.
Why she simply didn't say "I'm a dentist"? 🤔
Exactly. She needs an inflated view of her profession as compared to an internist. She’s a DDS, the other is an MD
And she SURELY interested in his earning potential enough to go on a date. Yeah, he’s an asshole, IF, she’s reporting accurately…and he was clearly NOT INTO HER at all for him to say that. He would have told her exactly what she wanted to hear otherwise ;)))
Why does that even matter? It's a freaking date! not a police interrogation. Also, she's technically a Doctor
@@Patrxck87, I'd say, technically, she's more of a poser than a doctor, but you're also correct.
Because neither is incorrect.
The fact that the mouth alone is linked to overall health is why dentists are actually really important. Going to the dentist regularly can reduce the risk of certain cancers, heart disease and even some forms of dementia. He definitely dropped the ball with this sweet lady
Dentists are dentists - not doctors
Most dentists do say "I'm a dentist" instead of "I'm a doctor" for intros. I like the humility of it.
HOW did he think this would put him in a good position? 🤔
Dentists are doctors that couldn't be doctors. 😂
“What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?” Asked by the literal worst date anyone could have
Ok but tbh most dentists would probably just say dentist to not confuse people since when most people think of doctors they think of M.D
It’s good that he showed his true color on the first date so she can run away from him.
Why didn't she identify as a dentist? Dentists are highly trained, but laypersons often see them differetly from a doctor. They both seem to have ego issues.
Tip for single guys: Dismissing a woman’s professional credentials is not a great way to break the ice.
Or being combative. This guy sounds crazy.
It's crazy its almost like guys dont care about what type of job or career a women has.
Not interested
@@lockonstratos7787 It doesn’t even matter if you care about her profession. She cares about it, or she wouldn’t have spent all those years studying for it.
@@censusgary and that's fine she can care all she wants, what I'm getting at is women seem to have this stupid idea that a man wants a successful career women.
Reality is MEN DONT CARE, a man will date a fucking cashier just the same as he would date a women who has a successful career like a doctor or lawyer, the point is to men your job doesn't fucking matter and women need to learn men dont give a fuck about you job so quit acting like that's what men want when its not.
Bizarre that she didn’t just say she’s a dentist
Same thing
Bizzare to say that idiots don't know doctors 😂
If she is not a doctor she cannot prescribe medications
Stuuuupiiiidddd
Because she's a doctor who's a dentist. Then there are doctors who are physicians & doctors who are researchers/ professors.
I agree it is bizarre.
yeah just say you are a dentist.
Best way to offend dentists is to remind them they are not doctors 😂😂
To explain the reality*
High key - as someone who works in ~finance~ and sees the result of their work- dentists often make more money than medical doctors. (obviously depending on the specialty but by and large it's the case.)
What is your point?
She is lying....nobody in fucking finace will call themself ThEmEGanExPeRiaN 😂😂😂
Money doesn't make you any more or less than a doctor. It's the feeling or implication behind the title.
Follow the Charlie Adelson case, he was making 3 mil a year.
They diagnose and some of them do surgeries. Including cancer and tumors, if they specialize.
Yeah, if they specialize as an oral surgeon with a medical degree, and colloquially, that is a doctor.
He knew she was too good for him and tried to knock her down… it’s sick!
Actually yes tried to be supirior
Modern usage of the term “Doctor” correlates with “Physician.” She knew her response would be misleading and seems insecure about being a dentist. If she was truly proud of it, she would’ve said dentist. I have mad respect for dentists who own their work and are proud to admit they’re a dentist. Not someone who has to refer to technicality to make themselves feel better😂 You’re a dentist, not a doctor. You have a PhD, you’re not a doctor. You’re a Physician who saves lives? You’re a doctor. Wake up people, you’re stretching here trying to defend her.
👑 Queen 👑
He was jealous, trying to knock her down… don’t let these guys do this, block and walk
simp calm down
Dental school is just as tough as medical school, and you even have to learn cardiology because many heart issues reflect in teeth. I know multiple dentists who have saved lives becaused they spotted a cardiac issue while working on a patients teeth.
Yes, all of that is true, but it doesn’t make them doctors. Let me repeat your comment: “X ray techs have to go through tough training and schooling, and they learn all about the body, pathology, and health. Plus they have saved many lives.”
But none of that makes your local X ray tech a doctor. An important job? Oh yes. But a DOCTOR? (Physician)…No.
@@celestialknight2339 they are doctors because they have a doctorate. And fyi they are considered physicians
@@jcwarner90 A doctorate = a PhD. Most dentists do NOT have a PhD, unless they decide to earn one (which is a minority of people). I think what you meant to say is a _doctoral_ degree-which is completely different. It is therefore still misleading to call yourself “a doctor” (as a dentist) because most people understand that to mean a medical doctor/physician, which dentists are NOT.
According to the American Medical Association (Policy H-405.969; ‘Definition of a Physician’)-and I can’t believe I even have to do this-but they clearly define a physician as:
*_”An individual who has received a "Doctor of Medicine" or a "Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine" degree or an equivalent degree following successful completion of a prescribed course of study from a school of medicine or osteopathic medicine.”_*
And they also CLEARLY require anybody who falls outside of this (which includes dentists) to refer to themselves as, and I quote, a *_”NON-PHYSICIAN”._*
If that doesn’t tell you enough, I don’t know what will. But hey, go ahead and send the AMA a passionate email if you disagree!
@celestialknight2339 if you have a doctorate, you're a doctor
Lmao no, dental school is not as hard or as in depth as actual medical school
He’s not a finance bro he’s a certified crash dummy 😂😂😂
He most probably wears glasses and doesn't know how to talk
These are the facts, dentists are dental surgeons, and "doctors" are physicians, who depending on their specialities are specialists of their fields like radiologist, oncologist, etc. Just because theyre specialists DOES NOT mean that theyre no longer doctors right?
A dentist is someone who simply gets an early specialisation. Believe it or not, we're still taught the entirety of anat, physio, biochem in our first years which is literally the same thing taught to mbbs students in our first year besides dental subjects.
We're just doctors who specialise in teeth. Simple as that. We'll refer to ourselves as dental surgeons just as often as mbbs graduates refer to themselves as physicians. Its only fair.
At the end of the day, both dentists and physicians are every bit as "doctor" as each other.
He told her that he's a "fine ass bro", not a "finance guy"...😂
Lol😂
😂😂😂😂😂
It’s wild that same people who push the principles of hard work and respect, have no problem devaluing the drive and determination it takes to be a doctor of ANY profession.
Doctor simply means you have the highest degree of specialization within a given field.
doctors lost a ton of respect from me when they kept trying to vaccinate me for an imaginary virus
This man is having a cardiac arrest! Is there a doctor here!? I’m a dentist!
Are you okay?
No he need a doctor not a fucking dentist calling themself dOcToR
"I need to see a tooth doctor," said nobody, ever. I get it - they go to medical school and such, but the reality is, most people call dentists, dentists. Dentists call themselves dentists. So why did this woman say she's a doctor? Because she was trying to impress her date. It backfired. If she'd just proudly said "I'm a dentist" maybe the date would've gone differently
Dude tried to diminish this woman's achievements on the first date. He did her a favour 🙅♀️ #byebro