an idol shouldnt have too many duties if performing is their main duty then i wouldnt worry abt fan service. its like expecting them to always be switched on and happy. why do idols do aegyo if they dont like it? fans make them. some idols just want to perform for the sake or interest of performing cut them some slack at least pls lol hes doing enough not every group member has to always be online or doing cute things for fans lmao. i love lee know cause hes real and keeps himself to himself doesnt sell his image to the fans
@@randomuser-nt9if In a previous video, I shared that fanservice isn’t something I’m drawn to, as it can feel a bit manipulative. I want to be clear that I’ve never implied that a member needs to be cute to be valued by ME. What matters most is their talent and what they contribute.
@@Hwachopss same here, fancalls are hella weird cause u arent genuinely building a personal nor direct i suppose the one pkus of fancalls if is say the idol maybe has not much confidence in themselves it means they can receive compliments and whatever else but i still feel bad for them having to do that bc its an other thing that they could be spent resting or taking time for themselves. kpop is so much about having that parasocial relationship than it is about the enjoyment of the idols music.
@@randomuser-nt9if It’s a shame that the people who seem to get through on calls are often the ones who make things awkward or uncomfortable. I’m not sure how it ends up that way, but it feels like the genuine, positive interactions get pushed aside by those who aren't considerate. It’s confusing and frustrating because you’d think the goal would be to have everyone feel at ease and enjoy the experience, but instead, it’s the opposite. We really need to find a way to create a better space for everyone involved.
@@Hwachopss fr its so bizzare like of all the things they could say or do they choose to overact and be hella cringe, I mean its one way to make themselves memorable but I dont think its the best way to get the attention nor respect from the idol in question. same for things like going to airports, following them at their hotels etc etc. it usually seems to be generally limited and the samey experiences dont differ much except for the odd times where an idol is actually complimented for something other than their looks or body. and maybe a space where it doesnt take up so much time of their day either, I actually lrefer the vlives as they tend to chat longer on there but even so its all subscription nowadays? I want to somehow support them without too much extra cost and at times I often feel like it doesnt take much for the comment sections to get hella freaky / gross / uncomfortable or oddly jealous as I have seen for some idols vlives.
@@Hwachopss and I dont get why they are then reuploaded online personally I would mainly keep it to myself than upload something that is meant for only me to rewatch if I had the urge to lmfao. its like there is such a lack of intamicy with idols and their audiences i dont know if its that music groups are getting younger then so are their audiences will be of a more immature age range or if idol groups arent appealling enough to a varied age range yet if idol groups are barely adults its still going to be creepy asf for them to have to do fancalls with literal adults but again maybe in some cases it can comfort the idol.
an idol shouldnt have too many duties if performing is their main duty then i wouldnt worry abt fan service. its like expecting them to always be switched on and happy. why do idols do aegyo if they dont like it? fans make them. some idols just want to perform for the sake or interest of performing cut them some slack at least pls lol hes doing enough not every group member has to always be online or doing cute things for fans lmao. i love lee know cause hes real and keeps himself to himself doesnt sell his image to the fans
@@randomuser-nt9if In a previous video, I shared that fanservice isn’t something I’m drawn to, as it can feel a bit manipulative. I want to be clear that I’ve never implied that a member needs to be cute to be valued by ME. What matters most is their talent and what they contribute.
@@Hwachopss same here, fancalls are hella weird cause u arent genuinely building a personal nor direct
i suppose the one pkus of fancalls if is say the idol maybe has not much confidence in themselves it means they can receive compliments and whatever else but i still feel bad for them having to do that bc its an other thing that they could be spent resting or taking time for themselves. kpop is so much about having that parasocial relationship than it is about the enjoyment of the idols music.
@@randomuser-nt9if It’s a shame that the people who seem to get through on calls are often the ones who make things awkward or uncomfortable. I’m not sure how it ends up that way, but it feels like the genuine, positive interactions get pushed aside by those who aren't considerate. It’s confusing and frustrating because you’d think the goal would be to have everyone feel at ease and enjoy the experience, but instead, it’s the opposite. We really need to find a way to create a better space for everyone involved.
@@Hwachopss fr its so bizzare like of all the things they could say or do they choose to overact and be hella cringe, I mean its one way to make themselves memorable but I dont think its the best way to get the attention nor respect from the idol in question. same for things like going to airports, following them at their hotels etc etc. it usually seems to be generally limited and the samey experiences dont differ much except for the odd times where an idol is actually complimented for something other than their looks or body. and maybe a space where it doesnt take up so much time of their day either, I actually lrefer the vlives as they tend to chat longer on there but even so its all subscription nowadays? I want to somehow support them without too much extra cost and at times I often feel like it doesnt take much for the comment sections to get hella freaky / gross / uncomfortable or oddly jealous as I have seen for some idols vlives.
@@Hwachopss and I dont get why they are then reuploaded online personally I would mainly keep it to myself than upload something that is meant for only me to rewatch if I had the urge to lmfao. its like there is such a lack of intamicy with idols and their audiences i dont know if its that music groups are getting younger then so are their audiences will be of a more immature age range or if idol groups arent appealling enough to a varied age range yet if idol groups are barely adults its still going to be creepy asf for them to have to do fancalls with literal adults but again maybe in some cases it can comfort the idol.