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Slow Living After The Drama | Stay At Home Mom + Homemaker
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- čas přidán 11. 07. 2024
- If you're looking to embrace slow living after some drama, this video is for you. Join me on my journey as a stay at home mom and homemaker as we focus on living intentionally and enjoying the simple moments. Finding some peace after the storm. Don't forget to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE if you like it here :)
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Welcome back yall! It’s Friday, God is good and we are blessed! Any plans for the weekend ?
Watching the movie "If" on prime video as a family tonight with snacks. Maybe hike and watch kdramas and anime on Saturday. Church and baseball Sunday.
Applying for teacher positions since I’ve been off work for a year now! Pray for me yall!! 😅
Hoping to head out from Columbus to either Cincinnati or Kent. Both have Blues festivals going on.
Hi! I’ve been a subscriber for a while now and don’t think I’ve ever commented before but hearing about your neighbor situation almost brought a tear to my eyes. When I was around 10 yrs old a very similar situation happened with our neighbor. I grew up in the country and burning things on your property is definitely a thing. Our neighbor decided to burn some things on her property on a very windy day. That fire escaped her containment area and swept across to our backyard then headed straight towards our home. We also had a large propane tank for our home in the backyard! We depended on our volunteer fire dept which had limited water supply. When I tell you the fire truck ran out of water…mass hysteria! By the grace of god the fire burned around the propane tank untouched and stopped when it reached our home. But 10 yr old me was traumatized! 🥹Our neighbor unfortunately and accidentally burned her own house down a few yrs after this happened. 🤦🏽♀️ Continue to stay prayed up y’all!! Have y’all thought about possibly getting a sprinkler system installed near your property line? Perhaps you can run it when he does those burns in the future. Although it wouldn’t help with the smoke getting into your home. So sorry y’all are having to deal with this. He will just have to accept he has black neighbors that have “Cali Money” 😂 and y’all aren’t going anywhere.❤
You on point Sis...... The first thing is recognizing who and what your dealing with, next Trust that if God is with me, who can be against me, THE BATTLE IS ALREADY WON, THE TEST IS YOUR RESPONSE ❤
Your response was beautiful!!!
Pray for him we battle not against flesh and blood.
I absolutely love the fact that you referenced ephesians with your children.
Our babies are watching how we respond, and we are not perfect parents, but it was just a beautiful thing to watch...!!
❤❤❤
Ohio girl here ( born & raised)❤, jeremy, stop telling ppl you're from Cali. yea, they think you're rolling in $$$. Lol. It's a Midwest perception of the West Coast. As far as the neighbor, it sounds like the guy has already had issues with the city or town you live in. Check the ordinances for your area. You may need to make a trip to city hall, or even attend a council meeting. At council meetings, they usually allow residents a few minutes to speak at the beginning of meetings. I'm not sure why he would need to be burning weekly?? Is he legit burning yard debris, or is it really trash? Just a thought, There are burn bans in most communities - check into that, too. Also, did he notify the local fire dept.? On outdoor burns, that's usually mandatory. Also, depending on your area, he may be required to have some type of fire enclosure ring. Someone's idea of a fence is great, BUT if the fire is that close to your line, then a fence would probably end up being warped or burned.
As far as leaving the stove on, get one of those dishwasher magnets at any dollar store. Mark out the dirty & write ON. Clean would be made into OFF. Slap it on the stove for the next time it's used ❤.
Sit down to eat. Be mindful of the food that the Lord has provided. Think about where the grains originated, the colors in the bowl, the texture of the yogurt, etc. Not only does it make you become more appreciative of the meal, but it also is a great stress reducer because you are solely focusing on the food in front of you.
Love the kitchen light.❤
Sorry to hear yall have to go through that in your new home. Please be careful and stay prayed up some people are pure evil no soul, nothing to lose. People out here hexing people for the smallest things.
Pray about the whole thing God will make a way for yall❤
Hey Beautiful Family. Maybe get some estimates on a fence right away. It's one thing to forgive someone but it doesn't stop him from doing something else. I am proud of you Jeremy for working on keeping it together. Recognizing he has a problem is wise. Avoid him as much as possible!I use to live in CA, it's an adjustment living in these Midwest to Eastern states. Give your self time. I really enjoy your videos! Continue to enjoy your new home! You guys are awesome! Sending prayers and positive energy❤
That neighbor 😡 me & my husband enjoy watching y'all. A suggestion, put up a fence. Something affordable to set a precedent. If you can do one taller, even better. If they mess it up, you can sue...chil' y'all did good
Just ignore the problematic neighbors. Stressing makes the matter worse for you and the kids and then everyone is having problems. Not good!! Close the window whatever you need to do. Just work against oppositions. God bless 🙌 🙏🏼 ❤️
That neighbor isn't going anywhere, so problems will not either. They have to fight the right way
I was wondering if you all know the barbecue and the burn pile limitations or code?
Suggestions only: 7foot fence immediately...this is a person acting a fool. Spirit and flesh are at work. I hear you. Be gentle like a dove and wise as a serpent. Put that fence up and no contact or engagement...have a go between because people are evil and think and dwell on negativity. Block him. Maintain your peace. Praying for guidance and wisdom. I know y'all didn't ask...this was triggering
Naw I appreciate the tips. I’m definitely going to put a fence asap. The less contact, the better I’ll be. So thank you for the love! Have a great weekend 😀
@@HourPointOfViewconsider the aluminum fence
We moved back to Montana from California. I learned quickly not to tell people we came from CA. We try not to compare or say stuff like, “we’re used to doing it like this in CA.” lol some people will not even give you a chance once they know. Praying for the neighbor.
Praying is the key 🙏🏽 I will be praying for y'all and the situation. Continue to record and post
Thank you I appreciate it ♥️
Praying for y’all
Don’t deal with people like that
This reminds me of Fear Thy Neighbor episodes
It all starts off nice 👀
Yoooo yall handled everything soooo well .. the “air punishes “ had me almost fall out on the floor brooooooooooo!
Cause On Cali gang lol !! They lucky you the have holy spirit ❤
keep being Great family 🎉
I would be watering my garden EVERY burn day!! That ground boundary would be so damp nothing would be burning there😅
I hear you 😂😂
Hello ❤
I am praying for your family and your neighbor. You are exactly right it’s a spiritual battle and know that the Lord is with you and you will be victorious! The
The Lord will continue to strengthen y’all and give you the wisdom on how to handle your neighbor.
God Bless!
Sugar in tomato paste cuts down the acid, bitter taste when its canned
Hi 👋 regarding the neighbours burning 🔥 piles perhaps build a barrier of sorts along the line where the piles are that is heat proof. Find a solution that works for you.
Unfortunately we cannot always choose our neighbours.
Praying for you guys. I know how it feels dealing with neighbors like that. They all are like that around me unfortunately. But I will tell you this. We've tried being kind and for certain people that doesn't work. So we got to the point where we protect our home and our peace and refuse to deal with them. If there is any issue we handle it within the laws and ask God for His protection over us. And He has not failed to protect us. I pray the same for you.
Pleading the protection of Psalm 91 over you and your beautiful family ✝️❤️🙏🏾
Yes! Thank you!
Be careful and prayerful! could be why the house was vacant for so long. Consider putting up a fence soon as possible. pray and annoint your home.
Consider keeping a written log of your interactions with your neighbor
I definitely agree. I’m the same. They should’ve called the bacon “brown sugar bacon”! B/c why add brown sugar… Happy Friday Yall!
lol right! So misleading. I hope you have a great weekend! Thank you for watching❤
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Why does there have to be a problematic neighbor? Glad you are recording and posting.
Remember they made a show about bad neighbors
It definitely doesn’t have to be this way. I tried being a friend to him. I’ve allowed him to have his gardener and other people drive on to my property with their vehicles so they can get work done on his land.
I remember that show.
Call your local fire department and find out what the laws are concerning how close to your property line or dwelling that he can have a burn pile.
I seriously hate that you are having to deal with this unreasonable jerk. Having to smell smoke in your home like this is so unacceptable. Your home is supposed to be your haven. I will pray that God convicts him to move the burn pile.
Girl try making breakfast rolls (egg, cheese and a meat) or burritos. They freeze so well and take one minute to heat. It’s a great breakfast choice and can add fruit with them or a smoothie ❤ makes my life easier
“You gotta clean to enjoy it, Honey.” 😂 y’all need to stop. I totally like that the camera went in the barn, ‘just in case.’ It was a pins and needles suspense movie for a few moments.
We are looking at properties in the metro area as well. Hope we find a good spot with some property similar to your find. God bless.
😂 he was acting like he cleans all the time 🙄. I felt the same way when I saw these clips. I was like, “Dang Jeremi is bold”, I would’ve made them bring it to me lol. I hope you find what you like. Are you currently living in Ohio?
@@HourPointOfView No we currently live a couple hours away but we visit the CBUS area 10-15 times a year and enjoy summer weekends in town. we are familiar with the outer ring burbs and outlying areas. We adore the area and finally decided to make the move. We have kids as well and hope to find a home and property soon so I’ve been following your move to Ohio closely :)
Love what you said about spiritual warfare… it’s biblical ✝️❤️
This neighbor is not going to change if he has a history with other neighbors. The end result is either you move or he moves. He is a very unhappy person and that is clearly reflected in his behavior and anger towards others. He is fighting over a small piece of property of which he cannot take with him when he dies. Probably why the house was empty for so long. Sorry for your situation. One of the worst thing that a person can experience is having a bad neighbor.
I'm hopeful that things will get better. I believe the power of the Holy Spirit can change even the hardest of hearts.
Great job y’all and I love your bike
Thank you!
Try the Amish community for your home improvement projects.
Thank you! We’re having them do our deck too 😀
Suggestion: Put some kind of hair bracelet on your wrist to remind you that your oven is on. This is done by a homesteader in Alabama to remind him to shut the water off when he waters his animals. Same principal.
Wow I like that! Time to get hubby and I some bracelets
Hi there! I'm sorry you're having so much trouble with your neighbor. It sounds like you're doing everything you can to get along with him. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Get a sprinkler system in the ground.
Being able to look at the situation from the outside, I am wondering if the trigger happened in the text message. Even though you asked him a question, it sounds like he got triggered but he may have read that question with the wrong tone. I would say further communication may need to be talking on the phone or in person, so the tone is correct. I think all of us who have texted, have misinterpreted a message or had message misinterpreted before. Now, I’m not excusing him because I don’t think he wants you there but there could be a path to civility at the least. Hope it all works out for you and the family.
Me and my family don't eat pork. We love beef bacon. The best store brand I've found is Godshall. I checked the ingredient list after your vid and it's no sugar in it :)
Hi again beautiful fam ❤ Amen forgiveness is very powerful 🙏😍
As soon as he brought up California that says it all stay away from him as much as possible! People dislike us as soon as we say we’re from California!
Absolutely! He showed me his true colors for sure
Being honest, anyone that is from the city that moves to a rural area automatically gets labeled xyz. Same thing happened to me when I moved to rural KY and I'm from Cincinnati Ohio. I've had to tell people I now know to stop being disrespectful to people from the city because they call them terrible names in private. It's disgusting how people treat other people just because they are from a different place from them.
THE BIBLE also say IF IT BE POSSIBLE LIVE PEACEFUL WITH ALL MEN. WITH THAT SAID YOU WANT LIVE PEACEFUL WITH ALL PEOPLE DON'T MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY. You ,must establish your own peace out side of that individual..
21:17 I see why Jeremy was heated😅 let’s all pray for dat man lol
I found you guys a few weeks ago and Ive pretty much watched all of your video's! Such a beautiful family and I enjoy the content ❤ Born and raised Northeast O-H-I-O, and im telling you out of love, your neighbor is prejudice! Be careful
LOLLL not his chickens.😭😭😭😭😭 but I don’t blame yall. Seem likes he’s probably doing it on purpose.
😂😂😂 I shouldn’t have said that! Lord forgive me
@@HourPointOfViewkeep your distance from him!
Put your emotions to the side BUT also be WATCH and prayerful! During this current climate, you can’t trust a soul! Please get a fence. So sorry you all have to deal with this. You guys are such a sweet family but hateful people don’t care if you are kind.
I’m sorry y’all have to deal with that neighbors behavior… Truthfully, I think yall need to stay farrrr away from him!! Put up a fence, contact law enforcement, I don’t exactly but just avoid him altogether… ❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙂…
Yes sorry u all had to go through this but people like this will test you keep your cool and make sure u keep everything recorded
Yikes! What about calling the fire department next time? There has got to be certain rules right? Windy day, close to the house…. What about fire marshall? They enforce fire “codes”. Just a thought.
Hey family, I know this can be a issue with neighbors but please handle with caution. I watch a show on the ID channel called Fear thy Neighbor and some of those situations are so sad….murder all of it.
Just be careful, I know it sucks…….
We had a similar neighbor, she burned her trash, weeds, brush and cardboard between our houses. It filled our house with the windows shut, the smell made me gag and made it hard to breath. Unfortunately what people do on their property is their business and they don't like people telling them what to do on their own property. We sold our home and moved, best decision we ever made. It's not good to be irritated all the time, I feel so much better since we moved. You may need a bigger property!
How did you like the beef bacon?
We liked it. I would’ve liked to taste a little more smoke flavor but it was definitely good . (Jeremi)
Be careful he may have a weapon. Safety first.
Always
I’m so upset that you guys ended up with a crappy neighbor. The smell of burning wood is horrible and although you’re in the country it should still be a law for burning near someone’s property line. like there are ordinances in the city that won’t even allow you to keep garbage cans near the house, they have to be kept several feet away , so you would think their has to be some rules on where you can burn wood on your property, have you all looked that up online? I like your approach in keeping Gods word and praying this man, forgive but don’t take the nonsense ❤ 🙏🏾
Have any of the other neighbors had experiences with this neighbor. He seems easily triggered. Be careful with people like that. Praying God resolves this situation.
Yes everyone has and that’s why nobody talks to him. I’m the only one who did, despite the things I heard about him.
@@HourPointOfView I figured he was known. Bible tells us to not cast our pearls to swine. Deal with him within reason otherwise pay him dust. PS..I too live in Ohio. Most of us are pretty chill☺️.
@JustRhonda3919 thank you for this! Our entire block is chill and respectful. He’s the only one but we’re definitely praying over the situation
@@HourPointOfViewthere’s always one!
Your right sis the enemy is using him to steal not only your joy buy your peace. Keep videoing taping his antics for your records and keep the text messages also. Yes, keep him in prayer because make no mistake about it God will deal with wickedness accordingly.
I hate yall going through that with the neighbor, man listen my hubby and I bought three acres so we wouldn’t have neighbors lol that was the whole point of acres to not deal with difficult neighbors anymore so the fact that yall have acres and that neighbor…im with Jeremi in the background swinging, we’ll pray for him later lol.
But on a serious note prayers for your beautiful family, I pray everything works out with your neighbor and y’all can live in harmony
We have been in East Oklahoma since 2015. Where we live is 1% black population. We are the only black couple living in our neighborhood. We have never had any problems until a family moved in a house behind us. They have called the police on us 3 times for our dogs barking. The first 2 times it was 8pm at night and the third time was in the day time. Their dog is always barking and we don't call the police. Actually, our next-door neighbor is a police officer. I was a Juvenile Probation Officer until 2018, and I had to file for disability. My coworkers here were prejudiced. I actually was more educated than they were. This part of Oklahoma, I heard, was prejudiced. My husband retires next month, and we will be moving in a year. I have never had problems with a neighbor before, so we just try to keep the dogs in the house as much as possible now. I will keep you in prayer, and I ask that you keep us and our dogs in prayer.
One more thing, when you are in motion that's exercise, you might want to look up the start of the work exercise
Damm fam, sorry to hear you guys are dealing with a J cat for a neighbor. Keep your composure Jeremi. You guys come a long way and have built your dream house with a lot of land in Ohio. However, the part about "I'm from Cali" part is hilarious!!!! 😂😂😂
Did everyone like the beef bacon?
Sounds like the neighbor is trying to run yall off!
I buy organic sugar I tried to like maple syrup for my sweetener, but I just can’t do it. Do not like the taste. I alternate between organic sugar and raw honey.
Please just remember that we never know what is going on in some one else life and we dont know what other ppl have done to him and i know for a fact even ppl who call themselves "CHRISTIAN " tells lies on others. So think why is he like this and not give tge devil so much credit!
Go to The LORD in PRAYER!!! Don't say anything else to the neighbors! I had problems probably with my neighbor picking at me! I'm a TRUE woman of GOD! Leave it in God's hands and WATCH HIM WORK!!! I'm not trying to be mean But, my neighbor that I treated nice even though he done me wrong for years had a HEART ATTACK! Vengeance is THE LORD!!! Be STILL and KNOW that HE is THE LORD!!! I'm PRAYING for you alln
The neighbor and the chickens betta try Jesus!!!!!
😂😂😂😂 DON’T TRY ME
@@HourPointOfView Rightttt 😂😂😂😂
Love the floors!
Wow it's sad to know her son is out there know his mom is homeless and maybe he homeless to and just letting his pride get in his way. Only get one mother she said what she admitted her true when at that time in her life that's prombley all she knew what to do in that time in her life. forgive your Mother. Love her while she still here. Love the woman she now once she gone you can't tell her those words. Tell while she still here to here them ..sending this Mother a biggest hugs from to you.
Huh?
A bad neighbor can really make your life miserable
Yup! It makes it harder to take the high road
As they say fences make great Neighbors. Sounds like he is upset about the property line. That is so unfortunate for you guys
Beloved if you have not anointed your home or property yet do it James 5:12-20 in the name of Jesus Christ name that God will be done here on earth as it already is in heaven, bind the devil because the gentlemen may come at you all some other way God is faithful and he will move on the heart of anyone when we pray for others. To God be all the glory
Im new. I have watched a few videos but, I thought you all moved to Columbus. Not very many people inside the municipal corp with acres of land. There are a few areas that became overtly racist in 2016. Anything south or west is pretty much Trump Country. Same goes for too far north (mt Gilead)or east (Pataskala) lol. Stay blessed, stay safe, and take care.
These type of people are so bothered & can be so evil he thought you would be afraid of him which is the most cowardly way to treat your neighbor or anyone you are correct to pray for him he needs it more than you know. Remember misery loves company pray record every incident & leave him to his misery.
The chickens gotta go! Lol
He sounds like he’s not used to and does not like seeing a thriving, healthy, happy black family. I would keep my distance , watch your girls, because he sounds spiteful. We have to watch as well as pray because peace is maintained by strength. The evil doer will try to break our peace, we can be respectful yet strong against someone who doesn’t respect our kindness and takes it for weakness.
You all need bind those devils in him every morning y’all get up and loose the blood of Jesus over poverty. Matt 18:18-19
Read Ps 91 and play scriptures in your home 24/7
This is clearly the enemy at work. Forgive him everyday until it doesn’t bother you.
Time will tell how things will go with patience.
This to shall pass. ✝️🙏🏾
I hate this for you guys and this man does need prayer. I’m also like it’s on sight with Mr. Problematic Neighbor. 💥🤛🏽
Feel me !!! I’m trying to do good but man, the old me wants to pop out lol
I wonder if he's doing it on purpose 🤔
I don’t know but it definitely seems like it. Praying he finds peace at whatever is bothering him
@@HourPointOfView Be careful and document everything!
@April_Patrice Absolutely! I have videos, photos, emails, fire department info from when they responded regarding them burning in an unsafe manner , etc.
ID channel has a show called nightmare next door...y'all don't need that scenario Lord be a fence
I’m going to watch it tonight instead of First 48
Please put up a fence I dont trust him esp since you got girls he can turn out to be petty and violent
When the dogs ran up on your Children I knew what it was.
The Cardinal is our State Bird! Your neighbor should know better to not burn on a windy day! What a big dummy! Next time call the Sheriff's that is very unsafe! damn he is making us rural folks sound stupid!!! OMG! we have our burning piles far away from anybodies home.... What a pain in the A**!!!
Don't choke up on your hammer. Let the weight of the hammer do the work. 😊
Your neighbor sounds like he has a disorder and might be on drugs the reasons why he's reactive, and evil. I had three neighbors like him when I moved to my new place and I remembered that the children of Israel were told to fight to take their inheritance and God was with them, so my point is document and use the law and it's a Sin to fear, so don't, because praying for and against the enemy is a sure win Everytime. You can exist on your land without allowing him to steal your peace. Stand and do what is right and protect. You can forgive Satan all day, and he won't care. The wording one another is brothers and sisters who humble themselves and work towards peace. I don't think he's a man of faith with that type of fruit. Read and study your Bible more so you won't be fooled by the world's lies