I’m dropping out of my course

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  • čas přidán 1. 10. 2019
  • Thank you if you watched to the end of the video. And thank you for always supporting me. This was a really difficult decision to make but it's definitely for the best. And I'm just so grateful to be in a position where I can actually decide to make this change.
    I know that English Literature is the right subject for me to be studying :)
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  • @jack_edwards
    @jack_edwards Před 4 lety +3101

    HELL FRICKIN YEAH WELCOME TO THE ENGLISH LIT LIFE!!!!!

  • @zaluxa
    @zaluxa Před 4 lety +4670

    english literature seems perfect for you

  • @asmakarameh6171
    @asmakarameh6171 Před 4 lety +2241

    "Its not a rejection ,its redirection"
    I love the phrase ..
    Good luck Ruby, have a productive year too ❤

    • @nadineebada6557
      @nadineebada6557 Před 4 lety +2

      Another phrase I've always loved is " Rejection is protection"

    • @swymaj02
      @swymaj02 Před 4 lety

      @Henley Chan I agree.

  • @dn8139
    @dn8139 Před 4 lety +746

    *jack edwards has entered the chat*

  • @user-xc5vt3ny4f
    @user-xc5vt3ny4f Před 4 lety +2518

    I was actually really surprised last year when you initially chose philosophy over literature. I’m so glad you’re going back to it, literature seems like a perfect choice for you. And as a literature graduate I know you’re going to love it!

    • @weiterentwicklunginkl.2889
      @weiterentwicklunginkl.2889 Před 4 lety +14

      I was very surprised too, she said she loved it and all, but something felt not right. I am very happy for her. :)

    • @user-bp9tp3fr6q
      @user-bp9tp3fr6q Před 4 lety

      Same ahahah

    • @Nalijay
      @Nalijay Před 4 lety +1

      Dream Ch faculty

    • @henriettaanneeles490
      @henriettaanneeles490 Před 4 lety +5

      I have a question. What can you use a Lit degree for? I have been exploring options but I am not sure what I want to be, but I am beginning to like Lit.

    • @user-xc5vt3ny4f
      @user-xc5vt3ny4f Před 4 lety +4

      Henrietta Anne Ele S so after graduating I’m working in PR cause I realised I liked communications. There’s honestly so much you can do after Lit. There’s teaching, research, journalism, law , communication. The degree is very versatile and more importantly Literature really make you look at the world from a different perspective so even If post graduating you don’t work in that field you gain very strong soft skills

  • @kater6873
    @kater6873 Před 4 lety +1336

    I was actually really surprised when you picked theology since you have always loved English literature and enjoy reading/writing. I am glad you decided on this path and I hope you find much success in it. :)

  • @filmsbynix
    @filmsbynix Před 4 lety +289

    Just listening to how you articulate yourself about your Oxford rejection shows how much you have matured since high school.

  • @giorgia8674
    @giorgia8674 Před 4 lety +702

    Philosophy sounds like a nice guy you enjoy spending your time with, while literature is the person with whom you fall in love. I believe you made the best decision, good luck!

  • @jadelauren2269
    @jadelauren2269 Před 4 lety +1360

    Was anyone else shook by this notification?!

  • @tunazzinamehjabin5118
    @tunazzinamehjabin5118 Před 4 lety +724

    When I saw the title, I was like,
    " NOOO!"
    When I heard English literature, I was like, "YES YES YES! "
    English literature is perfect for you!
    Ruby fans- celebrate!

  • @ReadingMissFroggy
    @ReadingMissFroggy Před 4 lety +648

    When I was 6 I decided that I wanted to be a history teacher. So when I finished high school and went on to study history... I hated it! Absolutely hated it! So I dropped out and had a huge identity crisis, who was I if not a history teacher?!
    Someone told me that speech therapy is an interesting thing to study so I did that for a year but it wasn't my passion. So I dropped out again and studied social work. I liked it well enough and finished it, but also knew that it wasn't my passion.
    While studying social work, I volunteered to show prospective students the school and give them information about the course. I loved doing that so much! It made me realise that what I wanted to be was a teacher, the subject didn't matter that much to me. So after thinking about it for a while, I decided to go with distance education and become an English teacher.
    I'm now in my final year, already work as an English teacher and love every second of it. Doesn't matter what road you take, as long as you get where you want/need to be.

    • @maisie2162
      @maisie2162 Před 4 lety +35

      Oh this is very reassuring, thank you for this!

    • @amandamakesstuff1383
      @amandamakesstuff1383 Před 4 lety +30

      This is veeeery reassuring as someone who’s in second year and somewhat enjoys their degree but knows it’s not their passion in life! Thank you

    • @ReadingMissFroggy
      @ReadingMissFroggy Před 4 lety +2

      @@maisie2162 no problem :)

    • @ReadingMissFroggy
      @ReadingMissFroggy Před 4 lety +22

      @@amandamakesstuff1383 a scary as it is, you have a whole life in front of you and more time than you think to really discover your passion! I even have an aunt who was in her 50s when she discovered her passion and she just finished her education last year!

    • @selenaramoutar7158
      @selenaramoutar7158 Před 4 lety +1

      I love this💙💙💙💙Thanks for sharing 💚

  • @georgiabezzy3220
    @georgiabezzy3220 Před 4 lety +562

    this feels like Elena choosing between Stefan and Damon

    • @dvbbie
      @dvbbie Před 4 lety +11

      IM CRYYYIGNNG

    • @TA-os2ru
      @TA-os2ru Před 4 lety +52

      “Im just gonna cut straight to the chase. I am breaking up with stefan......to get with Damon.”

    • @jennamcguire6281
      @jennamcguire6281 Před 4 lety +19

      omg yes lol bc she thought stefan was right for her but it was damon. omg i miss that show :(
      i actually wish stefan and elena ended up together tho.

    • @applebt1
      @applebt1 Před 4 lety +1

      Stelena still!!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @alb0zfinest
      @alb0zfinest Před 4 lety +8

      @@TA-os2ru But we all know Stefan was the better choice.

  • @plumicorn
    @plumicorn Před 4 lety +597

    Detours leads us to new realizsations. We all need a Detour to learn Lessons. No one has a straight path in life. And sometimes a Detour leads you to the right place.💫

  • @nothandotshuma
    @nothandotshuma Před 4 lety +559

    One of my friends did that and she’s soo much happier doing what she loves!😊❤️

    • @emilybarnard7066
      @emilybarnard7066 Před 4 lety +25

      I faffed about for years with "responsible" career options before I chucked it and studied English Lit. I'm poorer, but much healthier and happier. This is the person I wanted to be. I hope your friend feels the same.

    • @nothandotshuma
      @nothandotshuma Před 4 lety +17

      Emily Barnard i love that soo much - people always associate success with the amount of money you make. As long as you’re happy doing what you love, you’re a very successful person😊

  • @universityofexeter
    @universityofexeter Před 4 lety +187

    We wish you loads of luck with your new course and hope you continue to really enjoy your time with us!

    • @PsychologyWizard
      @PsychologyWizard Před 4 lety +17

      How does it feel to be 2nd choice?

    • @meadowwalk
      @meadowwalk Před 3 lety +2

      Awwww this is awesome

    • @meadowwalk
      @meadowwalk Před 3 lety +18

      @@PsychologyWizard hey no one cares who she was with before... or who she used to have a crush on, bud. All that matters is, who is the LAST choice.

  • @JayPalfrey
    @JayPalfrey Před 4 lety +16

    just want to say congratulations! its so hard to make the decision to change, and when you know its the right choice, its the right thing to do! go for it, good luck

  • @halloween42
    @halloween42 Před 4 lety +378

    "Literature is the best way for us to understand ourselves because everything's a story. You're a story. I'm a story." Wow! ❤

  • @jiminsuga5803
    @jiminsuga5803 Před 4 lety +271

    it‘s incredible how MUCH you have matured in this year. Really glad you‘re doing better mentaly! ❤️ I fell in love with you and your videos all over agin after watching this video

  • @piafleig
    @piafleig Před 4 lety +46

    Wow, Ruby, you’ve articulated that so perfectly, I am stunned. Your choice of words is... superb. I can really feel your soul (for lack of a better word) in this video. It’s you, one hundred percent, and that makes everything you say resonate deeply with me. What you have decided to do is brave, and it is right, too. I am incredibly happy for you!

  • @samanthawatkins1787
    @samanthawatkins1787 Před 4 lety +14

    I totally understand that 'yearning' and 'more' feeling with literature that you're talking about.
    I did my BA in Drama and Music but continued to read and love and explore literature. Then I did my MA in English and it was amazing! You can love lots of subjects! I now teach primary school children and love that too - but I'd still love to work with literature as well. Sometimes it just never goes away!

  • @abbystudies1827
    @abbystudies1827 Před 4 lety +167

    I’m a bookworm and I can totally relate I appreciate how honest you have been in this video

  • @user-wp3cs9im5i
    @user-wp3cs9im5i Před 4 lety +188

    If you’re happy, we’re happy! Congrats and good luck xx

  • @giovannizappi2048
    @giovannizappi2048 Před 4 lety +14

    Dear Ruby, I dropped out of university three times ( before understanding that some major work had to be done with myself if I wanted to feel good again ). Five years of therapy and now I'm registering again in the course that I hope will lead me to my dream job and most importantly my dream self. Still now I am afraid of that stigma, to be seen as the "dropper", an old 27 years old student who try it one more time...so thank you for sharing that this stigma is not a definition of who we are, and that sometimes it can be a huge opportunity for growth and change instead! ♥️

  • @sundaywithcandy
    @sundaywithcandy Před 4 lety +4

    omg I'm so happy for you Ruby! I did the exact same thing a few years ago and now I'm studying French Litterature which I love so much and which brings me so much joy every single day! Doing something that you truly love definitely changes everything!

  • @miaelliful
    @miaelliful Před 4 lety +35

    You’ve been such an inspiration to me, especially as I’ve just started university. English Literature seems like a perfect course for you so I’m glad you’re excited to do it! I’m sure it is going to be incredible ❤️❤️

  • @letsnottalkaboutit1727
    @letsnottalkaboutit1727 Před 4 lety +50

    Oh I’m so happy for you! Glad you found out what you really wanted. At first when you said you’d changed from English to philosophy I was quite confused and thought English would suit you better but thought if it made you happy you should do it. All the luck for you Ruby so happy love you ♥️

  • @loganridley6093
    @loganridley6093 Před 4 lety +1

    This was so raw and beautiful. It takes so much courage to make a decision like this. Wishing you all the best for your future studies Ruby xx

  • @nikkishy3024
    @nikkishy3024 Před 4 lety +179

    I knew of your big love for English ever since you were prepping for A levels and when you switched, I was genuinely surprised. I thought that it was a new discovery and I was excited for you.
    I am now so excited for you again that you have returned to your first love (basically, this is what it seems like haha) and I wish you all the best! I know you will do great!

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  Před 4 lety +12

      Nikki SHY first love indeed x

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  Před 4 lety +25

      I reas somewhere that we spend our whole lives trying to refind our first loves x

    • @nikkishy3024
      @nikkishy3024 Před 4 lety

      @@RubyGranger8 I stayed with my first decision as well and I never regretted it 💕 So I guess it is true

  • @Claire_Fenby
    @Claire_Fenby Před 4 lety +220

    As an Literature MA grad, I can see you suiting the course perfectly! I’m currently saving up for a PhD (whilst working in publishing) because I just can’t get enough. If any of you ever need any advice about studying a BA or MA in Literature please just get in touch 📚

    • @marija
      @marija Před 4 lety +7

      Hey, just wondering if you could give any advice on getting into publishing? I really want to but with no experience since my BA I’ve had no luck anywhere. Thanks :)

    • @Claire_Fenby
      @Claire_Fenby Před 4 lety +8

      marija Hello! I would suggest trying to get work experience or an internship and building experience around the area you’re interested in. Not to self promote but I’m currently doing a YT series on getting into publishing which might be able to help.

    • @asmrink4431
      @asmrink4431 Před 4 lety +2

      Claire Fenby I’m currently studying for my BA in English Language and Literature in hopes to work into publishing! At the moment I’m taking a critical approach to literature course (my first literature course since starting college) and even though it can be brutal at times, I love it!

    • @marija
      @marija Před 4 lety +2

      Claire Fenby oh, really! I’ll be sure to check it out. I’m struggling to find any work experience where I live, and have applied for internships too. I should probably do more research into companies 😛

    • @Claire_Fenby
      @Claire_Fenby Před 4 lety +1

      ASMR Ink Studying English Literature (like any other degree really) is A LOT of work but I’m very lucky to only ever have had book related jobs so I guess it paid off in the end. Good luck! If you need any advice just let me know.

  • @FluffleOW
    @FluffleOW Před 4 lety +32

    I started at Exeter this September, and I'm doing Economics but I am sitting in some literature lectures as my electives! So fascinating, I'm so excited for you Ruby!!

  • @zollajameela4265
    @zollajameela4265 Před 4 lety +7

    I've always felt like English literature would be perfect for you and I'm glad you made a decision you are happy and comfortable about! good luck girl I'm rooting for you! 💞💞💞

  • @flopearce-higginson2299
    @flopearce-higginson2299 Před 4 lety +2

    This is so great Ruby! English Literature is such a fulfilling and fun course (I'm now in my second year) and considering how awesome your work ethic is, you are going to soar! Best of luck with it, we're all behind you!

  • @neathenerd
    @neathenerd Před 4 lety +20

    Do what you love!♥️
    I quit my first job as a teacher two months back because it was very very stressful and it was a really had decision to take but I got another job in teaching in a school I REALLY wanted. And it wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t left. And I am really excited for you or anyone who is taking a step towards what they love.☺️

  • @lauraprice5385
    @lauraprice5385 Před 4 lety +18

    This video is so important from someone as inspiring as yourself! I think it’s helpful for people my age (who are starting to think about uni courses) that are sometimes told we should know what we want to do when we are older

  • @ishikashah4160
    @ishikashah4160 Před 4 lety +104

    When you mentioned that you have a yarning for the subject English, I related to you. I feel like I am meant to study history its like a calling. My school guidance counsellor has told me that it is a dying subject and that I should not study it at university. However, I do not care. I want to major in History and no matter what people say I am going to go through it. I completely understand you on this point.

    • @Phoenix-iy8fy
      @Phoenix-iy8fy Před 4 lety +9

      Ishika Shah
      As someone currently studying history I promise it’s not a dying subject. It’s fantastic! You’re going to enjoy it so much 😊

    • @nou-kc1ws
      @nou-kc1ws Před 4 lety +4

      You go gurl😘😘Do what you want with your life💪💪

    • @cheechee6473
      @cheechee6473 Před rokem +2

      History is not a dying subject. We need to know it so we don’t make the same mistakes we made in the past. It’s three years later, how’s your degree going? :)

    • @ishikashah4160
      @ishikashah4160 Před rokem

      @@cheechee6473 Hello, you are so right, after all isn't there a saying which states that history repeats itself! I'm just finishing up my second year, majoring in History and Internationa Relations (realised soon after I posted that comment that I was deeply passionate about global politics as well). I love my degree and am so glad I didn't listen to my counselor :) Are you also currently in university?

    • @ishikashah4160
      @ishikashah4160 Před rokem

      @@Phoenix-iy8fy Thank you for your reply, I can't believe I am just seeing it! I really am enjoying my history degree, how is life after a history degree looking for you? ☺

  • @abbia261
    @abbia261 Před 4 lety +1

    That sounds like a really good choice! I realise it is a very different thing but I’m currently doing my GCSE’s and I feel similar about English literature, I always get excited for each class and I really enjoy writing essays and reading new novels and plays! I really hope this year goes well for you, I’m sure you’ve made the right decision! ❤️❤️

  • @ChibiSugar
    @ChibiSugar Před 4 lety +71

    Been there, done that! I was studying Game art for 2 years, which was all fine. But I decided to pursue law, so i dropped out of game art and switched to law. I think a lot of people change courses, i find comfort in knowing others did it too haha.

  • @jennakelly5582
    @jennakelly5582 Před 4 lety +35

    Never feel bad about changing your mind! I am currently at the end of degree in my third year, and i am going back to university after i graduate to do a post-graduate degree in my true passion - teaching! So never feel bad and do what you want to do, not what the world thinks! x

    • @YA-rk6fo
      @YA-rk6fo Před 4 lety

      That’s amazing ! I’m looking to do a speech and language degree and wasn’t sure if I could do a pgce for primary teaching after wards

  • @harrietblair8447
    @harrietblair8447 Před 4 lety +2

    Really happy for you ❤️ I've never done it myself but I imagine it'd be really scary to make the decision to switch course, so I think it's so brave that you've followed your gut and I'm sure it'll work out well for you Ruby ✨✨

  • @alicehartley
    @alicehartley Před 4 lety

    Yessss ruby!!! I’m so happy for you. The best thing you can do in life is to do what you enjoy the most. I’ve changed uni courses as well (from education studies to psychology and counselling) and it’s the best decision I ever made. Now in my second year of psychology and counselling at 21. No one has the same path in life and it’s okay to do stuff for you. Lots of love ruby xxx

  • @phiabee7064
    @phiabee7064 Před 4 lety +5

    I just transferred courses as well and I am so glad that you talked about this! You are kind of a role model for me and to know that even you decided to transfer to pursue something you are more exited about helps me a lot!

  • @LenkaDanian
    @LenkaDanian Před 4 lety +183

    i switched from informatics/software engineering to literature/linguistics after 2 years, best decision of my life. i hope everything turns out well for you too

    • @liz-annedriece1699
      @liz-annedriece1699 Před 4 lety +14

      Oh wauw, that's like a big change

    • @TatySwan
      @TatySwan Před 4 lety +1

      And you reasoning was "because learning languages is, you know, so easy", wasn't it?
      Pretty sure you'll never work in linguistics 🤣 or any language related sphere.
      Those two years are when they give the fundamental knowledge, you have a LOT of catching up to do.

    • @felicityaeh
      @felicityaeh Před 4 lety +25

      Tatiana Sobchenko .... where did they say it was anything to do with it being easy? and how do you know they didn’t go back to year 1 of the course??? stop being an asshole

    • @josemhs1213
      @josemhs1213 Před 4 lety

      @@TatySwan more than likely they caught up while you wouldve fallen behind

    • @TatySwan
      @TatySwan Před 4 lety +1

      @YoshiPeach Mario nah, in fact I'm all the way opposite - in my opinion scientific specialities are more complex and factual than arts. I, myself hold degrees for both - information technologies and linguistics.
      However I'm a 100% believer that transferring courses works only with similar subjects - like linguistics - philosophy and vice versa.
      And when we're talking about jumping around from faculty to faculty, from arts to sciences and back in the middle of course, there is the minimal chance of success in either profession.
      One should be an exceptionally talented or focused student to sort out what the hell is going on starting as far as third year into the course.

  • @elizabethwallace189
    @elizabethwallace189 Před 4 lety

    I am so happy for you Ruby! I just started university as an early enrollment student this semester. Thank you for your videos and your realness. You have given me so much motivation for studying.

  • @Ali.walmsley
    @Ali.walmsley Před 4 lety

    Hey Ruby just wanted to say your such an inspiration to me and I really get more motivated for studying although I’m in yr 11 ❤️Thank you Ruby!

  • @liselotdecanck406
    @liselotdecanck406 Před 4 lety +8

    I changed my course as well after some time Ruby, and I'm so much happier for it! I'm so proud of you for making this hard decision. I'm sure you'll do amazing and I hope that you'll have the best time doing English literature! Lots of love 💖💖

  • @bluepharos9748
    @bluepharos9748 Před 4 lety +28

    Ruby, never be ashamed for choosing how to live your life. You're amazing. Good luck with English Literature, you'll smash it.

  • @amiereid5525
    @amiereid5525 Před 4 lety +1

    yes ruby!! so excited for you!! english lit seems like the perfect fit for you and it's always best to focus on what you love and what you want to do!!

  • @wiredayan9719
    @wiredayan9719 Před 4 lety +5

    Omg! Just realized the magical things that can come from a healthy family/support system... you’ll go places girl! Keep on!

  • @emma-ye3ji
    @emma-ye3ji Před 4 lety +5

    i'm happy for you!!
    i'm in my first year of studying graphic/digital design! it's so so interesting and i really love it, but it's challenging because i'm 100% more used to more academic work. it's also quite hard because i was always used to "being the best at school", and it's really hard to compare your drawings to everyone else's and find yours ugly, when art used to be something only for myself, and which i was good at.

  • @celinewagner4589
    @celinewagner4589 Před 4 lety +50

    I just highly understand what you mean by the fulfilment that literature is giving you. I often have the exact same feeling when reading a book.
    Good luck :)

  • @stellwyn
    @stellwyn Před 4 lety +7

    As someone who changed course at university, massive well done for making your academic journey your own! I struggled with a LOT of imposter syndrome when I changed course, especially because I'm at a very competitive university where you get in because you're absolutely dedicated to your subject. So changing subject meant I felt like I was a bit of a fraud. But it was the best decision I ever made, and I absolutely adore my new subject (anthropology). No regrets. I hope you have a great second first year!

  • @sophiesmith3195
    @sophiesmith3195 Před 4 lety +53

    Psychology is always a winner for me- literally learning how humans work it’s so important

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 Před 4 lety +1

      I have wanted to learn psychology for about 4 years now as i have suffered from depression in the past and i a am autistic (diagnosed last yr). But unfortunately i cant switch majors now as i am in final year of engineering

    • @kyaharvey8071
      @kyaharvey8071 Před 4 lety +2

      Maybe after your current degree, you do a conversion masters in psychology? You'll learn the same stuff as an undergrad but the course is shorter.

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 Před 4 lety

      @@fr-it6iw , here in indian engineering degree is nothing but a toilet paper , 80% of engineers are jobless or underpaid, I don't know the scenario in the UK

  • @AddittiAgrawal
    @AddittiAgrawal Před 4 lety +7

    we’ll support you no matter what Ruby! i’m glad you’re taking this step :)

  • @maddyelizabeth6778
    @maddyelizabeth6778 Před 4 lety +6

    I’m very happy and proud of you for choosing another course that makes you happy Ruby!! X :) I hope you enjoy 💞

  • @AtHomeWithMeKellyLeigh
    @AtHomeWithMeKellyLeigh Před 4 lety +1

    You have articulated your reasons so well in this video, it all made total sense! So glad you’ve taken the path you want. Good luck Xx

  • @kaylasilva7826
    @kaylasilva7826 Před 4 lety +7

    Let me just say you were already someone I looked up to! But right now I am even more proud of you! Whatever you choose to do you will exceed at because you are a very driven and passionate person! Wishing you love and light ❤️

  • @AmethystRosie
    @AmethystRosie Před 4 lety +7

    I study English Literature at a different university and it is such a lovely subject. Your love of literature makes it a perfect degree for you! I wish you the best of luck Ruby and I hope you really enjoy studying English Literature at university!

  • @hannahluciia7900
    @hannahluciia7900 Před 4 lety +19

    Proud of you!!❤️ do what your Heart tells you!!💘

  • @ShadowLarkHill
    @ShadowLarkHill Před 4 lety

    I’m so excited that you’re going to study what you love and what makes you happy. I’m also studying English Lit here in Mexico and I’m on my second to last semester. I’m currently working on my dissertation paper on Bram Stoker’s Dracula and I’m so excited is bananas.
    Hope you keep on enjoying the lectures and seminars.
    Good luck everyone.

  • @rebeccab1454
    @rebeccab1454 Před 4 lety

    thanks for sharing Ruby and doing what's right for you! :) I'm really curious to hear more about your course, hope you pick up your daily uni vlogs again now!

  • @KirstieLouex
    @KirstieLouex Před 4 lety +13

    I totally relate to this I’m in my first year at uni and just swapped out my joint honours because I needed to do what was best for me. Congratulations lovely!

  • @jiminsuga5803
    @jiminsuga5803 Před 4 lety +29

    I‘m studying geography at the University of Bern at the moment and I loooove it! it‘s so amazing to actually study and learn the thing you‘re most interested in.

    • @pageandme2101
      @pageandme2101 Před 4 lety

      Heyyy I'm also studying in Bern but Law! So cool to meet someone who's also studying at the same university!

    • @pageandme2101
      @pageandme2101 Před 4 lety

      haha okey ich chänti öi ditshc schribu ;D

  • @tejaswinisureshkrishnan4228

    I have been reareally struggling after I chose the wrong major. When I joined college, I was really influenced by what others thought would be the sensible major and now it's been over a year and I'm just so...not the right fit here. I feel like English literature will be better for me. So I literally searched for this video, because I hate my course but I'm also scared to drop out and I need some motivation. Thanks Ruby😭❤

  • @tjtwins_
    @tjtwins_ Před 4 lety +1

    Loved this video so much! So relatable! I changed my course right at the end of last year and have just started first year again not because I didn’t enjoy my course last year but just because I have now found something better and more suited to me 💕 it’s hard to put it into words as well and people just assume you didn’t enjoy it or failed it last year so this has really helped to know as well that it’s more common than people let on! Thankyou for this vid and the best of luck with starting English!🤞🏽❤️

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  Před 4 lety

      I'm so glad to hear that this experience is shared! I hope that everything is going well for you now that you've made the right decision! :)x

  • @LePetiteBrun
    @LePetiteBrun Před 4 lety +4

    WE STAAAAAAAAAN!!!!!
    I was really happy when you said you were going to study Philosophy since I'm studying also that at the University of Barcelona, but I reaaaaaaally think that English literature suits you 100% more.
    I'm glad that you are finding what you really like and THAT is what all is about! Find what makes you happy Ruby!! We want you to be!! 😊😊

  • @benjones1458
    @benjones1458 Před 4 lety +7

    I love English literature so much!! I'm doing it at university. I've only just started doing it but I already know it's going to be one heck of a trip. I loved it at A level because of one specific teachers. He was so funny and qwerky. I've always loved reading books. There's just so much in reading and learning that some don't understand but I totally get you. You've made a great choice and I wish you all the best.😆☺👏

  • @remembersummers
    @remembersummers Před 4 lety +1

    I drop out of my course too, I did it in July, before the start of semester, i changed programs from International Business and Trade to Economics and i was so nervous too! I think the telling to your friends and family it's actually harder than changing the courses so i understand completly, the estigma is actually really heavy, because i think the perception from the people changes a little bit, which is completly ridiculous, I hope you really enjoy your new path, you seem to loved theology so much that this video catched me by surprise. I'm actually loving my new course (i find it so fascinating and i started to actually studyng my classes in the afternoon as soon as i arrive to home, because i find it really interesting, and this is something i've never had done before) and I'm sooo glad that i changed majors. So happy to hear the same from you Ruby!

  • @MissHannaLovesGrammar
    @MissHannaLovesGrammar Před 4 lety +1

    I am delighted for you Ruby! I switched from Medicine to English and addressing those questions about 'why' was challenging at the time...over a decade on I know that decision was transformational to my joy in life and understanding the human experience. Literary love and excitement for you!

  • @catp3002
    @catp3002 Před 4 lety +15

    I feel like there’s not enough emphasis placed on changing courses and/or uni’s. Nobody actually talks about how easy and how 100000% okay it is to do so. As you say - dropping out has way too much stigma - every life is different - everyone needs different things and the course you’re taking may not be providing you with what you need - so it stands to reason that people who’ve dropped out shouldn’t be judged for it. If anything they should be commended for their courage, and ability to admit they made a mistake or even that they’re not certain they made the right decision at the start of uni. So massive kudos to you ❤️.
    I went to a uni that wasn’t necessarily right for me because I knew I wasn’t going to get the grades to get into the uni that would be right for me. I really didn’t like it there but stuck out the year to see if it would get better - it didn’t. So I looked into alternatives. I was shocked to find out that I could actually change to another uni and start again as easily as sending a few emails, applying through UCAS and amending my personal statement to include the year at uni. I applied to the uni I wouldn’t have originally got the grades for with my grades from my year at my original uni and they said yes. I’m now going into my 2nd year at the new uni and I’ve never been happier. I’ve also met a good 10 or so people who changed university who are finding uni to be suiting them more now. It’s so strange that it’s not talked about - given how much happier people who do so are after changing.

    • @BigYinthestu
      @BigYinthestu Před 4 lety

      What's it like switching course? Did you have take a year out to apply for UCAS and wait Till the next year or what ?

    • @catp3002
      @catp3002 Před 4 lety

      @@BigYinthestu I completed my first year at my original uni (I didn't decide it wasn't right for me until Easter time) - then dropped out after receiving my marks for my 1st year exams. I applied through UCAS to my current uni with those marks. Then started my current uni course that Sept.
      Its weird having done uni before because you know what to expect, but also not too bad because you know how to get the most out of the experience.

  • @rhythmicelegance4670
    @rhythmicelegance4670 Před 4 lety +5

    This video is like a love letter to English literature, with the declarations of yearning and such. ;) I applaud your decision!

  • @andreiasimoes2015
    @andreiasimoes2015 Před 4 lety

    I think you've done the right choice! The light you spread while you are talking the way you feel about your course now says everything 😉
    All the luck of the world for you 🥰

  • @ruthgibbons7059
    @ruthgibbons7059 Před 4 lety

    Good luck Ruby!! It’s good to have someone online that shows that changing your mind is okay x

  • @weiterentwicklunginkl.2889
    @weiterentwicklunginkl.2889 Před 4 lety +14

    When I saw the title I shook like a leaf for a moment, but when you announce you're going to study english literature I thought:"Well, finally. Welcome home Ruby."
    I am extremely happy for you!
    Liebe Grüße

  • @mixibo
    @mixibo Před 4 lety +4

    This sounds like great change especially for you. Good luck and enjoy!!!!

  • @tkrena6815
    @tkrena6815 Před 4 lety

    I'm glad you're doing something that makes you excited! This is quite common in students, I love how honest you are in this video

  • @VickeyHungary
    @VickeyHungary Před 4 lety

    Congratulations Ruby, I'm so happy for you ❤️ you'll love those classes for sure.

  • @anastasiazharkova7851
    @anastasiazharkova7851 Před 4 lety +8

    I have been feeling uncertain about my choice of courses too. I am now studying Computer Science, but before my studies begun I almost switched to another course countless times. What brings me comfort is that every time I would inevitably come back to the idea that Computer Science is right for me, but the fact that I wanted to transfer so many times throughout the year just won't let me be... I just have this feeling that something isn't right. (anyone can relate?)
    Thank you a lot for sharing your experience so sincerely in this video and helping me understand that starting over is ok💞
    After seeing this I feel much more empowered to drop out and study something else if I realise with clarity that Computer Science is not my thing

  • @darkeria7617
    @darkeria7617 Před 4 lety +77

    I had a heart attack when I read the title. I thought you'll drop out of college! But do what you want to do, do what your heart wants 🖤

  • @saoirse771
    @saoirse771 Před 4 lety

    I love this Ruby, how you feel about English is how I feel with my course. I think that’s when people know what’s right for them. So happy you’re pursuing what’s right for you ❤️

  • @emxfletch
    @emxfletch Před 4 lety

    I love that you made this video! It makes the whole studytuber world just that little bit more real. I just finished my first year doing filmmaking and realised I wanted more variety and it’s the wrong course for me and transferred too! I’m already so much happier within myself for that choice and it’s such a relief to enjoy my entire course again since that’s what I’m paying to do :) no shame in figuring out what you thought was best at first isn’t for you!

  • @charliesophianeal8630
    @charliesophianeal8630 Před 4 lety +3

    Fair play to you Ruby, sometimes we make choices in life that end up not being for us! And you made the decision to change it while you could - enjoy English Lit! ❤️

  • @charlotteperry
    @charlotteperry Před 4 lety +3

    I haven’t watched the full video yet but I wanted to give you my experience of switching courses. I first did children’s nursing at the University of Southampton but I really didn’t enjoy it and I couldn’t see myself being a nurse so in April I switched courses to business management as I really enjoyed business at A Level. I have just started my 2nd year in business and I enjoy it so much more than nursing and I can see myself using this knowledge in my future career. Also in my first year in business I achieved 78% which I was really proud of and I could never of achieved by continuing nursing.
    I am so so glad I took the leap to switch courses, as even though it was a stress at first, I love learning about business.
    I hope my success story inspires you Ruby 💕💕

  • @quinnhouse4379
    @quinnhouse4379 Před 4 lety

    Well done for having the guts to follow your heart. I hope it goes well and the transition isn't too hard for you. Happiness goes a long way. Good luck Ruby!

  • @marypzdixon3142
    @marypzdixon3142 Před 4 lety +1

    Good for you Ruby! I dropped out of university at the end of first year, worked a few years then decided what I wanted to study! I’m glad you’ve found something you really want to do!

  • @cerpujfilms7338
    @cerpujfilms7338 Před 4 lety +23

    I’ve been studying English Literature A level and it’s honestly so much fun, pretty hard work but I still absolutely love it

    • @michaelac9258
      @michaelac9258 Před 4 lety +2

      Cerpuj Films I’m doing a level English lit as well and it’s honestly one of my favourites so far ☺️p.s I’ve just started year 12

  • @sarah.louisa
    @sarah.louisa Před 4 lety +6

    I knew it, Ruby😍 Seems like English Literature is perfect for you✨
    Also, I perfectly understand your urge to study English Literature! I feel the same way, I really want to do a masters in it, hope that will work out xx

  • @Amy-bt5kr
    @Amy-bt5kr Před 4 lety +1

    well done for choosing what's best for you! its not an easy decision but your response is so mature and well thought through! As a first year English student myself- I can see you absolutely loving the course and work. All the best- you'll smash it!

  • @jules.e279
    @jules.e279 Před 4 lety

    I'm so glad you did what was right for you

  • @emilybarnard7066
    @emilybarnard7066 Před 4 lety +111

    I dropped psychology for English Lit back in the day. Now I have an Ivy MA and an Oxbridge PhD, and am a college prof. There are no jobs and no money, but that's the same for pretty much everything. If you need to vent about Lacan or the New Critical Idiom or how to define intersectionality as a critical tool, message me.
    The skills you used in philosophy and theology are similar to lit. crit, too, so you'll be aces, Ruby.

    • @eleanorb7183
      @eleanorb7183 Před 4 lety +6

      An oxbridge PhD? So is it from Oxford or Cambridge??

    • @PlaceboEllie
      @PlaceboEllie Před 4 lety +1

      @@eleanorb7183 the same way you can say "where's Ivy University"? it's just a general reference

  • @halloween42
    @halloween42 Před 4 lety +6

    Ruby, you were made for English Literature. Oh! I feel so happy and excited for you! ❤

  • @clairesneed2081
    @clairesneed2081 Před 4 lety

    So proud of you!!! Thank you for being so vulnerable. I'm applying to colleges right now and I have no clue what I really want to study.

  • @saraabad9447
    @saraabad9447 Před 4 lety

    So happy for you Ruby! You deserve this so so much. Wish you luck in this new adventure ❤️

  • @jrose1110
    @jrose1110 Před 4 lety +3

    I recently dropped out of my psychology course after first year to study English lit and I couldn't be happier, it's a tough call but sometimes you know when something isn't right for you... Good luck in your new direction x

  • @gabrielle5715
    @gabrielle5715 Před 4 lety +3

    I did the same thing in my first year of uni! I was studying art history and I realized that I actually loved history...! It's not a lost year, what you've learned in RS and Philosophy will be useful later :) Good luck!

  • @DeepuraRM
    @DeepuraRM Před 4 lety

    This video and how you're talking about all this just helps me a lot! Thank you so much 💕

  • @RosieCrawford
    @RosieCrawford Před 4 lety

    So much love, Ruby! I hope this makes you much happier deep down ❤❤❤ plus you can really use the knowledge from phil-the to unpack literature and maybe do a cross over dissertation if that's what you're interested in!

  • @Two_lights867
    @Two_lights867 Před 4 lety +13

    Omg! I’m studying English literature and I always felt that you’ll be a perfect literature student. Ruby you will love it!

  • @TheEvergreenSoul
    @TheEvergreenSoul Před 4 lety +8

    I’ve dropped out of my first course (linguistics) as well, so I can totally relate to your situation! I started studying Molecular Life Science last week and it suits me SO much better. I love linguistics but it’s not what I want to do as a job, it’s just really interesting and I see it as a hobby now☺️✨

    • @ic7784
      @ic7784 Před 4 lety +1

      The Evergreen Soul Amazing! Utmost respect to you. All the very best x

  • @whisperofspring
    @whisperofspring Před 4 lety

    Oh Ruby, I'm so proud of you! I also changed courses after my first year, from maths to linguistics, and I've doubted this decision for a long time. But now, I'm happier than I've ever been at uni. It was one of the best decision I've ever made. And I'm sure you'll do wonderful and hope you enjoy every day at uni from now on! 💕

  • @lm-op9jb
    @lm-op9jb Před 4 lety

    Just started English lit, your videos have been great to get me into it. You’re so calming good luck on your new course !