That's an interesting point. Do you mean detached as in not making things "official" really fast or just being more emotionally detached (being willing to continue doing stuff separately as individuals rather than diving right in)?
I think that's a horrible idea. Not only are you keeping up the general "beginning of a relationship" insecurity in the other person, but you're also constantly monitoring yourself so you don't "feel too much" or whatever. That really takes the fun, enjoyment and intimacy out of what could become a great relationship. Also it actively sabotages any progress the relationship might tike and just raises the chances it fails. And all because you "don't want to get hurt". That's just stupid in my opinion.
Hey Sean. I doubt you'll see this but I really needed this right now. just got out of a long relationship. And trying to focus on me right now. thanks for the encouragement.
So I don't know if this is Google working some magic voodoo trick or whatever, but I legitimately broke up with my girlfriend of 3,5 years and moved away from her less than a month ago, and your video here not only gave me a seriously good laugh (something I haven't had for months), but also some pretty nice advice to go with it. Thank you for that Sean.
Wanted to write a comment but it would be exactly the same as yours (3.5 years, breakup one month ago). Thanks to Sean for giving advice and to you for making me realize I'm not the only one going through this.
Well, we know how each other feel. The only thing I found to be true is, that you gotta let it hurt. I've been so upjump with keeping my mind busy, that I wasn't in touch with my emotions at all. It hurts because it's supposed to, but we'll get through it on the other side, even if it takes a long time to get past it.
Wise words mr Day9, I can agree with all of em as I am gettin over a relationship that i had with one of my best friends from 2nd grade (im at the university now and she broke with me 3 months ago or so) It really sucks but what you say is true, gotta focus on one self
Hey Sean, I've always loved your Funday Mondays and Dailies back in the Starcraft days. Keep up the great work you've always been my favorite streamer, and you just seem like such a nice guy trying to help out your viewers! Not a lot of content creators do that and it's really awesome to see someone who does.
"Uh excuse me miss can I have the Pecan pie for desert?" "Im sorry we're all out of Pecan pie" "Pfff i didn't want your Pecan pie anyway. Are you kidding me that pecan pie is nasty as fuck. I feel sorry for you for even thinking I wanted your pecan pie, I actually live in a pecan pie factory" Loooooooled so haaard
the Day9 Daily Show has seen 4 break ups, 3 failed exams, depression, some of my lowest and many of my highs, and a few of my friends going apart. It's gotten me through some tough times and given me some amazing advice. thank you again for your time DayJ
Best thing you can do is unfollow/unfriend them on facebook and you can tell them you're doing it as a courtesy. I told her I had to due to the raw emotions. Once you remove reminders of them it becomes a lot easier to not think about them.
Gave me combo blueballs, I need to know if he got that Quartermaster off on turn 5 or not. I'm far too lazy to open the description and check the complete segment VoD provided in the description.
Ok but what if she is actually bad and you're the one who broke up with her. But you are still like that guy that is like I hate her but I miss her and its been like 4 years. Asking for a friend
Real talk: The quickest way to get over a long term relationship is to go out on a "romp" of one night stands. For whatever reason biologically, your brain just doesn't really care anymore after a few hookups
Yeah, when a partner breaks your trust, they are the villians for sure! Then the trick is to emotionally detach, that is so hard, even when they don't deserve that you still care about them.
I never have this problem because I'm a sociopath who only uses people for my own personal benefit. If the person who I'm using to satisfy my sexual needs leaves me I can just easily find someone to replace them. It's so simple when you think about it in those terms.
nothing wrong with only wanting sex as long as you are not deceiving anyone. Plenty of people only want casual sex, so go party, man, as long as you don't hurt anyone in the process it's all cool.
You can take it from a slightly different direction by realising that everything in your life essentially is about making you as happy as possible. You just need to realise that it's REALLY complicated what will make you happiest, and that you're not going to be perfect at it, or even particularly good most likely.
Looks like im not the only one who follows the let the turn timer run as long as possible and hope the other person quits. multiple monitors makes it so easy to get quests done in hearthstone in a trolling way while still playing wow or watching tv shows. Wouldnt be a problem if blizzard let us do quests vs AI. but they like people to be trolls instead. god forbid someone gets easy gold. yet its perfectly okay in heroes of the storm
Hey Sean. I doubt you'll see this but I really needed this right now. just got out of a long relationship.
How you doing now?
"you have issues but you are consistent"
That sentence made my day!
Much love Sean
Subbed in 09 for the starcraft advice.
Stayed all this time for the life advice.
There's something to be said about staying detached in the beginning when you're dating someone. No expectations no stress.
That's an interesting point. Do you mean detached as in not making things "official" really fast or just being more emotionally detached (being willing to continue doing stuff separately as individuals rather than diving right in)?
I think that's a horrible idea. Not only are you keeping up the general "beginning of a relationship" insecurity in the other person, but you're also constantly monitoring yourself so you don't "feel too much" or whatever. That really takes the fun, enjoyment and intimacy out of what could become a great relationship. Also it actively sabotages any progress the relationship might tike and just raises the chances it fails.
And all because you "don't want to get hurt". That's just stupid in my opinion.
Hey Sean. I doubt you'll see this but I really needed this right now. just got out of a long relationship. And trying to focus on me right now. thanks for the encouragement.
So I don't know if this is Google working some magic voodoo trick or whatever, but I legitimately broke up with my girlfriend of 3,5 years and moved away from her less than a month ago, and your video here not only gave me a seriously good laugh (something I haven't had for months), but also some pretty nice advice to go with it. Thank you for that Sean.
Wanted to write a comment but it would be exactly the same as yours (3.5 years, breakup one month ago). Thanks to Sean for giving advice and to you for making me realize I'm not the only one going through this.
Well, we know how each other feel. The only thing I found to be true is, that you gotta let it hurt. I've been so upjump with keeping my mind busy, that I wasn't in touch with my emotions at all. It hurts because it's supposed to, but we'll get through it on the other side, even if it takes a long time to get past it.
3 years in, almost a year she's gone to someone else, fuck it.
the only thing that hurts is that i can't find someone else lol
really glad this is in clip form. this was such a good bit
The ironically comedic timing with my personal life tragedies is astounding. Thank you Sean.
I needed to listen to this 2 years ago. Still helps a lot anyway. TY Shawn
I love these. Sean expresses everything in such a funny and cool way while also giving great perspective.
day9 is god
and you're not even kiddin
That's really creepy.
Wise words mr Day9, I can agree with all of em as I am gettin over a relationship that i had with one of my best friends from 2nd grade (im at the university now and she broke with me 3 months ago or so)
It really sucks but what you say is true, gotta focus on one self
Hey Sean, I've always loved your Funday Mondays and Dailies back in the Starcraft days. Keep up the great work you've always been my favorite streamer, and you just seem like such a nice guy trying to help out your viewers! Not a lot of content creators do that and it's really awesome to see someone who does.
I love you day9, you're so helpful when I feel bad and this was perfect because I just broke up. Thanks a ton! Keep it up!
dude you're just a swell guy. I thought after a year I was fine, but I guess I needed to hear this. thank you man
I like you! I really really enjoy your videos and they make me happy. So I want to give something back. Heres a happy face. :)
"Uh excuse me miss can I have the Pecan pie for desert?"
"Im sorry we're all out of Pecan pie"
"Pfff i didn't want your Pecan pie anyway. Are you kidding me that pecan pie is nasty as fuck. I feel sorry for you for even thinking I wanted your pecan pie, I actually live in a pecan pie factory"
Loooooooled so haaard
Thanks Sean. I needed this.
Day9 life advice is so good 👍👍
i really needed this, thanks
first vid ive watched from Sean in such a long time, great content as always. miss the starcraft days :(
HeLLRaVeN19 Hes Starting a new brood War stream soon
thanks for that, had no idea XD
starcraft days are still here until a better RTS comes out, which doesn't seem like anytime soon.
I think we all miss those days :/
I love you dude, seriously.
I literally just got out of a long distance relationship a week ago this is magical
I needed that half a year ago. Welp, I think I'll also need it some other day, so bookmark created.
Great advice, but I DON'T WANT YOUR PECAN PIE, ARE YO KIDDING ME?! PFFFF! PECAN PIE IS NASTY AF!
I can't imagine him doing stuff to her. Like getting her ice cream. NOOOOOOO!!!!!
God you are amazing man. Even if I am going through a break up as well this video makes me laugh. Awesome as always!
The only thing that's worse than being dumped or rejected, is being completely ignored
you have issues but your consistent, actually has me dying
I love Day9; he really is just a good entertainer :D
Just is bad imo hes "really" or "such". Just would mean hes only that and nothing else.
man this guy is awesome
"I bet they went and got ice cream" AUGHHHGHAHAHHHGHHHHHHH
I nearly died of laughter.
The Pecan Pie analogy, amazing.
Ayy this is so real. Day9 is a such a cutie
The thumbnail is so good
Thanks. Feeling kinda shitty about my girlfriend right now but you never fail to make me laugh.
the Day9 Daily Show has seen 4 break ups, 3 failed exams, depression, some of my lowest and many of my highs, and a few of my friends going apart. It's gotten me through some tough times and given me some amazing advice. thank you again for your time DayJ
Tsundere Sean is great
Best thing you can do is unfollow/unfriend them on facebook and you can tell them you're doing it as a courtesy. I told her I had to due to the raw emotions. Once you remove reminders of them it becomes a lot easier to not think about them.
Watching this while playing hearthstone, the rope sound in this video keeps giving me anxiety
Gave me combo blueballs, I need to know if he got that Quartermaster off on turn 5 or not. I'm far too lazy to open the description and check the complete segment VoD provided in the description.
'cause, dammit, you're awesome!
I ♥ u day9, u rock. Anyone knows if that hero is pala ?
i miss your magic the gathering show so much :*(
bring back spellslingers
I wanted to see the rest of that game...
You should have your own stand up show on Netflix
keep it at 1000 likes! do not dare ruin it!!
"I live in a pecan pie factory"- totally lost it
Fun fact, @3:30 makes my "OK Google" voice command trigger on my phone :D
meeting my lady for her to dump me today. Gonna be lit. im not gonna get pissed at her, im gonna be pissed in general.
Ok but what if she is actually bad and you're the one who broke up with her. But you are still like that guy that is like I hate her but I miss her and its been like 4 years.
Asking for a friend
is Narwhals8 doin' these highlights? Anyway, good fuckin' advice, like always
ingame sound so loud :(
5:40
Yep, it is insane.. flip a coin personalitys.. quite anoying.
:47 her :(
Real talk: The quickest way to get over a long term relationship is to go out on a "romp" of one night stands. For whatever reason biologically, your brain just doesn't really care anymore after a few hookups
Did anyone else get this as a recommended video after you watched the Eldraine event video? Like seriously this is some creepy shit Google
I'm not looking up sneaker pips half life
can i vilify her if she was cheating on me for 5 months? seems like a good time to XD
Yeah, when a partner breaks your trust, they are the villians for sure! Then the trick is to emotionally detach, that is so hard, even when they don't deserve that you still care about them.
I dont think i care about them. More i miss all the good times we did have :/
Vilifying her helps you get over her, because you won't be crying over someone you think is a shitty person. It's sort of a defense mechanism.
I never have this problem because I'm a sociopath who only uses people for my own personal benefit. If the person who I'm using to satisfy my sexual needs leaves me I can just easily find someone to replace them.
It's so simple when you think about it in those terms.
nothing wrong with only wanting sex as long as you are not deceiving anyone. Plenty of people only want casual sex, so go party, man, as long as you don't hurt anyone in the process it's all cool.
You can take it from a slightly different direction by realising that everything in your life essentially is about making you as happy as possible. You just need to realise that it's REALLY complicated what will make you happiest, and that you're not going to be perfect at it, or even particularly good most likely.
Don't condone degenerate behavior.
Looks like im not the only one who follows the let the turn timer run as long as possible and hope the other person quits. multiple monitors makes it so easy to get quests done in hearthstone in a trolling way while still playing wow or watching tv shows. Wouldnt be a problem if blizzard let us do quests vs AI. but they like people to be trolls instead. god forbid someone gets easy gold. yet its perfectly okay in heroes of the storm
dont worry anyone watching this doesnt have a gf anyways