Making A Valentines Dress While Heartbroken :/
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- čas přidán 13. 02. 2023
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Can we just talk for a minute how your dad is 100% always there for you. He is totally the hero that all of us need. He's the Samwise Gamgee to your Frodo. And I'm all about it.
🙂👉Notice the videos of her driving all night to "surprise him " disappeared! I knew that was the END. Guys who choose to travel for work don't want to have someone checking in on them, (or the guilt!). MICARAH needs to choose a mate better. She DESERVES better. A little goofy, unacomplished guy like that, who's away from home, was a bad match. She dodged a bullet! 🙏 And many future tears. Cheers to be single! 😀🥂
@@bellad.1274 #1- what does that have to do with her dad? #2- he was in the military. I'm s military wife. They don't choose where they're sent. Your judgment of him being unaccomplished is a little (lot) out of place here. Maybe try be encouraging instead of disparaging.
@@bellad.1274 He was in the Services defending our country.
You…called her….Frodo….I….
@@t5l239 and HE is choosing that path, where he is guaranteed not to be home every night with his loved ones. She can do better.
( and as we see. He didn't choose HER ) There are a lot of professions that don't put FAMILY FIRST.
It's okay micarah, 90% of us are sad and alone on Valentines too
Here's y'all's flowers 💐
relatable
@Mimi Kiko 💀💀 Lmaoooo
@Mimi Kiko stop giving us ideas
i can buy myself flowers
@@tp2.010 to quote Miley 😅
You are literally a best friend. THE best. Even in your heartbreak, you helped a friend get engaged. You turned pain into beauty for a moment. That’s selfless. That’s love.
giving new girl (act she does give jess aw i love that stop)
"Comparison is the thief of joy, and gratefulness is our best weapon against that thief."
I'll hold on to this one.
beautiful insight. thank u for this.
Yeah that's really good
The fact that she's going through this but still helped with a proposal... what an amazing person xx
YEAH...Especially when that great guy dumped her ass.....Good move for sure on his part...
@@davecruz9893 wtf is wrong with you
like, genuinely, shes amazing for that. ♥
That must've been really hard for her. 💔
I know it was probably really hard for her not to be crying the whole time she was setting it up and hiding behind those bushes, I was crying thinking about it 😭💔
I want you to know how much this video hit me. My Husband and I have been watching your videos for years. He passed away 6 weeks ago and it’s been getting harder every day. Seeing you allowing yourself to be transparent and vulnerable helped me feel not so alone in my grief. But seeing you still make a dress helped me feel hopeful for the first time since it happened. Thank you for all you do and I wish you healing and happiness.
I am sorry for your loss. I hope you and your close ones get well soon. All the love 💛
I am so sorry for your loss. ❤️ Hope you have people around you to support you during this unimaginably difficult time.
so sorry for your loss. hope you can heal with time and love. ❤️
I'm so sorry to read this. Grief is such a powerful emotion.
I’m so sorry, honey. I can’t imagine what you are going through right now. Losing my husband is my worst nightmare and I don’t wish that upon anyone. I hope you find the healing that you need and remember that grief is good.
did not expect literally one of the most beautiful bathrooms built in a dress making video.
I could say the same thing, the creative bathroom was the last thing I'd expect to see from such a video..
I'm also going through heartbreak right now and somehow, the random bike kid eagerly yelling "Congratulations!" really broke me. It's so sweet, so innocent, so full of hope.
no like I literally teared up it was so sweet
And the fact they went from “sketchy biker kids” to “sweet biker kids” 😭
I'm so sorry y'all had to go through this. My 9 year relationship ended a couple months ago. It was the same - amicable - but it doesn't make it hurt less. This is my first Valentine's Day as a single pringle in almost a decade. Surround yourself with friends!
9 years...oof Glad you are feeling better.🤗❤🩹❤🩹
I'm sorry you had to go through that. 9 years is a long time. I hope you're going well. For me, I met the man of my dreams. We were friends, and then I confessed that I had a thing for him. We started dating on the 9th. And then he dumped me on the 12th. Right before Valentine's day. He called me emotionally immature and said I was a jerk even though he's the one that lead me on for months and dumped me. I genuinely wanted only the best for him. The day before he dumped me I went out and spent a ton of money on gifts for him. I couldn't return them because they wouldn't let me. So, I went around giving it all to girls that were also alone today. I got a ton of hugs and thanks yous. It's refreshing seeing how happy you can make someone with something so simple. I was not upset that I was alone for Valentine's day. Because I wasn't. I had my friends, and I got to make other peoples days. I'm done letting men walk all over me and treat me like that.
as someone whos never dated yet and afraid to go out there. what do you guys mean by amicably. like what is the actual reason for not wanting to be together anymore?
@@Lisa-qm5bc While I haven't been in the situation sometimes it's just a mutual decision to not be together anymore, usually because where they are in their life and where they want to go don't match up. (Example, maybe one person wants to travel the world while the other wants to settle down and have kids). They break up because they find the relationship can no longer be compatible.
Same boat here! 12 years and now I'm getting divorced. It's supposed to be amicable as well, but it's hard when you're still living with his family because you can't afford to move out 🤣 maybe next year will be a more peaceful valentine's day!
Micarah reminding us that we can keep slaying while struggling with personal stuff is the sh*t I'm here for. Thank you.
Trueee!!
honestly so inspiring tbh
Frfr
🙂👉Notice the videos of her driving all night to "surprise him " disappeared! I knew that was the END. Guys who choose to travel for work don't want to have someone checking in on them, (or the guilt!). MICARAH needs to choose a mate better. She DESERVES better. A little goofy, unacomplished guy like that, who's away from home, was a bad match. She dodged a bullet! 🙏 And many future tears. Cheers to be single! 😀🥂
micarah: I might not look pretty 90% of the time
also micarah: literally dazzling not even 30 second later ✨
frr
We are NOT going to gloss over the fact that you and your dad just made the cutest most fantabulously spectacular bathroom we've ever seen!
Run to Jesus!
Trust in Him alone!
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If you have defected from God then read these Scriptures: (Lost Sheep, Luke 15:1-7 - Lost Coin, 15:8-10 - Lost Son, 15:11-32 - Rich Man and Lazarus, 16:19-31) Jesus is calling you back home, read His word, believe and repent. Saved by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone!
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The world is racing toward "AMAGEDDON" !!! And people need to get right with the Lord!
If you have not read the books of (Daniel chapters 7-12), (Ezekiel chapters 37-39) (Matthew chapters 24:1-51 + 25:1-30), (1 Thessalonians chapters 1-5), (2 Thessalonians chapters1-3) and (Revelation chapters 6-19), now would be a good time. They will explain a lot about what is going on right now!
These books will cover the "Wars" about to come, the catching up / the blessed hope, World judgement, hence the Tribulation and the Great Tribulation! These books will also be the most ominous and scary for the unbelievers and the most exciting and uplifting for those who believe in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior!...
It is my hope and prayer that people would repent and believe on the Lord Jesus Christ before all these things take place, because it is going to be very, very scary if you do not and you decide to wait and see what happens.
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May the Lord encourage you to seek the truth, in Jesus' name. Amen and Amen.
Grieving not only a relationship but the future you thought you were heading for is really effing hard. We love and appreciate you.
This is so true, sometimes its almost worse to deal with the feeling of “starting over”, takes a lot of strength but I’m thankful for her honesty bc it just reminds us we really all do go through the same things
I love how your dad helps you with everything and how sweet and involved he is
he is the best ever and I don't deserve him
@@MicarahTewers You definitely do, there’s so much of kindness and sweetness in you, I saw it when you did all that for helping your friend propose, despite your heartbreak.
@@MicarahTewers I want to give you half a like, cause only the first part of your sentence is true. And if you don't believe me, ask him 😊
the type of dad I wish I had :(
mine is good but his done some unnecessary things and while some were accidents like having my childhood toy iv hold onto fir 15 years get destroyed by my outdoor dogs when he tried to take it away cuz I apparently am not allowed tots after 15 ? ( that's stupud ) other things he gas done on purpose which sucked too
but oh well nothing can be done about the past I'll forever will miss my polar bear plush his been with me since I was born but unfortunately couldn't live with me forever like I wanted 😭 I'll always remember my polar bear
@@MicarahTewers he is exactly what you deserve 😘 he deserved you too
I feel like any man with a daughter should watch these videos as kind of 'dad school' because so many dads just harbor open disdain for their daughters and refuse to bond with them and here is Micarah's dad genuinely enjoying her company and doing things with her.
I need to say that I respect it SO MUCH that you weren't pretending to be okay all the time. I've never seen your videos before and I'm seeing your channel for the first time and I'm 100% subscribing because you seem such a genuine person
Welcome ❤
Are we just going to gloss over the fact that they built a beautiful bathroom and she said it so casually 😅 amazing work as usual. Wish you the best
Literally amazing
I need this video one day.
Right?! It would be wonderful to see how she did it!
What I love the most about Micarah is that she's one of the quirkiest people I've ever seen, you never really know what else she's going to pull out of the hat, but then she's got amazing taste (clothes, decoration, etc.)
"Real life doesn't just stop because you're devestated." I'm 2 months out of a broken engagement. It wasn't my choice. I'm trying to come to terms with believing the relationship wasn't healthy for me, and letting go of the future I planned out with him is... not going so well. I hope anyone else fresh off of a breakup is doing their best to hold it together so they can heal. ❤
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Cry in the shower 😭 I am still healing from the end of what I thought would be something beautiful
Acceptance and time heal everything 💗
It gets better. I am one year since mine and the most confident and happy I've ever been Healing will come, friend. Hang in there. You're doing amazing
Huge hug and lots of strength for the rest of the year!
Micarah - as a random dude in his late thirties that has followed you since you were at like 20k followers. I don't know where I was going with that... Just want to say you're amazing and inspiring. I have 3 daughters and 3 sons. Weirdly, I've had this thing for years where I want to be able to make a dress for my daughter starting from spinning the fibre, weaving the thread and designing and sewing the dress. I love love your seeing tutorials. They're laid back enough that I feel like I can probably do it but technical enough that I know you clearly know your stuff. It's a bonus that we share similar beliefs and values (I've also never had a drop of alcohol). I'm so sorry to hear about your sad news. I can't imagine that kind of heart break. I know the Lord will carry you through. I hope you see this somehow. You've truly been inspiring to me all these years!
Very sweet about wanting to make your daughter a dress from scratch. I’m sure it’ll turn out amazing! Hoping the best for you and your kids today and always❤️
🥲 this is the sweetest comment! Just saw this and it reminded me of my fondest childhood memories. My mom work buy fabric and my dad would sew ruffles onto my jeans to make them bell bottoms 😂😂 now i love to crochet things for them to wear! Its such a labor of love and it can heal so much generational trauma!!!
Learned 3 new things in this video. 1. you and Joe were dating. 2. you and Joe were engaged. 3. Micarah is still selfless, caring, kind and funny even when shes going through a difficult time. We love you so much MIcarah and I hope you get the time you need to take care of yourself. You deserve so much.
Micarah’s honestly and openness was wonderful to hear and she was so eloquent about it. I think she vocalized the way a lot of other people feel. Micarah, we love you and we send you tons of support in your healing process.
Thank you for not pretending to be okay. Your strength finding happiness for those and in those around you despite your personal struggles is so comforting. Whether you've meant to or not, you've inspired so many. Prayers for continued healing to your heart
100% this. Even Jesus wept. We need to learn emotions are not bad, what we do with our emotions can be good or bad, best to ask Jesus to help. m.czcams.com/video/lXnt4o3SbjI/video.html
Yeah I totally agree! But Man that is got to be so hard to help her best friend to get engaged on her engagement anniversary after breaking with her long-term fiance. I'm sure she's genuinely happy for her friend but I'm also sure it hurts. I don't know if I could do all of that and not disappear into a depression for weeks afterwards. My heart really goes out to her. Like a broken heart like that where you have really never been with anyone else it feels like someone died or you're dying. Because you have to grieve the whole future you planned out and genuinely thought you were going to have with that person. I hope she feels better soon. At least she has wonderful friends and family around her.
Can we just talk about how brave she is for filming this video? At the beginning, she even said, and I quote “Life doesn’t stop because you’re devastated.” She is a queen.
I was putting off watching this video because my family has very recently entered the biggest tragedy any of us have ever experienced… I thought watching this video would be wasted and spoiled by my bad mood, so I wanted to save it for when I felt more comfortable. Man do I wish I had watched this sooner! Thank you for your emotional speech about love and grief; you brought tears to my eyes and validated my feelings. Just keep swimming, right? ❤
I felt the same way!
I hope you’re doing better now
Hi, I hope you're doing better sweetie
Mad respect for all the effort that you went through to give your friend a surprise proposal/engagement party, while also keeping the whole thing a secret from the guests of the party AND helping a formerly amish/minenite man through the whole "engagement" process. Lots of people can make a cute dress but it takes a special person to be as thoughtful and caring as you are while going through such hard times.
As a girl who also thought her life would be different than what it actually is in her mid 20’s- thought she’d have kids, or at least a husband, or fiancé, or boyfriend by now- I feel you. I genuinely cried throughout this video. Your vulnerability was tangible. I wish we were friends because you’re the coolest. It’s going to be ok even tho it definitely isn’t right now. “There is always hope.” (Barbie in the Magic of Pegasus 2005)
I came on here to write a comment but you already wrote it for me, better than I could have written it. I also cried at the rawness and vulnerability throughout this video. It’s so important to be open about emotions when you feel like you can, so that others know they’re not alone.
Sending lots of love ♥️ xxx
Yes! And that Barbie quote is perfect!❤❤❤
Just remember… the plans we have,,, are never final
As someone younger, I see that a lot of gen z/young millennial’s issues are due to age based archetypes and the arbitrary deadlines our society places on us. Just because you don’t already have what you want to have by your mid 20s (which is pretty young for marriage/kids in this day and age anyways tbh) doesn’t mean you’ve “missed out” on your ability to have that later down the line.
There isn’t a time limit to these things, as reality isn’t so nearly clear, cut and dry. You’ll be fine b
@@MariaSantos-uo3pb it's just hard... Especially when you do know people who have that at your age, or you want what your parents had.. honestly I think alot of us are lonely, because it's hard to even keep friends.
My 5-year relationship ended today and my mind fell on this clip almost instantly. We also parted ways as a shared decision since we wanted too different things in life. It hasn't been easy for a long time, and I remember struggling when I watched this once it was published. While it is so painful and tragic that relationships end this way, I also find comfort with this video. The process of letting go, accepting the sadness and expressing ones feelings. Thank you for still making the video and sharing your words. It's helping tremendously ❤ be strong everyone
How come you realized after 5 whole years that you 2 are too different? Why 5 whole years? In those years you didn’t communicate with each other well about what you want and love in life?
@@truehappiness4U Well I'm not the person you asked and my 5y relationship ended because my ex-fiancé cheated on me instead but... I can imagine that for the person you asked, even if it could be lack of communication, is also very possible that they slowly changed and became incompatible. People change all the time, is only natural to grow and get shaped by experiences, and the same way friends can grow apart due to hobbies, jobs, mind, goals and personalities slowly going in different directions, it can happen to partners too.
This wasn't your usual upbeat video, but it was so sweet to see how your family and friends support you. I'm not usually an emotional person, but this video got me tearing up a bit. Everyone moves through life at their own pace, and you're moving at the pace you're meant to.
the thing that I love about this video is, Micarah allows to feel her feelings and admitting that this video is not like her usual one instead of faking being happy and jolly. it's such a brave move. love you even more Micarah
Said perfectly
AGREED! I appreciate her so much for this
Her dad is just an amazing ray of sunshine.
Yes he is!
Funeral pink made me lol. Also, I've been in a spot where I was 100% sure I would marry someone, like thought I had confirmation from God amount of sure, but then we broke up. I felt like I would die of heartbreak. I have the utmost empathy for you. You're doing great all things considered. A therapist once told me if you're not sleeping around or self-medicating, you're doing fantastic despite the circumstances. Pretend drunk on milk sounds like A+ coping to me. I'll be praying for your heart to mend. I'm so glad you have supportive people to help you through this.
So much love to you ♥️♥️♥️
Oh I felt this in my soul, the “I felt I was going to die of heartbreak” - yes. Also a 100% sure we would be together forever situation. It happened so suddenly without any warning and in the worst way I could imagine. But I quickly found it truly all happened for a reason, because not even a year later, in a series of events that could have never happened otherwise, I met my now husband and 10 years on we have two kids together.
That pain was something I wouldn’t have wished on anyone but it absolutely served a purpose. Sending all my love to everyone experiencing it and reminding others that there is ALWAYS hope ahead for you. Always.
that monologue there about how it's so hard to be satisfied with life but we still should be thankful about what we have... you had me tearing up so much even though it was so personal and about your situation. It was very beautiful.
Hello Micarah, I am sorry for your break up, but I think I should let you know on this. Two days ago (yes, it happened just two days ago), I started to sew my very first dress. Though I made it not from your tutorial (mainly because I wear hijab, and I don't think I can style your clothes in your tutorials with hijab but I still love them anyway), you were one of my biggest inspiration to start sewing. The dress is almost done now, it just need some cleaning up, but I have to tell you, I use a mix of your method and the conventional method with the measuring tape to make the dress. I actually rolled myself on the fabric like a burrito to see if I have enough fabric for one dress. I barely have enough :"). I approached the sewing project with the mentality of "I am going to wear more dresses and no one can stop me, not even my mom." and so two days later and now I have an almost finished dress.
Great job, you sound really talented! :)
You are an incredible human. Thank you for being so healthy and not only feeling your emotions (which so many people don’t) but being so courageous in sharing them. Have faith that you will find another beautiful soul that will love you and all that you are.❤
Love this!!! Wishing the absolute best in your future projects and so glad Micarah inspired you 🥰
@@Rain_boot Thank you! I actually showed the dress to my sister and she was quite surprised in how fast I made the dress 😅
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Didn't expect this intense honesty from a Micarah Tewers valentines video but here we are... I'm weirdly greatful for it. Heartbreak is a part of the human experience and I'm glad you felt comfortable enough sharing yours with all of us. Fortunately time passes and we heal and you seem like you have a ton of great people dedicated to help you through it.
I love how this is not only about a dress any more, It's about life, it's joy and darkness. Wish her the best
I'm so glad that her journal was upstairs; It's very touching to hear the take of a person of integrity about the mourning that comes after a breakup. Now here lies a proof that you can carry on in a healthy way when you can count on your friends and family to help you out, did you guys see how she deals with her emotions without denying them, giving them some space yet still going on with her duties? I hope I can be that strong if/when it happens to me.
"Life doesn't just stop because you're devastated".... oh man, I needed that today. Thank you for having the guts to normalize grief, even though you didn't have to. I just got some awful news at school and spent the day bawling my eyes out... this video right here made me feel human and smile. We'll all be each others' valentines. 💚
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I hope you start to feel better. Bad times will make the good times sweeter, when they return. Until then, allow yourself to have a break. Life my not stop when we're devastated but you still need to allow yourself the time and patience you'd allow someone else feeling your same emotions.
My husband and I are getting divorced after being together 12 years, I'm 29 and this was my first valentine's officially alone. Thank you for being so vulnerable, it really sucks that people aren't given time to really grieve and recover in this economy :(
Hi! Same situation just different ages (39). The first year was so hard, you go from having a constant companion to being alone with your intrusive thoughts. Trust me, it does get better. You will find strength where you thought you had none. And there is nothing quite like rediscovering yourself as a person, having now lived through so much. It's actually amazing and I do not regret it all. This is the best version of me and I'm so much happier now.
You will find this peace too 💕
Hope you find peace ✨️✨️
you're still just 29 after being married for 12 years !? like sooo young. you're already ahead than most people (if we take marriage as a life achivement 😆)
it seems promising for you ti find another one who suits you in the next decades. ( just want to tell the posibilities I see here, though we all need some time to recover of course :( especially after such a long relationship )
@@lindy00015 yeah I met him at 18 and got married at 24. I’m turning 30 in July and he’s refusing to go to counseling for his verbally/emotionally abusive behavior. I do definitely do see the positive with this happening to me so young. However, when you’ve given someone the last of your teen years PLUS your twenties, it is sad to realize that you spent the first 1/3 of your life kinda wasting your youth! I now have no relationship, no home, and only a part time job… like I’m literally barely getting by because he won’t help me move out. But you know? Positives, I think I’m getting an RV so I’m watching Micarahs RV videos on repeat so I can live affordably and cute! 💖
@@Jenizus I’ve heard this from so many female friends and it’s impossible to believe at the moment, but I have faith. I’ve seen so many women blossom after their divorce! ❤️
You're the kind of person people would want to keep in their lives forever
I know this is an old video but I just have to say, 8:34 puts into words something I could never quite phrase. I’m the youngest too and all the loss and powerlessness is truly devastating sometimes. even though I know I should be grateful I have the capacity to love so many people so deeply, sometimes it feels like a really cruel joke. I rly love you for saying this. I feel like I understand something more now.
God, she's so inspiring. She's everything I want to be- determined, compassionate, bright, and stylish as hell. I wish there was a way we could all give back to her in a more meaningful way then just youtube comments. I'm so glad she's got a great support system right now. Love you Micarah!! Hold on girl!! We got your back!
Also I hope you’re watching Alone
You know what you’re talking about I agree with you 100%
I think it’s one of her best videos, being vulnerable in front of millions people, it’s straight up power to me
Seeing you in pain is gut wrenching. You’re such an amazing person and I’m sorry life chose to teach you these hard lessons. But I know you’ll come back stronger for it. We’re here for you girl, always. ❤
"Comparison is the thief of joy, and gratefulness is our best weapon against that thief." Micarah, I'm in a period of grieving too. Oddly enough, I didn't lose someone, nor am I in a particularly hard place, but the people I love are, and sometimes seeing them so heartbroken also sucks you in. And I felt it when you mentioned being powerless in doing something about certain things in your life. Thank you for your beautiful words, it felt like a love letter to love itself. I live on the other side of the world but by simply sharing your thoughts and your gratefulness, you gave me a sense of peace too. I wish you nothing but joy and I hope you never lose that beautiful faith, it is the one and only constant thing in this world. Cheers ❤
I love that instead of treating her ex poorly, she can still act with love and kindness even though she's clearly hurting.
I feel sad for her, he going away for a while and relationship is hard like that so I totally understand if the breakup happened because of it. It’s better than waiting and waiting for each other not know what’s going to happen when or if he comes back from service. It was a smart move for them to do if they wanted.
The mark of a true adult.
even though he was clearly gay....dyed blonde hair on a grown man? girl please
@@Heterandria4mosa the ugliness in your spirit jumped right on out
@@Heterandria4mosa Not at all uncommon actually. I’m gonna bet at least one blonde manly man you know dyed his hair that way.
The pros: you’re not faking a smile, you’re taking an outlet you have (even if it’s contractional) and you’re letting yourself be authentically you. As you always are.
I sincerely hope you have the freedom to experience your grief and find a peace on the other side of it.
I really thought it was clickbait again, I hope you are okay. Me and my first boyfriend also broke up recently and Valentine’s Day was also sensitive because it would’ve been our 4 year anniversary. Thank you for showing me how to make this dress I’m never going to make myself, it means a lot
I'm so sorry about your heartbreak, but I also wanted to say that I immensely respect you for keeping it real AND even doing so much to help your friends have a memorable engagement. You're a good person. Sending love from Canada! Better days are on the horizon
I've literally never commented on a video before, but Micarah deserves the world. It's who we are during our darkest times that defines us, and I can only hope to be as selfless, kind, and honorable as she is.
I love your dad so much. He knew you needed him to hide in the cupboard of the bathroom he built you because you were having a tough time. That's some top shelf dad skills right there. No wonder his daughter is so lovely! There's a lot of kindness in your family!
I hope she finds the happiness she always wanted, and especially the kind she deserves for being an amazing person ❤️
you have the best relationship with your parents and your brother. also i’m jealous of how close you are to your friends and how much you seem to see them. i know things are tough right now and it might seem like everything you planned is falling apart, but you are so so loved by the people in your life. please keep leaning on them!!!! i hope you feel okay soon
It's sometimes hard to remember that love is not just romantic. It's more than that. Valentine's day is a day I love to share with friends, family, and more recently, my students. Seeing their pure unending love for life has made me remember that this day is so much more than for romantic partners. It's for anyone we love. I hope the grief grows smaller at a pace you need it to.
Reminds me of Bjork’s All Is Full Of Love with tm favorite lyrics “You'll be given love
You'll be taken care of
You'll be given love
You have to trust it
Maybe not from the sources
You have poured yours
Maybe not from the directions
You are staring at”
As a fellow "thought I'd be on my fourth kid by now" who recently had a romance fall apart on me, you have all my love and sympathy. I'm sorry that it sucks so much. You are brutally hilarious at times in this video and my heart just breaks for you. You're an incredible person, immensely skilled and talented at so many things, and I wish you thousand joys after this season of sadness is over.x
As another “thought I’d be on my fourth kid by now” woman, currently in a romantic deficit…second everything you said ❤️
I couldn't identify more with this statement
Yep, me too.. and I couldn't have said it better than you did x
(I hope this can come across as funny) and not insensitive) Meanwhile, I can’t get through even the simple pleasure of one dang Micarah video without my two year old coming over, seeing the bird, and screaming if I unpause it from that frame. all I want is like four consecutive hours to be able to complete one creative project uninterrupted. That sounds like some kind of heaven.🥹 I am the mom who watches Micarah’s videos full of wishes and envy
You have so much support because you are such a wonderful person, and you’ve surrounded yourself with wonderful people too.
Praying for one of micarah's videos this year to be tittled designing my barbie movie premier red carpet dress. She needs that big of a win to offset this. ❤ u micarah
Can we talk about that bathroom? Oh my gosh, it's GORGEOUS! If there's footage of the process of creating it, I'd love to see it! You are a treat Micarah. Really. 🧁🩷
True!! I'd be interested in a video like that too!
Omg that bathroom was sooo cute lol
This hit different, my boyfriend whom I had a 4 year relationship dumped me February 15, ironically, I haven't stopped crying, we didn't even had a fight, but he just decided he wanted to be by himself, which I have to understand. Its been officially the worst week of my life. Thanks Micarah, genuinely this video made me feel less alone. I truly needed something like this. Sending hugs ❣️
YOU ARE NOT ALONE. And I PROMISE it will get better. I’m one month in after being broke up with (same reason) and I am starting the breathe and have hope for the future. This isn’t the end of your story and it will be beautiful. Trust the process and feel your feelings, and you’ll be stronger from it ❤
“Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.” Psalm 30:5
thats my birthday!
If it makes you feel any better, my boyfriend did the same thing, then changed his mind and I stupidly went back to him. I should have stayed alone when he set me free. I had no idea how much my outlook on life was going to change and now he's the only one keeping me from making my dreams come true 🥴 have your cry and then enjoy your life. It's about to get a whole lot better 🤗 sending you a big hug!❤️
@@nakilisRead the room sweet pea
Omg girl mine did the same a few days ago and I really don't get it! Wtf is wrong with them? No warning and no argument, we get on so well but he just doesn't want a relationship.. Glad it's not just me but I'm so sorry as I know how you're feeling right now, it sucks but you're never alone, remember you were fine before you met him. Remember your worth. I know I don't know you but I'm here if youd like a chat xx
Daaaannnggg this hit too hard. Had a 23 year relationship implode on New Year's Eve. It's difficult forging ahead but that's what we all must do. Good luck and healed heart to you, Micarah
I love this. I have been through a broken engagement as well and this was so relatable. Love the fake drunk thing it really is fun. Praying for you!
Can we be happy about an upcoming video by Micarah Tewers without meaning any disrespect to her heartbreak?
@L W Not to be that person, but are you insane? She literally said that she needed a break from making videos. Nobody takes breaks because an animal “isn’t giving them enough attention”.
@@Rapunzel-io2fz Maybe this person hasn’t been keeping up with her updates, I don’t think they meant any harm by it
@@Rapunzel-io2fz micarah’s sense of humor in the past has been based on overdone emotions, like being dramatic over silly things. I also haven’t kept up with her updates so I had no idea there was another thing going on in her life, so like the other commenter my first thought was that this was a joke. You shouldn’t instantly assume everyone has bad intent
I don’t know if I should upvote or downvote the video or just cry. 😢
No. You if you say it like that, no we can’t be happy.
As someone who recently just had to call off her own wedding I vibed with this video so hard
I'm sorry, I hope you find the peace and love you need 💗
i’m so sorry): i hope you find love and joy within yourself and things you enjoy though ❤️
My condolences. May peace and contentment find you soon.
You probably won't ever see this but just know I ended an engagement this summer as well, hardest thing I've ever gone through. I'm 32 and starting over again so I just want you to know I'm so grateful for you and the goodness you put out in the world. I'll be praying for you and your future happiness you deserve it girlie❤
You have such class. And, still, are freaking hilarious no matter what.
Thanks to Micarah's family and loved ones on behalf of her youtube fandom. We're sorry she's hurting, we think she's awesome, and we're grateful she has you when life gets hard. Take care of each other.💜
A lotta love and support for Micarah naturally, but I'll also give a shout out to Joe... I imagine it must be heartwrenching for him as well.
I can appreciate a man of character & integrity.. I wish you well Joe, God bless.
I just went through a breakup and it was the worst time i've been through in my life. I actually always thought of myself as a fun, happy and strong person but this just ripped the ground out from under me. I was shocked and ashamed how much this could take me down. the only thing that helped was forcing myself to do a lot. And I'm better now. So my lesson learned is: meet friends and don't judge yourself for being "weak" because you aren't. (Sorry for the bad English)
I hope you’re thriving, happy Valentine’s Day to you! ❤️
Your English is flawless. Perfectly accurate and totally natural use of idioms.
I think she’s sad because her fiancé (joe) is working for the military far away.
@@Danini-Panini I think that was hard but since he left they've also broken up
⚘⚘⚘Instantly, I knew you can do BETTER . Please don't even bother to grieve. If I could go back in time, I wouldn't have shed a tear or the slightest sadness for ANYONE. Live in the moment with positivity & happiness EVERY DAY. ( I became disabled 20 yrs ago & trust me, the only time you will regret, is the time being sad.) Shake it off & carry on! With a BIG SMILE 😀 . It fast tracks the healing. Crying is like punching holes in your own boat. Trust in God that things happen for a reason. Enjoy & Happy Valentines Day!!! 😀🥂🇨🇦 cheers! From Niagara Falls, CANADA ❤
Woah just found myself bawling at 2pm on a Tuesday. Thank you for sharing this. I went through an unengagement also and it was literally on Valentine’s Day… my mom and siblings stayed with me and much like you I didn’t go more than an hour without someone close. Also I had just found out I was pregnant about 2 weeks before. That baby is now almost 2! Crazy how time has passed. Thank you for helping bring me I think a little bit of therapy I think?? I hope you’re recovering well and I’m so glad to see you have amazing support and such a loving family. Soon you’ll see that the joy returns.
P.s. I absolutely love seeing my favorite creators express and share their faith! How encouraging!!
Thank you for pushing through all the headache to give us this video! I really needed something to remind me of how kind people can be desperate hardship. Loved the dress, the new bathroom and party you there for your friend! I’m praying for healing as you get through this!!!
"somewhere out there is a mom; sleep deprived and sobbing as she washes puke stained blankets wishing she stayed single, free and independent; fantasizing about a life like mine while i sit here fantasizing about a life like hers." I'm crying. :'(
This line made me feel so sad but its true :,(
just got dumped after 2 years so this is exactly what i need today:) thank you queen Micarah
awww! I'm so sorry :( glad I could bring at least a tiny bit of brightness. That really stinks :/
@@MicarahTewers thank you 💗 i’m so sorry about your breakup too:( but us gals gotta keep going and keep hoping for better:) thank you for your video it was what i needed to hear
This video feels like one of those good crying hugs where everything gets let out and you feel warm and better afterwards, even if your eyes are tired. It's very comforting as a companion to sadness. Thank you, Micarah!
“How high you go is how low you go.” You’re riding these waves beautifully, thank you for being so real!
*don't apologize.* your heart got broken *open* and you courageously chose to let all of your love and raw feelings out and turned them into a piece of art. you're the real deal! an alchemist. a stunning funeral pink one that is. 💖
I appreciate the realism of both not trying to hide your emotions and the portrayal of life as a youtuber. I hope this video helps fans remember that just because people make their living through social media, doesn't mean their lives are perfect.
you do not need to apologize for being open/honest/upset/vulnerable/emotional/etc.!!!! it makes us viewers feel less alone!!!
It always trips me up to see a person that makes me happy feel down but you're just human, too. Take the time to rest, Micarah. We all love and support you.
So sorry to about the heartbreak. You cannot possibly understand how much so many of us appreciate your content, especially that you're doing this even through what you're dealing with.
Micarah I literally love you so much. You are so selfless I can’t believe it. I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time, I am in awe of you and your whole attitude towards life and love. Your family and friends are incredible just like you. I wish only good things for you and to see you cry hurt my soul. But I know you’ll be okay and I’m so proud of you. ♥️
There's really no words, this video was beautifully composeed, and although painfull, I'm glad you're taking your time and trying your best within your comfort. Sending love 💓
Came for the dress, stayed for the heartfelt conversation on sadness and the joy in others. Thank you.
You don't have to apologize for being sad, you are a human, that happens to everybody. We are here to support you ❤ Also most of us are alone for valentines day.
#SingletonValintinesDayClub :(
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I seriously admire this woman. Her channel and personality always put me in a better mood. I hope she starts to feel happier soon 😢
My mom has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer recently and even though that’s a really different type of sad season and I’m grateful for the time I have left, I definitely could relate to feeling down and out, I hope this time of grief passes and you find the sunshine again soon
As a youngest, I teared up when you talked about when loved ones leave and you just have to adapt to it happening… touched my heart.
I did too! Never had someone put it into words but as a youngest that’s how I’ve always felt. Micarah explained it beautifully.
It's definitely something that I feel like youngest children all deal with but have trouble explaining
SAME!!!!!
I cried too...
Never thought a micarah video would make me cry but I feel so sad. Thinking about how much she makes me happy but there's really no way to give that back to her and genuinely be there for her during her hard times. I couldn't imagine anyone ever letting this absolute gem of a human go for any reason
That was just the Universe making room for a Micarah - Weird Al Yankovic collaboration.
I’m not crying you are……..you are showing us the reality of life and I really appreciate this. As someone who has gotten so use to being depressed that I didn’t realize I was truly in deep until I I made a mistake that brought me out of it. Life is tough and will have a lot of ups and downs. What I like to say is in order to be happy you have to be sad, and in order to be sad you have to be happy. It is a constant cycle that doesn’t end but you have friends and family around you and it helps immensely❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you will get through this love🥰
I wasn't ready to watch this when it first came out since I was feeling like I was in a pretty dour place at the time, but after finally watching it now I'm so touched by your vulnerability and sincerity that I'm sitting here crying at my desk. Thanks for being such a kind soul
Wow, I wasn't expecting this. I feel for you so hard, Micarah. When you talked about people leaving your life totally unexpectedly, I burst into tears. I hope very much that you find healing--and that we all do, from the things that make our hearts heavy.
As the youngest by ten years to the next oldest and 17 years to the oldest, I felt it in my SOUL
Omg. As a youngest child myself, I really felt seen and understood when she said that she always thinks about how everyone leaves her because that's how my life has felt😭 maybe it's a universal youngest child thing? Either way it hurts😭😭😭
@@teddygrahamm I'm not the youngest child (I'm actually the oldest), but both my brothers are way smarter and more successful than me. Feels like I'm being left behind...
"I thought I'd be on my fourth kid by now," honestly, same. I never thought I'd be single with no husband in sight at 25, let alone still childless. I also choose to remind myself that many women are divorced and/or single moms right now wishing they waited or are full of regrets so I should be grateful for what I have.
I just wish I could give everyone in this boat a hug. I think especially being raised in the christian homeschool community, I always thought I'd have 4+ kids by now (I'm 34) and that's often a super hard pull to swallow. Being almost 10 years ahead of you, I'd just like to encourage you that singleness or barrenness seem horrible looking front ways, but looking back over the last decade I can see just how wise the Lord has been. Praying you have eyes to see what He sees in this season, and know that sometimes he answers the heart of our prayers in different ways. ❤️❤️❤️
Girl... Me too! Never related to anyone like this. Being 25, single and childless is okay for now, we get our happiness when the time and the guy is right. Good luck. 💕
I agree! I personally am not married but I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years. I was married for 4 miserable years and 4 miscarriages. The miscarriages had nothing to do with my failed marriage. He was abusive in every way!
My boyfriend isn’t perfect but he’s not like my ex.
I'm sorry you had that expectation/pressure for yourself, please know that you are not "behind" and that any "rules" people try to convince you of are BS. I met my would-be husband at nearly 25 and had my first child at 29. I know some people who are single and had kids in their 40s. Just please don't spend all your time feeling pressured to meet certain guidelines because they're all nonsense. Good fortune to you.
That is so young! Its definetly worth waiting for the right guy.
Im actually sobbing right now it’s not ok like I don’t know why this is making me cry so much. Micarah I’m so Happy that you have so many people to be there for you and I’m so happy that you trust us enough to tell us about things like this. I wish I was as brave as you. And I get what you’re talking about, feeling like you’re in an endless cycle of losing people, as the youngest child I feel like I lose people so often. I just want you to know that I am here for you as well and I actually really look up to you. I live in Ohio too and I’m gluten free too. I check for a new video from you almost daily because I love your content so much. I’m so thankful to have you in my life even if you’re just some CZcamsr that I don’t actually know. I AM PROUD OF YOU! Because you made it so far at such a young age and I hope the best for you in the future. Anyways you won’t see this but whatever, thank you!
Oh Micarah, I watch your videos sometimes when I need entertaining or cheering up. I am going through the same thing as you right now and it really hurts, it's nice to know you're not the only one going through the same pain. Honestly I hope you find happiness in someone one day but for now remember who you are and you're going the best thing by surrounding yourself with people that make you happy. Things will get better after this, you're not alone. No doubt with your amazing personality and insane looks you'll find someone that will love you again and stick by you this time. All the best, sending lots of love! ❤️
somewhere sometime in history there was a woman also sewing herself a new dress while going through heartbreak. it's one of the saddest things about being human, you're not on your own. this emotional gap you might experience leaves room to get back up at your own pace. you're loved, you're here and you're human❤️
Girl, you made me tear up, but not in a bad way. Also being recently single during Valentine’s Day, I so appreciate your honesty to being miserable and allowing yourself to just be sad, while also having to do real life. Time just keeps moving. Even when it feels like it should have paused at least a second to acknowledge your pain. I’m so proud of you and I’m so sorry. You’ll be ok. Not yet. Sit in all the sadness until you’re ready. We Micarahheads love and support you no matter what!! ❤️💕
You too! 💗
I’m in exactly the same boat. So happy valentines day to all of you! ❤️
This is the first video I've seen of yours and I fkn admire you so much. Your dark sense of humour and also sort of cynicism is fkn relatable to me lol but you're also wise and talented and emotionally intelligent and I know you don't open up a lot but your words have been so refreshing to hear. You're just wonderful, you need to know that and I know you're hurting and I hate it but if nothing else it's lead to me and probably heaps of others finding you which is something for us to be thankful for. Not trying to be selfish, idk you're just a breath of fresh air and I'm so happy I found you xx
You're amazing! I had in fact been watching your videos to take my mind off being sad. Then I heard your monologue in this one and felt... validated. Which turned out to be even better. I hope you'll get through this difficult time a stronger person, and I'm really glad your family and friends are there for you. All the best to you and them! Thank you!
This honestly made me cry seeing her so unhappy while posing at the end. I feel bad she even has to do a video for contracts, we always feel so close to the CZcamsrs we watch and feel like we know them, it was so hard to see someone who you almost think of like a friend trying to fake smile for the camera when they are clearly really in their feels
this feeling exactly.
Same. I felt bad for her but the end made me actual cry. And I’m super not romantic and aro/ace.
This is the most poetic video I ever saw. I love the way you went into your feelings. I go into the drama and feel every emotions so it warmed me to see someone who feels the same way I do.
I can’t tell you how much your raw honesty in this video helped me as I am also going through a devastating breakup and heartbreak right now, and I always envied your life watching from CZcams. Your positivity always made me feel you had no problems whatsoever. and I can’t tell you how much hearing your vulnerability has helped me cope with my own. Thank you thank you thank you❤
The fact that even in your saddest times you can make others like myself smile is the purest form of selflessness ❤
6:50 I love how it changes from sketchy biker kids to sweet biker kids LOL