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    Stephen Fry talks to BBC Breakfast about missing afternoon tea with Hollywood actor Al Pacino, his struggle with drink and drugs. He also remembered the late Robin Williams & Philip Seymour Hoffman.
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  • @johnday6392
    @johnday6392 Před 6 lety +726

    I owe my life to this man. I recently watched a video by him where he
    was telling men of a certain age to go and get their PSA tested to check
    for prostate cancer, I thought that I may as well as I hadn't had it checked
    for many years, sure enough, It was high and I was sent for MRI scans and
    biopsies and I had the news that I had prostate cancer, fairly aggressive
    form, but the good news was that it was still contained within the prostate
    gland. The surgeon told me that had I waited another year it would have
    got out into my bones and that would be a whole new ball game. Anyway
    I had it removed and hopefully, fingers crossed, I'm in the clear.
    If I had not watched Stephen Fry's video I would never have gone
    to my doctor about this as I had no symptoms whatsoever. So thankyou Mr.
    Fry from the bottom of my heart What a wonderful man you are.

    • @degsbabe
      @degsbabe Před 4 lety +5

      That's so lovely. You had to get a rich gay mans advise.

    • @AB-ju4hx
      @AB-ju4hx Před 4 lety +8

      Thank you for sharing that story, best of Luck!

    • @misleadingwolf4098
      @misleadingwolf4098 Před 4 lety +8

      @Joshua Morgan ,disgusting piece of shit!

    • @robkunkel8833
      @robkunkel8833 Před 4 lety +5

      I’m happy for you! A nice story. Stephen got me to get a full check up today, too.

    • @robkunkel8833
      @robkunkel8833 Před 4 lety +12

      Joshua Morgan ... Why do you say that? That’s such a weird, random thing to type. What is your reason for saying that?

  • @drewgardner479
    @drewgardner479 Před 7 lety +690

    Wow, that didn't feel like a TV interview, it was more like having an earnest discussion with a close friend.
    He was very generous to share such personal matters and insights.

    • @markrichter2053
      @markrichter2053 Před 6 lety +21

      drew gardner
      yes. He is so open. And they really are more like friends than just presenters. Its an unusual dynamic on breakfast tv. But Stephen has a disarmingly honest way that gives us all permission to be vulnerable

    • @bradavon
      @bradavon Před 3 lety +1

      He's also well loved in the UK so could probably get away with it.

    • @mattmorris2867
      @mattmorris2867 Před 2 lety +1

      @@2fast2block you really are a little confused.

    • @2fast2block
      @2fast2block Před 2 lety

      @@mattmorris2867 how you gave this detailed evidence of yours you think proved the science I gave is wrong...
      "you really are a little confused."
      Wow, give your small brain a rest.

  • @luhole
    @luhole Před 7 lety +40

    When he said Robin's quote "I can't make myself happy" I came that close to bursting into tears. What a tragedy.

    • @emillyyelen5169
      @emillyyelen5169 Před 6 měsíci +3

      unfortunately majority of comedians have such a state of mind...

  • @davidigleniec2483
    @davidigleniec2483 Před 7 lety +356

    Thanks for letting him talk.

    • @The22on
      @The22on Před 6 lety +17

      I'm used to American interviewer who abhor silence. If a guest pauses for a millisecond, the interviewer jumps in with a comment or question. I was shocked that the British interviewers always waited for a second or two after Fry spoke, to see if he had anything more to say. He often did have more to say. If he was being interviewed by Americans, much of his wisdom would not have been heard.

    • @draquone
      @draquone Před 5 lety

      David Igleniec prick

    • @bamadeadhead
      @bamadeadhead Před 5 lety +3

      Yes!! Thanks Americans are so impatient and so relevant here. Thanks for including us in EVERYTHING

  • @danielhill8222
    @danielhill8222 Před 9 lety +906

    I do feel entirely sorry for Stephen Fry, he is such a wise and enlightened man and yet like me he is crippled by depression. I myself can relate, even in this interview I can see how truly tired he is. Anybody who has depression knows what I am talking abut

    • @ShadowinaCave
      @ShadowinaCave Před 9 lety +48

      Daniel Hill
      I hear ya, Daniel. Daily battle here as well, one that of late I'm losing far more often than I win. It's very frightening.

    • @danielhill8222
      @danielhill8222 Před 9 lety +37

      ShadowinaCave To be honest with yeah I have recently been seriously contemplating suicide but it is funny. I know I am just in bad shape right now and I do have things to look forward to it is just sometimes you are in so much pain. But man I implore you just to hang in their a little bit longer

    • @Billo1281
      @Billo1281 Před 9 lety +14

      Daniel Hill Completely understand.

    • @danielhill8222
      @danielhill8222 Před 9 lety +30

      ***** Drugs only make depression worst

    • @danielhill8222
      @danielhill8222 Před 9 lety +8

      Daniel Hill sorry worse

  • @fharper18
    @fharper18 Před 9 lety +179

    You rarely see interviewers captivated but this is a rare exception.

  • @TranscendentLion
    @TranscendentLion Před 9 lety +468

    I know it's highly unlikely that Mr. Fry is going to read this, but I would just like to say that he's an inspiration and a genuinely great person who is a pleasure to share this Earth with.

    • @08453300222
      @08453300222 Před 9 lety +6

      Is he on the same level as the students that started Oxfam and have saved millions from starving. Phew, maybe his charitable deeds have been unpublicized because of his great humility. Long live Mr Fry and his good will to all. Blessings to Transcendent Lion and all felines.

    • @truth4928
      @truth4928 Před 9 lety

      Gag me, he's a disgrace. Gross, the devil in disguise.

    • @TranscendentLion
      @TranscendentLion Před 9 lety +21

      I don't really see how a man who is talented, funny and with the best of intentions is a disgrace, but you're obviously coming at it from a different angle.

    • @joansmith3296
      @joansmith3296 Před 9 lety +16

      ***** a disgrace? the man is brilliant he can take on any topic and school the rest of us. i admire people i can learn from

    • @Theroadlesstaken
      @Theroadlesstaken Před 9 lety +14

      ***** What on earth are you babbling on about ? Stephen Fry is a living legend. I've got nothing but admiration for the man.

  • @musicguy20
    @musicguy20 Před 9 lety +354

    Just look at the two presenters, how engaged they are with Stephen Fry. They look like small children so interested in the story. Shows how incredible Fry is even when talking about his demons. You can tell how honest and serious he is with every sentence. Raw emotion and everyone can relate no matter how good your life is, God or no God. We all struggle and fall in different periods of our lives. It's what makes us human. We just need to hold on tight and give a hand to those who are just about to let go. We'll only make it if we all make it.

    • @Reverend-Rodger
      @Reverend-Rodger Před 6 lety +3

      Those two beeb reporters can't hold a candle to that kind of intellect. So no wonder they are dumbfounded. It beats the usual vacuous drivel the BBC puts out

    • @d1v1k40
      @d1v1k40 Před 5 lety +6

      But you have to respect the reporters. They kept quite when he spoke and allowed him to speak as he needed for as long as he needed. They asked reasonable and good questions and made it a conversation not a Q&A.
      Something unnoticeable until it’s not there like with American reporters.

    • @ryanbyrne259
      @ryanbyrne259 Před 5 lety +1

      Amen bro

    • @spreadthelove77
      @spreadthelove77 Před 4 lety

      musicguy20 Absolutely spot-on, mate.

    • @tuulafai4046
      @tuulafai4046 Před 2 lety

      Yes

  • @bushidobadboy
    @bushidobadboy Před 9 lety +122

    Stephen Fry: national treasure. His honesty, integrity and courage are mighty indeed!

    • @nikhilsukumar23
      @nikhilsukumar23 Před 5 lety

      With all respect to Stephen Fry and to your admiration for this celeb who is also my inspiration. I very much would like to know exactly what Stephen Fry has accomplished in life. I want to know this because I am interested to be inspired more and more. I know that he is an actor and writer on depression. But what exactly has he done?

    • @cBearTV-
      @cBearTV- Před 5 lety +4

      Yep, he really is a British treasure, who I think should be knighted for his charity work in particular. A really really great man, entertaining, engaging, caring. Stephen does a lot of charity work public don't know about, a huge amount, he's patron to charities also, but he does most that away from public eye, I'd say that's accomplishing a great deal throughout his life, and that's without his huge career on screen, theatre, and in literature, certainly far more than a lot of us will accomplish... So let's not be flippant, that's a huge accomplishment. I hope he gets the recognition he should. If you agree it should be #SirStephenFry give this a 👍

  • @markmccabe-carton7800
    @markmccabe-carton7800 Před 7 lety +1545

    Interesting story. I love how the interviewers just shut up and let him speak. Why can't American interviewers do that?

    • @Aurasmae
      @Aurasmae Před 7 lety +49

      Too many ad breaks. >-

    • @Qgavctecsc
      @Qgavctecsc Před 6 lety +25

      Mark McCabe-Carton because american interviewers are ignorant

    • @RobertSlover
      @RobertSlover Před 6 lety +28

      unlike the bbc we american capitalists have to break for commercial manipulation.

    • @benedictearlson9044
      @benedictearlson9044 Před 6 lety +17

      Because they are on coke or have had too many coffees.

    • @lllllll6500
      @lllllll6500 Před 5 lety +25

      let's be real for a second and not compare BBC with MTV or whatever commercial station comes to mind... There are public broadcasting stations in US that follow this very format. In part is because they don't have the stress of the sponsors and also because the journalists are of that particular type. Watch a segment on your local NPR and you'll find this very setup... good day everyone.

  • @BurnzyRaps
    @BurnzyRaps Před 4 lety +237

    “It’s crazy I can’t make myself happy”
    Depression is a terrible thing.

    • @randalllaue4042
      @randalllaue4042 Před 3 lety +2

      Now real reason discovered...

    • @dubdec99
      @dubdec99 Před 3 lety +4

      Robin Williams didn't take his life because of depression.

    • @maxodgaard1335
      @maxodgaard1335 Před 3 lety +1

      Spend time in the nature, its a universal help.....

    • @mbs8126
      @mbs8126 Před 3 lety

      after that phrase, a moment of silence would have been advised, just to let that sink in for a while. But the host, unfortunately, intervened very quickly..

    • @garywilson3042
      @garywilson3042 Před 3 lety

      @@dubdec99 yeah, it was the brain disease that caused it, he was literally not in his right mind. He didnt know what he was doing towards the end.

  • @jeffballantyne8184
    @jeffballantyne8184 Před 9 lety +136

    Open. Honest. Raw. Real. Thank you.

  • @empydoodle
    @empydoodle Před 2 lety +8

    7 years later I still watch this and am utterly speechless at how truly, truly amazing this man is. Nobody has ever quite inspired such a genuine devotion in me as Stephen, he makes the world a better place and is absolutely a reason to be proud to be British just to share the same island as our home.

  • @Noutchka
    @Noutchka Před 8 lety +244

    I am really fond of Stephen Fry.

    • @cantbarragethefarage9519
      @cantbarragethefarage9519 Před 7 lety +13

      Everyone loves him

    • @ak-9295
      @ak-9295 Před 7 lety

      Gidon Rosalki i don't

    • @cantbarragethefarage9519
      @cantbarragethefarage9519 Před 7 lety +1

      A Cox why not?

    • @elente
      @elente Před 7 lety

      +A Cox No one cares...

    • @cBearTV-
      @cBearTV- Před 5 lety +3

      Yep, he really is a British treasure, who I think should be knighted for his charity work in particular. A really really great man, entertaining, engaging, caring. Stephen does a lot of charity work public don't know about. If you agree it should be #SirStephenFry give this a 👍

  • @ayushawasthi1690
    @ayushawasthi1690 Před 7 lety +30

    my god,if only all interviewers are like these two, there would be understanding and happiness in the world.

  • @nyrbsamoht
    @nyrbsamoht Před 9 lety +62

    wow look at those 2 hanging on his every word - just like i was !
    what a legend

  • @glazedgamer7661
    @glazedgamer7661 Před 8 lety +102

    I cried when he talked about Robin. I miss that man

    • @jonhoward4884
      @jonhoward4884 Před 8 lety +10

      +GlazedGamer Robin was the best, he had no peer.

    • @VINvIN344
      @VINvIN344 Před 8 lety +1

      +GlazedGamer cried seriously? are you 4 ?

    • @glazedgamer7661
      @glazedgamer7661 Před 8 lety +38

      Nah mate, just in touch with a little thing called being a human. What are you, a robot?

    • @MadBrainBox
      @MadBrainBox Před 8 lety +6

      +GlazedGamer Yeah.That was powerful.When he talked about Philip Seymour Hoffman it was terrifying.A lesson to be learned I guess.

    • @paulstone8175
      @paulstone8175 Před 5 lety

      Boo hoo

  • @salvadormarley
    @salvadormarley Před 8 lety +145

    Look how engrossed the interviewers are with his stories. He's class

    • @skinnerman100
      @skinnerman100 Před 6 lety +5

      salvadormarley if only americans could adapt the same technique let the guest speak instead of listening to themselves

    • @bradavon
      @bradavon Před 3 lety

      They also seemed a little uncomfortable in places too. This airs 6-8am 😅

    • @salvadormarley
      @salvadormarley Před 3 lety

      @@bradavon Explain.

    • @bradavon
      @bradavon Před 3 lety

      @@salvadormarley he's talking frankly about drug use at 6am 😅. They moved him along politely at one point.

    • @salvadormarley
      @salvadormarley Před 3 lety

      @@bradavon Well yeah, now you come to mention it

  • @liamc7097
    @liamc7097 Před 5 lety +25

    I could listen to Stephen Fry talk all day. He has the best stories and is so articulate. I pray he doesn't go the same way as the other greats. He really is a national treasure.

  • @maszlagma
    @maszlagma Před 9 lety +396

    I hope Stephen is being looked after well! I want him to stay with us as long as possible!

    • @maszlagma
      @maszlagma Před 9 lety +5

      Jimi Jones
      I hope that is true and you really are!

    • @Sedgwickism
      @Sedgwickism Před 9 lety +2

      maszlagma don't be stupid

    • @b9y
      @b9y Před 9 lety +1

      Jimi Jones Sure you are...

    • @chuckberry5355
      @chuckberry5355 Před 8 lety +3

      I thought the same about sir jimmi savile. Devastated!!

    • @ramiel01
      @ramiel01 Před 8 lety +4

      Oh Jim, good to see you on here - I'm Mr Fry's pathologist. I need to send you Stephen's results from a few months back; I'll just type them out ok?

  • @roel.vinckens
    @roel.vinckens Před 3 lety +13

    His honesty cuts deep. Thanks to the interviewers for staying as invisible as possible. Thank you Mr. Fry, for everything.

  • @edbroaotearoa1198
    @edbroaotearoa1198 Před 3 lety +11

    I'm blown away that a morning show can ask great questions and allow time to be answered. Well done. Mr Fry is an icon for being open, honest and painfully intelligent so it's always encouraging to hear him speak uninterupted.

  • @fionabarrie9697
    @fionabarrie9697 Před 3 lety +5

    I adore Stephen Fry. I show my children almost anything I can find that he has said, written or performed. A truly good man, acknowledges his frailties with true regret. He should also be proud of who he is and all he has given to several generations! Beautiful Man!

  • @3kimkim3
    @3kimkim3 Před 9 lety +31

    The wonderful Stephen Fry is now engaged... Hope they have a long and great relationship... Happy for you Mr. Fry...

  • @hawkingdawking4572
    @hawkingdawking4572 Před 9 lety +38

    Great and a honest person which I really admire- Stephen Fry.

    • @cBearTV-
      @cBearTV- Před 5 lety

      Yep, he really is a British treasure, who I think should be knighted for his charity work in particular. A really really great man, entertaining, engaging, caring. Stephen does a lot of charity work public don't know about. If you agree it should be #SirStephenFry give this a 👍

  • @Bruce-1956
    @Bruce-1956 Před 8 lety +61

    Could we not have a TV channel dedicated to Stephen and only Stephen.

    • @debrimaybar2447
      @debrimaybar2447 Před 7 lety +4

      I'd agree as long as we make it a streaming service.

    • @cBearTV-
      @cBearTV- Před 5 lety

      How about a channel with... Stephen Fry, Sir David Attenborough, Prof Richard Dawkins, Christopher Hitchen (Previously taped debates RIP The Hitch), with the guests of they're choosing also. That would be one great channel, in fact I'd say we could almost eliminate the need for schools, and just have children watch this channel, wow we'd have one intelligent country! 👍😊

  • @buffster948
    @buffster948 Před 2 lety +4

    What a raw, real account of the difficulties people with addiction face in our society. Hats off to you, Stephen Fry and the BBC, as always. National treasures.

  • @uwu-pe2nt
    @uwu-pe2nt Před 3 lety +13

    The interviewers did not only let him speak, you can actually see them lean closer and closer, soaking up his every word. A marvellous man.

  • @davidsteninger2278
    @davidsteninger2278 Před 5 lety +4

    It's refreshing that they let him talk! That's so rare in these kinds of interviews. The woman host asked some great questions, and then listened to the answers! Can't get enough of Stephen, such a wonderful, loving, articulate man.

  • @antonwalker1866
    @antonwalker1866 Před 8 lety +14

    I really appreciate his authentic character and relaxing style. Stay healthy Stephen Fry!

  • @stuartkseels
    @stuartkseels Před 6 lety +4

    What an amazing, intelligent & forthright man! So brave to speak SO openly about the issues that erode modern life & celebrity!

  • @shauns957
    @shauns957 Před 8 lety +40

    Stephen Fry speaks so truthfully and down to earth, as someone who drinks alot and is fond of cocaine myself what he say's is the truth, theirs no lies their at all and he speaks without protecting ones imagine and vanity

    • @rickiesee8666
      @rickiesee8666 Před 6 lety +2

      theadam22 I share a similar story. Fuck cocaine.

  • @seraphthoth
    @seraphthoth Před 9 lety +60

    A very fine interview indeed.

  • @Canuckmom128
    @Canuckmom128 Před 7 lety +5

    This interview is at least 3 years old ( 2014). If you've seen anything of Stephen in the past 24 months, you will know that he is now back in "fighting form", having returned to his regimen of long walks, and more importantly is now married and seems to be very happy and contented. The world could use a lot more Stephen Fry. He personifies so much of what is good about human beings.

  • @Orion3741
    @Orion3741 Před 3 lety +4

    A brutally honest interview from the man himself, Stephen Fry. The interviewers were exceptionally considerate to let Fry talk. To give him the freedom of the studio. That silence in the background while he was recounting his life and that of others, was remarkable. So much so, that you could hear a pin drop. Thank you.

  • @psychotictactoe
    @psychotictactoe Před 6 lety +3

    Massive love for Steven, national treasure, he's as real as it gets and i hope he stays with us for many years more.

  • @manicenigmatic5329
    @manicenigmatic5329 Před 9 lety +168

    For those saying Stephen is addicted/sleepy/tired/unprofessional etc.
    He announced he has a new diagnosis of Bipolar 1. Unlike his former flavour of Bipolar light. Bipolar 1 needs medication such as Lithium and sometimes anti psychotics. Until they reach a therapeutic level this effect in Stephen is classic of those on treatment. It is also classic symptoms of hyper-mania and in particular mixed states.
    He without sin cast the first stone.

    • @markrichter2053
      @markrichter2053 Před 6 lety +6

      Manic Enigmatic
      Well said! 😊

    • @Nautilus1972
      @Nautilus1972 Před 6 lety +3

      Oh fuck, he's an entitled spoiled prick with millions of pounds and gets everything for free. Stop feeling so bloody sorry for him.

    • @Ridghost
      @Ridghost Před 6 lety +11

      How's that pint of bitter & salt with your chips? Ya envious, unsympathetic prick.

    • @paulstone8175
      @paulstone8175 Před 5 lety +3

      @@Ridghost I think he prefers sausage with his chips to fish, he's a backdoor customer

    • @nicoles7800
      @nicoles7800 Před 5 lety +8

      I agreed with your assessment, until your last sentence.
      Mental illness is not a sin
      Many enlightened people suffer.

  • @eluna34
    @eluna34 Před 9 lety +230

    and shouting and music... and music and shouting... Stephen just described why I don't like parties

    • @andromidius
      @andromidius Před 3 lety +5

      The wall of noise. And heat. And everyone else becoming less and less comprendable...
      I can manage small parties. Or if there is a decent outdoor area I can retreat to.

    • @mrSam3ooo
      @mrSam3ooo Před 2 lety

      Me too. I much prefer a concert cause you can actually witness the act of talented people creating music and atmosphere

  • @lynneslates2136
    @lynneslates2136 Před 6 lety +6

    I’m so grateful when Stephen Fry (and other popular individuals with dedicated audiences) speak up about mental illness and addiction. These are such difficult topics and it takes a brave vulnerability to speak about this things and I, as someone with a mental illness, really appreciate knowing and hearing that I’m not the only one who feels the desperation and exhaustion. Thank you, Sir.

  • @meto2854
    @meto2854 Před 3 lety +2

    The way the hosts listen to him is a rarity. Wonderful hosts and a person worth listening to!

  • @jordancrago5129
    @jordancrago5129 Před 8 lety +48

    I agree with him about the party thing...especially clubs. The music is so loud you can't even have a conversation, everybody suddenly becomes even more shallow than they normally are, the drinks are extortionate, and it's always the same "let's take a selfie so that tomorrow when we're too hung over and sleep deprived that we've wasted half of our weekend, we can wistfully go through them, like and share and comment on them on FB and ten do it all again next weekend"...God, it gets boring...

    • @c0der1020
      @c0der1020 Před 8 lety +4

      +Jordan Crago So just don't do it.. I got bored with going to bars and clubs at around age 24. Haven't been to one in 6 years.. Why complain about something you can just stop doing?

    • @paulstone8175
      @paulstone8175 Před 5 lety +1

      The music is also shit

    • @spaceghost8995
      @spaceghost8995 Před 5 lety

      Not me. I quit drinking 26 years ago!

    • @petertaylor6384
      @petertaylor6384 Před 3 lety

      It sounds truly awful when you just say it. You would never drink 10 pints of orange juice...

  • @boccs9925
    @boccs9925 Před 4 lety +9

    "It's not that he was funny. He *was* Funny. Whatever funniness is, he was it." might be the highest praise you could give, especially from so accomplished a comedian and entertainer as Stephen Fry.

  • @grahamjenkin2882
    @grahamjenkin2882 Před 4 lety +1

    A true gent who's walked the walk & can therefore talk the talk. And with such insight, compassion & intelligence. A diamond.

  • @sazfretz1945
    @sazfretz1945 Před 6 lety +104

    Robin Williams didn't commit suicide because he had depression. He did it because he was struggling from Parkinson's and then got a diagnosis of Lewy Body Alzheimer's. I don't blame the poor man one bit for wanting to leave on his own terms while he still had the wherewithal to do so. He could never have borne deteriorating into a shell of his former self, nor have done putting his family through it.

    • @Dragonballguy270
      @Dragonballguy270 Před 5 lety +4

      Saz Fretz I completely agree with you, he couldn’t have gone down from what he was , gone on his terms

    • @Joe-xo4yg
      @Joe-xo4yg Před 5 lety +6

      It broke my heart to hear he had taken his own life and not till i heard about his illness,
      did i understand.
      I miss him 🙁

    • @rubyjames3105
      @rubyjames3105 Před 5 lety +2

      @@Joe-xo4yg me too

    • @andrewg3768
      @andrewg3768 Před 5 lety +7

      He probably didn't even know what he was doing because of the LBD!

    • @greypilgrim228
      @greypilgrim228 Před 5 lety +1

      it probably didn't help that he had a dozen ex wives pestering him for money all the time, threatening him with legal action. I notice they were quick to distance themselves from any blame the moment the story hit, and jumped on the band wagon for anywhere they could point the blame.

  • @jinjatube
    @jinjatube Před 7 lety +12

    Person being real (irrespective of his fame, a bit tired from medication, unshaven, and stilll focussed on passing on important information) + interviewers know it and just let him speak = a rare live TV magical moment

  • @judithdavidson2356
    @judithdavidson2356 Před 5 lety +3

    Thank you for your openness about your illness. My older son died at the age of 29 as a result of his bipolar disorder. It was impossible for innumerable doctors to force him to continue with his medication . Anyone who fails to understand the condition should watch the excellent film with Richard Gere which many psychiatrists use in training. I wish you and anyone suffering from any mental disorder a better year to come .

  • @el6178
    @el6178 Před 2 lety +1

    Stephen had such an powerful effect to so many lives with his extraordinary mind and effortless warmth.

  • @1interesting2
    @1interesting2 Před 9 lety +37

    More of him talking openly like this please BBC

  • @lefteris1976
    @lefteris1976 Před 5 lety +6

    incredible. the interviewers are mesmerized like little children. the wonderfully captivating stephen fry....

  • @beautybybev
    @beautybybev Před 9 lety +6

    Such an honest portrayal from Mr. Fry! Wishing him all the best!

  • @Whigu
    @Whigu Před 3 lety +2

    I'm big fan of Stephen Fry. He is one of those rare people who can be funny and smart at the same time and of course serious when needed.

  • @NowFunStarts
    @NowFunStarts Před 9 lety +20

    Im like this in the morning too.....Love Fry and congratulations on the marriage, and keep writing :)

  • @chrish12345
    @chrish12345 Před 9 lety +40

    not bad for 9am, normally they're droning on about the weather or house prices

  • @TheBassHeavy
    @TheBassHeavy Před 6 lety +3

    I honestly don't think we will ever get such an honest and open interview from anyone.

  • @alanratcliffe1294
    @alanratcliffe1294 Před 4 lety +1

    Nothing but love to Stephen, whatever your struggle in life this is a man to listen to xx

  • @davevansega1771
    @davevansega1771 Před 2 lety +1

    Great actor,comedian and very intelligent.Wears his heart on his sleeve.Fair play .

  • @Christrulesall2
    @Christrulesall2 Před 9 lety +6

    I love this man! A library on legs,

  • @CullTheLivingFlower
    @CullTheLivingFlower Před 9 lety +349

    It's a shame he's put on weight again. He's my favorite person in the whole world I do hope he takes care of himself and lives the longest life possible.

    • @patbrennan6572
      @patbrennan6572 Před 9 lety +2

      i agree, too much weight isn't healthy at any age, but it;s hard to loose it though.

    • @PlumbobMillionaire
      @PlumbobMillionaire Před 8 lety +9

      CullTheLivingFlower Addiction to pork pies is healthier than cocaine any day of the week.

    • @TheDensley7
      @TheDensley7 Před 8 lety

      +CullTheLivingFlower Isn't your favourite person in the whole world someone you know?

    • @CullTheLivingFlower
      @CullTheLivingFlower Před 8 lety

      TheDensley7 Sadly, no.

    • @themudpit621
      @themudpit621 Před 8 lety

      +CullTheLivingFlower Wow, that IS sad. (sincerely) Now I feel sad for you! I hope that changes for you. Peace.

  • @Ts-vt5wd
    @Ts-vt5wd Před 5 lety +1

    A more deep . Intelligent. Caring .and special man you couldn't meet ..I wish him and everyone who struggles with these issues nothing but the best for the future. Stay strong ...

  • @debwise8357
    @debwise8357 Před 3 lety +1

    Love Stephen Fry, he's such a beautiful and caring man, his honesty is a gift to us all who are struggling with being human and having any kind of numerous frailties that may come with it.

  • @goddamnthedamned
    @goddamnthedamned Před 9 lety +23

    Gutted to hear him say, 'It stays with you forever.' mostly because it's true and something I never wanted to believe. I guess if that part of yourself cannot change then your interaction with the world will not produce a different result until you come up with a solid strategy. How does one stop being so sensitive and vulnerable though? These guys, they are such wonderful creators because of this one quality - so what makes them great also makes them suffer, in a sense. Heartbreaking.

    • @danvez5656
      @danvez5656 Před 3 lety +1

      ive found the most severely depressed to be also the most empathetic, it does seem to come hand in hand.

  • @makinoahcelloduo9008
    @makinoahcelloduo9008 Před 3 lety +15

    I agree with him about parties. I have given up drinking and going to a party sober is a horrifying idea.

    • @user-jt1jv8vl9r
      @user-jt1jv8vl9r Před 3 lety

      I remember going to a club as the named driver and the last hour of cheesy music was torture when surrounded by drunk people. Then the annoying drive home! Lol

  • @catatonicbug7522
    @catatonicbug7522 Před 4 lety +1

    This frank honesty about addiction and mental illness is what we desperately need more of in the media.

  • @Cal-md1et
    @Cal-md1et Před 4 lety +2

    When Stephen Fry talks he captivates 100% of your attention. Every word he says is so genuine and thought out

  • @noob_senpai
    @noob_senpai Před 9 lety +4

    I wish him all the bests, he is an amazing person and comedian, who cheered me up with his appearances during some very difficult days. I don't think there is anyone else like him.

  • @letsif
    @letsif Před 9 lety +32

    It's sad how wisdom, intelligence and humility can be subverted by addiction.

    • @beccastell6439
      @beccastell6439 Před 4 lety +1

      Even sadder that those with mental illness get exploited by those who know damn well the risk of addiction in bipolar.

    • @bonkerzx200
      @bonkerzx200 Před 4 lety +1

      Knowledge is pain, ignorance is bliss...

    • @keithcrooks7217
      @keithcrooks7217 Před 4 lety

      I believe those qualities are developed by addiction, not subverted.

    • @yolandarosado3293
      @yolandarosado3293 Před 3 lety

      Addiction doesn't discriminate...movie star or bum on the street..we all end up the same way..

    • @metsot
      @metsot Před 3 lety

      It's just that it doesn't happen that way ..those traits aren't subverted by anything. The susceptibility to addiction is often there from an early onset ..sexual trauma etc.

  • @vilhelmhammershoi3871
    @vilhelmhammershoi3871 Před 4 lety +1

    Stephen Fry, what a pleasure it is to hear you speak. Every single time you speak or are interviewed, you contribute to someone's personal betterment. You are a blessing, sir.

  • @arthurrowe1246
    @arthurrowe1246 Před 4 lety +1

    Great man! A very sympathetic and heartfelt account of addiction.

  • @christiner6000
    @christiner6000 Před 9 lety +30

    Stephen Fry is one of the most fascinating and erudite people on this planet. Does that mean he's perfect? NO, but he does display a certain humility and self-awareness that I find impressive. As to the possibility of sleep apnea, I would have to agree. He usually sounds "stuffed up" when he talks and it could account for his apparent sluggishness. But also, I've seen his program on mental illness and know he is on drugs for his bipolar problem that could account for some of it also. I'm sorry to hear that his bipolar diagnosis is worse then he had previously thought.

    • @BRICKMASONB201
      @BRICKMASONB201 Před 5 lety

      but you can tell he's being very, very honest and self-effacing.

    • @moiralaidlaw6366
      @moiralaidlaw6366 Před 5 lety

      I so agree. I think he's inspirational. Like David Attenborough, when his time finally comes, I know I will mourn because he is so special.

  • @theRealPlaidRabbit
    @theRealPlaidRabbit Před 9 lety +58

    I think it's worth pointing out that a number of the medications often prescribed for conditions such as Mr. Fry's do have the unfortunate side effect of causing significant weight gain (whether by changing how the brain signals hunger or by changing the way the body metabolizes food is beyond my expertise). Not as a judgement against or for anyone, but simply as a reminder that the body and the mind are both rather complicated things.
    Wishing Mr. Fry well, grateful for the many times he has made me laugh, and hoping I haven't seen the last of those.

    • @user-og6hl6lv7p
      @user-og6hl6lv7p Před 8 lety +1

      +theRealPlaidRabbit Daniel Johnston ways a fucking tonne now too, and they also look much much older than they should be

    • @reinforcedpenisstem
      @reinforcedpenisstem Před 8 lety +1

      +theRealPlaidRabbit AND weight loss in some people. The side-effect list for the Prozac family of drugs is massive.

    • @theRealPlaidRabbit
      @theRealPlaidRabbit Před 8 lety +5

      True. Psych medication is still, at the end of the day, based on fiddling with an immensely complex system in a relatively simplistic way. Sometimes it seems like trying to debug a computer program by adjusting the voltage of the wall socket.

    • @squashedshibber2684
      @squashedshibber2684 Před 8 lety

      +theRealPlaidRabbit so? I think anyone would rather be fat any day then have crippling psychotic episodes, endless mania and depression that leaves someone wanting to die each day.

    • @theRealPlaidRabbit
      @theRealPlaidRabbit Před 8 lety

      Seal Girl Perhaps so. Weighing the side-effects against the disease is not a calculation I'd want to make for any other person.

  • @aliciasaracino1233
    @aliciasaracino1233 Před 3 lety +1

    He is right on point, very accurate description of addiction and why it’s such a problem with so many.

  • @harrietthomas4032
    @harrietthomas4032 Před 10 měsíci

    Bless his heart. I hope that Stephen keeps it together mentally. Lots of healing love to him xxx

  • @michelle88960
    @michelle88960 Před 7 lety +12

    When Stephen said that when Robin was told he had made all those people happy and Robin said "Yes, but I can't make myself happy." My heart broke. So sad. As for the conversation about drugs, I've been down that road myself, mainly to block bad memories out. If there's a pill or a powder that can make you forget or make you happy, when all you want to do is curl up in bed and make the world go away, then you will take it. It's better than being depressed. Luckily I saw sense mainly due to the come downs from those drugs, I would feel worse than ever. I don''t remember the 80's at all. People laugh when I tell them I've lost a whole decade, in a way I avoided some shit music that was around then, but it's blanked out due to drink and drugs.

  • @estherday2239
    @estherday2239 Před 5 lety +7

    He sounds and seems so exhausted in this though i'm hardly surprised as he had just recently heard about Robin Williams suicide. Sending out much love to him and Robin and anyone else suffering from clinical depression.

  • @Arruda305
    @Arruda305 Před 8 lety +2

    This is the great power and difference that influential people's can do! A FANTASTIC ACTOR AND PERSON!!!!!!

  • @jorg1206
    @jorg1206 Před 9 lety +1

    I just love Stephen Fry,what a wonderful, wise person, and his accent!

  • @phillipbailey70
    @phillipbailey70 Před 7 lety +4

    Very well interviewed - they just let him speak. At first, you're tempted to think that it's an instruction in their ears that prompts and sustains their silence... but then at the @5:06 to @5:08 mark there is a prefect example of them mirroring his arm raise that I think shows that they are just simply fascinated with what he has to say. I understand - I could listen to him all day too.... :)

  • @cameron1975williams
    @cameron1975williams Před 9 lety +70

    "A slow suicide." - I'm afraid that's exactly correct.

  • @ian1patterson
    @ian1patterson Před 9 lety +2

    A very candid approach from a very articulate wonderful human being on the perils of addiction.

  • @MartinHatchuel
    @MartinHatchuel Před 4 lety +1

    Brilliant man, and kudos to the interviewers for allowing that to shine without trying to grab the limelight for themselves. I loved how they sat literally on the edge of their seats, just as I did while listening to Stephen Fry

  • @Taylorwinning92
    @Taylorwinning92 Před 9 lety +8

    Good on you Stephen

  • @SunnyBear
    @SunnyBear Před 6 lety +6

    Very well conducted interview, good pauses and good questions. Absolutely nothing like any American talk show. :)

  • @drobinbarker
    @drobinbarker Před 3 lety +1

    Brilliant! It is so refreshing to see an apparently highly intelligent and candid gentleman sharing such important information and reality; which if listened to carefully could save many lives!

  • @carolking6355
    @carolking6355 Před 4 lety +1

    He is not only a really nice person but he is very brave. I hope he manages to take care of himself. ❤️

  • @6u..
    @6u.. Před 9 lety +3

    i know depression well just like many of us; it's so true when he quotes williams to say making thousands of people happy doesn't guarantee you feel ok with your own self; i tried making people happy too, with more effort than most can probably imagine, with no true difference to my own self worth; what DID make a difference was when i realized, despite of years of brainwashing by a narcissistic parent i still know what's right and wrong - i know this for sure because i fell madly in love with people such as Stephen Fry, one of my absolute top heroes, people like him make me turn away from sadness and anger and be proud of myself for making every single day decisions dedicated to people like him, because of what he does and who he is, a simple 'thank you' would never do him justice

  • @lorrainetauson131
    @lorrainetauson131 Před 9 lety +10

    Most interesting points of view from Stephen Fry.

  • @shaun5944
    @shaun5944 Před 3 lety +2

    Massive respect for this man being so open about mental illness and addiction. I have my own experience. Mental illness is still a taboo subject and kills more people than anything. Thank you Stephen 👍

    • @barbaraarnzen5181
      @barbaraarnzen5181 Před rokem +2

      So true! Most of my relatives grew up stoic and do not accept or understand my long struggles with Depression and anxiety. Sadly, friends abandoned me too. Situations such as mine are tragedies. I'm glad Stephen has loving support in his life. It does make a huge difference.

  • @StephenGoddard-MiisterSpiice

    Love the honesty of Stephen. Depression though is a real issue in these modern times.

  • @patbrennan6572
    @patbrennan6572 Před 9 lety +15

    fry is a great narator, i wish he would do more nature programs, david atenburough is also amazing,.

  • @littleripper312
    @littleripper312 Před 9 lety +22

    He's right on that it lives with the addicted person forever. Many of us who have not had addiction issues don't fully understand why our loved one(s) cannot just choose to not do it or why they have a relapse years later. When something depressing happens in their life they can have one of those relapses which they might not come back from. It's been a scary thing to witness how powerless they are and how powerless our family members are. I have to admit it took me years to be sympathetic because I didn't really understand how powerful addiction is for some people. It has the power to make that family member lie to your face, steal and go completely out of control.

    • @rachael-777
      @rachael-777 Před 7 lety +1

      littleripper312 So true!

    • @beccastell6439
      @beccastell6439 Před 4 lety

      I think the hardest part was being lied to by family who are not even protecting the addicted person - just their own image. Nephew would maybe be alive today if we had been allowed to help....

    • @Zlinky111
      @Zlinky111 Před 4 lety

      Well said.

  • @paulflipse3353
    @paulflipse3353 Před 2 lety

    It's lovely to have someone you respect and admire, as I do with Stephen Fry, speak so highly and eloquently of another one of my favorite people, Robin Williams.

  • @mosaabdullah7256
    @mosaabdullah7256 Před 7 lety

    He knows how to make u listen to him deeply. He entered your mind, and soul easily I do not know how he does it. A big fan from Saudi 👍🏻

  • @TheLegenDacster
    @TheLegenDacster Před 7 lety +5

    What a brave interview of genuineness and accuracy about this issue, instead of the usual ignorant crap. Thank-you Stephen.

  • @Fancymanofthedeep
    @Fancymanofthedeep Před 9 lety +7

    A beautiful human being.

  • @AdolfoRufatt
    @AdolfoRufatt Před rokem

    One of the smartest, interesting, compassionate and most talented persons on this planet.

  • @user-pk7xo8bb2v
    @user-pk7xo8bb2v Před 3 lety

    I admire Stephen so much for being so open. I could listen to his stories all the time and learn so much from him. I know where he's coming from. Thank you Stephen for sharing, you will never know how much it helps me.

  • @t.va.6611
    @t.va.6611 Před 4 lety +5

    12:53
    - "It's chronic... It does not go away... You have to learn to manage it".

  • @williampaterson3291
    @williampaterson3291 Před 8 lety +61

    No matter what you're "Social status" in life may be, from millionaire to homeless persons, Depression has NO Class distinction, and can strike at any given time. My own experience of Depression is as such, I feel like I'm
    Alone in a lift going down to the basement. Once there, the doors won't open, and then the overhead light goes out, and I'm in a real panic, TRAPPED inside of the lift and my own head, with no way out.
    I'm tired of people saying to me
    "Give yourself a shake and snap out of it . . . " if only it were that easy. Please try to understand us.
    We're NOT looking for sympathy, we're trying to find our way back to
    "Normality" and people who care in what seems like a very uncaring and judgemental world. Bless you ALL. x x x

    • @jupitersailing
      @jupitersailing Před 8 lety +2

      +William Paterson Absolutely true, and well said William.

    • @williampaterson3291
      @williampaterson3291 Před 8 lety +1

      657BIueArmy Thank you my friend. May you know love, joy and peace ALWAYS ! Namaste. William 👍

    • @jupitersailing
      @jupitersailing Před 8 lety +1

      +William Paterson You too William, I hope every day is a happy one, always.

    • @londongirl2603
      @londongirl2603 Před 7 lety +2

      William Paterson I too suffer from Bipolar or manic depression all my life was only diagonised at 28 years of age and i got addicted to alcohol due to my depression. its so depressing to have people who can never and will never begin to understand the extent of this illness. I am glad people like Stephen Fry speak about it open.

  • @johnhealy9238
    @johnhealy9238 Před 4 lety +1

    I can listen to him for hours about this. Addiction is definitely a disease and ruthless too.

  • @busdriver428
    @busdriver428 Před 4 lety +1

    The more I hear Stephen Fry speak the more he warms my heart!