Taylor Swift - tolerate it (Official Lyric Video)

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  • @samanthadonjuan9483
    @samanthadonjuan9483 Před 3 lety +8117

    When she says "believe me I could do it" it sounds so painful, to me with that phrase she's trying to convince herself that she can leave, more than trying to convince him, but deep down she knows she won't leave.

    • @TheAlfredPlatform
      @TheAlfredPlatform Před 3 lety +205

      yes the bridge is just genius. We've all been there, tried to convince ourselves we could leave but just couldn't. Brilliant.

    • @nawarb.4226
      @nawarb.4226 Před 3 lety +252

      And then the last line is the first line again, showing that even though she contemplated leaving, nothing has changed, she's still sitting and watching him, and everything she feels during this song, she'll feel again.

    • @brittjetaime
      @brittjetaime Před 3 lety +34

      She's not trying to convince herself. She's trying to warn him.

    • @TheAlfredPlatform
      @TheAlfredPlatform Před 3 lety +86

      @@brittjetaime the song is an internal dialogue she is having with herself.

    • @CaitMcKi
      @CaitMcKi Před 3 lety +30

      @@TheAlfredPlatform I interpret it as a warning, even if she hasn't said it out loud to him yet (and although she's struggling with how painful of a thought it is, the most painful part is this is likely how they'll end up).

  • @daphneswain5558
    @daphneswain5558 Před 3 lety +9357

    i broke up with my boyfriend bc i heard this song and started realizing i deserve better thank u miss taylor swift

    • @seihaknou988
      @seihaknou988 Před 3 lety +625

      I hope you're doing okay queen, you deserve better than to be tolerated ✨ also is that you in your pfp cause you look so pretty 🥺

    • @daphneswain5558
      @daphneswain5558 Před 3 lety +341

      @@seihaknou988 thank you you are so sweet i am on my third night of crying myself to sleep but this makes me feel a little better

    • @seihaknou988
      @seihaknou988 Před 3 lety +222

      @@daphneswain5558 moving on is not an easy one-week task, I've also been thru that; but again, at the end you have yourself, who is still going strong, and that's enough. You'll be better anytime soon.
      Also my tip is to take up things you've wanted to do for a while; say, painting or just a simple picnic. Treat yourself, you deserve it. 💜

    • @zhoarsagi5041
      @zhoarsagi5041 Před 3 lety +99

      I hope you realize how much better you should be treated and that you shouldn’t settle for anything or anyone who won’t treat you like an absolute goddess !
      The pain is worth it at the end, I promise 💗 hope you’re fine

    • @aarushikishore1417
      @aarushikishore1417 Před 3 lety +66

      It was such a brave decision of yours... I hope you are doing well and getting over it!!! M happy u realised u deserve better😊😊😊😊

  • @chicken
    @chicken Před 2 měsíci +962

    Its March 2024, let's see how many legends are listening to this incredible song💖

  • @agathedethe5985
    @agathedethe5985 Před rokem +4223

    "Gain the weight of you then lose it" the meaning of those lyrics are so deep. "Gain" like it's a win, but in the other hand, it's a weight, a love heavy to carry. Evermore is sooo well-crafted, and this song is lyrically a masterpiece. One of my favorites with cowboy like me or ivy

    • @jaclynirene7526
      @jaclynirene7526 Před rokem +26

      You said it perfectly! I completely agree

    • @onwednesdayswewearpink7828
      @onwednesdayswewearpink7828 Před rokem +28

      Periodt! I dont think many people understand how well detailed evermore is, and the fact that taytay can tell an entire agenda, story, feelings within 4 mins! Ivy is such a masterpiece "grieving for the living" is such a common feeling to everyone yet no one has constructed those words before until mother taylor. and cowboy like me????!!! "dancing is a dangerous game" this was so heartstopping !

    • @whos_jackie_anyways_ew
      @whos_jackie_anyways_ew Před rokem +6

      You are so right yesssss

    • @kimberlyndevera2475
      @kimberlyndevera2475 Před rokem +5

      Yessss this line is so powerful

    • @orielwiggins2225
      @orielwiggins2225 Před 9 měsíci +5

      Yes, and a few other meanings. I love when lyrics are so multi faceted, especially when they express such deep heart experiences so well like this!

  • @claricesilva2700
    @claricesilva2700 Před 3 lety +2933

    The saddest thing about this song has to be the last phrase. Because we realize that all these things the narrator is saying,all these thoughts,all these stuff she's saying she could do,she didn't...She just sat there looking at the other person. That is heartbreaking to me,cause in the end,she couldn't do it and she stayed in this horrible relationship. This song shows pretty real life relationships. It's incredibly sad but...really touching.

    • @ferdinandnegron4382
      @ferdinandnegron4382 Před 3 lety +78

      Actually, it’s more about the anxiety of “does he really love me?” rather than a horrible relationship. Taylor wrote this song inspired by “Rebecca” by Daphne Du Maurier, which revolves around a main character suffering from extreme anxiety and wondering every single day if she’s “enough” for the man she married. It’s a great book, one of my favorites, I recommend it. :)

    • @yatyat2791
      @yatyat2791 Před 3 lety +2

      @@ferdinandnegron4382 I wonder if its the show Rebecca on Netflix and the book you're saying is the same?

    • @ferdinandnegron4382
      @ferdinandnegron4382 Před 3 lety +5

      @@yatyat2791 yes, the movie is based on the book :) and it’s pretty loyal. Except the last 5 minutes of the movie haha

    • @joelstabile3064
      @joelstabile3064 Před 3 lety +1

      Its so sad mission accomplished Taylor! If its all in my head tell me now. Whenever someone says is it me? Its never them!

    • @maricormacaraig6089
      @maricormacaraig6089 Před 2 lety +6

      Straight up the story of my parents' life

  • @MssIdoia
    @MssIdoia Před 3 lety +3385

    This song is for all the housewives of artists, poets, musicians, geniuses... wives that will never be remembered in history, that contributed to their husband success by sacrificing their life for them in exchange of nothing..."now I am begging for footnotes in the story of your life"

  • @potatopoet
    @potatopoet Před rokem +2611

    What's painful about this song is that the characters tolerate each other differently. One tolerates the efforts, and one tolerates their one-sided relationship.

    • @painolivesis
      @painolivesis Před 10 měsíci +89

      This hit my core deep. What I have been through, no matter how much conversations i tried to have with him, begged him, he doesn't care or listen. All the conversations turned to blame shifting and arguing no matter how respectful my conversations with him

    • @WeneedmoreGodsinTshirts
      @WeneedmoreGodsinTshirts Před 8 měsíci

      @@painolivesisplease. leave. him.

    • @juliahardy2208
      @juliahardy2208 Před 4 měsíci +30

      i personally think that when she says "but you tolerate it" shes reffering to herself. and also when she says "belive me i could do it" shes trying to convince herself. like hes getting all these things and shes js tolerating not getting any love back yk

    • @anotherstorm
      @anotherstorm Před měsícem

      that is such a beautiful perspective for this song, thank you !@@juliahardy2208

  • @chickenmariah5635
    @chickenmariah5635 Před 2 lety +2836

    I know this song is about a romantic relationship, but i relate so much with other relationships as well. Family and friendships. One puts somuch out there, hungry for unconditional love, only to be tolerated. Whether its out of obligation or need. They take it in, but they dont see you. The effort or the attempt to become closer and more intimate. The love it off. Its just not reciprocal.

    • @weirdcoincidence
      @weirdcoincidence Před rokem +62

      Im so hurt by this perspective

    • @sascha2689
      @sascha2689 Před 11 měsíci +21

      @@mssober3605 literally how i feel rn w my "bsf" 😭

    • @andreamartinez9145
      @andreamartinez9145 Před 9 měsíci +32

      Yes. How I feel with my mom 😢

    • @chickenmariah5635
      @chickenmariah5635 Před 9 měsíci +9

      @andreamartinez9145 im so sorry babes 🩷 keep being strong, and radiate the love thats inside you🩷

    • @ninaelisa13
      @ninaelisa13 Před 8 měsíci +11

      yesss! i relate to this so much with my dad💔

  • @caelynn-raynetaylor7149
    @caelynn-raynetaylor7149 Před 3 lety +3320

    As someone who hasn’t ever been in a relationship, it pains me to relate to this song.

    • @tavleenkaur6164
      @tavleenkaur6164 Před 3 lety +87

      Lol it doesn’t have to be a relationship thing :)

    • @RanDom-lu2gb
      @RanDom-lu2gb Před 3 lety +4

      🙄 🙄 🙄 🙄 🙄

    • @erinruss
      @erinruss Před 3 lety +59

      trust me, being cheated on isn't worth it :( ... but taylor swift writing stuff that expresses my feeling so exactly, kind of makes it okay for a second here and there

    • @gm.8805
      @gm.8805 Před 3 lety +4

      lol same

    • @jaqueline1852
      @jaqueline1852 Před 3 lety +6

      Same here

  • @mochii8501
    @mochii8501 Před 3 lety +6096

    He's not just the one who's tolerating her. But deep inside, she's tolerating the pain that he's putting her through.

  • @damladestina
    @damladestina Před 9 měsíci +454

    i think the most heartbreaking lyrics in this song is “if it’s all in my head tell me now, tell me i’ve got it wrong somehow” because she prefers to losing her mind than being right. she doesn’t want to blame him so she blames herself.

    • @damladestina
      @damladestina Před 9 měsíci +20

      and it seems like she’s victim of a manipulative person

    • @isabellaCastoire5412
      @isabellaCastoire5412 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Absolutely and it's so stressful to think someone could do that to someone as precious as her 😢❤

    • @wherearethemarbles
      @wherearethemarbles Před 2 měsíci +1

      Omg!!!

    • @sparkmie
      @sparkmie Před 2 měsíci +6

      Yeah when the person gives you mixed signals you start second guessing yourself. Is it true or all in your head, and you never get a clear answer😢

  • @jtw.111
    @jtw.111 Před rokem +2416

    This is one of the best songs in her entire discography, honestly. It has her classic storytelling chops that make you visualize everything she's singing about perfectly, and yet it also has such a unique sound.

  • @elizdawn009
    @elizdawn009 Před 3 lety +2173

    “Take this dagger in me and remove it”- you just did that to me, Taylor. This song is pure and utter genius.

    • @MintyPur
      @MintyPur Před 3 lety +1

      Rain On Me💞

    • @cssvange2947
      @cssvange2947 Před 3 lety

      reminded me of rain on me! 😍❤️❤️

    • @StudyLens
      @StudyLens Před 3 lety

      facts! the type of music from folklore and evermore is truly my kind of songs. 😌😌 love her so much ! 💜 btw i make videos on films! i recently made one on ‘Her’ and ‘Queens Gambit’! if you’re interested, please check it out! heart ❤️

    • @gostreamarianagrandepositi425
      @gostreamarianagrandepositi425 Před 3 lety +4

      I love poetry and so Taylor is literally the Shakespeare of our generation. Her lyrics are just so powerful and clever and her voice compliments her writing so well. ✧

    • @robinmartin1517
      @robinmartin1517 Před 3 lety +1

      My dagger was removed at Marjorie 💔💔

  • @marnie185
    @marnie185 Před 3 lety +837

    ILLICIT AFFAIRS AND TOLERATE IT IS A WHOLE DAMN STORY

    • @sandymmc
      @sandymmc Před 3 lety +17

      I thought this was a straightforward love song initially

    • @Megan43210
      @Megan43210 Před 3 lety +2

      Who is it about one!!?!?!?

    • @anggundianita1185
      @anggundianita1185 Před 3 lety +7

      they are sisters ❤️😍

    • @juanbriceno6488
      @juanbriceno6488 Před 3 lety +26

      What if this is the wife being cheated on illicit affairs 🙃

    • @CorinneA3
      @CorinneA3 Před měsícem

      @@juanbriceno6488 ow my feelings

  • @lxg2206
    @lxg2206 Před 10 měsíci +600

    folklore and evermore albums have really made me appreciate taylor's songwriting so much more. i truly became a fan because of these albums. I wouldn't be mad if she made another one with these vibes/lyrics.

  • @catherine.eleanor.3884
    @catherine.eleanor.3884 Před 5 měsíci +206

    I just can’t stop thinking about that repeat lyric at the end.
    The first lyric “I sit and watch you reading with your head low” you can just picture that.
    Then she goes on to describe all the things that have been tolerated by him and her confronting it.
    Then it brings you back to “I sit and watch you” realising she was just thinking about her hurt and imagining the confrontation.
    Ive never seen story telling quite like it. This song is a masterpiece

  • @blaykelouise4027
    @blaykelouise4027 Před 3 lety +2192

    "Now I'm begging for footnotes on the story of your life." 🥺 If that doesn't make you feel even the smallest bit of sadness I-

    • @eliza9304
      @eliza9304 Před 3 lety +44

      Chills went down my effing spine

    • @adamd6674
      @adamd6674 Před 3 lety +45

      The entire song gave me chills

    • @JessicaGrey
      @JessicaGrey Před 3 lety +17

      That part brought tears to my eyes

    • @leeyanthings9606
      @leeyanthings9606 Před 3 lety +11

      BRUH MY REACTION WENT ":0" WHEN I HEARD THAT LINE OXJEUXBSUX THAT SHIT HURTS

    • @renatacerekaite2331
      @renatacerekaite2331 Před 3 lety +10

      In my opinion this is saddest song taylor ever wrote yes I said that

  • @haydenrose3237
    @haydenrose3237 Před 3 lety +1230

    “I know my love should be celebrated, but you tolerate it” DAMN THAT IS DEEP

    • @beautifullyruine4838
      @beautifullyruine4838 Před 3 lety +13

      Literally crying lol🤧

    • @ishikeen
      @ishikeen Před 3 lety +4

      😭😭😭

    • @moshimoshi3148
      @moshimoshi3148 Před 3 lety +3

      ❤️😭❤️😭❤️😭❤️😭❤️😭❤️

    • @norajolley8372
      @norajolley8372 Před 3 lety +4

      I just sent this lyric to a friend that hurts

    • @swiftie9006
      @swiftie9006 Před 3 lety +3

      @@moshimoshi3148 😠❤️😠❤️😠❤️😠❤️😠❤️😠❤️

  • @fairytaleprincess-or1oc
    @fairytaleprincess-or1oc Před 5 měsíci +161

    Evermore and folkore don't get the appreciation they deserve. They are her best albums. End of the story.

    • @crimsoncl9ver
      @crimsoncl9ver Před 5 měsíci +9

      I might agree with Evermore but not with Folklore. That album brought a completely new wave of fans. It became one of her most critically acclaimed and admired works she's ever done. So many people that once underestimated her realized how wrong they were. It won AOTY and it marked the beginning of Taylor's dominance on Spotify.It's also gonna be at top 5 on Billboard 200 this week. Her 3rd highest charting album right after her latest 2 albums (1989 TV+Midnights).Folklore received and keeps receiving all of its flowers by both fans and critics. Evermore, on the other hand, while a lyrical masterpiece and on par with Folklore, lived quite in Folklore's shadow. It came out just a few months after it and it was named its sister. Therefore , it didn't get its chance to shine as an independent body of work and then Fearless TV followed. For the kind of beautiful lyrics and songs it has, it should definitely be more celebrated.

    • @melanieandrews6166
      @melanieandrews6166 Před 4 měsíci +1

      no fr

  • @avi4875
    @avi4875 Před 5 měsíci +72

    I take "use my best colours for your portrait" as she makes him out to be the best she can to others the way we lie to our friends so they don't hate the person we've convinced ourselves that we love.

  • @imtired2983
    @imtired2983 Před 3 lety +2141

    Nobody should ever have to endure a relationship where they are tolerated.

    • @kip001
      @kip001 Před 3 lety +26

      currently what i feel like i’m going through. yay!

    • @aratayuki6238
      @aratayuki6238 Před 3 lety +35

      No one deserves to be in the relationship such as this, but theres so much people through it. They dependent to their spouse economically, and hang on the past romanticism, sad reality

    • @tomasgarcia7499
      @tomasgarcia7499 Před 3 lety +1

      BINGOOOOO

    • @jerrysun0667
      @jerrysun0667 Před 3 lety +5

      @@kip001 me too. My friends take me for granted and rarely cherish me. :( wbu?

    • @Faboostic
      @Faboostic Před 3 lety +7

      @@aratayuki6238 "they dependent to their spouse economically" my mom pays all my father bills and still does it, he doesn't his food on his own plate literally. please don't say this kind of thing, it makes it sound like we are just doing it for money because we can't live without them and honestly it's pretty cruel. it's much more than that, unless you've been there don't say these things and even if you did don't generalize it.

  • @gitikameenakshisundaram1137
    @gitikameenakshisundaram1137 Před 3 lety +4717

    This song sounds like a cycle of a woman's mind, she starts out feeling sad, because her love is only tolerated.
    She knows all too well that if she leaves, their relationship will be in ruins, but if she stays, she will be in ruins. Then she gets brave enough to say, 'I'm leaving, goodbye.' But ultimately at the end of the day, she can't do it. She goes back to sitting and watching him, hoping one day, he will realize how much she loves him. She does not want to give up just yet.

  • @MallieRose91
    @MallieRose91 Před 2 měsíci +52

    This song is painful. I was married 13 years to my high school sweetheart and I remember listening to this song the first time and it was the "theme" song to my life. Begging for attention, time, acknowledgment. Being so excited to see and spend time with him and head over heels in love after all those years regardless of how he treated me and knowing it wasnt the same for him. That he was tolerating me. I felt like I was planning and looking forward to our future while everything he planned was just him. From what he did in his free time to future plans.
    13 years down the drain. He cheated, moved out, married the woman he cheated on me with, moved 12 hours away, and sees our 13 year old son a few times a year. Even though I am happier now than I have ever been, this song brings up so many emotions and bad memories. I will never let another person make me feel that way again.

    • @mleleuterio
      @mleleuterio Před měsícem +6

      Sending you warm hugs with consent. That must have been really tough. 😢

  • @Honeyalmond
    @Honeyalmond Před rokem +406

    As an adopted child who has lost her birth parents by abandonment and adoptive parents due to their abusive problems, this really hit me. Always felt like I took too much space and time. No matter how beautiful portrait I drew of them to others it didn't matter. I gained the weight of them and lost it. I feel unwanted and just tolerated in so many ways. 💔

    • @editsforlife3308
      @editsforlife3308 Před rokem +27

      You're loved ! You are not alone . Stay strong , love ya

    • @wvbss
      @wvbss Před 11 měsíci +2

      same!!

    • @SH-vj2ce
      @SH-vj2ce Před 8 měsíci +7

      You are worthy!!!! ❤

    • @HalluCinogen91
      @HalluCinogen91 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Omg yes this song is so parent-child coded

    • @LindaDavis-iq9zj
      @LindaDavis-iq9zj Před 4 měsíci +3

      "Who says ...?" Keep cycling this song in your ... heart. Taylor has mastered the path to keep us above.

  • @elizabethborg659
    @elizabethborg659 Před 3 lety +1171

    She really had the AUDACITY to bless us twice in the same year. We really don’t deserve this Taylor.

    • @lazerwolf6558
      @lazerwolf6558 Před 3 lety +4

      We truly don't

    • @lazerwolf6558
      @lazerwolf6558 Před 3 lety

      @unoriginal memes Wait, I thought Lover was 2019

    • @StudyLens
      @StudyLens Před 3 lety +1

      AS SHE SHOULD hahaha love her so much ! 💜 btw i make videos on films! i recently made one on ‘Her’ and ‘Queens Gambit’! if you’re interested, please check it out! heart ❤️

    • @joshwilliams5860
      @joshwilliams5860 Před 3 lety

      @unoriginal memes Lover was 2019 so it’s still two

    • @xena5290
      @xena5290 Před 3 lety +1

      @@joshwilliams5860 ya but the person is saying that it hasn't been exactly a year since lover was relesed so 3 albums in a year

  • @1308Aditi
    @1308Aditi Před 3 lety +8015

    Us not over folklore yet.
    Taylor Swift: Here's evermore. tolerate it

  • @marialove9991
    @marialove9991 Před 5 měsíci +41

    The fact that the song begins and ends with the words "I sit and watch you" shows how the narrator is contemplating the relationship, while actually breaking free is painfully real.

  • @johnquach8821
    @johnquach8821 Před 11 měsíci +178

    While this song may be fictional, I think it hits very different now that "You're Losing Me" has come out. I feel like this song has become even sadder now.

    • @hafsamuhammed1990
      @hafsamuhammed1990 Před 11 měsíci +12

      And it’s way sadder than ‘you’re losing me’ I never for once believed this song was fictional. This is real life

    • @alessandragastal2341
      @alessandragastal2341 Před 11 měsíci +6

      Its not fictional

    • @alisalis9601
      @alisalis9601 Před 9 měsíci

      She wrote it about john mayef i guess , no ?

  • @gabrielehibbitts9286
    @gabrielehibbitts9286 Před 3 lety +2751

    This song sounds like what hurt feels like. No one translates an emotion into a song better than Taylor Swift

  • @deltacat27
    @deltacat27 Před 3 lety +1362

    Why is nobody talking about the bridge in this song? Gives me chills every time. 🥺

    • @hebaarmy1698
      @hebaarmy1698 Před 3 lety +15

      Literally goosebumps

    • @abpoet
      @abpoet Před 3 lety +12

      Sameeee If It wasn't 1 am I'd scream that lyrics so loud

    • @kristihorner1457
      @kristihorner1457 Před 3 lety +2

      Seriously.

    • @lalaland4059
      @lalaland4059 Před 3 lety +42

      Yesss omg especially the “I made you my temple, my mural, my sky. Now I’m begging for footnotes in the story of your life.” Like?????😭

    • @deltacat27
      @deltacat27 Před 3 lety +3

      @Lalaland sameeee that part is just 🥺🥺😭

  • @CountryCowboy008
    @CountryCowboy008 Před 8 měsíci +135

    This song has made me realise that you should NEVER settle for anything less in love. You give all because you love someone in the way that you should expect everything from someone who claims that they love you.

    • @Heartbrokentjones89
      @Heartbrokentjones89 Před 8 měsíci +3

      So true I’m just figuring this all out and have barely been away for a week. And I’m realizing he doesn’t love me the way he said and I’m not ok with it and I don’t want to settle

  • @SusanaBlanco-co2vb
    @SusanaBlanco-co2vb Před 2 měsíci +19

    Maturing is realizing that some friendships can feel like this song. You give all but end up walking behind them trying to fit in and listening to their conversations

  • @-LeenSaudTabbakh
    @-LeenSaudTabbakh Před 3 lety +3004

    I know this song is about a woman and her husband...but I feel like it applies to everyone who loves, who loves so deeply and greatly, who love with everything they have, who give everything they have to those who they love yet watch as they receive nothing in return. It’s about the battle in our minds, the battle of wether or not we’re making it up and it’s all inside our heads or if it really is real. But we still continue to give our all, not because we’re to stubborn to belive that it’s real but because we hope one day that one person will come and celebrate our love....

    • @mlancholia3920
      @mlancholia3920 Před 3 lety +43

      this comment hurt me so much cuz I’ve been there before :(

    • @dominicarloss
      @dominicarloss Před 3 lety +58

      i’m going through this right now, like i will listen to my friends talk about something that i’m not as interested in and still listen but if i talk about my stuff i’m ignored, or if i made a mistake i’m scolded and yelled at but if someone makes a mistake i forgive them, and i feel as tho the people who give the love and respect that they do, those people lose their own and i’m one of them

    • @Boo-bc8jd
      @Boo-bc8jd Před 3 lety +5

      Yes all that I am going through!

    • @DrDeusExMachina
      @DrDeusExMachina Před 3 lety +22

      Describes any relationship with a toxic narcissist. Leaving is the only option.

    • @xosammyj09
      @xosammyj09 Před 3 lety +49

      I agree, and the first time I heard it I actually pictured a father/daughter relationship. Seems like she's vying for love and attention from someone she thinks so highly of. She puts this person up on a pedestal and makes them sound very heroic, like a dad figure. She paints such a positive picture of this person, yet they merely tolerate her love and praise for them. Could be some kind of paternal relationship. Just a thought!

  • @hadya8518
    @hadya8518 Před 3 lety +5104

    the way she starts the song with ''i sit and watch u'' and ends it with ''i sit and watch u'' shows how this song represents the thoughts of the narrator and what she wished she could do

    • @chrisfrierson4578
      @chrisfrierson4578 Před 2 lety +316

      …or that she has all of these feelings inside, but she hasn’t gone anywhere because she is still sitting there watching him.

    • @brookealexis5262
      @brookealexis5262 Před 2 lety +10

      one of her other songs does that too but I forget which one

    • @Krysni
      @Krysni Před 2 lety +21

      @@brookealexis5262 is it cornelia street?
      It also started and ended with "I rent a place on Cornelia Street"
      I say casually in the car"

    • @gsiya4023
      @gsiya4023 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Krysni but in cornelia street , he meets her before she turns around

    • @keshneeg972
      @keshneeg972 Před 2 lety +52

      @@brookealexis5262 gold rush too starts and ends with eyes like sinking ships on water, i almost jump in” meaning it is endless loop of again reminding her that she cannot be with that person but cannot resist looking away from that person’s beauty again no matter the bad consequences

  • @alygootee2978
    @alygootee2978 Před rokem +121

    Those who say this women isn’t a true artist need to listen to her songs. Not just the ones on the radio, but these songs. The lyrics hit so hard all of lyrics do.

  • @noha625
    @noha625 Před 10 měsíci +168

    The lyrics go on as a loop, that's very phenomenal from her to do.
    Sometimes you recognize that your love is being taken for granted or you are treated like shit in the relationship, but you can't break free and end it because you have nowhere else to go to.
    She is just so aware of her situation but at the end, she chooses to stay.

    • @damladestina
      @damladestina Před 9 měsíci +6

      i think the other person in the song is manipulative

  • @katie.beattie
    @katie.beattie Před 3 lety +2850

    taylor miss girl i have a test tomorrow and i won’t be able to think

  • @myracastillo8773
    @myracastillo8773 Před 3 lety +3164

    I think this is one of the best songs she’s ever written...I’ve been a fan since Tim McGraw, and I am SO moved.

    • @savannah-pm1zj
      @savannah-pm1zj Před 3 lety +52

      one of my favs EVER. this touched me soso deeply.

    • @amandaxcookie
      @amandaxcookie Před 3 lety +33

      This touches me on every level. I am in awe of this pure beauty and raw realness

    • @elizdawn009
      @elizdawn009 Před 3 lety +18

      Left me in tears.

    • @myracastillo8773
      @myracastillo8773 Před 3 lety +17

      Like I feel like she somehow has a window into MY life, that’s how much I relate! But that’s really the beauty of her writing, to be able to connect so well. Ugh, I love her.

    • @fhelynjayteves9916
      @fhelynjayteves9916 Před 3 lety +10

      I just can't stop sobbing 😭😭😭😭

  • @roberthoward6590
    @roberthoward6590 Před 27 dny +7

    The heart of a poet of distinction who uses her singing voice to deliver messages of profound significance.

  • @mamasylvia67ify
    @mamasylvia67ify Před 25 dny +11

    This song became therapy for me. I stayed in a relationship for way too long..... not that it was horribly bad, but more that it had become nothing. I finally had the courage to move on, and found in that time, I do have something to offer someone. That my love and time could be cherished by someone. It took me a long time to be able to sing that bridge without breaking down into tears because it hit so hard that I had done exactly what she sang.....I broke free and left us in ruins, took the dagger in me and removed, had gained the weight of him then lost it, I DID THAT. In return, I have gained a love, acceptance, someone who does cherish me and who will listen when we're having a conversation. I related so much to this woman in this song and would encourage anyone, who is feeling the way this woman is in their own relationship, to get up and move on. It will be difficult but the reward is amazing.

    • @kellypowell8733
      @kellypowell8733 Před 14 dny +2

      You are so inspiring. Would love to talk more to you about your courage. I wish I had as much courage as you 😔

    • @ola171
      @ola171 Před 11 dny

      ​@@kellypowell8733YOU DO!❤
      Your love deserves to be cherished ❤

  • @monicamonteparte2049
    @monicamonteparte2049 Před 3 lety +1947

    This reminds me of an emotionally abusive relationship where you're meant to feel grateful that the other person lets you exist with them.

    • @HannahPenaflor
      @HannahPenaflor Před 3 lety +50

      I just finished watching The Crown and somehow this reminded me of Prince Charles and Princess Diana's story, which we know how tragic and toxic it is like how you described it. I wonder tho 🤡🤡🤡🤡 maybe Taylor watched The Crown and write a song about it hahaha🤡🤡🤡.

    • @rohabalikhan8949
      @rohabalikhan8949 Před 3 lety +20

      Yes Princess Diana and Charles

    • @leesha1674
      @leesha1674 Před 3 lety +10

      Yes, and this happens in many relationships presently, it happened to me

    • @DeniseSantos-qe5ee
      @DeniseSantos-qe5ee Před 3 lety +3

      Facts

    • @jollyjokress3852
      @jollyjokress3852 Před 3 lety +1

      John Mayer?

  • @nivagraciellesamonte3588
    @nivagraciellesamonte3588 Před 3 lety +12708

    Normal people: I made you my priority and you're just making me an option
    Taylor: "I made you my temple, my mural, my sky. Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life"

  • @katenicholson4152
    @katenicholson4152 Před rokem +85

    This is how being with someone with a dismissive avoidant attachment will lead you to feeling; in the beginning they’re crazy about you but a year later you feel tolerated even after you’ve made every effort and loved them, they resent you for your needs. You overexert yourself emotionally, carry all of the emotional weight of conflict management, give them your best, and they just sit there stonewalling. Played this song while taking a bath at his home knowing we would be broken up soon. There’s something hauntingly beautiful about that; the person in the next room over and they have not the slightest grasp of the pain they’re inflicting with their walls up. 💔

    • @nicolemasucci2519
      @nicolemasucci2519 Před rokem +3

      Same girl same…..in the tub crying now, knowing I’m finally about to pack my things

    • @katenicholson4152
      @katenicholson4152 Před rokem +2

      @@nicolemasucci2519 I got the chills reading your comment. Hugs to you as you embark on this new journey. Almost 3 months later and I don’t cry like I used to. It gets better 🤍 Let the water wash over you like a cleansing ritual as you move into the next chapter. 💙

    • @nicolemasucci2519
      @nicolemasucci2519 Před rokem

      @@katenicholson4152 thank you, I need all the strength I can get right now….but I know this HAS to happen or I’m going to just wither away into nothing

    • @katenicholson4152
      @katenicholson4152 Před rokem +4

      @@nicolemasucci2519 you sound just like me. I was having nightmares and anxiety attacks by the end. More sensitive people just can’t manage dismissive partners who won’t communicate.

    • @swiftie6156
      @swiftie6156 Před 2 měsíci

      I'm a dismissive avoid and yes I've treated my exes like this

  • @ivetesilveiradeandrade4801
    @ivetesilveiradeandrade4801 Před rokem +105

    this song hits different when you relate it to your relationship with your dad

  • @wonderllama3584
    @wonderllama3584 Před 3 lety +737

    This song hurts to relate specially if you were in a relationship with a person who was falling out of love with you.

    • @yayasssamminna
      @yayasssamminna Před 3 lety +12

      That's where i am rn.

    • @adrianelias2365
      @adrianelias2365 Před 3 lety +4

      Hope it gets better for you.

    • @sophiescalf2817
      @sophiescalf2817 Před 3 lety +5

      exactly. it hits home.

    • @wonderllama3584
      @wonderllama3584 Před 3 lety

      It's been three months, since we broke up we're friends today. Guys it gets better. Remember to take care of yourselves first

    • @yayasssamminna
      @yayasssamminna Před 3 lety

      It does, but it just wrecks you first.

  • @tazkiananini4942
    @tazkiananini4942 Před 3 lety +2130

    Normal People: "I want you to remember me."
    Taylor Swift: "Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life."

    • @t.ris_
      @t.ris_ Před 2 lety +57

      It's about being ✨ e x t r a ✨

    • @neelamafroz3370
      @neelamafroz3370 Před 2 lety +60

      *say u'll remember me* enters the chat😂😂

    • @asdfgkelly7806
      @asdfgkelly7806 Před 2 lety +6

      @@neelamafroz3370 HAHAHAHAH 😭😭

    • @KeepCalmContemplateYourChoices
      @KeepCalmContemplateYourChoices Před rokem +6

      @@t.ris_ looking at you, "your midas touch on the chevy door, november flush and your flannel cure"

    • @darraghcollins1374
      @darraghcollins1374 Před rokem +5

      I thought that line was she wanted to know more about the person like she’s begging for the story of his life ???

  • @oliviabirch1025
    @oliviabirch1025 Před rokem +242

    Underrated. I loved this song for years. Just left a 4 year relationship with the man I wanted as a soulmate but he was on a path I couldn't follow. So I'm alone sobbing listening to this song now with a whole new meaning

    • @tynielsen
      @tynielsen Před rokem +2

      ♥️🫶🏻

    • @mariamkadhimm
      @mariamkadhimm Před rokem +4

      It will be okay trust me

    • @FraniRani
      @FraniRani Před 10 měsíci +7

      5 years here and this song has been such a help to me...

    • @kh07gl
      @kh07gl Před 9 měsíci +5

      I wish you all the best. I just got divorced and it was my first relationship so I understand honestly. But we’ll be okay

    • @remueldignos7144
      @remueldignos7144 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Your story has a "Midnight Rain" vibes. Stay strong, Olivia!

  • @yasminmagdy9749
    @yasminmagdy9749 Před 8 měsíci +30

    "if it's all in my head tell me now"
    She's begging him to gaslight her, he doesn't even care enough to gaslight her.

  • @elishanabong9597
    @elishanabong9597 Před 3 lety +1235

    HOLY TRINITY OF THE ALBUM: CHAMPAGNE PROBLEMS, TOLERATE IT, AND HAPPINESS

  • @evermore1345
    @evermore1345 Před 3 lety +7543

    Taylor's ability to write such a melancholic song while she's totally in love with someone is really appreciating. Like she gets inspired and writes masterpieces. Amazing queen.

    • @lynnemc1424
      @lynnemc1424 Před 2 lety +98

      I think the song is about her relationship with Joe. Like it went from Paper Rings to Tolerate It. Only a thought.

    • @evermore1345
      @evermore1345 Před 2 lety +329

      @@lynnemc1424 no no wait you're getting it wrong. Not every song that she writes has to be about her life. She made it clear that with folklore and evermore, she got the chance to narrate stories from other people's perspectives. "Tolerate it" isn't about her life. She is happy with him.

    • @FervidlyCurious
      @FervidlyCurious Před 2 lety +13

      @@lynnemc1424 Yea i feel the same… and it’s breaking my heart .. i want to see her happily Married already ♥️🎁

    • @naziatislam1149
      @naziatislam1149 Před 2 lety +77

      @@lynnemc1424 Then champagne problems? Do you think she rejected Joe's proposal and broke up with him too? And what about long story short which is literally her reflecting on how he saved her from a life of hate and constantly plotting revenge against those who harmed her? And happiness is about divorce even though she's not married. The lead single is about her finally finding the one she's looking for aka joe. Evermore and folklore are albums full of stories. Each song tells a different one. You can tell which songs are about Joe and which are not.
      (I'm not mad. I sound aggressive over test but I was just sharing my reply lol sorry)

    • @ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVRALPS
      @ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVRALPS Před 2 lety +27

      @@lynnemc1424 nope. Joe wrote Betty, champagne problems, and exile which are also heartbreaking songs

  • @ruthgomez885
    @ruthgomez885 Před rokem +36

    This is the opposite of “Sweet Nothing”. A true revolution of her maturity, and type of love. 🥺❤️

  • @Isabella0274
    @Isabella0274 Před rokem +104

    Literally I have never seen a musical artist this creative and dedicated to their craft. She is truly the music industry and deserves every bit of her success.

  • @upscaleavenue
    @upscaleavenue Před 3 lety +1879

    "Took this dagger in me and removed it, gain the weight of you, then lose it."
    I'm speechless. These are some of the most beautiful lyrics I have ever heard.

    • @DemiJonas4Life
      @DemiJonas4Life Před 3 lety +9

      What does she mean by the “gain the weight of you, then lose it” ??

    • @upscaleavenue
      @upscaleavenue Před 3 lety +52

      @@DemiJonas4Life It's hard to say. It's one of those lyrics that can be interpreted in many different ways. I think of it as the narrator being very affected by the life of the person she's singing about, and then not being affected by them anymore and becoming unassociated with it.

    • @savannahwhite5121
      @savannahwhite5121 Před 3 lety +45

      @@DemiJonas4Life to me, it means she's feeling the weight of what that person did to her (the acceptance that he hurt her) and then she's able to move past it and be free of it

    • @aratayuki6238
      @aratayuki6238 Před 3 lety +20

      @@DemiJonas4Life to me its like sometimes when in that place, people tends to pretends that their okay, but I need to face it, to feel the weight of it, and then lose it, thus be free from it.

    • @JF-ct5sg
      @JF-ct5sg Před 3 lety +13

      when she said remove the dagger I cringed bc medically that would make the bleeding worse lol sorry I’m too literal

  • @jadejohnson3144
    @jadejohnson3144 Před 3 lety +416

    This song needs a damn warning label on it 😭

    • @odile8701
      @odile8701 Před 3 lety +28

      She did put a warning label on it! It’s track five, after all!

    • @nailarahmaputri9505
      @nailarahmaputri9505 Před 3 lety +9

      @@odile8701 track 5 plus the title is already a giveaway, like i know you will cry, break down whatever listening to this but just TOLERATE IT lol

  • @youareallfeckinboring
    @youareallfeckinboring Před rokem +223

    I cannot afford to listen to this song that much because it perfectly describes the relationship of my parents and I just sit and watch them but I admit that its genius lyricism and captivating storytelling made it deserving to be placed up there the pedestal of Taylor’s repertoire.

    • @user-cd7uf7to5m
      @user-cd7uf7to5m Před 10 měsíci +5

      WELL WHOMEVER WROTE THIS COMMENT, YOU'RE A BIT OF A LYRICIST YOURSELF... WELL EDUCATED WITH A NICE VOCABULARY FOR SHO'!!
      JUST COMPLIMENTING YOUR VERBAGE ON YOUR COMMENT HERE, FRIEND!!!
      BLESSINGS TO YOU!!! 👍💪🫶🙏🤠🥰

    • @chael360
      @chael360 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Same here

  • @itswarda123
    @itswarda123 Před 3 lety +756

    The writing is exquisite . Taylor’s songwriting is at its peak right now . I want her to write a novel I reckon the prose would be so lyrical and stunning .

    • @ivymural9201
      @ivymural9201 Před 3 lety +5

      I couldn't agree with anything more!!!

    • @katelindsey7336
      @katelindsey7336 Před 3 lety +9

      Yess definitely need that. I’m still stunned at these lyrics. I love her sad songs the most and this album is full of them

    • @voxtur__7
      @voxtur__7 Před 3 lety +26

      When i heard folklore, i thought her lyricism couldn't get any better but she proved me wrong with evermore. Taylor's artistry is limitless.

    • @ZacLJones
      @ZacLJones Před 3 lety +8

      It really is quite nice and experimental of her. I've never heard her write a song in 5/4 time (though "Closure" also is), but this one could technically be in 5/8 time, but either way 5 beats in a measure is always tricky to make sound natural and she did it. The first 4 notes of the piano being dotted quarter notes and the next being on the actual beat is very misleading and creative.
      & it's also quite an emotional song on top of the technical side of things. I love the way the end of each verse goes perfectly back into the chorus.

    • @ishanabasnett
      @ishanabasnett Před 2 lety

      i must say, each line feels like a masterpiece.2020's albums were so beautifully written.

  • @kavyasahu6893
    @kavyasahu6893 Před 3 lety +11883

    Taylor swift is not singing a song, she is singing poetry...PERIODT!!

  • @dhanakbhat3626
    @dhanakbhat3626 Před 18 dny +6

    Anyone listening to tolerate it in April 2024 while patiently waiting for TTPD to release???
    Less than a week till we get to hear TTPD. Im so excited!!!

  • @jenniferthecloud1475
    @jenniferthecloud1475 Před 8 měsíci +13

    The fact that the melodies of "watch you tolerate it" and "at least im trying" from TIMT keeps me awake

  • @smartalec1991
    @smartalec1991 Před 3 lety +619

    This song is so deserving to be track 5. The lyrics sure hurt.

    • @seaheart8510
      @seaheart8510 Před 3 lety +11

      True, i always look first for the 5 track of her albums cause i know she is going to make it hurt and i love it

    • @natasyafputri
      @natasyafputri Před 3 lety +3

      Isnt this track 5?

    • @riar7754
      @riar7754 Před 3 lety +1

      @@natasyafputri yes, it's track 5,idk so much meaning of her track 5, her lyrics brought so many interpretation especially at this one😭

  • @brandon8419
    @brandon8419 Před 3 lety +1641

    This may be one the the best songs Taylor has ever written... and that’s saying something as she’s a prolific songwriter as it is. This song is so beautifully haunting. The lyrics in the bridge are just incredible

  • @lehendrix93
    @lehendrix93 Před 10 měsíci +98

    I just really can’t understand how there’s someone on this earth talented enough to write these lyrics. This is her best song by far. 🤯

    • @AdamGYodaWars
      @AdamGYodaWars Před 9 měsíci +1

      Not her best song ever lol

    • @blinkiuuuu
      @blinkiuuuu Před 9 měsíci +4

      Her best song is definitely ATW 10 minute version, but this is factually one of Evermore's strongest track

    • @AdamGYodaWars
      @AdamGYodaWars Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@blinkiuuuu agreed

  • @hurri4070
    @hurri4070 Před 2 lety +145

    that line 'believe me i could do it' is so inspiring and so powerful (even though hopeless). i wish that she finds courage to break free in time

  • @iolandadbn
    @iolandadbn Před 3 lety +531

    loving someone with your whole heart while they just tolerate you is a whole different kind of hurt

    • @evelyngarcia7430
      @evelyngarcia7430 Před 3 lety +2

      Fr 🥲🥲

    • @fizzinsoda
      @fizzinsoda Před 2 lety +18

      it happens so much too, they think there being nice by like, not removing you from their life, but it's so the opposite

  • @dinosaur___7209
    @dinosaur___7209 Před 3 lety +766

    The tone of her voice when she says “tolerate it”, I-

    • @aarya4627
      @aarya4627 Před 3 lety +6

      Ikr!!😭😭

    • @odile8701
      @odile8701 Před 3 lety

      The pain in that word is something else

  • @kinleyjohnson7252
    @kinleyjohnson7252 Před 6 měsíci +17

    This hurts me most from a friendship perspective. Giving everything and just being tolerated instead of loved back. One of Taylor’s best in my opinion ❤

  • @Bear-Fam
    @Bear-Fam Před 2 lety +30

    Anyone else think when she says "believe me I can do it" she's really trying to convince herself she can do it and not actually him? That's how I hear it.

    • @jeisondiasf
      @jeisondiasf Před 2 lety +1

      I think she's telling it to the guy that she can do it (but I don't think she's saying this literally to him. She's probably just thinking about)

  • @mariejosefinacastillo9385
    @mariejosefinacastillo9385 Před 3 lety +25444

    bold of her to assume i'm mentally stable enough to listen to this

  • @martakonopacka7214
    @martakonopacka7214 Před 3 lety +2886

    After 5 years I finally broke free and left us in ruins. I removed the dagger and I lost the weight of him. Thank you Taylor.

    • @CarlosAlberto-jl5zz
      @CarlosAlberto-jl5zz Před 3 lety +37

      😭😭😭😭

    • @cristinagerencser8343
      @cristinagerencser8343 Před 2 lety +9

      @@lovegracemagbojos4277 we can. One moment at a time.

    • @illelnihlls6538
      @illelnihlls6538 Před 2 lety +7

      Much love for u ♡♡♡

    • @kittylei_
      @kittylei_ Před 2 lety

      oh no- )):

    • @aangelswiftiee
      @aangelswiftiee Před 2 lety +40

      I just did it too. It hurt a lot at the beginning, but I’m so much happier. I’m free. I thought I couldn’t live without him…Turns out I totally can. Never felt this calm and safe.

  • @Lattes777
    @Lattes777 Před měsícem +5

    Stuck in a relationship like this. He tolerates my effort, I tolerate the fact that I'm the only one putting the effort😢

  • @lizzy6847
    @lizzy6847 Před 2 lety +58

    i break down everytime i listen this song because there’s always someone in my life who makes me feel like this.

  • @hanasjust
    @hanasjust Před 3 lety +318

    at the end, when she sings "I sit and watch you" and you realize she tolerates being tolerated while she wishes to be celebrated.

    • @colleenxo88
      @colleenxo88 Před 3 lety +1

      😭😔

    • @coding6409
      @coding6409 Před 3 lety

      no it signifies that it's a cycle and same thing repeats with her

  • @KatieTracy
    @KatieTracy Před 3 lety +23017

    can taylor publish a poetry collection please

  • @ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVRALPS
    @ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVRALPS Před rokem +18

    I love how the song gradually gets faster at the end when the story becomes more complicated

  • @josue_tv
    @josue_tv Před rokem +17

    evermore deserved that grammy

  • @ayahsaeed8787
    @ayahsaeed8787 Před 3 lety +7756

    how did taylor swift come up with “you assume i’m fine but what would you do if I break free and leave us in ruins? took this dagger in my and removed it? gain the weight of you then lose it? believe me I could do it” like WHO WRITES THAT

    • @beckyl3852
      @beckyl3852 Před 3 lety +509

      A lyrical genius

    • @vtrbc
      @vtrbc Před 3 lety +334

      her mind... it amazes me everytime

    • @ayushreebarman5878
      @ayushreebarman5878 Před 3 lety +256

      I think you forgot, SHE IS TAYLOR SWIFT, HER MIND IS OUT OF THIS WORLD

    • @ayahsaeed8787
      @ayahsaeed8787 Před 3 lety +42

      @@ayushreebarman5878 True

    • @LifewithKrystle
      @LifewithKrystle Před 3 lety +63

      Yeah that lyric hits hard every time.

  • @parishmitaroyy
    @parishmitaroyy Před 3 lety +1706

    Future Literature classes will be Taylor's music and I bet

    • @veronicatoebben215
      @veronicatoebben215 Před 3 lety +76

      My literature class I’m in is actually listening to this in conjunction with Rebecca and Gothic literature in general.

    • @starbucksmocha88
      @starbucksmocha88 Před 3 lety +9

      @@veronicatoebben215 whoa that's awesome!

    • @janeausten6078
      @janeausten6078 Před 3 lety

      👏👏👏

    • @shootingstar3107
      @shootingstar3107 Před 3 lety +1

      Wow 😮

    • @elizzybec
      @elizzybec Před 3 lety +38

      That's actually true. I just assigned "Epiphany" as part of our poetry unit. I teach Senior English in high school. So much to unpack, these songs are gems for us English teachers.

  • @PreppyJewelryandmore
    @PreppyJewelryandmore Před 9 měsíci +7

    Taylor’s acting skills for this song at the eras tour was top notch

  • @ashvithayogarajah4353
    @ashvithayogarajah4353 Před 4 měsíci +12

    i will never understand how people can hate on evermore so much its one of the best albums taylor has written ever and it cuts so much deeper than folklore. i will forever protect evermore with my whole heart

  • @ayahsaeed8787
    @ayahsaeed8787 Před 3 lety +597

    💬 | “When I was reading Rebecca by Daphne Du Maurier and I was thinking, ‘Wow, her husband just tolerates her. She’s doing all these things and she’s trying so hard and she’s trying to impress him. He’s just tolerating her the whole time.’” - Taylor on writing.

    • @aditibisht22
      @aditibisht22 Před 3 lety +2

      Oh

    • @PM-rp4bl
      @PM-rp4bl Před 3 lety +22

      this is a maxim de winter hate account now

    • @jacobang7660
      @jacobang7660 Před 3 lety +4

      @@PM-rp4bl well to be fair she only focuses on one aspect of the whole story, maxim was pretty ok in my opinion, Rebecca tho

    • @PM-rp4bl
      @PM-rp4bl Před 3 lety +9

      @@jacobang7660 mmm nah i feel like maxim was just as much of a scumbag

  • @user-dd1hc3ms3q
    @user-dd1hc3ms3q Před 3 lety +3625

    This song feels like the inner thoughts of a woman who subtly wants to end her unhealthy relationship with a guy who treats her like shit, but she kinda knows that she's too weak to actually break up with him. That's why the last phrase is "I sit and watch you" because no matter how much she wants to end it, she can never bring herself to actually do it, so she just ends up tolerating it.
    edit: I know that the song is pretty clear with its lyrics that it is the guy tolerating the girl, I was just kinda playing with my words 😅 like maybe, they're both tolerating each other. The guy tolerates her love, while the girl tolerates the guy who is tolerating her love.
    And to all the people in the comment section saying that they're going through this exact same situation, I hope you all find the courage and strength to leave and free yourselves from these toxic and unhealthy relationships. I know its hard and it takes time, but I know you will all get there soon. And to the people who've gone through this situation, I hope you all heal from these toxic relationships. One day, you will all find someone who will not anymore tolerate your love, but someone who is wholeheartedly willing to celebrate your love. ❤️

    • @taylorxxx8374
      @taylorxxx8374 Před 3 lety +167

      And you just know that she’s faking it when she says “believe me i can do it”

    • @absfairabbyfouts7099
      @absfairabbyfouts7099 Před 3 lety +102

      You did NOT have to call me out like that

    • @kenjcruz8002
      @kenjcruz8002 Před 3 lety +56

      Im not in a relationship but this hurt me 😅😭

    • @randomly1354
      @randomly1354 Před 3 lety +10

      Same thoughts, same feeling.💔❤️

    • @mienetattoo
      @mienetattoo Před 3 lety +39

      This sounds like a relationship with a father

  • @networkerfan
    @networkerfan Před 24 dny +7

    this is such an underrated Taylor Swift song

  • @tripleaaa6359
    @tripleaaa6359 Před 11 měsíci +16

    My father is a successful person in music. He tolerates everything my mother does. She does everything just to please him. She neglected everyone... even herself. just to beg him for footnotes in the story of his life. But now I’m glad she took this dagger in her and removed it, and recognized her worth. she doesn’t just sit and watch him. So yea this song hits so deep.

    • @imjustafrog1
      @imjustafrog1 Před 10 dny

      that’s one of the saddest comments ive seen on here. but at least she recognized it and left. so, happy ending…?

  • @xocarleeryan
    @xocarleeryan Před 3 lety +8435

    It’s not Taylor Swift that deserves a Grammy, it’s a grammy that deserves Taylor Swift .

    • @HannahPenaflor
      @HannahPenaflor Před 3 lety +74

      If she didn't win AOTY/SOTY, Grammys is SCAMMYS!

    • @chaoticbeeha
      @chaoticbeeha Před 3 lety +78

      Grammy awards are corrupted. She deserves much more than that!

    • @Miley-vk1sw
      @Miley-vk1sw Před 3 lety +22

      She deserves all awards possible!!!

    • @preranar8176
      @preranar8176 Před 3 lety +46

      The Grammys don't deserve Taylor tho

    • @suhaniiiii_
      @suhaniiiii_ Před 3 lety +47

      @@HannahPenaflor They are already scammys.
      They literally nominated Changes and yummy over After Hours and Blinding Lights.
      They let Billie win over Ariana.
      They didn't nominate Reputation.

  • @saiynasaad3556
    @saiynasaad3556 Před 3 lety +1057

    ‘The crown’ should get this for background for princess D and Charles scenes.

  • @Brooklyn-ob2bq
    @Brooklyn-ob2bq Před rokem +12

    “take this dagger in me and remove it.” CRYINF

  • @Nazkayasuna
    @Nazkayasuna Před rokem +11

    I feel like this song written for Princess Diana.The song matches everything about Diana's life

  • @lyra2349
    @lyra2349 Před 3 lety +1699

    No one:
    Taylor: hey guys, I'm gonna release two albums this year!

    • @user-sf8ne7ot8q
      @user-sf8ne7ot8q Před 3 lety +14

      @@wut6251 let them be, why are you mad? lmao

    • @yusuferyani8517
      @yusuferyani8517 Před 3 lety +4

      @@user-sf8ne7ot8q agree

    • @sel7758
      @sel7758 Před 3 lety +4

      I love this comment even if it’s repeated so many times lol

    • @rghistandvids
      @rghistandvids Před 3 lety +1

      @@user-sf8ne7ot8q it is considered as spam comments which leads to freezing of vi3ws

    • @wut6251
      @wut6251 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lyra2349 hmm ok. It's really annoying that there are so many copied comment and so many ppl keep spamming the same comment. I'm gonna delete my comment :)

  • @lucyfreund1315
    @lucyfreund1315 Před 3 lety +880

    for someone who hasnt listened to this song yet, here's a summary: listen to this when you cry...to cry more

    • @shi_.
      @shi_. Před 3 lety +10

      no the song I use for that purpose is epiphany

    • @lindsaynguyen99
      @lindsaynguyen99 Před 3 lety +7

      I actually did cry listening to this song 😭😭😭

    • @yogeshwark3905
      @yogeshwark3905 Před 3 lety +3

      I was listening to all the songs of Evermore and halfway through this song, I just couldn't hold it in anymore. 😭

    • @davidi1208
      @davidi1208 Před 3 lety +1

      I fell asleep 😴

    • @aarushikishore1417
      @aarushikishore1417 Před 3 lety +1

      @@shi_. I use almost every song from folklore and will do the same for evermore

  • @tasneemphalasiya533
    @tasneemphalasiya533 Před 2 měsíci +8

    The moment when you realise the most saddest song is the most relatable song for you.

  • @filipabalic1748
    @filipabalic1748 Před 11 měsíci +15

    This is my comfort song.I feel safe and understood whenever I listen to it

  • @angelinebena9675
    @angelinebena9675 Před 3 lety +5879

    Unpopular opinion: this is the best song in the album

    • @brynnneumann5983
      @brynnneumann5983 Před 3 lety +125

      It really is.

    • @brynnneumann5983
      @brynnneumann5983 Před 3 lety +114

      How can other people not see it? So beautiful...

    • @isabelleaprigio6827
      @isabelleaprigio6827 Před 3 lety +151

      It’s one of the best lyrics she’s ever written

    • @chloew1226
      @chloew1226 Před 3 lety +73

      This and Coney Island 😔

    • @lalaland4059
      @lalaland4059 Před 3 lety +100

      The lyrics are literally sooo poetic, sooo painful, sooo relatable, sooo beautiful.

  • @ajsembrano6635
    @ajsembrano6635 Před 3 lety +2632

    'I made you my temple, my mural, my sky. Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life'
    When you make someone your whole world but to them you are almost non-existent. May no one experience such tragedy😔

    • @zuwaerediauwa4362
      @zuwaerediauwa4362 Před 3 lety +20

      Umm too late🥺🥺😭

    • @kav_x2562
      @kav_x2562 Před 3 lety +16

      too late bro

    • @julieannefernando7499
      @julieannefernando7499 Před 3 lety +26

      Just cried cause this tragedy is my mom. Although we are still whole as a family, everyday I get to see a this song relive.

    • @versatileakshita8192
      @versatileakshita8192 Před 3 lety +9

      What a coincidence I was listening to the song and suddenly I saw you comment and the same line came

    • @mansi1955
      @mansi1955 Před 3 lety +2

      Goosebumps

  • @notavailable4264
    @notavailable4264 Před rokem +16

    This is my song. When I need a cry, when I feel hurt, when I feel ok. My 24/7 song, I absolutely adore it sm.

  • @theaditisharma
    @theaditisharma Před 2 lety +11

    The bridge of "tolerate it" has more painful lyrics than "champagne problems" and nobody can change my mind.

  • @phineasfacingfront6562
    @phineasfacingfront6562 Před 3 lety +773

    The respect this woman has got due to folklore and evermore means so much more to me than that scammy

    • @SuYeolYam
      @SuYeolYam Před 3 lety +31

      Your profile picture. 😂

    • @thatgirl4652
      @thatgirl4652 Před 2 lety +16

      Lmaoo the profile pic is sending me 😭😂

  • @hannahjoycheng
    @hannahjoycheng Před 3 lety +20455

    not me pretending to be a depressed housewife

  • @soitgoes_1334
    @soitgoes_1334 Před 8 měsíci +16

    The very last part always leaves me with chills. This song, like all the others is beautiful in every way.

  • @Rina_kim23
    @Rina_kim23 Před měsícem +7

    This has to be my favourite song on evermore!

  • @yoosharmt4405
    @yoosharmt4405 Před 3 lety +598

    “Gain the weight of you and then lose it, believe me, I could do it.”
    There is a power in letting go.