The Number One Most Attractive Trait - Do You Have IT? (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)
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There is ONE trait that makes any person magnetically attractive…
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If you possess this one thing, you are guaranteed to get the respect, admiration and love you deserve.
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I reveal it in this week’s video blog…
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I'm a guy and I find his advice amazing. He's very well spoken and insightful.
He is also very handsome!
Arе yоu mаking thesе mistakеs with уour mаn? twitter.com/d978f65ab88cb195e/status/804693412402241537 Thе Numbееr One Моst Attrасtivе ТТrааit â Dо You Hаve IТТТ Мatthew Hussеу Gеt Тhе Guу
It's good for guys to know what is confusing to women.
I'm a man and watch him all the time. Like the video of how to reject guys well has taught me as a man so much and gave me understanding and empathy.
bloomjoe08 .... a man that can appreciate another man is very attractive indeed! lovely
And that is why my 37 year marriage ended. Tried to change to meet his changing idea of what he wanted. Instead I lost myself and made a failing marriage more miserable. Always be authentic!
Patcrochets That's so sad, I hope you found a new man!
Not sad at all, no new man, but a new me. So possible to come out the other side and be more true to yourself and open to what ever adventures await.
Patcrochets Women have no value to men unless their young and fertile.
Daniel Gray Why did you feel the need to write that comment? Very rude. That is not true for all men, that is only your opinion.
Megan Elizabeth All men are like that. There's something within me as a man that is drawn to soft skin and all that good shit. It's the only reason we even relate to women at all. It's a very powerful desire.
I'm gay and I believe Matthew's tips are for everyone. In a way, he is teaching us how to add value on yourself, this is more important.
Hi Matthew, I really resonated with your comments about standards. Recently I gently confronted a guy I'm attracted to about using his phone whilst driving (with myself and others in the van also). I was very conflicted and for a second my brain tried to play down his behaviour and make it okay, but I knew I couldn't stay quiet and maintain respect for myself at the same time. I considered speaking up at the time, but I also didn't want to humiliate or reprimand him in front of everyone else. So instead, when we stopped and everyone else got out the car, I took him aside, touched his arm and softly said "Can I just say, I feel really unsafe and uncomfortable when people use their phones whilst driving". He was humble and apologetic and admitted it was a terrible habit he wouldn't do again. He even text me that evening apologising again. I felt proud of myself for maintaining my standards and I think it strengthened our friendship and his respect for me too. It also showed me that compassionately challenging those we love doesn't mean they will reject us or love us less. Your advice confirmed for me that it was the right thing to do. Thank you :)
In all videos I've seen from you, common denominator in all the videos is having "standards, values, respect". You're 100% correct
You got me through the worst breakup of my life. Your advice isn’t just about relationships but about living your best life. So thank you. 💖
More important than having standards is having GOOD standards. If your standards are unreasonable, out of touch, selfish, or require someone else to bend over backwards, then you have poor standards, and that is a one-way ticked to attracting poor partners.
Good point. If you have unrealistic standards, it probably shows you have low self-esteem because if you can't live up to your own high standards, how can you say you feel good about yourself and have good self-esteem?
Having reasonable standards shows you have respect for yourself, have a healthy self-esteem, and know what you want.
So so true!
Standards are enough. As long as I know what I want I'll be fine. I've stopped pleasing others. Thank goodness!
so glad he touched on the subject of standards and self- respect. I needed to hear it.
As a lesbian myself, I say, “yes!” Your advice has been enormously helpful for me, and easy to apply to my life, without having to work hard to “translate” it into “lesbian!” It’s just good universal advice.
You have a rare gift of being inclusive without thinking about it. I figure it’s because you are simply a good, open-hearted person! Thank you.
this was one of the best advices I've ever got, no school no teacher no parent ever tells us that. thanks a lot mathew 😊
Absolute truth "if you lose respect for someone you lose attraction for them".
Good advice! In the past I used to relax my standards some when I was interested in a guy. NOT anymore! Now days, if I see something I don't like and know I can't deal with, I will definitely realize that this guy is not for me, and I won't stay being enamored with him.
I'm a gay guy who subscribes to his advice. This video makes me respect him even more. Thanks for the shoutout to the LGBT community!
Trung Ho I know
Same!
gayfer lol
i'm in a relationship and in my 40's and have gained so much from this. Just wanted to say how much i've learned from your wise words. i've enjoyed the videos immensely and it's changed my perspective 180 degrees. you have correctly explained the why's behind what my Mom always said, don't invest too much at first, don't give up your standards, and don't be too available.
I kid you not, I started watching Matthew’s video (I came to his channel with zero experience, and no guy had ever asked me out in seriousness), but after about a week or two, I had three guys come up and ask me out. Wtf. Matthew, you are magic.
Anu R let’s make it four. What are you up to tomorrow night?
so refreshing to get a man's realistic perspective in a matter of fact, gentle manner. Thank you for being awesome 😘#subscribed
Ledi Aiken big dick is the best asset lol
one of the best advice vids I've seen so far, regarding someones standards, respect, and how others will perceive where you stand. Agree completely. Keep it up Matthew!
What an incredible piece of relationship advice! Your observations are spot on! When we are most attracted to someone is when we are most vulnerable to loosing our grounding as individuals in our true likes and dislikes and in the values and standards we hold. Revealing our authentic selves in a new romantic relationship is the risk necessary to make it possible for that relationship to become a deep, connected, and lasting one.
Matt, in recent events with my life I find this advice to be spot on. A particular person in my life of whom I enjoy interacting with has not lived up to my standards and I have lowered my standards for him and gone out of my way but I've just come to the realization that I'm more than that after countless texts where he is nothing but cocky. He definitely did not turn out to be the person I thought he was and I'm definitely not interested anymore.
Matthew, thank you for posting this. I just started a new relationship and realized that i am starting to let my standards slip. This is an epic reminder of who i am as a woman and how hard i have worked to get where i am. I will tighten up my game going forward!
All the best from your # 1 fan in Canada!
This is so good. Having standards shouts that you value yourself enough to wait for someone that has those qualities. Such a true video.
Haha I was just talking with my mom today about standards and told her that I have realized that I have been lowering my standards in my past relationships and need to start changing that to have better and healthier relationships in my life . Thanks for the advice Matt always grateful for the advice each week .
It's actually shocking how long I've spent changing myself for others...I nearly lost myself..Matthew, thank you for the advice 👏👏👏
Well in hindi, Hussey means a smile, so thanks for putting that smile back on our faces!
Haha yes!
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Hi Matt! I'm also a lesbian, and your videos have been incredibly helpful. Thank you for your understanding, gentle, and smart way of communicating your thoughts to us. So much love to you. You've been so helpful in aiding me to find a great new relationship and to keep its fire going strong.
Thank you Matthew for this video. This one particularly touched me. I am one of your gay fans. I stumbled upon your video after looking for advice on how to deal with the guy who was pulling away after initially having showed much interest. I think that's the advice and information in your videos transcends human sexuality. The reason is that when seeking new relationships most people look for validation, and don't look at how people can bring positivity into their lives. This is especially true for gay people, since many of us grew in invalidating environments. I realized after much soul-searching, and watching your videos of course, that what must be done in order to attract the right people is not compromise what we stand for. People are attracted to those who live their lives with integrity and not compromising what is important to them for the sake of others. Sometimes this involves making unpopular decisions or saying no, but people who don't accept what you stand for are not people who you need in your life. I wanted to say thank you for the positive message that you're spreading message.
You just showed me that I am stronger and more attractive than I have ever seen myself as. THANK YOU A MILLION!!!!!
This message could not have come at a better time. Timing is impressive!
Exactly what I needed this morning. Thank you, Matthew.
Hi Matthew, I really appreciate all your advice. I found your coaching videos online a month ago when I was seeing a guy who i felt was amazing butt he had some baggage he was not dealing with.. His situation was very complicated. This man is a high status man who was trying to end his current relationship or at least thats what he was telling me. Well.. I chose to walk away and allow him the space to figure himself and his situation out. Noway do I want to be in a love triangle and because of your coaching videos it helped me to end the current situation between us on a very positive note. He apologized, told me that once he gets his situation figured out that he hopes that I am still available, and that he cares for me deeply and doesn't want to hurt me. I found the strength and a way to end what could have potentially been a very destructive ending but it ended beautifully. Do I love the guy. Yes! But because of that I chose to walk away and give him the space to find out what he really wants and needs and in the meantime. I am going to become the best version of myself. You gave me awesome tips on how to carry myself and how to show restraint when I really just wanted to go balls to the wall on this guy. So thank you so much for your amazing insight. Maybe this man will get his shit strait or maybe he wont. We did chose to remain "pen pals" because I do know that hes special but I have my power back. So thank you again
Cannot express it better, Matt! I had been thinking about whether or not it's the right time to reach out to someone and this video made me stop to think whether that action truly represents me. Thank you so much for the much needed words of truth! Keep up the great work on your channel.
So True Matthew! Regardless of sexual preference or where we live in the world, the one thing we all should make a priority in our relationships is respecting ourselves first, having standards and boundaries. Happy Easter
Hey Matt, ive been watching all sort of coaching videos in the past couple months and not all were necessarily on relationships but also on self respect, assertiveness and personal power but i must say since ive watched yours, something has changed. I loved and completely understand this idea of never losing your standards around people you like in fear of losing their respect or you can say a chance of being with them. What i realise now is that even if i succeeded in being with the person i like and i cant respect their opinion and am afraid of sharing mine, there will be no real respect in the relationships. plus im also guilty of having a crush on my personal trainer which i do know is not healthy at all and i should avoid that but everyone knows attraction is just that, you cant help it but i am learning to treat myself better in front of him by respecting my individuality foremost and still exuding the attraction i feel for him.
thankyou for all your work, i wish i could have attended one of your tours or sessions. Good luck!
once one gets to understand fully what you're saying, this is the greatest advice ever !! thank you !
matt I'm a shy guy and you definitely give me so much confidence when I watch your videos. thanks for that
True. Glad to hear this as I have my standards and refuse to compromise on some, not all, and wonder sometimes if I'm the only one. You walk that fine line sometimes. Thanks.
exactly what I needed to hear... in the past, I compromised my standards because I didn't want to hurt feelings... no more of that.
Love your videos, basically it starts with self respect, be happy yourself without feeling you are incomplete without someone else. Someone coming into your life should be a bonus and enhance the fab life you have already 👍
This affirms my ways of thinking about what I wanted and who I deserve . Not intimidating, not scaring people away but preparing myself to that one man, who'll live up to my "standard".
Found you about a week ago ... can not stop watching and think your really helping me !! Shout out to you here in 2020
Hey !
Thank you so much for this topic . I have always been pushed around by people whom I loved . It used to be very difficult for me to say NO to them . Now this is a biggest learning for me that my peace of mind is non negotiable and my stance should remain the same , irrespective of any relationship.
You really are a ray of light Matthew and a blessing to so many people
in argentina we are so open. like we all notice when someone likes someone else, if you like someone youll say it. its so fun and easy to communicate with each other n.n
I'm gay and i've been binge watching your videos! the advice you give is universal in my opinion. Ive been able to apply all of these lessons into my once very broken dating life and i'm beyond grateful that I discovered this channel😄
This has to be my favoured video so far, even though I appreciate all your work and advice. But somehow I could sense your beautiful essence in this video and really feel an energetic human connection. Great work! all the best :)
Matthew! ✌ #1 gay fan of your relationship advice. Listening to you talk about relationships is heartwarming and to even here that you have lgbt fans and appreciate us is even more endearing! Going through a rough patch rn with my boyfriend, but I try to take your advice to heart even if it's more so directed to heterosexual females, I still enjoy these videos! Keep doing what you do well =)
So true and touching! I think life is all about simplify and being objective to what is happening around you and be your best not only to others but to yourself as well. You give such inspirational lectures and your wisdom is what makes people like you so much! Thats why so many can apply what you say to their lives regarding gender, sexual orientation etc.
I just enjoy looking at you and your voice. The fact you are brilliant is a bonus!
I totally agree with this. Also, having boundaries is important as well. Standards and boundaries are interchangeable, but knowing what's not okay with you and what DOESN'T make you happy is extremely important to not only be in a healthy relationship, but it's part of being a responsible adult.
Seek & you shall Find I will take heed to this.
I am too a gay women, and i got to this channel when i met a guy i found attractive and felt that i just have no idea how to initiate anything, for the first time in my life! 😂 (Usually with women i am very cool and easy going and its to easy for me to read the situation between us)
But truly, i found your channel so helpful and thought provoking. It also made me understand how cool i am as a person and how intresting my life really is, and that there is no reason for people not to want to be near me. I feel it influenced my life a lot in that matter.
Me and the guy are still dating for now and he is a sweetheart. We are very much on the same page on anything, and communicating it right was through the help of your channel. so thanks for that and keep up the awesome work, i really appreciate how honest and clear you are in the things you say and how you present them. Your hard work is visible through out the channel and i just love how much effort you put in the job you are doing. I am always eager ti hear your new things because i know i will learn something new or think about something in a way i hadn't before. So thank you again for that!
The thing is you deliver concepts that help no matter what sexuality or kind of relationship. Yes there are differences but they're not as huge as people think, everything you teach applies to us. I'm also a lesbian and have found you so insightful and invaluable, you've ushered me into a whole new level of living and loving and I just want to say thank you Matthew. This video means a lot to us.
You're THE most attractive person ever. I've always believed respect is the ultimate key to a healthy relationship between any two people. Mothers, daughters, friends, lovers, etc. You're amazing!
Thank you Matt (& Jameson- beautiful production, as always) I NEEDED THIS... A humbling, thought provoking, inspiring gem💎 I'm putting it into practice as of NOW👸
thank you so much for the advice! it has answered many of my relationship questions all at once!
Hello from Argentina!
Matt, I want to thank you because your advice has given me a lot of insight. You are always so eloquent and so honest/transparent with everything that you say, that it is a real pleasure listening to you. Lots of love xo
It is so nice to have validated that standards are important. My standards have been and once again beginning to get etched away at by the men available to me over the years. I have renewed my standards, still basic and reasonable, and intent to stick with them. Thank you
Mathews advice of maintaining one's selfrespect n conveying that one wud not settle for less than what is deserved irrespective of who is that we are trying to please is so very important ...sadly i realised this so late in life..Although i m a nice, humble n kind girl i always felt not getting the respect i deserved n today i know why.. I feel so empowered now n lead a fulfilling life thanks to Mathews videos n advice..i m not in the dating scene..but it is amazing what a positive effect it creates on men n women around me ☺️☺️☺️
Thank you so much. It's the advice I needed. I'm so happy that I started following you on CZcams! Looking forward to seeing more of your videos! :)
I just want to say that every time i watch a video of yours it aplies to may life. It could be because they have a lesson everytime and you can always learn something new. But i'm starting to believe there is just a great timing between my problems and your videos :-P . You and your team are great , I follow you over a year and a half now and I just got 19 years old , love from greece
Love you Matthew! Such well rounded advice. I’m going to share these videos with my teenage son. He’s always broken in love lol
Wise words for anyone in the dating world!. Thank you! ❤️
Thank you Matt it really does help. Love from South Africa, The thing about standards are true. Something i am really working on and it really changes the people you meet.
Matthew, thank you for highlighting the importance of maintaining one's standards. It is an age-old principle that seems to have fallen by the wayside in today's world, let alone the nature of people engaging each other. This is either by the lack of recognition of such or the disrespecting of standards upheld by someone. My faith is renewed in the matter by the effort by one such as yourself to bring it back into being. Well done, sir. Well done.
I was in a relationship where I realised that my guy was not treating me the same way he was in the beginning, I felt like he was valuing me less and less as the days went by. I felt that I was used and unappreciated, and then I've confronted him and told him that this isn't the standard I want in a relationship. He claimed that I was dramatic and that he agrees that it wouldn't work out. Why would a guy be so amazing in the beginning but loses interest and respect suddenly when I thought that everything was perfect and would work out? That really made me lose hope in relationships. :(
Your interpretation of the guy made you think that he was great in the beginning. Turns out that he was probably a douchebag and not worth your time. The best thing you can do is look forward and stop looking at the past. You did the right thing setting your standard so be happy that you're not wasting your time with someone who doesn't see your value. Don't let one bad experience ruin your chances of something better in the future. Stay classy :)
***** What a helpful and wise response.
nxrxxx That is the guys own issues. Not yours. I struggled with this for 4 long years. I finally decided enough was enough I cried was depressed, finally moved away and life it much better. I'm not waking on egg shells around him. I feel much better about myself. Just find yourself a good guy.:) Sooo many out there for us. Not all men are like that.
nxrxxx Went through the same. Once they get what they want which is sex they quickly lose interest and run after their next prey
Italianita Chick they must be in Italy, because even straight guys will tell you, they're not in the States.
Most of the time you don't have to tell people about your standards.....they can just tell the by the you carry yourself , due to the fact you that LIVE, BREATH and BELIVE in your standards..actions speaks louder than words....thanks Matt!!
What you do is a human thing and you simplify things in a way that cross over all types of people, male, female, straight or gay. Thank you.
What a great piece of advice ! Thank you Matthew :)) greetings from France :)
Hi Matthew,
First of all, thank you for all your videos- it has shown me a lot of aspects that I never thought of. I don't really need relationship advise although I found your videos very useful in different ways.
What fascinates me the most, is the rules and tricks you've discussed are not only for men-women relationships, but could be applied to a much broader sense. I found your videos very inspiring and start thinking of how I could improve my people skills, social skills for work and life.
Truly amazing and insightful. thank you Matthew.
XO
Amanda
This video is much appreciated and makes me feel even more comfortable and good keeping up with all your ideas and advice!!
I think this is most truthful message than anything ever anywhere.
Wow!...I feel like you were speaking directly at me. You are awesome! Thank you.
Thank you so much for making this video. Perfect timing!
Yes, it is perfect timing! I literally needed to see this video and its message today because I have something unnerving happening in an hour or so. This video really helped me clear my mind and bring me back on track when I thought I was straying from the path. Thanks Matt! :)
Thank you so much for doing this video, Mathew! It really hits home for me right now and it was exactly what I needed to hear! You're the best!!
Awww! How cute is that? I love nice people! Thanks for all that you do Matt! You are so inspiring! I'm putting that on my vision board for the kind of relationship I'm looking for. Someone who not only respects me and my standards, but who also has standards and values he lives by. You're awesome! Thank you! :)
Thank you so much for giving us that valuable lesson. It's so simple but we tend to forget it.
You got me through the breakup of my life. You always teach how to love yourself 💕
Matthew! also a lesbian here and a very big fan of yours. You give advice on how women can become the best version of themselves and be comfortable and confident with who they are and that will 'get the guy', when you better yourself and grow as a person your relationships are stronger and people are more attracted to you. I love your advice and try to follow it everyday cause you let us know its not about 'being the best version of yourself because you want to know how to get the guy' its about 'being the best version of yourself, you'll be happier, at peace, and that will get any guy without even trying' if that makes sense, thank you so much for everything!
Your guidance is infinitely useful to all sexualities! Thank you Matt!
is it? even demi-grey romantics and asexuals?
I came across this channel about 2 weeks ago when I was looking for some advice about a certain guy in my life. I just want to say thank you, especially for this video about having standards. I started to let mine go for this guy, but I know I'm better than that so when he called me the other night and invited me to his hotel room to "have my way with him" I said "no, I want more than what you're willing to give me". I do want to be with him and I've thought of telling him I changed my mind, let's do it cause I do want it but I know it would only end in heartache for me. I don't know if there's any way to make him want more with me than just a booty call but I just need to move on and let the chips fall where they may. Thanks again for this video.
You're such a smart and great man, thank you for all of your brilliant thoughts and explinations! 😊
yes, Matthew, as always just on point! I was sitting, watching and saying : " mhm, yeah, exactly"))) so thanks, can't wait until ur coming up material
I watch your videos everyday at work. You definitely bring up my mood on days when I don't feel very positive. THANK YOU!!! Kat from Santa Clara, California
I'm a guy, trying to fix my relationship with a girl, random found your videos when looking some advice and it has been the some of the most helpful that I ever had. thank you
I've never changed who I am or dropped my standards and I've got someone wonderful in my life who's actually helped me to have higher standards in an all around way in my life.
I completely agree Matt. I was not setting standards for a long time. I allowed my insecurity of my past an the relationship of my ex to trump my existence. I cant explain how much your videos have gave me light an energy to be positive in my dark days. thank you. I have changed so much😘
This is why i watch your videos Matt, because i know i'll learn more than just about dating! Gems of wisdom i tell you!!
I absolutely loved this Matthew. I have only been listening to your advice for a few weeks but I find you extremely insightful and exactly hilarious. More so than the advice, I listen for the comic relief! Seriously, well-said. I think this world is full of great people who perfectly understand that we can not have a niche in everything! And I'm sorry to break it to you "Mr. Cupid", that includes you! Hahaha! Your advice on how men and women relate to each other is invaluable and I don't think you should feel bad if that isn't necessarily expressed in all your videos. I do think I speak for many, when I say I very much admire your desire to be inclusive of ALL LOVE. Keep up the great work and be encouraged in all you do! Thanks!
Hugs,
Is
P.S. Going to try the text scripts you sent via e-mail this a.m. on "my" guy next time I hear from him!
There is a gem in all your videos. Today’s aha moment at 5:13. Harder to maintain your standard with someone you like. BTW been following you for a few months and it’s working. Just a few weeks dating a lovely high quality man who today is thinking up a fun date for us tomorrow while I go play with my friends today. 😍. Thank you Matt.
I really really needed to hear that .. Thank you so much
Thanks Matt, super topic.
Looking into the future regarding maintaining respect.., that is exactly what I’ve been dealing with recently. I’d say some people can be a test of our boundaries and values/ self worth ...
I absolutely hate cigarettes and several months ago became friends with a really amazing person, however he smokes and it is a dealbreaker for me. A huge one. There was a moment where I thought I could give it a go, but no, thinking ahead it would be just the matter of time till I’d harass him 24/7 for smelling bad -especially if we were to kiss every day or live together - and there would be the respect issue and resentment brewing in the meantime... being with a smoker long term would lead to mutual annoyance and lack of respect, or even disliking each other, and resentments...
I came to a conclusion that being friends is already close enough.. ( and enough of the exposure of the smell I cannot take)..
If he quit he would be a wonderful partner. Otherwise - a nightmare. Just because of that one little thing....
So in a summary if something doesn’t matter in 5 years it shouldn’t matter now, but a major deal breaker that potentially will worsen the future, cause aggravating each other and losing respect- is basically a recipe for a relationship going down the hill, so why to destroy mutual friendship and respect in a first place(?)
One the other hand, I already know that there is a guy with a mental characteristics I am looking for, at this knowledge leaves me with a feeling that there will be another , a bit better, who doesn’t smoke or has any of the dealbreakers.
Cheers!
Great video !!!
I think I've had standards most of my life, my mother thought me at a very young age. She always said treat others the you want to be treated! The Golden rule lol. I appreciate your videos so much I love how honest you are about things and never encountered bad ways to get a guy or be with a guy. I have three things I follow 1. Self confidence and self respect, 2. Respect for others and 3. Never let a man control your feeling!! Also never let a man control the relationship!! I've learned these things over time I'm 34 years old and have two beautiful daughters they come first so if I'm going to be in a relationship he has to have self respect and respect for me and my kids. Well a few other things to that are very important, he has to be responsible in so many ways too lol as do I. Thank you again for making this video it was very helpful for me. 😁😏
Thanks for the videos and advice, because I always walk away with something new!
thank you for making this video ! awesome and very informative! more power Matt!
When you asked the question in the title, my thought was that the universally attractive trait was self confidence. That is certainly supported and reinforced by having standards.
And I thought it was courage to be vulnerable
Your advises are good for all kinds of raletionships, for men and women for young and old, even for muy neighbours because it includes respet, seting limits etc. Thank you very much from a 68 years old Spanish lady!
I would love to see you do more on should I keep the guy. This standards thing is very important. I always wonder how much I should tolerate and when to put my foot down. How to evaluate if the guy is a guy you should try to build a life with or continue to be with.
Yes this is a great suggestion!!
+ConcealedJewel I agree too lol
Having standards dictates what you will tolerate
Donna Cobb-Fox
Agreed 100%!!!!
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you gotta have clear what's negotiable to you and what's non-negotiable and if they break a non-negotiable walk away, you have to be willing to lose the other person. What's interesting though is that most times they will come and try to get you back because men understand respect and honor and if he doesn't come back it's not good for you.
great! telling by the title, I thought you might be gonna say the cliche: confidence, but it turned out something great and useful~~thank you
Thank you for this video. This is the 1st time here, and i am thoroughly enjoying your videos.
Love these videos, this is the best LIFE advise!
Where can I find a man like you Matt? You are too perfect to be true. Looks, accent, and ideas.
amazing video.. could you do another one talking about respect? i found the hints you gave incredibly interesting!