I can relate to it so much I used to waste so much energy and emotions over people who just wanted to believe that their ASSUMPTIONS are more appropriate and valid than my justification or explanation...lost so many people because of this , I'm now thankful that I don't have such toxic people in my life 🙌💗🧿
After hearing you... I can confidently say that i don't care about anybody's opinion for me. And i have learnt this in my teenage.....because situation taught me that people will never stop degrading you... So do what you love❤❤❤❤
So true. Honestly I don't have the energy and I don't care if someone thinks I am wrong because the only thing that matters is I know I have not done anything wrong. ❤
Ohh seriously, I have been through this so so many times and still working upon it, I can relate with you. We only want ki kisi ko bura na lag jaye, kisi ko hurt na ho jaye, wo kya sochega n many more thoughts. Now we both are on the same track that no one matters more than our family and our loved ones. 🫶
Honestly this is what I needed I needed to hear it today itself I had a fight with my college frd nd he misunderstood me so much nd I was feeling so guilty but thanks 🥹 I won’t explain him any further thank you quirky love u 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
I realised it very late but since the day i realised it my life has been much better...not very great but atleast better and less toxic of what it used to be❤
thank you so much for these 30 lessons of life ❤ it will be helpful so reflect and make my rest of 20’s much more wiser❤ lots of love to you you’re a blessing 😊
Yrrrr I just explained myself to somebody and yet there was no fault from my side.But after this video i think i'll never do so againTHANKS QUIRKY❤ i feel so light right now
After along time I can relate with someone I always think it is only I who has miserable school life 😄 where I always struggle to fit in small group a group who always bullied me 😄 so here I get to know that it is not a need at all I can be my own group ❤ my own friend ❤
I can relate to this very much and yes you have said everything right. I have only one in my family and it's been really difficult to live with them. Please also make a video on how to deal with them
I can relate to it at personal level…I still struggle with this as I approach into my 30s…and the worst part is I dont realise it before I realise it afterwards when I prove my point😢😢
But idk I am 19 and I have already felt all this i have already stopped giving a damn like idk if this is right or wrong but being mature at a young age ig leads to this
Ohh same abhi mera point smjhaya dost ko toh muje hi ghost kr rhi rude baat krke ...ab dosti hi khatam idk kaise kr lete h ye sab 8 saal dost b ku the fr ..muje hi dukh hota h fr😢
I am turning 31 this Monday and I can relate to this sooo much! I was a people pleaser! It was like my moto to be everyone’s favourite even in college I was like I should be friend with everyone in my batch! But seriously this is something that actually harms you, internally! It decreases your self-confidence, self-esteem!!!! Am now jisko Jo sochna hain soche, mujhe kya! And trust me this is PEACE ✌️
This video makes sense but I need help understanding does this mean we should lose those relationships with people who do that and if not how to repair it? I’m really struggling w this right now. I just got into a huge fight and I don’t know what to do. Anyways lots of love❤
I am 26. And always do this. I get furious and anxious when people get me wrong. I always go to them and explain everything. Then I realized that they took me wrong again. And it makes me feel more guilty. I just hope ki ye aadat jald se jald mere se nikal jae.
I can relate to it so much
I used to waste so much energy and emotions over people who just wanted to believe that their ASSUMPTIONS are more appropriate and valid than my justification or explanation...lost so many people because of this , I'm now thankful that I don't have such toxic people in my life 🙌💗🧿
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Yes, my brother always says to me " Duniya ko Galatfehmi mein jeene do" ...
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After hearing you... I can confidently say that i don't care about anybody's opinion for me. And i have learnt this in my teenage.....because situation taught me that people will never stop degrading you... So do what you love❤❤❤❤
It's a heart to heart connection Aditi🥺 felt the same broo
So true. Honestly I don't have the energy and I don't care if someone thinks I am wrong because the only thing that matters is I know I have not done anything wrong. ❤
The best advice that a person can offer you is this and only this 😊
Worthy lessons 🤍
Ohh seriously, I have been through this so so many times and still working upon it, I can relate with you. We only want ki kisi ko bura na lag jaye, kisi ko hurt na ho jaye, wo kya sochega n many more thoughts. Now we both are on the same track that no one matters more than our family and our loved ones. 🫶
Thankyou so much for sharing this Quirky❤❤
I'm in my 20s and earlier I also used to tell people my side even not being asking.
But now I'm slowly slowly learning things.
I am loving these videos of yours 🩷
I can relate it 🥲
This is 100% true
The best advice so far😊
Soooooo relatable 😢
Honestly this is what I needed I needed to hear it today itself I had a fight with my college frd nd he misunderstood me so much nd I was feeling so guilty but thanks 🥹 I won’t explain him any further thank you quirky love u 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Your hairstyle really suits you girl!! You look more beautiful
Impulse tee❤️, you look etheral tbh🤌
So true .. i will also be entering my 30's in a year and what u said is so true n am the same
Impulse tshirt looks so good on you❤
Oh I relate so much to your advice Aditi. Been doing this for years.
I am 33 and have realised this now 😅
Lots of love to you ❤
Well I'm turning 25 this august n I can totally relate this 😂👏
This is too relatable❤
So true...I have also been a people pleaser.. true that❤❤❤👏👏
I feel like soooo helpful you are ❤❤❤
I learned this last year only-at 33. Over pleasing and proving my point has only harmed me. ❤ love this series ADITI ❤💛
I realised it very late but since the day i realised it my life has been much better...not very great but atleast better and less toxic of what it used to be❤
Prettiest girl with purest heart ❤️✨ btw bg>>>>>✨💗
So true
Love how you have evolved
God bless you
This is so relatable ❤
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Needed to hear this 🙂
So relatable 🤍🤍.. loving these learning videos of yours 🎀
I'm so glad!❤️
Wonderful series of videos on life lessons.. Keep them coming.. ❤
Mannnnnnn I can sooooooo relate to this 🥺
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From these 30 lessons you are sharing ab aisa lag rha Ohhh we were not alone feeling that.
Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us❤❤
This is so freaking relatable 🥲🥲🥲
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So true!! Need to work on this 😢
Thank you for pointing this out ❤
I won't over explain myself anymore I do the same thankyou for this ❤️
So so relatable!! Experienced the same
True ... Have experienced this big time ❤😊
So true🥲
Thankyou for this ❣️
You are or you were just me!!! thanks for being in my life❤
I can relate to this
Same feeling
This is so true
You gave words to my feelings
thank you so much for these 30 lessons of life ❤ it will be helpful so reflect and make my rest of 20’s much more wiser❤ lots of love to you you’re a blessing 😊
Yrrrr I just explained myself to somebody and yet there was no fault from my side.But after this video i think i'll never do so againTHANKS QUIRKY❤ i feel so light right now
Well said
Soo relatable but m still working on it..
So relatable mam
This one is the best in terms of background ❤
More power to you ❤️❤️ it is very tough but i am hoping i learn this skill too
Its just feels like I'm tired of all the things at this point and all I'm going to do is rest amd take care of myself ❤
I'm only 18 but I can 100% relate to your 30 days 30 advices or thoughts or whatever we call it.
This was much needed thank you so
I always do this now i will try not to do this and choose my peace
After along time I can relate with someone I always think it is only I who has miserable school life 😄 where I always struggle to fit in small group a group who always bullied me 😄 so here I get to know that it is not a need at all I can be my own group ❤ my own friend ❤
Exactly same with me 🙂
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Trying to inculcate this lesson in me soon❤❤❤
❤❤❤loving these series of ur advice. I relate so much to it..
Didi pls ek bag closet tour kardo na next pls and a bag collection
The t shirt ❤
Yah t shirt shara ke pass dkha hai ❤
ohhh my god!!!!!! it's relatable AF.
I am already 30 and I was still doing it till 2 days ago.
I can relate to this very much and yes you have said everything right. I have only one in my family and it's been really difficult to live with them. Please also make a video on how to deal with them
I can relate to it at personal level…I still struggle with this as I approach into my 30s…and the worst part is I dont realise it before I realise it afterwards when I prove my point😢😢
But idk I am 19 and I have already felt all this i have already stopped giving a damn like idk if this is right or wrong but being mature at a young age ig leads to this
Ohh same abhi mera point smjhaya dost ko toh muje hi ghost kr rhi rude baat krke ...ab dosti hi khatam idk kaise kr lete h ye sab 8 saal dost b ku the fr ..muje hi dukh hota h fr😢
I'm really going to cry after finishing this 😢
But it's relatable ❤❤
In my 20s m like this but not anymore i really don't have energy to clearing up things ,think whatever you want idc anymore tbh❤❤😂😂😂
Thankkyouu quirkyyy❤ I really need this advice ❤
Absolutely right 👍❤️
This is so true, that's why I don't even bother telling anyone my side of the story anymore. I am like "jo sochna h sochlo bhai" 😊
Seriously...at this age only who matters are our intimate family members..duniya jaye bhar main...stay calm..stay in peace..❤❤
Feel the same bro❤❤❤❤❤...... Want that put on my whatsapp status......... 😂😂😂
Why I can relate 😭😭😭
Girl wearing impulse 🤌🔥 ❤
So true , i still do it
Yeahhh this is the major problem I too went through this but now I just don't
Tbh I have realised this truth the hard way. But I'm glad that I don't seek validation anymore and it has been truly empowering from within. Iykyk ♥️🤞
Exactly.. people try to instigate to get a reaction. I will be 30 in aug.
Girl, I am glad that your video popped in my feed today. All I wanna say is thank you🩷
Same thing I would like to say to my younger sisters especially at the age of 16-28
I love the backdrop 😮
You r a queen quirky ❤
So true
This is one stage of life whr v alll start learning how to accept things how to move on how to just say for those char log bhad mai jau ....😊
CZcams shorts❌ therapy✅
Totally right
I am turning 31 this Monday and I can relate to this sooo much! I was a people pleaser! It was like my moto to be everyone’s favourite even in college I was like I should be friend with everyone in my batch! But seriously this is something that actually harms you, internally! It decreases your self-confidence, self-esteem!!!!
Am now jisko Jo sochna hain soche, mujhe kya! And trust me this is PEACE ✌️
The non faking creater award goes to u ❤🎉
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I can relate ❤
So true ❤
God she is my big sis ❤️🧿
That’s the truth
Another awesome lesson. Gosh! I'm lovin' these series❤ Btw earrings from Sarojini or what😊
This video makes sense but I need help understanding does this mean we should lose those relationships with people who do that and if not how to repair it? I’m really struggling w this right now. I just got into a huge fight and I don’t know what to do. Anyways lots of love❤
Lovee the tshirt
Omg...i thought i only hv sm thoughts...u jst portrayed me as i was few yrs bck
I think these people don't deserve us.
It's like someone is saying my story!!! The insulting part was to hurt your self respect because of the fear of loosing the person!!!
Love yourself 💝
I am 26. And always do this. I get furious and anxious when people get me wrong. I always go to them and explain everything. Then I realized that they took me wrong again. And it makes me feel more guilty. I just hope ki ye aadat jald se jald mere se nikal jae.
My wise bestie ❤
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