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  • I was fired.
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Komentáře • 240

  • @michellebergeaux2290
    @michellebergeaux2290 Před 3 lety +45

    I was a seamstress when I was younger. When I was left to provide for my 5 children I took a government job. I do not enjoy my job and the stress creates is awful in my life. If I continue for 3 more years I can retire with a pension. I am trying to hold out. I already know what my retirement looks like and I can’t wait!! I am going to make little girls dresses and teach others to sew! It literally is my calling. Thank you for encouraging me!

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +11

      It'll be here before you know it. And someday, when your kids are mature enough to appreciate your sacrifice, they will have a great deal of respect for you. You are being a good mama. ❤

    • @gohawks3571
      @gohawks3571 Před 3 lety +5

      Sending virtual hugs! Hang in there. I know it takes more strength than a stranger telling you that, but you are doing a good job caring for your family. Massive respect!

    • @emeraldent
      @emeraldent Před 3 lety +2

      say strong!

    • @CaleenRizi
      @CaleenRizi Před rokem

      1 year left now

  • @sugus08
    @sugus08 Před 3 lety +60

    i was not fired, but had to resign from a non-sewing job because my husband was offered a position in a different state. i've always loved sewing and now i had my own costume shop. never would have thought that I would be this excited to wake up in the morning!

  • @bethdeland1367
    @bethdeland1367 Před 3 lety +40

    Thank you as always! I retired from my corporate job 18 months ago and now have a successful, growing Bridal alterations business. I spent 5 years building my business out of my home while still working FT. Next month I'm moving into storefront studio space. It's definitely a dream come true.

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +4

      Yesssss!!! Woohoo!! ❤✂️🧵❤ Do you mind if I put this on my Community Tab so we can all celebrate with you?

    • @bethdeland8982
      @bethdeland8982 Před 3 lety +2

      @@BridalSewing absolutely!

    • @Judiland
      @Judiland Před 3 lety +1

      Congratulations ✂️🎈

    • @AquaBloomStudio
      @AquaBloomStudio Před 3 lety +1

      Congrats. 🎊🍾🎈. How do you learn to do alterations? I watch videos from this channel but I want hands on to learn. What would you guys recommend for someone who want to get into this industry do if they have zero sewing experience or knowledge?

    • @iheartbridalcouture5989
      @iheartbridalcouture5989 Před 3 lety +3

      @@AquaBloomStudio Find someone who can teach you basics and advanced. Also buy gowns from Goodwill and seam rip them apart to see what you are dealing with. Buy bridal alterations books. Susan Khalje Bridal book is awesome

  • @Jane_Ricciardi
    @Jane_Ricciardi Před 3 lety +31

    WHAT?!?! This is an outrageous story! His loss is our gain! (Fantastic tip using the jagged edges to align the two edges!)

  • @Elkycreates
    @Elkycreates Před 3 lety +2

    I got bullied at work too. But I didn’t leave until I saw the bully get put under review and made to work harder by higher management first. It was awesome.

  • @KnotMars
    @KnotMars Před 3 lety +7

    I thought I was the only one, thank you for sharing your story. After decades of being in miserable jobs, have come out of the closet as a seamstress.

  • @msozzaric2638
    @msozzaric2638 Před 3 lety +46

    I’ve gone through a similar job situation in a different profession. I’ve realized through years of experience and observing, most of the time it has nothing to do with your performance. It is personal and deeply rooted that person’s personal issues. If i went back, i would just tell my younger self to not put up with it. Nothing good happens by putting up with a boss who’s out there to get you.

  • @ssstitcher
    @ssstitcher Před 3 lety +12

    I've done costumes for almost 30 years. Decided to leave industry . Spent thousands to earn certification for medical coding and billing. Finally passed test. Could not get job to save my life. A yarn shop I frequent found out about my background in sewing and put the word out. I am now on my 2nd year with my own alterations business specializing in bridal. The sewing wont let me leave. Thank Goodness. P.S. Love your videos.

  • @713Joanne
    @713Joanne Před 3 lety +1

    I am retiring from my schoolbus driving job, very soon, to pursue my dream job…..a professional seamstress. I already have had the wheels in motion for 25 years and now I’m old enough to retire! My last day driving can’t come soon enough! Thank you for all your sewing know how’s!

  • @katyb2793
    @katyb2793 Před 3 lety +16

    The jagged edge is genius! I'd never thought of that before

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety

      Glad I could help! 🤗

    • @meinennamensagichnet
      @meinennamensagichnet Před 3 lety +1

      I learned sewing in germany and when I did that my teacher would tell me off. But it is genius and helps a lot. They just didnt expect me to be clever enough to sew straight even if the edge is not.

  • @juliewhite6887
    @juliewhite6887 Před 3 lety +31

    I can’t believe this video! I literally teared up. I was supposed to see this video today! More confirmation that I am doing the right thing leaving a job that makes me miserable to be a full time seamstress. Love you & Thanks for sharing!

  • @deliaweber9220
    @deliaweber9220 Před 3 lety +14

    Love this story!!! I, too, left an office job 3 years ago and have been sewing full time since then. I feel exactly like you in that I’m finally doing what I was born to do. So thankful for your channel and the jagged cut tip!

  • @lizziemiss945
    @lizziemiss945 Před 3 lety +1

    I had a bad boss like that too. A lawyer. Everyday he would angrily correct me for the smallest things (a missing period, double space, the way I answered calls) he had it against me. The more he pointed out mistakes and made a BIG deal out of them the more mistakes I would make because I was stressed. He would constantly scream at me and not the other legal assistant who also made mistakes. I ended up quitting one day in the middle of a busy billing cycle. Just walked out never came back- no regrets. People like that belittle others so they feel better about their many insecurities. Feeds their ego. Today I'm working for another lawyer who happens to be the best, most patient boss I've ever had. BUT my dream is to design formal gowns and bridal gowns so I'm doing it on the side when I have time. One day soon. Thank you for your inspiring video!

  • @terryjanisch905
    @terryjanisch905 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you so much. I loved my40 year Nursing Career when I retired 8 years ago I went back to my second love of sewing. I’ve been sewing since age 5 making Barbie clothes and haves my hole life. Watching these videos have boosted my confidence to jump into Bridal 4 years ago and I love it so much. Thank you Brenda

  • @user-kr1ys5fh9m
    @user-kr1ys5fh9m Před 2 měsíci

    That last part though, “I have a gut feeling about you.” Thank you for that. I love your channel and am learning so much. I am a regular sewist and have recently figured out that I really enjoy bridal sewing. I would love to have my own little shop just like you do. You are living the dream!

  • @stacirizner4461
    @stacirizner4461 Před 3 lety +9

    I wish I had been braver, sooner. Timing...
    Thank you for your story and your generous gifts of knowledge.

  • @paulahgingrich7371
    @paulahgingrich7371 Před 2 lety

    The mirror technique used in this video is BRILLIANT!

  • @rosaliesilliman1473
    @rosaliesilliman1473 Před 3 lety +6

    I was fired with no reason provided from a small bridal business last spring (I was working as a seamstress). It's been a blessing in so many ways to be out of that environment but it's taking time for me to recover from the experience. I felt screwed over in more ways than one but I'm much happier working for myself, even if I don't have the enough business to support myself quite yet.
    Also, I love the tip about cutting a jagged line! I've done that on accident before but now I'll be doing it on purpose!

  • @d.h.fremont3027
    @d.h.fremont3027 Před 3 lety +8

    Your boss wanted to hire someone else who would be more on his team. This has happened to me before.

  • @sallyescrader1434
    @sallyescrader1434 Před 3 lety +25

    I’ve been doing the jagged cuts when doing hems like this for many years. It’s one of those small tricks that help in a very big way. Also, when I’ve finished sewing the hem and before re-sewing the lining back seam, I iron the hem towards the lining from the inside. Then I sew the back lining seam and iron the outside. Ironing on the inside is a bit fiddly, but gives a much smoother finish on the outside and makes the final pressing so much easier. Btw... I love all your videos!

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +5

      Yesssss! It's these little bitty tips that make allll the difference & I love to share them.

    • @queenwere1
      @queenwere1 Před 3 lety +1

      Nice tip

    • @elizabethl.1350
      @elizabethl.1350 Před 3 lety +2

      Thats the way I always did it. I do miss bridal sewing but I don’t miss the low pay

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +2

      Set your pay higher! Lol 🤗

    • @sallyescrader1434
      @sallyescrader1434 Před 3 lety +1

      @@elizabethl.1350 I too miss bridal sewing. Since the start of the pandemic, my business has dried up completely. As a result, I’m having to change my business completely! A bit late in the day to change so dramatically as I’ve been a bridal specialist since 1984, but money has to be made! And yes, the money was pitiful. But the Bridezillas? .... I certainly don’t miss them!!

  • @laurisnicholson1602
    @laurisnicholson1602 Před 3 lety +6

    I have a gut feeling about you....
    Beautiful. Thanks ❤
    Sew on!
    4 wedding dresses down💃🏽

  • @kathythompson5800
    @kathythompson5800 Před 3 lety +41

    I do feel that I have been meant to be a sewist all my life. I have sewn since I was 9 and made many different things from every day wear clothing to home dec to formal wear. I went to college to be an RN and spent 40 years at that profession, during which I flipped from one area of the hospital to another. I was always uncomfortable in that role and nervous, and felt like an imposter. Don't get me wrong, I was good at nursing and it came easy to me in school and I passed boards the first try. But I still felt like an imposter. I guess that is because I was in the wrong job. I was always interested in fashion and kept up with what was new and up and coming. But my love of sewing and being creative was never encouraged to be something I did as a profession, it was encouraged like a hobby. It is a bit too late for me to enter it as a profession, I am at retirement age now, but still love to create, so I sew girls pageant wear, and sell on the internet. It satisfies my creative side and gives me money too.

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +5

      What a beautiful story. Even if you don't sew full time, many seamsters can work for many years after their earlier retirement. I'm always encouraged by that fact. You have many years of fun left!! ❤

    • @terryjanisch905
      @terryjanisch905 Před 3 lety +1

      Another 40 year RN. I’m so glad I’m not in the hospital setting now. M Bert bleeds for the healthcare experts every day. Like I say on the beads for them.

    • @AquaBloomStudio
      @AquaBloomStudio Před 3 lety +3

      I love this story. I follow this channel to maybe one day be a seamstress. I love sewing too but at the moment have kids to raise, so I will learn on my own and sew kids clothes just to keep up with my skills so I can work toward that goal.

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +2

      @@AquaBloomStudio That's how you learn! Just sew & sew. It builds. Take it one day at a time. :D

    • @barbie-fz4oo
      @barbie-fz4oo Před 2 lety +1

      I too trained as a nurse for years. I experienced so much racial and sexual harassment in my field. The male doctors want to bed me and the female nurses and hated me bc I was very good at my job and was asked to do (anesthesia) during endoscopy procedures more often then they were. One day a new nurse manager came in and hated me in an instant. (I have that look, I was told) she found any find of excuse to try to fire me. Gossip travels fast. I had already started my own business in the medispa arena. I was a single mom of 3 bio kids and 6 foster kids. I needed extra the income and I did not want to go on welfare. Soon I was earning more than enough to leave and follow through with my dream. Yes.. One day she fired me. One day, one of my foster kids got hit by a car and I had to go to the hospital but since I was one of 2 other nurses on duty, I could not leave. The doctor on duty there was following my situation and he called her to tell her I had to go to see my foster child He was giving me permission. I only had 2 hours left on my shift anyway. But come Monday morning, she fired me. I was so happy she did. It was very emotional and I freaked out a bit, but it gave me to opportunity to build my business and made it a very very successful company. I retired to live in another country now and I am returning yo my first love, sew, designing and metalsmithing. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.

  • @demetrarowan6037
    @demetrarowan6037 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you for sharing your hemming tip and the encouragement, I truly needed both

  • @avaldez4968
    @avaldez4968 Před 2 lety

    Thank you. I've been sewing for ever but started working on my own full time 3 years ago. I love what I do but sometimes life gets in the way. Everytime I want to give it up something makes me stay. Today it was watching your video.

  • @panchosworld9423
    @panchosworld9423 Před 3 lety +6

    God works in mysterious ways. That was meant to be so you could do what you love.

  • @brandicaldwell
    @brandicaldwell Před 5 měsíci

    Hey- I have watched your channel for a couple of years. I retired from teaching, and took a corporate job. I survived it for 6 months and got fired. I was so distraught. I decided to take my sewing and alterations to my full time gig. Your video really ministered to me. I needed to hear that I can do it. Thank you!

  • @SCcano
    @SCcano Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for your story ... I have a gut feeling about me too.... I love sewing and embroidery... on my father side of the family we had seamstress and fashion designers that’s where I get my passion from ... I want to learn about wedding dresses glad I found your channel

  • @jayneeojeda5677
    @jayneeojeda5677 Před 3 lety

    that jagged cut trick is SO BRILLIANT thank you for sharing

  • @evelynsalyuk7324
    @evelynsalyuk7324 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing your story! It’s inspiring and proof that sometimes it takes a bad experience to have a happy ending. 😊

  • @debrabelz
    @debrabelz Před 3 lety +6

    i just love you. 1988 quit govt job. Walked home. Spent last $40 on earrings!? on phone voicemail was ballet company wanting me to do costumes. Jump.

  • @Mseapfan
    @Mseapfan Před 4 měsíci

    you have NO idea how badly I needed to hear that.

  • @courtneydye1411
    @courtneydye1411 Před 2 lety

    I just recently found your channel. I'm so glad I did, too! I have an "I got fired" story, too. But it's more like, I got fired from my monster boss to find my most favorite ever corporate job, only to be laid off due to covid. I told my husband I'd never be as happy as I was in a job as I was at that last job, and can we just PLEASE figure out how I can stay home?? 2020 was they year I became a SAHM, homeschooling our girls. I also started teaching sewing lessons, I started volunteering for Quilts of Valor, exploring formal wear and bridal sewing, and now starting a sewing ministry at my church! I am so so SO much happier these days! Thank you for your stories and sharing your tips and tricks of the industry. I have been soaking them in and putting in the practice. I love how you present information in an easy to follow format. You're a great teacher! Thank you!

  • @queenwere1
    @queenwere1 Před 3 lety +9

    Your story is a little like mine. I was always a sewing girl 😍😍😍

  • @kristiyourweddingdresser6716

    Thought I wanted to teach until a horrible principal decided to make my life miserable. It did make it so easy to go back to sewing full time though. Great video, by the way!

  • @danatucker6390
    @danatucker6390 Před 2 lety

    I absolutely loved this video! You are such an inspiration! I was fired from a sewing job after I helped this man when he was super short handed.... then he fired me via-voicemail after his workers came back after they walked out! Anyway.... I just love your videos, your voice is so soothing and friendly and I am so glad I found your channel! I am still a seamstress and love it! I love fixing things! Thanks for such great videos and for being so genuine! LOVE that tip with the jaggedy cuts!!! Brilliant!

  • @debm6507
    @debm6507 Před 3 lety

    This is exactly how I do this, BUT, your jagged cut is BRILLIANT! I will ALWAYS do it your way now!!

  • @lindadavis8457
    @lindadavis8457 Před 3 lety +2

    My story is very similar to yours. I was 20 years on a job, with a great performance record. I loved the work and the work place. The newish Director had it in for my department. I was the last to go. Why why why is also my question. Still waiting for a safe landing, but grateful for helpful supportive people. Moving past was hard work but it can be done. Congratulations to you for finding your avocation.

  • @miriamgillham6701
    @miriamgillham6701 Před 3 lety +4

    What a fabulous video. This story of your being fired is so uplifting and I aspiring. Would you have thought back in the day that your old boss’s gut feeling would become your absolute permission to become the person you were meant to be. Thank goodness you followed your own ‘gut feeling’!

  • @friendoflife2416
    @friendoflife2416 Před 5 měsíci

    I loved my job as a teacher for almost 40 years but now I want something to do at home every day. I am sewing clothes for myself and find myself looking at your videos because so many friends ask me to put new hems in prom dresses or repair other clothing. Thank you so much for this tutorial. I have a satin prom dress to re-hem and I wanted it to be very nice and even. You have given me so many tips and I just ordered left and right invisible zipper foots and also organ needles. It is a curved hem and I was really nervous about making it look nice. So happy to have 2 methods to try since I have to cut off 6 inches. I hope to do the 2 seam method because it looks easier. Thank you so much! I love to sew and want to find a place to be useful with my 50 years of sewing experience!

  • @marciabouder6433
    @marciabouder6433 Před 2 lety

    I retired from a federal job on disability due to a terrible male RN supervisor. Now I own my own business for sewing and I couldn’t be happier.

  • @savedforreal76
    @savedforreal76 Před 3 lety +1

    OMG...I come here to learn about the them and left SUPER encouraged to be the best that I can be doing what love. I've only been sewing for 1year and I'm in love with it. Thanks...its just something about me!!!!!!

  • @heidijayne7412
    @heidijayne7412 Před 3 lety +3

    I wasnt fired I left , but I had a boss like that he was an arsehole made my life a living hell. But now I am living the dream working towards becoming a lawyer getting back into sewing ...as a hobby , but designing hats and thinking about setting up a sewing shop online.

  • @brendastuntz1727
    @brendastuntz1727 Před 3 lety +5

    Oh my goodness! Yes!! The gut feeling is everything. I have been sewing ballet costumes for a few years now, and actually that is how I found you. I wanted to sew on beads and lace really well and discreetly and wound up finding you (Thank you by the way). Anyway, I LOVE sewing and designing but wanted to leave the costume world for the fashion design world. I will say thst I had a strong gut feeling when I made that move that it was what I was meant to do. I am SO happy where I am now and love every wonderful grueling second of it. Just thought I would back up your story of finding your path in life with my own. It hasn't always been easy getting to where I am now, but it was worth the wait and struggle.

  • @SevenofEleven
    @SevenofEleven Před měsícem

    This is such a fun format for videos

  • @valentinaufimzeff3527
    @valentinaufimzeff3527 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow, I am so glad you got fired😀 I am actually surprised to hear that you had a second job outside sewing. You are such an amazing seamstress, and I am sure you’ll be sewing away full time in no time! All the best

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +1

      This was... humm.... 16 years ago! So, I'm been sewing full time for a long time now. 🤗

    • @valentinaufimzeff3527
      @valentinaufimzeff3527 Před 3 lety +1

      @@BridalSewing oh, sounded like an recent experience. Lol. Glad this happened😃

  • @catarinamourao1306
    @catarinamourao1306 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you soooo much I really needed to heard this!! 🥰

  • @ancientfriend
    @ancientfriend Před rokem

    Hey, I had basically the same thing happen to me this past December. It was my kick in the butt to go full-time with my sewing. I've been doing it on a very part-time basis for over 20 years. So I fully agree with you and see how that negative experience can be exactly what we need!

  • @heidimoore4209
    @heidimoore4209 Před 3 lety +1

    I love the tips I pick up from you. They are practically intuitive once you "see" them. Thank you so much for sharing your expertise.

  • @betheubanks4580
    @betheubanks4580 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow! This story is so similar to mine. I worked as the alterations Mgr at a major bridal salon chain, (DB,) for years. I was constantly fighting with the store manager to give me the "permission" to run my department. I met their very unrealistic sales goals and was never given the hours needed to sew the sold alterations. I was written up for "spending too much time" with my brides during their fittings even though we are suppose to "build a relationship" with our brides. I was an advocate for the 3 other seamstress who worked with me, and was told I was too nice and not strict enough. The store manager would audit our pinned dresses and criticize our work constantly. This is the same store manager who told a bride I would be out soon to "measure the inseam" on her wedding gown. Lol. She was also a monster and created high school drama and turned staff members against me with silly lies. I kept working there even tho my hair started falling out and I was constantly worried that my brides dresses wouldn't get finished in time. I was finally fired for insubordination. That was the best day of my life! It has taken years, but I have built my own business where I can build genuine relationships with my brides and help make every bride feel beautiful!!!! I was born to be a bridal seamstress and I am now sew grateful for what I went through. Anyone who wants to have this career just know that you can do it and to have confidence in yourself. Thank you so much for sharing your story and continuing to inspire us!!! You are very much appreciated!

  • @helloemilymills
    @helloemilymills Před 3 lety

    The tip about cutting with jagged edges so that you can keep them lined up later is genius! 👏👏

  • @maryliefer7571
    @maryliefer7571 Před 2 lety

    I so appreciate you and your channel!!!

  • @valariegailniessnermissval8329

    Yes GOD had another plan for your life. Don’t take this the wrong way dear. I’m so glad that you resigned because we have all these wonderful tutorials. As a motivational speaker, singer and songwriter, I was also meant to be a seamstress. Thank you again for your God given talent.

  • @joycelondon1639
    @joycelondon1639 Před 3 lety +1

    Awesome thanks for the sharing From Atlanta Ga Beautiful work.first time here

  • @rosejacks8662
    @rosejacks8662 Před 2 lety

    Thank you, you are right. I like to be my own boss!❤️

  • @minerva5025
    @minerva5025 Před 3 lety

    Sorry to hear that, that's really strange you are a marvellous seamstress, don't even think about your boss for a second longer you can make it wherever you are.

  • @lindaholley4428
    @lindaholley4428 Před rokem

    I just found your channel - this is awesome! I have worked a corporate job for decades, retired then called back in as contractor - love to sew and create just never had time. My husband of 46 years passed from Covid last year and now I have free time and need to fill that time. I've always wanted to sew a wedding dress - never had time or reason but you have inspired me! I'm sure it will take me a little more time to actually do it but I intend to binge watch your videos until I get the nerve to do it :) You have quite a talent to teach, thanks for doing this!

  • @StrawBerry-ve8gy
    @StrawBerry-ve8gy Před 3 lety +2

    Fantastic hem tips. Thankyou

  • @adriennegonzales2636
    @adriennegonzales2636 Před 3 lety +2

    I was taught that this method for cutting is called "notch as you go" 💖

  • @sairascreations333
    @sairascreations333 Před 3 lety +1

    I was meant to be a seamstress as I started sewing in age of 10, I started my own officially in 2019 as full time seamstress as I had gut feeling 😅and so glad I did it. Thank you for all your encouragement, I'm your regular follower. ❤ #SairasCreations

  • @tammiemurray9963
    @tammiemurray9963 Před 3 lety +1

    OK, where has that jagged cuts trick been the last 25 years??? You'd think I would have at least fallen upon it by accident. I literally have 4 dresses hanging in my sewing room right now that I will be doing that on this week! Thank you!!. (And so sorry for the dud boss. That gut feeling is the Holy Spirit. I totally listen to HIM!!) You rock.

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety

      Haha. Glad I could help. Yes! God can really direct us.

  • @liezelstander6899
    @liezelstander6899 Před 3 lety

    Thank you honey all success to you and mexxx

  • @sandrahermit3598
    @sandrahermit3598 Před 3 lety +1

    Sounds to me like he needed to cut costs by firing someone. He tried to get you to quit by being mean to you. When you didn't quit, he had to do it himself. Happens in all kinds of jobs.

  • @mnprlgrl79
    @mnprlgrl79 Před 2 měsíci

    Some of the worst immediate moments of our lives turn out to be the best things that ever happen to us because they allow for a forced (or freedom to) re-route life's journey.

  • @xu9673
    @xu9673 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for the lovely video. It helps me a lot. I have studied and worked in different field for more than a decade. When I was younger, I was always interested at how to design/make garments. But my parents thought making clothes can’t bring me enough money so they decided business management should be my major in uni. I had quite successful career in my parents opinion - good money with good position, but I wasn’t happy. I quit my job in my late 30’ and entered to an uni as a Fashion Technology full time student. I will be graduated in two years time. I have never found myself this happy although I don’t have the same financial level as before. I believe that money is not everything and age doesn’t matter, the most important thing is that what your dream is and what makes you happy.

  • @robinwright5793
    @robinwright5793 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you!

  • @celestineargyros8401
    @celestineargyros8401 Před 3 lety

    I am so sorry you went through that firing.. You however are an amazing seamstress ! This video brought back memories of watching my sisters gown in the process of creation. Thank you so much.

  • @badashangpliang1768
    @badashangpliang1768 Před 3 lety +3

    I think God had bless you with this talent

  • @kimburke3189
    @kimburke3189 Před 3 lety +1

    I had a very similar experience. Life is way too short to let someone give you almost daily grief. In the end, it is their problem, not yours. I don't know why some people feel they have the right to persecute another person, but the issue is theirs, not ours!!! Good luck! But I can tell you really don't need it!!!

  • @jordannguyen3235
    @jordannguyen3235 Před 3 lety +1

    Your story is incredible and really touched my heart. I remember once not being offered a fashion opportunity, not due to my lack of skill and creativity, but because they sensed that something was "unresolved" within me. At the time, I took that critique personally but later on I realized they were right. I was not ready, and I needed to take time on my own to dig deep, reflect, and overcome past traumas. I am currently still in search of new opportunities, but I feel much more clear mentally, and I feel more driven to approach fashion and design in a new, open, and healthy way.

  • @cmsplushiesnpatterns
    @cmsplushiesnpatterns Před 3 lety +1

    As much as I think is wrong that they fired you because of a gut feeling I am very happy that you doing what you love And that there is a chance that you want to have started doing this if it wasn't for that time in your life.

  • @ramonawalter1442
    @ramonawalter1442 Před 2 lety

    OMG ! I love your video. Been there done that.

  • @margreteolsen4880
    @margreteolsen4880 Před 3 lety

    I am so sorry. My glib response was not ment to offend you. You are a professional in every way, I have watched many of your shows and find them very helpful and enjoyable. My concern it always that a profession that is inhabited by women is often not thought of as a profession but as a hobby, a side line something the little lady does to make pin money. I hope you can forgive me. You do a wonderful job!!!!

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety

      You didn't offend me! I just didn't want you to misunderstand me. No worries, darlin'! ❤

  • @ilovemyfamily51
    @ilovemyfamily51 Před rokem

    I have been sewing for years for my children such as baby blankets, bibs, etc…I am interested in learning wedding alterations.

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před rokem

      That's so awesome to hear!!!! Sign up for my newsletter so we can stay in touch!! e027-info.systeme.io/14260d09

  • @StrawBerry-ve8gy
    @StrawBerry-ve8gy Před 3 lety +2

    Ps..I love your attitude and trusting your gut feeling 🤗

  • @splibragirl
    @splibragirl Před 3 lety

    I love your story! I'd totes go back and let that monster know that his "gut feeling" opened the door to all your dreams! So happy you are happy sewing! I love it myself and have swayed away from my "professional trade" to focus on sewing as well. I've always made bridal accessories and have worked on a few close friends' wedding gowns and bridesmaids' gowns and they were so much fun! I've even made a cathedral vail that I am so proud of. Thanks for sharing!

  • @sonkar7049
    @sonkar7049 Před 3 lety +1

    I love your story! You convinced me #subscribed.. and I just want to say: i want you to read ALL audiobooks ever made! Your voice is amazing!

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +1

      Wow, thank you! A huge portion of my followers are actually ASMR lovers, or people who like a calming background voice and they play my videos on loop. lol Who knew?!

  • @veronicawhite160
    @veronicawhite160 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for the cool tips and timely to me story.😊

  • @karenramnath9993
    @karenramnath9993 Před 3 lety +2

    Mirror cutting is great, but I do an extra step. I have noticed sooooo many hems that are terribly lopsided right from the factory. If I only mirror cut, measuring up from the hem, I recreate the lopsidedness in the altered hem.
    To avoid this, I run the tape measure down the side seam, from the waist seam to where the new hem will be, and place a pin there to indicate the new length. I ensure that this measurement is the same on both sides, going down from the waist. Then when I pin the hem together to mirror-cut it, I match up those two pins rather than matching the edges of the original hem.
    I also usually press a crease in where my new hem will be, and hang the dress up to double check that the hem is visually even.
    Do a lot of you guys notice ready-made gowns that come with uneven hems?

    • @caroldeon8736
      @caroldeon8736 Před 3 lety

      Hi Karen, yes over the years I have encountered the odd satin gown that has been off kilter. I will say the worst culprits I have found plenty of are the organza and chiffon gowns. More like hemming a screen door fabric. But like anything else there are yucky, better, best of both these fabrics. The cost of the gown predicts weather the alts are going to be a nightmare or a joy. Cheers

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety +1

      Org & Chiff are getting cut while the bride is standing in my studio. I do *not* ever cut unstable fabrics with this technique. ❤

    • @terryjanisch905
      @terryjanisch905 Před 3 lety +1

      All the time.

  • @mamiesews123
    @mamiesews123 Před 3 lety

    Been thru same thing.evensamekind of dreams. I'm out of there now!

  • @dindog22
    @dindog22 Před 3 lety +1

    I had a boss like that. I was working as a seamstress in a very large bridal shop at the time. She wouldn't call you into the office to correct you. She would scream at you in front of everyone else. One time she was screaming at me and shaking her finger at me, almost hitting me in the nose, telling me that I was incompetent. She was the alterations manager yet she didn't know how to sew, not even a button

    • @stephaniehuddleston6181
      @stephaniehuddleston6181 Před 3 lety

      Ooo!!! I wonder if we had the same manager!!!😂 I spend 2 days teaching her how to thread a hand needle- kid you not! She claimed she was a well known designer in her previous state and yet she couldn't thread a needle, and hardly ever sewed a dress! I quit because if her and started my own business.

    • @dindog22
      @dindog22 Před 3 lety

      @@stephaniehuddleston6181 probably not the same person. Bridal shop was in Ohio and this woman was from England

    • @stephaniehuddleston6181
      @stephaniehuddleston6181 Před 3 lety

      @@dindog22 yeah, I didn't really think they were the same.

  • @hiwall4883
    @hiwall4883 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank God I live in a Country that has Unions and employment laws, sacking someone because of a bad feeling isnt legal where I live.
    I had a boss that tried to do that to me, the Union made my employer pay me 3 months pay in compensation 🤣 Great sewing tips, thanks.

    • @shmwmlam3953
      @shmwmlam3953 Před 3 lety +1

      Seriously I never knew you can fire someone without any reasons. Sometimes even if there are reasons because of union actions its very hard to fire someone

    • @hiwall4883
      @hiwall4883 Před 3 lety +2

      @@shmwmlam3953 I was surprised to hear that too, many Countries have strong employment laws, but apparently not in many states of America 🤔

    • @shmwmlam3953
      @shmwmlam3953 Před 3 lety +2

      @@hiwall4883 yes. And I am from a 3rd world country. So to hear a country like USA which suppose yo be "the great nation" treats employees like this is really suprising. And I heard its very common too. I had a manager like that back when I worked in a bank. She made me hate my job. Although I really felt like leaving my job I wanted that job. So finally I contacted HR, complained about her and got a transfer to another branch. Ofc she suceeded in making me hate my job because even though my new place was great I couldn't love my job as before. It made my eyes open to how much it sucks to work for someone else. But I left the job on my own terms.

  • @meinennamensagichnet
    @meinennamensagichnet Před 3 lety +1

    I think you started these videos for me. I always dreamed to be a bridal seamstress, ended up in a computer relates job anyway. Now while my children are small i have to decide whether i go back to the job I hate or start something new.

  • @saritshull3909
    @saritshull3909 Před 3 lety

    It’s illegal to fire someone like that in my country.

  • @grammielovestosew7797
    @grammielovestosew7797 Před 7 měsíci

    appreciate your lessons. I have done bridal alterations some but I like the additional lessons to make my job easier.
    I am doing a lace /sheer sleeve that has to be narrowed 2 inches under arm. It has buttons at bottom inside of sleeve. Would like to do a French seam. I am not sure how to do the bottom with the buttons and loops. any suggestion would be appreciated.

  • @Bobelsey11
    @Bobelsey11 Před 3 lety

    When people offer an opportunity to resign it’s so they don’t have to pay any severance or anything. Better to be fired sometimes!

  • @janholman6192
    @janholman6192 Před 3 lety

    Yea, I know I was a born to be a seamstress, but stayed in healthcare for a "normal job". My machine stayed out 24/7, and I always had a project going on. I missed my calling! But now I'm retired and I am living out my dream job in my home, though I don't sell anything!

  • @margreteolsen4880
    @margreteolsen4880 Před 3 lety

    Sewing is a professional position.

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety

      Hey! So, let's not get in a tiff about this. 😂
      There are two different ways to use the word "professional." One is, opposed to a hobby, which means, if you sew for a living, you are a professional sewist.
      The other is opposed to manual labor. I was using the word in this context. I was not in the role of a skilled laborer at the time. It was a non-manual paid position.
      Hopefully you'll extend some grace and get to know me better so that you would know I am the last person who would claim that seamsters are not in a profession.
      Please, please, don't read that kind of stuff into what I'm saying. *I'm definitely a professional seamstress!* 🤗

  • @desmondomoodua6807
    @desmondomoodua6807 Před 3 lety

    Thankyou for this video... you jst spoke to me....

  • @odipofrida
    @odipofrida Před 3 lety

    A-ha, guess what happened to me? I got fired too from a job I had then went to learn sewing because it was my passion always. The same job hired me back 4 months later 😂. I got an opportunity to keep learning off working hours and also save up to start my sewing business. One year down the line I got fired again! 😂 😂 But this time I had already started my seamstress career. 3 years later I can't complain and I'm never going to employment ever again. I'm glad to find this channel 💝.

  • @marlonsuan3566
    @marlonsuan3566 Před 3 lety

    After hemming i think...it should top stitch it so that its easy to iron the edges... i do that all the time

    • @BridalSewing
      @BridalSewing  Před 3 lety

      I think you mean understitching? Yes, that makes for a very smooth edge. I don't do that for all gowns. It depends on the pricing tier the bride wants to be in. --or if it is necessary. Many times it is not necessary if I use the clapper.

  • @pontinhosdalu8228
    @pontinhosdalu8228 Před 3 lety +1

    how I identify with you. after eight years working in a kitchen, I left there and today I make sewing a profession. I can't imagine my life any other way

  • @sueiverson258
    @sueiverson258 Před 3 lety +1

    My iron is my best friend!

  • @crispychaos6768
    @crispychaos6768 Před 3 lety

    If I ever plan to get married (have to find the right person first) I do plan to sew my wedding dress. I definitely will be going for a more vintage look.

  • @annereidy7981
    @annereidy7981 Před 3 lety

    The guy fired you before you could make problems for him, that's why he brought back up in, to intimidate while telling his story first.

  • @sewnita8608
    @sewnita8608 Před 3 lety

    I love your channel, it help me a lot. Thanks for the awesome job.

  • @mohammadalfatih1936
    @mohammadalfatih1936 Před 3 lety

    Thank you 🥰

  • @carlpierre7117
    @carlpierre7117 Před 3 lety

    Thank You!!!

  • @Kuukiet
    @Kuukiet Před 3 lety

    I have been sewing since I was little girl but haven't been able to do it for many years. I have been moving every 6 moths since 2017 so I have learned to pack light and not attach to things. Although, when I settle down finally, I will invest to sewing machine to get my passion back.
    Asking for an advice. I do think in what order I will do things but just looking for a confirmation. I bought my wedding dress and it needs quite a lot of alterations (take in waste, hemming, taking in the shoulder and fitting the sleeve again). My thinking is to alter the waste first so I can determine how much to take from the shoulders as the top part is quite long for my torso. And then lastly hem the dress. I'm correct doing it in this order? 🤔

  • @shameerahaniffa6420
    @shameerahaniffa6420 Před 3 lety

    You are just amazing!!!!!

  • @suzannebeyer5369
    @suzannebeyer5369 Před 3 lety +1

    I would have sued him for wrongful termination and taken my $ from the judgment to start my sewing business.

    • @suspectsez4203
      @suspectsez4203 Před 3 lety +2

      I live in Florida, which is a right to work state. That means you can get fired for any reason or no reason at all. Very few unions in Florida. This law was made to enable nonunion members to work at union jobs. They always try to get you to “resign” because in Florida you don’t qualify for unemployment benefits if you quit.

    • @hiwall4883
      @hiwall4883 Před 3 lety +1

      @@suspectsez4203 Good point, Yes, be very careful if they ask you to sign a resignation letter, sometimes it's better to let them go ahead and sack you for no reason, then you can claim unemployment.