false assumptions I had about writing my first book | what I've learned

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  • čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 25

  • @woodlandlady7011
    @woodlandlady7011 Před 16 dny +4

    I have never heard such truer words spoken about false assumptions between plotting and pantsing. Thank you.

  • @gretarosevans
    @gretarosevans Před 20 dny +7

    I love your take on characters, I couldn't agree more! I just filmed a video last week about developing my characters. I don't think it's helpful to answer questions about what my character eats for breakfast or what their favorite color is, especially before I even start drafting and get to know them!

  • @o.h.8337
    @o.h.8337 Před 18 dny +4

    I love this! It's refreshing to see the beginning of a writer's journey. Most people i have seen have already published at least 1 or 2 books. I am just trying to get started on my own book and many of the fears you have described here are just like mine. Especially the one about knowing your characters extensively before writing. This fear, the fact that everything about the character isn't decided as well as many plot holes that I don't know how to fill are the reason that I haven't gotten past the planning stages at all in about 1.5-2 years.

  • @graysonsbookmark
    @graysonsbookmark Před 9 dny +1

    as long as you keep going, you can't fail!

  • @madebymalayka
    @madebymalayka Před 16 dny +1

    "As long as I keep writing, I never technically failed." Yep, getting tatted across my forehead. That's a neat way of looking at consistency and creativity 😮🙌🏾

  • @kari888
    @kari888 Před 20 dny +3

    Hi Kayla, it’s Kari! My first comment on CZcams. I do not plot but I do write my ideas down. I’m always changing scenes if it doesn’t work out, but it’s definitely a hassle. I’ve changed my book so many times and I eventually burned out, but now I have learned from my mistakes, I can improve my craft. My first book was a nightmare and its second book is going really well. I always have the beginning and ending written out, but the middle is always the hard part. I’m content with my first book, but it’s not my best. I’m starting to read again to get better at writing. ❤

    • @KaylaKempers
      @KaylaKempers  Před 20 dny +3

      honestly that's the problem I'm running into right now with my draft 😂 I've changed it so many times I feel like I don't even know what's happening anymore, but it's such an important part of the process.
      Goodluck and enjoy your reading and writing! 💛

    • @kari888
      @kari888 Před 20 dny +1

      @@KaylaKempersThank you! I was on draft 24 before I self published the book on KDP. It took me two years to complete it but I wish you the best of luck! I’m still nervous about starting my own CZcams channel, but anyways, good luck, Kayla! You got this! My second book, 3rd draft, is at 140K words atm and it’s almost complete. Completely changed since the first draft.

  • @blakegrimes3557
    @blakegrimes3557 Před 13 dny

    You have no idea how much I needed this video. Our writing journeys seem to have been very, very similar to each other, though you’re farther along in yours. Thank you so much!

  • @ursulaholm
    @ursulaholm Před 19 dny +2

    Great video!!

  • @StudioLindsay
    @StudioLindsay Před 20 dny +1

    I used to feel awful whenever I abandoned a story, especially when I had spent so much time on it. But following my intuition and moving on ended up being the best decision for my writing.
    Thanks for sharing! 😊

    • @KaylaKempers
      @KaylaKempers  Před 20 dny +2

      Yes absolutely! And it’s never wasted time, even the stories we shelve are an important part of building our craft and finding our voice :)

  • @TiaLove28
    @TiaLove28 Před 20 dny +1

    I am still trying to relearn that it's okay to skip around. I think because I'm such a heavy plotter, I'm afraid I'll miss something vital and the idea of multiple drafts trying to fix my mistakes sound so daunting. this is great advice though. writing is a journey and it's not meant to be "hard". I just want to have fun haha

    • @LinaAshaybith1029
      @LinaAshaybith1029 Před 20 dny +1

      I am struggling with that, too. For me, however, it‘s mostly because I write best when I feel what my characters feel (and create the best scenes and side characters like that), so hopping around actually makes it harder for me to nail the tone and relationships of the moment.

    • @TiaLove28
      @TiaLove28 Před 20 dny

      @@LinaAshaybith1029 yeah that was my biggest issue. i found it easier to do in the very beginning before the Setup since they haven't met yet at that point.

  • @BlackHermit
    @BlackHermit Před 20 dny

    The thumbnail confused me a little, but in the end I got it.

  • @xandriagb
    @xandriagb Před 20 dny +1

    Hiiii! Do you think you could make a video on resources you have used (aside from college) that have helped you hone your writing? Not sure if you already had something like that out. Thank you thank you

    • @KaylaKempers
      @KaylaKempers  Před 20 dny +1

      Yes I can absolutely do this! :)

    • @xandriagb
      @xandriagb Před 20 dny

      @@KaylaKempers thank you so much!!!

  • @LoneHatchling
    @LoneHatchling Před 20 dny

    The link for your book won't let me buy it, I'm in the USA and my guess is that the link is for regions outside of the USA.

    • @KaylaKempers
      @KaylaKempers  Před 19 dny

      thank you for mentioning this! I replaced it with the .com link, it should work now :) 💛

    • @LoneHatchling
      @LoneHatchling Před 18 dny

      @@KaylaKempers YW. It appears that the link now works for me, thank you!