Why are you scrolling your phone in bed AGAIN?

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Komentáře • 229

  • @yashshirodkar6186
    @yashshirodkar6186 Před 2 měsíci +558

    Bro remembered he has a CZcams channel😢

    • @HisGlory768
      @HisGlory768 Před 2 měsíci +3

      😂

    • @Yassinius
      @Yassinius Před 2 měsíci +6

      Why would he if he found something more fulfilling and/or profitable?

    • @a08c7bde5
      @a08c7bde5 Před 2 měsíci +3

      ​@@Yassiniusbecause he owe his viewer for making him famous and had his starting career in CZcams

    • @Yassinius
      @Yassinius Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@a08c7bde5He owes us nothing lol. It's not like we're giving him money

    • @smoot2337
      @smoot2337 Před 2 měsíci +21

      Nobody truly owes anything to anyone. Debt is voluntary, consequence unrelated.

  • @ColeRolland
    @ColeRolland Před 2 měsíci +38

    Deleting the apps and using the desktop versions instead really did the trick for me. Much less invasive. Love these tips Thomas!

  • @lalithagadde655
    @lalithagadde655 Před 2 měsíci +102

    Feeling very called out right now 💀

  • @diansapuart
    @diansapuart Před 2 měsíci +43

    Thomas, this is literally what i need right now. i am addicted scrolling Instagram reels, to the point i delayed my most priority task. thank you for the advice

  • @CulturePhilter
    @CulturePhilter Před 2 měsíci +83

    I deleted Twitter from my phone last week and … I’ve found myself looking at Facebook more. Guess I need to delete that too.

    • @Junipire
      @Junipire Před 2 měsíci

      Then you have instagram, and once you’ve deleted all those, you go as low as LinkedIn 😂😂😂 I am doing this and it sucks

    • @diansapuart
      @diansapuart Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sure. Especially if you have projects, or something greater to do.

    • @damjanneshovski
      @damjanneshovski Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yeah, this one time I deleted instagram and facebook and ended up on reddit XD

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 Před 2 měsíci

      Eliza Mozal : "The more authentic I am, The more magnetic I am, draw desires to me."
      Internet makes you un-autentic. The tioxic channels want you to change your feelings and personality and polarize your mind.
      So you share it with the world, then you draw toxic events back to you.......Because you are not able to feel love empathy gratitude etc.

    • @babulsingh7521
      @babulsingh7521 Před měsícem +4

      You will start scrolling youtube shorts

  • @karandeengar
    @karandeengar Před 2 měsíci +15

    I am doing digital declutter (Cal Newport) and it's based on these principles of removing digital tools that are not essential for 30 days and then reassessing their value. In the interim, you instill high quality leisure. Removing the apps from my phone and my goal of trying to use my phone less (Maximum 1 hour but daily goal is less than 30 minutes a day) has been really helpful to me.

  • @sherdance_
    @sherdance_ Před měsícem +3

    I've been following Thomas' channel since I was in high school, right now I'm already in my last year of university. Love this channel! Missed your videos and found that this one hit hard. Thank you Thomas!

  • @theapril20
    @theapril20 Před 2 měsíci +17

    Since the moment I decided to not scrolling my phone in bed,I became more productive and it improved my sleep routine

  • @ggram0551
    @ggram0551 Před 2 měsíci +23

    Definitely like the idea. My issue is CZcams and "FOMO," fear of missing out. Not so much on entertainment, but small, potentially practical information, that can potentially help me out in life, which many times it has.
    However I've definitely spiraled down the rabbit hole way to many times.
    It's tough for me, because a good amount of that information, did actually help me out if life, but at times the amount of cumulative time has hurt me...ie; my latest unsuccessful and huge time suck searches, for online, work at home jobs, which probably cost me a letter grade in school, as I was determined that I could find at least one. Didn't happen.

    • @kaoutarrachdi4574
      @kaoutarrachdi4574 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Saaaaaame

    • @claywieringa6443
      @claywieringa6443 Před 16 dny

      Hey, I've been going through a journey for a long time on increasing my productivity and living a more fulfilling life. I had this exact same issue. CZcams took up WAY to much of time but I didn't want to completely block it and lose the many opportunities for learning that CZcams provides. What I found that works for me is a web extension called Unhook. With Unhook I can strip CZcams of everything except the search bar and the video itself. No recommendations no notifications, no comments if I don't want them. I've found that not only do I spend a lot less time on CZcams, but the time I do spend is on content that is educational and something that actually gives me a benefit. I also only use CZcams on my computer to eliminate the possibility of wasting time in the mornings or evenings on my phone. Hope this helps.

  • @nourmahmoud2078
    @nourmahmoud2078 Před měsícem

    Thanks for coming back, and for having a great impact!!!

  • @Verenaaschulz
    @Verenaaschulz Před 2 měsíci +9

    Thank you for your video ☺️ just what I needed 😊

  • @alexklepp6479
    @alexklepp6479 Před 2 měsíci +10

    It's something I've tried to do and I can ignore the notifications but I think since it's been a habit, it's really hard to break. Thanks for this video.

  • @rufuslynks8175
    @rufuslynks8175 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Nicely done!

  • @joey_williams
    @joey_williams Před 2 měsíci

    Great to see you back here Thomas!

  • @netanelravid2180
    @netanelravid2180 Před 2 měsíci

    That was great, thanks Thomas

  • @efenege2
    @efenege2 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you Thomas for answering my tweet in your Desktop Computer ☺️

  • @loricat5606
    @loricat5606 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you. I really like this concise and direct presentation! Nice!

  • @itsfarookmayne
    @itsfarookmayne Před 2 měsíci +5

    For my instagram password, I have changed it to a very hard password and turned off autologin in my password manager. Then I've written my password onto post-it note and folded in a place where I have to look it up and type it by hand. Make it a hell of a chore to enter a bad habit!

  • @nicolynsese8195
    @nicolynsese8195 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I honestly miss your podcasts, Tom. It has been part of my more productive morning routines. it gets me motivated to start the day on the right foot. Hoping you can do this again some time. Thank you.

    • @annikanestele3325
      @annikanestele3325 Před 2 měsíci

      I miss it too!! I also miss the conversations with Martin!! Hope they can bring that format back in some way in the future 🥲

  • @enigma7385
    @enigma7385 Před 2 měsíci +11

    I like that Kim Possible reference.

  • @kalinakoleva3734
    @kalinakoleva3734 Před 2 měsíci

    Amazing, this was the push I needed to do it.

  • @ablejohn1804
    @ablejohn1804 Před 2 měsíci

    Nice seeing you Tom.

  • @nishajha3835
    @nishajha3835 Před 2 měsíci +5

    after a long time, thomas
    Good to see you✨👍

  • @CoachKevin
    @CoachKevin Před 2 měsíci +2

    Haha! Watching from after the gym about to go to work cheers! You were the first productivity CZcamsr I allowed to affect my life and have been a fan since undergrad and now 1 year away from finishing my masters! Thanks for what you do good sir

  • @noahkormanyos6840
    @noahkormanyos6840 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Thomas, so usefuk. Keep the content coming!

  • @HenG20
    @HenG20 Před 2 měsíci

    Solid advice!

  • @AndreAlessiCastro
    @AndreAlessiCastro Před 2 měsíci +6

    In Redmi Note 12, you can setup automatic times for turning your phone off and on. I just set it up so when I'm in bed, it's already off. This has been helping me, since it's way easier to grab my kindle than turn on the phone again
    I can either select to turn on again before the alarm, but I just decided to buy a physical alarm clock. That way I don't have to rely on the phone for that and I can set it up to turn on later on the day.

  • @yata2512
    @yata2512 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thanks 🥹

  • @user-kx5ec4px4f
    @user-kx5ec4px4f Před 2 měsíci

    Very useful, thanks a lot for sharing

  • @AleemKhan-ru8hb
    @AleemKhan-ru8hb Před 2 měsíci +2

    Things such as scrolling, even though we aren't willing to accept it to be a part of our life or think its a useless activity, we do inevitably fall into its trap and do seem to like it ( since we do it often ). But eradicating such restrictions on ourselves by being proactive and being professional towards our life, its greatly rewarding and a great treat to our future self.

  • @KazuLoafers
    @KazuLoafers Před 2 měsíci +16

    Exactly what I need right now

  • @jahbless2114
    @jahbless2114 Před 2 měsíci +7

    called out 😮

  • @user-wn1kh3ci7w
    @user-wn1kh3ci7w Před 2 měsíci

    It was a very relaxing video, thank you for sharing. I am going to share it on Twitter now.

  • @user-zg1vi2xj2d
    @user-zg1vi2xj2d Před 2 měsíci

    you inspire me a lot ,thank you

  • @sauffy88
    @sauffy88 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this...
    I have told myself for over a decade that I spend too much of my time on my phone. I no longuer have the social media apps installed and it helps, but I have never been able to delete CZcams. And as you say, we replace a bad habit by an other : as my time with social media went down, my time with youtube went up. It didnt fix the problem.
    So... by watching this video, you made me realise that now... it's CZcams's time to go. Thank you Thomas.

  • @Nusoa-hr2pk
    @Nusoa-hr2pk Před 17 dny

    This is an example video of why I like you, Thomas ;)

  • @vascoguerreiro341
    @vascoguerreiro341 Před 2 měsíci

    thank you

  • @WorldHistoria111
    @WorldHistoria111 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Yeah man that's exactly what I did a couple of months ago and its been really awesome. I ended up getting a flip phone with that runs android and that seems to work the best for me. Cheers mate!

  • @abidsabanovic8188
    @abidsabanovic8188 Před 2 měsíci +1

    HE'S SO BACK

  • @Vertasoie
    @Vertasoie Před 2 měsíci

    Im gonna do it right now thank you =)

  • @thebronextdoor3583
    @thebronextdoor3583 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Much needed intervention 😅

  • @balletickid
    @balletickid Před 2 měsíci +6

    Ok so I have a CZcams scrolling addiction (especially now they've added shorts everywhere) so I decided to delete the app and just watch on my laptop as suggested... But my phone won't let me delete the app... Now I'm scared 😅

    • @ShadowBobby
      @ShadowBobby Před 2 měsíci

      you can deactivate the watch history and then yt wont recommend shorts for you

    • @zupergurkan
      @zupergurkan Před měsícem +1

      Same, but I found out that if you hit the three dots and tap not interested on the shorts on your home page for a bit, they'll disappear. I personally don't get tempted to go into the shorts section, which is good cus I have no idea how to remove that.

  • @mediawolf1
    @mediawolf1 Před 2 měsíci

    This is what I needed to hear today. (I watched this video on my laptop, for the record. 😏) I just deleted FB off my phone. Thank you 🙏

  • @ajeesh3485
    @ajeesh3485 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Yes sir you are a mind reader

  • @TriChaser
    @TriChaser Před 2 měsíci

    Closing down my battle net account and steam had been one of the best clean up I did. Sometime the itch still hits but its becoming more and more manageable as the years past.

  • @arghya_333
    @arghya_333 Před 2 měsíci

    I do look at my phone, but I read an ebook instead. This way I get some reading done and built that habit. Putting that ebook on the home screen was a great change.

  • @MedhaBatra
    @MedhaBatra Před 2 měsíci

    You have beautiful eyes 🙂 I have deleted all the social media apps from my phone now and I am gonna try being more productive. Video was super helpful. Thanks!!

  • @ND_phenomenologist
    @ND_phenomenologist Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you. Very helpful. 🐸 I'm not ready to get rid of my ice cream habit just yet though.

  • @mrpeanutguy4706
    @mrpeanutguy4706 Před 2 měsíci

    Perfect 👌

  • @khaledabdo8258
    @khaledabdo8258 Před 2 měsíci

    I love you man

  • @ammt1999
    @ammt1999 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks Thomas! Really needed to see this video! And the last point, actually true, we all need to touch grass more again really...

  • @TyTyMcGinty
    @TyTyMcGinty Před 2 měsíci +1

    I'm hopelessly addicted to the news cycle.

  • @EarthsGeomancer
    @EarthsGeomancer Před 2 měsíci +2

    Always eager to let us know of a book he's read before. 😂

  • @Dollcan
    @Dollcan Před 2 měsíci

    Great video today

  • @chiaramarker
    @chiaramarker Před 2 měsíci

    I love the idea of it.
    My "bad" habit app is Instagram. But the problem with it is that I also use it to share my artwork with my followers in order to (hopefully one day) build up my own business or a job in the art industry. At the moment I mainly do this through posts and stories. (I'm not a fan of reels, even though they would probably give me more reach). Unfortunately there is no option to post stories on the desktop version... :c (at least I wouldn't know where to do that) so I'm kind of tied to a mobile version of Instagram to be able to use this feature. x.x

  • @aabhassharma5220
    @aabhassharma5220 Před 2 měsíci

    He is back!!!! 🫶🫂

  • @ablejohn1804
    @ablejohn1804 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Well done Tom I just uninstalled my social media apps.
    Let's see how this goes.

  • @Fhyzzie20
    @Fhyzzie20 Před 2 měsíci

    I should probably replace social media with listening to music instead 😂 Thanks for the advice Thomas.

  • @tabbywarrior
    @tabbywarrior Před 2 měsíci

    You're back!

  • @JohnnyM2x
    @JohnnyM2x Před 2 měsíci

    I appreciate this video a lot, but for people like me who work on social media (for clients) it isn't as easy as it sounds, unfortunately.
    Still, you make a great point and made me realize I should be at least try to do things differently. Replacing the half an hour before bed habit of Instagram reels with a chapter of a book sounds cool to me. Thanks Tom!

  • @Kloops
    @Kloops Před 2 měsíci +5

    Im on The sofa scrolling.

  • @PeterIsATeacher
    @PeterIsATeacher Před 2 měsíci

    Thomas came back swinging

  • @Imperial_Squid
    @Imperial_Squid Před 2 měsíci +1

    Just as a consideration, I think it'd be really interesting to talk to an ADHD focused CZcamsr (How To ADHD being a great example) about this stuff, since as you say at lot of these solutions are really simple but for non neurotypical folks they can be hard to engage with. I think it would be absolutely fascinating and enlightening for both ADHD and productivity focused audiences to see a cross over in ideas between both sides.

  • @senpaitm8742
    @senpaitm8742 Před 2 měsíci

    I am a short video content creator. Part of my job is watching Reels/TikTok. Unfortunately as u said, that's really addicting.
    But i can't delete these social media yet, they are fundamental for my job

  • @Emotionalstudent
    @Emotionalstudent Před 2 měsíci +2

    Love from India

  • @Rayzorbladez
    @Rayzorbladez Před 2 měsíci +5

    Social media should all be banned

  • @kennethjoseph9309
    @kennethjoseph9309 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Jeez, Thomas its been a minute. How have tou been?

  • @TG47GRG
    @TG47GRG Před 2 měsíci

    missed u bro

  • @nadahaddad9922
    @nadahaddad9922 Před 2 měsíci

    " even if it's inconvenient" 👏

  • @suzisaintjames
    @suzisaintjames Před 2 měsíci +1

    Making ice cream, frozen yogurt and frozen pureéd fruit is soooo easy if you have one of those cheap ice cream makers that have the insert that you place in your freezer. ..
    Frozen yogurt, place store bought or home made yogurt in the maker, and 15 minutes later you have frozen yogurt.
    Frozen pureéd fruit, place frozen banana in a blender or mini food processor, pureé to a smooth paste and eat. (No ice cream maker needed.)
    Ice cream usually has a few ingredients to combine, add to ice cream maker, and 20 minutes later you have ice cream, ready to eat!
    Invest in an ice cream maker and quit buying ice cream with all those chemicals.
    Don't want it as readily available, don't store the insert in the freezer, I'm thinking it takes 6 hours? Or overnight to get ready for the making. Still faster than delivery and cheaper. Sending lots of love 💖 from sunny 🌞 Arizona 🌵. Take care of yourself and each other 😷.

  • @loveearthspirit829
    @loveearthspirit829 Před 2 měsíci

    Honest guy

  • @kylecrow1505
    @kylecrow1505 Před 2 měsíci

    I do this on occasion and I always find that I do much better with them gone. I can go to the webpage which would take that activation energy. Also, it makes it more intentional if I pull up the website on my MacBook Air and I tend to spend less time on social media overall. So, this time, I’m deleting them again and not bringing them back. Period

  • @nahhhidwin
    @nahhhidwin Před 2 měsíci

    HE’S BACK

  • @mikeyserrano9748
    @mikeyserrano9748 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I appreciate the Kim Possible reference lol

  • @ajeesh3485
    @ajeesh3485 Před 2 měsíci +5

    How to uninstall CZcams?

  • @letlovegrow59
    @letlovegrow59 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Im so dedicated to procrastinating i use web browsers on my phone because i deleted the apps months ago😅

  • @davekey908
    @davekey908 Před 17 hodinami

    You caught my but it's night I'm going to bed

  • @JuvarAbrera
    @JuvarAbrera Před 2 měsíci +2

    The notification for this video popped up as I was scrolling to unlimited shorts and reels before sleeping.

    • @JuvarAbrera
      @JuvarAbrera Před 2 měsíci

      The app timeout on Android doesnt help. I just add more minutes and hour then proceed to procrastinate. I think I deleted these apps before and it really helped but at some point, I installed them back again :( but it helped a little. Maybe its time again to delete these apps 😅

    • @JuvarAbrera
      @JuvarAbrera Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks Thomas. Bye~

  • @salmahosny1518
    @salmahosny1518 Před 2 měsíci

    welcome back

  • @mar_7055
    @mar_7055 Před 2 měsíci

    Where have you beennnn?

  • @eddieftw
    @eddieftw Před 2 měsíci

    I feel like I need to do this with CZcams too haha

  • @citigirlcountrified1927
    @citigirlcountrified1927 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Where are the cameras in my room? Tee hee

  • @darianmorat
    @darianmorat Před 2 měsíci

    "Touch grass"... The best sentence

  • @lessmore1393
    @lessmore1393 Před 2 měsíci

    Same problem but at night time. Deleted the Apps several times, never really trusted that this would be a long term fix cause its so simple. After two/three weeks always redownloaded thinking ill give it another shot cause i can/must learn to control myself. Maybe i dont… maybe a just need to keep the apps deleted…

  • @connorpeterman5024
    @connorpeterman5024 Před 2 měsíci +2

    THIS INCLUDES CZcams! don't rationalize it like I did "it's educational content. I get value X, Y, Z!"
    At the end of the day its still ripping you away from what matters. You're not as present as you could be. All that knowledge you seek isn't gatekept on youtube alone. You can find it elsewhere. How else did that knowledge end up on YT in the first place?
    You're going to have ups and downs. You WILL "relapse". But that's okay. Because growth isn't linear. I believe in you guys. You can do it.

    • @connorpeterman5024
      @connorpeterman5024 Před 2 měsíci

      Doing this has allowed me to rekindle my long lost love of reading. I stopped reading shortly after getting social media in middleschool. I was 24 when I decided to begin making changes and now I'm 26 and I'm making great progress on dense, intimidating books. I haven't finished them but that's not the point. The point is that I'm trying.

  • @methebee
    @methebee Před 2 měsíci +3

    I scroll and I like it

  • @christeduard951
    @christeduard951 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Im scrolling through CZcams at my job since 6:30am😮‍💨

    • @Cosmos_1111
      @Cosmos_1111 Před 2 měsíci

      And what's the time now there! 😅

    • @christeduard951
      @christeduard951 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@Cosmos_1111 7:40am, technically I did get on my phone at 5:45am because I watched the stock market opening like an old dude 🙈I do have 9 hour screen time which i should lower

  • @GallantryX
    @GallantryX Před 2 měsíci

    I used to not have them in my phone at all. for like 1.5 years. then I downloaded them again just to check something real quick. after that day. I was in a cycle downloading, and deleting them. every single week. at least I did that 30-40 times
    each time I'm convincing myself that I won't download them again, and whenever I'm in the situation where I usually open my phone, this time I don't, and there's nothing else to do. so I resist one day, but the other is super hard.
    I don't know how I got used to it for 1.5 years. and now it's so addicting.

  • @fredymendez855
    @fredymendez855 Před 2 měsíci

    Yo what i noticed from working retail on the weekends ? Most people will get so depressed during their lunch break when they start scrolling and seeing their friends and family out and about on their social media. I know 2 girls who just straight up deleted their social media to avoid this habit. I did something better which was bringing in a book to read every break on the weekend, as I never ate during my breaks because I tend to feel sleepy when I eat and the store i worked at was the mall so everything was more expesnsive so to save money and avoid feeling sleepy I read.

  • @AymaneAbaich
    @AymaneAbaich Před 2 měsíci

    I'm more of the go back to sleep type after waking up, which has the same result 'wasting one hour', not sure what to do about that ?

  • @mRain123
    @mRain123 Před 2 měsíci

    i saved to watch later, then continued scrolling again.

  • @VidyaSimran
    @VidyaSimran Před 2 měsíci

    My father scrolls till 2 or 3 in the night, sent this video to him, he is highly impressed n promised to change.

  • @henlohenlo689
    @henlohenlo689 Před 2 měsíci

    when entering or exiting sleep there is a phases where im just laying thinking but too tired to get up and too awake to sleep right away. and so im more likely pick up my phone.

  • @timbuktu8069
    @timbuktu8069 Před 2 měsíci

    Not in bed but with my morning coffee. I check the morning news and e-mails.
    Before I know it I have a quarter cup of cold coffee.
    (Being retired means not having commitments.)

  • @harjotkaur887
    @harjotkaur887 Před 2 měsíci +1

    ok but you can't post stories or posts on instagram over browser right? which seems sad

  • @Divinely_Authentic888
    @Divinely_Authentic888 Před 2 měsíci +5

    WOAH. HES ALIVE?

    • @Rayzorbladez
      @Rayzorbladez Před 2 měsíci

      His other channel is his money maker

  • @evelic
    @evelic Před 2 měsíci

    Frank is a super human god of productovity

  • @jefferaimer
    @jefferaimer Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm watching this at 10:33 am.

  • @melanieniemann4160
    @melanieniemann4160 Před 2 měsíci

    I recently downloaded an app to block me from using certain apps on my phone at certain problem times, and while it did help some, it also kind of just shifted the problem times around when I'm using it.
    I probably should just delete things entirely, but I'm not ready for that right now.

  • @eternal8lueforever
    @eternal8lueforever Před 2 měsíci

    How do you manage posting certain types content only available in the app? Ig stories for example