Mother Of 16-Year-Old Twins Claims Her Sister ‘Has Never Been There’ For Her

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  • čas přidán 9. 10. 2018
  • A single mother of teenage twins claims her sister has never been involved with or been there for her or her kids.
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  • @starrk4970
    @starrk4970 Před 3 lety +623

    I'm glad the aunt is standing up for Tessa👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @mollsandsyd2315
      @mollsandsyd2315 Před 3 lety +23

      She deserves someone on her side.

    • @mollsandsyd2315
      @mollsandsyd2315 Před 3 lety +21

      I am cheering on that aunt.

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Me too! Tessa needs someone in her corner she is alone!. that mother in the red is a disgrace! She's the reason her daughter is like this. Look at the bullying from her and her son sticking together against her own daughter/sister. The mother sets the foundation for her relationships with her kids and that mother has issues and she has poured them all out on her daughter to make herself feel better. Now look what's happening to Tessa she's only 16 yrs old & emotionally broken 💔. & it's all to do with her mother's treatment of her. Period. It's disturbing a mother can be this way.

  • @almudenaperezdelavega1377
    @almudenaperezdelavega1377 Před 3 lety +496

    Why is she blaming her sister for not raising HER children? Like, you have them you raise them, your family can definitely help, but they are not obligated to. If the aunt stepped in is because you are being abusive and your kid has decided she isn't taking it anymore and asked other's family members help.

    • @fajoor3873
      @fajoor3873 Před 3 lety +14

      Exactly

    • @AkimiK
      @AkimiK Před 2 lety

      She's a pathetic excuse of a mother.

  • @paganfox165
    @paganfox165 Před 3 lety +422

    How dare this woman. She seems convinced shes in the right, but her daughter is proof enough shes a bad mom

    • @SantanaCampbell
      @SantanaCampbell Před 2 lety +4

      Even if she's a good mom, the daughter would STILL BE VIOLENT, MEAN, DISRESPECTFUL, etc.

    • @alicianelson1252
      @alicianelson1252 Před 2 lety +11

      @@SantanaCampbell the daughter is not the problem the mom is there is video footage of her attacking her daughter

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 Před 6 měsíci +4

      ​@SantanaCampbell oh come on! You can see that girl ahs been emotionally abused she is acting out. This is the mother's fault. Not the child's fault.

    • @loril6210
      @loril6210 Před 6 měsíci +3

      She rented out her daughters room for convenience… who does that? Why not rent out the sons room? This girl is acting out of rejection. The mom is in denial

    • @chocoalmondfudge
      @chocoalmondfudge Před 6 měsíci +2

      ​@@SantanaCampbellthe mother made the daughter that way. Those attitude are the result of favoritism and neglect

  • @logicalowl905
    @logicalowl905 Před 3 lety +112

    Bruh ur sister WHO HAS HER OWN CHILDREN. She isn’t meant to look after ur kids

  • @EnchantedElise
    @EnchantedElise Před 2 lety +100

    “I have another child at home to be responsible for” mate he’s not a child and he should be out with you looking for his sister. I have a brother who’d help my mother if anything happened to me.

    • @haleyturner9391
      @haleyturner9391 Před rokem

      This is exactly what went through my head when she said that🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @BasketbalGirl13
    @BasketbalGirl13 Před 3 lety +237

    She literally used the aunt offering to take the twins before they were born to prove that the aunt hasn't been there. 😂

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo
    @MsPiinkFllamingo Před 3 lety +110

    The daughter is the most normal person in this entire family.

  • @swimfast724
    @swimfast724 Před 3 lety +106

    Isn't it illegal to force a minor dependent out of her home and make them homeless?

  • @BeNothingg
    @BeNothingg Před 3 lety +130

    Id run away from this mother too. My god

  • @VintageRose75
    @VintageRose75 Před 3 lety +67

    Her sister offered to take the children upon news she was pregnant. Translation: she didn't expect or want them.

  • @emberhermin52
    @emberhermin52 Před 3 lety +163

    Gee it's almost as if the responsibility of caring for children falls solely on the people who chose the have that responsibility by creating or adopting a child

  • @rebeccabriggs2982
    @rebeccabriggs2982 Před 2 lety +40

    A teen girl running to a boy is most always her running away from something. Another child at home. He's 16! Seems like he'd be fine if you go look for your daughter.

  • @beatrixrotarasu3991
    @beatrixrotarasu3991 Před 3 lety +42

    I think the mom is the one that needs to be set straight, not the kid

  • @MurgatroyIsALadysMan
    @MurgatroyIsALadysMan Před 3 lety +40

    why does she talk out the side of her mouth?

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes Před 2 lety +18

    I wish I could watch the whole episode . I wish the daughter could go live with the aunt because mom is something else

  • @thegamingwaffle1234
    @thegamingwaffle1234 Před 3 lety +41

    Damn she loves playing the victim

    • @Agent1W
      @Agent1W Před 2 lety

      I think she likes being a victim because it's easier for her to rebel.

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@Agent1W the mother loves playing the victim 💯. It's disturbing.

  • @totoki7400
    @totoki7400 Před rokem +5

    My mom will treat her friends like family and she will always say to me : " you know nothing, you don't need respect , you are too young for my respect "

  • @sarahkirch
    @sarahkirch Před 3 lety +72

    can everyone stop TALKING ABOUT THE SMALL AMOUNT OF COMMENTS

    • @fantasea114
      @fantasea114 Před 3 lety +2

      Yours is the first one I’ve seen but go off I guess

  • @rkshovon
    @rkshovon Před rokem +2

    I have been watchinh her speak and it force me to quit this video , no wonder her child runs away from her

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo
    @MsPiinkFllamingo Před 3 lety +12

    This mom needs to just stop existing.

  • @_.emilyyy._3986
    @_.emilyyy._3986 Před 2 lety +15

    It is not the child’s responsibility to “ be there for her “

  • @oliviasavino9720
    @oliviasavino9720 Před 2 lety +6

    If the girl is “troubled” why would you rent out her room and not the boys or her own room

    • @noneya5361
      @noneya5361 Před 2 lety +1

      I mean even if she wasn't troubled. Why rent out her room and not the sons or her own room. It makes no sense. As the parent she should make the sacrifice to rent her own room out.

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Cause it just goes to show exactly the treatment this young girl gets off her her 'mother' . Absolutely setting her own daughter up for mental health issues and its the mothers fault she did this to her 💯 . Her mother should be her biggest cheer leader in her life, building her daughter up not breaking her down. She dosnt deserve the title mother.

  • @candaceharewood16
    @candaceharewood16 Před 6 měsíci +2

    That poor girl is in pain.she is feeling unloved

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 Před 6 měsíci +1

      She is in pain and her mother keeps digging her heels in so sad 💔

  • @Art_Violinst_M
    @Art_Violinst_M Před 3 lety +10

    I would’ve said “so...” to the mom the first 15 seconds she started talking

  • @jamiemiller315
    @jamiemiller315 Před 2 lety +7

    She can’t even be a parent.. a mother. She what’s to push this off on others. It’s her responsibility. Own up to your mistakes.

  • @itztrippyxitztripp_6022
    @itztrippyxitztripp_6022 Před 3 lety +52

    I just spilt soup on my lap 😔 rip my maruchan instant lunch.

  • @frogger6478
    @frogger6478 Před 3 lety +25

    I think she’s just frustrated but sad that she’s taking it out on her kids.

  • @totorolover5750
    @totorolover5750 Před rokem +1

    Since when is it the aunt's responsibility to take care of her nieces and nephews? Your there mother you got to do it out yourself you got to do it.

  • @bmk256
    @bmk256 Před 3 měsíci

    when your kid wants to run away from home that’s a reflection of you as a parent

  • @Reality_TV
    @Reality_TV Před 2 lety +4

    How do you NOT call the police EVERY SINGLE TIME your kid is missing? She could have been killed! Deep down inside, I think this mother would love not to have her around. She has TWO kids. The sister has FOUR kids. Somehow she expects a woman who has FOUR kids to help her raise her TWO! LOL! WHAT? Make it make sense.

  • @mehreenriyaz9179
    @mehreenriyaz9179 Před 3 lety +39

    And then one day the daughter will be rich and her mom and bro will be crawling back to her

    • @jmallett6081
      @jmallett6081 Před 3 měsíci

      I like that. This girl is trying to do her best in an impossible situation. She cannot be on her own because of her age. When she finds her place in the world, I doubt she has reason to have contact with either of them. She is the scapegoat, the abused, yet she still survives, because people who are not loved either die or find any path that will allow them to live without anxiety. I think she will succeed, and of course with her success her brother and mother will feel entitled to ask for things, yet you should not put pearls before swine, it works badly every time. She has had to take care of herself, so it should remain that way into adulthood. She should not give into to bullies or entitled people who did not care for her situation. She has every right to go no contact, and she would if she could make her own living, and who can blame her. Dr. Phil cares about content for ratings, yet this girl just wants to live a decent life. It is creepy that people should care about each other, yet all we get is hypocrisy and BS. I want the girl to be happy and not give 2 cents to the people that wanted to destroy her, this is so toxic being put out there like being part of mankind is just a joke or having children and taking care of them means nothing. It is gross.

  • @Snowymae
    @Snowymae Před 3 lety +10

    That head movement is making me seasick

  • @jonathantyner171
    @jonathantyner171 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Good Job, Auntie. 👏🏽👍

  • @thevutwinsbellaandjamya7401

    The mother trying to be innocent

  • @capncrunch5729
    @capncrunch5729 Před 3 lety +6

    They would never survive in my household 🤦‍♂️

  • @sunnydee196
    @sunnydee196 Před 2 lety +4

    The mom doesn’t want to be a bad mom. She’s just frustrated and needs help and guidance on how to parent better. Even in another segment of this episode Dr Phil recognized that. The best way to help this child is by helping the mom learn better parenting techniques and coping skills. It does nothing good for the girl to continue to blame and frustrate and verbally attack the mom so that she’s too distracted fighting back and defending herself instead of focusing on Positive parenting skills. But everyone’s a critic so whatever.

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 Před 6 měsíci +3

      She knows how to be a mother she is a good one to her son it seems!. She is choosing NOT to be a good one to her daughter. She is breaking that girl down. Because the mother has clearly has deep seated issues with herself and has poured it onto her daughter! She's been the scape goat. It's disgusting.

  • @leahsilvas836
    @leahsilvas836 Před 2 lety +5

    No moms lying she was happy she left

  • @jaynecopeland7968
    @jaynecopeland7968 Před rokem +1

    Hey "mom" YOUR KIDS ARE YOUR RESPONSIBILITY! is this real? WOW! Id run too! What a wack job

  • @AprilScott-ke9fn
    @AprilScott-ke9fn Před měsícem

    I'm not sure how this works...why are some of these shows only shorts and some are not? WHERE'S THE REST OF THIS STORY?🤷‍♂️

  • @crusathekoala
    @crusathekoala Před 7 měsíci +2

    Yeah im in my mid 20s. And i was the discarded child. My younger sibling is almost 12 years younger than me. Shes a good kid she had the parent that threw me away. I dont hild anything against her. I mean yeah i still have my feels towards the parent that threw me away. But that shouldnt affect my relationship with my sibling. But in this clip the son is the golden child who does no wrong and soaks it up and revels in it

  • @danielleking262
    @danielleking262 Před 3 lety +14

    P.O.S. mother

  • @meh6131
    @meh6131 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm here just to comment that the title confused me a lil bit

  • @bmk256
    @bmk256 Před 3 měsíci

    her daughter isn’t getting better because the MOTHER ISN’T CHANGING

  • @henkman00
    @henkman00 Před 10 měsíci

    from Dr.Phil's perspective, this is a conversation in stereo...

  • @whiskeytango-pl5ht
    @whiskeytango-pl5ht Před 2 lety +2

    And the one thing you didn't do? You didn't look in the goddamn mirror. People are so blind sometimes.

  • @whitneywaters3464
    @whitneywaters3464 Před 2 lety +1

    elsa vs. anna

  • @michaelmensah7801
    @michaelmensah7801 Před 3 lety

    ARghhhh

  • @kaiarodgers5244
    @kaiarodgers5244 Před 3 lety +3

    First comment?

  • @hemily54
    @hemily54 Před 2 lety +9

    The Mom's sister is just looking for her 15 minutes of fame! The Mother is a train wreck and the daughter needs serious counseling! I can't believe Dr Phil is stupidly sticking up for the Aunt! I've KNOWN people like her who RARELY are around to see BOTH SIDES of the story yet are only too happy to trot out before the neighbors or in this case the cameras to prattle about "how concerned she is" and how much she cares! BS!

    • @waikalaniwarground
      @waikalaniwarground Před 2 lety +9

      You must’ve never watched the whole episode. The mom was completely wrong in every way and was the main cause to her daughters mentality. So yeah, the aunt was right and dr Phil was right for sticking up for her

    • @waikalaniwarground
      @waikalaniwarground Před 2 lety +4

      You must be a gaslighter ad well huh

  • @fathiarania1058
    @fathiarania1058 Před 3 lety +1

    i don't know who to blame the girl is kinda a bad kid the bro is spoiled

    • @mjriot4653
      @mjriot4653 Před 3 lety +5

      The bro just looks amused by the whole situation, smirking the whole time. Tessa is wrong but the mom and brother are too, I feel like they gang up on her, poor thing

    • @jonathantyner171
      @jonathantyner171 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I blame the mom.

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@mjriot4653 Tessa isn't wrong. Actually the opposite shes exactly right. She's a good kid. Shes just refusing her mother's disrespect and not allowing her to break her self-esteem. Tessa is like this because her "mother" made her like this! She has to keep fighting, because her mother is dishing it up to her all the time! She's the reason this is happening with her daughter through pure neglect! Whilst spoling on child abandoning the other. Who wouldn't be acting out!

  • @oliviagrace6914
    @oliviagrace6914 Před 3 lety +5

    God bless! Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior and died on a cross for our sins so we can live again in Heaven where there is no pain or suffering! God is our Father and Creator and raised His Son Jesus from the dead! Confess and repent of your sins and God will freely forgive you! Trust in God and live for Jesus as He died for you! 💕

    • @leilaelfath4781
      @leilaelfath4781 Před 3 lety +1

      sorry i’m muslim but God bless you ☪️❤️✝️

    • @elwampo135
      @elwampo135 Před 2 lety

      Stop this, its annoying.

    • @matthaddock1817
      @matthaddock1817 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@leilaelfath4781It's alright. Even if you are Muslim, God is open to you.

  • @Light-jc3fj
    @Light-jc3fj Před 2 lety

    I feel for the mum..

    • @jonathantyner171
      @jonathantyner171 Před 10 měsíci +1

      No, you should not feel bad for her.

    • @jmallett6081
      @jmallett6081 Před 3 měsíci

      Wow, you should feel for people who have children, and instead of allowing people who want children to adopt them, you treat your son okay, and treat your daughter like you wish she was never born. That makes sense. There must be a reason you feel that way. It is not healthy or realistic. We are not alligators or a Saturn god that eat their own children. We used to be the best. We loved our children and taught them how to be a good person. Today, we have turned into a bunch of idiots or heartless, selfish, horrible people. Sometimes I am ashamed of mankind. BTW, I am trying to teach you, not become your friend. I just hope that there is hope for you.