My Fiancé is Cheating on Me! (What Should I Do?)

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  • My Fiancé is Cheating on Me! (What Should I Do?)
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Komentáře • 469

  • @Moriningland
    @Moriningland Před 2 lety +375

    She’s actually very lucky that not only did she find this out before her marriage but before they had children

  • @NT-bz5nh
    @NT-bz5nh Před 3 lety +415

    Thank god she found out before the wedding instead of after. This won’t be easy but she’s been spared a lifetime of pain if they call it quits now. Please don’t marry him and have a bunch of babies.

  • @cjlive5182
    @cjlive5182 Před 3 lety +308

    NEVER marry a cheater and never take one back. You will hate yourself.

  • @lindashepard4621
    @lindashepard4621 Před 3 lety +211

    The only thing worse than finding out he is a cheater now, is finding out your husband and father of your kids is a cheater. You dodged a bullet, Delia.

  • @flyandshy00
    @flyandshy00 Před rokem +14

    11 years without marrying you - he had many affairs. It's only the first time you found out about it.

  • @sharmainekuilan9808

    Same happened to me. Ex called off the wedding 3-4weeks before the day. Was cheating and I just cut him off. He calls me day of wedding saying he regrets it and wants to get married still. Worst part is that he called it off but I was the one that had to call everyone and explain the wedding was canceled. I also had to call the venue and cancel with them because he was too chicken to do it. Best thing he ever did for me even though it was the worst time. I’m happily marrried now with someone else and have two beautiful amazing kiddos. I saw his brother out somewhere and he told me my ex is still single playing house with someone else at 39 years old and everytime they argue he goes back to his mom house. Still immature and never changed. Girl, just leave and don’t look back. It’ll hurt for a moment but the blessing will come for you later on.

  • @jill9606
    @jill9606 Před 3 lety +260

    If he’s cheating and outright telling you he “has cold feet” after all these years, 4 months away from marrying you, this isn’t right. Don’t move forward with it no matter how much time you’ve invested in him!

  • @nicoleb1023
    @nicoleb1023 Před 3 lety +170

    Girl. Run. Run fast, run far and leave that dude in the dust.

  • @illbet4589
    @illbet4589 Před 3 lety +83

    Pawn the ring, thank whoever you believe in that this information came to light before marriage, & move on.

  • @kimberlydorsey1435
    @kimberlydorsey1435 Před 3 lety +172

    If he's a Roller Coaster/Up & Down now, that's how ur marriage will be if u marry him, God is protecting u, Go With God

  • @bmcdonald7303
    @bmcdonald7303 Před 3 lety +288

    You shouldn’t have to “make it work” before you get married. You deserve better. Period.

  • @ellencox8415
    @ellencox8415 Před 3 lety +324

    Wait, he has a fully developed other girlfriend? Leave. Leave and do not give him another second of space in your mind. You have wasted enough time with this loser. He doesn't respect/care for you AT ALL. You know what you need to do, have the strength to do it.

  • @amandawithlov3908
    @amandawithlov3908 Před 3 lety +60

    Girl at 25 years old you’re just beginning to live your life!

  • @bmcdonald7303
    @bmcdonald7303 Před 3 lety +255

    I have been married for about 5 months when I found out he had been cheating on me 4 out of the 5 years we were together. During this time we had two kids together, a dog, house and minivan. We had what I thought was the American dream with our degrees and great jobs, life etc. my point is…. Run!!

  • @theluckienurse
    @theluckienurse Před 3 lety +129

    Sweetie, he doesn’t want you.

  • @Harasezza
    @Harasezza Před 3 lety +337

    Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings, especially when so much time has been invested with that person. It's a classic sunken cost fallacy, where you don't want to let go of the person because you have invested all that time and have so many memories with him. In the end though, if you had only dated him for a short time, you wouldn't accept that type of behavior. Trust is everything in a relationship- you deserve better👍

  • @nev2943
    @nev2943 Před 3 lety +125

    Nope. Before my current fiance I got cheated on twice by a sumbag. I pretty much cussed him out then drove to his house and told his father how much of a scumbag his son was lol. Looking back my actions were a little drastic but I needed to do what I needed to do to find peace. I'm now engaged to a man who treats me like a Queen. Listen caller? Cheaters do you a favor - they push you right into your destiny.

  • @andrewawakened628
    @andrewawakened628 Před 3 lety +74

    Before I even listen to the story, I can tell you what you do - you call off the wedding and break up, and thank God that you found out early enough to dodge a bullet.

  • @bouh1979nktt
    @bouh1979nktt Před 2 lety +10

    the advice is simple :

  • @NS-jt9vv
    @NS-jt9vv Před 3 lety +127

    Lucky girl, she found out before she married him. She summed him up pretty well blah blah blah.