This Is What SELFISHNESS Looks Like!

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024

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  • @SaRaGarvey2012
    @SaRaGarvey2012  Před rokem +10

    FULL VIDEO: czcams.com/video/9dEXPfBrKIE/video.html

    • @skondingo8322
      @skondingo8322 Před rokem +1

      SaRa. Ever since you stepped in to this space you’re stock has risen even more 📈. Big up to you !!!

    • @Batz130
      @Batz130 Před rokem

      @3:54 she surprised her man who does Parkour with a picnic? Even when they think they're being generous and gracious it's still rooted in selfishness and on their terms. 🧐

    • @casualhandz1922
      @casualhandz1922 Před rokem

      THANK YOU SA RA FOR PUTTING THE LINK TO THE FULL VIDEO!

    • @joesmith5097
      @joesmith5097 Před rokem +1

      Too add a point..how convenient is it that everythime a hugely successful man becomes unimaginably rich the wife becomes entitled to half of everything because of all the ridiculous reasons we all have heard..yet in modern society w equality most of the reasons they divorce is when they begin to have personal success? Why do they now get to justify leaving him? Is he not as equally responsible for her success? Why doesn't he get brought along for the ride? Maybe she is getting promoted because sure she worked hard but husband worked his 40 hrs a week and went home to help the family while she worked extra! They are all just crazy, selfish children!

    • @tonytemple8195
      @tonytemple8195 Před rokem

      Sorry, I don't think Ms Pearly White Things 😏 is genuine, as she just jumped on Kevin Samuels wagon soon as he was removed 6 months ago.
      She knows the modern day female especially the black woman, is easy pickings from the safety of the UK 🇬🇧, as it wouldn't be so easy back in the US 🇺🇸

  • @bagchaserkash
    @bagchaserkash Před rokem +254

    Imagine a 20 year old having more common sense and the ability to display natural femininity more than every woman on the show 😂 shoutout Pearl for the fire content!

    • @lucasdeangelo5462
      @lucasdeangelo5462 Před rokem +15

      Yea that young one the smartest out of all the women she was describing what Every man wants frfr

    • @dukarivir8218
      @dukarivir8218 Před rokem +13

      She really shitted on them with out trying. She going to be a happy wife one day.

    • @johnjames5842
      @johnjames5842 Před rokem +1

      Bag chaser? Hope that's irony

    • @bagchaserkash
      @bagchaserkash Před rokem

      @@johnjames5842 ??

    • @taharqa332
      @taharqa332 Před rokem +8

      She grew up with HER FATHER in the house!! Makes a lot of difference in most cases.

  • @brahtrumpwonbigly7309
    @brahtrumpwonbigly7309 Před rokem +99

    My mom left because "I'm sick of doing things for other people, it's time I do something for myself."

    • @ericb7776
      @ericb7776 Před rokem

      All the while your father was doing things for her

    • @jpb9524
      @jpb9524 Před rokem +12

      Sounds like a selfless mother 😂

    • @TheOlzee
      @TheOlzee Před rokem +10

      Should be ILLEGAL to divorce on such grounds.

    • @jpb9524
      @jpb9524 Před rokem

      It’s the reason no man should ever marry on the current contract iteration of modern marriage. (No fault)

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 Před rokem +3

      Many women do this

  • @terrencelee9366
    @terrencelee9366 Před rokem +110

    They never ask why the men leave , the men just get the heat because they left . A man can be in abusive marriage leave his wife and these women will use that as a reason on why they can’t maintain a serious relationship. But it’s always the woman is being victimized and the man is the victimizer .

    • @wingoreviewsboxingandmma3667
      @wingoreviewsboxingandmma3667 Před rokem +13

      Well yeah, the woman in the pink never thinks she is at fault or women are at fault for anything ever.

    • @johnmcaulay8448
      @johnmcaulay8448 Před rokem +1

      80% of divorces filed by Wohmen, 80% of the consumer base Wohmen, they are nothing but scammers, & users. 100% facts!

    • @ubbebjornson3860
      @ubbebjornson3860 Před rokem +4

      This is because society habitually bails women out, and they're never held accountable for their choices or actions.

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 Před rokem +1

      Men leave women because women are either on drugs, committed a felon, financially irresponsible, she has cheated or she is physically abusive.

    • @seatofhonourchurch
      @seatofhonourchurch Před rokem +1

      Spot on! It's like bringing a lady say from Nigeria/Africa to the West and she couldn't wait to get off the religious and cultural cover to start the drama, then some will turn and say, "women change when they move to the West," excusing it on Western culture. The truth is they were just pretending and hiding who they are and what they do/their lifestyles because of the strong religious and cultural rules in those countries...

  • @ubbebjornson3860
    @ubbebjornson3860 Před rokem +128

    I love how it's never ok to generalize about women, but yet they do it to men constantly. The lack of internal consistency is staggering.

    • @davidmoore8289
      @davidmoore8289 Před rokem +1

      They do this a lots .

    • @jaeda88
      @jaeda88 Před rokem

      I watched a fair amount of these talks and it is fair to say that generalising is the default setting.
      It's ridiculous.. your sex does not determine what type of person you are!
      This 'modern' woman term is new to me...!

    • @jaeda88
      @jaeda88 Před rokem

      You shouldn't generalise about any sex male or female..

    • @ubbebjornson3860
      @ubbebjornson3860 Před rokem

      @jaeda88 but yet it is societelly promoted to do it to men and I guarantee you have done it in your life.
      Modern woman is a mentality formed from victim ideology.

  • @3hug3hug6
    @3hug3hug6 Před rokem +70

    Shoutout to the soft spoken woman in white she is precious

    • @SilverandBlackMedia
      @SilverandBlackMedia Před rokem +9

      No cap... I was scrolling thru the comments like no one is going to mention her.

    • @AM-zq8ro
      @AM-zq8ro Před rokem +2

      💯

    • @_lion_1137
      @_lion_1137 Před rokem +1

      Don’t be fooled sometimes they can be the worst

    • @SilverandBlackMedia
      @SilverandBlackMedia Před rokem +1

      @@_lion_1137 I will put my stamp on the woman in the white though... Her energy different from the rest of the cast up there

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 Před rokem

      Wifey material 100%

  • @ABullboy
    @ABullboy Před rokem +24

    Men don't want no damn picnics. this chick is hearing what she wants to hear. in my whole life, I have never, not once, ever, met a dude that says I really love picnics.

    • @kirbyaugustine761
      @kirbyaugustine761 Před rokem +5

      😂😂😂😂

    • @latoyamahaffey8202
      @latoyamahaffey8202 Před rokem +6

      True I don't even like picnics, my guy likes camping & fishing. I don't, but I go along to please him.

    • @ABullboy
      @ABullboy Před rokem +5

      @@latoyamahaffey8202 you one of the good ones then. Teach them others the way.

    • @latoyamahaffey8202
      @latoyamahaffey8202 Před rokem +3

      @@ABullboy thanks but I just enjoy watching others.... especially family & friends having a good time. When they're truly smiling, it make me happy 😁

    • @jaeda88
      @jaeda88 Před rokem

      I'm a 41yr old woman and picnics and flowers, Teddy bears do nothing for me!

  • @gmmonomotapa2889
    @gmmonomotapa2889 Před rokem +35

    Amazing how the soft spoken lady literally got everybody to shut up & listen to her. The hyenas on the other hand just a wailing & cackling mess I was literally fast forwarding 10 seconds everytime they spoke.

    • @Mr._Moderate
      @Mr._Moderate Před rokem

      I particularly 20 her soft voice and gentle manner very enchanting 🙂

  • @jermaineburgess3767
    @jermaineburgess3767 Před rokem +58

    Every time it's all about how the woman feels and their happiness

    • @anitahiawatha6060
      @anitahiawatha6060 Před rokem

      Men have done this themself

    • @lawrencedavidson6195
      @lawrencedavidson6195 Před rokem

      @@anitahiawatha6060 Yes, maybe 1% of 1% of men have done that.

    • @jeromeisaacs4428
      @jeromeisaacs4428 Před rokem +1

      True what kind of grown Man likes Picnic 🤣 he said he likes Picnic just to keep Her happy

  • @grockrecords
    @grockrecords Před rokem +37

    So basically the man pays all the bills, protects, provides, and provisions, and then gets rewarded with 2 Sardine Sandwiches, Marmite, and a Walk in the PARK, where I am sure she did 85% of all the talking!! PURE MADNESS LOL!!! These modern women are USELESS!!

    • @PassportG
      @PassportG Před rokem

      Madness I know 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @galaxi407
      @galaxi407 Před rokem

      Nice idea, my dad didn't provide and protect. Mum worked, dad didn't.

    • @bigde131
      @bigde131 Před rokem +2

      @@galaxi407 mum should’ve picked better

    • @Romeo615Videos
      @Romeo615Videos Před rokem

      @@galaxi407 moms was prob ugly too and dad didnt want you but he was stuck and said yo man i cant deal with this ugly chick and this ugly kid so he left yall... or he beat on her and was a pos. who knows... my guess is mom was stuck with you and im willing to bet the apple didnt fall far from the tree

    • @khaotic8
      @khaotic8 Před rokem

      Most marriages run off dual income. So technically most men arent able to provide nd most women aren't being provided for probably because the provision is off. Society and economics are changing. Its cool to have some of the same things but we have to evolve in all ways and people have a hard time doing it in relationships

  • @chadross2240
    @chadross2240 Před rokem +12

    If men left relationships because he “wasn’t happy” or “wanted more” mane women would never get married lol

  • @CharBuilds
    @CharBuilds Před rokem +3

    The one in the white dress in the cut that’s soft spoken and polite she can get whatever she wants 🥴 lol

    • @lynnd.5135
      @lynnd.5135 Před rokem

      Yeah coz she is passive and will accept cheating and beating

    • @CharBuilds
      @CharBuilds Před rokem

      Nooooo because she was Raised right and knows her role with a man unlike you most likely…

    • @lynnd.5135
      @lynnd.5135 Před rokem

      @@CharBuilds am married. Nice try though

  • @wtvhthis2336
    @wtvhthis2336 Před rokem +31

    A women is not selfish for not wanting to have kids and get married.A women is selfish when shes obligated to those responsibilities and does not take care of the responsibilities and duties

    • @NevinMuscle
      @NevinMuscle Před rokem +11

      Exactly like people needa realize that kids is not for everyone like most people these days are judgmental AF & also at the Same time people can as well have kids for selfish reasons too

    • @wtvhthis2336
      @wtvhthis2336 Před rokem +1

      @Byron Payne then god whoever was foolish to create the women

    • @bigde131
      @bigde131 Před rokem

      @Byron Payne no that’s not. They were put on this earth as companions and partners. It’s literally in the first few pages of the Bible lool

    • @bigde131
      @bigde131 Před rokem

      @Byron Payne Genesis 2:18 “ IT IS NOT GOOD FOR THE MAN TO BE ALONE. I WILL MAKE A HELPER SUITABLE FOR HIM.” Better freshen up on that bible lol

    • @bigde131
      @bigde131 Před rokem

      @Byron Payne sort of. Fact is they were put here to be companions. Not baby factories. That’s why women be complaining about controlling men because some of y’all just want to lord over them🤣.

  • @bencarignan2711
    @bencarignan2711 Před rokem +43

    She's trying to make the exception the rule.

  • @tronfitnesstv
    @tronfitnesstv Před rokem +3

    When the girl with the white dress starts talking EVERBODY keeps quiet 😂👏🏿

  • @victorythroughharmony11
    @victorythroughharmony11 Před rokem +7

    She said "I surprised him with a picnic" you know 😂 can't make this shit up..
    She's proving the exact point that women extremely rarely to selfless favours for men.. it's basically something THEY would enjoy disguised as a gift for the man.

  • @rollinOnCode
    @rollinOnCode Před rokem +61

    I love how modern women always manage to prove the old adage "women are to be seen and not heard"
    Every single time they open their mouth they got nothing but excuses

    • @johnjames5842
      @johnjames5842 Před rokem

      Exactly, I know very educated women, and I've never been impressed with any conversation we have had , they are very biased , ignorant, and delusional AF. I look at Eastern European countries and even Islamic countries, and am like , you see what's up, the dangers of this insane gynocentric ideology, it's cultural suicide.

  • @scottallen6970
    @scottallen6970 Před rokem +27

    Ok, she chooses to surprise his man with a cheap picnic. Real cheap and easy. To make a women happy, pay all the bills, give a spa treatment, get me a bag.

  • @Batz130
    @Batz130 Před rokem +9

    I remember a defense attorney said the top 3 women that file for divorce are , Nurses , Teachers , and stay at home mom's. 🤔

  • @Dadnatron
    @Dadnatron Před rokem +17

    Rather than really LIKING a picnic... it is likely one of the 'most enjoyable' things he has done WITH HER, by default. If she actually listened to him, she would likely hear what he ACTUALLY likes. Its like choosing between a day of shopping at the mall vs a picnic. They guy would rather do the picnic. So she 'hears' "I like picnics" rather than, "If I'm going to do something YOU like... I guess the most enjoyable is a picnic."

  • @ha8av
    @ha8av Před rokem +5

    Girl at the end would get that ring IMMEDIATELY!!! Even down to the softness of her voice. Mate. 😍🙌🏾🔥

  • @quietstorm9436
    @quietstorm9436 Před rokem +9

    The girl in the red dress just like to hear herself talk.

    • @yungbfresh1
      @yungbfresh1 Před rokem +1

      Yeah Davina. She fine af, however very opinionated. She full of exceptions to the rule and excuses. She is hot.

    • @quietstorm9436
      @quietstorm9436 Před rokem +2

      @@yungbfresh1 she will be a headache to deal with.

  • @dbb1722
    @dbb1722 Před rokem +7

    As a man we give diamonds and receive socks 😭😭😭 stop the 🧢

    • @jasonwilliams9307
      @jasonwilliams9307 Před rokem

      💯😬

    • @cesarmendoza8030
      @cesarmendoza8030 Před rokem +1

      I’ve given my ex money, so she could buy me a bday gift… so pretty much I bought myself Gucci belts 😂😂

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 Před rokem

      @Cesar Mendoza
      You guys want women to be stay-at-home wives, that's what you het

  • @TheDweeb002
    @TheDweeb002 Před rokem +24

    Here’s the perfect response to them saying “You can’t generalize everyone”
    1. Point out how they dress. She’s sitting there in a pink dress. Why? Because pink dresses are GENERALLY acceptable in the society she lives in.
    2. Same thing applies to how she wore her makeup. It’s not like she put lipstick on her forehead and eyeliner on her toenails bc it would be GENERALLY frowned upon.
    They live shouting down generalizations while operating safely within them.

    • @justinlevy274
      @justinlevy274 Před rokem +2

      Our brains are coded to make generalizations, it's actually impossible to operate in the world without making them. The best set up is to ask them if 'you cant generalize' is an absolute or a generalization. As they generalize ad nauseum about men, toxic masculinity, the patriarchy, etc.

    • @johnjames5842
      @johnjames5842 Před rokem

      @@justinlevy274 generalization is just the observation of statistics, it's true , they all are for the most part.

    • @bigde131
      @bigde131 Před rokem +2

      @@johnjames5842 problem is people judge people based on generalizations and not facts pertaining to said person

    • @johnjames5842
      @johnjames5842 Před rokem

      @@bigde131 yes , because most of the time ppl are talking about the rule , not the exception .

    • @bigde131
      @bigde131 Před rokem +2

      @@johnjames5842 that’s exactly my point. That’s why ppl get pissed off. I’m not an “exception”, nor “rule”. I’m a person so treat me as such. People judge others on statistics and not individual interactions. That causes many problems in the world

  • @deepakkodwani420
    @deepakkodwani420 Před rokem +9

    The fact that they can't respond calmly shows you're hitting a nerve that knows what you're saying is true 😂😂

  • @morninboy
    @morninboy Před rokem +13

    I never left a woman because I was not happy. I always kicked them out because they made my life hell

  • @yungbfresh1
    @yungbfresh1 Před rokem +14

    My ex girlfriend says we need couples therapy. My response: "good idea, lets start with, you need to respect my point of views and values. Do you have a low libido? I have a problem with the picture of your ex lesbian girlfriend posted on your fridge. " Ask me what she did next....

    • @christopherholmes7324
      @christopherholmes7324 Před rokem

      DAMN!

    • @citeebayconvey2935
      @citeebayconvey2935 Před rokem

      They are mental patient..

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 Před rokem +7

      She…called you everything but a “child of God” on her way out the door? Toxic, insecure, controlling, misogynistic…

    • @plot229
      @plot229 Před rokem +5

      Why would you seriously date a bisexual person…bro you practically asked for terrible girlfriend.

    • @kwameofori8947
      @kwameofori8947 Před rokem +1

      @@plot229 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Moetastic
    @Moetastic Před rokem +12

    When women step out of a marriage we need to find the reasons and be sensible about it. And its usually concluded with it being his fault.
    When men step out of a marriage, theres no excuse, its automatically his fault things couldnt work out.
    The key to understanding most modern women & feminists, is just blame men. Its raining outside, blame men. The economy crashed, blame men. An Asteriod is on a collision course with earth, blame men.

  • @kristophanynoble5263
    @kristophanynoble5263 Před rokem +15

    Defiance always look for the outlier in an argument.

  • @amaking1310
    @amaking1310 Před rokem +10

    The girl in the white dress gets it! She is truly feminine! Love it

    • @KyleRBell-pe7yy
      @KyleRBell-pe7yy Před rokem +1

      100% correct. She's latina and was raised to be a wife. Also, she mentioned she plans on staying a virgin until she's married.

    • @makavelihammond7888
      @makavelihammond7888 Před rokem

      @@KyleRBell-pe7yystop that Latina shit my bm Latina and almost made me never want to fuck wit one again

    • @tnixon34
      @tnixon34 Před rokem +1

      Yeah....she's definitely wife material....as far as I can tell

    • @KyleRBell-pe7yy
      @KyleRBell-pe7yy Před rokem

      @@tnixon34She's also a virgin. The only reason she was wearing a mask is because she works at a very woke, left leaning workplace.

  • @Gorrilla_diesel
    @Gorrilla_diesel Před rokem +8

    In the wise words of the good pastor Kevin Samuels "French toast your happiness" rest in power 👑 king

  • @Niggleblade1986
    @Niggleblade1986 Před rokem +9

    Rah , she surprised him with a pic nic 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣 gtfoh

  • @makeithappen2813
    @makeithappen2813 Před rokem +13

    Last woman had perfect feminine energy. None of the men tried to over talk her

    • @anitahiawatha6060
      @anitahiawatha6060 Před rokem

      Do u have perfect masculine energy

    • @makeithappen2813
      @makeithappen2813 Před rokem

      @@anitahiawatha6060 No I don't I am a pure dog. I was just acknowledging this woman's greatness.

  • @jamesrobinson3rdCoast
    @jamesrobinson3rdCoast Před rokem +5

    ANOTHER 12 min commercial for us (Males) to stay single and dangerous. Women will lie their azzez off to save face and not be held accountable. They will make u regret trusting them.

    • @brahtrumpwonbigly7309
      @brahtrumpwonbigly7309 Před rokem +2

      They'll have your children and then leave you claiming you weren't good enough. Brainwash your children to hate you and financially (g)rape you for the rest of your life. These are the traits of a psychopath, a sadist. Modern women are just shitty people, many of them are outright evil.

  • @williamoverton7775
    @williamoverton7775 Před rokem +7

    My mother left my father, she said he left us emotionally. Basically he didn't involve and focus enough on her tantrums and hard feelings. She was put apon wanting control wanting to never have to do anything except for throwing tantrums. Clean the house? Better yet I'll throw a tantrum about how the kids aren't

  • @lioninwinter9316
    @lioninwinter9316 Před rokem +4

    Impressed at how many said they could cook. Not typical

    • @Scylithen
      @Scylithen Před rokem +2

      Being able to cook is not the same as needing to cook for not just yourself but potentially your spouse and kids.
      It should of been do they have a cookbook cause everyone should be able to boil an egg but that's great only if you want your future meals go be boiled eggs for the rest of your life.

    • @pseudoscientist8010
      @pseudoscientist8010 Před rokem

      Ask anyone, if they can drive, dance, cook or fk, they all say yes, I'm good.

  • @thebabayaga8492
    @thebabayaga8492 Před rokem +5

    I experienced a ruff childhood similar to hers, my Dad was a very good father to his kids but was an abusive husband. My mother left when I was 4 and never heard from her again until I was 9. My father raised me, not my mother and also she didn’t say goodbye to us when she left( confirmed by my siblings), she was just gone. So mother’s aren’t always the one who bare raising what they brought into the world!

    • @memeoti6266
      @memeoti6266 Před rokem

      Technically your mum was forced to leave. Being a good father also means treating your children's mother well.

  • @thelogicalcaveman9139
    @thelogicalcaveman9139 Před rokem +5

    A man wants peace and quiet

    • @jpb9524
      @jpb9524 Před rokem

      That’s boring and “not fun” for them

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 Před rokem +2

      Then be single

    • @thelogicalcaveman9139
      @thelogicalcaveman9139 Před rokem

      @@jpb9524 it’s pretty fun

    • @thelogicalcaveman9139
      @thelogicalcaveman9139 Před rokem +1

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 that’s why a large number are lol. Females do give them peace when they need it so they rather be alone and let the noise hoe Ruin other people lol.

  • @Demonezia
    @Demonezia Před rokem +2

    Pearl: Modern women are all about me me me
    Girls on the panel "NO WERE NOT!!!! I DO STUFF ALL THE TIME"
    Traditional Woman: Why not wear your hair the way he likes it?
    Girls on the panel "BUT WHAT IF I DON"T LIKE IT"
    You can't make this shit up.

  • @OsiAleogena
    @OsiAleogena Před rokem +4

    You claim women are afraid of men leaving, then when they show you women are the ones leaving, you try to claim its someone else's fault.

  • @raesully2615
    @raesully2615 Před rokem +3

    I'm definitely afraid, I trust nobody. Not even my parents.

  • @user-ef7hg5xs7n
    @user-ef7hg5xs7n Před rokem +1

    Last shall be first. Woman in the back had the best commentary...

  • @d-kreate5468
    @d-kreate5468 Před rokem +1

    Girl in the white is extremely rare in America. This is a soft woman. Not rough, aggressive, or loud. This is the type of woman I take serious, the others I would treat as side chicks.

  • @violinviolin1109
    @violinviolin1109 Před rokem +5

    The masculine energy from the loud women on the sofa is potent.

  • @kickinthegob
    @kickinthegob Před rokem +4

    "I fell", "trauma", "abuse"
    - Worthless w0man starter kit

  • @ghadafihussein
    @ghadafihussein Před rokem +11

    The right man for any woman is an attractive rich man she can walk all over.

  • @thewaywayback7284
    @thewaywayback7284 Před rokem +4

    Pearl and Sa Ra...the new dynamic duo!!!! 👏🏾 A lot of modern women don't want to be inconvenienced for a man, or anyone/anything else for that matter...and that even includes her kids! They literally can't tell the difference between right and wrong nowadays, and along with most of their female friends, they live in an echo chamber where they spew lame justification and blind absolution for their trifling behavior and sh!tty decisions. Hat's off to the masked virgin in the corner...stay strong! ✊🏾

  • @JohnJohn-cu7nk
    @JohnJohn-cu7nk Před rokem +2

    Is the girl in the white dress engaged yet.
    This is the first time I ever heard her speak,she's perfect wife material 😁

  • @squoblat
    @squoblat Před rokem +2

    The thing a lot of these women aren't factoring in is that men will do things women do "for them" because they want to keep their girlfriend/wife happy. If your girl has an idea of doing something "for you" that she's concocted, try saying no and see how much it actually is about your happiness.

  • @prohollow606
    @prohollow606 Před rokem +1

    The woman in pink literally exposes In every clip why she is single 😂😂😂

  • @ezraniles3900
    @ezraniles3900 Před rokem +8

    Men focus on you a woman’s feelings can change at any point and when they leave they won’t just leave especially if marriage/kids are involved because they will then go for your pockets because of the entitlement mindset

  • @Bigmanstyling101
    @Bigmanstyling101 Před rokem +5

    Yo which fellas are begging for picnics over here you have some explaining to Yogi and Booboo are looking for y'all 🤣

  • @mak7587
    @mak7587 Před rokem +3

    I grew up with my parents who hated each other and I was very happy. They overcompensated by fussing over me. I didn’t care that they hated each other, because they were able to put aside their differences and focus on me.

  • @jthegreatfull7643
    @jthegreatfull7643 Před rokem +3

    She got that mask on because we all want to marry her 😂

  • @unplayedpiano7039
    @unplayedpiano7039 Před rokem +7

    The Most Common Reasons Leave:
    1) They Want More Status.
    2) They Want More Money.
    3) They Want More Sex.
    4) They Want More Independence/Time For Themselves.
    5) They Want More Education.
    They’re Modeling Their Lives Off Of Internet Personalities & Follow Anti-Male Music, Friends, Movies, Gurus, & Ideologies. But They Want One…INSANE.

  • @dontrailtyson8405
    @dontrailtyson8405 Před rokem +3

    3:25 WAS PURE FLAMES. I really need that screamed from the roof tops.

  • @russellturner5310
    @russellturner5310 Před rokem +1

    That 20 year old girl was more grounded than any of the women there, a diamond in the rough.

  • @DivineLogos
    @DivineLogos Před rokem +2

    Big chunk of that 80 percent:
    " I'm not feeling it anymore "
    " I'm not happy"
    And the joke is that when the man is truly narcissistic women are often LESS likely to leave because of some irrational fear.

  • @thehoxtontrend
    @thehoxtontrend Před rokem +2

    unfortunately a lot of truth in this, mens feelings are rarely considered in relationships, of course not all, but good guys that think about their family and their partners, tend to be the ones that try the hardest to make and effort and told they don't do enough, the more you do the more will be expected, sad.

  • @nikelover911
    @nikelover911 Před rokem

    The last girl to talk understands! Good woman right there

  • @ULTRACERTIFIED
    @ULTRACERTIFIED Před rokem +1

    Rah!! 😳 That girl in the mask 😷 came in at the end with the Business!! 😃

  • @celtic889
    @celtic889 Před rokem

    Bless that sweetheart in white at the end. Notice how everyone stayed quiet when she spoke too.

  • @Jason-ft8zo
    @Jason-ft8zo Před rokem +2

    Let’s just b honest,women don’t have a clue what to do with a man smh

  • @ashleycameron1599
    @ashleycameron1599 Před rokem +3

    Linda, the girl who has her face covered. Is 100% wifely material.. she is the kind of woman a decent man needs, and want.

  • @SilverBackELTorro
    @SilverBackELTorro Před rokem +5

    So many better things in this world to enjoy than to be worried about a silly human. Shmdh

  • @normbatchelor7403
    @normbatchelor7403 Před rokem +2

    These women are not worth the wasted energy.

  • @Maxwellhanes
    @Maxwellhanes Před rokem +2

    The whole Pearl team Making they’re Own Channels😂💯 This is actually smart tho everybody gets paid for the same Clips😂👏🏽💪🏽

  • @gorgeouslady5612
    @gorgeouslady5612 Před rokem +1

    Shahrazad Ali's Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Black woman!.

  • @TheRealAetherFlow
    @TheRealAetherFlow Před rokem +3

    I've never heard a man say I want to go on a stroll in a park or a picnic, everytime a woman does something for a man it's always something they themselves like to do or something a woman would like. You almost wouldn't hear a man say "I took my wife golfing because she said to me once she likes golfing with me" that man knows for certain she doesn't really like golfing.

    • @TheOlzee
      @TheOlzee Před rokem

      I took my bird on a picnic last summer and if she said she liked golf I’d take. I go fishing and she said she’d like to go so I took her. Do you have much experience to be talking?

    • @TheRealAetherFlow
      @TheRealAetherFlow Před rokem

      @@TheOlzee I had a stroke reading that, carry on elsewhere

    • @TheOlzee
      @TheOlzee Před rokem

      @@TheRealAetherFlow what? Weirdo

  • @BigDub24
    @BigDub24 Před rokem

    the last girl calm the whole room down with her energy

  • @tommymercer9174
    @tommymercer9174 Před rokem +8

    How do you and Pearl stay this calm 😂🙌

    • @tyronecalhoun3968
      @tyronecalhoun3968 Před rokem +1

      #FACTS When I watch Pearl and Fresh & Fit I wonder the same thing. As a parent it really seems just like when I used to speak to my children. After listening to these women day after day I would have to take Excedrin, and two shots of Jack.😒

  • @MidnightWanderer
    @MidnightWanderer Před rokem +5

    Modern women "It's all about me. ME ME ME!"😌
    Men: So, your children, partners, family etc, don't count? Or they do, just not a priority in comparison to your personal gratification?🤨
    Modern women: *thinks* 🤔 😐😞
    Me: SMH

  • @david.g.hudson9812
    @david.g.hudson9812 Před rokem +2

    I think one of the problems in relationships is love, and wanting to have love is missing. It seems like everything now is about what I can get from this person. Been married for 32 years, and it was all because of love.

  • @CHICHITO4LIFE
    @CHICHITO4LIFE Před rokem +2

    The girl in the blue Jean jacket looks scary af…..😂

  • @mybrotherskeeper2128
    @mybrotherskeeper2128 Před rokem

    The young girl is giving hope to young men out there watching.👏🏾

  • @shanenolan5625
    @shanenolan5625 Před rokem +5

    Cheers. Meet Christmas sa ra to youvsnd the family/ clan

  • @blackpixels
    @blackpixels Před rokem

    Picnic? lol... "She won't be there for long!" 😂

  • @spiritsavage
    @spiritsavage Před rokem +1

    Thanks Sa Ra. Don't really know you, but still know you would be an awesome bro. Keep up the fight for what's right.

  • @jonathanbrocklehurst9481

    the girl in the white nailed it...she can speak without getting in her feeling and can talk without puffing her chest up to argue... im right cause i made bad choices in my past and still THINK im the prize

  • @danielbell6794
    @danielbell6794 Před rokem +2

    That’s why asking question is very important. The terms “toxic” and “abusive” are thrown around so much now to the point it’s become nebulous. It can mean anything you want it to mean. Which is ridiculous.

  • @CoffeeBrainzz
    @CoffeeBrainzz Před rokem +1

    Long story short; Men strife to keep the family together whenever/however they can!
    A father has NO INCENTIVE to destroy a family, he loses out always. So ofcourse he strives the keep the house together.
    Women are incentivized to leave the home! They get benefits as well as hurt the man they are trying to spite! Take their kids, take his money, take his home, make false abuse claims against him, ruin his career, etc!
    It’s a losing battle for a father these days! It’s no longer “If she leaves me” it’s “WHEN will she leave”! It’s inevitable these days because women are captivated with the Grass is Greener concept because they are absorbed in social media 🙄🙄

  • @Al-cg9dq
    @Al-cg9dq Před rokem +2

    Wow, the change in tone of the girl in white dress was very attractive unlike the rest that use such loud voices?

  • @kingsolomon2478
    @kingsolomon2478 Před rokem +1

    That girl in the white was an angel. So sweet and gorgeous, too. That softcspoken femininity is what men want. The loud one with the shades on was disgusting.

  • @mela3889
    @mela3889 Před rokem +1

    “It’s always me me me me me me”
    “Uh uh actually that’s not true because I”…
    Can’t make this shit up

  • @cannabistalk4164
    @cannabistalk4164 Před rokem

    😂😂😂 surprised by boy with a picnic 😂😂😂 he don't love that

  • @markmccormack1796
    @markmccormack1796 Před rokem

    My ex broke up our family because of the guy she started a relationship with at the hospital at which they both worked. But, that's not the reason she gave me, she gave me no reason. After 25 years together and kids, I was only told, the feeling for me had left her.

  • @shaun2312
    @shaun2312 Před rokem +6

    Sound is out of sync?

  • @slippyquack7672
    @slippyquack7672 Před rokem +2

    Certain women make it seem like it's such a chore if not outright taboo to do something for the person they claim to love and are in an relationship with.
    And the one chick that was asking " how would you feel if you bought your girl a $20k bag or whatever, and just got a card in return"... like, that's almost every single man's reality when it comes to giving gifts. Give her a bunch of jewelry, expensive handbags or even pieces of technology, yet all they know to get are a pair of socks, or some tool to fix something around the house. It's rare to even HEAR about a woman that has given something owrth over the price of what, $500- especially if it's something she too can't use. So the point she was trying to make was incredibly dull. And when they do give something of that price, it's usually to the one dude that doesn't fuck with her that way, and has shown they don't fuck with her that way, but she ignored that in hopes that he'd come around. Women, y'all dig your own holes with the choices y'all make with men.

  • @shawnmclean7932
    @shawnmclean7932 Před rokem

    The truth is so rare nowadays, that this prior common sense is making the hosts millions.

  • @scottallen6970
    @scottallen6970 Před rokem +3

    Ooooo, the women choose the lonely path

  • @sorcelord65
    @sorcelord65 Před rokem +3

    If a man tells you how he likes when you do your hair a certain way or your clothes or whatever and your response is I don’t like it … he is trying not to leave you or cheat on your ass lol

  • @andrewbayram765
    @andrewbayram765 Před rokem +3

    Just look at the way women behave in family court and child access, you begin to understand the nature of many women (not all).

  • @gorgeouslady5612
    @gorgeouslady5612 Před rokem

    You have to be in a long term relationship! or Marriage! to understand a Man!. Me and Willie been together for 75 years!.
    She Knows! and understands Willie!.

  • @spiritsavage
    @spiritsavage Před rokem +2

    I love how she says just a thing or two that she does and automatically thinks she's earned all kinds of stuff from the man.

  • @dukarivir8218
    @dukarivir8218 Před rokem +1

    The 20 year old had more sense than the older women.

  • @raskolnikov1461
    @raskolnikov1461 Před rokem

    Zero selfishness. I hear common sense ✅ Man should stop telling women ever what to do or how to look.

  • @coachkeith643
    @coachkeith643 Před rokem

    She is correct in saying that the divorce statistic doesn't say everything. Especially when it doesn't get into specifics.
    1. Does the divorce rate always break a family?
    2. What about divorces that occur after the children are adults?
    NOW if a woman marries the wrong man who is the blame for that? She is accountable for breaking contract with a man that she chose to marry.

  • @seventhson27
    @seventhson27 Před rokem

    I stuck with a woman for 9 years that, looking back, should not have lasted more than 1, because I did not want to abandon my children to nut-case. I knew the court would give her the kids (things have changed a small bit since then). I put up with a LOT of "schtuff" doing it. In the end, she didn't have to try too hard to convince people I was a bit flaky. I was. Trying to rationalize irrational behavior will do that to you. 9 1/2 years in the courts later I finally pulled the kids out of the ghetto she had them living in.

    • @seventhson27
      @seventhson27 Před rokem

      Yes, I was paying "child support," but the kids weren't seeing much of it.

  • @Didache7
    @Didache7 Před rokem +1

    Simple solution to fix this!!!!! Implant Pearls brain into all women lmao!!!! Pearl, Auntie!! We love y’all 😘💪🏾

    • @lynnd.5135
      @lynnd.5135 Před rokem

      Pearl can say these things because white men are providers and protectors. It's easy to submit to someone who grew up with his father in the home and has generational wealth. Can't say this about black men. This is why the black women on the sofa have a different mindset to her because they know it's peak out there dealing with black men

  • @Mark-ug6fx
    @Mark-ug6fx Před rokem +3

    She's manipulative and so good at it she can't see it