The SHY Virgo Male

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  • čas přidán 2. 12. 2018
  • This video is discussing the shyness of Virgo men and how to interact/counteract their shyness. He may want you, but most likely he's just shy, find out why...
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Komentáře • 120

  • @Professional_Nobody
    @Professional_Nobody Před 5 lety +58

    I’ve never met a Virgo who rubbed me the wrong way. I wish they were more assertive, though, because they do it so well. Such likeable energy.

  • @pockahantiss
    @pockahantiss Před 5 lety +35

    Tee hee!! Virgo's are very shy period! They tend to blush a lot too. It's so cute. It's like a school crush. It's sooo cute!😚🤗😊☺️

    • @vensonj
      @vensonj Před 5 lety +3

      Your comment made me blush....ima virgo

    • @pockahantiss
      @pockahantiss Před 5 lety +5

      VJ It's what y'all do naturally. I bet when you start blushing, you look down, smile, turn your head, & look away don't you?😊☺️🤗

    • @vensonj
      @vensonj Před 5 lety +1

      Yep it happened to me last night lol they think its cute i cant help it

  • @a.alexander9221
    @a.alexander9221 Před 5 lety +35

    I love that you wrote her a love letter. Very sweet

    • @thefd619
      @thefd619 Před 5 lety

      Me too, so sweet. 💖💗💖

  • @fakebrit
    @fakebrit Před 5 lety +19

    I’ve dealt with a few Virgos. I enjoy their earthy vibe and in my experience they’re open and actually forward when they’re comfortable. I’m a Leo so I have no problem making the first move and I like moving at my own pace. I don’t like men that are too forward and pushy so Virgos work best for me in that sense. And they are romantic and loving ... I hear some people say they aren’t but it also depends on the man not so much the sign. The ones I’ve dealt with are affectionate and attentive. They’re good people.👍🏼

  • @shainaj1391
    @shainaj1391 Před 5 lety +21

    OMGGGGGGGG! I swear Cancers and Virgos have a few things in common because I promise you, on the low (despite my friendly nature in how I meet people) I’m very shy ESPECIALLY when I like someone because it’s like certain people aura or beauty (as you said) takes your breath away but thats one of the similarities Ive noticed we have from this video and I also noticed we both don’t really like taking the initiative right off (well some cancers don’t, some do but I’m one of the ones that don’t like to do that) but you got me when you said you wrote a love letter to the beautiful lady you were after because the guy (Virgo male) I was scared to say something to but at the same time I was waiting for him to make the first move because he was giving me the vibe he liked me too but he never said much outside of hey and just smiling a lot every time he saw me and I felt childish and corny for doing it but I wrote a letter to him as well because I couldn’t approach him like that because tbh and not to toot my own horn but before him I’ve never had to make the first move but it was corny yet funny but he ended up having a gf which made perfect sense to that as well but he told me he did like me and found me attractive but he was faithful and I understood but on the low I was hurt but I did understand however a few months almost to a year later he saw me and we talked and he told me he was no longer with her and he was thinking about me and we ended up talking and dating for a while soon afterwards but I will say he had me step out my comfort zone for him but I was attracted to him and his intellect which made me go hard like I did to talk to him and I know this was long but I just thought it was funny you said that you approached your love at first sight the same way I did him 😊

  • @thefd619
    @thefd619 Před 5 lety +16

    Virgos tell the most mesmerizing stories. My dad is a Virgo, I just sit there & listen to him so attentively. I write down the stories he tells me sometimes, it means that much to me. You all are special, in more ways than one lol.
    P.s. I luv the Black aesthetics🖤

  • @TayTayCakes31
    @TayTayCakes31 Před 5 lety +33

    I’m a Taurus thoroughly confused by the Virgo man I’m interested in and I’m learning so much from your videos...... Every time I’m ready to give up I watch one of your videos and learn something new and think ohhhhhh that’s what it is 😂😂😂 . I keep trying to get this man to give me a sign, an obvious sign that I’m not wasting my time but I’m so confused 😣

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety +13

      We def can be confusing, even to ourselves, it's crazy sometimes, glad I can help a lil bit tho! Hit me if you need more info on it

    • @whatsinaname517
      @whatsinaname517 Před 4 lety

      Exactly they re way more shy in confessing love

    • @jallisabutler3224
      @jallisabutler3224 Před 3 lety

      I’m a Taurus and I’m literally in the same position..I couldn’t tell if he was interested or just being nice but I’m pretty sure he was interested but he never said anything 😩

    • @mirelasemanjaku
      @mirelasemanjaku Před 2 lety

      Same boat here :D

    • @angelafuller9901
      @angelafuller9901 Před 2 lety +2

      Are you two still together?
      I’m a Taurus also you just have to be patient, he’ll show you and tell you what he wants from you eventually, he needs a lot of reassurance of how you feel about him before he truly lets you in!!

  • @wisewarrior3274
    @wisewarrior3274 Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you!! I really needed to hear this about the virgo man....

  • @shatorahmchenry474
    @shatorahmchenry474 Před 5 lety +11

    Yooo you are so on point I'm a libra into a virgo man and this so so him. I'm learning so much from your videos.

  • @lynnebradley2555
    @lynnebradley2555 Před 5 lety +13

    Like I've said,I've only love to men in my life time and both Virgos,I was with one for 14 yrs and my husband 18 yrs,and their love is amazing.The type of love no other can compare.

  • @Christiane-yb1wj
    @Christiane-yb1wj Před 5 lety +9

    I keep coming back to this video. I'm debating between 2 virgos now. This sign is definitely the sort of man I vibe with naturally.

  • @glammagurl572
    @glammagurl572 Před 5 lety +20

    omggg, Jonathan you have done it again this is by far one of my favorite videos, and let me just say congratulations I can tell God is blessing you you are a good man. thank you for sharing that story about the young lady in college she was lucky to have you admiring her like that I would ask what happened but that's neither here nor there LOL. and you guys are some very shy beings I've been with my Virgo man almost 7 months and when we kiss his eyes are still closed and when he backs away from me he kind of just looks down or looks behind me, but I'll say this when he does look me in the eye he's definitely saying something with those eyes 👀👀👀👀and when we walk he holds my hand in the mall,in restaurants even walking up the front steps to our houses and you know what's funny he always trips up or down the steps😁😁😁 so I know I still make him nervous, but yeah he's definitely shy sometime I just catch him staring at me smiling and then when I look at him he looks away and I'm like what the heck was that about 🙄 and now I know thanks for a great video...ps, your voice is so calming I put you on my Bluetooth speaker just to hear you louder but of course I can't tell my man that because he might get jealous lol

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety +6

      Thank you, and that brother is in love!

    • @glammagurl572
      @glammagurl572 Před 5 lety +5

      yessssss!!!! I knew it!!!! thank u... he tells me that he loves me..., not as often as I like to hear it but his actions do show it ...
      and that's all I need.🙌🙏🙌 thank you so much have a blessed night

  • @wildlightarts
    @wildlightarts Před 5 lety +9

    A hermit in his own element. I can relate to all you are saying, as a virgo woman. You're voice is so nice and peaceful. :-) this whole perfectionism thing gets a little old after a while... haha and that passing out thing, been there lol

  • @Channyg4lyfe
    @Channyg4lyfe Před 5 lety +1

    Love this. Thank you for this video😊😊

  • @newportz06
    @newportz06 Před 5 lety +10

    Man... this shit was too real for me to watch. LOL! I thought i was the only one going through this struggle of being the way i am! Im not big into this astrology stuff but you description was on point with me. I would hope that women ive dated and to date in the future know that i hate being this way. Asking me to stop over thinking/over analyzing is like asking me to stop breathing! smh So many good women have walked out on me or friendzoned me because of this and im just too prideful to express any of this to em. Virgo with scorpio moon (whatever that means).

  • @lakeishawilson7893
    @lakeishawilson7893 Před 5 lety +18

    A taurus or Libra women will capture your heart 💯

  • @MW-ru4zm
    @MW-ru4zm Před 5 lety +13

    I smiled through your whole video!

  • @Kosmofire
    @Kosmofire Před 5 lety +16

    Oh I see you got us on standby, standby lol I see you Virgo

  • @kinziekisses3034
    @kinziekisses3034 Před 5 lety +1

    ..I really enjoy your videos 😊

  • @terriiharrell2726
    @terriiharrell2726 Před 2 lety +1

    His voice so therapeutic vibe and everything

  • @marvdes1975
    @marvdes1975 Před 4 lety +6

    The part about not being able to look her in her eyes is so true.that's so me lol

  • @christinasaninocencio257
    @christinasaninocencio257 Před 5 lety +2

    Thats was the perfect video ever thank you so much for enlightening me with this information

  • @ItsLotus89
    @ItsLotus89 Před 5 lety +1

    Love your sense of humor lol I enjoyed this! But good stuff Bishop 📝👌🏾

  • @lilosh351
    @lilosh351 Před 2 lety

    Thx for that awesome video 🙏🏼
    I met a virgo men and he was acting shy, always around me, but when i sent him mixed signals he was like "ok we stay like friends" (we known us for 2 days here 😂). After that he acted shy again but told his colleagues am his wife and that I look awesome. He wanna do something together with me like talking a walk. In 2 weeks I fly 4.000 miles to see him again-and to make a move. Thank you so much, I didnt understand this behaviour 💪🏻 love from austria 🌞

  • @leonaaoki
    @leonaaoki Před 2 lety +4

    Dating a Virgo guy for 3 months already I'm Sag and I know we pretty much hit it off and I feel shy looking straight at him (got a crush on him, too). I got over it a bit but he still can't look at me straight to my eyes even when we are alone XDD

  • @berenicelg873
    @berenicelg873 Před 5 lety +16

    You are cute. (signed by : Libra)

  • @ksmetalchick6546
    @ksmetalchick6546 Před 5 lety +9

    Why would the Virgo man unblock me after 8 month's and not even message me? I believe he's stalking me again..

  • @jessicagould8513
    @jessicagould8513 Před 5 lety +2

    I love your videos!!! I would love to know where you Minster? Church home? 😂🤣😂🤣 not a angel friend🤣🤣

  • @JonathanRWhitfield
    @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety

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  • @hmoobtojroob9066
    @hmoobtojroob9066 Před 5 lety +2

    Ty...he was trying to make me make a move because he kept looking at me and I would always caught him staring at me.... even when I smile and turn he is there staring at me... I turn away... i was too busy doing me at the event so I ignored him. Lol. Ty for this video.

  • @sisterlenalove5782
    @sisterlenalove5782 Před 5 lety +1

    “He is not at the bat”...fun-ny! Overall, very true and informative. They observe you thoroughly👀.

  • @mrkwagga6137
    @mrkwagga6137 Před 5 lety +18

    Im a virgo man that not shy...I only talk when there something interesting to say so people think I'm shy. I do know all virgo men will be around a girl they really like a lot.

  • @ResposttVids
    @ResposttVids Před 2 měsíci

    This Virgo man at my job literally stares into my soul to the point it makes me nervous. ..when I finally said something to him he was so shy and nervous to respond he stuttered a little before answering. Now he’s just slowly opening up to me I can tell he’s still a little shy omg🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @dekuavery3617
    @dekuavery3617 Před 5 lety +1

    Most definitely! 😽

  • @aidalynchristinesarte5803

    hmm.. i think there's this one virgo man, we're not really friends but i feel a very strong connection to him and i think he does too.. we never really actually talk, mostly just greetings, looking at each other eyes, staring at each other sometimes, smiling, just generally being nice to each other whenever we cross paths.. but one time i asked him for a small favor to watch over my jacket only while he's still there, when i came back i found a post it note attached to a (love corn, literal name of the) snack. the note says, he was sorry he had to run to a meeting. it surprised me. he's just being nice.. right? by the way i liked all your videos, you're doing great. and i have another good virgo friend who talks like you.. 😊 and looks like you.. the eyes and beard.. 😁

    • @mirelasemanjaku
      @mirelasemanjaku Před 2 lety

      How did it go? I am in the same situation with a virgo collegue that i felt a strong attraction the very first time i heard his voice and saw his face! But i cant put a name on this since we both are very reserved and shy, and try to approch each other in milimeters 😅 I really like him like no one from very very long time! I pray to God i get a chance to be with him! He looks perfect for me so far 🥰

  • @amandaa4043
    @amandaa4043 Před 5 lety +2

    Lmao I’m a Virgo female. THE CANDY!!!! I always brought the guy I used to like candy. All the timeeee lol I swear that’s how he knew I liked him

  • @darryljames1987
    @darryljames1987 Před 5 lety +8

    Jonathan, you have a very soothing way of speaking. I'm thankful for you & your videos, they give me great insight. this Virgo I know told me very early on that he knew it was right between us the moment he met me. then he went through a period of retreat because perhaps his feelings overwhelmed him (he has said to me he's not good at expressing his emotions) plus, he was jealous about another guy I was just friends with. he is slowly opening up again and will act fidgety around me at times. there are times there seems to be something on the tip of his tongue, but nope. I'm very patient with him & reassure him when I can. is he in it to win it do you think?

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety +2

      He's not sure about you and the other guy, thus is being very cautious

    • @darryljames1987
      @darryljames1987 Před 5 lety +3

      Update: I was honest with the Virgo & told him I was only friends with the other guy, nothing more. As soon as i said it, the Virgo seemed very happy, excited & upbeat!

    • @nickalexander8460
      @nickalexander8460 Před 5 lety

      Darryl James Do you mind if I asked what your sign is?

  • @emmanuellao2248
    @emmanuellao2248 Před 5 lety +4

    Puppy love 😂❤️ aww it's true they never want to leave your side. I'm confused it feels like it's only me trying to make the relationship work. 🤦💔🤦 Is this fair ?

  • @nickalexander8460
    @nickalexander8460 Před 5 lety +5

    I think I’m either too shy or too bold and aggressive with nothing in between. I think because it’s hard for me to get across how I’’m feeling inside so I either hold back too much and it comes off like I’m afraid to make a move, or after it builds up for some time, like any Earth Sign knows, all what was held back comes bustin forth and it comes off way too aggressive. I dont know if every Virgo Man has this problem but I do. Makin the first move is not a problem for me as long as I get the green light so to speak.✅

    • @siphookobama8344
      @siphookobama8344 Před 11 měsíci

      You are not the only one me too here as a virgo man

  • @LadyBFree-th3ge
    @LadyBFree-th3ge Před 5 lety +1

    Lol my Grown Children's Dad Is A Virgo And Im Too. That Is True About Shy Virgo Men.

  • @ksmetalchick6546
    @ksmetalchick6546 Před 5 lety +2

    I know he still stalks me and sure I've been curious to know how he's doing, but he ignored me for month's because he hates the fact that I have Facebook friend's and he got very possessive and jealous

  • @queenie1062
    @queenie1062 Před 5 lety +8

    OMG you was like Forrest when he saw Jenny on the bus❗❗❗

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety +1

      True, lol, I'm so embarrassed, my boys you to be like " -_- -_- smh "
      it happens sometimes. Queenie Queenie lol

  • @a.alexander9221
    @a.alexander9221 Před 5 lety +13

    Can you do a video on things a woman can do to show a Virgo males she likes him? Because, like you said, sometimes the signs go right over their heads lol

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety

      hmm, I feel Like I did with "signs that a VM like you" and "5 things a VM wants in a woman" but I will, this would be more specific

  • @scorpioHer
    @scorpioHer Před 5 lety

    OMG, I know this amazing Virgo man.He approached me while I working and he would come by from time to time he will come in and just say hi and one day he set by me for lunch,
    He’s very busy travels a lot I hear from him time to time but I don’t know what his deal is now FYI we kissed once what should I do ....?

  • @220kimberly
    @220kimberly Před 10 měsíci

    The dog “🐶 “ lmaooooo

  • @bettygasaway9927
    @bettygasaway9927 Před 5 lety +4

    I call him, a freak in the sheets.... 🤞🤞

  • @lynnebradley2555
    @lynnebradley2555 Před 5 lety +5

    I'm surrounded by Virgo males and females.my mom virgo,second oldest sister virgo,both my kids grandmother's Virgos,my husband,and oldest niece Virgo,my Virgo sister both her son's virgo,my second oldest grandson virgo...so I know an lot about Virgos.... I'm surrounded by love....

  • @michellebelledejour
    @michellebelledejour Před 2 lety +1

    A Virgo man stared at me for months and would make any excuse to come into the classroom I was working in. I knew he was shy when one of times he came in I say hello to him and he ran out. I wish I knew he liked me, or liked look at me💔

  • @tayyabaraheel8351
    @tayyabaraheel8351 Před 4 lety

    Well you’re saying we should make the first move. I tried and I did noticed him staring at me, coming close to me often but when I try talking to him he just told me not to text him again I was just shocked. He’s like a family friend so idk the situation right now what’s going on.

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 4 lety

      wow, this sounds pretty deep, I would have to hear more, email me if you need a private session. JWhitfieldInspires@gmail.com

  • @beetotheay5783
    @beetotheay5783 Před 5 lety +4

    I love my Virgo men. I’ve dated many, i have many male friends & my exhb was one. As a female Virgo it just seems like such a much easier relationship. Do you agree?

  • @tiayvette2048
    @tiayvette2048 Před 3 lety +2

    Virgo was kissing me like crazy on the first date 🤣🤣Yaaasss honey but then when I went to his house to watch movies he was so shy . But he was still opened up and put his arm around me and massaging my leg . But I’m suppose to see him again.. have a feeling he will be shy again

  • @kittykat135
    @kittykat135 Před 5 lety +2

    Hey would you consider yourself a shy virgo man?

  • @phatphat7201
    @phatphat7201 Před 5 lety

    I don’t know how to do it! Elaborate!

  • @cr1181
    @cr1181 Před 5 lety +10

    The Emoji's tho

  • @ItsELE3
    @ItsELE3 Před 5 lety +11

    How much time do y'all need? 🙄 Like talking to him over text for a while now like weeks, we haven't met yet...

  • @sweetarcana.
    @sweetarcana. Před 7 měsíci

    Wait was that J in those pics? Lol

  • @katerinaasteriadi4970
    @katerinaasteriadi4970 Před 5 lety +2

    The virgo I know doesn't; want to talk to me at all. I guess he is not shy!

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety +2

      :( it could be anything tho. I would need to know more info on this... Check out the vids on my page to see if there is anything than can help your situation, if not email me.

  • @CupsOfConsciousness
    @CupsOfConsciousness Před 5 lety

    Lmao I like a Virgo man who has 6 kids and 3 baby mamas. I went on a date with him for shits and giggles & ended up falling flat on my face for him. (I’m a sag btw) that whole night he was being super sweet to me, and told me I should call him. I didnt call but I texted him and his replies were kind of dry. Lmao not sure if he was just running game on me. He msgs me to keep contact but doesn’t really add spice to the convo. Not sure wtf is going on. Our connection is crazy in person tho 🤷🏾‍♀️.. any advice anyone?

    • @forgetable11
      @forgetable11 Před 5 lety +2

      Jackie TO I know w texting me s horrible for me because I’m always thinking about what you said what I’m gonna say back is it gonna sound stupid what you gonna think about sometimes I write and delete so many times it’s just like forget it what I would suggest is to hang out more face to face we’re very visual we gotta see your reactions we’re collecting data like computers but the 6 kids and 3 baby mommas is kinda scary lol you should probably think about that frfr

    • @CupsOfConsciousness
      @CupsOfConsciousness Před 5 lety

      Ronnya25 😭😭😂😂😂 yeah it’s more of just a see him for fun thing, still got a great connection though aha it’s not going to go far because that’s a burning red flag

  • @Kindschal
    @Kindschal Před 2 měsíci

    He’s shy during sex too. He‘ll analyse every part of your face expressions but the moment you look back he be like 😳🙂‍↔️

  • @lakeyladouglas3914
    @lakeyladouglas3914 Před 5 měsíci

    I just started talking with a Virgo he is moving slow

  • @saucypippen3281
    @saucypippen3281 Před 4 lety

    Facts

  • @NayaAlena
    @NayaAlena Před 5 lety +4

    I NEED HELP! I have a huge crush on a Virgo man (I’m a Libra). I often catch him looking at me and acting super nervous when he sees me. He’s yet to speak to me. Only brief convo.😭 will he ever say anything to me? does he even like me?? I honestly can’t tell?

    • @forgetable11
      @forgetable11 Před 5 lety +3

      Naya & Alena you’ll have to talk to him first probably try to be his friend let him get to know you a little bit

  • @ivettelee5340
    @ivettelee5340 Před rokem

    why did you break up with her then if she was your angel

  • @feliciawharton7001
    @feliciawharton7001 Před rokem

  • @lajoy8
    @lajoy8 Před 5 lety +1

    You’re cute 😍

  • @a.alexander9221
    @a.alexander9221 Před 5 lety

    What zodiac elements do you think best go with Virgos? Fire? Water? Air? Or are Virgos best with other earth signs?

    • @air718nyc
      @air718nyc Před 5 lety +5

      all of em, virgos are mutable. me personally been good with air signs

    • @queenie1062
      @queenie1062 Před 5 lety +3

      @@air718nyc AYEEEEEEE Queen Libra here🙌🏿. We're so chill❗❗

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety +5

      That's hard to say, earth signs would be best but that's kind of by default. It's honestly about equal, but water would probably edge it out.

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Před 5 lety +7

      @@queenie1062 y'all Libras are something.

    • @a.alexander9221
      @a.alexander9221 Před 5 lety +1

      Jonathan R Whitfield Fire signs are a no? Lol

  • @mattiaaaa000
    @mattiaaaa000 Před 29 dny

    Every single Virgo man I know has a huge ego and he’s not shy but he thinks he’s superior. That’s my thought.

  • @ladybug4885
    @ladybug4885 Před 5 lety

    How does a Gemini mom Virgo son