My Wife or My Girlfriend Dr. Phil You Decide

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  • čas přidán 10. 07. 2024
  • Melvin says he is torn between his wife of eight years, Rachel, and his girlfriend of two years, Chantelle, and he wants Dr. Phil to help him decide whom he should choose. Tension builds when the women meet face to face for the first time. Will Dr. Phil help Melvin with his choice -- or will someone else make the decision for him? (2213022RR)
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Komentáře • 259

  • @colleenandrews3720
    @colleenandrews3720 Před 20 dny +97

    Wife should walk away and never look back.

  • @heavenleeangeltalk8471
    @heavenleeangeltalk8471 Před 20 dny +205

    Believe this, Your soulmate will NOT be found in someone else's husband!!!!

  • @StrawberryJam806
    @StrawberryJam806 Před 20 dny +283

    Imagine fighting over this dude lmao

  • @JeanetteSullivan1
    @JeanetteSullivan1 Před 19 dny +4

    Does Rachel even consider that he could be bringing STDs home to her?? That is GROSS!! What woman would ever want a man like that. He's disgusting!

  • @trijntjejacoba
    @trijntjejacoba Před 20 dny +52

    I never understand why two women fight for a man who proves to be unfaithful.
    What a disgrace

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb Před 20 dny +4

      I completely agree with you it is absolutely baffling to me.

    • @KellyThutwa
      @KellyThutwa Před 20 dny +4

      I agree with you, this is WHAT THEY CALL DESPERATION in both of the women!

  • @suemcdermott2947
    @suemcdermott2947 Před 20 dny +81

    You dont meet a husband on a christian dating site, he just finds kind needy women he can use.

  • @marilynoliver5965
    @marilynoliver5965 Před 20 dny +83

    Women why???? Why such low self-esteem to allow this waiting for him to decide.

  • @truleekemp5768
    @truleekemp5768 Před 20 dny +66

    He wants shantell pls leave him honey

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars Před 20 dny +48

    A player like this dude isn’t worth the energy 😢

  • @Melissa-xz8ss
    @Melissa-xz8ss Před 20 dny +41

    That man is a child

  • @nessae354
    @nessae354 Před 20 dny +101

    Chantal and Melvin are perfect for each other. Theyre both foul and selfish. Let them be together and sit back and wait for him to cheat on her too and her to cheat on him with another married man. Chantal doesn't get any sympathy. She chose this.

  • @Annsunshine30
    @Annsunshine30 Před 20 dny +10

    He called himself loyal and faithful......................

  • @LisaFerguson-lw8il
    @LisaFerguson-lw8il Před 20 dny +32

    I began dating a divorced man. He was so caring and fun to be with. It was by pure accident that I discovered he was still married. I dug deeply and found that he was not just married, he had 3 children, and was living with his wife & family when he wasn't in another city, where I lived. I called his wife, apologising to her for the time I spent with him. She & I became and remain good friends. As a woman, I'm never going to steal a man.

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 Před 19 dny +3

    Melvin only cares about Melvin.

  • @user-bo1bw7jw4o
    @user-bo1bw7jw4o Před 20 dny +35

    Ugh, never chase a man! The second a dude is interested in someone else, you bounce! I had a guy that tried that on me once, he dumped me for my friend and then tried to come back, I laughed in his face. I could never be attracted to him again.

  • @christinebrument6851
    @christinebrument6851 Před 20 dny +11

    Hes cheating and yet she's still sleeping with him.. wheres your self respect.?

  • @patimastbrook5278
    @patimastbrook5278 Před 20 dny +10

    Let her have him … he doesn’t deserve you

  • @rolondabrown1233
    @rolondabrown1233 Před 19 dny +4

    The wife ain’t playing with a full deck

  • @wrenh5046
    @wrenh5046 Před 20 dny +9

    Why do I feel like he still wouldn’t marry Chantal even if him and his wife were divorced 💀

  • @calgal5752
    @calgal5752 Před 20 dny +8

    Why would anybody want this dude???

  • @fabiwilliams4644
    @fabiwilliams4644 Před 20 dny +16

    I don't know why women consistently blame the other woman. He's to blame not her. At least have the dignity to proudly walk away & take back your power

  • @8213apice
    @8213apice Před 19 dny +6

    How can you let go of a man that’s committed to another woman? He wasn’t yours anyways.

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 Před 20 dny +16

    Wooow the way he ran over to his homewrecker when he got his feelings hurt. 🐮

  • @truleekemp5768
    @truleekemp5768 Před 20 dny +39

    I feel so bad for her smh i hope she finds the strength to move on from him and find better because she deserves better

  • @dianewaynewood4477
    @dianewaynewood4477 Před 19 dny +5

    You married him after knowing him for six weeks? Lady, you have issues that you need to deal with before you make any decisions about being in a relationship.

  • @danniifan3115
    @danniifan3115 Před 18 dny +3

    From one bald bloke to another cracked me up!

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 Před 19 dny +2

    Life is just way too short for any of this drama!

  • @IkaneishaJenkins
    @IkaneishaJenkins Před 20 dny +13

    whew, he isn't attractive, wealthy or emotionally intelligent, what are these ladies fighting over?? Not saying wealth matters but sheesh, this guy isn't WORTH it lol

  • @kathconserv
    @kathconserv Před 20 dny +7

    This stupid frown on Melvin’s face is annoying.

  • @Jackmcars12
    @Jackmcars12 Před 20 dny +16

    Narcissist

    • @cancandoit
      @cancandoit Před 20 dny

      He also has schizophrenia, is a convicted felon. Probably some other serious mental health stuff going on.

  • @pauladouglas9891
    @pauladouglas9891 Před 19 dny +4

    I wonder what happened in their marriage that they separated in the first place. Oh, just found he is on drugs too.

  • @Melissa-xz8ss
    @Melissa-xz8ss Před 20 dny +19

    "Sometimes you have to make up your mind,
    Say yes to one and let the other one ride"

    • @alanaadams7440
      @alanaadams7440 Před 20 dny +2

      Did you ever have to make up your mind

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 Před 20 dny

      @@alanaadams7440we have all had to make decisions. I made a decision to leave my cheating husband.

  • @nancymorris995
    @nancymorris995 Před 19 dny +1

    The whole Pick me!! Pick me!! thing is beyond my comprehension.

  • @AkitaLover1013
    @AkitaLover1013 Před 20 dny +14

    This guy wanted an excuse to cheat and he took it! If it wasn't her it would have been someone else! He was looking to cheat!

  • @shirleyscott8879
    @shirleyscott8879 Před 19 dny +1

    If I were either of these women, I would be gone

  • @mrssunnyface
    @mrssunnyface Před 20 dny +8

    If he cheats he’s a loser. I would of left him in 2 seconds

  • @Patricia-pq4jq
    @Patricia-pq4jq Před 20 dny +10

    Melvin needs to go

  • @juliehofer1940
    @juliehofer1940 Před 20 dny +9

    Correct. Why doesn’t she make the decision.

  • @ScoobyHashSnacks420
    @ScoobyHashSnacks420 Před 20 dny +5

    If he’ll do it with you, he’ll do it to you.

  • @mollyscot1563
    @mollyscot1563 Před 20 dny +110

    I love that the wife is blaming the gf not her husband. Wake up.

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 Před 20 dny +11

      I was just going to say that Melvin needs to leave Chantel alone. I hate when wives have misplaced anger. I had a husband who cheated on me and I didn’t blame the other woman. My ex broke his vows to me, she didn’t.

    • @michmor6221
      @michmor6221 Před 20 dny +5

      ​@grammar4341 My thoughts exactly, agree 1000%

    • @emmacollins4858
      @emmacollins4858 Před 20 dny +6

      They’re both to blame. He has a wife and she knows he has a wife. Both of their morals are in the gutter.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 Před 20 dny +3

      They're both at fault. Not equal he's worse but she has responsibility in this too

    • @alannatodd7183
      @alannatodd7183 Před 20 dny +4

      I was also cheated on by my first husband. Why a person who is unhappy in their marriage chooses to cheat as a solution is beyond me. Yes I take partial blame, but the fact that he didn't make an effort to let me know how he felt about the marriage and wasn't man enough to say it wasn't working before he cheated was a huge sign the marriage wasn't worth saving. I also have no respect for the other person who chooses to step in when a marriage isn't totally dissolved. Fun fact, his relationship may have lasted a year or so, but I'm going on 20 years with my second husband and he is still alone.

  • @carmelstainsby57
    @carmelstainsby57 Před 20 dny +6

    Did i just come across the twilight zone😅😅😅😅😅

  • @fannyfroeschl
    @fannyfroeschl Před 20 dny +4

    Fighting? Get some dignity for heaven's sake!
    Over him? WTF?

  • @Little_Toy_Soldier
    @Little_Toy_Soldier Před 20 dny +10

    Didn't she mention in the very beginning that he was playing both of them, and yet here she is solely blaming the girlfriend for his responsibility of being a husband? make it make sense.

  • @melaniewantsabeer243
    @melaniewantsabeer243 Před 19 dny +1

    Where is the disgust for the husband? Pick me girl is upset he's a Dawg and yet she still made herself a fool

  • @ree305
    @ree305 Před 20 dny +12

    Wow 😮..when the prize is a "Jack in the box"🙃

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 Před 20 dny +15

    What a self absorbed drama queen. He's too bad of an actor to believe he's the main character.

  • @da---536
    @da---536 Před 20 dny +3

    who does he go to when he is broke? wife

  • @Jkaye13
    @Jkaye13 Před 19 dny +1

    'If my wife doesn't want to continue our relationship, l want her to tell me..'. So what you want is to play both women at the same time.. what a louse! They both need to drop you!!

  • @Nahugodia
    @Nahugodia Před 20 dny +6

    The answer is in his behaviour. Move on

  • @maryhirsch7170
    @maryhirsch7170 Před 20 dny +44

    Once a cheater, always a cheater!

  • @taychanel
    @taychanel Před 19 dny +1

    Let him go.

  • @eilenekellogg-ki2br
    @eilenekellogg-ki2br Před 20 dny +6

    Co dependment.

  • @browneyes2100
    @browneyes2100 Před 20 dny +5

    Well he has a type.
    Needy & not self loving.

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 Před 13 dny

    This man is not stopping anything

  • @LAStars-sratS
    @LAStars-sratS Před 20 dny +9

    He just wants tail and the women lack self esteem.

  • @user-sd1sz1lb2e
    @user-sd1sz1lb2e Před 20 dny +5

    Say bye bye.

  • @nellabrown6190
    @nellabrown6190 Před 20 dny +3

    Melvin has a very odd affect. He's frighting.

  • @pdig2963
    @pdig2963 Před 20 dny +6

    And that's what we're fighting over 🤢

  • @contactam1753
    @contactam1753 Před 20 dny +1

    The face of the wife when she heard he say yes! I think she would want let him miserable.. better they seperate they re nit good for each other

  • @jackiehendricks4941
    @jackiehendricks4941 Před 19 dny +3

    He's such a drama queen, lol.

  • @sandimccracken2781
    @sandimccracken2781 Před 20 dny +7

    If he has anything to do with that BIG MAMA, he’ll never be faithful to anyone.

  • @ArkansasSquaw
    @ArkansasSquaw Před 20 dny +4

    Girl, you deserve better than this....

  • @specialkay4329
    @specialkay4329 Před 19 dny +1

    Ugh! I betchu he would go nuts if wifey had a boyfriend. I would see too, if I were her.

  • @torrimills1915
    @torrimills1915 Před 20 dny +2

    Ol Melvin ain't worth it honey😂😂

  • @user-lk6oc2vj6m
    @user-lk6oc2vj6m Před 20 dny +2

    Remember, if Melvin can have an affair, then anyone can

  • @rhondawilliams8155
    @rhondawilliams8155 Před 20 dny +5

    Are these grownups or kids?

  • @ivylinrolle8020
    @ivylinrolle8020 Před 20 dny +4

    This evil 😈 is like a ship without a sail ⛵️

  • @thecongenital3035
    @thecongenital3035 Před 20 dny

    Doormats but wont leave and wont tell him to leave her alone.

  • @MyRandomThoughts305
    @MyRandomThoughts305 Před 19 dny +2

    Wife needs to be mad at her husband... not the other woman. He made vows not the other woman.

  • @whitneyrenepaige4321
    @whitneyrenepaige4321 Před 14 dny

    Chantal and Melvin deserve each other.

  • @gina-mj6wu
    @gina-mj6wu Před 20 dny +1

    Divorce is the key🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @alonteprince826
    @alonteprince826 Před 19 dny

    SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE GOTTA LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

  • @sueturner5541
    @sueturner5541 Před 20 dny +2

    He wants his cake and eat it x

  • @user-po1ln6jr4l
    @user-po1ln6jr4l Před 20 dny +5

    I am gay and I found my husband on a Christian dating site.

    • @terriconnelly931
      @terriconnelly931 Před 20 dny +2

      Sounds right

    • @vandafielden6552
      @vandafielden6552 Před 20 dny +1

      @user-polln6jr41
      Of course there are genuine Christians, he was NOT one look at all the really IMPORTANT things he omitted to tell his wife, such as his Criminal Past, Drug Use his Diagnosis etc etc.
      Real Christian's would never lie like that.

    • @user-po1ln6jr4l
      @user-po1ln6jr4l Před 20 dny

      @@vandafielden6552 I come from a Christian family and you know what what's the most religious ones are the biggest cons. The atheist ones in my family are the normal ones and the Christians the ones that go to church all the time are the thieves . The Apple doesn't fall far from the tree

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb Před 20 dny

      Says the man who makes a statement that "Religion is the root of all evil"?!?!?! Interesting comment that you make on this video that you found your husband on a Christian dating website but I see you make a comment on another video saying that religion is the root of all evil, okay 🙄

  • @juliehofer1940
    @juliehofer1940 Před 20 dny +7

    This is ridiculous

  • @cherylhaugen1897
    @cherylhaugen1897 Před 19 dny

    This man is still a child! What he needs is a “mother” figure!

  • @suepost9026
    @suepost9026 Před 20 dny +6

    I don feel sorry for her at all. She is such a fool. Look at all he's done, yet she kept going back with him. Why would she want him. He has issues, but man, so does she.

  • @GoldenBuddah1972
    @GoldenBuddah1972 Před 20 dny +3

    DO NOT FIGHT OVER THIS LOSER. HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. I’m sorry, honey. PLEASE move on! You deserve better! And it’s appalling that he faults you! Run like your hair is on fire!

  • @narcdetester2102
    @narcdetester2102 Před 20 dny

    What a creep, are these ladies mad?

  • @jac3271
    @jac3271 Před 20 dny +4

    They bandy around the term “love” but it appears neither know what real love is! It’s some kind of perverse obsession. The wife should leave immediately.

  • @casechow
    @casechow Před 19 dny +2

    ...is this a parody?? You have got to be kidding me.

  • @yulisacastro9535
    @yulisacastro9535 Před 20 dny +3

    He's cheating on her with George Lopez

  • @keba171
    @keba171 Před 20 dny +2

    Woman come on we can do better than this .....😢this is embarrassing

  • @kristin5322
    @kristin5322 Před 20 dny +2

    The wifes face when he took the help, it was like she was mad he was leaving to get help. Very telling.

  • @hilberryable
    @hilberryable Před 20 dny +2

    Lady, make your own decision and leave him. Stupid if you don't so don't complain.

  • @KB-nl9vu
    @KB-nl9vu Před 16 dny

    What a joke this Melvin is!!! 🤣🤣

  • @RebeccaEdwards-pt4or
    @RebeccaEdwards-pt4or Před 19 dny

    Just wow...why question!??

  • @hazelsoca4577
    @hazelsoca4577 Před 20 dny +3

    You dont know someone in 6 weeks.. Geesh, do a background check on people.. A Christian website doesn't mean you are getting a faithful or decent partner.. You have to watch that person to see how their live their life, how they treat others, their family, etc...smh!

  • @theirishcailin333
    @theirishcailin333 Před 17 dny

    Im only 1 minute in and seriously, what is wrong with some women. Have they no self respect because he certainly has none for them!!

  • @alc4ever24
    @alc4ever24 Před 20 dny +4

    Awe. I feel very bad for rachel. She can do so much better. She's a nice looking lady and deserves respect. Just a thought; my granny told me NEVER to call a man when youre dating. You always wait for them to contact you. It worked on my now husband. A woman asking a man to marry her is doomed for failure.

  • @user-qv2hq4df4p
    @user-qv2hq4df4p Před 19 dny +1

    Lady move on

  • @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI

    Y'all ought to be ashamed of yourselves! This man is SLOW he has schizophrenia THIS DRAMA WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR LIFE!!!!!!

  • @tessiebernstein1648
    @tessiebernstein1648 Před 20 dny +11

    Dr.Phil 🤠 the wife deserves what she is treated 🤡 I am married 47yrs and I told my husband if he doesn't love me anymore HE IS CERTAINLY FREE to go where he is happy 🥰

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 Před 20 dny +3

      My husband and I had both been cheated on in our previous marriages. This is the second marriage for both of us. We promised each other that if we found someone else that we couldn’t do without, we would get a divorce rather than cheat. That was over 27 years ago. We remain faithful to each other.

    • @cancandoit
      @cancandoit Před 20 dny

      No. She doesn't deserve this, but she doesn't realize that she deserves better.

  • @andreajones886
    @andreajones886 Před 20 dny +5

    lmao,sounds like the reason that some other people that I know be tying the knot so damn quickly,smmfh!😑😑😑😑😑

  • @darladexter5443
    @darladexter5443 Před 13 dny

    Weak !! All 3 of them 😫

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 Před 20 dny +1

    Because NO.

  • @gm-wv2yt
    @gm-wv2yt Před 17 dny

    Phil always says he doesn’t judge people - watch this tape and tell me he isn’t judging this guy lol

  • @loriwood8468
    @loriwood8468 Před 20 dny +1

    RUN! It NEVER works out once you find out someone is cheating. I speak from experience.

  • @hannahrachelxo2281
    @hannahrachelxo2281 Před 20 dny +2

    I wonder where they are now

  • @kazzakoala
    @kazzakoala Před 20 dny +2

    Walk away and hold your head high. You deserve to be the only one. It’s not his decision. It’s your decision. He’s blaming her for him having an affair. If your marriage is rocky and you leave the home for any reason, you go to a relatives house. Go to a friends house. It’s no excuse to be a cheating dog. That’s on you when you do that.