Judge Toler | Divorce Court Too Much Episode | Must See What the Judge has to say
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- Divorce Court Married 30 days Episode. Must See What Judge Lynn Toler has to say Judge Lynn Toler. In this video, she gives one of the most surprising lessons you'll ever hear.
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He has a wife BUT she doesn't have a husband....smdh.
Amen
Absolutely 💯
She doesn't take sides. She just tells the truth . That's why we L❤ve her
I agree!
This is true she holds your feet to the fire without any biases
Judge Toler is MY mentor!
she would be.mine to nd I'm a mentor so go figure ❤😊
My go-to for advice that is good
I listen to 25x
That’s how long for wisdom to sink in my brain and stay there ❤
What she just described is what it’s like to be in a relationship with a narcissist.
That is an absolute true stmt! That's why he smiling, he gonna go home & say the Judge was against him, didn't let him say his side & all women stick together. 36yrs & trying to get out. 😢
I will say toxic, but not necessarily Narcissistic…maybe some traits though.
Selfish man not a loving man. “She’s not doing enough for me” instead of stepping back and asking “baby how can I help”. Selfish people are everywhere with a mindset of me…me…me walk away!
"The thesis sentence in the paragraph of your marriage." Man, I love that statement! Go Judge, go!!!😊
It’s a perfect concept for defining the structure of a marriage. Judge Tolor is so good!
SISSSS, GET SOMEBODY ELSE TO DO IT..
LET IT GOOOOOOO, LET IT GOOOOOOOO...
Don't do that either, that would be like jumping out of the frying pan into the fire. Going from one tyrant to another. Sis, no, hell no.
"i'm not your super woman" ! I'm your wife, partner in life!!!
They want it all from women 100, this is the problem
Yep! Childcare in the night coking cleaning etc
Sex on tap! Damn men who needs them😮
EXACTLY!!!!!!! WE CAN’T GET A PENNY FROM THEM🙄
Exactly!!!! U can do 99 things right and the 1 u don't do right u fail. It's soooo hurtful and frustrating
The problem is men wanna marry their mothers. And they want you to do the work of home all the time. Women can't do these things all the time, that's why we need their help sometimes.
And they won't cause we human like they are 😅
The big boys have left the room. That's the main problem with our men. I can relate. There are so many women who give everthing and get very little or nothing in return...No appreciation whatsoever from these men. Hence, most women are deciding to remain single.
She is so right on!
Why does he look amused while the judge is talking to him. Girl run. He doesn’t get it.
Most men think like this guy
😢 yeah 😔 Really makes me sad. Why humans waste so much time being negative? Life is short anyways
They're greedy
Not true! Most MEN know......most man boys struggle with compromise and fairness!! Dude is in struggle!!
Not at all!
As a man, I will do everything I can so that she doesn't have to do all those things. Praise her and make her feel like I am on her side and support this beautiful, hard-working sister. There ARE still a few of us men out there who know how to treat a woman like this!
@@mrt4085 We appreciate the few good ones. Be blessed 🙏
Once I hit a 6 figure salary, I left men alone. My workload hasn’t changed, but the resentment I used to carry is. Sure, a date is nice every now and then but I’m not being drained trying to live up to unrealistic expectations of a man that he himself can’t.
My home is so much more peaceful!
I’m on my way 🙌🏿
Yasssss🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
❤❤❤❤
Go oan wit cha bad self. We l💘ve U2
That's a female Thang. Even in nature its things and appearance that attract the female species. (Eve's downfall) The woman was made for man. "This is a man's world. But, it wouldn't be nothing without a woman or a girl."
Judge Toler is such an amazing woman. Breaks my heart that she has lost her husband.
"Life is very short. And there's no time for fussing and fighting my friends."
Yes yes yes
Speak on it Judge!
Judge Lynn Toler literally speaks on it.
The very best mentor ever.
Linda Lawson 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
Well if I must do it all then I'll be single.
See? This is what 50/50 gets you. Don't do it ladies.
Judge is 1000 percent correct. Learning how to support your spouse is key. Build each other up not constantly tearing each other down. It takes cooperation not competition for a relationship to thrive, survive & grow over time 👏🏾👏🏾
Keeping it truthful everytime 😊
I love this amazing, wise and beautiful judge. She speaks so much wisdom. I am learning so much by these mini videos and yes I'm sharing with those that need to hear it😊.
It's exactly why women have given up on relationships we are exhausted and have found it easier to look after ourselves
This guy should have never been married, he is not ready.
Some never are
He is still on needing a mom and maid not a wife
@@user-MMA84 😂
I can watch a million reels of Judge Toler! #She speaks Truth
Watching this on a Sunday. A sermon. Preach 🙌🏽
Most preachers need to listen to this. They think the wife should support their career and later for her personal interests, likes and dislikes. It is all about him and him alone and nothing nor anybody else is important nor exists.
This is one of the reason women are not buying into that submissive mess men want.
Men don't know what works a marriage. They have no idea. Immaturity.
Some men, some women.
Then we need to parent better. All of us.
@@persephone2268 100% true. The generalizations aren't right
An This is why men A n d women need - should - will Listen! & Learn! from Queen👑 Sista Judge Toler whenever she Speaks! God Bless her for Sharing these strings of Pearls of Knowledge! Focus, Remember Process & Follow-Through & then Make It Happens.🙏🏿💞🙏🏿
They are just people.
That’s right if you focus on all the things that a person gets wrong or doesn’t do right, you’ll miss out on the things that they do that all right and positive simply because you wanna focus on the negative
This is why I divorced and kept it pushing
She is so right at one point I worked more hours and brought more money than my ex but I cleaned our home and never asked for help…despite I worked more hours a week than him…I’m single now with no kids and never ever looking back…I’m not putting down the family unit at all and I respect it…ITS JUST NOT MY LIFE😂…
That's because you didn't have a loving and supportive and unselfish husband, but to be honest with you, me and many other women actually feel like you do.
The way she hears what’s going on these people’s lives and sum up the issues at the end is so insightful and fascinating! Then she comes up with a conclusion at the end, love her and wish she was still on divorce court
This man wants 50/50 plus her 100. 😂 and I bet he says "she isn't doing what a woman is supposed to do"
This woman is a true gift to the world! She’s so insightful, intuitive and she goes right in to the root of the issue(s) and she speaks to your soul! She’s anointed.
And she walked away in the end as she should! He was so blind to compromise. He wanted her to cook, clean, hold the house down, raise the kids, work at his barber shop and be a sex vixen, plus hustle 😑 sir bye! What are you doing? Helped her feel less then, bc she’s not under your control 24/7, 365. Smh
Totally spot on karla!!!
I meant Kyra
Very true, nothing worse than a control freak, when it comes to you, but I wanna be free when he's out and about not equally yoked
Ridiculous, that’s slavery - l bet she is much happier, without him 😊
The fact that he is there smiling said all me that he is not listening to anything that Judge Toler is telling him. He wants it to be all about me you please me all the time, but he doesn't support his wife in any shape of the support.
The wife needs to give him a check on his INADEQUACIES.
Exactly 💯
Typical man,so damn selfish
She needs to be back on TV asap. There's a void
❤❤❤
Tell it!
I agree we Miss you Judge
Again, so clear in her explanation and so intelligent in her assessment. I really admire her.
He is running the relationship
When doing the most wrecks your marriage 💑 capitalism is satisfied with this arrangement though 🤔find your happiness sweet spot and enjoy your life together ❤️ 🖤💚 if you want a house wife disclose that 🧐but you can't have it all without sacrifices
Bm FIRST PROBLEM IS.. THEY ARE NOT EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENT.. 2ND ISSUE IS.. THEY ARE RUINED DUE TO THEIR LACK OF PERFORMANCE AS A MAN, SO THE STANDARDS AND BARS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SET LOW FOR THEM..
THEY GIVE SO LITTLE.. IN EVERY WAY.. THAT EVERYBODY AUTOMATICALLY EXPECT LESS FROM THEM..
THEY WANT A "TRADITIONAL WOMAN", WHILE HAVING ABSOLUTELY ZERO COMPREHENSION... ON WHAT IT IS 2 EVEN BE A REAL MAN..
THEY ARE CLUELESS, ABUSIVE, NARCISSISTIC LIL BOYS..
I REFUSE TO EVER DEAL WITH ANOTHER ONE.. YAWL CAN HAVE ALLEUM..
NAHHH.. GET SOMEBODY ELSE TO DO IT.. CUZ I MOST DEFINITELY AIN'T. I DON'T EVEN LOOK IN THEIR DIRECTION..
❤
Not only did it get stuck on she's not DOING ENOUGH how did the TREAT LAST RELATIONSHIP. What HAPPENED there and how DID it GO in a DIFFERENT DIRECTION. RESPECT and LOVE YOU JUDGE YOU'RE AMAZING 👏 💚💚💚💚💚🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🦋🦋🦋🍀🍀🦋🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀
I love this beautiful intelligent Judge ❤❤❤
Male or female, what we all want is to be appreciated.
Enlighten him-Judge Toler! Marriage isn’t a 50/50 deal! Even a dog will get tired - & bite you or runaway!😢😂
That’s the truth Ruth!! Men have no idea! You can’t have it all cause all 100% of the time is not very realistic! Especially when you have a nagger, complaining and keeping score of the wrongs instead of building, supporting and giving credit and appreciating her!
But forgot to keep score on his history
I love Judge Toler
Brilliant! Thesis of your marriage!
He thinks the judge is FUNNY! That NASTY smirk on his face! Unreal. 🤔
❤Judge Toler is on point!!
Live within your means. Live simply, love extravagantly!
Hire a retired old woman to cook and clean!
Amen Judge Toler!!!
You saving marriages. You are the devils worst enemy. Keep it up sis! ❤
Thank you Judge Toler!
You could tell when he got it , I don’t think he had heard it explained like that before
I so thankful to have a husband who believes my workload should be minimal because I worked as an electrician.
She should be taking precounselling lecture for awareness..she is too good
This is the truth. Unreasonable expectations. Judge Toler knows what she's talking about.
Preach Judge Lynn Toller as you do so very well the best educator all around I'm marriage to the T. The expression on there faces is priceless because they know you 100 percent right either side
His smile at the end? He's not listening, and if he is listening, he doesn't care.
Judge the truth is the light ¡!!!!❤🎉❤
WOW! Judge you have said a mouth full!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤and all i can say is; Amen!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
These men don’t see your value bcz their value stick is broken. They expect so much but gives do little. 😢
I wouldn't want her job!!! I know she goes home with a head ache when she leaves there 😂
They want it all from us but they don't give us anything. They just want take us for granted.
Judge Toler is such a class act ✨
You can't help but to try & be a better person with Judge Lynn Toler😊
She shouldn't be doing anything, if she bears your kids😂😂
I wish these included the names so I can go watch the full episode... I've watched so many episodes I can't keep up lol love Judge Lynn
Judge Lynn tells it like it is that's why we love ❤ her.
I was so ready to keep hearing the rest. Guess I need to do some deep diving in these CZcams Streets!
what is the name of this episode and season
I want to watch
She really breaks it down ❤❤❤
Oh boy, is he lucky or what ~ 😏
Run tell it, Judge!
Teach us!!
That narcissistic SOB didn't hear a word the judge say.
Yes tell him
Ol’ boy got lost. Judge Lynn used to many “big words!”
I'm convinced that marriage is a prison not a privilege. Sounds like a slippery slope.
That stupid smirk on his face!!!… 🧐😳🤬
Bye, Craig. 😹
Fems made men like this. Remember that old commercial “she can fry it up in a pan & never let you forget your a man.” The woman worked, had kids, cooked, cleaned EVERYTHING. Now it’s the new normal. I was exhausted.
The way he is smirking I still don't think he gets it.
He'll stop smirking, when some other woman, and women after her keep turning his behind down, he'll get his mess together then.
Yesssss
Wow wow wow this was my married life in a nutshell. I feel for this lady😢
This is the main reason why single women are the happiest, everrr!!! This lady is so cute. I hate seeing her so sad, while he's just got this smiley, smug look. She could do so much better on her own, and eventually with a real man who's not crying and whining all day about having to be a breadwinner! 😂
This is who should be speaking loudly to the masses. Wisdom, experience , professional, relatable with actual life, relationship, marital knowledge.
Marriage should be a team effort with your best friend. Not a dictatorship of one over the other.
BOSS LADY Judge LYNN TOLER
When black men speak to me, I speak back and keep it moving... I'm ghost before anything else can be said. I have no more time to waste on them.
Pressure to do what, Girl Run Quickly.....
His head though
the budding lil' narcissist. :))
Tell. Him judge😊
And he's "smirling"! CAD!
His FOCUS is on the WRONG THINGS...😮!!!
teach them Judge!🤗 Bet u someone else will appreciate her efforts. Bye knumbskull!