I'm 17 sitting in my uncle's car in L.A. in 98 after running away from home, parole, strung out when an interview of Mary J is on he radio and she gives God all credit for saving her life. When I see or hear her voice, I think of God. She is one of the strongest women I know!!!! 💜
And another thing, this is one strong Black Woman! Honestly how many of us got embarrassed on national television by a nasty Gentile and they so called lover? She sat through the rest of that interview like a true professional! That had to hurt!!
@@jayreacts5796 Are you stupid or just plain dumb? I am talking about how she got embarrassed on national TV. Where in my comment did I say she was a saint? I swear yall ninjas are so quick to blame a female for something that you cannot even focus on the topic at hand. Smh
@@jayreacts5796 They were both toxic. But at least she did lie on national TV and say they weren’t engaged to get married. Have you ever been embarrassed on national TV? My answer would be hell naw! That’s what I’m talking about. If you can’t follow that then I suggest you get hooked on phonics 😒
@@jayreacts5796 He proposed to her knowing exactly who she was. So he had no reason to treat her in that shoddy manner. He was probably just using her.
Bullshyt.......Stop making excuses for low self esteem. Black Women are so full of excuses and that is why generation after generation.....NOTHING Changes but their faces.
Damn I didn't realize he did that on national tv. Relationships and heartbreak are tough enough to deal with in private. Can't imagine dealing with this in the public eye. She has really evolved.
I love how y'all stick up for your sister's but damn don't make it seem like you beautiful queens don't posse unacceptable flaws that go UNNOTICED a lot. And we really can't say she dodge a bullet if they would've mature together as couple then who knows what they could've had
Ha! Bullshit! She eating a load of bullets and dinomite with that husband of hers! He is robbing her big time. At Least kci had his own money and wasn't looking for a sugar mama!
wow....that was so incredibly hurtful and rude for that interviewer to show her that clip of k-ci dissing her like that...i mean how was she supposed to react?!! she was totally in love w/ him!!
Piatequila women are t stupid! Those two things can exist simultaneously...he can be a rat AND the host can be shady asf for doing that to her in front of an audience of people!!!! That host was an ASS for that and K Ci was an ASS for how he treated her! For the record, us women KNOW what type of man we got!!! We don’t need a fckn “messenger”...Mary already knew the deal and her and K Ci wouldn’t have made it to the alter anyway, or if they did...the marriage wouldn’t have lasted long. The truth is NEITHER of them were capable of being a good husband or wife back then.
Piatequila women are emotional creatures. We don’t know how men think until we get our heart broken. We’re not stupid, we just think you all think the way we do.
People fail to realize they were young! K-Ci was like 19. Maybe 20 her the same age so her way of thinking was about right for that age range. Then you add drugs to the mix? Shyt
He didn’t like the competition she was getting more fame then him : he loved her but not loved the fact she was more powerful than him her strength and courageous sprit he tried to break her cause he was broken
@@gloriajohnson1310 Hmmmm...sounds familiar. Can you say Bobby Brown? I saw a documentary about him and Whitney and it broke my heart. I believe it was on Tubi TV. Could've been Roku.
I think KC said that to appear single so his female fan base wouldn't lose interest. He was young and probably didn't understand that he could have just said "I don't want to discuss my personal life right now". Instead he was being wreckless and offended Mary.. They were an interesting couple back then, both extremely talented. I loved their music.
I agree. I think the heartbreak was intensified due to how the show hosts handled it! Famous or not why embarrass her like that with no empathy or care
WOW I never heard him say that🤔🤔🤔🤔No wonder she touch so many of our hearts...cause she knows all about PAIN....But my prayer for her tonight and myself NO MORE DRAMA!!!!! I PRAY FOR GOD TO LET HER LOVE AGAIN❤🛐
Mary dodged that bullet! It's one thing to be an addict all on your own but uh uh if you have a crack buddy along for the ride the crash is so much worse. That's exactly where Whitney and Bobby went wrong.
@Piatequila LOL funny how you speak with wisdom like a respectable person, then refer to me as dick Brain, over someone you don't even know your just taking up for them off biased because she's a woman. But yeah. Mary was cheating also, not to mention she bust in the studio throwing bottles at everyone. "Which was in behind the music confirmed by her".. where she admits her faults also
@Piatequila Mary was sleeping with pac while she was with kc. And she also slept with the singer case. So instead of leaving she cheated and stayed. Which means no angel
That's why I love Mary because when she sing you can feel what she been through! she literally was singing through her pain! while making the💰 dope part of the mess she dealt with. Now My Girl So Blessed..
Her words were so compelling and just so real! Unfortunately there's an enormous amount of us that have gone thru what she just described.......I'm glad she is happier now.
Ya'll have to understand they were young, in love, and juggling fame and money. Plus K-Ci was apart of Jodeci at the time which speaks for itself. The abuse wasn't just K-Ci, Mary was beating on him as well. She has admitted in the past that she was very insecure during their relationship and lacked self-love which is why she was looking for it in K-Ci. Her My Life album reflects heavily on those issues. We as women have got to start loving ourselves first, otherwise we'll settle for toxic relationships.
They were kids. K-CI was a young superstar. Management most likely told him that he couldn't go public with their relationship, that he couldn't marry her. You know how the thought process is in the entertainment industry, being single and unattached sales. It's been that way for decades, nothing new.
The law books say you are grown at the age of 18 and you are no longer a minor. They were not grown "mentally speaking," even at the age of 21. It's called "puppy love."
This was me! You don’t want no one else to have him but you deep down inside don’t want him anymore but stay because you believe no one else will want you. God bless her. This hit me hard.
To be real Mary J. and K-Ci were young and in love. And me as a longtime fan of Mary J. this should be a movie through all the fatalities the Queen faced.
@@tdb4763 when u are young, broke, and famous plus your fan base is predominantly young women. Kc was hotter then fish grease and Mary j. Blige was young and broken that came from a fatherless upbringing. That relationship wasn't going to last anyway. She was doing too much.
Mary. J. Blige, don't deserve the stuff she go through, I'm serious, she deserves better, I might not be Mr Romeo or king Gigolo, but I can give her what she deserves and that's real love, and my love for women is unconditional and priceless money can't buy my emotions, I love all women cause God created them to be loved and cherished regardless of the circumstances, a woman is to be loved and cherished and treated as a Queen, I admit a relationship is going to go through some up's and down's, but that's a part of a true commitment.
I'm glad Mary realized her worth. That interviewer did her dirty but K-Ci was worse. He didn't realize the gem he had. They could've been a power couple. Mary reclaimed her life and he went on a downwards spiral into irrelevancy.
they were so wrong for frontin' on her on national tv. that was embarrassing and disrespectful. they could've showed her that shyt off camera. that was dirty. but Mary handled it well.
they BOTH had issues and brought those issues to a relationship on top of that drugs were involved as was fame and money...they were both doomed from the start
This the first interview I ever heard Mary j talk about the truth of her relationship with k-ci...I didn't know they were engaged ...but I knew he was violent /abusive towards her and she took it..I thought Tina took alot from Ike...but Mary j suffered alot from K-ci...and I liked him as far as a singer in jodeci...he disappointed me as a man ...I'm glad she moved on and never looked back....you are a strong ..very strong woman Mary j...i love u alot Mary j...cause u are the voice ...for women for us women who also experienced bad relationship who deals with abusive men who disrespect women by over powering them with their fist....I have a name for that C O W A R D S....
I remember watching the show in the uk. It was called The Word. Saw that episode and felt so bad for Mary because she looked so hurt. Even looked like she wanted to walk off. Knowing what we know about their tumultuous relationship I think it was def for the best. Never liked that presenter Dani Behr - such a mean thing to do! Mary you've been through a lot but you really are a Queen
Damn.... love is a beautiful thing, but it can be hell if your heart is in the wrong hands. I enjoy listening and seeing how much she loved. I would definitely cherish someone showing and not just saying that they love me.😥... Sorry I had a moment...lol
Your right they were both young and mistakes happen. I think K-CI regrets it by his interviews and songs. He paid the price to because like you said it affected his reputation.
Yeah Mary is courageous for admitting all of this stuff. I appreciate her candor so many women need to hear her account. Mary is doing way better than him now it was like whitney and bobby it didn't make sense anyway.
I loveeee how transparent this interview was. Young women/women period need to have access to this kind of content. On the B4 side of certain stories. Thanks Auntie Mary. 💕✨ Listen to her album The BreakThrough this was her turning point. Much respect.
K-CI's as a vocalist touched me too but with all those women screaming for him is a huge risk. Mary should've guarded her heart with barb wire & got to know him much better from a different perspective.
So glad I never went through this. Young girls with their romantic hopes get slashed; knocked down by some guy. Men who never care or even cared about you. They just blame YOUR heartbreak on YOU and walk away from you as though you were not even there. I have never experienced it but I feel for you ladies. Ten years later, you still actually care about the guy and he never gave you a passing thought; you were apart of his "phase". *Hugs* 😿😖
👍🏽💯👍🏽I have, to the point of learning that I realized that I don't need no man to justify my life, so, I said "f*ck that sh*t," and, I just kept it moving. 😂 You live and you learn. Some things just aren't meant to be. 😘
He was so full of himself because back then he was the shit, I can't even front. A lot of times, we are missing things in our lives and we allow ourselves to be taken advantage of and abused by a man just to find that outside source of love. I'm glad she found the strength to move on and the courage to deal with it. Now she is one of the biggest names in R & B...and he and his crackhead brother are on stage drunk and high passing out after one song. Sucks to be K-Ci right now.
Mary was young who was not in love when they were that young to the wrong damn boy? been there. now you see the clown years later and be like WTF was on my mind Lol
3:11 wow..... Being so Heavenly in love, and feeling like you can't breathe eat without that one is so deep, especially when you love him before you love yourself....
I believe Mary. Not because she is my favorite singer because i love Jodeci as well. But when you were in a situation similar to hers then you lean more on her side. He was wrong, no excuses
So much pain in her voice even when she was speaking here about it years later. I remember seeing both interviews live in the 1990s and my university friend and I are we’re taking about how he just publicly humiliated her. It was just so embarrassing for her but just horrible and unnecessary to disrespect her like that. That’s what happens to these men. Do you think if it wasn’t for Jodeci and the fame she would even have spat on him?! Man could sing the birds out of the trees but he weren’t no oil painting!
I was a Freshman in Highschool. A die hard Fan. They talked so Bad about Mary. And I was that MF. That Understood it all. I was 14. I knew then. Mary was suffering. I knew then she was gonna be Ok. She was Honest, Hurt, and Sad.
I wanted them together, what a beautiful healthy and talented child they would've made. He just was in a whole nother space and time. He wasnt ready, but now i think he may have regretted saying that. I think now, he wishes he couldve been with her. Or at least made better decisions in regards to his relationship to her.
I love both Mary Jane and Kci, they both had issues Kci was drinking andMary was on drugs. But she used to show up at the shows and try to fight females in the audience for touching on Kci so they both had issues. But I believe their love will never die!
At that time Mary had cleaned up her image "a bit" so although we can clearly see that see might have wanted to go off, she restrained herself. But you can tell she was pissed.
Kci dogged her but celebrities back then always denied being in relationships. They were groomed by the record labels to say they’re single. Maybe that’s why he did that.
The good thing now is that both of them agrees that they were quite young with fame and money. He also admitted recently that he did so some bad stuff to her..they've both moved on and none of them bad mouthed each other over the years besides agreeing the relationship was toxic. But Mary came out on top as she end of having longer lasting and prolific career which is still going strong today!! Back then he probably thought she was lucky to have him, now the tables has turned!!
Mary J need her own movie.
Yes she does. It would be huge
Yes, i definitely agree.
Hell called “My Life”
Yes I agree titled My Life.
Nekysha Harrigan YES!!!!
That interviewer was shady as hell for showing that clip
trust me
real petty
No, she saved her life or else she will continue being with that jerk KCI cheating ass at the time.
Nakita Benjamin yes I can definitely see that now... but there's a way to do things..then again it's tv... all for entertainment
TrynaMakeADollarOutOf15Cents They were always disrespecting Mary back then. But when she cursed they ass out. She was a ghetto entertainer
I'm 17 sitting in my uncle's car in L.A. in 98 after running away from home, parole, strung out when an interview of Mary J is on he radio and she gives God all credit for saving her life. When I see or hear her voice, I think of God. She is one of the strongest women I know!!!! 💜
💐🤍💐
🙏🏽
Yes
Broken heart live on the air. I felt so bad for her.
And another thing, this is one strong Black Woman! Honestly how many of us got embarrassed on national television by a nasty Gentile and they so called lover? She sat through the rest of that interview like a true professional! That had to hurt!!
Lmfao what? You talking like? She was a saint or some that women use to heat on him and everything she was a drunk before she meet him lmfao
@@jayreacts5796 Are you stupid or just plain dumb? I am talking about how she got embarrassed on national TV. Where in my comment did I say she was a saint? I swear yall ninjas are so quick to blame a female for something that you cannot even focus on the topic at hand. Smh
@@jayreacts5796 They were both toxic. But at least she did lie on national TV and say they weren’t engaged to get married. Have you ever been embarrassed on national TV? My answer would be hell naw! That’s what I’m talking about. If you can’t follow that then I suggest you get hooked on phonics 😒
Yea he was so fuckin wrong for how he did her fr!
@@jayreacts5796 He proposed to her knowing exactly who she was. So he had no reason to treat her in that shoddy manner. He was probably just using her.
She was feenin for him. These jodeci tracks are dangerous
She was just a woman in love what else can be said!!
Exactly
Lady Gemini Facts
Bullshyt.......Stop making excuses for low self esteem. Black Women are so full of excuses and that is why generation after generation.....NOTHING Changes but their faces.
D Man...low self esteem? How so?
KinkyCurlyDiva16 😢😢
Damn I didn't realize he did that on national tv. Relationships and heartbreak are tough enough to deal with in private. Can't imagine dealing with this in the public eye. She has really evolved.
She is so gorgeous!
+johanna717 no she isn't
+Lkjdfldskj Lkjkljkklj stfu stupid troll
Mary is/was a whore.
rockrock theragnorok a whore? How?
Yes I love her
Mary loved him more than he loved her. He did her so wrong. Their relationship was toxic, she dodged a bullet by not marrying him.
But now he is doing so good
He was a womaniser it wouldn't have worked but he loved Mary tho
She still ended up with a POS but she doing okay now just was on the breakfast club this morning good for her I know exactly how this felt
Mary spoke that real shit that some people would be affraid to say that they were attached and will take abuse to stay in a toxic love episode.
She loved him like a woman should
I love Jodeci's music but it looks like she dodged a big ol' bullet!
Ain't that the truth. Another Bobby/Whitney possibility. Good thing she kept it pushing. She way too classy for his bs.
I love how y'all stick up for your sister's but damn don't make it seem like you beautiful queens don't posse unacceptable flaws that go UNNOTICED a lot. And we really can't say she dodge a bullet if they would've mature together as couple then who knows what they could've had
CoffeeLover
Maybe HE dodged the bullet
But damn
Mary was such a babe back then. I bet she's freaky. She let K-Ci have his way with her obviously. Mentally and physically.
Ha! Bullshit! She eating a load of bullets and dinomite with that husband of hers! He is robbing her big time. At
Least kci had his own money and wasn't looking
for a sugar mama!
wow....that was so incredibly hurtful and rude for that interviewer to show her that clip of k-ci dissing her like that...i mean how was she supposed to react?!! she was totally in love w/ him!!
Piatequila women are t stupid! Those two things can exist simultaneously...he can be a rat AND the host can be shady asf for doing that to her in front of an audience of people!!!! That host was an ASS for that and K Ci was an ASS for how he treated her! For the record, us women KNOW what type of man we got!!! We don’t need a fckn “messenger”...Mary already knew the deal and her and K Ci wouldn’t have made it to the alter anyway, or if they did...the marriage wouldn’t have lasted long. The truth is NEITHER of them were capable of being a good husband or wife back then.
Piatequila women are emotional creatures. We don’t know how men think until we get our heart broken. We’re not stupid, we just think you all think the way we do.
@@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 How did KCI hurt Mary?
@@torianmcneill3794 I didn’t say he hurt her.
@@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 okay wait I have a question was that her screaming at him telling him to open the door on the intro of S more by Jodeci?
Their story would make a great movie.
they could have been the power couple of the 90's....
Women if you dont stand for something you will fall for anything and thats real talk 💯💯💯💯💯
Before Rihanna & Chris there was Mary J. & K-Ci.....tearing up hotel rooms, fighting backstage & stuff.
Ummm, not really. Chris and Rhi never impacted me like these two
@@strauqq1 that was not the point
You forgot Tina and Ike and Bobby with Whitney
I bet ol' K-Ci wish he was with Mary J now.
Nah
+Khama Mooney you actin like she doing bad. so u can Nah yo self
NkrumahTure right
I don't think he does , that was toxic.
Yeah....for her!
People fail to realize they were young! K-Ci was like 19. Maybe 20 her the same age so her way of thinking was about right for that age range. Then you add drugs to the mix? Shyt
k-ci was 22 an she was 21
+Jordan Alexander still young
Thank you! Yall know damn well that young people fight like a mutha fucka!
True
jneroo226 No, not like that
That MY LIFE album is the shit, from beginning to end. Pain seems to bring out those emotions that speak volumes!! Thank u, Mary!
He didn’t like the competition she was getting more fame then him : he loved her but not loved the fact she was more powerful than him her strength and courageous sprit he tried to break her cause he was broken
@@gloriajohnson1310 Hmmmm...sounds familiar. Can you say Bobby Brown? I saw a documentary about him and Whitney and it broke my heart. I believe it was on Tubi TV. Could've been Roku.
I think KC said that to appear single so his female fan base wouldn't lose interest. He was young and probably didn't understand that he could have just said "I don't want to discuss my personal life right now". Instead he was being wreckless and offended Mary.. They were an interesting couple back then, both extremely talented. I loved their music.
Exactly
I agree. I think the heartbreak was intensified due to how the show hosts handled it! Famous or not why embarrass her like that with no empathy or care
I believe the same. He gave her a ring for a reason
Its easy to overlook that both Mary and K-Ci were basically kids back then, both were barely out of high school when they dated.
Piatequila they were dating years before that
WOW I never heard him say that🤔🤔🤔🤔No wonder she touch so many of our hearts...cause she knows all about PAIN....But my prayer for her tonight and myself NO MORE DRAMA!!!!! I PRAY FOR GOD TO LET HER LOVE AGAIN❤🛐
Mary dodged that bullet! It's one thing to be an addict all on your own but uh uh if you have a crack buddy along for the ride the crash is so much worse. That's exactly where Whitney and Bobby went wrong.
kayteeelle she did dodge a huge bullet but then she had to deal with her now even worse ex. I wish she knew her worth.
Feels like mary j is speaking so from the heart.. I been through this before getting through this type of pain now its so not easy.
Smh you act like she was an angel LOL she was cheating doing everything he was
@Piatequila LOL funny how you speak with wisdom like a respectable person, then refer to me as dick Brain, over someone you don't even know your just taking up for them off biased because she's a woman. But yeah. Mary was cheating also, not to mention she bust in the studio throwing bottles at everyone. "Which was in behind the music confirmed by her".. where she admits her faults also
@Piatequila Mary was sleeping with pac while she was with kc. And she also slept with the singer case. So instead of leaving she cheated and stayed. Which means no angel
That's why I love Mary because when she sing you can feel what she been through! she literally was singing through her pain!
while making the💰
dope part of the mess she dealt with. Now My Girl So Blessed..
Exactly
Her words were so compelling and just so real! Unfortunately there's an enormous amount of us that have gone thru what she just described.......I'm glad she is happier now.
Kci messed that up
Jodeci need a movie
That's where all those heart felt songs come from.
Ya'll have to understand they were young, in love, and juggling fame and money. Plus K-Ci was apart of Jodeci at the time which speaks for itself. The abuse wasn't just K-Ci, Mary was beating on him as well. She has admitted in the past that she was very insecure during their relationship and lacked self-love which is why she was looking for it in K-Ci. Her My Life album reflects heavily on those issues. We as women have got to start loving ourselves first, otherwise we'll settle for toxic relationships.
I felt all this
Right he said she would come to the hotel drunk and high and try to fight him
@@pamjohnson3617 really where was this
@@divinezo6212 did you find it
@@pamjohnson3617 no I was asking like she said that in interviews or
I can't believe I just cried. I am such a Mary fan. She hurt, I hurt. Look at him now and look at u Mary. I love u girl.
They were kids. K-CI was a young superstar. Management most likely told him that he couldn't go public with their relationship, that he couldn't marry her. You know how the thought process is in the entertainment industry, being single and unattached sales. It's been that way for decades, nothing new.
No they were grown 18 19 is a adult they were 20 and 21 not kid's!!!
@@angholloway5091That's still very young emotionally and mentally speaking
The law books say you are grown at the age of 18 and you are no longer a minor. They were not grown "mentally speaking," even at the age of 21. It's called "puppy love."
Mary deserves someone really good and honest in her life . She has been through a lot. That was cruel to show that on national tv.
I know she looks back now, and thinks to herself, what the hell was in thinking
treasurebanks lmao
Especially seeing how he look now!!
treasurebanks ..... yes run from them types.
babylelee22 At least he is not robbing her like her husband.
He Would of...Probably Worse...
This was me! You don’t want no one else to have him but you deep down inside don’t want him anymore but stay because you believe no one else will want you. God bless her. This hit me hard.
They can give me this Duet one more time♥️⭐🎶🎶🎶
She sang her heart out to him and he diss her.
She loved k-ci
Their musical duetry was remarkable 👌👌👌👌👌..
To be real Mary J. and K-Ci were young and in love. And me as a longtime fan of Mary J. this should be a movie through all the fatalities the Queen faced.
Only one person was in love plus everyone knows right from wrong they were not teenagers they were grown af that young ish is a excuse
Mary was real comfortable with this interviewer because back then she was known to not take off her sunglasses and be real cold in interviews
This is why we love Mary. She's often almost TOO honest. But she survives!
Yep
I think KC said what he said because he didn't want to loose record sales....that how the business is....
Thats what i was thinking also. It bigger then their relationship.
Plus he was probably 21 at the time
It doesn't matter business doesn't last or feel as good as love yall never been in love or bumped your heads.
@@tdb4763 when u are young, broke, and famous plus your fan base is predominantly young women. Kc was hotter then fish grease and Mary j. Blige was young and broken that came from a fatherless upbringing. That relationship wasn't going to last anyway. She was doing too much.
@@lamarmurrell1254 i can see that. She wasn't a catch at that time. More of a burden for him than a blessing.
I've been there before. Its hard and it can make u foolish. I felt every second of this honesty
Mary. J. Blige, don't deserve the stuff she go through, I'm serious, she deserves better, I might not be Mr Romeo or king Gigolo, but I can give her what she deserves and that's real love, and my love for women is unconditional and priceless money can't buy my emotions, I love all women cause God created them to be loved and cherished regardless of the circumstances, a woman is to be loved and cherished and treated as a Queen, I admit a relationship is going to go through some up's and down's, but that's a part of a true commitment.
Yes Mary J. Blige defiantly needs her own biopic. I would love to see it
I love this Interview. This is how shit be. Mary was hurt, Vulnerable, and a SuperStar!!!!!
I'm glad Mary realized her worth. That interviewer did her dirty but K-Ci was worse. He didn't realize the gem he had. They could've been a power couple. Mary reclaimed her life and he went on a downwards spiral into irrelevancy.
I REMEMBER this performance #Love my childhood and experiencing REAL MUSIC!!!!😍
Latoya Harvey I
That ambush interview was F up 😤...MJB is hella 🔥 to this day!!! This Sista got ya back🖤
they were so wrong for frontin' on her on national tv. that was embarrassing and disrespectful. they could've showed her that shyt off camera. that was dirty. but Mary handled it well.
Mary j blige she's a solet rock..✊👂🤩👍😘🙋♀️
You were in love... Mary I wish you Happiness!!
Cynthia Dickerson Infatuation.
they BOTH had issues and brought those issues to a relationship on top of that drugs were involved as was fame and money...they were both doomed from the start
No he did
@@clarkkent502 but he was abuser to her just because they were young dont mean shit they were adults
@@clarkkent502 nope I'm on mary j side yall be so quick to take up for him cause he jodeci my mom is even on mary j side
@@clarkkent502 no I'm not I'm 22 years old
@@clarkkent502 yes you are
They NEED to make a Mary J Blige biopic. She's had quite a life; it would play out beautifully on the big screen!
Mary biopic is goin to Impact Millions one day watch
This the first interview I ever heard Mary j talk about the truth of her relationship with k-ci...I didn't know they were engaged ...but I knew he was violent /abusive towards her and she took it..I thought Tina took alot from Ike...but Mary j suffered alot from K-ci...and I liked him as far as a singer in jodeci...he disappointed me as a man ...I'm glad she moved on and never looked back....you are a strong ..very strong woman Mary j...i love u alot Mary j...cause u are the voice ...for women for us women who also experienced bad relationship who deals with abusive men who disrespect women by over powering them with their fist....I have a name for that C O W A R D S....
In 2023, this is still needed to be heard. Without self love, the darkness truly thrives 🗣️
I remember watching the show in the uk. It was called The Word. Saw that episode and felt so bad for Mary because she looked so hurt. Even looked like she wanted to walk off. Knowing what we know about their tumultuous relationship I think it was def for the best. Never liked that presenter Dani Behr - such a mean thing to do! Mary you've been through a lot but you really are a Queen
Yeah that was cold of that host. 👎🏽
@@tiyaht2158 Atlest she told her instead of hiding like yall
@@Jingleball7734 Excuse me, who’s “yall?” And who’s hiding???
Where is Dani Behr now ..Nowhere..🧐🥴🙄
@@Jingleball7734they could have told/showed her backstage.. told her managers prior.. this was a very mean thing to do!
both are hall of fame level
Well at the end of the day, Mary and K-Ci had their moments and now Mary remains on top...
Success is the best revenge
Damn.... love is a beautiful thing, but it can be hell if your heart is in the wrong hands. I enjoy listening and seeing how much she loved. I would definitely cherish someone showing and not just saying that they love me.😥... Sorry I had a moment...lol
Your right they were both young and mistakes happen. I think K-CI regrets it by his interviews and songs. He paid the price to because like you said it affected his reputation.
omg on national tv i would have started crying
Damn he hurt the hell out of Mary i felt that pain
Yeah Mary is courageous for admitting all of this stuff. I appreciate her candor so many women need to hear her account. Mary is doing way better than him now it was like whitney and bobby it didn't make sense anyway.
I loveeee how transparent this interview was. Young women/women period need to have access to this kind of content. On the B4 side of certain stories. Thanks Auntie Mary. 💕✨ Listen to her album The BreakThrough this was her turning point. Much respect.
Mary J Blige is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen...I love her spirit and if I ever find a woman like that, daaaamn!!!
These men been doing her dirty since forever!
sad
Some endings are blessings
K-CI's as a vocalist touched me too but with all those women screaming for him is a huge risk. Mary should've guarded her heart with barb wire & got to know him much better from a different perspective.
they were soooo young....
So glad I never went through this. Young girls with their romantic hopes get slashed; knocked down by some guy. Men who never care or even cared about you. They just blame YOUR heartbreak on YOU and walk away from you as though you were not even there. I have never experienced it but I feel for you ladies. Ten years later, you still actually care about the guy and he never gave you a passing thought; you were apart of his "phase". *Hugs* 😿😖
Yvonne Criddle I hope you experience it
Have you ever been in love?
👍🏽💯👍🏽I have, to the point of learning that I realized that I don't need no man to justify my life, so, I said "f*ck that sh*t," and, I just kept it moving. 😂 You live and you learn. Some things just aren't meant to be. 😘
He was so full of himself because back then he was the shit, I can't even front. A lot of times, we are missing things in our lives and we allow ourselves to be taken advantage of and abused by a man just to find that outside source of love. I'm glad she found the strength to move on and the courage to deal with it. Now she is one of the biggest names in R & B...and he and his crackhead brother are on stage drunk and high passing out after one song. Sucks to be K-Ci right now.
Mary was young who was not in love when they were that young to the wrong damn boy? been there. now you see the clown years later and be like WTF was on my mind Lol
3:11 wow..... Being so Heavenly in love, and feeling like you can't breathe eat without that one is so deep, especially when you love him before you love yourself....
Exactly..I've been there before..
Love yourself LADIES ❤❤❤
THATS THE MARY I MYSSS
Thank you K Ci for "My Life". Thank you , thank you, thank you!
I believe Mary. Not because she is my favorite singer because i love Jodeci as well. But when you were in a situation similar to hers then you lean more on her side. He was wrong, no excuses
I always wanted them to end up together
They would have been a power couple at that time, but in all reality, there is really no such thing, especially in "Hollyweird." SMH! 😢
heart ache, pain, break ups and more pain is what makes a hit song a hit
Like Devante said about Chris Brown and Rihanna, they were both young beautiful motherfuckers
So much pain in her voice even when she was speaking here about it years later. I remember seeing both interviews live in the 1990s and my university friend and I are we’re taking about how he just publicly humiliated her. It was just so embarrassing for her but just horrible and unnecessary to disrespect her like that. That’s what happens to these men. Do you think if it wasn’t for Jodeci and the fame she would even have spat on him?! Man could sing the birds out of the trees but he weren’t no oil painting!
The host embarrassed her more
@@mccolycoken both are at fault
I was a Freshman in Highschool. A die hard Fan. They talked so Bad about Mary. And I was that MF. That Understood it all. I was 14. I knew then. Mary was suffering. I knew then she was gonna be Ok. She was Honest, Hurt, and Sad.
What a great honest interview. Respect.
They were young
I wanted them together, what a beautiful healthy and talented child they would've made. He just was in a whole nother space and time. He wasnt ready, but now i think he may have regretted saying that. I think now, he wishes he couldve been with her. Or at least made better decisions in regards to his relationship to her.
My Mary had felt so much pain. She’s better off with out him.
I love both Mary Jane and Kci, they both had issues Kci was drinking andMary was on drugs. But she used to show up at the shows and try to fight females in the audience for touching on Kci so they both had issues. But I believe their love will never die!
Man that probably hurt me more than it hurt Mary. I love you Mary!
@1:38 That was a REAL Jerry Springer/Maury moment with the WHOLE REACTION from the audience😄 #Boooooo
Shit k-ci was the fuel to her fire. She wrote some of her best songs behind his ass. Shit, Not gon cry is her #1 song.
She didn’t write that one babyface did but it is fire
At that time Mary had cleaned up her image "a bit" so although we can clearly see that see might have wanted to go off, she restrained herself. But you can tell she was pissed.
I felt that the woman over in the UK was, in her own way, trying to give Mary a heads-up on K-Ci
That was deep and sad. I hurted for her and I remember that day.
Kci dogged her but celebrities back then always denied being in relationships. They were groomed by the record labels to say they’re single. Maybe that’s why he did that.
hmm...they should come out with a movie...The Mary n KCI story...
OK! DO IT FOR REAL THOUGH 🥰
Mary delt with enough hurt and pain in her life she didn't need that A**Clown.But God Bless You My Sista
She speaking some real shit. Definitely can relate
The good thing now is that both of them agrees that they were quite young with fame and money. He also admitted recently that he did so some bad stuff to her..they've both moved on and none of them bad mouthed each other over the years besides agreeing the relationship was toxic. But Mary came out on top as she end of having longer lasting and prolific career which is still going strong today!! Back then he probably thought she was lucky to have him, now the tables has turned!!