Fight Between a Couple in The Salon | Say Yes To The Dress Bridesmaids

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  • čas přidán 29. 12. 2019
  • Heather Dunn brings her Combat Medic Fiancee Jason Martinez with her to pick her Bridesmaids dresses. She envisioned a long blue, flowy dress that doesn't make them look too sexy. However, Jason has a different idea of what it should look like. He believes he should get to choose the dress as well.
    Jenna Monk has envisioned a vintage country wedding and wants a blue lace dress that will go with the bridesmaids cowboy boots. The only problem is that lace comes with a higher price, will the bridesmaids be able to afford to make Jenna's expensive vision a reality?
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  • @tomaaalmbark41
    @tomaaalmbark41 Před 4 lety +9519

    He doesn’t complete her sentences he tells her what her sentences are lmao

    • @hightunnel2723
      @hightunnel2723 Před 4 lety +100

      tomaa al mbark this comment is underrated. It literally made me lol

    • @tinanjalidutta9514
      @tinanjalidutta9514 Před 4 lety +150

      He literally tells her how to talk what to talk what to wear.. basically this girl has no opinion of her own and relies om other people

    • @yn8355
      @yn8355 Před 4 lety +22

      @@tinanjalidutta9514 omfg that's how I am noo I better not end up like her

    • @marvibaloch4182
      @marvibaloch4182 Před 4 lety +6

      ouch! lol

    • @rihab6528
      @rihab6528 Před 4 lety +7

      I WAS JUST GOING TO COMMENT THAT

  • @danieladasilvanogueira4297
    @danieladasilvanogueira4297 Před 4 lety +5412

    Girl, if he chose your outfit... I'm not sure about the fashionista thing.

    • @paturnellahazell532
      @paturnellahazell532 Před 4 lety +21

      Hahaha

    • @21pjae
      @21pjae Před 4 lety +16

      hillary comment, will certainly hit that like button

    • @sophiecaceres6957
      @sophiecaceres6957 Před 4 lety +125

      Daniela da Silva Nogueira he kinda seems abusive, maybe not on camera. But she stated that he scares her, and he said “I can play game”

    • @penelopeyanez6419
      @penelopeyanez6419 Před 4 lety +5

      Daniela da Silva Nogueira went to the comments to write this but it was already top 😂😂❤️

    • @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama
      @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama Před 4 lety +39

      More of a manipulation thing

  • @4pensword4
    @4pensword4 Před 3 lety +1655

    In addition to his abusive shit...the fact that he expects to have a say in the bridesmaids' dresses but threatens her with groomsmen's outfits that she'll have no say in...RUN. RUN FAR AWAY SO HE CAN'T FIND YOU. GET A RESTRAINING ORDER IF YOU HAVE TO.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Před 3 lety +16

      Not like that going to save you...let her brother have the "Come to Jesus talk with him." There's your best bet.

    • @randomuser17511
      @randomuser17511 Před 2 lety +18

      Run away from that Shrek ASAP!

    • @carol.stoeser
      @carol.stoeser Před rokem +14

      Right! She is looking at years of crap from him. I agree - RUN!!!

    • @Davissheana
      @Davissheana Před 6 měsíci +4

      If he's this comfortable verbally beating her down in public over dresses others wear is crazy he picks her clothes out too.... what is going to happen behind closes doors when she talks back or stands up to him? I'm betting one day he will hit her.

    • @michcamaro71
      @michcamaro71 Před 4 dny +1

      Run far, far away. AND let your brother talk to him too, if necessary.

  • @findparadise
    @findparadise Před 3 lety +967

    "I know the game. I can play ball." Yeah alright dude. Red flag CENTRAAAAAL.

    • @micheletorimaru9348
      @micheletorimaru9348 Před 3 lety +47

      I don't see this Marriage lasting. The Groom seems not a Nice Person. Very Opinionated. Not. In a good way.

    • @evydanemayer7026
      @evydanemayer7026 Před 2 lety +3

      I don’t see this relationship lasting very long😂

    • @BlackBeauty2023
      @BlackBeauty2023 Před 2 lety +3

      I literally read your comment as the scene was playing out 😂

    • @adrianstoddard1286
      @adrianstoddard1286 Před 2 lety +7

      What kind of man goes to pick out bridesmaid or wedding dresses? A controlling one. Then the bride says he's vindictive. Bad combination honey.

    • @katierowbury5233
      @katierowbury5233 Před 2 lety +4

      Yep, I caught that too. He feels challenged and is baiting her into a conflict, but the only confrontation is in his mind. Everyone else is walking on eggshells around him trying not to escalate the situation.
      He also indicated he'd retaliate by picking ugly tuxedos if she didn't choose the dresses he wanted. In the end he acts like she got her way, but I think he's storing it away to use against her later.

  • @IsoldeHallArt
    @IsoldeHallArt Před 4 lety +6735

    The fact that he’s saying he wants all of his fiancés friends to look more exposed is so creepy.

    • @raenfairy
      @raenfairy Před 4 lety +457

      I thought the same thing.. seems perverted to me 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @MsK_in_CA
      @MsK_in_CA Před 4 lety +251

      I was thinking the same thing. Girl, RUN!

    • @teetee3932
      @teetee3932 Před 4 lety +239

      I was thinking the same, he should be worried about his future wife to look more beautiful than her friends do 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @Eva-uf6ui
      @Eva-uf6ui Před 4 lety +90

      omg yeah, I wish the bride caught onto that

    • @xxoxEVAxoxx
      @xxoxEVAxoxx Před 4 lety +20

      Eva Wow I love your name.

  • @carolynhbell
    @carolynhbell Před 4 lety +6067

    Did she really just use the words “spiteful” and “despise” about the man she is going to marry??? Oh dear.....

    • @suzannechapman4302
      @suzannechapman4302 Před 4 lety +150

      Is she serious!!! Then ends with saying " The Weddings still on." Yea, l bet it is girl. WOWwww

    • @nikolelinares
      @nikolelinares Před 4 lety +33

      I LITERALLY just commented this same exact thing!!

    • @emilansi893
      @emilansi893 Před 4 lety +70

      He deserved worse.i felt so bad for her

    • @marycarla6245
      @marycarla6245 Před 4 lety +28

      I was thinking the same thing! That doesn't bode well unless he changes.

    • @amyj4071
      @amyj4071 Před 4 lety +30

      @@marycarla6245 He won't.

  • @riohenry6382
    @riohenry6382 Před 3 lety +620

    After 25 years of marriage I can assure you if she says “he’s spiteful” in the honeymoon phase, this is a starter marriage. Don’t spend too much money

    • @KingsDaughter1957
      @KingsDaughter1957 Před 3 lety +35

      But will she come out alive??? He's a brute and a bully.

    • @imanievelyn4645
      @imanievelyn4645 Před 3 lety +9

      @@KingsDaughter1957 I hope she does but I doubt it

    • @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
      @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps Před 2 lety +6

      @@KingsDaughter1957 yes but she’ll be 10x more of a doormat.

  • @annieroydube
    @annieroydube Před 3 lety +904

    “Are you gonna try to pick an ugly dress here so that you look that much better? I know the game.”
    Oh hell no. Goodbye.

    • @joycepino9749
      @joycepino9749 Před 2 lety +7

      She did pick an ugly bridesmaid dress. The other two were much better than the red one.

    • @Janae2000
      @Janae2000 Před 2 lety +37

      @@joycepino9749 I disagree I think the one she chose was the prettiest. You see it’s all subjective. Does not make the groom right and I hope you’re not excusing such nasty behavior.

    • @acidicjizz
      @acidicjizz Před 2 lety +10

      🚩

    • @indraniC.
      @indraniC. Před 2 lety +7

      Ok that would exactly be the time I would cancel the wedding !

    • @katherineleonowski7289
      @katherineleonowski7289 Před rokem +10

      How could she hear this creepy fiancée say all these negative nasty statements and still want to marry him? It's hard to even LIKE him besides LOVING him....if she did marry him I wonder if she regretted it!!!

  • @AngryBudgieNoises
    @AngryBudgieNoises Před 4 lety +1645

    That husband is a RED FLAG all in one whole human.

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 Před 4 lety +25

      The fact hes in the military is a red flag by itself. I remember being engaged to one, thank god it ended, at the time i met a lady who was tortured by her military husband and had ran away... She warned me so much, but i didnt take things serious until i saw the signs

    • @kayhaven4710
      @kayhaven4710 Před 4 lety +8

      NerualYam like a flag so big it could be China! To quote Superwoman.

    • @dazovadeonulu9737
      @dazovadeonulu9737 Před 4 lety +1

      You make my day😂😂😂😂

  • @auptag4846
    @auptag4846 Před 4 lety +2111

    Honey, he is a malignant narcissist. He won’t change. A man who loves you would not behave or talk to you like he does. Run as fast as you can.

    • @butterflygirl2285
      @butterflygirl2285 Před 3 lety +13

      I wonder if they will divorce?

    • @Positivevibes6238
      @Positivevibes6238 Před 3 lety +21

      You're right he is....narcs never accept defeat.

    • @fjp9
      @fjp9 Před 3 lety +18

      @@butterflygirl2285 he is controlling. it is possible she may want to leave but does not stand up for herself or her opinions. hopefully, she will find herself and her voice one day. i hope she has or will get a better support system around her.

    • @Peaze2you
      @Peaze2you Před 3 lety +7

      sooo true, amen to that. he is full of...……….omg, she must be blind. I would not even ask him to come with me...

    • @KingsDaughter1957
      @KingsDaughter1957 Před 3 lety +16

      @@Peaze2you I doubt she DID "ask" him - he probably insisted on being there. Run, girl, run!

  • @ellataylor4267
    @ellataylor4267 Před 3 lety +428

    If this is how he behaves in front of her family and friends, not to mention millions of tv viewers God help her when they shut the door at night and its just the two of them.

    • @ruthmuran1244
      @ruthmuran1244 Před 3 lety +12

      Absolutely true. there's a saying for people like him.Street angel home devil.although on this show he's forgetting his angel face.Maybe that's because he's trying to dominate all women there.

    • @cami5431
      @cami5431 Před 2 lety +1

      its syttd everything is scripted

    • @naturefleur2062
      @naturefleur2062 Před rokem +1

      Can’t script that much dysfunction.

  • @savannahvick5266
    @savannahvick5266 Před 3 lety +520

    Being spiteful isn’t a quirk it is a big ole 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @Trash6661
    @Trash6661 Před 4 lety +1408

    “I like the white one”
    YOU DONT WEAR A WHITE DRESS TO A WEDDING THATS THE BRIDES JOB

    • @Rosienoonday
      @Rosienoonday Před 3 lety +15

      Yes exactly

    • @user-fv9cp3tk7y
      @user-fv9cp3tk7y Před 3 lety +4

      Why not? In my country half of the guests would wear white to the wedding, and nothing is wrong with it

    • @marylynnneill1958
      @marylynnneill1958 Před 3 lety +5

      He’s bossy & not informed....says he’s a loudmouth.

    • @RaquelPereira-fj4kt
      @RaquelPereira-fj4kt Před 3 lety +62

      @@user-fv9cp3tk7y in my country we don't wear white to wedding. It's very rude.

    • @fairladykd6734
      @fairladykd6734 Před 3 lety +22

      @@user-fv9cp3tk7y I bet in your country the bride doesn't wear white though.

  • @NicolaA-kj8hl
    @NicolaA-kj8hl Před 4 lety +2847

    They will be divorced in no time...he's a bully.

    • @olivegrove2615
      @olivegrove2615 Před 4 lety +27

      Nothing compares and a bullshit artist

    • @Catg1222
      @Catg1222 Před 4 lety +54

      It would have been over before there was ever an engagement.

    • @elsandstorm8997
      @elsandstorm8997 Před 4 lety +11

      Don't say that, she's manipulated.

    • @camilaflores7424
      @camilaflores7424 Před 4 lety +65

      Have to say, he is a soldier, I am not surprised :/

    • @aurorarowley7310
      @aurorarowley7310 Před 4 lety +56

      @@camilaflores7424 not every soldier is like that. You can't just group soldiers that way. If that's the experience you've had with all the soldiers you've met than I'm sorry and hope you meet many of the others that aren't the same as this guy was.

  • @izziediaz4257
    @izziediaz4257 Před 3 lety +742

    Oh my GOD my jaw dropped when he asked her if she’s trying to pick ugly dresses

    • @alisonfraser3305
      @alisonfraser3305 Před 2 lety +14

      Is he banging one if the bridesmaids? Or just hoping to? Why does he want them looking sexy at his wedding???

    • @hadarfischler8507
      @hadarfischler8507 Před 2 lety +24

      @@alisonfraser3305 this is so weird if i was the bride i would be so humiliated to hear my future husband say that about my friends..

    • @joywebster2678
      @joywebster2678 Před 2 lety +8

      @@alisonfraser3305 he can't stand sharing the spotlight with the bride so he wants to diminish it by diverting people's eyes to the bridesmaids.

  • @barbarat5729
    @barbarat5729 Před 3 lety +179

    "I know the game. I can play." This guy is a psycho. I feel bad for the bride's mother. As a mom I know she is HURTING through all of this knowing her daughter is in trouble deep.

  • @marghe_b
    @marghe_b Před 4 lety +2171

    I understand the groom wanting to have a say in his wedding, I really do, but the way he was acting was horrible... Manipulative and just downright mean. I feel like there are some unresolved issues the couple should be working on before getting married

    • @danieladasilvanogueira4297
      @danieladasilvanogueira4297 Před 4 lety +75

      I was thinking the exact same thing. When he said something about picking the ugliest tuxedos he could find I was like: ...

    • @noelsmaison685
      @noelsmaison685 Před 4 lety +32

      Margherita Bonatelli yeah even I felt that he was being very disrespectful

    • @marghe_b
      @marghe_b Před 4 lety +62

      @@danieladasilvanogueira4297 Yeah and also when she picked a dress she liked and he said "are you trying to make the bridesmaids look ugly?"... like why would you want to picture her that way

    • @xxitzanime_dweebxx9810
      @xxitzanime_dweebxx9810 Před 4 lety +26

      Oh definitely they need to get somethings sorted and he is just a down right bully and he has nasty personality. He needs to keep his mouth shut sometimes because it’s just not needed sometimes but he did loosen up at the end which is quite nice since he kept his mouth shut and just gave up a bit

    • @user-qx2kb9jl4y
      @user-qx2kb9jl4y Před 4 lety +20

      Armie Benjamin yes but this is downright mean. Never insult your significant others style. The woman seems let down. If u disagree, do it playfully insulting or nicely. She even say it herself that she despises it when he’s spiteful.

  • @ed4all33
    @ed4all33 Před 4 lety +2614

    She says he’s spiteful. Girl , u see it , then why are u still hanging around. Wake up now .

    • @dreamsofturtles1828
      @dreamsofturtles1828 Před 4 lety +60

      The spitefulness... yeah, thats going to be a real problem.

    • @OhSoCarmen
      @OhSoCarmen Před 4 lety +56

      Exactly! You're marrying someone with a trait you despise???

    • @kuntarinirahsilawati920
      @kuntarinirahsilawati920 Před 4 lety +23

      Look at her mother expression in the whole video...

    • @thats_a_human_person1478
      @thats_a_human_person1478 Před 4 lety +12

      Mabye he has something on her, or manages to make her feel powerless to leave.

    • @chey6073
      @chey6073 Před 4 lety +11

      Animatic lover My mom says that some girls have low self confidence and are fearful that if they leave, they won’t find someone better. They think the first guy that comes around will be the last guy that’s ever interested in them.

  • @rubyaskin3311
    @rubyaskin3311 Před 3 lety +139

    “the most spiteful person you will ever meet” isn’t a good sign of how ur describing ur future husband

  • @calico_queen8976
    @calico_queen8976 Před 3 lety +102

    "Are you trying to pick an ugly dress here just to make yourself look that much better?"
    Oh the gaslighting begin...Or has already begun. That was by far one of the most effed up lines I've heard in the show....

  • @jessimckenna2904
    @jessimckenna2904 Před 3 lety +1405

    "...something is gonna to break here, and I hope it's not their relationship."
    No, I hope it's the relationship.

    • @plumsmom8043
      @plumsmom8043 Před 2 lety +25

      Yes, before the have to soend more money on divorce attorneys than they dud on the wedding.

    • @belenalee5986
      @belenalee5986 Před 2 lety +6

      👏 YES👏

    • @prongssupremacy
      @prongssupremacy Před 2 lety +8

      thats exactly what i said

    • @joelimerick3360
      @joelimerick3360 Před 2 lety

      I hope that she RUNS, as fast as she can!! That guy is, or will be an abusive man.

    • @leen34568
      @leen34568 Před 2 lety +2

      I was searching for this comment istg

  • @rebelrose1385
    @rebelrose1385 Před 4 lety +3574

    *"I love Jason, but he is one of the most spiteful people I have ever met."*
    *GIRRL.....RUN AND RUN FAST!*

    • @momma8954
      @momma8954 Před 4 lety +41

      Such a jerkkkkk

    • @suzannahseidel6031
      @suzannahseidel6031 Před 4 lety +38

      That is literally me screaming! 😅

    • @yolandabyers-goodwin2349
      @yolandabyers-goodwin2349 Před 3 lety +67

      Girl, yes! Run, run as fast as you can. Don't stop to collect $200. He's a control freak.

    • @marylynnneill1958
      @marylynnneill1958 Před 3 lety +23

      Not a great future!

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 Před 3 lety +73

      He's spiteful, controlling and gaslighting her in JUST this short time - can you imagine what he's like when they're alone? Like you said.....RUN!!

  • @BillyAlabama
    @BillyAlabama Před 3 lety +60

    I hope the bride watched this and returned the ring.

    • @freyamccauley
      @freyamccauley Před 2 lety +2

      Amen and Amen. How can they call this love? The bride has no self respect or he earns alot of money...either way, no excuse.

  • @juliezork7425
    @juliezork7425 Před 3 lety +19

    As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I can sadly say that this is the exact thing that keeps me busier than I want to be! Young bride, save yourself years of agony, anxiety, abuse, anger, and illness dealing with his bullish narcissism and leave now.

  • @flowerpower3618
    @flowerpower3618 Před 4 lety +1464

    60 seconds in and I can’t understand why she is going to marry that guy. He will be abusive if not already.

    • @Talletc
      @Talletc Před 3 lety +36

      She thinks she is fat, ugly and/or unlovable. The reason all women pick bad men

    • @fjp9
      @fjp9 Před 3 lety +19

      sadly i think on similar lines either verbally/mentally abusive and/or physically abusive.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Před 3 lety +13

      @@Talletc No...They're scam artists first. Not like he's going to haul off and clock her one on their 1st date.

    • @glorialazarin6945
      @glorialazarin6945 Před 2 lety +26

      My ex was very nice before we got married and after we got married he changed drastically. He told me that if he would have showed me who he truly was, I would have never married him. He told me that he wanted to make sure I married him and he always gets what he wants. How this guy is acting are red flags of how my ex was. Please run now before you spend thousands of dollars on a divorce since these type of guys are the worst during a divorce. I know since I went through that. Prayers for this couple.

    • @CaptainsMorning
      @CaptainsMorning Před 2 lety +9

      @@glorialazarin6945 same, it's like once you sign the paper they suddenly show their true selves. Happily divorced and not looking to ever marry again!

  • @lolareh8756
    @lolareh8756 Před 4 lety +753

    I'd rather be single than marry that big bully. What is that girl thinking? Her married life will be miserable and she will be a doormat.

    • @pamreffner1003
      @pamreffner1003 Před 4 lety +17

      She already has conceded into being a doormat.

    • @amazinggrace5692
      @amazinggrace5692 Před 4 lety +13

      He’s gonna use her up, retire her brain, then physically assault her til she’s nothing, then dump her all the while telling her it’s her fault. Her friends and mother should not allow this to happen.

    • @canyounot313
      @canyounot313 Před 4 lety +9

      Cathi Shaner she’s a grown woman, what can they do about it? If she doesn’t want to let go then that’s her problem, sometimes you have to learn the hard way...

  • @janicemillican9754
    @janicemillican9754 Před 3 lety +177

    She has NO business marring that man!
    He has shown his true colors.

  • @kellydesilva6733
    @kellydesilva6733 Před 2 lety +41

    As a mom I would work hard to keep that marriage from happening. I totally saw how much she dislikes him and his behavior. It was obvious. He is every parents nightmare.

    • @fj5028
      @fj5028 Před 6 měsíci

      I was wondering how her parents are letting this happen to their daughter

  • @mereshupe
    @mereshupe Před 4 lety +828

    “He’s very spiteful, and I despise it.” Then why in the heck are you marrying him?!?!?!? 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @latrolettteeeeeee
      @latrolettteeeeeee Před 3 lety +12

      She's afraid of becoming a spinster.

    • @mimitaylorswiftfan4084
      @mimitaylorswiftfan4084 Před 3 lety +30

      because that's he amount of control and manipulation he has on her

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Před 3 lety +18

      @@latrolettteeeeeee I'm old as hell.
      You know what, I got rid of one of these.
      Best choice I EVER made. Lol.

    • @kitty62862
      @kitty62862 Před 2 lety +5

      Because even today they’re petrified of being “left on the shelf”.

  • @katielazarus2292
    @katielazarus2292 Před 4 lety +1178

    "He picked out my outfit"
    Oh baby, no.

    • @Jas13579
      @Jas13579 Před 3 lety +33

      She's a beautiful girl but the outfit can permanently leave :/

    • @susandemetry7158
      @susandemetry7158 Před 3 lety +20

      Ooooo, that's not good. She's in for a world of hurt.

    • @francesfehrman741
      @francesfehrman741 Před 3 lety +20

      He's going to control you forever if you marry him. Tells you what you can wear or not wear,!

    • @lisaburrows1253
      @lisaburrows1253 Před 2 lety +4

      I literally said oh no when she said that

    • @maryloulou9705
      @maryloulou9705 Před 2 lety +4

      Run, honey, run!

  • @janabisschoff2298
    @janabisschoff2298 Před 3 lety +105

    "He actually picked out the outfit I'm wearing today"
    **wears giant red flag**
    No, no, no, no, RUN!

  • @findparadise
    @findparadise Před 3 lety +46

    The power dynamics are alllll off in that relationship. She's so passive and he's so dominating.

  • @fluorescentbubbles6498
    @fluorescentbubbles6498 Před 4 lety +1135

    Why does he want the bridesmaids to be “sexy”? CREEP.

  • @ehla0144
    @ehla0144 Před 4 lety +1025

    "So you want those dresses so you look much better??" WOW!, that coming from your fiancee?? Giirl, run away as fast as you can. That is more than offensive.

    • @mclauren1844
      @mclauren1844 Před 4 lety +1

      It was true though... He just called her out

    • @scarletluck
      @scarletluck Před 4 lety +40

      @@mclauren1844 there is a reason bridesmaids wear all uniform attire and more modest then the bride. So the BRIDE can be the focus of the wedding duh! i wouldnt want my bridesmaid dressed slaughty like going to a club and i am not insecure by any means! there is a place for everything.

    • @freshfrenchtoast
      @freshfrenchtoast Před 4 lety +18

      @L Mcmoney the blue dress she picked wasn't even that bad. imo it was the nicest for that round so idk why he's accusing her of making her bridesmaids ugly

    • @komarbat23
      @komarbat23 Před 4 lety +17

      I wasn’t ok with this sentence. Dude you shouldn’t even be worrying about bridesmaids dresses. You’re marrying the bride. Can’t believe no one said anything when he said that.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle Před 4 lety +14

      @@freshfrenchtoast And the 2 dresses in the 1st round that HE picked out were ugly!

  • @sherryb6351
    @sherryb6351 Před 3 lety +42

    You can see that he truly enjoys making her uneasy. Yep, a real catch there. RUN.

  • @telamere2043
    @telamere2043 Před 3 lety +55

    He picked out her outfit? Hes so controlling he's going to be violent if she starts to stand up to him.

  • @susanhighfield3370
    @susanhighfield3370 Před 4 lety +355

    Wouldn't marry that guy if he was the last man on earth, you deserve better girl.

  • @nayahri
    @nayahri Před 4 lety +1466

    BRIDE: He actually picked out the outfit I'm wearing today....
    ME: Oh baby, you're in so much trouble....

    • @sinlobo84
      @sinlobo84 Před 4 lety +85

      He's a walking red flag on fire

    • @MidnightSonnet
      @MidnightSonnet Před 3 lety +30

      My reaction exactly. I'm like, "Oh, honey, nooooo..."

    • @thary573
      @thary573 Před 3 lety +6

      Yessss

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 Před 3 lety +33

      Yeah, my ex used to do that - by the time I managed to break up with him (luckily we were only engaged) I was wearing what he told me to, saying what he told me to say, even THINKING what he told me to think.....she's in murky, dangerous waters. My ex was slight and slim like I was (at that time) and he could still damage me - can you imagine what this guy will do to her?

    • @patotte4081
      @patotte4081 Před 3 lety +8

      Run Forrest run

  • @allicianpeters3595
    @allicianpeters3595 Před rokem +21

    Oh wow... she doesn't even know how abusive he is to her. Please girl... do not marry him, you'll be a shadow of yourself by the time he gets done with you!!

  • @lilyl9257
    @lilyl9257 Před 3 lety +19

    “i can play ball” sir you can BE the ball

  • @margaretkennedy7172
    @margaretkennedy7172 Před 4 lety +1401

    I guess we will see them in the divorce courts real soon. What a manipulator.

    • @cassandrasmith26
      @cassandrasmith26 Před 4 lety +38

      That's my fear too. That man is so obnoxious and thinks no end of himself. Such a ....🤬

    • @slantos2668
      @slantos2668 Před 4 lety +24

      That's the happiest ending I could see to this bullshti.

    • @captaincmoore
      @captaincmoore Před 4 lety +15

      I think they already are divorced, or at least separated. This episode aired in 2013. www.imdb.com/title/tt3057290/?ref_=nm_flmg_act_1
      If they're still together, then, wow. Godspeed to them.

    • @andrewkirkland8888
      @andrewkirkland8888 Před 4 lety +9

      My mom and 2 sisters (both are in their 20's and have gotten divorced) always tell me to wait until I'm pretty close to 30 to get married, since people mature/change and then in t kight not last

    • @suepost9026
      @suepost9026 Před 4 lety +23

      He's a control freak, and just spiteful and mean. If he doesn't change, this marriage is doomed, or maybe she's the type to take it, and be misserable for years. People treat you the way you let them treat you

  • @SmileyFace123Lolz
    @SmileyFace123Lolz Před 4 lety +546

    His spite ain't a "quirk," honey. 😕

  • @pennyhaldeman5626
    @pennyhaldeman5626 Před 3 lety +22

    He's not a fashionista, he's a control freak, he's already being abusive, run girl, run.

  • @kaylamommsen2175
    @kaylamommsen2175 Před 3 lety +65

    I like how he wants to take charge of some aspects of their wedding but he’s taking charge of the wrong things.... they’re her bridesmaids. He can take charge of the groomsmen

  • @Catg1222
    @Catg1222 Před 4 lety +460

    He is picking out her clothes, he is way too controlling.

  • @veliagarcia5827
    @veliagarcia5827 Před 4 lety +717

    Don’t marry him I’m telling you I am 70 years old don’t don’t marry him

    • @violetvallance2062
      @violetvallance2062 Před 4 lety +73

      I am a similar age as you and that man is trouble with a capital T.

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 Před 3 lety +46

      I'm 55 and think the same. He's all kinds of nope. There's a field of red flags against that guy.

    • @madisonmcvey
      @madisonmcvey Před 3 lety +38

      Y’all I’m 19 and I feel the same!!!! RUN!

    • @a.y.8591
      @a.y.8591 Před 3 lety +32

      I'm 25 and I agree with you ladies. I wonder if they're still married.

    • @lucky._starzz_
      @lucky._starzz_ Před 3 lety +38

      I’m 14 and even I agree lol

  • @chrisanthi6021
    @chrisanthi6021 Před 2 lety +11

    The look on his face when she chose her pick for the bridesmaids' dresses. Ooooh boy, you know he's gonna "make her pay" later. I sure hope she got far away from him and fast.

  • @naturefleur2062
    @naturefleur2062 Před rokem +10

    When her mother said, “really? He’s doing THAT here?!” 🚩 So she seen him do this in less public places? He has no shame. No restraint-this is a BAD sign. I hope she’s safe now.

  • @paganwiccacat
    @paganwiccacat Před 4 lety +1164

    He is the first "groomzilla" I've seen on these shows.... 👎👎👎👎👎

    • @UndeadRamen
      @UndeadRamen Před 4 lety +26

      You missed the clearly gay guy who went on to 'help' his bride, and ended up demanding (the couple called it 'him putting her thoughts into words' even though she said NOTHING hinting at what he was saying) they cut the train off her beautiful dress. The seamstress was so upset she pulled out the scissors and hacked it off right there in front of them. He smiled, and she looked like she wanted to cry. So the spotlight in photos would be HIM, and not the pretty, dramatic bride's gown. She pretended she wanted to go with it, but was clearly miserable :(

    • @blah7983
      @blah7983 Před 4 lety +2

      Undead Ramen you wanna give me a link?

    • @UndeadRamen
      @UndeadRamen Před 4 lety +3

      @@blah7983 I can look it up in a while, I can't really remember what the title of that video was called, it's been a year i think since i saw it, but omfg it was a hot mess!

    • @UndeadRamen
      @UndeadRamen Před 4 lety +7

      @@blah7983 FOUND IT! czcams.com/video/aOyhNUv9hkU/video.html

    • @jyotitripathi1713
      @jyotitripathi1713 Před 4 lety

      Undead Rame

  • @prachigg8917
    @prachigg8917 Před 4 lety +490

    Someone gift them a couples counseling coupon for their wedding

    • @hannahpowell5745
      @hannahpowell5745 Před 4 lety +2

      But he's the problem

    • @suzannahseidel6031
      @suzannahseidel6031 Před 4 lety +6

      Maybe the counsellor can let her know that before they have kids and its a real mess?

    • @idklols12345
      @idklols12345 Před 4 lety

      Is it just me or did this comment just get you 😂

  • @sydneyps
    @sydneyps Před 2 lety +5

    The first impression I have of the bride is that she looks like a terrified librarian

  • @sewitaliano7423
    @sewitaliano7423 Před 3 lety +26

    I truly worry for her safety.. that personality- "spiteful" often leads to DV. I hope she doesn't marry this tool.

  • @capstar633
    @capstar633 Před 4 lety +334

    Really bizarre. He is a controlling narcissistic, insecure bully. Definitely NOT husband material!! Sad...

  • @chelseadennis7851
    @chelseadennis7851 Před 4 lety +338

    If he's like this in the presence of friends and family and on television, its only going to get worse when you are alone in marriage.

  • @malakash7366
    @malakash7366 Před 3 lety +17

    "Are you trying to pick an ugly dress here so you look that much better?"
    Wtf why are u marring him..

  • @breegebenson3547
    @breegebenson3547 Před 2 lety +5

    "He chose the outfit I'm wearing today"girl you need to run🏃

  • @rebornsnuzzles2573
    @rebornsnuzzles2573 Před 4 lety +647

    "Jason is very spiteful."
    THEN WHY ARE YOU MARRYING HIM?

    • @karinmorrison923
      @karinmorrison923 Před 3 lety +10

      I'm also in my 70's and I agree with all of the comments....he's narcissistic.....he won't change....DO NOT MARRY HIM!!!!

  • @olivezanakis2606
    @olivezanakis2606 Před 4 lety +275

    He was behaving like a spoiled little boy instead of a man.

  • @jennifernielsen599
    @jennifernielsen599 Před 3 lety +6

    Being the child of parents with this type of toxic dynamic was completely horrific. I pray they don’t have children and she gets away from him.

  • @rachelknight3433
    @rachelknight3433 Před 3 lety +8

    I would get annoyed when I asked my fiancé’s opinion on a certain aspect of our wedding and he would say that he didnt have one and i can do what i want.... now i see how blessed i actually am😂👌🏻

  • @gabsiguess1070
    @gabsiguess1070 Před 4 lety +835

    If I got a dollar for every time that guy said “it’s my wedding too.” I would own Jeffree Star’s new house. 😒

    • @ndisfoshiz
      @ndisfoshiz Před 4 lety +25

      Hopefully you’re not as terrible of a person as jeffree star.

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 Před 4 lety +21

      But it is his wedding too. He is probably paying for half of it too

    • @gabsiguess1070
      @gabsiguess1070 Před 4 lety +6

      The Eggman dude I don’t even remember commenting this lmao, you right through.

    • @gabsiguess1070
      @gabsiguess1070 Před 4 lety +4

      ndisfoshiz oh Jesus god NO! I wrote this comment when he was still with Nate. I didn’t know about any of the other stuff until now. He was just some makeup guy I liked now it’s like 😳 ummm ur cancelled

    • @gravyz2cute4u
      @gravyz2cute4u Před 4 lety +20

      @@yemyearmii7231 I agree, it's his wedding too so he can have a say on the bridesmaids dresses. I hope she also has a say on the groomsmen tuxedos, otherwise that wouldn't be fair.

  • @kaitlynnrose9294
    @kaitlynnrose9294 Před 3 lety +260

    Notice how she got quieter and quieter and at the end she had to make sure all of her bridesmaids agreed with her so the groom couldn’t attack her over her opinion?

  • @bigbulk688
    @bigbulk688 Před 3 lety +30

    No need to scroll down, yes the consensus is the groom is a creep, and that the bride should elope. With someone else, of course.

  • @zsuzsannaszucs4473
    @zsuzsannaszucs4473 Před 3 lety +21

    If he is the most spiteful person, what do you love about him? Also, the way he looks at her does not speak love... RUUUUUNNN

  • @beatnikmary
    @beatnikmary Před 4 lety +448

    Normally a couple this ill-matched would make me think it'll end in divorce. But this groom is such a piece of work, I'd be more worried it would end in a Dateline episode! I can picture them fighting because he's mentally abusive and cheating on her (the creepiness of his fixation on picking out sexy dresses for the bridesmaids definitely sounds like a cheater waiting to happen), and then one of them ends up dead. RUN, GIRL!!

    • @cb3514
      @cb3514 Před 3 lety +20

      I fear she's the textbook example of the victim we hear about where it's wrong to ask "why didn't she just leave?". It is very possible this relationship was already beyond that point even before the wedding, and that makes me so sad 😥. I pray, however, everything I just typed is wrong .

    • @kenya1067
      @kenya1067 Před 3 lety +13

      I hope so hard that isn't the case but it truly looks like a recipe for disaster. So sad. I wish we got updates.

    • @Jas13579
      @Jas13579 Před 3 lety +15

      The man is absolutely horrible. I hope she got out,because him murdering her seems like a very real possibility. Especially because of how patient and nice she seems.

    • @myssixensen7516
      @myssixensen7516 Před 3 lety +9

      He's totally that kind of monster. Its like watching it in slow motion or a weird Dream. The abuse has definitely gone on for awhile & even the mom is kind numb to it. I think your right about the cheating, too. Though, I'm worried he's going to try to groom one of her little cousins & abuse her, too. I really hope this young lady is somewhere safe at this point in time. That we're all wrong about the type of person/ monster he is.

    • @thecatfromoregon
      @thecatfromoregon Před 9 měsíci

      This groom reminds me of the two men from church who molested me when I was growing up in Utah. They threatened my life if I ever reported it.

  • @wartanabadanooh7157
    @wartanabadanooh7157 Před 4 lety +265

    He seems very controlling, and she her self said "He's the most spiteful person you will meet". Friends and family should keep an eye on her😕

  • @sophieburgess9083
    @sophieburgess9083 Před 3 lety +11

    Can we just mention how absolutely gorgeous her wedding dress is, like seriously

  • @heather543
    @heather543 Před rokem +8

    A man who loves you wants what YOU want. Period. Jason is literally bullying Heather. The comment on her "picking a dress to make them look ugly" was so rude. She's going to look better no matter what

    • @CreamIceMs
      @CreamIceMs Před rokem +1

      Right? Oh my God, what a horrible comment. Accusing her of something malicious because he's not getting his way. He will accuse her of all kinds of things.
      Red flags everywhere 🚩🚩🚩

  • @mamac2244
    @mamac2244 Před 4 lety +197

    “It’s my wedding too” honey but you got ur own groomsmen

    • @miekekuppen9275
      @miekekuppen9275 Před 4 lety +22

      Yeah, get them to wear low necklines if that´s what you like.

  • @Sara-vj3md
    @Sara-vj3md Před 4 lety +336

    “There’s too many aspects about a wedding for it to be all about the bride... do you really want them to be that ugly so you look better????”
    RUN SISTER!!! Oh my god, he’s so arrogant about something that isn’t so serious. Imagine them picking out a house, planning for children... ugh. Poor thing, she seems so sweet and so patient.

  • @marylynnneill1958
    @marylynnneill1958 Před 3 lety +12

    Her sweet bridesmaids aren’t saying anything with that guy there!

  • @elizabethnguyen745
    @elizabethnguyen745 Před 2 lety +4

    They say never to marry someone you wouldn’t want to go up against in a divorce. This is a perfect example of that.

  • @ariallelee5917
    @ariallelee5917 Před 4 lety +407

    He is really mean! If she doesn’t have a say on bestmen’s suits, I don’t see why he should have a say on bridesmaids’ dresses! It’s HER wedding too!

  • @zed3063
    @zed3063 Před 4 lety +567

    Why does a groom even care what the bridesmaids wear?

    • @joyce3383
      @joyce3383 Před 4 lety +100

      Cause it's his wedding too and he's not just gonna sit there and sign everything blindly

    • @zed3063
      @zed3063 Před 4 lety +39

      joyce But why would a groom care what the bridesmaids wear? Men don’t normally care or even want to get involved in things like that.

    • @joyce3383
      @joyce3383 Před 4 lety +63

      @@zed3063 I was quoting what the groom said twice in the video lmao

    • @zed3063
      @zed3063 Před 4 lety +7

      joyce Oh hahaha 😂

    • @deescott8312
      @deescott8312 Před 4 lety +3

      Zed exactly

  • @lubbletelescope
    @lubbletelescope Před 3 lety +6

    Nobody in this whole group looks happy at any point and he makes a big scene which everyone is like “oh no here we go again” like girl no

  • @kyaloglow113
    @kyaloglow113 Před 3 lety +15

    He is abusive,manipulative,cunning,annoying and reflecting so much of whatever is within him(totally narcissistic and insecure).And he got an amazing lady,that if she doesn't take care she is in for a long horrible ride.

    • @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
      @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps Před 2 lety +2

      I don’t think she’s amazing, just weak minded and insecure. Hopefully she’ll grow from this when the divorce comes.

    • @ruthj.4845
      @ruthj.4845 Před rokem +2

      Knowing they were filming this episode, I think he probably gave in to save face. I fear what happened after the cameras stopped rolling may not have been pleasant.
      Or perhaps these are all small time actors told to act in a certain way? Who knows?

  • @ladychat3739
    @ladychat3739 Před 4 lety +379

    What a disgusting groom. Gosh.

  • @veronicaamoah6496
    @veronicaamoah6496 Před 4 lety +261

    Bride: I don’t want anything sexy, it’s not my personality
    Bride’s gown: ball gown with see through lace!! 🤔
    I’m sure the groom chose that too 😂

    • @Marina050410
      @Marina050410 Před 3 lety +6

      I just assumed that that was just a shot of the closest princess gown the cameramen saw at the store...

  • @shirleyscott8879
    @shirleyscott8879 Před 3 lety +34

    If only I could meet a spiteful man that I despise. I would marry him 😳

  • @myssixensen7516
    @myssixensen7516 Před 3 lety +4

    If any has a friend who's being emotionally abused, but doesn't realize it yet, or you need to show what gaslighting is PLEASE ,use this video! It is a perfect example of emotional abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, vindictive & spitful interactions. It's horrible, but maybe it could save somebody. I really hope this young lady is somewhere safe.

  • @nicford548
    @nicford548 Před 4 lety +191

    I don’t see a long marriage for them. He’s too controlling and obnoxious. She’ll do better with her second marriage.

    • @susan945
      @susan945 Před 3 lety +11

      What a shame that everyone can see what a huge mistake she's making, but can do nothing about it. I really hope sometime before the wedding she comes to her senses & realizes he's an A-HOLE! If she married him, man is she in for a miserable life!

  • @songsayswhat
    @songsayswhat Před 4 lety +325

    They're trying on the first dresses, and he has already insulted the bride at least three times. She says he's spiteful. You want to spend your life with a jerk like that? Run. Run far, far away and save yourself the cost of a divorce.

    • @ellenharutyunyan9726
      @ellenharutyunyan9726 Před 4 lety +10

      Totally agree👏👏👏👏 Just the worst behavior ever😡😡😡😡😡😤😤

  • @diannam8796
    @diannam8796 Před 3 lety +10

    So many red flags - he’s controlling and not nice to her. Why would she want to marry someone like that?!

  • @bosedohne5209
    @bosedohne5209 Před 3 lety +6

    I don't want to be dramatic but I'm seriously worried for the bride's future and her wellbeing. I hope she has the ability to leave before it's too late

  • @abs63.
    @abs63. Před 4 lety +183

    You should have a marriage counselor on speed dial for future use. He is a bully, manipulative and acts like a two year old if he doesn’t get his way. Good luck with that one!

  • @samanthaloser5785
    @samanthaloser5785 Před 4 lety +494

    Lori: Something is going to break, and I hope it's not their relationship
    Me: I HOPE IT IS!!!!

  • @katherynsmaczniak4300
    @katherynsmaczniak4300 Před 3 lety +7

    "He has a strong personality, If he has an opinion, that's just how it is."
    that's not a personality that's being pig-headed. His eyes scare me, girl, RUN.

  • @deniseoxland151
    @deniseoxland151 Před 2 lety +5

    She needs to get rid of him as quickly as possible, he’s far too controlling. She is setting herself up for a life of misery . Scary

  • @JustAnotHerNoBody8
    @JustAnotHerNoBody8 Před 4 lety +97

    “It’s your choice”... but you can still hear the condensing tone in his voice. He still didn’t approve and you know they didn’t go home happy.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Před 3 lety +3

      You know what guys like this do? They act all nice for two weeks, then start something ON purpose to set off a fight, possibly an assault.
      Lundy Bancroft calls it the garden of resentments

    • @dianedizayee5211
      @dianedizayee5211 Před 2 lety

      He is very condescending.

  • @MizzKittyBichon
    @MizzKittyBichon Před 4 lety +128

    You can so tell that the mom doesn't exactly approve of her daughter's engagement to this control freak - and with good reason. I wouldn't be at all surprised that this couple got a divorce. It actually made me sad when the bride described him as being "spiteful." Well then why the hell are you marrying him???

    • @lissaC.W.
      @lissaC.W. Před 4 lety +10

      IKR, if you are saying word like “spiteful” and despise to describe your future husband and the relationship that is a huge red flag. I don’t think of any of those things when I think of my husband. I usually think, funny, goofy, sometimes a little gross in a typical guy kind of way and handsome. This is just bizarre to me.

    • @nattyc6168
      @nattyc6168 Před 6 měsíci +1

      The bridesmaids looked fairly miserable, as well. No smiles, almost hesitant to say what they liked if it was something he didn't like. Very concerning. I hope the bride is okay today.

  • @clovelly1946
    @clovelly1946 Před 3 lety +4

    What horried rude man,she should think before the day!!YOU ARE MAKING A HUGE MISTAKE MARRYING SUCH A AWFUL MAN.

  • @lubbletelescope
    @lubbletelescope Před 3 lety +6

    Omg so. Many. Red. FLAGS. - picks out your clothes - “learns fashion from his mom” - called him spiteful - I don’t know how you could fit that many red flags in one 8 minute clip

  • @ninas2279
    @ninas2279 Před 4 lety +270

    I feel like everyone is depressed for real lol literally no one is happy, wedding party, bride, mum, the psychopath groom

    • @EH23831
      @EH23831 Před 3 lety +16

      Yep - none of them really smiled. Did you see how uncomfortable/scared even the bridesmaids looked?

    • @KingsDaughter1957
      @KingsDaughter1957 Před 3 lety +10

      They're all thinking, "why can't she see what a mean, control freak she's engaged to??? Who's going to have the guts to tell her???" I hope this relationship ended after this video was made.

    • @jessicaellina3878
      @jessicaellina3878 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes.. like actors from a Greek tradgedy...

    • @jacquelineartis4315
      @jacquelineartis4315 Před 2 lety +1

      They all looked uncomfortable and worried

  • @kdragon713
    @kdragon713 Před 4 lety +348

    You can see Lori really getting frustrated with the groom. He's a nightmare

  • @ashyketchup5003
    @ashyketchup5003 Před 3 lety +4

    He says he wants the bridesmaids dresses that he picks out to be the ones at the wedding, but u can tell he wouldn’t let her have any say in what tuxedos the groomsmen wear.

  • @ruthkent6016
    @ruthkent6016 Před 3 lety +7

    He’s very manipulative. He picks out her clothes!!

  • @tirthyatri
    @tirthyatri Před 4 lety +103

    I like how her friends supported her by finalizing her favourite

  • @linaje3459
    @linaje3459 Před 4 lety +85

    7:33 you could hear the sadness and how defeated she felt in her voice. I know that voice too well from putting up a good face when you aren’t feeling good inside.. I feel so bad for her...

  • @zzabet
    @zzabet Před 3 lety +29

    Yes Run this dude is not only opinionated but rude and pushy! And his vengeful side came out, she even admitted that he is spiteful! That is not a quirk! Run sister Run!

  • @mrenaep
    @mrenaep Před rokem +4

    She didn't seem excited at all at the end. Like she just wanted it to be over with