Who Has More Rights - The Husband or The Parents? || The Muslim Family Q&A || AMAU
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Nice balanced answer Alhmdulillah :) it's the husband, but if the husband was following Islam himself he wouldn't be stopping her helping her parents anyway, he would be encouraging her in that :D
6:10 thats a mighty beard allahumma barik
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the husband obvs women need to wake up out of this feminist ting
Yes I agree lol
I guess, it's the sons in islam that look after the parents. It makes it easier for women to settle and make a home with the husband. And I guess she becomes the support to her husband and takes care of his lineage which is her children. And her parents will be with her brothers and wives. It all makes sense to have this structure. So many sisters are neglected by husbands because they think she can go to her parents. I believe that once a woman is married, she is her husband's responsibility to the full unless she is divorced from him.
Wat if she has no brothers to look after her parents
@@Samifarhath2 from what I know, the daughter has to look after them. And if the man refuses then she can divorce him. But i think this is in extreme cases.
no islamically its the obligation of all the children to look after the parents. For example if a womans mother is widowed and needs someone to provide for her and none of the daughter's siblings are helping the mother, the daughter has to look after her mother, even if that means divorcing her husband, because she cannot go against his right if he forbids the woman from working to provide for her mother, but she still has to look after her mother. This is obs a last resort
Masha Allah what a beautiful lecture.
Masha Allah sheikh may Allah protect you Ameen Amazing Video Thank you so much
barakAllah feekom, amazing
Subhanallah
Ustadh and anyone else that would like to offer some advice. Long story short I’m 17 tryna get married. Financially I pray to Allah swt that I’m ready by next summer. The issue is I don’t know where to find a righteous spouse. My mother’s against the idea of getting married at my age and wants me to wait another 6/7 years so she refusing to help me. I’m Libyan and preferably would like someone of the same ethnicity. Are there any halal means for me here in the uk to find somebody? I want to keep myself chaste and away from all sins and increase my knowledge on Islam.
check mosques in ur town/city but its hard to be financially stable at 17 but u can do it inshaAllah
go to the mosque and as many Muslim events and befriend practising brothers, they will know of people who are also righteous who may be looking for someone for their daughter etc
May Allah make it easier for you
suad - barak allahu feeka brother, I’ll try my best and in the end it’s in the hands of Allah. May Allah make it easy for us all .
@@suad-5232 you can't befriend opposite gender
@@aatif7518 he wasn't suggesting that.
SHE has!!
It’s the husbands parents who manipulate and control the sons mind on how he should discipline his wife.
I know of so many cases where the wife had to do all the chores in advance for the in laws before going anywhere
If the husbands not going to help his parents then she must repay that debt
Cooking cleaning services etc
Causing so many problems within the marriage
Not true in every case. Don't generalize I've met women who do this with their husbands!
This is the saddest thing i've ever seen. Husband over a sick mother subhanallah :(
But it's the truth.
If your mother is poor and wife also needa money wife takes precedence bcz maintainance is her right
Get over it
I felt so damn sad as well. As a woman this is something so hard to obey.
A man has control. So if he doesn’t let his wife take care of her sick mother then she chose a bad husband and should’ve chose a better and more god fearing husband.