Im not stay 100% but i really love what they do and i like this Man. d i have a secret ( when incant sleep iput chans room AND i fall sleeep ) hes voice is everything .
Let me tell you what Channie is : He is a : 1) Best leader 2) Great son 3) great brother 4) great friend 5) great therapist 6) great human being everyone says therapists are really expensive until they meet Channie . We love you Bangchan !! Every living being must have Channie in their lives or it may not be a very good life . I cried through this whole video because Chan is really amazing and he deserves to be loved by the whole world
I once asked my therapist if it was ridiculous that a grown ass woman, aka my old ass, was able to find motivation and comfort in a bunch of 20 to 26 year old kpop idols, and she said the same as Chan in one of his Chan's room, you like what you like and you do what you can to be happy, just enjoy what makes you smile and don't worry to much about what society or other people think. People can have connections to others and never ever meet real life, love an acceptance is an universal language and needing help does not come with an age requirement, a 14 year old student needs as much love and comfort and understanding and motivation as a 40 year old woman or man, we are all humans and we tend to forget that age is just a number but every one regardless of what stage they are in their life have feelings, we all feel sad, scare, happy, lost, hurt, and sometimes we just need to be reminded that its ok to just feel and to never be ashamed for the fact we are human :3. Thank you for coming ot my Tedtalk.
No one might ever read this, but I think this is the one time I feel like sharing my thoughts and problems. My anxiety seems like it's getting worse, and I have trouble getting sleep even when I'm so tired and sleepy. I know that a lot of my worries seem so irrational, but the impact they have are unfortunately gigantic... I'm sure someone out there can relate: when you have a panic attack, it can be so overwhelming that you feel like you're going crazy. I remember crying my heart out the other day because I could not understand why I have to go through this, why I have to stay awake at night being unable to breathe, feeling like I'm dying or losing my mind, and then be expected to function normally the next day and the day after and so on. I can't even tell anyone about my struggles without feeling embarrassed because most of the things I'm worried about might turn out to be nothing, and I hate the idea of being judged by someone I want to be accepted by. Sometimes I wish I had someone to turn to, but I don't really want to bother anyone. I think one of the things that comfort me are Stray Kids...especially Chan's Room, of course. I'm a new Stay (it's been about a month), and when I have trouble sleeping I watch Chan's Room because it just gives a bit of a comfort like I'm not alone. I wish I could get help, but I'd have to tell my parents first, which I'm not sure they'll even agree to. I feel like I'll only cause trouble like that... Maybe it's time for me to start working out and moving around like Chan once suggested, just to help rid of building stress and anxiety 😔 I'm glad that you've posted these videos because they really help, especially at a moment like this where I'm having so much anxiety. Thank you so muchh 😭
Couldn’t have explained me any better buttt I don’t have anyone to turn to well I do but I still don’t idky I feel like it’s embarrassing but I do work out and move a lot but it doesn’t helppp and btw I’m here for you and I promise I won’t judge if u have any apps to text in like TikTok or snap or discord or anything tell me if u really need to talk I’m sorry if I sound weird but Ik what you are going through it’s hard so if you need someone to talk to I promise I’m here 💗
being already aware of your situation and trying to look for solutions for it and taking advices from chan and others on how to keep going and keeping yourself busy is a huge step towards more wonderful and better days,, im sure you'll beat all these demons u have inside ur head and u will walk out of all this stronger. I'm glad this video could give you a little bit of comfort
@@lixieskz2451 thank you for taking the time to reply! And I think you're right... I think if someone else told my story, I would think the same-that I'm making progress by looking for help or finding some solutions instead of staying idle. I'm grateful for videos like this, and videos where there's guided breathing and stuff, because they help me calm down. 😂
It's ok sometimes crying is good. it helps you take out stress. if you dicide to tell you parents then come to me ill help you. Even if i dont know you ill comfort you like family but dont go far like doing self harm cause you don't know what's gonna happen in the future you may get well, get some good news, your anxity may get better so dont forget that there is always some light at the end of the tunnel i am and aalways will me proud of every single thing you did. and don't forget its ok if the only thing you did today was breathe
He's the only person who makes me wanna live in this cruel world. Chan and stray kids make me feel safe and make me feel I'm worth it. Stray kids and Chan deserve the universe❤ Thank you so much Chan and Stray kids 💝 Also thank you for making this beautiful compilation, I feel so better watching this.💝
You're not alone I have anxiety ( nightmares, school social media when I sweat during times I can't sleep or eat) and depression ( family personal business racism school siblings and more )
Actually I had a bad day today I felt hopeless the society is just always judging and school is literally going downhills. I am a going through severe stress but here listening to chan is so comfortin
Hey, hope you're doing a little better? It sucks to have so much stress, doesn't it? I've been dealing, well trying to, with it for quite some time now, so I know how it feels. I hope the situation get's better soon, but even if it takes a while, this will all pass and things will be okay😊 Oh and it's indeed comforting yeah to listen to his words/advice Hug for you, you can do it!💛 Ps: that user is not a piece of trash (don't know if it was a joke or not, but eeh, you are not trash)
We should all make a compilation of Stays saying comforting things to Chan, just a nice video full of things to support him, any advise, saying how important he is, just something for him like he is for us. There's so many of us and one of him, we should be able to do something right ☺️
Lol my dad just came in and said that I'm not doing anything useful and am just watching videos over and over again, only if he knew why i watch this video so many times....
Chan is my safe place, my family, my home, my source of happiness and the reason of my existence. He never fails to make me smile. He is like a comforting therapist not only to me but all of us. Knowing that he loves me and cares makes me feel better❤️❤️🥺🥺We don't deserve this angel🥺❤️❤️❤️
This year I turned 13 and something was not right, some people must be saying that 13 y.o. kids don't know what anxiety is thier just excusing. But as a 13 y.o. kid they pressure us so much that we can not even say what we want, it's just like I stand at the balcony of our apartment which is 3 third floor, and I just wanted to jump from there, I don't know why I can't stop my self I have my mother my father my friends some special people's, I know that their are gonna be Hurt more than me, I didn't know how to stop, but when I started to Stan stray kids and Ateez they become my safe place. I want to thanks them with all my ♥ heart.
I really relate to what your saying about people pressuring us and not letting 13yo’s speak our mind. I turned 13 recently and I’ve been having a tough time too. But let’s get through it together ok? We can do it, and let’s try to find things that make us happy like skz and our friends ok? 💕💕💕
I was really sad when I was 12, I think going to a high school with many kids was overwhelming and losing and meeting new people made me feel extremely lonely. You can feel like this at any age, people need to understand this, especially the older generation. Everything around you might be going so well but there’s these little thoughts and voices in your head making you doubt yourself too. Again when i turned 14 I felt really alone and isolated, literally nothing is going on but it’s just my head messing with me you know! I would cry and listen to music and pray to be happy. Sometimes i would lie my head down in class and cry silently if i’m being honest- but in the end it all gets better I’m better than before and that’s because I let everything go and just went with my gut instead of my head. I have nice friends now, I opened up to some people and tried out new hobbies, and i fell in love with this man and his friends and they are my safe place as they are yours too. Just keep on reminding yourself everyday you’re worth way more than anything, you have stray kids, STAY, atiny, ateez and your family&friends besides you. They care about you and love you very much. In the end all will be okay! I promise ❣️
@@lorinncx fan signs are like a raffle, and so you enter one by buying an album. the more you buy the more chances you have of getting in. idk how you get in, i’m assuming they just email you but unfortunately its over 👁👄👁💧
I'm only a mere fan I ain't a stay but just listening to this made me feel relived and safe and also in tears i have kept in for too long. He really is the best leader🥺🥺 it hit me when he said "Everyone needs a hug"
Thank you so much omg😭 I woke up feeling so angry at myself. I didn’t want to come out of my room if I was going to be so angry. I watched this and Chan automatically made me feel a lot better than before. I am still feeling bleh but his voice, his words, comforts me in a way where even tho I feel bad, I still feel good. Does that make sense? But yea Thank you thank you thank you for this and for chan!♥️💜
i have a 12 percent in history rn and in all my other classes so im trying my hardest and i still feel like complete shit and it feels like im useless and im dumb and i cant do it i just want everyone else to know that we can all get through this together
these videos helped me a lot, thank you. i really wanna end it but i can't do it. i need to get through this for chan. i still have so many things to do and today in general was just a shitty day. when i woke up, i already noticed how tired and down i was. at least i showered today, anways school is stressing me out so much, i could cry when talking about it. also i randomly shake a lot and cant breathe and like im cold but i sweat in school, whatever that is, is also annoying. the worst thing about it is that im not diagnosed with anything, and i just feel like my feelings are invalid because im not diagnosed, so in my mind im like that evrythings fine even tho i struggle with self harm (ive been clean for 12 days tho) and also think about if i should just end it but as i said i cant. i need tp get through this and just make him proud if i ever have the chance talking with him :( im sorry for the whole rant and i also have a lot of grammar mistakes or whatsoever but i literally cant see anything because im crying. anyways i hope yall are staying safe and pls keep fighting channie would be SO proud of you !!
You are such a strong person for getting up everyday to keep fighting even though things are tough and you really wanna end it all, you choose not to and that makes you so strong! And you don’t need to have a diagnosis to feel bad. If you feel down and bad than that’s what you are feeling and those feelings are valid, no matter if you have a diagnosis or not. This hard time will eventually pass, even if it feels like hell right now, better days will come, I promise! But until those days come just know that, I love you, STAY loves you, Channie loves you and Stray Kids love you! You are so loved and we need you in this world❤️
when i got into kpop i promised myself not to get attached to any idol because i know i'm gonna grow out of the phase one day and then i'll have no one. after seeing stray kids i couldn't help but to lean onto them, i've always felt safe with them. i'm struggling with social anxiety which has ruined my life, my self-esteem is under the ground, i don't have any friends and every night i cry knowing i shouldn't be alive. whenever i just wanna give up on my life and end it all, i think about all of the good memories with stray kids, i wanna keep supporting them. chan's words really give me comfort and hope even though he doesn't know me. thanks to stray kids for saving me :)
you aren't alone , we are all your friends and we proud of you for pushing through all your hard times , keep going my friend, things will get better one day
Probably the only place where I feel like sharing this Today for me was one of the worst days I've ever had. I was sure and legit happy since last few days that my anxiety is getting better and also my problem with low self esteem but today completely changed it. Having so many people around me who were talking and laughing and at the same my only friend didn't even spare a glance at me but was hanging with others I felt so lonely and scared and my mind got full of negative thoughts my vision got blurry I had lack of oxygen my body was shaking and trembling I thought I was gonna faint even though I wanted to cry my heart out I couldn't, tears were forming in my eyes but weren't flowing out I felt terrified with the idea of others judging me negatively and the fact that my only friend didn't even look at me but then right now after watching this I feel alot better and I cried a bit too my stress and anxiety always takes over me even if it's over little things since I don't have anyone who seriously cares about me I cannot even go and share it to someone and if I try to open up to others they don't really care and that just hurts even more Chan seriously is such a great person in my eyes he really helped me alot everytime and I love him so much :(
I am having my mental breakdown rn but this guy just helped me get out of my breakdown I would like to say thank to Chan,he always got me out of my mood swing.And advised me for better days #ThankYouChan
i wish i could hear what he’s saying but i had my headphones taken away today and my volume is full but my brother has a louder ipad so i can’t hear a thing the subtitles help when they are there tho we don’t deserve you Chan ur such an angel he cares more than my parents do which just makes me so much happier Stray kids & Stays are the only reason why i haven’t tried to take my life away again, my depressing life has stopped getting worse because of you, i just hope it gets better soon 😅 ❤️
everything is gonna be okay, i've been there, i've tried to take my life away but it wasn't really the best choice that i've made and being through a lot helps you a lot during this journey.. please keep your head up and try to focus on your happiness more. the best boy chan gots your back, we all got your back, if you need us.. i'm sorry if there is any grammar mistakes but english is not my first language so i tried my best
Whenever I’m going through a lot, I go back to these videos. He gives me so much strength to move forward just by being so real. He’s truly a blessing for caring so much about STAYs on this deeper level. I’m so thankful I found him.
even after starting to stan so many groups and discovering new people chan will always have that one place in my heart istg i cant live without this man- even if he doesnt know i exist
i'm so stressed out right now bc i've been doing nothing but studying ever since the schoolyear started and my exams started a week ago so it's only worse right now. Chan's words are truly my source of comfort rn.
i usually don't cry, like i can go on weeks and months without crying, i didn't realise i started crying barely a minute into the video and that's the kind of comfort chan means to me
Im so depressed right now and i think im gona lose hope bc my father and my brother broke my heart when im watching mnet 2020 they said that how will you learn stuff like them and i remember bang chan always did this she's the only one i could go of my stress and thank you for this vid i very enjoy it!❤ #Bangchanbestboy
Bangchan you are the most precious, most beautiful human on this planet You're so thoughtful and deep and you make my lonely nights feel less lonely. You're sealing my cracks in my heart and making me the most happiest person ever I love everything about you Ik you don't love yourself currently but like you said, you're always good at something And you rn is good ad various things Like your job, your advice, your comfort and everything you do inspires me I love you more than you love yourself And I always will You mean the world to me, idk how I did it without you and I don't know how id it without you 사랑해요 From the bottom of my heart
I wanna fight this man, if he says that he doesn't love himself, I WILL fight him. He is the BEST leader for straykids, no one can replace this man. He is the best. Even tho we're completely strangers, i feel comfortable with him. I wanna hug him so bad😭😭 I wanna meet him and skz so bad😭. Nothing and no one else can convince me that thus man is the greatest person to ever exist. So instead of me saying I would die for him, I WILL LIVE FOR HIM❤️ thank you so much for making stays feel comfortable, make us feel safe, cared for, loved. WE WILL STAY WITH STRAY KIDS. YOU MAKE STAYS STAY❤️❤️💕
Im,not a stay to be honest but i truly, extremely really really appreciate chan like he's the one of the most amazing people ever even though he's someone i dont stan he's truly someone i cherish and idolize he's just an amazing role model and person overall and im happy that stays have someone like him💖i really want him to have the world i know that he's definitely someone sent by god
I want to talk to him about my problems, about me being depressed since covid hit, just about my problems, but I don't know how to contact him or talk to him.
damm this video popped up on my page and i decided to watched it and Chan has helped me become a bit more calm with knowing the fact that my dream may never come through becuase of a minor illness i have which affects the dream job that i want... and he really made me cry throughout this whole vid so thank you for putting this compilation together for stays to feel less pressured and less stressed!
i used to be in a horrible place like y’all ever feel that feeling where u feel absolutely no happiness and just feel so tired and unmotivated and so unhappy yk? as if your falling into an endless deep hole of sadness well that’s how i was until i found bts and stray kids i genuinely felt happy and i felt safe and like i felt like myself and i found myself and who i was i wish i could thank them for that and i hope i can one day
Chan saying the best ways to relieves stress is thinking about something else that makes the pain go away Me: who uses skz as that safe zone that saves me from stress
this is the only thing that is gonna get me through these next few years. with the death of my favorite person it’s hurting terribly. idk if i’m gonna make it with out her.
thank you so much for this! I have been feeling down and conflicted because i’m trying to figure out how to get out of a toxic friendship. i’ve been friends for them since kindergarten and i’m in high school now. it’s really hard to let go and confront someone.
SKZ is my really big motivation. Their music, their love and their passionate got me feel like much better and work harder. Wow, I have to say that I'm happy to know Skz. Btw im a new Stay. Big appreciate to our SKZ and Stays
My anxiety has become so bad these days that it has started to affect my studies. I literally can't concentrate. Thank you so much Chan 🤍. Watching you always makes me better even for a bit 🤧
@@annagrace2062 recently I was able to start cover coming it! for me personally It was about losing weight to be skinny, that's why I would do that. But after awhile I learned that finding something active to do that you enjoy is better than starving yourself, for me I picked up dancing! for now I'm only learning at home but I hope to join classes. I've also focused on eating healthier, like eating more vegetables and fruit and stop overeating. For me I would go awhile without eating but then eat a lot at the end of the day. And instead of the thing motivating me to be active and eat healthy being "I want to be skinny" instead I looked at a couple idols, for me park Jisung (nct) hyunjin and J-hope (BTS) are my three idols I look at for dancing, they really motivate me and whenever I start to lose motivation I just watch a video of them dancing and it makes me want to get up and practice! I'm not 100% better and still have stuff I need to work on in terms of eating but it's going well so far! I hope this may help you to help pull yourself out and feel better, and I know this doesn't really help because it didn't help me personally, but yeah at the end of the day you'll just gain the weight back faster when starving yourself, even though I had a lot of people telling me that I ended up learning the hard way. so I wish you a lot of luck and I believe in you!
@@Erikafritz06 awww omg I'm so happy for you! I really encourage you to keep up at what you're doing! I've had anorexia/EDNOS for almost 9 years (personally, the need for control and some other things) and it's definitely not worth it and it becomes really hard to recover from eventually. I will keep you in my prayers that you continue on living a healthy lifestyle and If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you :) 💞
Thank u smh today I felt stressful and sad for no reason I just was there having a lot of Bad thought and that's helped me a lot I will Come here every Time I feel down :) thank u for this
I always come to these videos again and today is the day I'm having such hard times with my family they give me so much emotional stress and depression😞 😭
this is in my downloads and has been since last few probably months after becoming a stay. thank you chan for all the positive energy you give out to me I feel ok after I'm done with this video everytime. may you be blessed with happiness your whole life
Bangchan, you alone, chans room, straykids, your music, your voice, seeing your faces or seeing you all together, seeing you 8 being happy, your smiles, laughs, all that too together, has saved my god damn life. Thank you, thank you so much, straykids. I love you. And stay too, the stays i've met have helped me so much, thank you other stays and straykids for everything youve ever done for me and all the other people youve saved. Thank you, i hope if you need it, i could help you too.
a new fun video for bang chan ,, hope you enjoy it
Only way im relieving stress is watching Chan, crying my ass off then sleeping
Literally.. we're same-
i was just sobbing but this comment made me laugh 😭 thank you for this
@@supergarfille You're welcome😂💞
sameeee :'D
Omg are we the same person, cause same
I can listen to him go on for days. Its so calming and therapeutic, i need someone like this in my life
He should be a therapist 🤣
Yeah He should be a therapist instead....his chan's room is my only free therapy session 😌🤚
you have someone already, and that's you, yourself. biggest friend...biggest supporter of you.
Im not stay 100% but i really love what they do and i like this Man.
d i have a secret ( when incant sleep iput chans room AND i fall sleeep ) hes voice is everything .
Fr, I came to watch this because I'm having a really hard time at the moment, and his voice just makes me feel better. I love his comfort so much ❤❤❤
Let me tell you what Channie is :
He is a :
1) Best leader
2) Great son
3) great brother
4) great friend
5) great therapist
6) great human being
everyone says therapists are really expensive until they meet Channie . We love you Bangchan !! Every living being must have Channie in their lives or it may not be a very good life . I cried through this whole video because Chan is really amazing and he deserves to be loved by the whole world
20 seconds in; im already crying. this man really broke me, im not the cry type of a person but wth chan
I didn’t even make it past Chan saying “self-doubt” 🥺
aussie bois do that:)
legit best emotional support ever :)
Which Vlive is this please I want to listen
Same fam
I once asked my therapist if it was ridiculous that a grown ass woman, aka my old ass, was able to find motivation and comfort in a bunch of 20 to 26 year old kpop idols, and she said the same as Chan in one of his Chan's room, you like what you like and you do what you can to be happy, just enjoy what makes you smile and don't worry to much about what society or other people think. People can have connections to others and never ever meet real life, love an acceptance is an universal language and needing help does not come with an age requirement, a 14 year old student needs as much love and comfort and understanding and motivation as a 40 year old woman or man, we are all humans and we tend to forget that age is just a number but every one regardless of what stage they are in their life have feelings, we all feel sad, scare, happy, lost, hurt, and sometimes we just need to be reminded that its ok to just feel and to never be ashamed for the fact we are human :3. Thank you for coming ot my Tedtalk.
He is probably the only person from whom a sentence "I know how you feel" doesn't sound rude and ignoring😕💓🌚🌌 love you Channiee
No one might ever read this, but I think this is the one time I feel like sharing my thoughts and problems.
My anxiety seems like it's getting worse, and I have trouble getting sleep even when I'm so tired and sleepy. I know that a lot of my worries seem so irrational, but the impact they have are unfortunately gigantic... I'm sure someone out there can relate: when you have a panic attack, it can be so overwhelming that you feel like you're going crazy. I remember crying my heart out the other day because I could not understand why I have to go through this, why I have to stay awake at night being unable to breathe, feeling like I'm dying or losing my mind, and then be expected to function normally the next day and the day after and so on. I can't even tell anyone about my struggles without feeling embarrassed because most of the things I'm worried about might turn out to be nothing, and I hate the idea of being judged by someone I want to be accepted by.
Sometimes I wish I had someone to turn to, but I don't really want to bother anyone. I think one of the things that comfort me are Stray Kids...especially Chan's Room, of course. I'm a new Stay (it's been about a month), and when I have trouble sleeping I watch Chan's Room because it just gives a bit of a comfort like I'm not alone. I wish I could get help, but I'd have to tell my parents first, which I'm not sure they'll even agree to. I feel like I'll only cause trouble like that...
Maybe it's time for me to start working out and moving around like Chan once suggested, just to help rid of building stress and anxiety 😔
I'm glad that you've posted these videos because they really help, especially at a moment like this where I'm having so much anxiety. Thank you so muchh 😭
Couldn’t have explained me any better buttt I don’t have anyone to turn to well I do but I still don’t idky I feel like it’s embarrassing but I do work out and move a lot but it doesn’t helppp and btw I’m here for you and I promise I won’t judge if u have any apps to text in like TikTok or snap or discord or anything tell me if u really need to talk I’m sorry if I sound weird but Ik what you are going through it’s hard so if you need someone to talk to I promise I’m here 💗
being already aware of your situation and trying to look for solutions for it and taking advices from chan and others on how to keep going and keeping yourself busy is a huge step towards more wonderful and better days,, im sure you'll beat all these demons u have inside ur head and u will walk out of all this stronger. I'm glad this video could give you a little bit of comfort
@@lixieskz2451 thank you for taking the time to reply! And I think you're right... I think if someone else told my story, I would think the same-that I'm making progress by looking for help or finding some solutions instead of staying idle.
I'm grateful for videos like this, and videos where there's guided breathing and stuff, because they help me calm down. 😂
i was gonna read it then i realized how LONG it was
It's ok sometimes crying is good. it helps you take out stress. if you dicide to tell you parents then come to me ill help you. Even if i dont know you ill comfort you like family but dont go far like doing self harm cause you don't know what's gonna happen in the future you may get well, get some good news, your anxity may get better so dont forget that there is always some light at the end of the tunnel i am and aalways will me proud of every single thing you did. and don't forget its ok if the only thing you did today was breathe
He's the only person who makes me wanna live in this cruel world. Chan and stray kids make me feel safe and make me feel I'm worth it. Stray kids and Chan deserve the universe❤ Thank you so much Chan and Stray kids 💝 Also thank you for making this beautiful compilation, I feel so better watching this.💝
You're not alone I have anxiety ( nightmares, school social media when I sweat during times I can't sleep or eat) and depression ( family personal business racism school siblings and more )
It's like you are stuck in a massive ditch, but Chan is the rope that pulls you out.
Channie's tiny voice at 3:14 with the word "you can do it" just made me feel better
His children are going to be so lucky to have him as father. ❤️
Actually I had a bad day today I felt hopeless the society is just always judging and school is literally going downhills. I am a going through severe stress but here listening to chan is so comfortin
Hey, hope you're doing a little better? It sucks to have so much stress, doesn't it? I've been dealing, well trying to, with it for quite some time now, so I know how it feels. I hope the situation get's better soon, but even if it takes a while, this will all pass and things will be okay😊
Oh and it's indeed comforting yeah to listen to his words/advice Hug for you, you can do it!💛
Ps: that user is not a piece of trash (don't know if it was a joke or not, but eeh, you are not trash)
We should all make a compilation of Stays saying comforting things to Chan, just a nice video full of things to support him, any advise, saying how important he is, just something for him like he is for us. There's so many of us and one of him, we should be able to do something right ☺️
Lol my dad just came in and said that I'm not doing anything useful and am just watching videos over and over again, only if he knew why i watch this video so many times....
Chan is my safe place, my family, my home, my source of happiness and the reason of my existence. He never fails to make me smile. He is like a comforting therapist not only to me but all of us. Knowing that he loves me and cares makes me feel better❤️❤️🥺🥺We don't deserve this angel🥺❤️❤️❤️
He’s so kind and I really hope he receive the same amount of love he gave
sadly he isn’t
??@@l0vejasp
The fact that this angel is getting hate says a lot about people
This year I turned 13 and something was not right, some people must be saying that 13 y.o. kids don't know what anxiety is thier just excusing. But as a 13 y.o. kid they pressure us so much that we can not even say what we want, it's just like I stand at the balcony of our apartment which is 3 third floor, and I just wanted to jump from there, I don't know why I can't stop my self I have my mother my father my friends some special people's, I know that their are gonna be Hurt more than me, I didn't know how to stop, but when I started to Stan stray kids and Ateez they become my safe place. I want to thanks them with all my ♥ heart.
stay strong please ,, things will get better one day dont hurt yourself :( and I'm glad u have skz and atz to comfort u ♥️♥️
i believe in you! you are so brave for going through all of that and know you are not alone
I really relate to what your saying about people pressuring us and not letting 13yo’s speak our mind. I turned 13 recently and I’ve been having a tough time too. But let’s get through it together ok? We can do it, and let’s try to find things that make us happy like skz and our friends ok? 💕💕💕
I was really sad when I was 12, I think going to a high school with many kids was overwhelming and losing and meeting new people made me feel extremely lonely. You can feel like this at any age, people need to understand this, especially the older generation. Everything around you might be going so well but there’s these little thoughts and voices in your head making you doubt yourself too.
Again when i turned 14 I felt really alone and isolated, literally nothing is going on but it’s just my head messing with me you know! I would cry and listen to music and pray to be happy. Sometimes i would lie my head down in class and cry silently if i’m being honest-
but in the end it all gets better
I’m better than before and that’s because I let everything go and just went with my gut instead of my head.
I have nice friends now, I opened up to some people and tried out new hobbies, and i fell in love with this man and his friends and they are my safe place as they are yours too.
Just keep on reminding yourself everyday you’re worth way more than anything, you have stray kids, STAY, atiny, ateez and your family&friends besides you. They care about you and love you very much. In the end all will be okay! I promise ❣️
I badly need a hug from a Channie, especially now..
god i wish i could just call him and vent all my worries, even just once ;-;
i heard there’s a new online fan sign so have fun you guys :D
There’s an online fansign? What website is it?
@@lorinncx fan signs are like a raffle, and so you enter one by buying an album. the more you buy the more chances you have of getting in. idk how you get in, i’m assuming they just email you but unfortunately its over 👁👄👁💧
Chan is my therapist 👁💧👄💧👁
I’m really thankful for straykids they help me out during my darkest days.
i was crying the whole 13:51 mins, hes truly my safe place
i’m so glad he exists
thank you so much for making this. it helped me a lot 🥺😢💔
Chan I've been depressed lately, down, and 😢needing to talk to someone.
Stay you have to be grateful for stanning stray kids
Chan thank you, you make me feel better😭
He is just the best,his parents do raise him very well🥺🥰
I'm only a mere fan I ain't a stay but just listening to this made me feel relived and safe and also in tears i have kept in for too long. He really is the best leader🥺🥺
it hit me when he said "Everyone needs a hug"
Stan stray kids stan talent 💕💕😅
@@hidayatodoroki5800 Don't get me wrong I love stray kids for their talent, I just wanted to point out that he was an amazing leader.💕😊
if chan and i will ever meet someday, i want to give him a BIG hug. i want to thank him for everything.
Therapy is expensive
But chan's live is free and most effective
he pulled me out of my little dark hole, he made me at least a little bit better. he is my sunlight in this dark world. I love him so much
Chan's hugs are the best
Thank you so much omg😭 I woke up feeling so angry at myself. I didn’t want to come out of my room if I was going to be so angry. I watched this and Chan automatically made me feel a lot better than before. I am still feeling bleh but his voice, his words, comforts me in a way where even tho I feel bad, I still feel good. Does that make sense? But yea Thank you thank you thank you for this and for chan!♥️💜
When you are alone silent crying at night and you want comfort...
hey, how are u? If you want to talk you can contact me on instagram (@_imsosad._) 🥺
i have a 12 percent in history rn and in all my other classes so im trying my hardest and i still feel like complete shit and it feels like im useless and im dumb and i cant do it i just want everyone else to know that we can all get through this together
you got this ♥️
these videos helped me a lot, thank you. i really wanna end it but i can't do it. i need to get through this for chan. i still have so many things to do and today in general was just a shitty day. when i woke up, i already noticed how tired and down i was. at least i showered today, anways school is stressing me out so much, i could cry when talking about it. also i randomly shake a lot and cant breathe and like im cold but i sweat in school, whatever that is, is also annoying. the worst thing about it is that im not diagnosed with anything, and i just feel like my feelings are invalid because im not diagnosed, so in my mind im like that evrythings fine even tho i struggle with self harm (ive been clean for 12 days tho) and also think about if i should just end it but as i said i cant. i need tp get through this and just make him proud if i ever have the chance talking with him :( im sorry for the whole rant and i also have a lot of grammar mistakes or whatsoever but i literally cant see anything because im crying. anyways i hope yall are staying safe and pls keep fighting channie would be SO proud of you !!
you are so strong bb. please stay strong, you matter so much💕 i'm so proud of you‼️
you’ll get through this, if you ever need something feel free to reach out, you’re so strong
You are such a strong person for getting up everyday to keep fighting even though things are tough and you really wanna end it all, you choose not to and that makes you so strong! And you don’t need to have a diagnosis to feel bad. If you feel down and bad than that’s what you are feeling and those feelings are valid, no matter if you have a diagnosis or not. This hard time will eventually pass, even if it feels like hell right now, better days will come, I promise! But until those days come just know that, I love you, STAY loves you, Channie loves you and Stray Kids love you! You are so loved and we need you in this world❤️
when i got into kpop i promised myself not to get attached to any idol because i know i'm gonna grow out of the phase one day and then i'll have no one. after seeing stray kids i couldn't help but to lean onto them, i've always felt safe with them. i'm struggling with social anxiety which has ruined my life, my self-esteem is under the ground, i don't have any friends and every night i cry knowing i shouldn't be alive. whenever i just wanna give up on my life and end it all, i think about all of the good memories with stray kids, i wanna keep supporting them. chan's words really give me comfort and hope even though he doesn't know me.
thanks to stray kids for saving me :)
you aren't alone , we are all your friends and we proud of you for pushing through all your hard times , keep going my friend, things will get better one day
ur here cuz ur sad... don’t lie cuz same 😤 i hope we all feel better 🥰💫
Probably the only place where I feel like sharing this
Today for me was one of the worst days I've ever had. I was sure and legit happy since last few days that my anxiety is getting better and also my problem with low self esteem but today completely changed it. Having so many people around me who were talking and laughing and at the same my only friend didn't even spare a glance at me but was hanging with others I felt so lonely and scared and my mind got full of negative thoughts my vision got blurry I had lack of oxygen my body was shaking and trembling I thought I was gonna faint even though I wanted to cry my heart out I couldn't, tears were forming in my eyes but weren't flowing out I felt terrified with the idea of others judging me negatively and the fact that my only friend didn't even look at me but then right now after watching this I feel alot better and I cried a bit too my stress and anxiety always takes over me even if it's over little things since I don't have anyone who seriously cares about me I cannot even go and share it to someone and if I try to open up to others they don't really care and that just hurts even more Chan seriously is such a great person in my eyes he really helped me alot everytime and I love him so much :(
"Grade is not everything"
It's everything I truly wanted to hear...Thankyou so much Chanie we love you so much!
I am literally walking on the street and try not to cry… he is the most precious human being istg
I am having my mental breakdown rn but this guy just helped me get out of my breakdown
I would like to say thank to Chan,he always got me out of my mood swing.And advised me for better days
#ThankYouChan
i wish i could hear what he’s saying but i had my headphones taken away today and my volume is full but my brother has a louder ipad so i can’t hear a thing
the subtitles help when they are there tho
we don’t deserve you Chan
ur such an angel
he cares more than my parents do which just makes me so much happier
Stray kids & Stays are the only reason why i haven’t tried to take my life away again, my depressing life has stopped getting worse because of you, i just hope it gets better soon 😅
❤️
everything is gonna be okay, i've been there, i've tried to take my life away but it wasn't really the best choice that i've made and being through a lot helps you a lot during this journey.. please keep your head up and try to focus on your happiness more. the best boy chan gots your back, we all got your back, if you need us.. i'm sorry if there is any grammar mistakes but english is not my first language so i tried my best
@@itsnotminhoitsminhoe6302 ❤❤❤❤❤
I rlly luv him sm :(( he rlly comforts me i failed school today and when bang chan said "your doing a good job" my heart melted
Whenever I’m going through a lot, I go back to these videos. He gives me so much strength to move forward just by being so real. He’s truly a blessing for caring so much about STAYs on this deeper level. I’m so thankful I found him.
i always come here when im feeling down. chris jus makes me very happy. i cant believe this man exists
no words can describe how much i love chris
even after starting to stan so many groups and discovering new people chan will always have that one place in my heart istg i cant live without this man- even if he doesnt know i exist
damn I’ve never been so thankful for an idol thank you chan for making me feel better 😔😔😔😔
I’m not even a stay and I’m still bawling my eyes out
i'm so stressed out right now bc i've been doing nothing but studying ever since the schoolyear started and my exams started a week ago so it's only worse right now. Chan's words are truly my source of comfort rn.
Chan just saved my life today..
Thank you so much Chan
i usually don't cry, like i can go on weeks and months without crying, i didn't realise i started crying barely a minute into the video and that's the kind of comfort chan means to me
At the start when he adjusted his sitting he looked like a philosopher statue loooool
Popular opinion : we all need bang Chan in our lives
If chanie knew how much I/stays need his chan’s room right now 💔
Tbh I don’t want a therapist… I want bang chan.
Im so depressed right now and i think im gona lose hope bc my father and my brother broke my heart when im watching mnet 2020 they said that how will you learn stuff like them and i remember bang chan always did this she's the only one i could go of my stress and thank you for this vid i very enjoy it!❤ #Bangchanbestboy
If you need someone to talk to I’m here I’ll give you my insta if you need to talk
@@Ashley-yu7cg im really sorry if this is awkward but could i talk to you? ive been feeling depressed lately
@@minniberri omg yes if you need to talk add me on insta @ashley_.jeffries
@@minniberri yes of course! I added you back on insta so when your ready I’m here to listen to you :)
Hugs for everyone 🥰🥰🥰 we all need a hug 😘
Bangchan you are the most precious, most beautiful human on this planet
You're so thoughtful and deep and you make my lonely nights feel less lonely. You're sealing my cracks in my heart and making me the most happiest person ever
I love everything about you
Ik you don't love yourself currently but like you said, you're always good at something
And you rn is good ad various things
Like your job, your advice, your comfort and everything you do inspires me
I love you more than you love yourself
And I always will
You mean the world to me, idk how I did it without you and I don't know how id it without you
사랑해요
From the bottom of my heart
BEST LEADER.
Waiting single until finding someone like chan
I wanna fight this man, if he says that he doesn't love himself, I WILL fight him. He is the BEST leader for straykids, no one can replace this man. He is the best. Even tho we're completely strangers, i feel comfortable with him. I wanna hug him so bad😭😭 I wanna meet him and skz so bad😭. Nothing and no one else can convince me that thus man is the greatest person to ever exist. So instead of me saying I would die for him, I WILL LIVE FOR HIM❤️ thank you so much for making stays feel comfortable, make us feel safe, cared for, loved. WE WILL STAY WITH STRAY KIDS. YOU MAKE STAYS STAY❤️❤️💕
Im,not a stay to be honest but i truly, extremely really really appreciate chan like he's the one of the most amazing people ever even though he's someone i dont stan he's truly someone i cherish and idolize he's just an amazing role model and person overall and im happy that stays have someone like him💖i really want him to have the world i know that he's definitely someone sent by god
HES LITTERALLY MY THERAPIST AHHHH
Chan is such a sweetie
6:17 just chan flexing his science major
I kinda wanted to detach myself...kinda wanted to be away and just kinda wanted god to take me but i love you chan hyung
All I wish for him is to learn to love himself.
I want to talk to him about my problems, about me being depressed since covid hit, just about my problems, but I don't know how to contact him or talk to him.
if you have instagram, you can talk to me if you want :( my username is @leeknowslostlines
Started bawling my eyes out first thing I did
damm this video popped up on my page and i decided to watched it and Chan has helped me become a bit more calm with knowing the fact that my dream may never come through becuase of a minor illness i have which affects the dream job that i want... and he really made me cry throughout this whole vid so thank you for putting this compilation together for stays to feel less pressured and less stressed!
i’m glad it helped you , and i hope ur dreams come true one day. never give up
i used to be in a horrible place like y’all ever feel that feeling where u feel absolutely no happiness and just feel so tired and unmotivated and so unhappy yk? as if your falling into an endless deep hole of sadness well that’s how i was until i found bts and stray kids i genuinely felt happy and i felt safe and like i felt like myself and i found myself and who i was i wish i could thank them for that and i hope i can one day
i need you, Chan...
Chan saying the best ways to relieves stress is thinking about something else that makes the pain go away
Me: who uses skz as that safe zone that saves me from stress
he always make everything make sense
this is the only thing that is gonna get me through these next few years. with the death of my favorite person it’s hurting terribly. idk if i’m gonna make it with out her.
"It's best to find something that makes you happy." i'm trying but they won't let me.
Chan is always there for you
thank you so much for this! I have been feeling down and conflicted because i’m trying to figure out how to get out of a toxic friendship. i’ve been friends for them since kindergarten and i’m in high school now. it’s really hard to let go and confront someone.
I know I’m late but if you still need someone to talk to I have insta/snap just ask
Those persons who disliked must have lost their mind because chan is best 💙
I feel like I want to live for him. He would be proud if I do
we are all proud of you for staying strong , never give up things will get better one day
I really need this exactly right now..
hey, how are u? If you want to talk you can contact me on instagram (@_imsosad._)
SKZ is my really big motivation. Their music, their love and their passionate got me feel like much better and work harder. Wow, I have to say that I'm happy to know Skz. Btw im a new Stay. Big appreciate to our SKZ and Stays
My anxiety has become so bad these days that it has started to affect my studies. I literally can't concentrate. Thank you so much Chan 🤍. Watching you always makes me better even for a bit 🤧
can i cry?
a topic I really want him to talk about is eating disorders, I feel that would help me a lot
me too :
@@annagrace2062 recently I was able to start cover coming it! for me personally It was about losing weight to be skinny, that's why I would do that. But after awhile I learned that finding something active to do that you enjoy is better than starving yourself, for me I picked up dancing! for now I'm only learning at home but I hope to join classes. I've also focused on eating healthier, like eating more vegetables and fruit and stop overeating. For me I would go awhile without eating but then eat a lot at the end of the day. And instead of the thing motivating me to be active and eat healthy being "I want to be skinny" instead I looked at a couple idols, for me park Jisung (nct) hyunjin and J-hope (BTS) are my three idols I look at for dancing, they really motivate me and whenever I start to lose motivation I just watch a video of them dancing and it makes me want to get up and practice! I'm not 100% better and still have stuff I need to work on in terms of eating but it's going well so far! I hope this may help you to help pull yourself out and feel better, and I know this doesn't really help because it didn't help me personally, but yeah at the end of the day you'll just gain the weight back faster when starving yourself, even though I had a lot of people telling me that I ended up learning the hard way. so I wish you a lot of luck and I believe in you!
@@Erikafritz06 awww omg I'm so happy for you! I really encourage you to keep up at what you're doing! I've had anorexia/EDNOS for almost 9 years (personally, the need for control and some other things) and it's definitely not worth it and it becomes really hard to recover from eventually. I will keep you in my prayers that you continue on living a healthy lifestyle and If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you :) 💞
ALL TOGETHER
BEST LEADER! BEST LEADER! BEST LEADER!
Thank u smh today I felt stressful and sad for no reason I just was there having a lot of Bad thought and that's helped me a lot I will Come here every Time I feel down :) thank u for this
The 0 dislikes aren’t there for no reason✨😌
Chans parents are good 😌
Agreed.
Thx to his words I passed my exams I have no words to say how much I love him
I always come to these videos again and today is the day I'm having such hard times with my family they give me so much emotional stress and depression😞 😭
this is in my downloads and has been since last few probably months after becoming a stay. thank you chan for all the positive energy you give out to me I feel ok after I'm done with this video everytime. may you be blessed with happiness your whole life
my heartu🥺
Chan is the therapist that actually does their job
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Bangchan, you alone, chans room, straykids, your music, your voice, seeing your faces or seeing you all together, seeing you 8 being happy, your smiles, laughs, all that too together, has saved my god damn life. Thank you, thank you so much, straykids. I love you. And stay too, the stays i've met have helped me so much, thank you other stays and straykids for everything youve ever done for me and all the other people youve saved. Thank you, i hope if you need it, i could help you too.
he always helps me after a hard time, its like letting the pain go, i love them
I'm crying bc I was so stress and I listen to this and it made my stress go away