HAIR // 10 SMALL ways you are destroying your natural hair & how to fix them | ALOVE4ME

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024

Komentáře • 65

  • @marleyhill34
    @marleyhill34 Před 2 lety +36

    1. I moisturise daily.
    2. Wearing a head wrap stops my hand in hair... Um.. Habit...
    3. Weekly shampoo. 4-6 weekly chelate and clarify. Yeah I have very hard water.
    4. I detangle watching Netflix and Amazon Prime on damp conditioned hair with a seamless comb.
    5. Who are these "no conditioner" people? 🤣🤣🤣
    6. Who are these "no leave in conditioner" curly/kinky haired people? 🙈🙈🙈
    7. See point 3.
    8. Due to point 3, i wear weekly short term protective styles. No more long term monthly protective styles for me.
    9. I have two styles. Twists and French braids. I don't style my hair every day. Ain't nobody got time fuh dat! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    10. OK I'm guilty. I'm scissor happy. My stylist is the one who doesn't want to cut too much. Lol! If I find a knot out come the scissors. Lol!

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +8

      I too am guilty of #10 😬😂

    • @jamilawright1674
      @jamilawright1674 Před 2 lety +3

      Alladat 🙌🏿My twin 💞

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ALove4Me lol!

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 Před 2 lety +3

      @@jamilawright1674 yup!

    • @K.Cherrelle
      @K.Cherrelle Před 2 lety

      Love the routine!We have hard water where I live. What's a good chelating shampoo? Would greatly appreciate. 😁

  • @MonicaJNYC
    @MonicaJNYC Před 2 lety +12

    You actually have very beautiful, voluminous, healthy-looking hair which proves that tailbone length isn't everything...Your tips are very sensible and doable, too...

  • @denyshadials5702
    @denyshadials5702 Před 2 lety +30

    *Casually fluffs hair while laying on the couch*
    “We’ve got hand-in-hair syndrome. It’s something we always to talk about…”
    😶 *puts hand down..*

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +6

      😂 I said that while constantly playing in my hair during the video

    • @denyshadials5702
      @denyshadials5702 Před 2 lety +4

      @@ALove4Me
      I mean it’s right there ready and available 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

  • @ReigningGlory9083
    @ReigningGlory9083 Před 2 lety +30

    The protective styling and playing the "waiting game" with shampoo the hair is KRYPTONITE! I always thought that the buildup, debris left on so long can't be good. I would think of more backlash than dirt....like smell, ringworm, traction alopecia and breakage.Thanks for implementing ways for our coif to flourish!🤗🙌

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +4

      It's amazing how many ways not cleansing can affect the hair and scalp

    • @MonicaJNYC
      @MonicaJNYC Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly

  • @michelleeja412
    @michelleeja412 Před 2 lety +5

    The proactive word that covers all basis in hair preservation is Accurate KNOWLEDGE followed closely by PATIENCE. CZcams land sometimes has fairytales and fables that people believe to be true. NOT!. Perception will never be true. Simply put, simplicity is all that is needed for haircare. Treat it like a plant and water it on a consistent basis. Treat it like skin (which it is!) moisturize it to keep it pliant. Remove particles like cleaning your floor to make it shiny and new. Declutter unnecessary and expensive products. And then watch it grow like a beanstalk. Now thats my story and not a fairytale.

  • @angelarichardson5077
    @angelarichardson5077 Před 2 lety +1

    OMG!!! i loved " this is NOT a protective style, it's a neglected style!!! Such a true statement!

  • @Chromagens
    @Chromagens Před 2 lety +8

    Impatient detangling gets me 😫 tryna be better

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +3

      You are in good company

  • @jeanninegorden8142
    @jeanninegorden8142 Před 2 lety +16

    Thank you for making the distinction between protective styles and neglected styles! I was definitely guilty of that when I was relaxed and got various extension styles.

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +5

      I think most of us have been there at some point in our journey

  • @Neosoul_prima
    @Neosoul_prima Před 2 lety +5

    When I tell you that this was the church I needed today!!!! It was definitely the word of, “that’s not a protective style… it’s a neglected style” whew I know that shook the room! I’m also happy you spoke about clarifying the hair more often! A lot of these gentle to mild cleansers, just aren’t cleansing the scalp and strands enough! And especially the naturals who are heavy handed, and use all of these layering methods, but don’t want to cleanse their hair… are just wasting their time, money, and products! Thank you sistah💖💖💖

  • @texturedtee2740
    @texturedtee2740 Před 2 lety +8

    Great tips, they all make sense. Deep conditioning and ayurvedic treatment are not skipable to me

  • @janicesmith8883
    @janicesmith8883 Před 2 lety +8

    What shade of lipstick are you wearing? It is beautiful on you.

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you. It's Dose of Colors Kiss of Fire

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze Před 2 lety +3

    All great tips. I'm most guilty of impatience regarding detangling. I usually tell myself that I chose to grow my hair to this length and I like it so I need to care for it. In order to combat both my issue with detangling and my oily scalp I shampoo and restyle more frequently. It usually ends up being about every 5 days. I always say 5 - 7 days, but rarely wait 7 days because 5dys seem to be my tipping point for tangles and oily scalp.

  • @ccnapoole
    @ccnapoole Před 2 lety +3

    I'm guilty of twisting every night. I'm trying to find the right combo to make my twistouts last more than a day.

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +1

      Have you seen this video? czcams.com/video/AAWRPngOafk/video.html

    • @ccnapoole
      @ccnapoole Před 2 lety +1

      @@ALove4Me going to watch it now! Thank you!

  • @jennyrose9454
    @jennyrose9454 Před 2 lety +2

    I have this problem. I constantly touch my hair and look for pieces that stick out/ pieces that are uneven. Guess what with curls it can often feel that way even if it's not . And end up chopping at pieces myself sometimes with subpar scissors.
    No more.

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +2

      You got this

    • @jennyrose9454
      @jennyrose9454 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ALove4Me I just spontaneous stopped and got my hair trimmed/ fixed today. So happy.
      Also you're so pretty your smile is bomb

  • @naturalnubbie
    @naturalnubbie Před 2 lety +5

    Do you have any videos on what regular not deep conditioners you like?

  • @MelissaQ
    @MelissaQ Před 2 lety +4

    Amen sis!!!

  • @Sunshine_Hime
    @Sunshine_Hime Před 2 lety +8

    Do you think scalp massages work to improve the health of the scalp and hair growth rate?

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety +4

      I'll answer this question in next weeks Q&A video

    • @Sunshine_Hime
      @Sunshine_Hime Před 2 lety

      @@ALove4Me thank you

  • @starmaxx4
    @starmaxx4 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this very informative video 🥰💙

  • @WLHMCALLNATURAL
    @WLHMCALLNATURAL Před 2 lety +3

    New subbie 🙏🥰🥰

  • @tammykinstrue9849
    @tammykinstrue9849 Před 2 lety

    I love your face! It's always beautiful and the makeup is so cute in this video!

  • @RonnieWildheart
    @RonnieWildheart Před 2 lety +1

    I’m so guilty of #4 😰

    • @ALove4Me
      @ALove4Me  Před 2 lety

      It be like that sometimes

  • @maggiewills1776
    @maggiewills1776 Před 2 lety +1

    Love your lipstick.Which brand and shade?

  • @karenm1965
    @karenm1965 Před 2 lety +2

    👍🏽💗👏🏽

  • @shantehale3188
    @shantehale3188 Před 2 lety +3

    👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾💋

  • @bellaroserela
    @bellaroserela Před 2 lety

    🙏🏿🙏🏿👏🏿👏🏿