The Instagram Sugar Daddy Scam

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
  • I tell you about that time (not so long ago lol) that I responded to those weird messages in my Instagram requests folder that claim they want to pay you an allowance and be your sugar daddy. Pay me for existing? Yes please. Because I'm a curious creature, I went along with it for awhile but soon realised it was a scam.
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Komentáře • 111

  • @rookie1405
    @rookie1405 Před 2 lety +46

    I’ve had a couple of these. Ngl I was mad tempted. Glad CZcams exists right now lol.

    • @barjodharsh8576
      @barjodharsh8576 Před rokem

      What a english u r using have also ans also had

    • @rookie1405
      @rookie1405 Před rokem +1

      @@barjodharsh8576 what on gods green flat earth are you talking about??

  • @Milkiy-Hazard
    @Milkiy-Hazard Před 2 lety +50

    Lmao I was tempted aswell and talked to this guy, but as soon as the bitcoin thing came up I was like 'why would a person who can pay me 5000 dollars need me to purchase bitcoin'

    • @ninamasowska8256
      @ninamasowska8256 Před 11 měsíci

      same girl same

    • @ninamasowska8256
      @ninamasowska8256 Před 11 měsíci

      he told me that i have to pay for some bitcoin voucher hahaha 100$ and then the “payment” is gonna be complete

  • @Norahq
    @Norahq Před rokem +18

    Happend to me! Same guy, same story. Spend a week texting with him. Showed him this video and he was mad :)

  • @francy6804
    @francy6804 Před 2 lety +19

    Those texts he sent you are THE SAME he sent to me. With few ecceptions they are just COPIED AND PASTED. Even his Wife's name was Isabelle. I think they are the same Person or part of the same organizzation. So Thank you soooo much, I'm talking to him right now but this all smelled too fishy and then I found your video.
    I'm worried because he has my telephone Number and I don't know what he could do with that. I have to close this conversation as soon as possible but I don't know what's the best way to do it... THANKS for confirming my doubts and saving me!

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 2 lety +4

      They really don’t get too creative with it, do they! but then again they are playing the numbers game that one person in hundreds they message will fall for it. It makes me sad that they are preying on people that are already financially vulnerable. Glad you didn’t fall for this and very happy to help anyone realise it’s a scam!!

    • @quitovanroose622
      @quitovanroose622 Před 2 lety +2

      Hahahahah same here, they didn’t even check that I’m a guy. I just went through with it and started getting suspicious at the same point

  • @instagamrr
    @instagamrr Před 9 měsíci +5

    Saying ‘you’re approved ✅’ like you just got a car loan lol

  • @sundaypavlidou5022
    @sundaypavlidou5022 Před 2 lety +19

    one even sent me a screenshot of his "previous sugar baby" scratching the gift cards she bought......

  • @gabby4901
    @gabby4901 Před 2 lety +7

    Extract same sorry. The dead wife, US guy in Spain, metals provider, the bitcoin, the company account....

    • @chryspap2493
      @chryspap2493 Před 2 lety

      Shit, girl I just scammed I bought the bitcoin and I sent it to his own wallet the "transaction fee" shit shit.. please if you see my message, is there anything I can do so he doesn't get access to my bank account?

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 2 lety +1

      @@chryspap2493 ooh dear, sorry to hear that. Maybe ask your bank? But I’m not too sure sorry 😬 a healthy level of skepticism is our best defence I feel like

  • @ChrisKentMusic
    @ChrisKentMusic Před rokem +7

    Hello i am just here right now because my brother was actually just a victim of these scams! I know it sounds hard to believe but these can be quite convincing but don't be fooled

  • @anita82yk85
    @anita82yk85 Před 2 lety +18

    This just happened to me few days ago lol almost exactly the same story. And asked me for my PayPal account. Since then I thought no way. Bye bye ..

  • @Inventibility
    @Inventibility Před rokem +10

    I know why they wanted you to scam with them because they now send literal videos of women saying it is not a scam ☠️

  • @lydiagbehi4168
    @lydiagbehi4168 Před rokem +5

    I’m honestly in debt because of this 😭

    • @jasminejohnson6266
      @jasminejohnson6266 Před rokem +2

      chile same. i mean i have ALWAYS been skeptical of these SD but honestly this one was superrrr convincing. i’ve been talking to him for weeks and, and i even “convinced” him to go to dominican republic and take a vacation there. i’m not sure if he actually went but he did send me pictures of whoever he was at. i can’t explain how good he was at lying to me. he told me he was from germany but originally he was from new york. he was the owner of some company that dealt with metals and the money he makes goes to this charity for children. then he said he was going to present some speech at the university and even sent me videos of his cars. he even told me when his birthday was and all these other personal things. i didn’t realize i was being scammed until another SD told me a very similar sob story about how he lost his wife and kids. it was a very painful realization because i actually believed it but it is what it is.

    • @RA-wp6th
      @RA-wp6th Před rokem

      @@jasminejohnson6266 How did he convince you to send him money?

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 4 měsíci +1

      I’m so sorry to hear this :( hope you are doing ok

  • @2karthik
    @2karthik Před 11 měsíci +3

    Who would want to scam a cute girl like her ? 😅🤗🤗🤗

  • @emilywalsh4291
    @emilywalsh4291 Před rokem +6

    Oh my I wanted to pay all my bills 😂

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Wouldn’t that be nice! 😅😅😅

  • @neni_j7383
    @neni_j7383 Před 2 lety +7

    Omg.. thanks. Today i got the same bugger who currently living in germany moved from newyork. Interesting is he also buying and selling heavy mettles. Such a funny scammer.. 😂😂 thanks honey for sharing this.

  • @sj187
    @sj187 Před rokem +2

    If somebody sends you a link. Do not click on it no matter what!
    Fake profile links can say anyting from PayPal to bitcoin to cash out to anything at all.
    If you click on one of these links and it is a fake link, then the person who made the link will then be able to get your IP address and location!

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 11 měsíci

      One must have their wits about them, for sure! Scammers are constantly devising new ways to fool others 😢

    • @bryankelley6349
      @bryankelley6349 Před 7 měsíci

      And then what

  • @mervemercan3493
    @mervemercan3493 Před rokem +5

    It happened to me aswell and then I’ve told him that he is a scammer, so i was threatened with death ! 😳😅 he said his boys saved my pictures and will find me and bring me to him and then he send me a fake picture of a gun and a passport 😂😂😂😂

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před rokem +1

      They get so nasty when you confront them!!

  • @XIzZyBVB4evaX
    @XIzZyBVB4evaX Před 2 lety +7

    Stressed coz I stupidly gave my email and now I’m worried everything is accessible even though I never sent any money

    • @stayroxy
      @stayroxy Před 3 měsíci

      what can they do with just your email >?

  • @vdel5842
    @vdel5842 Před 2 lety +4

    Oh, everywhere u turn it's a scam.
    I'm in a very similar situation, just woke up a little late. So I gave him my PayPal and he send me money. After i approved the transaction, i learned that i need to buy a bitcoin that costs 250 euros. Here i understood that something is not alright so i stoped.
    Am i in any danger now?

  • @marlavgt9251
    @marlavgt9251 Před rokem +5

    Same story here. But mine lives in France, probably bc I told him, that I live in Germany😄😄

  • @avrilmathie
    @avrilmathie Před 2 lety +11

    That’s hilarious you messaged them back. You should just fuck with them all and waste their time… tell them you don’t have 500 to your name to receive the money and drag them along having long conversations every day 🤣🤣🤣

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 2 lety +4

      Haha! Use them as free therapy? Interesting idea 😂😂

  • @jenn6294
    @jenn6294 Před rokem +6

    Just ask them to do
    A video chat . That will stop the scam dead in its tracks cause they can’t do this . Whatever pics they have on their profile is definitely both them so when in doubt , (and money for nothing is always gonna be a scam) , Tell then you wanna video chat. Watch how angry they get lol

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 4 měsíci

      They always get so angry or rude when confronted don’t they!!!

    • @stayroxy
      @stayroxy Před 3 měsíci

      i told the one guy this is a scam then he sent me a video of himself saying this is not a scam .... don't know what to think now

  • @harleymewmew7412
    @harleymewmew7412 Před rokem +3

    I just got this kind of message. I message them back, and everything were like you. Since the begening to the bitcoin buy.
    When I told them I know it was scamming, They began to tell me that I was going to die, that my family and friends too.
    Nice try bro…

    • @harleymewmew7412
      @harleymewmew7412 Před rokem +3

      They ask me a PayPal email. I give them a fake one. They didn’t find out it wasn’t link to a PayPal account. I received a fake email of PayPal I received 5k dollars. Indeed my PayPal account was empty
      Everything was the same as you. He cam from USA but in Sweden for a trip, work in engenering field. They wife and daughter dead in a car crash … they take people with sentimental story …

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před rokem +3

      Gosh that’s horrible of him to say. You’d think they’d just move on to the next person to scam. Glad you didn’t fall for this.

  • @yasmin1910
    @yasmin1910 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I just use they to training my English ksksksks but thank you for the advice is literally the same that are talking with me right now

  • @majabartoszewska403
    @majabartoszewska403 Před 10 měsíci +1

    No way but this first conversation is identical to guy who wanted to scamm me

  • @jonshook8985
    @jonshook8985 Před 22 dny

    I am a true man I would never think about doing such a thing to such a beautiful woman as yourself. I would love more than anything in the world to chat with you and show you what a real man is like.

  • @Dani08Nicole
    @Dani08Nicole Před rokem +2

    Yeah his mom died of cancer and his dad was a drunk yup those are the same text messages I got

  • @medhaghosh1111
    @medhaghosh1111 Před rokem +2

    Idk why 🤣 everyone of this lives in Germany same time it's very funny lol..but their number belongs to somewhere else taking about mine that number was from Nigeria... and somehow everyone of them are widowedat a same time.

  • @annagill4748
    @annagill4748 Před rokem +1

    Omg the EXACT same guy sent me EXACTLY those text what the hell 💀

  • @Dani08Nicole
    @Dani08Nicole Před rokem +2

    Omg!!! Literally our messages look the exact same as yours! I can send you photos!

  • @JoanafMoreira
    @JoanafMoreira Před rokem +3

    It happend today with me. 😂😂😂
    I came to see if was true and i was righr! Its a scam! 😂

  • @4evertubeyou2
    @4evertubeyou2 Před 8 měsíci +1

    these people are from Nigeria

  • @sundaypavlidou5022
    @sundaypavlidou5022 Před 2 lety +8

    Mine was american who could barely speak english.. all of them are sad and lonely lmao

  • @poopymeatballs1725
    @poopymeatballs1725 Před 2 lety +3

    Same EXACT thing happend to me. Even the exact same message.

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 2 lety

      They must just copy + paste that message in mass to eventually try to find someone to scam

  • @CherJeyVlogs
    @CherJeyVlogs Před 2 lety +3

    i am also havingbthis situation now. he gonna send me 2000$ but i need to pay 20$ for the processing fee. hahaa

  • @Dani08Nicole
    @Dani08Nicole Před rokem +1

    Omg! I’m literally communicating with someone right now who sent me the same message I am going through your video and he literally told me the same thing he’s from the United States and works in Germany and told me the same sob story he told you. And sent me the same rules I have photos of it

  • @menarussell
    @menarussell Před rokem

    Steven Linden says he's black, lives in Germany. He has medium color, not dark, looks average build. I don't know his life details yet.
    But I don't have telegram yet. So, I came looking on YT for info on people scamming through telegram.

  • @aliciaserrett4633
    @aliciaserrett4633 Před 2 lety +2

    Omg I think I am being scam by the same person right now..the story is some what similar

  • @lucymeagher1234
    @lucymeagher1234 Před 2 lety +2

    ben donald is texting me now

  • @ninamasowska8256
    @ninamasowska8256 Před 11 měsíci +1

    the one i message also said about being from america but currently in german and also about metal something agshhshsh

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 11 měsíci

      You’d think they’d change their story a bit but nope this sounds wayyy to similar to the story I got 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @PuReXtremeGaming
    @PuReXtremeGaming Před rokem +1

    HAHAH i cant blieve it was the metals, i had t he same guy i was told heavy metals work he works in, and im in melbourne too. im a dude but was posing as a girl just for this scam

  • @juliawieringa2869
    @juliawieringa2869 Před rokem +2

    Omg the sugar daddy that contact me was on instagram. And he told me the same story about his wife. After that he wanted to pay me trough PayPal and told me I had to purchase the transfer because he can only pay me in USD and im from the Netherlands so I had to pay 100 euro's to get his money. after that I told him I was about to klick on the link in the email and he was telling me I was so smart and stuff like that. And then I told him I knew he was a scam and blocked him on instagram.

  • @gdgd8914
    @gdgd8914 Před rokem +2

    I want a sugar daddy 😭😭

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před rokem +4

      That would be nice right - be paid for existing lol

  • @tyrelljackson2257
    @tyrelljackson2257 Před 2 lety +2

    Get to the point, 3 mins in and I am out.

  • @NeoMoses
    @NeoMoses Před rokem

    You should probably stop doing sugar baby stuff, if it’s getting risky, just stop for the best. Not worth it Idk why you ladies think this is a good way to go.

  • @miraahmed4296
    @miraahmed4296 Před 2 lety +2

    One of them is texting me right now 😂

  • @karpocheung
    @karpocheung Před 2 lety +1

    Thank u post this video

  • @takaiaelikana8440
    @takaiaelikana8440 Před rokem

    Does anyone have photos of him?
    What name did he give you?

  • @shantellebrown9677
    @shantellebrown9677 Před rokem +1

    Omg dead azzz I got someone in my dms now

  • @audrey-maudecouture9784

    what's the name of the guy?

  • @Comedy-py7it
    @Comedy-py7it Před 6 měsíci

    I got scammed lost 300$

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 4 měsíci

      Aw I’m so sorry to hear this :(

    • @Comedy-py7it
      @Comedy-py7it Před 4 měsíci

      @@EliseHewlett thankyou for this video, I have knowledge

  • @Mrmakesclips
    @Mrmakesclips Před rokem

    Can they track you

  • @pacoramon9468
    @pacoramon9468 Před 7 měsíci

    Is surely prople that deserve to be scammed.

  • @ka1133
    @ka1133 Před 5 měsíci

    Personally, I think you are extremely naïve to even talk to these people. You’re placing yourself in a very vulnerable position. You’re paying an adult game with a childish mentality. Perhaps you should be talking to a trusted adult and get some advice. You do not talk or encourage these type of people. Time for this young girl to grow up and become an adult before you get yourself in trouble and get hurt.

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 4 měsíci

      I find this comment so odd. I’m curious how you think that I am placing myself in a vulnerable position? I’m not giving out any information about myself. I have a healthy skepticism and haven’t been scammed so far. Thank you for your concern though I guess.

  • @christiinarosee
    @christiinarosee Před rokem

    I’ve been scammed so many times

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před rokem +1

      Aww no sorry to hear that 😢 hopefully after watching this you have some pointers of what to suspect

    • @christiinarosee
      @christiinarosee Před rokem +1

      @@EliseHewlett it’s okay I’ve officially learned my lessons

  • @lhandlott
    @lhandlott Před rokem

    Hello

  • @menarussell
    @menarussell Před rokem +2

    Steven Linden is trying to get me to get on telegram to just have nice conversations with him for $3 k every weekend.
    Of course I don't have telegram yet. So, I'm here because I know it likely a scam.

  • @kuuipo823
    @kuuipo823 Před rokem

    So I am a little new to the sugar baby life kind of.??? I've always thought about doing that. But at the same time, I didn't know how to go about it. And count to look for Sugar. Daddy so I kinda just left that thought behind and I am married and have a lovely husband and just recently I gotta Instagram message from a guy who pretty much said " Hey, you're so beautiful I want you to be my sugar baby, All I want to have is conversations with you and weekend. Talk about your weekly allowance and everything." Of course, I wasn't trigged and at the same time, I figured it was a bot but then again I've never, ever gotten these messages before. I talk to them, they seemed real. I asked why just the conversations. And they pretty much explained that they were very lonely. And they just needed somebody to talk to. And that they were in a very dark place, Again seemed real. I figured you know why don't I Be completely honest with this person, [like I fucking thought maybe if I'm honest and nice they won't scam or hurt me in anyway 🙄] Am I vocalized hey i'm gonna be pretty honest with you, I'm just honestly looking for a friends. And just people to talk to. Because I, Although, have a husband, I don't necessarily have any friends and I kinda just wanna have somebody to talk to as well money or no money, Because honestly, it was the truth. I don't have any friends and i'm kinda just desperate to make friends I guess. And the first few weeks we didn't talk about money. We didn't talk about allowance or nothing like that. We were just having like regular friendly conversations. Until I was getting really curious about the money. Like how are they going to send it to me if I actually did Want it. Which low key, I did want the money but II just didn't know how it worked at all. And we started talking about it, and he told me that he doesn't use cash, app, or venmo or PayPal. Anything like that anymore, because apparently somebody's still like a 150000 from them. And he has no idea who took it or where it was Stolen from the last time he had a sugar baby, I guess. And I was like oh okay? And I told him that I wasn't comfortable doing transactions through. You know my personal stuff. I just don't do that. And he didn't wanna do that either. So I was just basically talking to him about my situation. My financial situation anyway.. And I do work but my job has cut my hours. And they haven't scheduled me in the last 3 months. But I am still on payroll.. But I have no money I'm completely broke, Have a lot of bills and debt to pay. So I completely have no money whatsoever. And he even felt bad that the one time I told him. I didn't eat anything for mostly a day. Because there wasn't really anything to eat. And I mean, nothing to eat. I'm pretty much just drink a lot of water and just went to bed. He started to feel bad and that he wanted to send me money. But I said he didn't have to do that. I'd be okay, I'll probably go back to work soon. And he wouldn't have to send me money at all. But he insisted because he didn't like seeing me. Or at least hearing the way. I'm living my life at this point. And again, I was curious so I said OK. Sure, but how are you going to send it to me? If you know, I don't want to give you my personal info on everything. And he said that I didn't have to do that, That we didn't need to do that. And he brought up that I needed a download an app called coin base. Because apparently this person does cryptocurrency. And I am familiar with that. My husband used to do that a long time ago. But he couldn't wrank up that much money. Like how I guess every other person Does cryptocurrency, Like the most he made was like, 2000 that was it. And this guy shows me screenshots of his cryptocurrency, and he has, like, over 2 million In his account. They only think he said was that he needed me to create an account To where he can also log in too. That's kind of where it got a little bit skeptical for me, And at the same time, he's telling me that I need $10 NOT TO SEND TO HIM But to have a certain amount to make transaction like that. Apparently and I asked my husband about this. And he didn't say yes, but he didn't say no either. Like he was like indecisive about that but when This guy mentioned that he needed me to create an account to where he can also log in too To leave money there that was kind of like odd, But he did have trust issues and clearly. I have trust issues. But, yeah, everything seemed fine until he said that. And now I don't know how to feel about it and he Ask how I'm doing and how I have been eating. Which I really haven't because you know financial problems. I have no idea this is a scam or not, Because he doesn't wanna use Cash App. He doesn't wanna use any of those PayPal venmo apps. And he doesn't wanna use my personal infos in my bank account. And all that to keep my personal things confidential to me. But also tells me that I need to create a coin basic account And make it to where he can also log into it too. To leave money there, I guess.... i dont know,somebody help me with this.

    • @user-kq3vw1pm9v
      @user-kq3vw1pm9v Před rokem

      Stay by your husband sugardadsy ain't shit

    • @cavaliercadaver5556
      @cavaliercadaver5556 Před 11 měsíci +4

      It sounds like a scam. He is trying to get you to use the website because it is not safe the way PayPal is. He is trying to manipulate you because he sees you are in a tough financial situation, which is why he’s asking you about eating and stuff so that it gives the illusion he cares about you when really he just wants your money.

    • @EliseHewlett
      @EliseHewlett  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yeah sorry gal, this sounds like a scam 😔😔

  • @vasilenatimofeeva2418
    @vasilenatimofeeva2418 Před rokem +1

    LOL I just had the exact same situation happened to me. EVEN THE MESSAGES WERE THE SAME..
    And the rules 😂😂😂
    Bro the chat is the same 😂😂🥲🔫

  • @Inventibility
    @Inventibility Před rokem

    He wanted me to send 100 bitcoin 💀 that is 2 million dollars

  • @amirasalvatore9490
    @amirasalvatore9490 Před 2 lety

    Michealrobeertaa is one to watch out for girls

  • @martinakraus_
    @martinakraus_ Před 2 lety +1

    Girls please, watch out for @marcpaul_5678 ❤️ he's "from Alabama on a business trip in UK" and even tho I told him I have a sugar daddy already, just to see his reaction, he wanted the money from.me first for some kind of a card - as if 🙄 he's also a "construction engineer", how convenient

  • @desiyree7373
    @desiyree7373 Před rokem +2

    Exactly this happened to me. I was SO tempted, to be honest. I am glad I found this video 🫶🏻