INI-SPOIL NA NG TODO NI ATE SI BF PERO SA TULFO PA RIN NAGWAKAS ANG LOVE STORY NILA!

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  • MAHALAGANG PAALALA:
    Muli po naming pinapaalala na hanggang ngayon ay SARADO PA RIN PO ANG AMING ACTION CENTER sa TV5 Media Center, Reliance Street, Mandaluyong City.
    Hindi pa rin po maaaring pumunta nang personal ang mga complainant para magreklamo kay Idol Raffy dahil sa ating kinahaharap na pandemya at mahigpit pa ring ipinapatupad ang mga safety measures upang maging ligtas ang lahat.
    Gayunpaman, puwede ninyong i-PM ang inyong mga sumbong sa OFFICIAL Facebook page ni Idol na RAFFY TULFO IN ACTION na may mahigit 11M followers. Nakahanda pong tumugon sa inyo ang RTIA researchers.
    Maraming salamat sa inyong pag-unawa at mag-ingat po tayong lahat!

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  • @kanogomez6902
    @kanogomez6902 Před 3 lety +146

    Sir Raffy: Bago ka maawa sa iba, maawa ka muna sa sarili mo
    Very well said sir 👏👏

  • @AralingPilipino
    @AralingPilipino Před 3 lety +161

    Pag nagpakita ng violence at abuse, goodbye na agad. Kailangan mas mahal natin ang sarili natin. Tayo ang nagtuturo sa ibang tao paano tayo tratuhin.

    • @shopmaxxperez7372
      @shopmaxxperez7372 Před 3 lety +3

      Hindi niyo alam napag daanan ni ate. Baka minahal lang talaga niya ung lalaki and umaasa siyang mag bago pa. Tiniis niya lahat, pero ang di niya natiis ay yung pananakit.

    • @gardeninginohio8252
      @gardeninginohio8252 Před 3 lety +2

      Tama po lalot hindi nagbabago ang karamihan sa mga ganyan. BF palang naman hindi asawa na may mga anak na kailangan tiisin hanggat makakaya para hindi masira ang pamilya. She’s beautiful. She definitely deserves someone better!

    • @filjenvlogs1334
      @filjenvlogs1334 Před 3 lety +1

      True

    • @RandomVids6892
      @RandomVids6892 Před 3 lety +4

      Wrong belief ng nga babae na hahanap ng lalaki na pagbabaguhin nila, napaka rare ng ganun na chance. Kung ano na sya ngayon siya na yan bat pa hihintayin mo na ganyanin ka

    • @dodji582
      @dodji582 Před 3 lety

      @@RandomVids6892 100% Agree 👍

  • @loriejoyllamas9113
    @loriejoyllamas9113 Před 3 lety +10

    Share ko lang rin about my ex. Ako po nag sustenso sa kanya during the time ng pag apply nya sa PNP nagbibigay rin ako ng allowance .during nasa loob na sya ng training nagbibigay pa rin ako. Pero pag labas nya sa training center may iba na syang pinakilala sa pamilya nya! 6 months din kami noon. Grabi pinagdaanan ko .thanks God naka recover din ako after 2 yrs!

  • @lourdesitona9660
    @lourdesitona9660 Před 3 lety +106

    Sometimes God removed a person from our life to make us happy.

    • @rowenamanalac6313
      @rowenamanalac6313 Před 3 lety +1

      Oo nga pero para nasuway ko si god na remove nya pero binalik ko pa.. Ayun sisi much!!!

    • @pinayinhawaii5572
      @pinayinhawaii5572 Před 3 lety +1

      @@rowenamanalac6313 katangahan mo yon hindi ginawa ni God yon

    • @rogelioseptimo2810
      @rogelioseptimo2810 Před 3 lety

      @@pinayinhawaii5572 pls see

  • @mariareginaibeng6707
    @mariareginaibeng6707 Před 3 lety +37

    yung sasabihin ni idol na.."The problem is in you...mam bago ka maawa ka sa knya..maawa ka sa sarili mo at wala kng respeto sa sarili mo"..love you idol...

  • @Choc0Wafer
    @Choc0Wafer Před 3 lety +365

    "You deserve what you tolerate"
    -ellen adarna.

    • @shopmaxxperez7372
      @shopmaxxperez7372 Před 3 lety +24

      Hindi niyo alam napag daanan ni ate. Baka minahal lang talaga niya ung lalaki and umaasa siyang mag bago pa. Tiniis niya lahat, pero ang di niya natiis ay yung pananakit.

    • @ellaejnal9729
      @ellaejnal9729 Před 3 lety +1

      @AUDIO MAN Well said!

    • @unicemillan8230
      @unicemillan8230 Před 3 lety

      True!

    • @robertogo5713
      @robertogo5713 Před 3 lety +3

      @AUDIO MAN definitely correct stupidity came in to herlufe nothing esle.

    • @miamorales8036
      @miamorales8036 Před 3 lety +12

      yes she tolerate it because she loved the person but no one deserved to be hit by a bat experience physical and verbal abuse so stop staying that she deserves it, we dont know what the whole story is ikaw kaya hampasin ng baseball bat at mura murahin!

  • @patriot1817
    @patriot1817 Před 3 lety +33

    When you love someone more than yourself, you tend to tolerate them. The problem is, madali kang mapaikot ate, konting drama lang ng x jowa mo, lumalambot ka agad. Stand firm, and move on. Wag marupok!

    • @ednaulalan5771
      @ednaulalan5771 Před 3 lety

      Hayaan muna girl magdusa ka...style nman nito konti hipo lang yan...patawarin m din yan pustahan..

    • @LifeofLove11
      @LifeofLove11 Před 3 lety

      Wag marupok ate, wag kang gumaya sakin!!! Hehehehe

  • @bebasinep6023
    @bebasinep6023 Před 3 lety +7

    Bago ka maawa sa iba maawa ka muna sa sarili..
    Thats very well said sir raffy

  • @robilynarenas8006
    @robilynarenas8006 Před 3 lety +170

    “Bago ka maawa sa iba, maawa ka muna sa sarili mo”
    -Idol Raffy

  • @jn8716
    @jn8716 Před 3 lety +334

    Some here would say ate is “tanga” or she has a choice and what not, but wait till u get into a toxic relationship and a manipulative monster.. yeah, we are descerning beings, but when ur in the situation u become unstable and vulnerable.. u doubt urself and ur confdence is dragged... maswerte na yung mga nauntog at nag ka lakas ng loob umalis sa relasyon.. those who we’re bashing ate.. try reading and understand the battered wife syndrome..mybe it can help instead of blabbering 😘

  • @msprettykawaii950
    @msprettykawaii950 Před 2 lety +12

    Girls Reminder: Men should protect and provide. Thats their natural intuition kung mahal nila babae! Mayaman o mahirap! Wag na kau gumaya sa dami ng babae na provider sa lalaki na napupunta sa Tulfo! Men are not attracted to martyrs, its not sexy to them. They are attracted and chase confident women who has a high self respect to herself

  • @lovelylotto8757
    @lovelylotto8757 Před 3 lety +11

    Sir Raffy Tulfo, malaking tulong ka talaga sa sambayang pilipino, mabuhay ka po.

  • @sheenadano6203
    @sheenadano6203 Před 3 lety +120

    This will be the first time that I will post a comment. I hope people would stop victim blaming. It is very hard to get out from an abusive relationship, specially from a manipulative person. The girl is trying her best to get out, she is seeking help but people just keeps on blaming her, as if hindi kayo naging tanga din. It is scientifically proven that when a person is inlove the prefrontal cortex (which is responsible for decision making) is depressed, so it is really true that nakakatanga talaga ang pag ibig. So please stop blaming her.

    • @AlyMeh
      @AlyMeh Před 3 lety +5

      Exactly!! Shes trying her best to get out but they'll point out how stupid she is. Like you don't knew the feeling. Thats sad.

    • @catherinevalderrosa5723
      @catherinevalderrosa5723 Před 3 lety +2

      Psych knows.

    • @iknowyoucanhearme6483
      @iknowyoucanhearme6483 Před 3 lety +4

      Kaya nga. Kino-quote pa si Ellen. Ika nga, "you'll never know until it happens to you."

    • @dhinsalvacion7677
      @dhinsalvacion7677 Před 3 lety +6

      Well said. Ngmahal sya at d nman sya ngpakatanga ng tuluyan kc kinasuhan at pinatulfo nya. Sana rin pinapatapos khit papano ung kwento nya kc way of releasing nya un ng pngdaanan nya. Mejo disappointing ung slight victim blaming ni sir raffy s knya.

    • @xtina5castro782
      @xtina5castro782 Před 3 lety

      If she tolerated this behaviour for too long. Then nasa babae yun kung papanindigan nya yung pag iwas o kalas na nya sa toxic relationship na yan. Dahil malaki possibility na tatanggapin nya ulit at patawarin yan. Bale wala lang reklamo nya in public on national tv against sa bf nya. Kaya minsan dapat hindi na binibigyan ng chance na iere pa ang mga complaints nato. Kasuhan n lng nya in private. Marami nko nakitang ganyang sitwasyon mas malala pa dyan pero hindi pa rin maiwan nung babae.

  • @ricosecuelan4220
    @ricosecuelan4220 Před 3 lety +23

    MAHAL NA MAHAL KO ANG AKING KASINTAHAN NA BABAE LAHAT BINIBIGAY KO ALAHAS ,PERA IMVESTMENT KAHIT WLAA NA AKONG PERANG NATIRA BASTA MAY MAIBIGAY LANG AKO SA AKING KASINTAHAN AT NEVER AKONG NANGHINGI SA AKING MINAMAHAL AND IM PROUD WE ARE 4YEARS NOW IN A RELATIONSHIP AT MAHAL NA MAHAL NAMIN ANG ISAT ISA❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chatfria8503
    @chatfria8503 Před 3 lety +9

    Minsan kailangan muna mangyari sa atin bgo tyo natutoto,, Experience is the best teacher.

  • @sexy_bhabes7637
    @sexy_bhabes7637 Před 2 lety +5

    Pag sinaktan ka sa una wag monang hayaan saktan ka ulit sa pangalawa ..kasi ibig sabihin niyan wala na siyang "RESPETO" at "PAGMAMAHAL" sayO

  • @fannyalexander5906
    @fannyalexander5906 Před 3 lety +19

    In the end, swerte kapa din girl kasi in 6 months nakita mo na gano kabalasubas yang kinakasama mo. E yung iba nga 15 years ng kasal dun palang lalabas yang ganyang ugali. Have SELF RESPECT. Mukhang mapag mahal, maalaga and may diskarte ka naman sa buhay, you can have a man who’s the same.

    • @racmahmacuddagalangit3300
      @racmahmacuddagalangit3300 Před 3 lety

      Syempre kung 15years means mahal kapa nun kaya nga pinakasalan diba yan di gaano minahal ni lalake kasi maaga na pinakita ni lalake ang tunay ang kulay niya.

  • @edogawaconan8930
    @edogawaconan8930 Před 3 lety +336

    Once: Accident
    Twice: Letting it Happen
    Trice or More: KATANGAHAN!!!

  • @kilseyv.asuncion8284
    @kilseyv.asuncion8284 Před 2 lety +10

    "the problem is in you" I understand your point sir. But do not blame her for acting like that. Nagmahal lang siya, pumunta siya doon kasi concern lang siya sa tao without knowing na gnun pala gagawin ng ex niya. BLAME THE GUY WHO IS MANIPULATIVE AND DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO TREAT A LADY RIGHT.

    • @thirdgeronimo8409
      @thirdgeronimo8409 Před 2 lety

      Tama rin naman..spoiler.. pag ganyan pwede mangyari..

    • @thirdgeronimo8409
      @thirdgeronimo8409 Před 2 lety

      Ginigising lang ni sir raffy yung sotwasyon nila..toxic relatio ship..marami red flag..

    • @downup-fx7wr
      @downup-fx7wr Před 2 lety

      Wrong, the problem INDEED is in her. unang una, totoo yung sinasavi na " what you tolerate is what you deserve". pangalawa, we know nagmahal sya. pero there's this thing called "pag mamahal sa sarili"and "self worth". Ate i understand na dapat nangingibabaw ang humility and mercy almost everytime, but sometimes we need to show our iron fist. na hindi sa lahat ng oras ganon. we sometimes need to be ruthless.

    • @claudettedinglasan502
      @claudettedinglasan502 Před 2 lety

      Naaapreciate ko ung payo ni sir raffy. Kasi totoo ung ainabi niya. Dapat talaga magising sit ate.

  • @alphagraxia8713
    @alphagraxia8713 Před 3 lety +22

    Wag mainlove ngayong quarantine. Bored lang mga tao! Juskoo.

  • @maria-jm5xj
    @maria-jm5xj Před 3 lety +23

    Totoo! Lhat lhat ng sinasabi ni Idol pag ang lalaki mahal ka o me respeto sau, magkamatayan na miski piso hindi yan tatanggap sau. ❤

  • @katherinesomera1425
    @katherinesomera1425 Před 3 lety +61

    I think nasa tao naman yun. We were like that before. My boyfriend is struggling financially kaya everytime na lalabas kami pinapahawak ko wallet ko sa kanya just to make him feel at ease. Ngayon nung nagkawork sya onboard, pinapahawak na nya sakin pera nya kahit dipa kami kasal and wala pa kaming baby. We just got engaged btw. Kaya I can say na nasa tao parin po yun. 🖤

    • @shiva6478
      @shiva6478 Před 3 lety +3

      Totally agree with, same din sa hubby ko, now ako na my hawas lahat ng pera nya, nghihingi nalang sya pang allowance nya. Btw, I also have work and I earn more than him pero its never a problem kasi we see our income as combined and I handle all the budget sa bahay kasi his always away. Yung nakukuha nya is clean for him na.

    • @ariesrobdiamond1794
      @ariesrobdiamond1794 Před 3 lety +5

      Clearly Narcissistic yung lalake. Hindi ako psychologist pero ang dami ko nang napanood na doctors and therapists explaining the signs. Even those people who experienced these kind of relationship.

    • @pinkyquizon5782
      @pinkyquizon5782 Před 3 lety

      @@shiva6478 àaaàaaaa

    • @majreva8467
      @majreva8467 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ariesrobdiamond1794 Mukhang ganun nga, enabler pa yung partner.

    • @christinemagdurulan281
      @christinemagdurulan281 Před 3 lety +1

      Tambay n kuripot🤣🤣🤣lols

  • @norabartolome5048
    @norabartolome5048 Před 3 lety +16

    Sir ganda gabi po hinge po ako tulog para po mga akin bayaw at 2 po nyang anak ikinulong po cla wala pong mlpitan mag.aama ndi po tuloy nkakapasok sa online school pmangkin ko at yong isa po aanak po ngaun oct asawa po niya at yong bayaw ko po mayhi.blood po sna po sir mabasa po ninyo etong messege ko po pra sainyo ndi ko po kc ntandaan number po ninyo sir prang awa na po ninyo salamat po ng marami god bless po nkulong po umawat lng po mga pmangkin ko ipinakulong po ng sariling tiyuhin slmat po

  • @jhalenemundin7775
    @jhalenemundin7775 Před 2 lety +41

    This is a clear case of domestic abuse and for raffy tulfo to victim blame the woman saying ikaw kasi hinahayaan mo is unacceptable. When you’re in a situation like that minsan hindi mo na yun nakikita. It’s like saying kaya narape ang isang babae dahil nagsuot sha ng sexy na damit. Kaya madaming victims na ayaw lumantad dahil sa mga ganyang statement. They did not ask for it.

    • @ianmaem
      @ianmaem Před 2 lety +7

      Hindi naman s victim blaming. Yes it is a psychological factor. But you have to understand it takes a lot of mindful willpower to say NO sa isang abusive relationship. And the reason why it is an endless cycle of abuse is because they never say NO and mean it. Hindi kasalanan ng biktima na inaabuso xa, pero hanggat hindi xa magkakaroon ng firm boundaries ay uulit lng din to. Na gets ko din side ni Sir Raffy.

    • @ryujinmiatand770
      @ryujinmiatand770 Před 2 lety +1

      Sa lahat naman ng bagay… nangyayari kasi hinayaan natin. Same thing goes with this. Ina acid test lang ni Raffy para Hinde mag aksaya ng panahon.

    • @maameh2041
      @maameh2041 Před 2 lety

      I dont see it as victim Blaming! REALITY LANG NA USAPAN! pra malaman rin ng babae yung kamalian nya. Kesa nmn E baby mo kung mali nmn tlga.

    • @kriselleamlagphotography9628
      @kriselleamlagphotography9628 Před 2 lety +1

      Teach a person to respect not to shame a person for being disrespected.

    • @jhalenemundin7775
      @jhalenemundin7775 Před 2 lety +1

      @@maameh2041 and that’s why lumapit sha kay rafy tulfo para humingi ng tulong because she realized she’s being abused and manipulated. But instead she was blamed for what happened to her. Narealize na nia sa sarili nia na mali yung ginagawa sa kanya kaya humingi ng tulong sa taong sa tingin nia makakatulong sa kanya. Madalas yan magfofall back talaga sila sa kinasanayan na which is bumalik sa lalaki and that’s why they need support more than ever hindi yung iblame pa sila lalo.

  • @queenbdoesntcare5585
    @queenbdoesntcare5585 Před 3 lety +72

    Domestic violence is real. A lot of people don’t understand how hard it is to get away from a narcissistic, manipulative and controlling person. Di na ko magtataka kung ang ending etong si lalake may ginagawang iligal.

    • @jmm.654
      @jmm.654 Před 3 lety +4

      Stockholm syndrome is real.

    • @queenbdoesntcare5585
      @queenbdoesntcare5585 Před 3 lety +12

      @@jmm.654 yes. For those that are fortunate enough not to have to go through something like this, they won’t understand. I’m speaking from personal experience. It took years for me to pack my things up, drag my kids out of the bed and leave. Since then I never looked back.

    • @elsamaike5027
      @elsamaike5027 Před 3 lety +3

      Tama po.tamang Tama g po kyo.

    • @shopmaxxperez7372
      @shopmaxxperez7372 Před 3 lety +5

      totoo. yung iba dalinh mag sabi ng tanga, di naman alam buong storya nila.

    • @artmi6097
      @artmi6097 Před 3 lety +4

      True. Mema na lang kasi ibang comment dito eh nagmamagaling

  • @rebeccasalazar1019
    @rebeccasalazar1019 Před 3 lety +40

    Sheree, I want to introduce you to my son. 😊

  • @user-hq8pg3ph3t
    @user-hq8pg3ph3t Před 3 lety +1

    Gayahin mo si SIR RAFFY lahat ng sweldo nya sa CZcams pinantutulong sa mga mahihirap at mga naaapi sa buong pilipinas. MABUHAY PO SIR RAFFY TULFO. GOD BLESS and KEEP ON HEALTHY PARA MORE POWER PO SA PAGTULONG.
    🙏 AMEN

  • @tabukbunny
    @tabukbunny Před 3 lety +4

    Tama ka diyan Sir Raffy. Pag binastos ka ng harapan kahit may ibang tao kapag hindi mo nabigay ang gusto. Hindi totoo ang pagmamahal ng ganyang lalaki.

  • @ranceguan9158
    @ranceguan9158 Před 3 lety +14

    People will say na “buti nga sayo” or “walang kwenta itong video na ito”. But this is also a lesson for all the ladies out there. Let’s respect ourselves. Don’t find a boy who will take care of you. You should know how to take care of yourself. Don’t depend on someone’s love.

  • @janey2562
    @janey2562 Před 3 lety +24

    Sana narinig ko na itong red flags many years ago kay Tulfo, hindi sana ako nabiktima. Recalling the past, naawa ako sa sarili ko. So true ang sinabi ni idol Raffy.

    • @angelvicente943
      @angelvicente943 Před 3 lety

      Ok lng po Yan..lahat Naman Tau may pinagdaanan pero at least matuto Tau or natuto narin.ako nga recently lng nangyari trying to move on parin.

    • @rowenamanalac6313
      @rowenamanalac6313 Před 3 lety

      Oo nga sana narinig ko to dati.. Tsk..

  • @melaniemarquez6840
    @melaniemarquez6840 Před 2 lety +5

    No! The problem is not with her. She just love that person. Partially cguro, to be blamed siya. Pero wag naman victim blaming. Lagi mo sinasabi yan sir raffy

  • @Katrinabuttles827
    @Katrinabuttles827 Před 3 lety +12

    Sir raffy ang dami ko naranasan na ganito sa mga lalaking PINOY utang,pabili ng sapatos,naiwan ko yung wallet ko, painum ka naman,kain tayo, pa-gas natin kotse ko,Tara punta tayo sa casino,check-in tayo(tapos ako taga bayad),almusal,tanghalian,hapunan etc. Ang dami ko bad experience kaya nakakadala daming lalaki sa Pilipinas na walang trabaho puro porma lang alam butas naman ang bulsa.

  • @madisoncooper3942
    @madisoncooper3942 Před 3 lety +61

    #1. YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU TOLERATE-ELLEN ADARNA, 2020
    #2. BAGO KA MAAWA SA IBA, MAAWA KA SA SARILI MO.-Sir Raffy, 2020
    THIS IS ALREADY A WAKE UP CALL TO US WOMAN KASI IF EVER MAGING VIOLENT YUNG RELATIONSHIP, YOU NEED TO KNOW WHEN TO STOP THE RELATIONSHIP. ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️WAG TAYONG MAGPADALA SA KA GWAPOHAN SA LALAKI. 💯

    • @theresadoumanian2064
      @theresadoumanian2064 Před 3 lety +1

      Kramihan s gwapo dehin goli

    • @ruelquintillan7620
      @ruelquintillan7620 Před 3 lety +1

      @@theresadoumanian2064 tlga 220 dehins goli...wew kaya pla amoy timawa.. 😂😂😂🙇

    • @adelaenvase8287
      @adelaenvase8287 Před 3 lety

      lintek na lalaki yan ''palamunin'' wlanmang bnibgay na pera hayup...

    • @alexilaiho8534
      @alexilaiho8534 Před 3 lety

      saan sinabi ni Ellen yan?

    • @shopmaxxperez7372
      @shopmaxxperez7372 Před 3 lety

      Hindi niyo alam napag daanan ni ate. Baka minahal lang talaga niya ung lalaki and umaasa siyang mag bago pa. Tiniis niya lahat, pero ang di niya natiis ay yung pananakit.

  • @ramlasabiobalik-islam4255
    @ramlasabiobalik-islam4255 Před 3 lety +120

    Lesson learn
    : GAMITIN ANG UTAK HINDI ANG KATANGAHAN
    SAPUL

    • @velmcajeras3740
      @velmcajeras3740 Před 3 lety +3

      Agree sa panahon ngaun kahit kapatid nga mang scam pa hahahaha gaya ng kapatid q kaka bigay q lang ng 4k hinge na naman

  • @valacebedo
    @valacebedo Před 2 lety +10

    The moment na minura ka ng karelasyon mo, that's a tip off, get out of the relationship right away. Learn to respect yourself madam..let go of the people that weigh you down.

  • @juliebugtong7038
    @juliebugtong7038 Před 3 lety +5

    Naku!tama po kayo sa sinabi ninyo sir idol raffy, God Bless You po.

  • @jonalynbasan5955
    @jonalynbasan5955 Před 3 lety +25

    Mas masakit ang verbal abuse kesa sa physical. Mas tagos sa buto at puso ung mga masasakit na salita

    • @mariaevangelista8904
      @mariaevangelista8904 Před 3 lety

      Sobra.

    • @hahaha-.-
      @hahaha-.- Před 3 lety +1

      Usually if theres physical abuse, may verbal abuse. Ang mahirap sa verbal abuse ay mahirap kasuhan ang nanamantala even with a psychiatric assessment (matagal na proseso to gather evidence). Unless mahilig sumigaw si abuser at nagdulot ng hearing impairment then naging physical abuse na. Pero may paraan. Make sure you keep a secure diary even if drained na kayo at the end of a day. There are means like a recorder on your smartphone where you can speak to. Emailing to a trusted friend (an email where at least one trusted person ay may access to) para may backup yung diary mo. Alam kong anghirap magsulat or magkuwento about the abuse but if you are choosing to stay in there, make every pain count, make sure you can hold that person accountable pag nagsawa ka na. Also it will ease some of the weight off your shoulder if you know you have evidence stored somewhere safe. It also helps to keep you grounded and feel secure against brainwashing hopefully. At least if d mo maanino now na nasa kulungan ang "mahal" mo then at least may backup ka for yourself if you choose your ownself in the future.

    • @LALOVEme
      @LALOVEme Před 3 lety

      true ateh...

    • @LALOVEme
      @LALOVEme Před 3 lety

      @@hahaha-.- tama

  • @icecastle1941
    @icecastle1941 Před 3 lety +3

    yung ibang nagcocomment siguro never pa naging involve sa isang toxic relationship kaya hindi nila alam kung gaano kahirap magleave or magbreak free sa toxicity ng relationship na yun. Madali lang magcomment pero yung maramdaman yung nararamdaman nila hindi.

  • @angel_0214
    @angel_0214 Před 3 lety +1

    Ang sakit. Nakarelate ako. Minsan din ako nagpakatanga pero grabe pa din naranasan ni ate. Sinaktan pa sya. Ms Maria Angelina stay strong po.

  • @mperez63
    @mperez63 Před 3 lety +3

    Madam maria. God Bless and stay strong! Dapat makulong siya! Para matauhan!

  • @mjdavid8727
    @mjdavid8727 Před 3 lety +18

    "Bago ka maawa sa iba, maawa ka muna sa sarili mo." 🤧

  • @swed1shmuse
    @swed1shmuse Před 3 lety +44

    "What you allow is what will continue." 🤦 I hope you find healing girl. There's a reason why our brain is way above our heart.

  • @camryl13
    @camryl13 Před 3 lety +12

    It happened to me what happened to her. It took me 2 years to get out of that abusive relationship. They are so good at manipulating you. And when you are young and naive, di mo makikita, and they will always have that line kung mahal mo ako you would do this. Hinohostage nila palagi yung pagmamahal. Looking back napapailing na lang ako sa katangahan ko but it made me wiser and smarter in choosing a partner, I always look for a red flag. Love is powerful ikanga pero yung iba they are using it to take advantage of you.

  • @jayrvlogs2133
    @jayrvlogs2133 Před 3 lety +8

    Ganyan mahilig sa guapo kahit walang trabaho okay lng

  • @laizmalalay9465
    @laizmalalay9465 Před 3 lety +84

    may kasabihan nga “u deserve what you tolerate”

  • @kayrenann7037
    @kayrenann7037 Před 3 lety +11

    Naranasan ko po ito. I understand what she felt kaya pinuntahan si ex kasi nga she loves the boy. Kailangan lang maubos ng maubos at mauntog yung babae at makita yung worth nya then dun na sya mag llet go.
    You deserve better sis.

  • @lowkey.piece14
    @lowkey.piece14 Před 3 lety +14

    mas madami na atang toxic na relasyon ngayon kesa sa maayos

  • @khoz849
    @khoz849 Před 3 lety +78

    Sa kapapanood ko ng Sir Tulfo parang malabo na ako makapag asawa 😁mas malala pa sa covid ang mga lalaking mangloloko😥

  • @PNOYPWR
    @PNOYPWR Před 3 lety +176

    Strike one: Verbal abuse.
    Strike two: Physical abuse.
    Strike three: Chicken feet.
    Time to let go. 👀🙄😳🤔

  • @motomusic2570
    @motomusic2570 Před 3 lety +5

    CONGRATS Sir Raffy Tulfo In Action 16M stronger 💪💪
    Susuportahan po namin kayo sir hanggang dulo 😘😉😍😍we love you sir .make it blue qng sino agree sakin
    👇👇👇

  • @theab.a126
    @theab.a126 Před 2 lety +5

    ive had the same experience aside sa physical abuse kasi hndi ko na pinaabot sa ganung part. very toxic and stressful relationship. bpo din ako and sya tambay din. 6 months lang din kame nakipag break ako kasi sobra nakakasakal. no one deserves that.

  • @fil-am9636
    @fil-am9636 Před 3 lety +2

    This is true sir idol, nabiktima din ako dati ng ganito, pero i learned my lesson

  • @ANGELIEGONGAN
    @ANGELIEGONGAN Před 3 lety +15

    Love yourself you don't deserve a man like him he's not even a man

  • @jmm.654
    @jmm.654 Před 3 lety +89

    “You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop and what you will reinforce.”- Tony Gaskins
    The moment a person disrespect you in any form, verbal, emotional or physical, remove yourself from the equation, because if you don’t, it’s just going to get worst.

  • @ekaypaspe4
    @ekaypaspe4 Před 2 lety +2

    Same situation to me bfore...verbal and physical abuse ung nangyayari sa akin sa tatay ng anak ko...I was pregnant that time at kahit hindi ko gusto ginagawa niya wala akong choice kundi magtiis kasi wala akong ibang kamag.anak sa manila at buntis ako..tiniis ko rin un nga higit isang taon..4mos na anak ko ,nalaman ko may iba pa cxang babae kaya nag decide na talaga ako makipaghiwalay kahit hindi alam saan kukuha ng pamasahe.nag alaga ako ng ibang bata para may pampamasahe pauwing mindanao..akala ko hindi ko kaya nun kasi may baby pero God is good dahil nakauwi kami sa mindanao kahit 20 pesos laman nlng ng wallet ko..hanggang ngayon may trauma at nagkaroon ako ng depression dahil sa mga pangyayaring iton...buti nakayanan ko...8years ago na ,happy at nakayanan kong buhayin anak ko mag isa..
    be strong ate..alam ko hindi kadali ang sabihing mag move on sa ganyan kasi may mga good sides kasi ung ganyang klasing tao na mahirap iwanan..

  • @Littlebit0427
    @Littlebit0427 Před 3 lety +2

    Tama mga advice ni sir raffy.. halata sa babae may feelings p rin sa guy ..

  • @macatherineramos4545
    @macatherineramos4545 Před 3 lety +11

    I just wanna say thank u idol sa mga salita or pangaral na sinasabi mo may napupulot ako.

  • @virgosapphire9772
    @virgosapphire9772 Před 3 lety +20

    Bat pa humantong sa hinatawan ka ng baseball ball bago ka matauhan🤦‍♀️😣. Kahit na sa verbal abuse nya noong una plng dapat nkadecide ka na. Learn to love yourself first.

  • @roseniemarquez8726
    @roseniemarquez8726 Před 3 lety +6

    Mahal pa rin ni ate ang lalaki.. She still care I think

  • @Shortsfilm1123
    @Shortsfilm1123 Před 3 lety +20

    Six month relationship! Only??! Ikaw na nagpakain at pinaparausan, mumurahin at bastusin. She is a willing victim! Why go to tulfo???

    • @pinayinhawaii5572
      @pinayinhawaii5572 Před 3 lety +2

      @Lothlorein UwU your guess is good as she can tolerate.. minsan naiisang tabi ang totoong feeling sa sarap ng tawag ng katawan

  • @090197
    @090197 Před 3 lety +90

    "You deserve what you tolerate"
    - Ellen Adarna, 2020

  • @yrrechpojas2381
    @yrrechpojas2381 Před 3 lety +89

    Korek sir..nakaka TURN OFF UNG MGA LALAKING MAHILIG MANGUTANG SA BABAE🤣🤣🤣

  • @ravsmagallanes8349
    @ravsmagallanes8349 Před 3 lety +7

    Michelle: " Ganito Ganyan"
    Maria: "I'm tired! Ayoko na talaga"

  • @miladevera6073
    @miladevera6073 Před 3 lety +9

    Tamaaa ka sir Raffy lahat ng sinabi mo tamaa ganyan nga ang mga style ng mga mamemerang lalaki d k mahal nyan pahihirapan k lng nyan lalo na sa pera

  • @moodyswordy198
    @moodyswordy198 Před 3 lety +57

    ok lang magmahal, wag lang kalimutang tirhan ang sarili. lalo pagdating sa pera. magipon kna lang para sa sarili mu. pag inaway at iniwan ka niyan dahil lang sa d mu maibigay kapritso niya, legit na gold digger yan.

  • @leynitro9818
    @leynitro9818 Před 3 lety +22

    atty gareth: kung may kaso lang sa panget na date😂🤣...un na lang siguro😂😂😂

  • @johannaperez6045
    @johannaperez6045 Před 2 lety +2

    That's true Mr.Tulfo,that was a very good Advise 👍

  • @Combee08
    @Combee08 Před 3 lety +10

    Scam po yung malaking sahod sa BPO 😅

  • @uneackie5991
    @uneackie5991 Před 3 lety +4

    I experienced when the girl loved you so much, she will take risk, she won't give up to love you , she will fight no matter what happen to her. The LOVE OF A WOMAN IS UNCONDITIONAL. GAGAWIN ANG LAHAT PARA DI LANG MAWASAK ANG ISANG RELASYON. ❤️❤️❤️NAIINTIDIHAN KO ITO SI MAM. YAN ANG ISANG BABAE , DAPAT MAHALIN AT RESPETUHIN 😍

  • @philipanselmomixtv217
    @philipanselmomixtv217 Před 3 lety +59

    Alam na this...ang ending dito...papatawarin din ito ni Madam😂😂😂

    • @esstong8064
      @esstong8064 Před 3 lety +4

      Yep. I have an Aunt like that. She blames herself that twas her fault every time the husband hits her...haisssttt

    • @philipanselmomixtv217
      @philipanselmomixtv217 Před 3 lety

      @@esstong8064 tssskkk....tssskkkk...😭😭😭

    • @claudineveloso3929
      @claudineveloso3929 Před 3 lety +1

      Marupok hahahaha

    • @shopmaxxperez7372
      @shopmaxxperez7372 Před 3 lety +3

      Hindi niyo alam napag daanan ni ate. Baka minahal lang talaga niya ung lalaki and umaasa siyang mag bago pa. Tiniis niya lahat, pero ang di niya natiis ay yung pananakit.

  • @samanthap6107
    @samanthap6107 Před 2 lety +2

    Very well said IDOL raffy...

  • @dianneosena6651
    @dianneosena6651 Před 3 lety +4

    Naki pg hiwalay kana pumunta ka pa sa condo nya🥺🥺🥺🥺tama si sir raffy

  • @fatumiaquino1962
    @fatumiaquino1962 Před 3 lety +19

    Luh mg bf pa lng nmn kau di ba? Hiwalayan mo! Pg ganyan n hindi k nirerespeto ibig sabihin niyan ay hindi ka niya mahal.

  • @scorpiobella1920
    @scorpiobella1920 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank u po Idol Raffy, watching in ur program po is an "eye opener" po to millions of people TO LEARN kasama n po ako dun. But sad truth, daming filipinos n judgemental instead of pakinggan, aralin at unawain un pinapanood. And to Atty. Gareth thank u po ang galing!! simple and payak po lagi un pag explain ng possible case's sa bawat complainant. God bless po s inyong program and also to ur family po. 🙏🏻💕

  • @meekee2055
    @meekee2055 Před 3 lety +20

    “Love is blind and Deaf”
    -truly yours, 2020

  • @josiphinepalatan8601
    @josiphinepalatan8601 Před 3 lety +1

    May natutunan aqoh salamat

  • @arlynsoto203
    @arlynsoto203 Před 3 lety +27

    Ung Husband q since nagkakilala kami hanggang sa naging mag-asawa never sya nag ask ng pera from me kac lagi nya cnasabi sya ang lalaki kaya daw dapat sya ang gagastos 🥰🥰🥰

    • @dakiedakmondejar7794
      @dakiedakmondejar7794 Před 3 lety +5

      My bf also said that to me everytime na lalabas kami pag magbabayd ako NG bills namin di talaga sya papayag na gagastos ako 3 years palang naman kami and I hope di magbago but I always ready for everything ano man mangyari sa relasyon namin...

    • @arlynsoto203
      @arlynsoto203 Před 3 lety +3

      @Melanie Mondejar hoping he is the one and your forever love ❤ good luck to you jurney 😊

    • @edgarmandacmanio2372
      @edgarmandacmanio2372 Před 3 lety +2

      Ako iba naman ang Asawa ko ang gumagastos sa akin. Lahat lahat.. wala akong gastos mabait naman silang lahat sa akin.

    • @FunFacts5005
      @FunFacts5005 Před 3 lety +1

      Ako naman bigay ako ng bigay sa wife ko parang kinukulang pa nya nagrereklamo padin eh wala naman kaming anak para pagka gastosin nya imagine kukulangin pa ang 18k every month

    • @dakiedakmondejar7794
      @dakiedakmondejar7794 Před 3 lety +1

      @@arlynsoto203 thank u 😘

  • @bambiecabato112
    @bambiecabato112 Před 3 lety +53

    Lesson learn:
    Dont let your heart over your head
    Theres a reason why our brain is above our heart; Control din sa Love pg may time; dont let anyone harm you in any ways

    • @livvv2705
      @livvv2705 Před 3 lety

      @Buck Nasty di mo lang naintindihan e. Hahahaha

    • @bhinga6925
      @bhinga6925 Před 3 lety

      @Buck Nasty basahin mo tapos intindihin mo

  • @nancymolina2539
    @nancymolina2539 Před 3 lety +4

    palamura pa more. pili po tayo ng God fearing man❤️

  • @aizatarayao5854
    @aizatarayao5854 Před 3 lety +1

    Thankyou atty. Gareth sa advice..

  • @jahla5006
    @jahla5006 Před 3 lety +76

    Ellen Adarna once said.. "you deserve what you tolerate"

    • @scarlettelee4287
      @scarlettelee4287 Před 3 lety +1

      Teh, who is Ellen Adarna for us to follow what she says?

    • @siaosin173
      @siaosin173 Před 3 lety

      Ellen Adarna is in the book who sing and the king is healed.

    • @scarlettelee4287
      @scarlettelee4287 Před 3 lety

      @@siaosin173 Haha I get that u joked. But I don't think we have to follow something just because it's coming from a celeb.

    • @Skibidibop55
      @Skibidibop55 Před 3 lety

      You'll never know until it happens to you

    • @scarlettelee4287
      @scarlettelee4287 Před 3 lety

      @@Skibidibop55 What? I didn't even say anything about the girl in the vid. But Ellen Adarna, ahmm?

  • @edsbaltazar8774
    @edsbaltazar8774 Před 3 lety +107

    Daming bulag sa pag ibig😝😝😝😝much better single no Problem❤️❤️❤️

    • @benjamindelacruz6663
      @benjamindelacruz6663 Před 3 lety +3

      Correction hindi po pag ibig kundinsa burat hahahha joke lang po

    • @lenieencluna382
      @lenieencluna382 Před 3 lety +1

      Tama.

    • @merlieflores2495
      @merlieflores2495 Před 3 lety +1

      Oo nga.

    • @mianlim
      @mianlim Před 3 lety

      May jowa ako ngayon HAHAHAHA parang ganto slighly manipulative and controlling di ako bulag kitang kita ko lahat. Sinabihan ko siya na umayos sya. Ngayon di n ko pinapansin😂🤣😭😭😭😂😂

    • @mianlim
      @mianlim Před 3 lety +1

      Yes to single life!

  • @jonargarcia5384
    @jonargarcia5384 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow kudos idol Raffy ang galing mangpayo.dami ko natutunan sa segment na ito...now i know..

  • @manongchonboo1011
    @manongchonboo1011 Před 3 lety +2

    Idol Raffy at Shari good teamwork.

  • @supernatural_thedarkworld
    @supernatural_thedarkworld Před 3 lety +43

    Noon : Kahit saan simbahan pakakasalan kita!
    Ngayon : Kahit saan ka magtago ipatu-Tulfo kita!

  • @edithrosesibug887
    @edithrosesibug887 Před 3 lety +23

    Tawang tawa ako sa "isaw2x lang at chicken feet, kuripot"😂

  • @alynejunio2753
    @alynejunio2753 Před 3 lety +1

    Sirrr....raffyyyy...
    Nagmahal lang po siYa, mahal niYa ung taO kaYa wala sakanya kahit ginaganun siYa.. Ang pagmamahal sir raffy , nakaka manhid po yan.

  • @marcelinapadilla8267
    @marcelinapadilla8267 Před 3 lety +1

    Maraming Salamat Idol watching here in ChiCAGO . God bless you always and your family I love you Idol like the love of the Lord Jesus Christ .

  • @maryjaneramilo6380
    @maryjaneramilo6380 Před 3 lety +17

    Kahit lagi po kaming nag aaway ng asawa ko ,
    Mahal na mahal na mahal po namin ang isat isa .
    Ate gurL wag mo nang balikan yan marami pang ibang lalaki na deserve ang pagmamahal mo 😊 ingat po lagi and godbless po sa inyo 😊

  • @Hakseng
    @Hakseng Před 3 lety +15

    "Hindi na talaga. Natuto na ako. It's a big lesson for me."

  • @queen_of_4
    @queen_of_4 Před 3 lety +1

    Self respect. Pag di mo kayang ipaglaban sarili mo, lumayo ka na lang teh. Walang may karapatang manakit sa yo... wag ka papayag na ganyanin ka...
    May god give you strength

  • @leonisguinaran211
    @leonisguinaran211 Před 3 lety +10

    Ate wag mong antayin na patayin ka ng bf mo

  • @mariajosefinamendoza4804
    @mariajosefinamendoza4804 Před 3 lety +9

    Learn to LOVE and RESPECT yourself. Kapag bumaba ang self esteem mo, mawawala na respeto at pagmamahal mo sa sarili mo e, dapat maibalik mo ang confidence mo ate, para next na magmahal ka alam mo na ihandle ate.. iwanan mo yan di healthy oarasayo ang ganyang lalaki. Tigas ng apog nyan.

  • @rhodacrista
    @rhodacrista Před 3 lety +33

    So inaway ko na naman bf ko ngayon dahil sa video nato hahahaha. Minsan mga lalaki talaga bwisit. Haha.

    • @calmysohento712
      @calmysohento712 Před 3 lety +1

      🤣🤣🤣may naging bf ako na ganito hahhaha d talaga sya nakahiram🤣🤣🤣ayon nag LaHo bigla after 3yrs nag paramdam ulit at saklap after 3 monts manghihiram ulit kahit sabi ko na wlang kami🤣🤣🤣 kapal din 🤣🤣🤣wla syang nakuha sa akin ni peso ..🤣

  • @mariebalagot1042
    @mariebalagot1042 Před 3 lety +1

    God bless po idol raffy

  • @bonnalynlopnao6918
    @bonnalynlopnao6918 Před 3 lety +2

    Si ate charie nlng inaantay ko mag kalovelife parang nakaka excited❤❤😛

  • @gracemarco4553
    @gracemarco4553 Před 3 lety +4

    Healing for you ate girl❤❤

  • @jenealbilda6628
    @jenealbilda6628 Před 3 lety +4

    God bless po idol Raffy. Congrats po.idol.

  • @BonBon-sw6ul
    @BonBon-sw6ul Před 3 lety +1

    Dahil sa pag mamahal Yan.Nakaka relate ako Kay ate.

  • @guadaleop.bumaya9835
    @guadaleop.bumaya9835 Před 2 lety +2

    Gf ko nililibre ko talaga. Ako ang taya palagi. Minsan lng sya mag share kasi ayoko sya gumastos kasi ako ang lalake. Mahal ko sya khit ano pa sya. 💚