SNEAK PEEK: Margaret Josephs Breaks Down Over the Death of Jan | RHONJ (S14 E4) | Bravo
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- A year later, Margaret Josephs is still mourning the death of her ex-husband. Rachel Fuda has a sit-down with Jennifer Fessler to discuss everything that happened on the trip to the shore. Watch new episodes of Real Housewives of New Jersey, Sundays at 8/7c on Bravo and stream next day on Peacock.
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With more division than ever before, this season of “The Real Housewives of New Jersey” will prove that friendships can change at the flip of a switch. As dynamics change within the circle of friends, the ladies of the Garden State will rely on their core family units for support and understanding.
Cast:
Teresa Giudice
Melissa Gorga
Margaret Josephs
Dolores Catania
Jennifer Aydin
Danielle Cabral
Rachel Fuda
Jackie Goldschneider
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It's crazy...back in the day I would watch the minute the episode drops..now I just occasionally watch these clips to kinda see if I even want to bother starting the season.
Same.
100%. Not just me.
Same
SAME
Me too. It's so tedious now, thanks to dishonest, jealous spiteful Melissa and shady home wrecker Marge the fake. Can't bear to watch their antics and lies. Just how many pending court cases have they between them ????
“I ain’t your soldier “🤣 - Jen Fessler 🙏🏽🫡
Irrelevant when she WA asked by literally nobody to be their soldier. That didn't even make sense lol. Also Jenn
" Louie scares me I don't want to deal with him or teresa"
Jenn again
I like Teresa, I can't help it lol
@@killary_Banx who asked you? 🤗
Your shadow probably scares you as well. Marge if a hungry dog to stay on the show. She is such a phony friend. Melissa is dumb to side with her.
Gia at the table, giving her biased two cents! ..why?...what is she doing there? So annoying listening to her parrot Teresa. Won't be watching in future. The show is scraping the barrel now.
@@marianicholls2741 so don’t watch Sherlock 🤯🤗
I can see why Rachel could be offended/hurt with Jenn Fessler talking with Teresa but at the same time, Jenn Fessler's a grown up, she can talk and be friends with whoever she wants, & Jenn Fessler DID defend John in that moment to Teresa. I think Jenn is trying to be neutral towards everyone (much like Dolores kind of is) but Rachel and Margaret want blind support.
Yeah. Id be mad if my friend didn't support me. But you know what, they aren't best buds. So there's no special loyalty needed
Jenn should've said that from the beginning. Instead she said she didn't want to deal with Teresa or Louie. Then in her confessional she said she liked Teresa.. lol she's two faced
If they were all friends it would be ok, but who becomes friends with someone who came for you friend. That's disappointing and disgusting
Jen wasn't being a loyal friend to Rachel in regards to validating Rachel's feelings towards Teresa. Teresa likes to spread rumors then plays the victim. Like she had nothing to do with the town gossip/rumors. Teresa did the same thing to Jackie and her husband. Then Jackie now BFF's with Teresa. Jackie just needs to stay away. So far I like how Melissa and Joe are handled the Teresa situation. It's best to not even engage with Teresa and let her make her own mistakes over and over again. Teresa will never take accountability for her wrong doing.
They are just trying to stay relevant, on month old gossip who cares about fuda. No one.
Trout mouth is disgusting human.
Marge had to wait outside because she wasn’t allowed in 👀
because it's usually family only - sadly sometimes loved ones have to stay outside - eg. his ex wife, or a close friend
No coz nobody wanted her there
Why would she be allowed in if she is no longer family ON PAPER? Obviously he and Jan still maintained a great relationship regardless of what his family thought. Neither seemed to be flawless in the marriage
Even her stepchildren are TEAM TERESA
Look at Marge pretending she actually can eat a whole cheeseburger and onion rings whilst on Oxempic
i know i thought the same🤣these women never eat all the food,im like what a waste!!
Why the f is margaret crying over the man who she cheated on with the man she cheated with. She's sick
They were still great friend even after they split and share a child so why shouldn't she cry
You're sick for saying something so damn stupid
@@cognitofroggy Um no. Disrespectful to the current man.
@@illmeeillmee9373no it's not
@@illmeeillmee9373 How is it disrespectful to Joe when he was also friends with the ex and had no problem with their friendship
I feel Jen and Jakie are showing their maturity. Marge and Rachel are showing lack of maturity. Everyone and I mean everyone is tired of this petty BS.
Do you remember when Teresa's mother's anniversary was a year. You didn't give her any Grace about it. I remember it well
That was sad . People were mean . And they did a beautiful job.
right
Didn’t Marge create a memorial ceremony for Teresa’s mom at the beach?
Yes ppl seem to forget@mmmpr2023
@@mmmpr2023… Yes, she was the only person that really came in for her.
Im so sick of Marge
I see what Jen is doing she’s trying to do what the goal of the show is bring understanding and bring the friend group together…. While both sides don’t want to do that at all and I would say especially the Marge, Mel, and Rachel team don’t want…
Jen F. is a reasonable person, very mature.
Never ending forehead Melissa, Old hag Marge and botched nose Rachel are bad news. Begone! Get fired!
I don’t like her. I don’t find her genuine at all. She loves to play both sides. Not a loyal friend at all. She’s trying to create a storyline for herself. She had major plastic surgery to fit right into the show. Ugly inside and out. Nothing whatsoever appealing about her.
lowkey loving Jenn... I love the fact that this "Tre hate train" is going nowhere. Tre is the storyline of 3 grown women.. come on.
How is it a hate train when Teresa is starting shit? Lol
Right like the Tre hate train, is so beyond tired @ this point. Just sayin🤷♀️🤷♀️
@@killary_BanxWhat did she start THIS season?
Teresa didn't start nothing, everyone on the cast heard about John Fuda's past on social media the same time she did. Now they are mad because she repeated it, but it's ok for them to talk about her past. Just make it make sense!
@MrsWalker-jt2uu She repeated it to take the attention off louie, but he's so creepy she's not going to be able to do that. She's a get back queen and that's why she looks like she's been sitting in sun for 20 years now baked and miserable
Everyone is giving Fesler an ultimatum
It’s weird Jen isn’t loyal she will turn on Teresa instantly and we know how Teresa feel about loyalty
Absolutely 💯💯 it's soo childish
Rachel reminds me of that actress Shelly Duvall, who played Olive Oyl in the movie Popeye with Robin Williams
We get it, Margaret, Melissa and Rachel want everyone to ice Teresa out so she'll be exiled from the group. News Flash, Teresa is the Queen of RHONJ. So proud of Jen and Jackie for standing their ground against Margaret and Rachel.
Yep. For me, there is no show without Tre. Tre hugger for life! Old Marge cheated and left her husband. Now, he's her storyline?
she's not the queen - she's boring to watch on her own
@@cate4338 Teresa's scenes literally steal the entire spotlight from the show in the best way possible.
@@TJ-nm3rw BS
@@cate4338You are really in denial lol
CANNOT STAND MARG!!!!!!!!!!
Rachel's nose is ridiculous
like she gets no airflow through it or something 🤣
Do you mean nose job Rachel?
😅
Whoville in real life
😂😂.
Has she had something done to it again? It looks different 🤷🏾♀️
We needed jen fessler !!!!
Make Jenn F full time!!!
Fuda needs to go! Not entertaining
We Love Fuda
pls no
Three episodes in, and Margaret, who's been on the show forever and STILL has no storyline. But Jen Fessler has more of a storyline than Margaret than any day of the week.
Margaret is played out! It’s like nails on a chalkboard every time she’s on screen. And who are her kids? Are they biological? Ex-Step? And for these women who want nothing to do with Teresa, SHE’S ALL THEY TALK ABOUT! Sad.
Make Fessler a housewife! Love her!!
You didn't even respect him when he was alive
Exactly!
The flower on her dress is soooo big it looks like wall decor.
Tim Burton’s bride needs to hide that stick nose , disgusting
Rachel needs to take her nose to that Botched show.
Marge is getting on my last nerve she's Soo annoying
She comes across as a very selfish untrustworthy person.
Fuda looks like Rita from Flushed Away! Was Rachel's husband a former street pharmaceutical agent then?
omg she does, LMAO
Lol just like her!!!😂😂😂
I had to look her up, but Rachel really does look like her. 😂😂😂 I've always thought Rachel looks like Momo. Momo looks scary!
@@Lotus.8520 lmao
Omg 😳 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
We want and need Jen to become a housewife next season please bravo!!! Ps can you also make Marge disappear?
please do i cant stand marge
Marge takes pleasure in provoking negativity, craving recognition for her viewpoints, and disturbing the group's unity. Alongside Rachael and Melissa, they dedicate their time to criticizing Tre, Louie, and their kids. It would be preferable if they could live in harmony without the disruption caused by the instigators.
Marge this was sick on so many levels even for you
At less Margaret is not talking about Teresa for once
She was but wasn’t … it was adjacent
Not for nothing…. Didn’t these 2 have an affair while she was married to Jan!?!? Now they mourn the poor man’s death?…
I love Joe he's great to Margaret
Please, this so called joe was having an affair with this evil Marge
His her doormat.
Margaret is faf inside and outside why she's not fired baffles me. And Rachel grow up. This ain't high school. She's annoyed that no one is willing to tear down T. And that jen and now Jackie are seeing right thru there bs. Why did she come back make fessler a housewive
They are blinded by hate for Tre. They need to forgive and forget. No one is coming after their family. Tre and Louie keep trying to reach out to mend fences. They won't let it go.
Rachel literally ADOPTED another woman's child. They brainwashed that kid so much that he wants nothing to do with his bio mother. How does that help to heal into adulthood? If Rachel were really a good mother, she would do everything she could to take care of the kid AND build a relationship with the bio mother.
IDGAF if the mother had drug problems. The father is an ex-con too for selling drugs. Mother-child bond should never be destroyed.
Rachel needs to grow up; she's destructive.
Joe is just another solider for Margaret. He's a good man and deserves better.
Please bravo make Fuda go away
Margaret needs to get over herself. She acts like a teenage mean girl. These are adult women that can be friends or speak to anyone they want!! She's crying over her ex husband with the new husband she cheated with...she is a piece of work. Rachel is ridiculous.
I love Jennifer Fess! Ome of my faves now!
You like awful, hard women who behave like that?
Did she say that Jackie came to both Jan's funeral and the shiva - but Margaret is mad she is not calling her about his death? What?
She needs to respect her now husband, I'm sorry but Jan is gone and didn't even loved him then
The way Melissa and Margaret talk about each other. It’s weird
They co-exist because they don't like Teresa
They don't like each other, Margaret is behind digging up dirt and rumors about all the cast!
Yall are weirdly sensitive. Her saying that wasn’t even mean. Shit I talk to my sisters just like this 😂. Yall are cry babies
What is weird is your existence but we will let that slide..
@@ce7768 Sounds like a response from someone on Margarets or Melissa's team. Very triggered.
Jo is so sweet. Wonderful guy 🩷🙏🩷
Using the husband she cheated on with the plumber as a storyline!! Wow disgusting!! She stayed with joe coz Jan didn’t want her back.
I know. I wanted to say this! She broke his heart by cheating and leaving him. The kids didn't even speak to her for a while. And, now we are supposed to feel sorry for her.
your comment is shallow and completely ignorant - and horrid
Exactly she is toxic
Omg! Yes, she did cheat on him, but they remained great friends and were very close until the day he died. Having a conversation with her Husband isn’t a story line.
@@lorikoenig6111 Breaking up TWO marriages / families isn't a storyline either. Oh my. Oh my.
Margaret needs to ✋ using Jan as a storyline. Jan's family said she wasn't welcome at his funeral. One of Jan's kids spoke out about Marge last year, and how they want her to STOP using her father's name so people can feel sympathy. Bravo, please get rid of Marge.
How is she “using Jan as a storyline.” They stayed close up until his death. Stop acting like you’re on the show. You’re literally a random Margaret and Jan don’t even know. And it happened like a week after the reunion. You’re WEIRD. Y’all overuse the word “storyline.”
I was only focused on those onion rings than seeing Marge talking about her ex!
My god this comment is sick ☠️ not everything is a "storyline" for the show, how could you even think this way about someone grieving
@@TheRenegadeStarrthank you for saying that. We met Jen on camera with Marge so I believe Marge
@@TheRenegadeStarr Jan's daughter spoke to a blogger last year and said those words. The blogger posted it on Twitter and she had photos of Jan's daughter and everything. You are a Marge bot. Calling me weird. You're a damn fool 🤣 that should zip it. I will believe Jan's daughter over you. I would be pissed if I were her, too.
If Margret loved Jan so much she shouldn’t have cheated on him 🗑️🐷
Sometimes masturbation isn’t enough when your partner can’t sexually satisfy you.
Facts.
Everyone except Jenn looks scary with the surgeries omg
That's on all th HW shows
They all look like freaks.
girl how is she ur best friend you only no her for two seconds wth is going on these girls dont no the meaning of best friends at all
I can't be crying for friends like Rachel. that's why i don't have best friends and no loyalty is expected
Same. It's sad.
I can't believe that Antonia is just learning how to do her own wash. If she is smart enough to get into University of Delaware, she should been able to figure it out.
Ummmm like anyone can get into Delaware it’s a redneck fried chicken state
Tbh I love Jen Fessler ❤️
Joe is a treasure; he is such a sweet husband to Margaret ❤
Pity she weren’t a better wife to him 🙄
She wasn’t even allowed to attend the funeral… ick!
You mean Marguerite?? If so,, why couldn’t she go to the funeral? Funerals are an open invitation, anyone can go and pay their respects! In my culture you don’t need an invitation to funerals ,, only to parties!
Make Jenn F full time! She had a brilliant introduction last year and she’s proving now she’s got what it takes to be great for this show! Get Jackie back too!
i love how jen is being her own person, she wont be dragged into BS, grow up fuda youre a bad actress. if you play with fire you should know what happends
This show is unwatchable.
Grown woman acting like a child 😂
I feel like Jersey is going to have the same problem VPR is having this season. We're already over the drama that was being leaked while this season was filmed. Put them on pause too.
Marge cheated on her ex, now she's using his memory for a storyline. I'm sorry but that's not cool
That's still the father of her kids.
@@neshkatama9083 Exactly.
Just because you cheat on someone doesn't mean you didn't love them.
@@gailward1400Very well said.
@@jasonenglisbe9646 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'd hate to see what the cheater does to someone s/he doesn't love!
I swear the Fuda's are like 3rd graders. Whining and crying over nonsense and tit for tats. So boring. The only thing not boring is the cast looking like characters: Blato, Whoville, Buzz Lightyear, and Wreck It Ralph, Cruella, Barbie
Very starnge she doesn't call him dad 🫠 veryyyyyyy strange
He must have traumatized her growing up with all the fighting with her mother and cheating on her mother. Kids take a lot inward. When your mother cries because of something your father did, and does it often, a daughter never forgets. Not calling him dad may be a diss.
Who?
@@joycomesinthemorning6721 big Frank. Delores ex-husband.
NO IT'S NOT
I find it strange too esp for Italians. I think because he wasn't much in their lives growing up she feels weird calling him dad
My deepest sympathies... MAY GOD REPOSE his soul in the Paradise of Joy. Grief comes in waves, one moment you're sitting there just fine and the next minute you have to remind yourself to breathe.
Well said 😊
I love Jennifer family.
It’s kind of weird that on the first episode of this season. We watch Jen F and Marge sit down at Jen’s house. And Jen F says to Marge “ I told you that I would never see those ppl again (Tre/Lou.) This was in response to Marge saying she won’t have anything to do with them. Cut to 2 episodes later .. Jen F is in fact seeing and loving those ppl. 😂. It’s just comical, and hypocritical to say one thing and do another. Jen should have been honest from the beginning and ppl wouldn’t have those expectations.
I think it’s when Jen sister said she really liked Teresa that’s when Jen started to be more open..
It's typical. Happens all the time
She eventually awoke and realized that Marge is actually the devil.
@@drkn1559 So true👏👏
Let Margaret be a Message to All who Run to the Otherside and do not do the Innerwork. She mismanaged her time and mishandled her relationships. She is bound to Retaliation than reunification with her family. Life moves on and that hurt never got process and resolved. Now she is still on the Outs and Her First Family she Created is perishing. Now she has to cry on the new guys shoulder. She needs self awareness, accountability, and to process the hurt she puts on her first family.
aren't you a big fool!!!
Agreed and maybe stop using her deceased ex has a story line. Oh, and maybe she could keep her legs closed after she takes marriage vows.
Your videos are a breath of fresh air, always enjoy watching
Marguerite I’m so sorry for your loss! Your ex seemed like a great person! God bless you and may the Lord watch over you and your loved ones! ✝️✝️
Yall only love Jen because she flip flopped to Teresa, but trust me .. give it time and she’ll be doing the same thing to her 😂
Thank goodness I have never stooped to the desperado stage of friendship like Rachel. Trying to guilt your so called "best friend" who you've only known for a season to be on your side 100%. Crying & acting like a spoiled toddler! " I want you to just be my friend" Boo Hoo, Boo, Hoo...
The feudas are so CRINGE 😬 Maybe because they just got here & are already making demands? Maybe because of their total makeovers & name change before they came on?
Maybe because they're not taking any accountability for bringing their own past on the show for a storyline then not owning it when it comes to light?
I just can't watch them. They're not fit for reality tv. 😐 Bravo start the search for at least 2-3 housewives, please!
Danielle's friends, idk???😐
agrreed
Now she is grief shaming jackie?
Jen isn't being kind with sharing, she just can't eat that much on Ozempic XD
I think Marg is on her way out her friends are turning on her fast she only has Rachel left marg is pushing Jo away it’s hard to watch
Marg knows it’s the end she puts up a tough front but is the most sensitive of them all
Marge isn't sensitive at all. She's mean spirited and dark inside. Bravo will axe her after this season, and thank goodness for that.
@@Lotus.8520 aren't you lovely?????
@@cate4338 She is delightful! Can we use that description for you?
Marge gets more transparent every season. She targets those who have what she wants. Even Jen A, the way Marge went after her. I think Marge wishes she had her life
@@Gonzokeywest45 so true.
margaret crying about loyalty but took rachel's side over jen's 😭
I can’t believe that all of you guys are making an excess money of 1 million dollars a year for doing absolutely nothing!!! When honestl hard working people are struggling!! I know that the show is paying you guys but that’s f real ridiculous money I she a ton of f debt and u guys think that you deserve that much??? Some people are smoking too much crack maybe the problem isn’t a the producers fault!!!! It’s insane
Spot on
Marge is gross. Rachel is a baby. Yet they call out Jen f. Like they want to ice out Teresa and are mad
Was Jan vaccinated against the you know what? Because the same thing happened to my uncle 5 months after. And he was a picture of health until he got that shot ☹️🥺😩
Oh Jesus, that’s nonsense. Our dear friend died from Covid. Anti vaxxers are pathetic
The family don’t want you around Margaret…..jeez
Why is Marge acting like she was still married to Jan? Like lady get over yourself. She’s making his passing all about her. She’s insufferable
I would just love to know when Margaret was screaming at Jackie before the softball game how instantly overnight did Margaret grow a ponytail I am Margaret's age I want to know how to get a ponytail overnight like she has hair braids❤❤❤
Marg loved her X so much… she screwed around on him. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Could you please give the name of the plastic surgeon who did Margaret’s facelift. It is excellent!!! So natural!
Her dentist gave her bad horse mouth, it's too much😂
Rachel is doing too much, best friends. Even Morticia looked better than her. Girl stop it. Plz bravo don’t bring her back next season along with Margaret and Melissa. Rachel is doing the most 🤮
Gen said alright as in tf u call me for could’ve texted knowing she wasn’t going to respond 😭😭
I can't stand marg, she to needs to worry about herself! Her and Melissa have no story line without Tre
Let's all be real here with Rachel. The only reason Rachel is holding Jen Fessler to a different standard is that Jen told Teressa all of what Rachel, Margaret, etc. planned and did not execute at the reunion last season. That is the reason. Period. End of Sentence.
Wait at 1:41 did that grill dude just place the cooked toppings on the top of a cooking raw burger 🍔? Is this a thing in NJ? I usually cook one side thoroughly then flip do the same to the other then place the cheese to melt and cooked topping on.
Love Jen Fesler!
Grieving with the man you betrayed your ex with really! Someone get a shovel.
Margaret is ridiculous 🙄
My Deepest Condolences 🙏
Marge cheated on her ex, was not allowed inside the hospital room because of it, and then proceeds to cry on national TV to the man she cheated on her husband with. The irony. Also, she comes off as so self produced. This scene was rehearsed multiple times off camera, you can just see it so clearly. She destroyed this show, big time. It’s not about picking sides, it’s about picking what’s best for the show. Marge is destroying the show, thinking she’s Taylor Swift and has her squad. Corny. I really hope she is gone after this season, the ratings are lower than ever in the history of RHONJ.
It's like watching the same season again and again..
I love Margaret and Joe. Joe is very supportive and patient.
Pity she doesnt treat him nice
@@leighannclements7849 she does. They're very protective of each other. She's in mourning still and may harbor a little guilt. There's a reason why she was good friends with her ex and present husband. She has a good heart. She sponsors children in hospitals. Delores supports abused women shelters. Melissa does gifts for tots. They did their fundraisers on air to educate the audience. I respect that.
There are some who haven't contributed anything to anyone less fortunate and they've been here for years.
Are you mad? She treats him like a slave!! And bangs on about her ex 😂😂
@@leighannclements7849 in marriages, there's always a more dominant spouse and a more passive one. This is not a new thing. If you are not married, think of your parents. It's just what they do. Margaret and her mother, or maybe just her mom, escaped a horrible fate from her country. Much like the situation with Gaza. She was raised strong and to be a survivor. Both husbands understand and apparently she's done right in their eyes, so, more power to her.
Add some of the ladies from jerseylicious.
❤❤❤
Messy knows exactly what she is upset about. And she is absolutely cozing him up to the trash bag.
Jackie is healing and recovering and with that the fog lifts and you see what and who you've been tolerating and the BS you've been taking and ya move on.
This episode is not even out yet lol who uploaded this ?
I love Jenn Fessler, more than I anticipated. Rachel was trying SO hard for a moment, you can literally see her smirk before she attempts to “cry on cue”. I love how Rachel looked her in the face and was like, “girl cut the theatrics”. Queen behavior. She didn’t give Rachel the moment she was trying so hard to get.
Idc I love Jenn Fessler. She stands in her own and ten toes.
I don't like to lady. Rachel and her husband is very disrespectful to women. Stay out of women business stop calling women named and didn't new lady Rachel can leave.
I agree the husband should never get in the cast faces aggressively. This show is geared to and mostly watched by women. Not cool. Get them off
I have an excellent relationship with an ex and I would be very sad too if something should happen to him. Just because it didn’t work out it doesn’t mean that you can’t love them as a friend.
It’s bringing it up on camera she should have done this in private and not on a reality tv show as a storyline. Did you cheat on your ex?
@@leighannclements7849Exactly. Marge has no one to film with though. No family. No children. No one except her mom and people she pays, but they're all boring and won't bring in ratings.
I can 💯 understand why Rachel is upset with Jen. At their age you can't be friends with everyone especially someone's enemy. There is baggage of lost friends and trust issues. I wouldn't like my friend laughing with my enemy. From experience I can tell you Jen will open her mouth and give out secrets. That's human behaviour.