CockTales Ep. 340 "Here's Where I'm At" ft. Shan Boodram with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
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- čas přidán 3. 05. 2023
- This week we're back in our Los Angeles and chat with Shan Boodram, author, sex educator, popular CZcams personality, and intimacy expert! Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe discuss healthy dating practices. They explore the misconceptions of finding true love, playing hard to get, and the importance of being intentional and strategic when it comes to dating. They also discuss introducing the idea of non-monogamy into a relationship and navigating non-monogamous relationships, and how to handle social media in relationships. They also explore i the complexities of jealousy in relationships, the importance of communication and boundaries, and the benefits of just being honest about where you're at currently when dating someone versus thinking far ahead. Shan Boodram even shares a wild cocktale about a trip to Palm Springs that may have had a happy ending.
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Not my two favorite podcasts doing a mash up 😂 love!!
So glad we finally got to meet. 🥂 to many collabs, can’t wait til my podcast episode with you drops I believe with all my heart it’s gonna start some BIG discussions
Shan is such a host at heart. 😊 You can tell she wants to be a guest, but also wants to engage you both in the way a host does. The chemistry is great here! Great episode ladies!
So excited about the Dallas show…I’m taking my bestie as a gift to her. Told her at the start of the year that she could pick the city of the tour and we’d do a quick trip so here we come (from Atlanta) ❤
I am loving this KiKi, Medina annnnddd Shan. This feels like the deep girl talk before the drinks kick in. This episode has taught me some stuff at my big age. ❤❤❤
it’s just something about the LA studios! i love the natural lighting
Mmhmm. We were actually sitting outside not even a studio
The fkn aesthetics & 4k video quality 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾 the high tier. Y’all snapped w the production of this one man
Really excited about this collab! Love the visuals 🤌🏾 you ladies look stunning
Bout time we get a Boody collab!!!!! ❤❤❤
We’ve been wanting this for yearssss
it’s giving “real housewives”, ladies 😍❤️🔥
“It’s not what you can do for me. But how you make me feel” felt!
Neeeeeed to know where Medina’s dress is from!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
So glad I finally stumbled upon a non monogamous guest. This means a lot to me as a polyamorous person, and she spoke about it so well. Let me go find her right now ❤
Omggggg Shan 😍 this was such a great episode !!! You ladies look amazing. ❤
This was a very beautiful episode. From the outfits, faces, set, and topics. ❤
OooOooo!!! I love Shan! I'm so happy to see this bc y'all deserve it 💕✨
I’m always excited for a new episode but especially this one🥰
I've been so excited for this episode 😊 California looks lovely on you both btw!
Another great episode....it's always a good time when Shan is on the list, she definitely explains everything with so many details!
Yall look so beautiful!
Love Shan! She’s so real and understanding. Love the transparency 💗
I have been waiting for this episode and i absolutely loved it! I
Happy about this Collab❣️❣️ good episode
Another great episode! I love yall keep up the good work.
Love the episode ladies! If you ever need an accountant, I am yours! Been in that field over 7 years and I initially emailed you (definitely more professional than this lol just shooting my shot lol). Much gratitude for the time and work you put in to entertain and inform us!
Love love love Shan! I read her dating book. It got me out of my fears of dating
TMI: I always feel inspired to take a shower when I hear Shan’s voice
Did indecisive Dianne really say the ‘the food is not that great’ ?!? 😂
Loved the episode! Two of my fav pods in one space! 🤤
Beautiful looks & great episode ladies 💗💗
Love Shan! Can’t wait to listen!
Shan is such a great teacher. The way she breaks things down 👌🏾
Hey kiki and Medinah Super dope episode 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️👏🏾💯
I watch toooooo quick, I be waiting like damn I already saw/listened.
Keep doing what y'all do ladies!!!
Loveeeeeeed this episode!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Y’all looked so gorgeous in the natural light and yes to the progression!!!
This episode was wonderful!!!!❤
Such an informative episode! Is it just me or have y’all read that Tampa move in advice letter before???
42:00 I have these traits that you’re talking about Kiki. I enjoy seeing what I bring out in my partners and what their past has done for them. I’m definitely a curious person about what someone’s past life was like. I would like to know because it’s always room for improvement.
I am the exact same way…
What abundant lives y'all have indeed. Im gonna be on this podcast too one day.
Such a good episode !!!
Loved this episode
I loved the advice especially about whether you should be free and alone, or boo'd up and taken care of with only half your heart. The advice felt non-judgemental and sensible.
You ladies look great. Enjoyed this guest. Great episode
Medinah's hair 🔥🔥
Great conversation 👍
20:03 these are the conversations we need to be having often. Come thru Medinah….it’s the growth in the relationship for me.
And you ladies look fabulous! 🥰🥰
Just here to say.....Kiki and Medinah are gorgeous to look at. 😍 ❤
That first cocktail - Yup !!!🤤🤣I love it
I love y’all so much!
I loved this ❤️
Medinah you were beautiful, raw, vulnerable & so real in this episode . I love both you ladies down but 1:03:33 was so real..
Love Shannon!
Oh this gonna be good!!! 🎉
yall look GOODT!!!
You guys look Amazing!
yassss my faves!!! loved this episode. i’ve been watching shan for at least 5 years now, truly admire her work.
love how funny kiki and medinah are per usual. the SHARED HD camera set up has y’all looking AMAZIN
All this love brittany thank you! The camera did not even do how stunning they both looked this way all the way justice. Literally breathtaking
Some of my favorites 😍
Both of those were great cocktails lol
Oh This Might Be Shan Boodram’s Best Podast
Omg I’ve never been this early ayeee
Shaaaannn my fave!!
Ouuuu Issa crossover!
Pegging a man is WILD.. NO JUDGEMENT BUT NO MAAM
This is like the 2nd/3rd time that the advice question is the same as on Pour Minds.
Yesss Brazil!
Y'all look so beautiful!
The Vivica Fox reference is to the movie. Booty Call…. 😂
Freak nasty. turned Bunz out🫶🏽
Ya looking good ❤️❤️
Not this girl sent this question into pour minds 😂
Kiki your turn 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The editing is A1
35:21 - 43:46 non monogamy
Loving the direction the show is going in 🤎 so grown and sexy. Production is always A1 + convos are fun yet don’t run from depth.
I agree. 😊
perfectly said! love these girls
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Look at y’all looking all grown up
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Women cannot make sense of basic things without the assistance of men 😂
Medina stop saying um mhmm lol please
Shan is so attractive to me.
I believe the Vivica Fox was referencing her eating 50 cent’s butt
Let’s not act like she didn’t also push the marriage because her visa was expiring here in the states. Legally marrying someone gets you citizenship. I just wish she was more honest about it instead of beating around the bush with it. Nobody just gets married. If people paid attention to the story she told on her channel. You can clearly see what it was & why she pushed for it the way she did with Jared.
Only commenting back to this fan fiction because this part of my story will not be diluted. I got my Visa on an EB1 which is reserved for people who can demonstrate that they are extraordinary in their field. It cost me 10k to apply for this Visa and if declined I would have lost it all. The level of “betting on myself” I had to do at that time is something I am immensely proud of. Ask Homeland security about me babe got my Visa in 2016 and married in 2018.
@@shanboody Yeah, but sis you still made sure you solidified that citizenship. Lol, I understand where you are coming from & I also understand where the person who comment is coming from. Either way, you still was an immigrant here in the states & he’s not lying about you mentioning that your visa was expiring. You definitely did say that in the video you did a while back. It’s okay to own your truth, even though you worked for that position to come here in America. You still married Jared because you also knew that would solidify you here, while also “Loving” Jared so “Utterly Passionately” 🤣 Idk why people from outside of the country is ashamed to admit that y’all do be working for them visas. It’s not everyone, but it’s the ultimate goal. I get it.
My boy best friend calls me delulu 😅 delusional dej be coming out too often.