High Style in the Gilded Age: Consuelo Vanderbilt

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2020
  • This lecture was done live via Zoom on Thursday, August 27, 2020 at 11am.
    The fifth lecture on women of the Gilded Age in Southampton will focus on Consuelo Vanderbilt, who was born into great wealth and privilege but was a pawn in the hands of her obsessively socially ambitious mother. Forced into a loveless first marriage, she found happiness only much later with her second husband and finished her days in her lovely Southampton home, Gardenside.
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Komentáře • 90

  • @miguelfelizzola3432
    @miguelfelizzola3432 Před 3 lety +25

    The picture of marble house is actually the breakers mansion

  • @BuzzMo1
    @BuzzMo1 Před 3 lety +14

    Picture of woman in wedding dress is not Consuelo. I've never found an actual photo, but what was broadly shared was a drawing of it. It had huge, puffy long sleeves. Several years ago Blenheim Palace did a reproduction of it and had it on display. You can see very clearly in those photos what the dress looked like.

  • @MA-yh2ko
    @MA-yh2ko Před 2 lety +10

    I graduated from Dowling College which the Idle Hour Mansion anchored. Sadly the school shut down in 2017 and the entire property is currently for sale.
    The Mansion was where the administrative offices were and the ballroom was used for school parties and rented out for weddings etc.

  • @willtee1526
    @willtee1526 Před 3 lety +15

    That image was not Marble House it was The Breakers.

  • @eduardoramirezjr4403
    @eduardoramirezjr4403 Před 3 lety +17

    Alva Vanderbilt was “battle axe of a mother”.

  • @gracemccurdy647
    @gracemccurdy647 Před 3 lety +18

    Very informative ignore the hate

  • @sunsetmotionpictures1418
    @sunsetmotionpictures1418 Před 2 lety +10

    It just goes to show you that love is more important than a title

  • @VeracityLH
    @VeracityLH Před 3 lety +12

    RE Consuelo's sons. The elder, as the lecturer said, became the next Duke of Marlborough and his heirs still hold the dukedom and Blenhein Palace. Consuelo's younger son, Ivor's birth was the subject of some scandal. Consuelo and Winthrop Rutherford reconnected and with her husband's reluctant permission, she spent time with Rutherford in Paris. Ivor arrived in due course and his parentage has been much debated, especially since he bears little resemblance to either Sunny Vanderbilt or Ivor's elder brother. Such is life in an unhappy arranged marriage. Sunny's reputation has been polished in recent years to present a more balanced view of the relationship than can be found in Consuelo's memoir. One gets the feeling that these two were like Charles and Diana, that they cared for each other but had little in common, had 2 sons, each spouse took lovers, and it ended badly.

    • @beverlytrammel2819
      @beverlytrammel2819 Před 3 lety

      N

    • @BuzzMo1
      @BuzzMo1 Před 3 lety +8

      I heard Consuelo's great grandson speak at Blenheim, while publicizing his book about Consuelo's husband, the 9th Duke of Marlborough. He claims Ivor was not the Duke's son because he didn't look like his brother or his father.. He claimed that Sunny had communicated in a letter, that I believe was found in the Blenheim archives, that his youngest son, Ivor, was not his son, having been told by someone who knew. I suspect the person who told him was his second wife, Gladys, who was a friend of Consuelo's until Gladys starting flirting with the Duke. Gladys was known to be a liar and jealous of Consuelo, so I have a hard time believing it. Just because a child doesn't resemble a father or brother, doesn't mean he was fathered by another man. In the pictures I've seen of Ivor as a child, he looks like Consuelo. I can't understand why this author would slander his great grandmother, other than to sell more books. Ivor has 2 grandsons that are alive, so a DNA test should have been done to prove/disprove the theory.

  • @patriciapalmer1377
    @patriciapalmer1377 Před 3 lety +4

    She is the societal icon of a particular segment of an era.

  • @janetsaeger8439
    @janetsaeger8439 Před 2 lety +13

    No wonder Hugh Bonneville was chosen for Downton Abbey. At 14:26, his resemblance to Consuelo's father is uncanny!

    • @Kat-gx3se
      @Kat-gx3se Před 2 lety

      I actually did a double take!

  • @waynepelts782
    @waynepelts782 Před 3 lety +7

    What a fascinating tension between mother, Alva, and daughter, Consuelo. The architect is Richard Morris Hunt, not William Morris Hunt. Thank you for this detailed treatment of the fascinating Vanderbilts.

  • @janetpitts7302
    @janetpitts7302 Před 2 lety +5

    Enjoyed the video, thank you for your time and work!

  • @KD-1110
    @KD-1110 Před 3 lety +6

    Fascinating story
    About wealth ,Family,Love &the Lack of it.consuelo was a survivor !she apparently held her head high and moved on..

  • @gaymichaelis7581
    @gaymichaelis7581 Před 3 lety +6

    Very well done! Very interesting and fascinating! Thank you very much…

  • @carolberwindscheffler2708

    I'm a Berwind great great grandaughter of 2 Presidents the Harrison's. My grandad had a home near their house Vanderbilt s ,called the Elms.

    • @wdm5552
      @wdm5552 Před 2 lety +1

      And it's a magnificent home, even today. And open to the public.

    • @LSTEdD1
      @LSTEdD1 Před rokem

      Love visiting The Elms. I was a guide at the Preservation Society of Newport County in the early 2000’s and would walk through the house just before visitors and enjoy the beautiful fragrance of the large flower arrangements. The newly renovated gardens are beautiful as well!

  • @monycheri
    @monycheri Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you .,very interesting story..love the Gilded Age..

  • @gloriaramirez4145
    @gloriaramirez4145 Před 3 lety +7

    Very nice historical pictures and background! Thanks!

  • @howudoing18
    @howudoing18 Před 3 lety +14

    Gladys Deacon’s father killed her mother’s lover, not her mother.

  • @deemareedubois3137
    @deemareedubois3137 Před 2 lety +17

    Alva looks like a woman who isn’t to be trifled with. A woman who is going to get her own way no matter what.

  • @beckywaytoomuch
    @beckywaytoomuch Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you so much for this!

  • @bugnamedVelma
    @bugnamedVelma Před 3 lety +9

    Enjoyed it. However, Mary, the photo you have captioned as Marble House is actually The Breakers...home of Alva's rival, Alice.

  • @margarete6888
    @margarete6888 Před 2 lety +2

    Enjoyed your video. Very interesting and informative! Thank you!

  • @lisamunoz5677
    @lisamunoz5677 Před 3 lety +5

    Love the story

  • @marciasloan534
    @marciasloan534 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank-you very much.

  • @graceyoakum8863
    @graceyoakum8863 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you, It was very nice.

  • @lauramarles8445
    @lauramarles8445 Před 2 lety

    Wonderful lecture, Thank you!

  • @davidrutter9786
    @davidrutter9786 Před 3 lety +10

    Great information,
    but the photo of Marble House is her Uncle Cornelius' Breakers! Also the supposed wedding portrait isn't Consuelo, but an English woman photographed for a presentation at court.

  • @thatsmyjam6065
    @thatsmyjam6065 Před 3 lety +2

    This is great. Keep it up!

  • @TheMoonwalker101
    @TheMoonwalker101 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you!!!

  • @Gentlebreeze397
    @Gentlebreeze397 Před 3 lety +1

    Enjoyed this!

  • @trishemerald2487
    @trishemerald2487 Před 2 lety +18

    Fun fact: $2.5M USD in 1985 (her dowry) is the equivalent of over $81M USD today.

  • @brittnyrv5087
    @brittnyrv5087 Před rokem

    I loved this video. Well done.

  • @sunsetmotionpictures1418
    @sunsetmotionpictures1418 Před 2 lety +5

    Thanks again for a wonderful education of the guilted age

  • @thomasburton2942
    @thomasburton2942 Před 3 lety +4

    The architect responsible for both Marble House and the Petit Chateau was Richard, not William, Morris Hunt.

  • @richardw3470
    @richardw3470 Před 3 lety +6

    Win Rutherford was eventually married to Lucy Mercer of the FDR scandal. The younger son of CV died some time in the 50s of a medical problem--a brain tumor or cancer, I think.

  • @aline58
    @aline58 Před 3 lety +2

    Redemption in the end👏🏻

  • @pinkbeautytwinkle
    @pinkbeautytwinkle Před 3 lety +13

    She had such a long neck.

  • @miniprepper8284
    @miniprepper8284 Před 2 lety +5

    There are a lot of comments about Consuelo's long neck. I think she did have a nice long neck, but I think some of those early images were manipulated. Photographers back in those days could make waists smaller, add shadows, smooth out complexion flaws and manipulate features to some extent, just like we can do with Photoshop and filters today. Seems a long, swanlike neck was in vogue back then. There is a yt video about that practice. You can see in the last photo with CZ Guest, Consuelo's neck looks much more "normal".

    • @lmnh82
      @lmnh82 Před 2 lety +4

      She wore a metal brace that straightened and elongated her neck

  • @mcbrineart
    @mcbrineart Před 2 lety +3

    The painter John Singer Sargent was known to stretch out necks to make the sitter look more elegant but in this case he simply painted what he saw!

  • @carmensandiego211
    @carmensandiego211 Před 2 lety +1

    loved it

  • @Beautyjoy98
    @Beautyjoy98 Před 3 lety +7

    That would be about a 62 million dollars today! In a dowery. Holy crap! My heart breaks for her though. To have no Freedom or choice. When I was little I always wished I was a princess. But as I grew to understand what princesses were actually put through I was in shock. I stopped wishing in the turkey wish bone to be a princess. Nope, no thank you.

  • @Samantha-ys2pp
    @Samantha-ys2pp Před 3 lety +4

    Loved the narration.

  • @vintagedesignerfinds836
    @vintagedesignerfinds836 Před 3 lety +6

    The brother of Etienne Balsan who was friends with Coco Chanel.

    • @andreayaya
      @andreayaya Před 3 lety +2

      How interesting! Thanks for the comment.

  • @dannybeun948
    @dannybeun948 Před 2 lety +3

    Tres tres chic 👌

  • @prettyfar33
    @prettyfar33 Před 3 lety +8

    She had the longest neck!!! Very pretty!!!

  • @lesleyh2631
    @lesleyh2631 Před 3 lety +5

    That’s not OHP in the picture you posted.

    • @ericelmore
      @ericelmore Před 2 lety +2

      You are correct...somewhat. It's NOT Oliver Hazard Perry (who died in 1819); it's Oliver Hazard Perry Belmont, who married Alva Vanderbilt after she divorced Willie K. Vanderbilt.

  • @charlesvanderhoog7056
    @charlesvanderhoog7056 Před 3 lety +8

    Marble House a prison? Well, I'd like to live in a prison like that. Especially with unlimited funds at my disposal.

  • @dawnprudenti1964
    @dawnprudenti1964 Před 3 lety +2

    I didn't realize the Vanderbuilts had a house in Oakdale

    • @w.urlitzer1869
      @w.urlitzer1869 Před 3 lety +6

      yes they vander-built it.

    • @wdm5552
      @wdm5552 Před 2 lety +1

      @@w.urlitzer1869 And now it's gone.

  • @emeraldkimble7602
    @emeraldkimble7602 Před 3 lety +5

    The biggest vaderbiltedt estate is in Asheville B.C. andis called biltmore

  • @mr.rightnow.7300
    @mr.rightnow.7300 Před 2 lety +14

    She had an extremely long neck. It's almost strange looking.

  • @dollyvandenbrink5211
    @dollyvandenbrink5211 Před 3 lety +6

    Is Anderson cooper related to Alba Vanderbilt?

    • @nanwood59
      @nanwood59 Před 3 lety +11

      Yes, but only by marriage. Alva Smith's first husband was William K. Vanderbilt. His brother, Cornelius Vanderbilt II had a son Reginald Vanderbilt. Reggie & his second
      wife Gloria Morgan had a daughter, Gloria Vanderbilt. Gloria & her third husband
      Wyatt Cooper had a son, Anderson Cooper.
      Anderson has a son named WYATT MORGAN Cooper.

  • @natalieabrams4722
    @natalieabrams4722 Před 3 lety

    Dear mom please call Ian

  • @carolberwindscheffler2708

    Have you done anything on my family

  • @genniejefferson4414
    @genniejefferson4414 Před 3 lety +1

    Wedding dress is very beautiful.

    • @BuzzMo1
      @BuzzMo1 Před 3 lety +4

      It is not a pix of Consuelo in her wedding dress. Her dress had long sleeves.

  • @bethknight4436
    @bethknight4436 Před 2 lety +6

    I have never understood what compelled Consuela to marry the Duke of Marlboro.

    • @michelebeatty4927
      @michelebeatty4927 Před 2 lety +19

      Her mother.

    • @dannybeun948
      @dannybeun948 Před 2 lety +7

      Just for the tittle darling .... tres tres chic 👌

    • @wdm5552
      @wdm5552 Před 2 lety +9

      Her overpowering mother! But it's the Duke of Marlborough, not Marlboro like the cigarettes.

    • @janetsaeger8439
      @janetsaeger8439 Před 2 lety +14

      Duty and guilt. Alva faked a heart attack and Consuelo was convinced Alva would die unless she agree to marry the Duke. Alva was a horror

    • @AlexS-oj8qf
      @AlexS-oj8qf Před 2 lety +8

      It was her mother's decission not her's.

  • @teenieneenie630
    @teenieneenie630 Před 3 lety +1

    And to think, this nonsense still goes on amongst todays High Society! Geeezzz...people grow up and get Real!!

  • @lindacuttic6383
    @lindacuttic6383 Před 3 lety +9

    Consuelo looks. like she had her neck stretched

    • @Checheelingling
      @Checheelingling Před 3 lety +2

      Yes I noticed her neck was long.

    • @wdm5552
      @wdm5552 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Checheelingling Her neck was long, like a swan. She was very beautiful.