When I worked at a nightclub a bartender told me, "Nightclubs are where men have to pay three hundred bucks to see the theory of natural selection in practice."
Smart guy. I do occasionally head to a nightclub myself, but I generally tend to hang at the bar, and watch the mating rituals unfold. It's pretty fun.
Guys who say “Just go to the club for fun bro! Don’t focus on women!” Are 99% likely to be going to the club strictly to get women. If there were no women at clubs, men would not go, let’s keep it real
I mean there's definitely satisfaction with getting drunk and high with your friends, listening to good, local, underground music, dancing collectively with a crowd that also loves the music, and meeting cool people. Yes, getting noticed by women is awesome but clubs are already a blast without getting laid the same night.
@ghost mah exactly nothing is more dumb than going clubbing with a bunch of amateur red pill guys and spending the whole time leering and picking out targets
I mean the alternative is that you say fuck women to get high or coked up with your buddys, or typicaly if the club is a sausage fest then 20% of the men that are there is for the black market, and dirty jobs they planning to do thruout the week just saying
As a nightclub DJ, i concur! I do not even engage with female customers. They approach me constantly looking for attention, validation, control and a way into the dj box so that they can SAPPCHAT all of their “followers”. I am 6’ 3, in shape with a lot of ink. Id say im a entry level tyrone. But the status of being the man in control is what really gets their attention. In my 15 years of DJ experience, most girls at a club have an option outside of the club and enjoy the free, drinks, attention and validation. They break the rules for a chad/tyrone but it’s dangerous because they can wake up in the morning, remember they have a bf or option, make false allegations in order to avoid accountability for their actions, and thats the end of your career!!! Be careful out there fellas 👊🏾
@@jokernabastard2828 The higher your “perceived” status, the more they use you! Ive been rinsed for free entry, free alcohol and free transport and then aired the following day. No-one is safe out here 😅
I was a DJ, and occasionally a bouncer, in nightclubs and a strip club back in college. You have no idea what kind of insanity and vile behavior women are capable of. I could write a book.
My girlfriend kicked a man in his chin with her leg for approaching their female group. I was shocked to hear it. He was drunk, but still it's so cruel. Can you imagine a reverse situation, I can't
If you ever get the chance, eavesdrop on conversations women have when they think no men are listening. It's a definite red pill event. They are as bad or worse than guys.
If you want to go to a night club as a man then you should be: - Good looking - Be young - Have money and show it - Be charismatic - Have a group of friends with you to show that you are not a creepy loner Then you can have a lot of fun in night clubs as a man that can catch the attention of the women. Otherwise you will just get rejected which frustrates you and you'll just get drunk instead.
There is another way too. Just have fun and truly mean it. I seen old Asian men go off 😆 and I shit you not...guys and girls start surrounding him. I also found this true for myself. I'm usually Completly wasted and just having fun and that's when the magic happens...good memories are made that way.
Which is basically unrealistic, only something out of a film, in which a young lad's charisma has been written by older dudes and he's been cast by an older casting director based in his looks, without these he would be a boring guy with good looks or an average looking guy who has poor choice of words. Moral: don't let pop culture make you think that's how it works.
I completly agree. Espescially coming with others and be good looking. But I put more value on looks. I most of the time get lost for 3 hours searching for my group and just say fuck it and start dancing 😭😂 Edit: I must say Charisma is also essential, above bringing People. So Looks,Charisma, being with others.
I used to be a complete bar rat. I have moved past that in a huge way partly due to Covid. Let me tell you from experience, I almost got into a fight one out of every three nights I would go out. It was so not worth it looking back. I got it out of my system but I still cannot believe I wasted so much time / effort / money on going out to meet girls at these horrible places that treat men like dogs instead of just sitting at home and reading a book or watching Netflix. Anything is better than clubbing...
I agree 100%. It’s been 4 years since I last went into a club, infact I haven’t had a beer in 2 years. Being drunk, having a hangover, wasting money, standing at the bar hoping to meet a woman, going home alone and also getting into pointless fights with drunk asses, it is for me, all just one bad experience. In my early 20’s I learned that avoiding fights is the best thing to do, I walked away from the last few fights I almost had in the pub, my front tooth is still cracked from a brawl I had when I was 19, it’s just pointless bs mate.
@@tommygunner321 Thats actually so screwed up and I'm very sorry that happened to you...I sincerely hope your story, this video and other forms of content act as a deterrent for young men just entering the dating market. Good luck and God bless
A woman at a club is like a kid in a video game store. And after dating a club girl (a whole 7 inches shorter than me, and out of shape) I can pretty much guarantee these women think they're some kind of protagonist in an rpg game. They live in a fantasy world. I ghosted that troglodyte faster than she swipes left on tinder.
Thts your fault man. It don't matter how good u look. if you treat a girl better than she feels inside she will look down on you. She doesn't respect herself so she can't truly respect a man tht simps for her especially if he's way more handsome
@@cautarepvp2079 Simping ain't pimping bro. Plus, for her to become better is her choice alone, nobody else will and should tell her since in this day and age. If you don't take care of yourself first of all, you truly have nothing at all!
Women have it so easy dating they’ve literally turned it into a game. Now as a zoomer, the only socially acceptable places to meet are bars and clubs. Yet women have now made “girls night” a game. Legit they are making quests on tik tok for going out.
I doubt it. Imagine that 95% of the girls were old and fat. It does not make them happy how many men are undatable. I also think men cope better than women . Women being in the reproductive bottle neck are much more obsessed with their love lives than men. Our troubles for the day end after we rub one off. Their's begin.
As a 30 year old man from the US who has partied in many countries from England, to Japan and Thailand, everything this man is saying is true. Clubs do nothing for men and even in the small off chance you do leave with a girl, it is never fulfilling and leaves you empty in the long run. Us as men need to practice day game as most women are not expecting us to approach during the day and they will be less on guard as they aren’t being bombarded by a bunch of simps like in a club 👍💯 great video!!!
If you truly want results then you don’t focus on doing day game or night game you just focus on living. If you see a girl you like then talk to her no matter the time or venue, just live your life.
@@RippinHoes I think the deal is, if you need to run game, you just don't have the looks to attract anyone. Chads don't need game or need to go out of there way.
It was the same in the 80s. If you weren't chasing girls, you were nothing. Of course the guys saying that were generally broke from spending money on dates, in clubs, on clothes and cars to attract girls, etc. Most of the time they didn't even "seal the deal" even after a full day taking her to a theme park or whatever. It also isn't just in clubs where guys, or even grown men turn into cavemen. I've seen many other occasions where a group of men were getting along fine, then an attractive woman shows up, and it is all competition for her attention. This is even with married men. I just sit back and laugh at them, and lose some respect for them.
You NEVER compete for a woman. The woman must compete for YOU. You guys today are CLUELESS. When a woman gets wet for you. Shes gonna let you know. Either directly. Or the friends coming over to try and make the connection. If you have to make a fool of yourself to get laid. You are just that a FOOL. You have to turn up with a package. That as soon as the women you dont know is gonna be your next conquest. Lays eyes on you. She has an orgasm standing up. It could be a look you give a woman who crosses your path. And she will then want to pursue you. It could be the way you present yourself and move. You have to carry yourself like a winner. Like you have had better than any woman standing in your presence. And to give any woman your time is PRECIOUS. And you are doing HER a favor. Not the other way around. You have to dress RIGHT. and have some choice bling on. A Rolex. An eye catching ring and bracelet. Give an air of success and aloofness. You may in REALITY be sleeping on you moms couch. Women are shallow creatures. They want sexy and they want money. You have to present both. And then you have a chance of getting what YOU want.
I never chased women in the 80s. They were not worth it to me. I had no need of a girlfriends or whatever. It was nice when I had one but I did not live for one.
@@tRav285 I agree with you my man. At night, in my bedroom, listening to some of Chopin's Nocturnes or Beethoven's Concertos is way better than spending my time in a sticky-floor nightclub, surrounded by drunk and stinky people.
I used to be a bouncer at a night club. My buddy and I would always laugh at women dressed to the 9s. They never left with anyone, they never found their Chad and they continued to come night after night. They never danced, they never seemed to have fun. Ironically the coolest women that came in were strippers. We had mirrors everywhere so they could see themselves and practice, they were the nicest people and they had fun. This was on our off nights. They did know how to party. No we didn't go home with them
@@yuisimp3392 They've actually interacted with all kinds of men, even (lots of) sub 5's and maybe that broke their black and white view, where Chad is the personification of all that is good, normies are dumb simps and sub5's are mean spirited, evil goblins. i wouldn't go as far as calling them nice, maybe a bit more in touch with reality, which also makes them more dangerous, as they know how to play men.
@@yuisimp3392 Yup. I've engaged with some working girls in the past. Nothing wrong with renting (if you have the money to spend) you go straight to the point no games and no bs. This is why even a lot of successful men (some even married) rent on occasion. There is no shame in it. "real women" will often hide the fact that they are using you for attention, free drinks, a free ride, and try their best to hide the fact that your interaction with them isn't genuine and not transactional. At least the working girls are honest about what they're doing, and many have a good attitude about it.
I'm surprised hygiene wasn't brought up. So many times a girl or a group of girls are making moves on me, then I get a whiff of their breath or body odor and instantly enter a existential crisis: "these girls are gross, why am I even here? I'm going to politely gtfo now."
Have a 6'6" friend who looks almost just like me, only I'm 5'9," and in physically better shape. Every place we go when we hit the town (one time, a night club), he gets 95% of the attention, and even I get a bit more attention myself just by association. Us normies need to work on looksmaxing and farming (work on building something/being on a purpose and let it speak for itself), because it's not worth hunting/cold approach for us.
I remember this one time I went to a club. This girl as me to buy her a drink for her birthday for her and her friend. Next thing I know; just bought a drink for her and Chad....Lesson learned.
I can tell you the ego thing is a thing. I put myself out there on a dating app just to see how I would do.. Since I’m socially awkward irl. Lol. It’s not even to date guys. It’s a test. To know where I stand and how this society works. Free drinks can be true for other women since I don’t go out to clubs.. And my bf is not a typical chad but he’s very likeable and still quite attractive (met him even on a game lol)
@@LuckyLaure It's a false test. Because you' cannot differentiate whether those likes mean "I'd like to bang" or "I want relationships" with you. And those are very different levels (4-6 and 8-10). Part of them are fake bots, part are "checking", just like you do, some just like every one, etc. So you can't get real outlook from dating sites, they provide false results
The idea of a helping women sustain the illusion that they are more attractive than they really are was enough of a reason for me to stop going to clubs.
Not to mention that the women we meet at night clubs are the worst of all and have no emotional connection with you whatsoever. You could die tomorrow and she won't give two shits
@Alex H I completely agree attractiveness is objective, but I never said it wasn’t I was specifically referring to the types of women Wheat Waffles talked about in this video . Did you pay attention to it, or are you just here to harass men talking about their legitimate grievances ? I’m also gonna need a source for your claim : 50% of variance in facial attractiveness is universal, although I agree attractiveness is objective I wanna look at the details of that study.
Don't approach, period. Make them approach you, instead. Ignore them at the nightclub and just enjoy yourself. The women who go to the nightclubs WANT to be the centre of attention.
I noticed 2 things on the last clubs i went to: -One Club had a "singles party" where women/men that were single had green bands and women/men that were taken had red bands which probably serves to make it easier to not get rejected by not knowing their status and what they want -One club had 50/50 split tickets for men and women. If all mens/womens tickets were sold, no more additional men/women could get in This shows that there are actually people noticing these issues and working on them
In my country single men cannot enter to clubs. One must have a girl with him to enter ( unless he is wealthy enough to tip the bouncer generously). I used to find this incivilised and sexist but now I understand it
I got angry and stopped going to clubs, when i realized I am paying to be treated like shit. Women enter for free, skipp the line, get free drinks. And I as the paying customer, have to pay entrance, wait in line, get rejected/accepted entrance of not by some grumpy doorguy asif it's a privillige, end up paying the (expensive) drinks, and get rejected a shitton etc... And i'm paying good money, to get above shit treatment. When i realized that, I refused to gve them my money any longer. I am not paying anyone, so to be treated like shit. Imagine if you were treated like this, in a restaurant.
@@nyfbby10 I’m on my 4th felony kang. I can’t wait to go back to the pen tho… they got my favorite Cheerios errday and I don’t even gotta pay taxes no more 🥴 life real good here in da states cause my momma done said I’m too special to be treated less than human, even doe I robbed a Walgreens three times and killed a homeless man fo some Benny. Know what I mean?
@@npill2403 not every woman goes to the nightclub lol. And just coz she doesn't go to the nightclub doesn't mean she's a foolish traditional house wife lmao. There are many places where you find genuinely good women such as at the library,the gym,the park,even normal stores,at some event etc. Going to find a woman at a nightclub is like trying to choose the best food item from rotten food lol. The same applies to men too.
I'm glad the pendulum is swinging, more and more I see people self improving and ridiculing this kind of behavior, the behavior we were taught growing up was " cool" glad we all becoming adults together. The mid 2010s felt like a experiment.
@A Guy loosing out on sum pussy. there's a balance to everything in life. I'm still figuring it out too. this information won't present itself to you unless you seek to find it within.
9/10 times if a woman is in a nightclub hanging out, dancing, grinding on guys, etc…. She’s not girlfriend / wife material. Women with class wouldn’t subject themselves to such a degenerate environment with alcohol, loads of men, ego’s, fights, sexual dancing, and more.
It's the same with many other things in life. You crave something that other people have for years, but when you finally get it, there's only short-term joy that quickly fades away, and you're left feeling empty. The only way to feel fulfillment in your life is to develop skills and put those skills to use. Work on a project that will take you weeks or months to complete. Realize your weaknesses and work on them. Become a better person, and look back at how pathetic you used to be a few years ago. This will bring you much longer-lasting satisfaction than chasing after things you're jealous of.
I pulled the last time I went clubbing. I’m 6’1” with a wide frame and I’m arguably a chadlite at best. The girl approached me and made it obvious. There was another girl who rejected me and my mate and apparently got with someone who was around 6’4”. When a girl finds you attractive, she’ll make shit easy. There’s no game in a nightclub. Just try to look like you’re having fun and give off a decent vibe. Looks, height, frame and style will do all the work.
I'm 6'1 with a good build, chad lite as well. As you mentioned, there's always going to be a guy that out chads you. However, knowing I'm somewhere in the top 10-15% looks wise. I'm not complaining. My lack of a career is my biggest weakness, but it could be worse.
That is 100% false. You pay enough to petty stuff too much. Yes petty ! :) One day you will look back at all this rubbish and laugh. No looks,height,and frame,and style will not do all the work because where is the personality ? Are you two just shells sitting next to eachother ? Do you have a personality or are you just as shallow as the girls you are accusing ? You are putting life in one big box
@Alex H i don’t think anyone else even noticed that . That was the first thing I noticed . Clearly he’s not incel . But that doesn’t negate his message
The thing is, men stopped going to clubs a long time ago. That's why they all shut down. Without men paying entrance fees, buying their own drinks and buying the women drinks, the business model crashed. Now, there may still be a few in the largest cities, but the days where there were all kinds of them with people lined up to get in are over.
They are still around in a few hot spots of major cities, but yes, the entire club, bar, tavern, pub weekend party scene is in shambles. I live on a popular avenue in PA that used to be rocking every Friday and Saturday night. Lots of bars and large crowds within about a 5 mile stretch. Since 2018, about 5-10 bars, pubs, and taverns have closed, the crowds have disappeared, and the few that remain are barely hanging on.
I'm from Houston and the nightlife here is alive and well, perhaps better than pre-Covid, but then again, Texans aren't bitches and scared of Covid anymore, so that is likely a factor as well.
I very much agree with the hostile environment. Nights clubs are extremely aggressive here in Australia with young men regularly dying from injuries relating to fights. I myself have been in fights and could have ended up dead or in a coma several times and it was all over competition for women. There's also always the biggest douchebags at clubs, some are legit criminals so you have to be careful you don't piss off some of them. Honestly its not really worth it all for a shallow ons that rarely happen if ever.
The "nightscene" (so to speak) has always been the retreat of criminals. There is much more crime and violence in bars and nightclubs than in any other type of commercial establishment. This, by itself, is enough to wish to avoid them, or to frequent them very sparingly.
Or felon. Felons love clubs because it’s too dark to get snitched on while they murder some guy in the back. Then they just prance off to Taco Bell and flex on the gram with some fat bish.
Not going to Nightclubs means: Start to take control of you life. Most guys are saving their money for the Nightclubbing, getting heavily drunk and end up with medium-low class women. As this is there only way to approach women, life becomes a sad routine of bad weekends and desperate working days. Step out of this rat race.
The true rat race is bigger than just night clubs man. The rabbit hole goes deep into the digital world too. Yes- you escaped the night scene but have you escaped the digital prison? Instagram thots, Pornhub, social media?. Alot of men...including myself, have a tough time running away from this beautiful hell.
The girl pulling away from kissing all those dudes as a "prank" gonna come across the wrong one some night. Some Drunk guys don't have the same self-control girls do
Back in the day when I used to buy PUA books they would always stress having to go to clubs to meet women and it never felt right to me. All the points you make are spot on.
@@dimidzam9794 Don't get me started on "day game". Men, like raccoons, when seen milling about during the day, needed to be avoided. Afterall, why are they not at work? That alone is a red flag.
I've been telling people for years that this is why I won't go to clubs! Finally have some back up. I wish I had realized sooner that online dating sucks.
Reasons for not visiting nightclubs, or leaving shortly after entering - 1. Waiting for half and hour outside in a queue. 2. Waiting to be served at the bar that is 3 rows deep 3. Paying for overpriced drinks. 4. Where the men outnumber women 2 to 1 or more - called a 'sausage fest'. 5. Music so loud you can't hear yourself speak. Not all nightclubs are like this. You just have to be picky. Most important piece of advice is don't buy women drinks.
Yea the looks thing is spot on. i’ve had women straight up come up to me in a nightclub and say they liked how I look. some have even started off by initiating physical touch first to get my attention. this literally never happens anywhere else
Same, I'm average looking I guess but I'm 6'3 so I guess I'm hot to some woman. I never saw women being interested in me like they are in nightclubs. I go to clubs like couple of times a year only to boost my confidence.
@@russellwestbrookyellingatw9381 that’s why I say to my people to meet women in person , go out there and show yourself. Many dudes be on these dating apps shit and saying they get no matches and shit. Regardless of how ugly or good looking you are , most likely most guys profile are put to the bottom be Edit of algorithm. There’s way more men than women on those apps and plus girls barely be swiping that much so they don’t get to see your profile
That kinda defeatist attitude will see you fail. In all areas of your life. Every. Damn. Time. Do you think Dio ever gave up when his body was basically obliterated, and then the one he stole got smeared across the road? I mean, probably not the best role model, but you know, gotta admire the dudes will. Emulate that drive to succeed. Seriously though. You can't be so defeatist, especially not when we're on the cusp of another world war. Just think, there's gonna be many single women once the nuclear dust has settled, and far fewer men to satisfy the requirement, so that's gonna improve your own chances...
Reason 4 is so fucking true. I've hooked up with girls in nightclubs who I thought were like 7, 8s. Then when I would meet them in another setting without being drunk, low lights and excessive make up... Oh sweet Lord have mercy on my soul. I was ashamed of myself for going that low. Fuck nightclubs, focus on yourself kings. We are all gonna make it.
I can't wait to see all these clubs going bankrupt. Many of these clubs have also their habitual visitors who know each other and also befriend the guards because of their frequent visits. So as an outsider it's very dangerous to visit these places as these people get drunk and team up to fight outsiders together with the guards.
Great video as always. I used to be a Chippendales dancer, so I actually made money from women. But other than that, I didn't go to nightclubs for fun. I wasn't gonna spend the money I made there. It was business only. Unless you're making money, nightclubs are a complete waste of time.
Before I even watch, completely agree. It's dark, its loud, women are out there for free drinks and they are looking for men they know or giga Chad. Night club game is like the takeaway afterwards, the beer goggles are well and truly on and you need to go home, not eating kebab. Or like trying to get a taxi afterwards, you'll be queuing for a driver who's gonna over charge you and take you the long way home.
women at 20: i want to be a whore and men who want wives are creeps oppressing me women at 30: i want to be a wife and men who want whores are abusers oppressing me women at 40: time for my mid-life crisis divorce where i steal a house and kids.
@@leonrobinson2053 Ohhh, I thought you meant you already convinced/charmed the girl to leave w you and you were saying that it was mad waiting for a cab. I was like " just uber.." My mistake.
This is greatly timed. I was recently invited to a club around thirty min from my house I’ve never been to, but I turned it down after the coworker who invited me explained that he would usually get box. However, the catch22 is that he’d be dumping a portion of his money into drinks first and get milked for essentially legal prostitution. Keep in mind he’s not a bad looking guy either-that just seems to be the culture/happened to another friend where it became “pay to play” with a girl he was with
Just go to have fun, drink and party with friends. The best time is a time where you don’t worry about women, enjoy yourself and let things come as they happen
You guys are doing it wrong. I used to work in clubs. it depends how you approach it. Never pay for their drinks and don't get drunk. Go next to a college and go early thts the time all the hoes go. Stick to the 2 step and dress with style
I really must be a Tyrone then because girls have offered to smoke me out, buy alchohol for us on our "dates", pay for said dates, and pick me up without giving gas money sometimes.
This is so freaking true. I'm a 4-5. The hot girls don't give me a 2nd look and a lot of the uggos don't either because of their boosted ego. But I never go below my number because even when drunk I can tell an uggo so I won't look at them. But I legitimately am not going to clubs anymore for literally every reason you mentioned
i'm going in clubs with female friends at least once a week (for different reasons than wanting to get women, more for experiencing and socializing) and these points are extremely accurate. I would never go alone in these kind of places.
At school, the movie, Saturday Night Fever came out. I wanted to go to a Night club. When I turned 18, I discovered Night clubs were disgusting. In one incident I got a unjustifed slapped by a woman. She got a huge shock when she got a punch back.
Idk man, I'd have taken the slap and not retaliated 🤷🏻♂️ Don't call me a coward, I could easily body a woman since I'm 2 years into MMA around 6'2" and 200 pounds but getting an assault charge as a man could jeopardize your career long term and short term 💯 I had a friend who was also slapped by a woman and had retaliated. The courts and cops being simps believed that the guy and locked him up for 6 months plus he got an assualt charge and no companies would hire him. He had to resort to work from home on low pay as a software engineer. He literally had video evidence from the CCTV cameras that the girl had initiated the fight but the judge just threw it in the bin. The judge looked like an ugly simp too 🤣🙄 Moral:If it's a man vs man fight it's all ok(atleast in the eyes of the law). You're not seen as dangerous by society if you have an altercation with other men But if it's a woman, God save you. Even if you go for defending yourself you'll be blamed and your career is over.
@@justadreamerforgood69 I'm aware of the dangers. However it was a proportional response a puch to the shoulder. It's not like I knock her out or anything major. She deserved it. I told the boyfriend he'd be next if he coursed trouble. He witnessed that she started it & he didn't want a black eye. All I said to her was hello & she turned it into a major incident. She dragged the boyfriend off & left the club after that.
@@SunRise-ul7ko It's about fighting her boyfriend, is it ? What if she called the cops? Certainly you can't fight them or you'll get shot and bodied by multiple of them unless you're a politician's or a billionaire's son 🤷🏻♂️ Even if you were in the right and had video evidence, the girl's word will still be taken as the truth by default 💯
Nightclubs if you're going there just to enjoy the alcohol and 'music' or to 'hang out' with your friends so be it. It's costly. The atmosphere is ...whatever. if you're going there for the attempt at meeting women....better try elsewhere save your more money for more productive purposes. It's no different than door to door sales if you get the analogy your roi will be terrible.
Honestly I can hardly think of a worse place to go looking for a high quality women. The few quality women I know either don't go to clubs at all, or go solely to have fun and dance with their girl friends, but it's like twice or thrice a year. On the other hand, from all low quality women I know, many of them go to nightclubs on a weekly basis or even daily basis.
100% agree. It's fun but not the place to meet the girl of your dreams, you might kiss a few girls or go to the fancy restroom to fk her but that's about it honestly. No serious bonds made and it's definitely not fulfilling. it's acceptable in your late teens and early 20's but when you see 35 year olds in the club.. that's when it gets weird honestly..
You guys have it wrong. Going to the nightclub is for listening to the dj and dancing. Everything else that might occur is a bonus. Targeted places with specific events. Go out, learn what you like and enjoy the music. Stop obsessing about getting laid because that's when it doesn't happen.
I used to do some auditing for a guy that owned a nightclub as a side project, and we actually spent a lot of time talking about the ins and outs of the business and he believed (and I'm inclined to agree) that his main asset as a nightclub owner were low self-esteem women, they are free because they are begging to come in but they are also the cannon fodder that lures in the real whales. What really stuck to me was his reasoning behind thinking female nightclub goers had, for the most part, low self-esteem issues. He laughed at the idea that some women just go to have "fun" and dance with their friends, that all women go to nightclubs to wiggle their asses to strangers and either bang them, or to get some validation and feel attractive since you can have the same fun for cheaper in some other place or at a houseparty but nightclubs were designed as hunting grounds, not a place you go to develop human relationships.
I'm older than the target audience for this channel, but it still resonates. I've only been in clubs a few times in my life and each time has left me feeling "This is _really_ not for me". I'm not a good-looking guy and while I like to think I have a 'positive' or two to somewhat offset that huge 'negative', a club is not a setting for them to be showcased. My son has a completely 180° experience of clubs. He *is* a good-looking guy. That's not just me being his Dad. It's the pair of us walking down the street and me seeing him checked out by every female we pass. It's a girlfriend of his telling me that he can "just enter a club and have girls hanging off him". He once had a part-time bartending job in a popular club, so he was being paid to be handed numbers and get propositioned all night. I have tried to tell him what it is like at the other end of the curve, but there are few common points of reference.
@@Meetmountain A fair question. We are close as it was just me raising him. I can only say that if he doesn't then it is only because of it ever being a non-issue for him rather than for him being an unsympathetic ass. He certainly knows it's a thing as he's been told the same by his friends. If his friends were going out on the pull they'd sometimes leave him behind in order to have a chance. I can say that he's never made as much of it as he could have and as a superpower, it doesn't seem to actually help much when in a relationship:- He knows from experience that guys with more money can just take his girl from him. When university made him and his GF 'long distance' I warned him to prepare to be dumped. He said "She's not like that" and he was devastated when I was proved right.
You made some good points. I think you should have more confidence in yourself though. If you claim you're not good looking, but your son is; you either an unattractive guy that got a beautiful woman as the mother. Or you're not as ugly as you think. Beautiful people usually have physically attractive kids, but sometimes it comes from one parent's side. I've had one decent club experience where the music sucked, but the girls were friendly and attractive. I danced and talked to a few of them. This was in my 20s. I'm 33. My other experience was the opposite. Amazing music, but stuck up women rejecting me and other guys all night just to dance. Yeah I stopped going after that.
@@ishidacoolp I probably am as ugly as I think. The story there is that she wasn't into me, but WAS into the lead singer of an 80s band, to whom I apparently bear a resemblance. Can't see it myself though. Re the 'confidence', I feel I'm doing ok. It does come with age, plus (BIG plus) I'm in the best shape of my life. I can say I'm middle-aged now, but where most guys my age are getting fat, I have no gut at all and can hammer out a number of press-ups sufficient to raise many an eyebrow. Perhaps I am better looking at my current age than when I was younger. I got into better shape to forestall a possible diabetes tendency, but maybe, in the process, I've also 'Looks-Maxed' myself as you young'uns say. Who knows.
I been stopped going to nightclubs to pick up women. This is well said. Meeting women in clubs and on dating apps sux (most the time). I met women online and in clubs but they usually wasn't quality women. They were bottom of the barrel one night stands usually. It's much better to meet a quality woman at a gas station, grocery store, or somewhere you usually go anyway. And first dates should always be at a park, coffee shop or somewhere cheap. If you don't know her, why spend money on here. If she demands money being spent on here before you know her, she probably doesn't have much of a personality and she thinks you will leave her alone once you figure that out so she wants you to pay before you know you don't like her
I agree brother but nobody is going to these clubs with the intent of finding anything else.. it's casual sex nothing more... obviously you ain't going to find the love of your life.
@MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS She wants an expensive dinner bc she isn't paying. She expects the man to pay . Women will have multiple dates in a week bc they usually aren't the payers. If a guy spent 50 or more on her, she probably wouldnt give him any just to try to motivate him to pay for another date. Some women will literally sleep with losers within hours and make a hard working man wait days/weeks for the same wore-out, loose, dry box. If I don't sleep with her the first date or spend less than 50, I ain't calling her again. I'm calling someone else
I’ve Worked as a floor bouncer and a Door bouncer in Bars, Clubs, Nightclubs and Sportsbars all over New York and New Jersey and I can tell you that this is true. As far as the ratio we literally pick hot women off line an pull them in, the more attractive women the more popular the club an the more men buy drinks for the women AND eventually the woman’s friends because he doesn’t want to look cheap or poor. And I can tell you firsthand through hearing conversations of women online at the club that most of them are there specifically to get people to buy drinks for them, party with her female friends and post on Instagram, snap and Twitter. I’ve also seen a ton of fights break out of women and as one of the bouncers the guys never come out on top they usually get the crap beat out of them by us and then get arrested. I remember one time a bouncer was trying to remove a guy and he swung on the bouncer and we ended up trying to get him out the back door and he fell down the stairs and broke his leg an lost his gold chain & watch when he fell, the got charges pressed on him for attacking our staff
As a girl, I used to go to clubs in my late teens, early 20s, and honestly it's all about validation. I would have never dated a guy I met at a club, just like no guy would have dated a girl they met at a club. I never left with anyone either because that was not the point. It is really all about validation and it did feel like a game. I think 21 was the turning point when I stopped being an insecure teen and realised what I actually liked was dance with my friends and let go, so I started going to gay clubs or techno events where you can dance and nobody tries to touch you. Honestly now clubs are kinda dangerous for both genders, because girls can get sexually assaulted and guys can be accused although innocent. Most girls don't actually want to sleep with someone, they just want to tease and feel wanted, so when something else happen that they encouraged they feel ashamed and like they let the situation get out of control and might try to feel better about it by shifting all the blame on the guy (who was probably also drunk). Clubs are not a nice environment. Just get high at home with your friends and nice music, people.
"Most girls don't actually want to sleep with someone, they just want to tease and feel wanted" Mmhmm. Lol, I can count many girls who had this exact mindset, so totally agree. If a girl starts doing this to you, they don't like you enough, move on, unless you also don't mind just a friendship with some flirtation for practice, use her like she is using you. I've had dozens of lays, tried with hundreds of girls, I am what you would call a 'chadlite' and I've experienced this many times. My advice, I've had girls who have been head over heels crazy about me, and girls who just want to tease you and feel wanted like this girl is saying, don't waste your time, and don't settle for a girl that isn't into you, cut her off. Either she'll respect you more and realize she actually likes you or you'll save a bunch of time that you could spend cycling meeting other girls - Be bold upfront, she should know your intent within 5 minutes of meeting her, and you should be getting positive vibes back or it's not the droid you're looking for, move along. Ask yourself, if I've had girls who have been crazy about me and want to treat me like a king, why would I settle for a girl who treats me like a fan, I wouldn't. After you realize you can meet 10 girls an hour, and couple it with a maxed out online profile, you'll stop caring about getting laid and more about finding a girl you 'actually' like and is compatible with you, you don't want to be part of that 50-60% divorce statistic you do? And when you start qualifying her, it instantly makes you more attractive. 99% of men will acknowledge this message but do nothing about it, so just imagine if you are that 1%, it's easy I am telling you.
I feel you about the “techno events where nobody tries to touch you” letting go on that music and just smiling at everyone around you knowing they’ll just smile back… boy I miss those days
At least in London, thankfully there's still plenty of clubs like this - going to one this Friday and never been more excited. I go there to chill and if I happen to talk to someone and it goes well then cool too
Things to NEVER do as a man: 1. Never use online dating 2. Never go to nightclubs 3. Never chase & give attention to women 4. Never marry a single mom over 30 5. Never stare at women in the gym or public (don’t give free attention) 6. Never workout for women, only work out for yourself 7. Never put yourself down because of rejections, some people reject others because they want to feel good about themselves 8. Never use tiktok 9. Never date a woman who won’t pay for their dinner 10. Always avoid tattoo women 11. Always avoid women who smoke a lot 12. Always avoid women who are addicted to social media 13. Always avoid women who wear a lot of make-up and have multiple piercings 14. Always avoid fat women and feminists. (There’s a lot of more things which I can mention but the comment would be too long)
I was going to clubs in the late 80's, and honestly, nothing has changed. It's the same thing... never buy chicks drinks.. they're their to "dance and be with friends." I went there with a mindset that knew these things, so I didn't base the entire night on getting laid. The only way I'd go to any club these days, if I was younger, would be with a date.
women at 20: i want to be a whore and men who want wives are creeps oppressing me women at 30: i want to be a wife and men who want whores are abusers oppressing me women at 40: time for my mid-life crisis divorce where i steal a house and kids.
@@iancavon7125 clubs are a great date spot as rubbing up on each other is bound to create chemistry. But yeah, that's only if you're a Chadlite+ and are confident you're the girls best option and that she won't be looking at other guys.
Nightclubs are where I learned pick up so I'd like to add a few things. 1) the most beautiful women don't get approached as much as you might think. 2) being a VERY good Dancer helps alot. 3) if you are really good looking you will have a much easiar time than most. 4) if you go with girls already in your group, more random women will be willing to talk to you 5) a good body and height matter almost as much as a nice face
1.prob, guys getting that huge kick in the balls if they would get rejected by them. 2. I'm not saying i'm a great dancer, but i've had the spotlights on me several times because I'm one of the only people who can dance on hardcore music on regular party's, if you are familiar with that. 3 I'd would say i'm a decent 2- 3. 4. yeah women have this radar, about what's with that guy that this girl/woman is in that group talking/dancing with him etc. woman would compete dirty if you maybe are decent looking for her. 5. hmm, I'm 178cm and skinny/average from bodytype.
@@coldlyanalytical1351 you desribed me. mostly I go alone on party's. *ofc I have/meet friends/people. but I'm the lone wolf dancer, but I get noticed with a certain dance for a certain music ^^.
@@coldlyanalytical1351 this! I always spent all my time on the dance floor and having fun dancing, girls usually try to get closer to me as my style of dancing attracts them it seems and/or my appearance. I often experienced girls randomly approaching from their behind almost grinding on me without making it obvious though. I guess according to the channel I am either an almost chad then or my dancing is really good since girls approach me in clubs but also not completely obvious which is what they would do with chads I guess.
Not going to lie. I've had one night stands and after the interaction, you just feel guilty. Empty, Ashamed. Thanks for this video. We all need to keep reminding ourselves that stuff like this is bad because the world will try and indoctrinate you into this stuff time and time again.
I could say from dating sites, one night stands were for the most time either dangerously on the edge, or I paid anyway. Mainly with nerves. I wasn't a chad, and that was the problem. It was fun, but It was very dangerous as well. For the most part it was humiliation
Some of my worst memories in life are from nightclubs, getting rejected endlessly and getting into fights with dick heads over nothing. Thankfully I didn't waste to much of my life going to them, once I figured it out in my mid-20's I was done with them.
Since the #MeToo movement it is extremely dangerous to try to get action by going out clubbing, especially if you're not Chad. All she needs to do is wake up the next morning after being drunk and not care for the way you look and you can be in loads of trouble. Maybe it's still worth a shot in other countries but in Western "woke" countries you are really rolling the dice.
If I may interject... nowadays as I've been noticing, the workplace/workforce is becoming that which of a nightclub. And the job I work at is a perfect prime example. Only difference is that yeah you might hear loud music and whatnot to make the work go faster but no dancing. I even heard that most of the guys there treat these heifers....like celebrities. Meaning, any and everytime they come around flapping their assets...guys LITERALLY stop whatever the hell they're doing only to just crowd around them with lil pieces of paper asking for autographs and then some. In other words, saying hi, hey what's up, blah blah blah.......and you see...it's only "me too" when a guy they "feel like" is an undesirable and extremely unattractive... because the first 1-5 seconds determines it All. And I myself learned that from TFL waaaaaay back in 2012. And of course we've all been there and done it all, seen it all, and heard it all before...I've done it. You've done it. (Scoffing Fiercely) Men still Do IT! Indeed, These heifers give us a night to remember etc Etcetera ETCETERA but when the sun comes up, their demonic jezebelic mask comes off and all the forces of hell are unleashed. Smmfh+Facepalm... This is just one of the countless... countless reasons as to why the older I get, I don't have the patience nor the tolerance for typical mundane punk chit. Especially when it comes down to these typical modern day western nightclubbing femiTHOTS throughout the color line spectrum. Yeah! For Sure! Me!
@@Xanivert Really? Chicks will do it to protect themselves more often than not. Most common is rape to avoid being caught cheating on a drunken night out. Which is why it's illegal in NY to have intercourse with a woman even after 1 drink, she can't consent after 1 drink but the guy can still be charged with rape anytime she chooses to. Women are just digging their own holes at this point. What about the tiktoks of women accusing guys of being creepy and harassing them at the gym by just looking in their general direction?
As a person who worked behind the bar at a small club. I can tell you that all these points raised are spot on. Its like watching a National Geographic Documentary. * Fights - You better know how to fight and win or else you will end up looking like a push over and no woman likes a push over * Expensive - As a guy you are paying an entrance fee and paying for drinks. You might as well invest in some YOLO stock * False accusations - Even if you land a landwhale and you do the deed, her friends can accuse you * Chads - This is a losing battle Stick to warm approaches, or try park runs, group hikes
5:00 is My biggest issue with nightclubs! I used to club in the late 90s and up to 2006 and I can honestly say those were the golden Age of nightlife for me, especially 1999 and 2004. We went to nightclubs to have a GREAT TIME and leave our worries behind with not a single ego in sight! I made lifelong friends from the club scene back in the day and everyone was friendly and cool. Now we have this hostel trash scene. The nightclub scene died after Gen X left the club scene. I feel so sorry for the Millennials & GenZ! Yall have no idea what you're missing. Look up old nightclub videos from the 90s and you see.
You will also ruin your hearing if you visit nightclubs and conserts too often, unless you wear earplugs. Personally I got permanent tinnitus from nightlife, although it is relatively mild and manageable right now.
11) is sooo true! In 2019 I visited quite a few night clubs here in Germany and I HARDLY saw anyone making out or even flirting. It seems like Club Game nowadays only exists to inflate women's egos, since it's easier and more comfortable for them to find a Chad via Online Dating. My prediction for the future of Night Game: Only VERY high Chads and VERY desperate Normies/Sub5 will be in the Night Game.
It's everywhere same. What these woman think about themselves is unbelievable. They feel men lick their feet anytime. Nobody will see me in a club again. I've had my parties in 2010-2016. Right now these women are looking at you from height and they are unbearable.
@@cautarepvp2079 I've been stationed in Germany for military reasons and I have been going to clubs in Nuremberg. Great success so far with girls my age. Nice makeouts, I fk them in the fancy restrooms etc... rawdawging it too bro... y'all need to get out there bro
As a male entertainer, here’s my take on night clubs… 1.) Most people (men & chicks) there are not that interesting and don’t stand out. How can you make yourself fun, exciting, yet mysterious? My friends and I run every club we go to bec we created a system. You have to be fun, witty and not afraid to put your ego aside. Dress up, don’t be afraid to show some skin, don’t be a creep tho 😂 2.) Stop idolizing women. They aren’t special and they aren’t as hard to get into bed as you think. On that same note, don’t be afraid to bounce from girl to girl throughout the night (unless you’ve found one where the chemistry is that good), this demonstrates that you have options and women notice / like that. It’s pre-approval from other chicks. I danced with dozens of chicks this past weekend and had maybe a quarter trying to take it out of the club. Don’t be afraid of rejection and understand social boundaries. Too many guys don’t know how to be smooth and casual. Sex isn’t a big deal. If women feel a lot of pressure from you, they’ll bounce. Be casual about it and make it out to be no big deal. Also, don’t be afraid to exercise options. 3.) Women love sexy bodies. This whole myth of women liking dad bods… It’s all a lie. Get your ass in shape and get your style right. If you feel comfortable/ confident about your body and outfit, there’s not much that can stop you. Chicks literally ask for pictures with me and my buddies all the time. Our outfits get attention and we are all fairly built. You don’t have to be a bodybuilder like me but at least look like you are somewhat athletic. 4.) Take care of your grooming / hygiene. Enough said. 5.) A little trick of mine is, befriend a group of girls and seem sexually uninterested in them. Allow them to help you find other women. Best move out there. Bec after a while they’ll see you having all the fun and they’ll want to pull you in for themselves. I legit have chicks fighting for my attention in clubs. Work your way up to that. 6.) Don’t reply on dugs or alcohol. 7.) The goal should be to have fun! Stop making it your goal to get laid, that mindset puts too much pressure on yourself. If you’re having actual fun, women will see that and want to be apart of it. Obviously, don’t be a nut case but if you’re confidently having fun, chick looove that shit
@@Lo-to7zh Most of our guys are average looking, a couple are even pretty unattractive yet they can still bag good looking girls. Keep using “I’m not a Chad” as your excuse to not get better, your life bro
Invest in yourself, your looks, body and skills!!! This way your value moves with YOU, wherever you are you will get choosing signals, get approached, etc... From there it's just a piece of cake!
hi from Kazan, Russia. you're absolutely right. nightclubs are just ego boost stations for women. I know this first hand and from my ex with whom we're still friends.
I have always said (and even FACEANDLMS said this) = I rather be in a relationship than be a player. Only long-term relationships build lasting satisfaction. But just make sure that the women is with you because she desires you, but women only desire good-looking guys. Make sure that shes not simply with you for the money or because she doesnt want to be alone since chad never wanted to commit to her. . The following 3 reasons is why most women are bitter or decide to date other women = When a guy Short-term relationships her (Friends With Benefits), or ONS her, or when she is dating a guy that she doesnt find attractive because she cannot attract a chad or make a chad commit to her. So what about if youre in a non-committal relationship with a woman (friends with benefits) = Its gonna tick the man off when you see that she is also playing the field with other men. If youre not the only men thats satisfying her and she feels like she needs other man asides from you to complete her satisfaction, then your male animal instinct will get angry, because shes basically saying that you are not enough. This is why Chads do ONS and rarely do FWB
Never go to a party you’re not invited to. Which means when you are 7 or less, never chase anyone it’s sad and awkward every time. People will virtue signal and won’t tell you it will be shown by action or lack there of(choosing signals). I use to believe running numbers game but it’s basically the Sahara desert as a 5. Just find your purpose or hit the gym like a lunatic
Never liked nightclubs and considered going there a waste of time, energy and money. Thanks bro, you just logically dissected what most of us here know anyway but kinda lack a skill to logically prove the point.
Here are my top ten reasons for not approaching: 1/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 2/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 3/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 4/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 5/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 6/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 7/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 8/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 9/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 10/ *see the previous 9 reasons I'd rather have root canal surgery than put myself through that mess again in my 40's.
This makes me sympathize so much with straight men and it's true. I see it first-hand when I hang out with heterosexual female and male friends. Most of my friends are.straight men or women. Makes me feel a bit better about being gay and choosing to avoid the toxicity in the gay dating culture. Dating generally sucks anyway.
There are sorority girls that live 2 doors down the hall from me. I am 6'1, slender, and probably a 6 looks wise. They knocked on my door and begged me to go out with them. I agreed, and I do not drink but I wanted to experience and watch the way they behaved. When we showed up to the club, the girls said they had to go to the bathroom and all came back with drinks and the one girl said "Sorry we were just flirting with this guy to get drinks" as it was nothing. I wanted to keep going with the conversation, but the music was so fucking loud as I said before. I was sober an hour into it and they saw I was giving them almost no interest as I was just listening to the music leaned against the wall. The one girl I came with started making out with this 5'6 guy next to me, and afterwards I asked her who he was. She claimed "He was so nice and I felt bad about rejecting him so I gave him something". Never going to bars or clubs again after that night.
I am a 24 yr old KHHV mentalcel loner, went to nightclubs 2 times all by my self and normally i go there just to have fun. I don't waste my energy approaching anyone. The last time i went, there was this girl who cheered me with her bottle and was smiling, but she was with her bf (usually i am the one to cheer with random people). Things like this never happened to me before.
I want to add that most undamaged high value women doesn’t go to clubs. Some of them thinks that going there will make their image bad. The moment they know that a guy goes to a club it will hurt your reputation and make your status lower. Unless you’re extremely attractive.
As a lady who has been married to a great guy for 14 yrs now, I have to say I have never once stepped foot in a nightclub and I would not have even considered dating someone who was into the nightclub culture. Its a big turnoff because the first thought that to mind is that this person must be promiscuous, whether that's actually true or not.
Lady. Young men go to find a mate or to have fun with friends. We don’t particularly like it but when you stay single and you hit your 30’s and not as lucky as your partner we have no choice but to hit the bars/ clubs or dating apps to find a partner. You have no idea. Your comment is stupid! I hate clubbing as an introverted man but I force myself to get out there to meet a woman! Don’t judge people woman! Peace to you :)
@@geeelll7216 there are other ways to meet women than nightclub, even if you are lonely. have you tried hobbies? Warm approach with women you see regularly in a frequent context is always better
The hard reality is there is not many women having of recreational sex. Ask any guy who know if they have gotten a girl to agree to a friends with benefits or fuck buddy situation. You have get through women having outercourse, one night stands, and having sex to get into a relationship.
You just reminded me of that one instance when my landlord took me to the stripbar. There was this girl that studied at film school just as I did so she started talking to me and kept asking me for a drink. I told her "I'm not going to buy you a drink, nor am I going to pay you for the private lap dance. You're gonna be on a stage in 15 minutes and I'm gonna see you naked for free...why would I pay more than I have to?" Yep....she left me there alone but I felt like a winner, because I was probably the only one in the whole room who hasn't tried to get into her pants with money and on top of that I let her know that what she's doing is selling her soul for money. Was a nice night. Got drunk like a donkey.
Well... hopefully she didn't find you attractive because I fucked a stripper once when she was supposed to give me a lap dance lol she didn't ask for a drink though
I just find nightclubs very cold and almost hostile. Let alone horribly overpriced. Whenever I go abroad, I try to look up the places where the locals go instead, for a more genuine experience.
Yea..i agree with you on that.most pub/karaoke (here in south east Asia) are set too low on the a.c..full of smoke of every kind..the smell is also repulsive especially in the toilet..and Don't mention the ego fight of everykind.i stopped going there eversince.
I've only been three times to nightclubs before age 22. I never liked it. Narrow spacing, overcapacity, loud music and I don't drink pretending to have fun. And the question. Oh, the question; "what will we do?"
I spent way too much money and brain cells going clubbing when I was younger and I concur, it’s a complete waste of time and I regret the damage I did to my health.
This video was certainly needed. I went to college in the 2000's (attended from 2002 to 2006) and went to a few clubs, it was sorta okay back then I guess because this was long before the smartphone and dating apps took over but quite a few dynamics, as explained in the video, were essentially the same. I managed to get a few hook ups but didn't do too much in the scene. It wasn't too horrible 10-15 years ago but it's certainly a huge waste of time now because anything of ease that was left back then, social media made it obsolete for good.. I haven't stepped inside a nightclub since 2010 and don't plan to anytime soon, if ever. I rather pay a hooker for ass to step foot in another nightclub to get laid. NOT. WORTH. IT.
This somewhat cope , casual hookups are ALWAYS better than a shitty relationship. Less wasted money , less wasted time, less wasted hope of someone changing. If you are one of the few guys that enter a good relationship then you are lucky and better off than both situations
Yes. Hookups/ONS are a "Chads only" luxury, so those guys saying hokups aren't that great are just non-Chad copers. It also doesn't make sense from an evolutionary perspective: The more hookups you have the more successful you'll be in spreading your genetic heritage.
@@balinfundinul8728 right people just hate when they have to pay more for the same thing. The truth is in 2022 MOST girls have had casual hook ups before so you are always over paying with dates or relationships
@@balinfundinul8728 looool.... we don't care about genetic heritage, 'spreading' our seed or reproducing. We care about connection - that's what we need! (ie, physical, sexual, emotional, social, etc). All of those things in brackets are more important to us to get right than the nonsense such as passing on your genes! Our DNA can get its 'exercise' through a relationship.
Hookups come with a lot of risk and aren't satisfying to anyone who has an actual soul within them. Risks of hookups are STD's, unwanted pregnancies, angry boyfriends/husbands, and defiling yourself. Only losers and low lives hook up. And that goes for both men and women. People need to learn to just be single until you find someone you connect with spiritually and physically.
@@ozone8259 lmao i can tell who's been cheated on before. news flash, not every one wants to be in a relationship or believes in souls, you can move on with your christian beta nonsense
I witnessed a guy get body slammed on the dance floor in my 20’s at a club once. I felt so bad for the guy who got slammed but who knows what transpired. The worst is going to a restaurant just to eat and not drink but stay long enough for the place to turn into a club atmosphere. I was exiting a restaurant/club once and a young girl pushed me from behind so hard for absolutely no reason and turned around to see her and the guy she was with scowling at me. I figure someone else stepped on her shoes or something and thought it was me.
Now that I've watched it, you nailed every issue. The only thing to add is on the health part at the end and on the one benefit. For the health part - stress levels. If you're unsuccessful, it'll get you down, if there's any tension/fights or the hangovers the very next day and the knock on effect to diet, your goals and other social engagements the next day or few days. The benefit - repetition. If you have any game or you're struggling, practising in a club is perfect, you get in a lot of reps for any openings (cold or warm approach as you won't be going alone). The smoking area is perfect for practising a close. Get practise in and get out before midnight
@@noahaltdorf5311 Yeah, I can understand why but its like a job interview, you don't want to blow it when its the one you want. All they'll be doing is the same as everyone else, except going home rather than being chad
@@leonrobinson2053 absolutely, but still I think a lot of guys just gave up and like to think there is nothing they can do to improve their life except watching blackpill and MGTÒW and eventually hate on chads and girls
Dating is a game completely controled by women(even for chad) The best way to handle it is dont play the game. I say, live your best life. If they come to you, then proceed on your own terms. If they dont come to you.....oh well.
As someone who's been messed about in mind and soul with night life I say THANK YOU for making me fully realise how waste of money, time and effort clubs are. I will never go to one again and rather be single for however long it takes than make a fool out of myself again in club culture.
Festivals/ carnivals > nightclubs. Nightclubs are only really good for hookups and that's the truth. For the majority of the time, I go just to drink or catch whines. Alot of socials I get from girls (Snapchat, insta etc) they go nowhere and most of the girls there are a mess.
I never liked going to bars/clubs anyway, i’m a big introvert. I always want to go home as soon as possible to recharge. I just don’t like being around a group of people for long periods of time.
When I worked at a nightclub a bartender told me, "Nightclubs are where men have to pay three hundred bucks to see the theory of natural selection in practice."
Smart guy. I do occasionally head to a nightclub myself, but I generally tend to hang at the bar, and watch the mating rituals unfold. It's pretty fun.
s**ual selection, not natural selection
@@siempeeters5983 kinda sad tbh
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@@jonc3214 Not wise, because he should have said sexual selection. Nobody in a night club is struggling for food and fighting the environment.
Guys who say “Just go to the club for fun bro! Don’t focus on women!” Are 99% likely to be going to the club strictly to get women. If there were no women at clubs, men would not go, let’s keep it real
I mean there's definitely satisfaction with getting drunk and high with your friends, listening to good, local, underground music, dancing collectively with a crowd that also loves the music, and meeting cool people. Yes, getting noticed by women is awesome but clubs are already a blast without getting laid the same night.
Depends if you're extroverted or not
@ghost mah exactly nothing is more dumb than going clubbing with a bunch of amateur red pill guys and spending the whole time leering and picking out targets
I mean the alternative is that you say fuck women to get high or coked up with your buddys, or typicaly if the club is a sausage fest then 20% of the men that are there is for the black market, and dirty jobs they planning to do thruout the week just saying
some men just dragged out by friends there.
As a nightclub DJ, i concur! I do not even engage with female customers. They approach me constantly looking for attention, validation, control and a way into the dj box so that they can SAPPCHAT all of their “followers”. I am 6’ 3, in shape with a lot of ink. Id say im a entry level tyrone. But the status of being the man in control is what really gets their attention. In my 15 years of DJ experience, most girls at a club have an option outside of the club and enjoy the free, drinks, attention and validation. They break the rules for a chad/tyrone but it’s dangerous because they can wake up in the morning, remember they have a bf or option, make false allegations in order to avoid accountability for their actions, and thats the end of your career!!! Be careful out there fellas 👊🏾
So true!!
@@jokernabastard2828 The higher your “perceived” status, the more they use you! Ive been rinsed for free entry, free alcohol and free transport and then aired the following day. No-one is safe out here 😅
@@djdarryl01 Homerun number 2 right there!
Was a bouncer. Avoided all the women. Only picked up 2 women the entire time I did it. I married one of them
Damn
I was a DJ, and occasionally a bouncer, in nightclubs and a strip club back in college. You have no idea what kind of insanity and vile behavior women are capable of. I could write a book.
I second this, share some stories man
I typed a long reply and it got deleted. Too much for CZcams??
I agree I worked as doorman in a strip club in the late 90s till 2005
My girlfriend kicked a man in his chin with her leg for approaching their female group. I was shocked to hear it. He was drunk, but still it's so cruel. Can you imagine a reverse situation, I can't
If you ever get the chance, eavesdrop on conversations women have when they think no men are listening. It's a definite red pill event. They are as bad or worse than guys.
If you want to go to a night club as a man then you should be:
- Good looking
- Be young
- Have money and show it
- Be charismatic
- Have a group of friends with you to show that you are not a creepy loner
Then you can have a lot of fun in night clubs as a man that can catch the attention of the women.
Otherwise you will just get rejected which frustrates you and you'll just get drunk instead.
There is another way too. Just have fun and truly mean it. I seen old Asian men go off 😆 and I shit you not...guys and girls start surrounding him.
I also found this true for myself. I'm usually Completly wasted and just having fun and that's when the magic happens...good memories are made that way.
Nah that’s cap. I smashed a bunch of girls from the club by myself.
Which is basically unrealistic, only something out of a film, in which a young lad's charisma has been written by older dudes and he's been cast by an older casting director based in his looks, without these he would be a boring guy with good looks or an average looking guy who has poor choice of words.
Moral: don't let pop culture make you think that's how it works.
I completly agree. Espescially coming with others and be good looking. But I put more value on looks. I most of the time get lost for 3 hours searching for my group and just say fuck it and start dancing 😭😂
Edit: I must say Charisma is also essential, above bringing People.
So Looks,Charisma, being with others.
That's almost zero guys
I used to be a complete bar rat. I have moved past that in a huge way partly due to Covid. Let me tell you from experience, I almost got into a fight one out of every three nights I would go out. It was so not worth it looking back. I got it out of my system but I still cannot believe I wasted so much time / effort / money on going out to meet girls at these horrible places that treat men like dogs instead of just sitting at home and reading a book or watching Netflix. Anything is better than clubbing...
I agree 100%. It’s been 4 years since I last went into a club, infact I haven’t had a beer in 2 years.
Being drunk, having a hangover, wasting money, standing at the bar hoping to meet a woman, going home alone and also getting into pointless fights with drunk asses, it is for me, all just one bad experience.
In my early 20’s I learned that avoiding fights is the best thing to do, I walked away from the last few fights I almost had in the pub, my front tooth is still cracked from a brawl I had when I was 19, it’s just pointless bs mate.
@@tommygunner321 Good on you bro. At least you didn’t get it even worse than that
@@Daniel-ny7bn
I’ve had my head smashed in when I was 17 by a guy and two girls he was with outside a club, when they drink, people are animals mate.
@@tommygunner321 Thats actually so screwed up and I'm very sorry that happened to you...I sincerely hope your story, this video and other forms of content act as a deterrent for young men just entering the dating market. Good luck and God bless
Absolute facts
A woman at a club is like a kid in a video game store.
And after dating a club girl (a whole 7 inches shorter than me, and out of shape) I can pretty much guarantee these women think they're some kind of protagonist in an rpg game. They live in a fantasy world.
I ghosted that troglodyte faster than she swipes left on tinder.
Thts your fault man. It don't matter how good u look. if you treat a girl better than she feels inside she will look down on you. She doesn't respect herself so she can't truly respect a man tht simps for her especially if he's way more handsome
Lmao @ "troglodyte"
@@ghhhv2027 but.. they deserve a chance.. to change for the better
@@cautarepvp2079 Simping ain't pimping bro. Plus, for her to become better is her choice alone, nobody else will and should tell her since in this day and age. If you don't take care of yourself first of all, you truly have nothing at all!
Why date her in the first place? You’re part of the problem
Women have it so easy dating they’ve literally turned it into a game. Now as a zoomer, the only socially acceptable places to meet are bars and clubs. Yet women have now made “girls night” a game. Legit they are making quests on tik tok for going out.
I doubt it. Imagine that 95% of the girls were old and fat. It does not make them happy how many men are undatable. I also think men cope better than women . Women being in the reproductive bottle neck are much more obsessed with their love lives than men. Our troubles for the day end after we rub one off. Their's begin.
@UCzItGhM3XKye9WBiQ_V_wcg women are incapable of the levels of self reflection and awareness that lead to self-deletion
@@desmonides
GOOD!!
..PHUC-EM
Its been always like that and we men should not be mad at the game
@@Aid-1- There's no we, there's only you
As a 30 year old man from the US who has partied in many countries from England, to Japan and Thailand, everything this man is saying is true. Clubs do nothing for men and even in the small off chance you do leave with a girl, it is never fulfilling and leaves you empty in the long run. Us as men need to practice day game as most women are not expecting us to approach during the day and they will be less on guard as they aren’t being bombarded by a bunch of simps like in a club 👍💯 great video!!!
If you truly want results then you don’t focus on doing day game or night game you just focus on living. If you see a girl you like then talk to her no matter the time or venue, just live your life.
He's correct... I go to the night club to " Style and Profile ". That's it....
Well everyone wants to check it personally
@@RippinHoes I think the deal is, if you need to run game, you just don't have the looks to attract anyone. Chads don't need game or need to go out of there way.
That’s because club girls are ugly and they low value looks matter but as girl you looks fade fast if go to club regularly 😮
My mother going to the nightclub and having a one-night stand with a random stranger is the only reason that I exist . The 1980s were crazy .
Hopefully she made a right decision and you're a chad
That wild bro lmfao 🤣
How are you doing bro? Did she provide you all?
Your mother belongs to the streets
It was the same in the 80s. If you weren't chasing girls, you were nothing. Of course the guys saying that were generally broke from spending money on dates, in clubs, on clothes and cars to attract girls, etc. Most of the time they didn't even "seal the deal" even after a full day taking her to a theme park or whatever.
It also isn't just in clubs where guys, or even grown men turn into cavemen. I've seen many other occasions where a group of men were getting along fine, then an attractive woman shows up, and it is all competition for her attention. This is even with married men. I just sit back and laugh at them, and lose some respect for them.
('-')
You NEVER compete for a woman. The woman must compete for YOU. You guys today are CLUELESS. When a woman gets wet for you. Shes gonna let you know. Either directly. Or the friends coming over to try and make the connection.
If you have to make a fool of yourself to get laid. You are just that a FOOL. You have to turn up with a package. That as soon as the women you dont know is gonna be your next conquest. Lays eyes on you. She has an orgasm standing up. It could be a look you give a woman who crosses your path. And she will then want to pursue you.
It could be the way you present yourself and move. You have to carry yourself like a winner. Like you have had better than any woman standing in your presence. And to give any woman your time is PRECIOUS. And you are doing HER a favor. Not the other way around.
You have to dress RIGHT. and have some choice bling on. A Rolex. An eye catching ring and bracelet.
Give an air of success and aloofness. You may in REALITY be sleeping on you moms couch.
Women are shallow creatures. They want sexy and they want money. You have to present both. And then you have a chance of getting what YOU want.
Yeah a lot of men are really pathetic in how much they simp for yet complain about women, women can sense desperation
I never chased women in the 80s. They were not worth it to me. I had no need of a girlfriends or whatever. It was nice when I had one but I did not live for one.
@@MA-se1iv
Correct.
Ive ALWAYS hated night clubs. Loud, terrible music, expensive, hot, crowded. Whats to like? Ive always just seen it as a trap for mens money.
If you don't drink and the DJ is fire I enjoyed my time.
The key is not to drink tht much. And don't be a simp. And go early
@@prettyboyjeremy Well there you go, IMO there is no such thing as a "fire" DJ. I have spotify and better taste.
@@tRav285 I agree with you my man. At night, in my bedroom, listening to some of Chopin's Nocturnes or Beethoven's Concertos is way better than spending my time in a sticky-floor nightclub, surrounded by drunk and stinky people.
It's a cesspool of people pretending to be something they are not.
I used to be a bouncer at a night club. My buddy and I would always laugh at women dressed to the 9s. They never left with anyone, they never found their Chad and they continued to come night after night. They never danced, they never seemed to have fun. Ironically the coolest women that came in were strippers. We had mirrors everywhere so they could see themselves and practice, they were the nicest people and they had fun. This was on our off nights. They did know how to party. No we didn't go home with them
Strippers and hookers are usually really nice people for some reason
@@yuisimp3392 trained emotional intelligence
@@yuisimp3392 They've actually interacted with all kinds of men, even (lots of) sub 5's and maybe that broke their black and white view, where Chad is the personification of all that is good, normies are dumb simps and sub5's are mean spirited, evil goblins. i wouldn't go as far as calling them nice, maybe a bit more in touch with reality, which also makes them more dangerous, as they know how to play men.
@@yuisimp3392 I called op a simp, not you. Sorry
@@yuisimp3392 Yup. I've engaged with some working girls in the past. Nothing wrong with renting (if you have the money to spend) you go straight to the point no games and no bs. This is why even a lot of successful men (some even married) rent on occasion. There is no shame in it. "real women" will often hide the fact that they are using you for attention, free drinks, a free ride, and try their best to hide the fact that your interaction with them isn't genuine and not transactional. At least the working girls are honest about what they're doing, and many have a good attitude about it.
I'm surprised hygiene wasn't brought up. So many times a girl or a group of girls are making moves on me, then I get a whiff of their breath or body odor and instantly enter a existential crisis: "these girls are gross, why am I even here? I'm going to politely gtfo now."
Hahahaha.
Yo iv encountered even some attractive girls with bad breath 🤢. I think it's their diet
Have a 6'6" friend who looks almost just like me, only I'm 5'9," and in physically better shape. Every place we go when we hit the town (one time, a night club), he gets 95% of the attention, and even I get a bit more attention myself just by association. Us normies need to work on looksmaxing and farming (work on building something/being on a purpose and let it speak for itself), because it's not worth hunting/cold approach for us.
And even worse that we're brown!
I agree but... we need to build something but after seeing how much work it costed, I dont want to share it. I keep all for myself.
Women love clubs. Men fight over them and they get to humiliate and reject many normal men.
I remember this one time I went to a club. This girl as me to buy her a drink for her birthday for her and her friend. Next thing I know; just bought a drink for her and Chad....Lesson learned.
rip
It's over
Lol lesson learned indeed
Bruh. Never buy stuff for random strangers unless they're homeless.
sorry but thats your fault that you bought ahahha
Nightclubs are tinder in real life for girls. Maybe she comes across a chad and goes home with him but it's mostly for the ego boost and free stuff
Exactly
Yo bro this is some bullshit go watch some Hamza
I can tell you the ego thing is a thing. I put myself out there on a dating app just to see how I would do.. Since I’m socially awkward irl. Lol. It’s not even to date guys. It’s a test. To know where I stand and how this society works. Free drinks can be true for other women since I don’t go out to clubs.. And my bf is not a typical chad but he’s very likeable and still quite attractive (met him even on a game lol)
@@LuckyLaure It's a false test. Because you' cannot differentiate whether those likes mean "I'd like to bang" or "I want relationships" with you. And those are very different levels (4-6 and 8-10). Part of them are fake bots, part are "checking", just like you do, some just like every one, etc. So you can't get real outlook from dating sites, they provide false results
The idea of a helping women sustain the illusion that they are more attractive than they really are was enough of a reason for me to stop going to clubs.
@Alex H That's absolutely true. But as long as I'm not contributing to it, I'm ok.
@Alex H really? Do you think that women presenting false illusion of their attractiveness by wearing excessive makeup is what makes them attractive ?
@@filzy1887 Excellent point
Not to mention that the women we meet at night clubs are the worst of all and have no emotional connection with you whatsoever. You could die tomorrow and she won't give two shits
@Alex H I completely agree attractiveness is objective, but I never said it wasn’t I was specifically referring to the types of women Wheat Waffles talked about in this video . Did you pay attention to it, or are you just here to harass men talking about their legitimate grievances ? I’m also gonna need a source for your claim : 50% of variance in facial attractiveness is universal, although I agree attractiveness is objective I wanna look at the details of that study.
Don't approach, period. Make them approach you, instead. Ignore them at the nightclub and just enjoy yourself. The women who go to the nightclubs WANT to be the centre of attention.
I noticed 2 things on the last clubs i went to:
-One Club had a "singles party" where women/men that were single had green bands and women/men that were taken had red bands which probably serves to make it easier to not get rejected by not knowing their status and what they want
-One club had 50/50 split tickets for men and women. If all mens/womens tickets were sold, no more additional men/women could get in
This shows that there are actually people noticing these issues and working on them
Good Idea
In my country single men cannot enter to clubs. One must have a girl with him to enter ( unless he is wealthy enough to tip the bouncer generously). I used to find this incivilised and sexist but now I understand it
I got angry and stopped going to clubs, when i realized I am paying to be treated like shit.
Women enter for free, skipp the line, get free drinks. And I as the paying customer, have to pay entrance, wait in line, get rejected/accepted entrance of not by some grumpy doorguy asif it's a privillige, end up paying the (expensive) drinks, and get rejected a shitton etc...
And i'm paying good money, to get above shit treatment.
When i realized that, I refused to gve them my money any longer. I am not paying anyone, so to be treated like shit. Imagine if you were treated like this, in a restaurant.
Pua’s that keep recommending nightclubs are gonna be on suicide watch at this rate lol
King shit only 💯👑
@@nyfbby10 I’m on my 4th felony kang. I can’t wait to go back to the pen tho… they got my favorite Cheerios errday and I don’t even gotta pay taxes no more 🥴 life real good here in da states cause my momma done said I’m too special to be treated less than human, even doe I robbed a Walgreens three times and killed a homeless man fo some Benny. Know what I mean?
yeah its crap fest I rather save my money and go to a bordello in Germany
PUAs are a bunch of desperate frauds, if they're still pushing their bs, in this day & age
The types of women going to clubs are already busted down. If that’s what you’re pursuing, you get what you deserve
Let’s be honest, no one’s going to the club to find a wife. It’s basically tinder irl
@@activatekruger446 a brothel is tinder IRL.
A nightclub is Chad widow nightcare.
Every women goes to nightclubs at one stage of their lives this is such a cope "muh trad wife women who never downloaded tinder or went clubing"
@@npill2403 not every woman goes to the nightclub lol. And just coz she doesn't go to the nightclub doesn't mean she's a foolish traditional house wife lmao. There are many places where you find genuinely good women such as at the library,the gym,the park,even normal stores,at some event etc. Going to find a woman at a nightclub is like trying to choose the best food item from rotten food lol. The same applies to men too.
@@npill2403 Guys need to get this idea of ‘trad wife’ out of their head. They simply don’t exist anymore.
I'm glad the pendulum is swinging, more and more I see people self improving and ridiculing this kind of behavior, the behavior we were taught growing up was " cool" glad we all becoming adults together. The mid 2010s felt like a experiment.
@Darkstar. Agreed, well said
Darkstar 20 no
@@CarbonGod666 no what?
@A Guy loosing out on sum pussy. there's a balance to everything in life. I'm still figuring it out too. this information won't present itself to you unless you seek to find it within.
@A Guy cope
9/10 times if a woman is in a nightclub hanging out, dancing, grinding on guys, etc…. She’s not girlfriend / wife material. Women with class wouldn’t subject themselves to such a degenerate environment with alcohol, loads of men, ego’s, fights, sexual dancing, and more.
100% It's pretty ridiculous that men keep trying to look for women there. You have a really cool name btw, what country are you from?
Well, women might have different lifespans. It just takes changing clothes and makeup to become a nun or a secretary
Exactly bro
It's the same with many other things in life. You crave something that other people have for years, but when you finally get it, there's only short-term joy that quickly fades away, and you're left feeling empty.
The only way to feel fulfillment in your life is to develop skills and put those skills to use. Work on a project that will take you weeks or months to complete. Realize your weaknesses and work on them. Become a better person, and look back at how pathetic you used to be a few years ago. This will bring you much longer-lasting satisfaction than chasing after things you're jealous of.
I pulled the last time I went clubbing. I’m 6’1” with a wide frame and I’m arguably a chadlite at best. The girl approached me and made it obvious. There was another girl who rejected me and my mate and apparently got with someone who was around 6’4”.
When a girl finds you attractive, she’ll make shit easy. There’s no game in a nightclub. Just try to look like you’re having fun and give off a decent vibe. Looks, height, frame and style will do all the work.
Get heel lifts bruv
I'm 6'1 with a good build, chad lite as well. As you mentioned, there's always going to be a guy that out chads you. However, knowing I'm somewhere in the top 10-15% looks wise. I'm not complaining. My lack of a career is my biggest weakness, but it could be worse.
That is 100% false. You pay enough to petty stuff too much. Yes petty ! :) One day you will look back at all this rubbish and laugh. No looks,height,and frame,and style will not do all the work because where is the personality ? Are you two just shells sitting next to eachother ? Do you have a personality or are you just as shallow as the girls you are accusing ? You are putting life in one big box
@Alex H i don’t think anyone else even noticed that . That was the first thing I noticed . Clearly he’s not incel . But that doesn’t negate his message
@@brocklanders3616 Career is overrated anyway. It won't make you anymore happy
The thing is, men stopped going to clubs a long time ago. That's why they all shut down. Without men paying entrance fees, buying their own drinks and buying the women drinks, the business model crashed. Now, there may still be a few in the largest cities, but the days where there were all kinds of them with people lined up to get in are over.
I wish you were right but I always see alot of simpish men hanging out at night clubs.
I should say yes tho, I see that more in the bigger cities
They are still around in a few hot spots of major cities, but yes, the entire club, bar, tavern, pub weekend party scene is in shambles. I live on a popular avenue in PA that used to be rocking every Friday and Saturday night. Lots of bars and large crowds within about a 5 mile stretch. Since 2018, about 5-10 bars, pubs, and taverns have closed, the crowds have disappeared, and the few that remain are barely hanging on.
I'm from Houston and the nightlife here is alive and well, perhaps better than pre-Covid, but then again, Texans aren't bitches and scared of Covid anymore, so that is likely a factor as well.
That's cause of social media
My first kiss was in a nightclub. I was drunk, so I kissed a very fat woman. 🤮🤮🤮
LMAO
it happens man
Brutal
Lmao
Alcohol is a bitch ain't it
I very much agree with the hostile environment. Nights clubs are extremely aggressive here in Australia with young men regularly dying from injuries relating to fights. I myself have been in fights and could have ended up dead or in a coma several times and it was all over competition for women. There's also always the biggest douchebags at clubs, some are legit criminals so you have to be careful you don't piss off some of them.
Honestly its not really worth it all for a shallow ons that rarely happen if ever.
Same experience. Night clubs are all the same. They are magnets for narcissistic dooshbags, and meat heads.
The "nightscene" (so to speak) has always been the retreat of criminals. There is much more crime and violence in bars and nightclubs than in any other type of commercial establishment. This, by itself, is enough to wish to avoid them, or to frequent them very sparingly.
A man should only be in the nightclub for 3 reasons. As a DJ, bouncer/security, or club owner. These are the only 3 times a man should be in the club.
Or felon. Felons love clubs because it’s too dark to get snitched on while they murder some guy in the back. Then they just prance off to Taco Bell and flex on the gram with some fat bish.
And club photographer, my jam
@@davedsilva This too if you are making money in the club that that is the only time you should be there as a man.
Not going to Nightclubs means: Start to take control of you life.
Most guys are saving their money for the Nightclubbing, getting heavily drunk and end up with medium-low class women. As this is there only way to approach women, life becomes a sad routine of bad weekends and desperate working days.
Step out of this rat race.
Brootal.
yea I agree. Just work on yourself and your life. Save up for plastic surgery if you need it.
The true rat race is bigger than just night clubs man. The rabbit hole goes deep into the digital world too. Yes- you escaped the night scene but have you escaped the digital prison? Instagram thots, Pornhub, social media?.
Alot of men...including myself, have a tough time running away from this beautiful hell.
The girl pulling away from kissing all those dudes as a "prank" gonna come across the wrong one some night. Some Drunk guys don't have the same self-control girls do
Scary thing - she was maybe a 4, probably a 3. Any man with self-esteem would wish her luck with her weight loss before she got that close.
Bruh she has a huge belly. Thought she was preggo for a sec.
Back in the day when I used to buy PUA books they would always stress having to go to clubs to meet women and it never felt right to me. All the points you make are spot on.
You can get laid from daygame, online just not that fast
Yeah, I have one or two of those books.
"The Game" was okay for it's time, but was rendered obsolete the moment smartphones entered the picture.
@@dimidzam9794 Don't get me started on "day game".
Men, like raccoons, when seen milling about during the day, needed to be avoided. Afterall, why are they not at work? That alone is a red flag.
That was one of the only options at the time.
@mid-day break there’s truth to every pill. Look at how a short ugly guy like Charles Manson had so many women.
I've been telling people for years that this is why I won't go to clubs! Finally have some back up. I wish I had realized sooner that online dating sucks.
Reasons for not visiting nightclubs, or leaving shortly after entering -
1. Waiting for half and hour outside in a queue.
2. Waiting to be served at the bar that is 3 rows deep
3. Paying for overpriced drinks.
4. Where the men outnumber women 2 to 1 or more - called a 'sausage fest'.
5. Music so loud you can't hear yourself speak.
Not all nightclubs are like this. You just have to be picky.
Most important piece of advice is don't buy women drinks.
I wasted so much time and money in nightclubs in my early 20's. Wish I had this wisdom back then.
You’re no kidding. I had a lot of fun though. Things were a lot different 25 years ago
@@Abcq755 it was late 90s and 2000s for me. Times were so much different then.
@@Abcq755 no worries. I’m in my late 40s. I enjoy these channels and wish I had them when I was young. My life would be a lot different now I think
Was it fun though?
@@ridenfish39 the 80s were the time of the nightclubs. You went to have fun with your friends.
Yea the looks thing is spot on. i’ve had women straight up come up to me in a nightclub and say they liked how I look. some have even started off by initiating physical touch first to get my attention. this literally never happens anywhere else
Same, I'm average looking I guess but I'm 6'3 so I guess I'm hot to some woman. I never saw women being interested in me like they are in nightclubs. I go to clubs like couple of times a year only to boost my confidence.
@@russellwestbrookyellingatw9381 how they approach you with all the loud music lol
🧢🧢🧢
@@russellwestbrookyellingatw9381 that’s why I say to my people to meet women in person , go out there and show yourself. Many dudes be on these dating apps shit and saying they get no matches and shit. Regardless of how ugly or good looking you are , most likely most guys profile are put to the bottom be Edit of algorithm. There’s way more men than women on those apps and plus girls barely be swiping that much so they don’t get to see your profile
@@Dreweybaby why? Maybe he’s telling the truth since he might be good looking
I just avoid dating altogether since it never began.
You'd fail, so it's wise to
Or get a prostitute
i avoid cruel dating that arnt vegan, i dont kiss graveyards
Its over for you buddy boyo never begann for you , get a roastie post wall with beta bucks buddy boy with chads child
That kinda defeatist attitude will see you fail. In all areas of your life. Every. Damn. Time.
Do you think Dio ever gave up when his body was basically obliterated, and then the one he stole got smeared across the road? I mean, probably not the best role model, but you know, gotta admire the dudes will. Emulate that drive to succeed.
Seriously though. You can't be so defeatist, especially not when we're on the cusp of another world war. Just think, there's gonna be many single women once the nuclear dust has settled, and far fewer men to satisfy the requirement, so that's gonna improve your own chances...
Reason 4 is so fucking true. I've hooked up with girls in nightclubs who I thought were like 7, 8s. Then when I would meet them in another setting without being drunk, low lights and excessive make up... Oh sweet Lord have mercy on my soul. I was ashamed of myself for going that low. Fuck nightclubs, focus on yourself kings. We are all gonna make it.
I can't wait to see all these clubs going bankrupt. Many of these clubs have also their habitual visitors who know each other and also befriend the guards because of their frequent visits. So as an outsider it's very dangerous to visit these places as these people get drunk and team up to fight outsiders together with the guards.
Great video as always. I used to be a Chippendales dancer, so I actually made money from women. But other than that, I didn't go to nightclubs for fun. I wasn't gonna spend the money I made there. It was business only. Unless you're making money, nightclubs are a complete waste of time.
Thank you! Nothing but a circus!
Before I even watch, completely agree. It's dark, its loud, women are out there for free drinks and they are looking for men they know or giga Chad. Night club game is like the takeaway afterwards, the beer goggles are well and truly on and you need to go home, not eating kebab.
Or like trying to get a taxi afterwards, you'll be queuing for a driver who's gonna over charge you and take you the long way home.
women at 20: i want to be a whore and men who want wives are creeps oppressing me
women at 30: i want to be a wife and men who want whores are abusers oppressing me
women at 40: time for my mid-life crisis divorce where i steal a house and kids.
Just get an uber, dude.
@@Lenky01 The cost of Uber and Ola have surged, most of the time I walk the 40mins
@@leonrobinson2053 Ohhh, I thought you meant you already convinced/charmed the girl to leave w you and you were saying that it was mad waiting for a cab.
I was like " just uber.."
My mistake.
@@Lenky01 Nah, we are men, not magicians.
This is greatly timed. I was recently invited to a club around thirty min from my house I’ve never been to, but I turned it down after the coworker who invited me explained that he would usually get box. However, the catch22 is that he’d be dumping a portion of his money into drinks first and get milked for essentially legal prostitution. Keep in mind he’s not a bad looking guy either-that just seems to be the culture/happened to another friend where it became “pay to play” with a girl he was with
Just go to have fun, drink and party with friends. The best time is a time where you don’t worry about women, enjoy yourself and let things come as they happen
@@cjezinne 100% true
@@cjezinne it's not rly my scene tbh, im not a drinker. Although, I imagine that's the wave.
You guys are doing it wrong. I used to work in clubs. it depends how you approach it. Never pay for their drinks and don't get drunk. Go next to a college and go early thts the time all the hoes go. Stick to the 2 step and dress with style
I really must be a Tyrone then because girls have offered to smoke me out, buy alchohol for us on our "dates", pay for said dates, and pick me up without giving gas money sometimes.
This is so freaking true. I'm a 4-5. The hot girls don't give me a 2nd look and a lot of the uggos don't either because of their boosted ego. But I never go below my number because even when drunk I can tell an uggo so I won't look at them. But I legitimately am not going to clubs anymore for literally every reason you mentioned
i'm going in clubs with female friends at least once a week (for different reasons than wanting to get women, more for experiencing and socializing) and these points are extremely accurate.
I would never go alone in these kind of places.
Exactly il go to a club begrudgingly with a lady friend because she wants to dance n stuff blah blah. But id NEVER go alone or with male friends.
At school, the movie, Saturday Night Fever came out. I wanted to go to a Night club. When I turned 18, I discovered Night clubs were disgusting. In one incident I got a unjustifed slapped by a woman. She got a huge shock when she got a punch back.
This could not be more based
Gigabased!!!
Idk man, I'd have taken the slap and not retaliated 🤷🏻♂️
Don't call me a coward, I could easily body a woman since I'm 2 years into MMA around 6'2" and 200 pounds but getting an assault charge as a man could jeopardize your career long term and short term 💯
I had a friend who was also slapped by a woman and had retaliated. The courts and cops being simps believed that the guy and locked him up for 6 months plus he got an assualt charge and no companies would hire him. He had to resort to work from home on low pay as a software engineer. He literally had video evidence from the CCTV cameras that the girl had initiated the fight but the judge just threw it in the bin. The judge looked like an ugly simp too 🤣🙄
Moral:If it's a man vs man fight it's all ok(atleast in the eyes of the law). You're not seen as dangerous by society if you have an altercation with other men
But if it's a woman, God save you. Even if you go for defending yourself you'll be blamed and your career is over.
@@justadreamerforgood69 I'm aware of the dangers. However it was a proportional response a puch to the shoulder. It's not like I knock her out or anything major. She deserved it. I told the boyfriend he'd be next if he coursed trouble. He witnessed that she started it & he didn't want a black eye. All I said to her was hello & she turned it into a major incident. She dragged the boyfriend off & left the club after that.
@@SunRise-ul7ko
It's about fighting her boyfriend, is it ?
What if she called the cops? Certainly you can't fight them or you'll get shot and bodied by multiple of them unless you're a politician's or a billionaire's son 🤷🏻♂️
Even if you were in the right and had video evidence, the girl's word will still be taken as the truth by default 💯
Nightclubs if you're going there just to enjoy the alcohol and 'music' or to 'hang out' with your friends so be it. It's costly. The atmosphere is ...whatever. if you're going there for the attempt at meeting women....better try elsewhere save your more money for more productive purposes. It's no different than door to door sales if you get the analogy your roi will be terrible.
One point I see eye to eye with the PUA James Tusk is daygame is superior to nightclubs for many reasons
Honestly I can hardly think of a worse place to go looking for a high quality women. The few quality women I know either don't go to clubs at all, or go solely to have fun and dance with their girl friends, but it's like twice or thrice a year. On the other hand, from all low quality women I know, many of them go to nightclubs on a weekly basis or even daily basis.
@@bababoyyye islam or WWIII will solve hipergamy
@@WheatWaffles I've had some great experiences with working girls.
100% agree.
It's fun but not the place to meet the girl of your dreams, you might kiss a few girls or go to the fancy restroom to fk her but that's about it honestly.
No serious bonds made and it's definitely not fulfilling.
it's acceptable in your late teens and early 20's but when you see 35 year olds in the club.. that's when it gets weird honestly..
Nice work. Night clubs for most men are a waste of time. A lot of work for little reward. If you don't drink night clubs can be painfully boring
Bullshit u can get a baddie everytime you go out, dress nice and don't hug the damn wall , the assumption tht no one finds you hot is silly
@@ghhhv2027 username checks out
You guys have it wrong. Going to the nightclub is for listening to the dj and dancing. Everything else that might occur is a bonus. Targeted places with specific events. Go out, learn what you like and enjoy the music. Stop obsessing about getting laid because that's when it doesn't happen.
I used to do some auditing for a guy that owned a nightclub as a side project, and we actually spent a lot of time talking about the ins and outs of the business and he believed (and I'm inclined to agree) that his main asset as a nightclub owner were low self-esteem women, they are free because they are begging to come in but they are also the cannon fodder that lures in the real whales.
What really stuck to me was his reasoning behind thinking female nightclub goers had, for the most part, low self-esteem issues. He laughed at the idea that some women just go to have "fun" and dance with their friends, that all women go to nightclubs to wiggle their asses to strangers and either bang them, or to get some validation and feel attractive since you can have the same fun for cheaper in some other place or at a houseparty but nightclubs were designed as hunting grounds, not a place you go to develop human relationships.
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I'm older than the target audience for this channel, but it still resonates. I've only been in clubs a few times in my life and each time has left me feeling "This is _really_ not for me". I'm not a good-looking guy and while I like to think I have a 'positive' or two to somewhat offset that huge 'negative', a club is not a setting for them to be showcased.
My son has a completely 180° experience of clubs. He *is* a good-looking guy. That's not just me being his Dad. It's the pair of us walking down the street and me seeing him checked out by every female we pass. It's a girlfriend of his telling me that he can "just enter a club and have girls hanging off him". He once had a part-time bartending job in a popular club, so he was being paid to be handed numbers and get propositioned all night.
I have tried to tell him what it is like at the other end of the curve, but there are few common points of reference.
Do you allow me to ask, if your son even try to understand?
@@Meetmountain A fair question. We are close as it was just me raising him. I can only say that if he doesn't then it is only because of it ever being a non-issue for him rather than for him being an unsympathetic ass. He certainly knows it's a thing as he's been told the same by his friends. If his friends were going out on the pull they'd sometimes leave him behind in order to have a chance.
I can say that he's never made as much of it as he could have and as a superpower, it doesn't seem to actually help much when in a relationship:-
He knows from experience that guys with more money can just take his girl from him.
When university made him and his GF 'long distance' I warned him to prepare to be dumped. He said "She's not like that" and he was devastated when I was proved right.
You made some good points. I think you should have more confidence in yourself though. If you claim you're not good looking, but your son is; you either an unattractive guy that got a beautiful woman as the mother. Or you're not as ugly as you think. Beautiful people usually have physically attractive kids, but sometimes it comes from one parent's side. I've had one decent club experience where the music sucked, but the girls were friendly and attractive. I danced and talked to a few of them. This was in my 20s. I'm 33. My other experience was the opposite. Amazing music, but stuck up women rejecting me and other guys all night just to dance. Yeah I stopped going after that.
@@ishidacoolp I probably am as ugly as I think. The story there is that she wasn't into me, but WAS into the lead singer of an 80s band, to whom I apparently bear a resemblance. Can't see it myself though.
Re the 'confidence', I feel I'm doing ok. It does come with age, plus (BIG plus) I'm in the best shape of my life. I can say I'm middle-aged now, but where most guys my age are getting fat, I have no gut at all and can hammer out a number of press-ups sufficient to raise many an eyebrow.
Perhaps I am better looking at my current age than when I was younger. I got into better shape to forestall a possible diabetes tendency, but maybe, in the process, I've also 'Looks-Maxed' myself as you young'uns say. Who knows.
So a subhuman created a gigachad? Yeah ok. Lol
I been stopped going to nightclubs to pick up women. This is well said. Meeting women in clubs and on dating apps sux (most the time). I met women online and in clubs but they usually wasn't quality women. They were bottom of the barrel one night stands usually. It's much better to meet a quality woman at a gas station, grocery store, or somewhere you usually go anyway. And first dates should always be at a park, coffee shop or somewhere cheap. If you don't know her, why spend money on here. If she demands money being spent on here before you know her, she probably doesn't have much of a personality and she thinks you will leave her alone once you figure that out so she wants you to pay before you know you don't like her
I agree brother but nobody is going to these clubs with the intent of finding anything else.. it's casual sex nothing more... obviously you ain't going to find the love of your life.
@MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS She wants an expensive dinner bc she isn't paying. She expects the man to pay . Women will have multiple dates in a week bc they usually aren't the payers. If a guy spent 50 or more on her, she probably wouldnt give him any just to try to motivate him to pay for another date. Some women will literally sleep with losers within hours and make a hard working man wait days/weeks for the same wore-out, loose, dry box.
If I don't sleep with her the first date or spend less than 50, I ain't calling her again. I'm calling someone else
The Gym is the opposite of Nightclubs. One makes you fulfilled and helps your health and the other destroys your soul
agreed!!! Also if someone still needs to drink they can always drink in pub with mates or at home
Straight facts! Also the quality of people you'll meet at the gym is far better than whoever you'll meet at the club.
Yet both are still filled with overly confident/cocky dudes who call themselves “alphas”
Yet, a lot of women go there too for attention
I’ve Worked as a floor bouncer and a Door bouncer in Bars, Clubs, Nightclubs and Sportsbars all over New York and New Jersey and I can tell you that this is true. As far as the ratio we literally pick hot women off line an pull them in, the more attractive women the more popular the club an the more men buy drinks for the women AND eventually the woman’s friends because he doesn’t want to look cheap or poor. And I can tell you firsthand through hearing conversations of women online at the club that most of them are there specifically to get people to buy drinks for them, party with her female friends and post on Instagram, snap and Twitter. I’ve also seen a ton of fights break out of women and as one of the bouncers the guys never come out on top they usually get the crap beat out of them by us and then get arrested. I remember one time a bouncer was trying to remove a guy and he swung on the bouncer and we ended up trying to get him out the back door and he fell down the stairs and broke his leg an lost his gold chain & watch when he fell, the got charges pressed on him for attacking our staff
So bitter
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As a girl, I used to go to clubs in my late teens, early 20s, and honestly it's all about validation. I would have never dated a guy I met at a club, just like no guy would have dated a girl they met at a club. I never left with anyone either because that was not the point. It is really all about validation and it did feel like a game. I think 21 was the turning point when I stopped being an insecure teen and realised what I actually liked was dance with my friends and let go, so I started going to gay clubs or techno events where you can dance and nobody tries to touch you.
Honestly now clubs are kinda dangerous for both genders, because girls can get sexually assaulted and guys can be accused although innocent. Most girls don't actually want to sleep with someone, they just want to tease and feel wanted, so when something else happen that they encouraged they feel ashamed and like they let the situation get out of control and might try to feel better about it by shifting all the blame on the guy (who was probably also drunk). Clubs are not a nice environment.
Just get high at home with your friends and nice music, people.
"Most girls don't actually want to sleep with someone, they just want to tease and feel wanted"
Mmhmm. Lol, I can count many girls who had this exact mindset, so totally agree.
If a girl starts doing this to you, they don't like you enough, move on, unless you also don't mind just a friendship with some flirtation for practice, use her like she is using you.
I've had dozens of lays, tried with hundreds of girls, I am what you would call a 'chadlite' and I've experienced this many times. My advice, I've had girls who have been head over heels crazy about me, and girls who just want to tease you and feel wanted like this girl is saying, don't waste your time, and don't settle for a girl that isn't into you, cut her off. Either she'll respect you more and realize she actually likes you or you'll save a bunch of time that you could spend cycling meeting other girls - Be bold upfront, she should know your intent within 5 minutes of meeting her, and you should be getting positive vibes back or it's not the droid you're looking for, move along. Ask yourself, if I've had girls who have been crazy about me and want to treat me like a king, why would I settle for a girl who treats me like a fan, I wouldn't.
After you realize you can meet 10 girls an hour, and couple it with a maxed out online profile, you'll stop caring about getting laid and more about finding a girl you 'actually' like and is compatible with you, you don't want to be part of that 50-60% divorce statistic you do? And when you start qualifying her, it instantly makes you more attractive.
99% of men will acknowledge this message but do nothing about it, so just imagine if you are that 1%, it's easy I am telling you.
I feel you about the “techno events where nobody tries to touch you” letting go on that music and just smiling at everyone around you knowing they’ll just smile back… boy I miss those days
Cope
At least in London, thankfully there's still plenty of clubs like this - going to one this Friday and never been more excited. I go there to chill and if I happen to talk to someone and it goes well then cool too
Well that answers my question at how every shift working at a club resulted in blue balls after making out with 2-6 women a night 😂
Things to NEVER do as a man:
1. Never use online dating
2. Never go to nightclubs
3. Never chase & give attention to women
4. Never marry a single mom over 30
5. Never stare at women in the gym or public (don’t give free attention)
6. Never workout for women, only work out for yourself
7. Never put yourself down because of rejections, some people reject others because they want to feel good about themselves
8. Never use tiktok
9. Never date a woman who won’t pay for their dinner
10. Always avoid tattoo women
11. Always avoid women who smoke a lot
12. Always avoid women who are addicted to social media
13. Always avoid women who wear a lot of make-up and have multiple piercings
14. Always avoid fat women and feminists.
(There’s a lot of more things which I can mention but the comment would be too long)
Go to nightclubs if you are Chad. You would be stupid not to go to nightclubs if you are Chad.
@@The01t If you are a Chad , you don't have to go anywhere, the women will come to you.
@@davidaustin4407 loool
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So you've eliminated 99% of women in this day and age🤣I agree, but if you're sub Chadlite, forget about the good women
I was going to clubs in the late 80's, and honestly, nothing has changed. It's the same thing... never buy chicks drinks.. they're their to "dance and be with friends." I went there with a mindset that knew these things, so I didn't base the entire night on getting laid.
The only way I'd go to any club these days, if I was younger, would be with a date.
women at 20: i want to be a whore and men who want wives are creeps oppressing me
women at 30: i want to be a wife and men who want whores are abusers oppressing me
women at 40: time for my mid-life crisis divorce where i steal a house and kids.
A club is the last place I'd take a date/girlfriend to. In some way or other the evening would get nasty, guaranteed.
@@iancavon7125 clubs are a great date spot as rubbing up on each other is bound to create chemistry.
But yeah, that's only if you're a Chadlite+ and are confident you're the girls best option and that she won't be looking at other guys.
@@iancavon7125 Facts
Nightclubs are where I learned pick up so I'd like to add a few things.
1) the most beautiful women don't get approached as much as you might think.
2) being a VERY good Dancer helps alot.
3) if you are really good looking you will have a much easiar time than most.
4) if you go with girls already in your group, more random women will be willing to talk to you
5) a good body and height matter almost as much as a nice face
Preach!
1.prob, guys getting that huge kick in the balls if they would get rejected by them.
2. I'm not saying i'm a great dancer, but i've had the spotlights on me several times because I'm one of the only people who can dance on hardcore music on regular party's, if you are familiar with that.
3 I'd would say i'm a decent 2- 3.
4. yeah women have this radar, about what's with that guy that this girl/woman is in that group talking/dancing with him etc. woman would compete dirty if you maybe are decent looking for her.
5. hmm, I'm 178cm and skinny/average from bodytype.
@@coldlyanalytical1351 you desribed me. mostly I go alone on party's. *ofc I have/meet friends/people. but I'm the lone wolf dancer, but I get noticed with a certain dance for a certain music ^^.
How did you come to conclude point 5?
@@coldlyanalytical1351 this! I always spent all my time on the dance floor and having fun dancing, girls usually try to get closer to me as my style of dancing attracts them it seems and/or my appearance. I often experienced girls randomly approaching from their behind almost grinding on me without making it obvious though. I guess according to the channel I am either an almost chad then or my dancing is really good since girls approach me in clubs but also not completely obvious which is what they would do with chads I guess.
Not going to lie. I've had one night stands and after the interaction, you just feel guilty. Empty, Ashamed. Thanks for this video. We all need to keep reminding ourselves that stuff like this is bad because the world will try and indoctrinate you into this stuff time and time again.
Stop being hypocrite
How good looking are you?
I could say from dating sites, one night stands were for the most time either dangerously on the edge, or I paid anyway. Mainly with nerves. I wasn't a chad, and that was the problem. It was fun, but It was very dangerous as well. For the most part it was humiliation
Some of my worst memories in life are from nightclubs, getting rejected endlessly and getting into fights with dick heads over nothing. Thankfully I didn't waste to much of my life going to them, once I figured it out in my mid-20's I was done with them.
Why always so many violent people in clubs?
@@maxalbert8903
Egos, competition, stupidity.
Since the #MeToo movement it is extremely dangerous to try to get action by going out clubbing, especially if you're not Chad. All she needs to do is wake up the next morning after being drunk and not care for the way you look and you can be in loads of trouble. Maybe it's still worth a shot in other countries but in Western "woke" countries you are really rolling the dice.
If I may interject...
nowadays as I've been noticing, the workplace/workforce is becoming that which of a nightclub. And the job I work at is a perfect prime example. Only difference is that yeah you might hear loud music and whatnot to make the work go faster but no dancing. I even heard that most of the guys there treat these heifers....like celebrities.
Meaning, any and everytime they come around flapping their assets...guys LITERALLY stop whatever the hell they're doing only to just crowd around them with lil pieces of paper asking for autographs and then some. In other words, saying hi, hey what's up, blah blah blah.......and you see...it's only "me too" when a guy they "feel like" is an undesirable and extremely unattractive... because the first 1-5 seconds determines it All. And I myself learned that from TFL waaaaaay back in 2012.
And of course we've all been there and done it all, seen it all, and heard it all before...I've done it. You've done it. (Scoffing Fiercely) Men still Do IT!
Indeed, These heifers give us a night to remember etc Etcetera ETCETERA but when the sun comes up, their demonic jezebelic mask comes off and all the forces of hell are unleashed.
Smmfh+Facepalm... This is just one of the countless... countless reasons as to why the older I get, I don't have the patience nor the tolerance for typical mundane punk chit.
Especially when it comes down to these typical modern day western nightclubbing femiTHOTS throughout the color line spectrum.
Yeah! For Sure! Me!
Lol chicks aren’t gonna just “me too” some random guy, you’d have to have some sort of status
@@Xanivert You really think only celebrities get accused of harassment and date rape?
@@Xanivert Really? Chicks will do it to protect themselves more often than not. Most common is rape to avoid being caught cheating on a drunken night out. Which is why it's illegal in NY to have intercourse with a woman even after 1 drink, she can't consent after 1 drink but the guy can still be charged with rape anytime she chooses to.
Women are just digging their own holes at this point.
What about the tiktoks of women accusing guys of being creepy and harassing them at the gym by just looking in their general direction?
There have been several big name Australian athletes who have fallen prey to this.
Lmao the amount of women who are in "serious relationship" yet they sleep with random guys in the nightclub is sad and funny at the same time!
Chads are prostitutes for women
As a person who worked behind the bar at a small club. I can tell you that all these points raised are spot on. Its like watching a National Geographic Documentary.
* Fights - You better know how to fight and win or else you will end up looking like a push over and no woman likes a push over
* Expensive - As a guy you are paying an entrance fee and paying for drinks. You might as well invest in some YOLO stock
* False accusations - Even if you land a landwhale and you do the deed, her friends can accuse you
* Chads - This is a losing battle
Stick to warm approaches, or try park runs, group hikes
Why is it a losing battle for Chad’s? Do you mean because of all the male dickriders that are trying to beef with him in there?
Park runs and group hikes 😂 save some of 2’s for us Turbo
@@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940 no. He's saying there are many chads at the nightclub who take all the girls.
@@SmoltingWassie2/10s go to group hikes. Old obese heifers
5:00 is My biggest issue with nightclubs!
I used to club in the late 90s and up to 2006 and I can honestly say those were the golden Age of nightlife for me, especially 1999 and 2004.
We went to nightclubs to have a GREAT TIME and leave our worries behind with not a single ego in sight!
I made lifelong friends from the club scene back in the day and everyone was friendly and cool.
Now we have this hostel trash scene. The nightclub scene died after Gen X left the club scene.
I feel so sorry for the Millennials & GenZ! Yall have no idea what you're missing. Look up old nightclub videos from the 90s and you see.
You will also ruin your hearing if you visit nightclubs and conserts too often, unless you wear earplugs. Personally I got permanent tinnitus from nightlife, although it is relatively mild and manageable right now.
11) is sooo true! In 2019 I visited quite a few night clubs here in Germany and I HARDLY saw anyone making out or even flirting. It seems like Club Game nowadays only exists to inflate women's egos, since it's easier and more comfortable for them to find a Chad via Online Dating. My prediction for the future of Night Game: Only VERY high Chads and VERY desperate Normies/Sub5 will be in the Night Game.
It's everywhere same. What these woman think about themselves is unbelievable. They feel men lick their feet anytime. Nobody will see me in a club again. I've had my parties in 2010-2016. Right now these women are looking at you from height and they are unbearable.
I can tell you that very high Chads detest night clubs. The only thing there for them is trouble and they know it.
In Germany I've met some nice girls and did what I had to do, I'll agree that it wasn't very fulfilling but it was a good experience.
@@Eruptor1000 As a tourist you mean..
@@cautarepvp2079 I've been stationed in Germany for military reasons and I have been going to clubs in Nuremberg.
Great success so far with girls my age.
Nice makeouts, I fk them in the fancy restrooms etc... rawdawging it too bro... y'all need to get out there bro
As a women, I couldn't agree more with this. Cold approach is completely useless and nightclubs are the worst.
why is a foid watching a black pill channel?
@@karlhans6678 what's a foid?
@@deeply_infactuated femoid, I suppose
haha. let them go to clubs. pass around the chad bugs.hilarious.
Definitely. Btw I saw you're subbed to Ben Shapiro, he's awesome. Facts don't care about your feelings!
As a male entertainer, here’s my take on night clubs…
1.) Most people (men & chicks) there are not that interesting and don’t stand out. How can you make yourself fun, exciting, yet mysterious? My friends and I run every club we go to bec we created a system. You have to be fun, witty and not afraid to put your ego aside. Dress up, don’t be afraid to show some skin, don’t be a creep tho 😂
2.) Stop idolizing women. They aren’t special and they aren’t as hard to get into bed as you think. On that same note, don’t be afraid to bounce from girl to girl throughout the night (unless you’ve found one where the chemistry is that good), this demonstrates that you have options and women notice / like that. It’s pre-approval from other chicks. I danced with dozens of chicks this past weekend and had maybe a quarter trying to take it out of the club. Don’t be afraid of rejection and understand social boundaries. Too many guys don’t know how to be smooth and casual. Sex isn’t a big deal. If women feel a lot of pressure from you, they’ll bounce. Be casual about it and make it out to be no big deal. Also, don’t be afraid to exercise options.
3.) Women love sexy bodies. This whole myth of women liking dad bods… It’s all a lie. Get your ass in shape and get your style right. If you feel comfortable/ confident about your body and outfit, there’s not much that can stop you. Chicks literally ask for pictures with me and my buddies all the time. Our outfits get attention and we are all fairly built. You don’t have to be a bodybuilder like me but at least look like you are somewhat athletic.
4.) Take care of your grooming / hygiene. Enough said.
5.) A little trick of mine is, befriend a group of girls and seem sexually uninterested in them. Allow them to help you find other women. Best move out there. Bec after a while they’ll see you having all the fun and they’ll want to pull you in for themselves. I legit have chicks fighting for my attention in clubs. Work your way up to that.
6.) Don’t reply on dugs or alcohol.
7.) The goal should be to have fun! Stop making it your goal to get laid, that mindset puts too much pressure on yourself. If you’re having actual fun, women will see that and want to be apart of it. Obviously, don’t be a nut case but if you’re confidently having fun, chick looove that shit
Good advice but you still need to be good looking enough
No,thanks.I'm not a chad,so this advise won't work anyway.F*ck clubbing.I don't need this s*it.
@@Lo-to7zh Most of our guys are average looking, a couple are even pretty unattractive yet they can still bag good looking girls. Keep using “I’m not a Chad” as your excuse to not get better, your life bro
@@m.angelov5636 You don’t have to be a Chad. Put in the work and become better, then if you care to, give it a shot
@@mrblondeheart9562 a chad telling to normal dudes they don't need to be chads lmfao man , at least be honest.
Invest in yourself, your looks, body and skills!!! This way your value moves with YOU, wherever you are you will get choosing signals, get approached, etc... From there it's just a piece of cake!
hi from Kazan, Russia. you're absolutely right. nightclubs are just ego boost stations for women. I know this first hand and from my ex with whom we're still friends.
I have always said (and even FACEANDLMS said this) = I rather be in a relationship than be a player. Only long-term relationships build lasting satisfaction. But just make sure that the women is with you because she desires you, but women only desire good-looking guys. Make sure that shes not simply with you for the money or because she doesnt want to be alone since chad never wanted to commit to her.
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The following 3 reasons is why most women are bitter or decide to date other women = When a guy Short-term relationships her (Friends With Benefits), or ONS her, or when she is dating a guy that she doesnt find attractive because she cannot attract a chad or make a chad commit to her.
So what about if youre in a non-committal relationship with a woman (friends with benefits) = Its gonna tick the man off when you see that she is also playing the field with other men. If youre not the only men thats satisfying her and she feels like she needs other man asides from you to complete her satisfaction, then your male animal instinct will get angry, because shes basically saying that you are not enough. This is why Chads do ONS and rarely do FWB
Just the mere thought of being POLY enrages me.
Never go to a party you’re not invited to. Which means when you are 7 or less, never chase anyone it’s sad and awkward every time. People will virtue signal and won’t tell you it will be shown by action or lack there of(choosing signals). I use to believe running numbers game but it’s basically the Sahara desert as a 5. Just find your purpose or hit the gym like a lunatic
" Just stay on your purpose g bro".
Never liked nightclubs and considered going there a waste of time, energy and money. Thanks bro, you just logically dissected what most of us here know anyway but kinda lack a skill to logically prove the point.
Here are my top ten reasons for not approaching:
1/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
2/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
3/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
4/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
5/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
6/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
7/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
8/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
9/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS.
10/ *see the previous 9 reasons
I'd rather have root canal surgery than put myself through that mess again in my 40's.
This makes me sympathize so much with straight men and it's true. I see it first-hand when I hang out with heterosexual female and male friends. Most of my friends are.straight men or women. Makes me feel a bit better about being gay and choosing to avoid the toxicity in the gay dating culture. Dating generally sucks anyway.
Yep lmfao.
Don’t empathize with straights they ver rarely will care about us.
There are sorority girls that live 2 doors down the hall from me. I am 6'1, slender, and probably a 6 looks wise. They knocked on my door and begged me to go out with them. I agreed, and I do not drink but I wanted to experience and watch the way they behaved. When we showed up to the club, the girls said they had to go to the bathroom and all came back with drinks and the one girl said "Sorry we were just flirting with this guy to get drinks" as it was nothing. I wanted to keep going with the conversation, but the music was so fucking loud as I said before. I was sober an hour into it and they saw I was giving them almost no interest as I was just listening to the music leaned against the wall. The one girl I came with started making out with this 5'6 guy next to me, and afterwards I asked her who he was. She claimed "He was so nice and I felt bad about rejecting him so I gave him something". Never going to bars or clubs again after that night.
That doesnt sound like bars or clubs that just sounds like you got taken out by a bunch of thots. 😆
bro not every female interaction is for sex, they invited u out with them because they thought u were a cool person, get over yourself
Sounds like you could have smashed but weren’t being confident enough
@@geo6646 I could have and still could. But what does this video explain? One night stands lead to no long term satisfaction.
@@tarodfowlkes3934 At what point did I say anything was about sex? You sound like an incel.
I am a 24 yr old KHHV mentalcel loner, went to nightclubs 2 times all by my self and normally i go there just to have fun. I don't waste my energy approaching anyone. The last time i went, there was this girl who cheered me with her bottle and was smiling, but she was with her bf (usually i am the one to cheer with random people). Things like this never happened to me before.
You are destroying manosphere left and right in an amazing way. You are literally the embodiment of black pill. Amazing video!
I want to add that most undamaged high value women doesn’t go to clubs. Some of them thinks that going there will make their image bad. The moment they know that a guy goes to a club it will hurt your reputation and make your status lower.
Unless you’re extremely attractive.
As a lady who has been married to a great guy for 14 yrs now, I have to say I have never once stepped foot in a nightclub and I would not have even considered dating someone who was into the nightclub culture. Its a big turnoff because the first thought that to mind is that this person must be promiscuous, whether that's actually true or not.
Lady. Young men go to find a mate or to have fun with friends. We don’t particularly like it but when you stay single and you hit your 30’s and not as lucky as your partner we have no choice but to hit the bars/ clubs or dating apps to find a partner. You have no idea. Your comment is stupid! I hate clubbing as an introverted man but I force myself to get out there to meet a woman! Don’t judge people woman! Peace to you :)
@@geeelll7216 there are other ways to meet women than nightclub, even if you are lonely. have you tried hobbies? Warm approach with women you see regularly in a frequent context is always better
The hard reality is there is not many women having of recreational sex. Ask any guy who know if they have gotten a girl to agree to a friends with benefits or fuck buddy situation. You have get through women having outercourse, one night stands, and having sex to get into a relationship.
THEY ALL ARE.
You just reminded me of that one instance when my landlord took me to the stripbar. There was this girl that studied at film school just as I did so she started talking to me and kept asking me for a drink. I told her "I'm not going to buy you a drink, nor am I going to pay you for the private lap dance. You're gonna be on a stage in 15 minutes and I'm gonna see you naked for free...why would I pay more than I have to?"
Yep....she left me there alone but I felt like a winner, because I was probably the only one in the whole room who hasn't tried to get into her pants with money and on top of that I let her know that what she's doing is selling her soul for money. Was a nice night. Got drunk like a donkey.
Well... hopefully she didn't find you attractive because I fucked a stripper once when she was supposed to give me a lap dance lol she didn't ask for a drink though
I've done something similar
I just find nightclubs very cold and almost hostile. Let alone horribly overpriced. Whenever I go abroad, I try to look up the places where the locals go instead, for a more genuine experience.
Yea..i agree with you on that.most pub/karaoke (here in south east Asia) are set too low on the a.c..full of smoke of every kind..the smell is also repulsive especially in the toilet..and Don't mention the ego fight of everykind.i stopped going there eversince.
I've only been three times to nightclubs before age 22. I never liked it.
Narrow spacing, overcapacity, loud music and I don't drink pretending to have fun. And the question. Oh, the question; "what will we do?"
I spent way too much money and brain cells going clubbing when I was younger and I concur, it’s a complete waste of time and I regret the damage I did to my health.
Here is my opinion as a handsome tall bouncer. Don't go!
Yeah exactly.
This video was certainly needed. I went to college in the 2000's (attended from 2002 to 2006) and went to a few clubs, it was sorta okay back then I guess because this was long before the smartphone and dating apps took over but quite a few dynamics, as explained in the video, were essentially the same. I managed to get a few hook ups but didn't do too much in the scene. It wasn't too horrible 10-15 years ago but it's certainly a huge waste of time now because anything of ease that was left back then, social media made it obsolete for good.. I haven't stepped inside a nightclub since 2010 and don't plan to anytime soon, if ever. I rather pay a hooker for ass to step foot in another nightclub to get laid. NOT. WORTH. IT.
Agreed
This somewhat cope , casual hookups are ALWAYS better than a shitty relationship. Less wasted money , less wasted time, less wasted hope of someone changing. If you are one of the few guys that enter a good relationship then you are lucky and better off than both situations
Yes. Hookups/ONS are a "Chads only" luxury, so those guys saying hokups aren't that great are just non-Chad copers. It also doesn't make sense from an evolutionary perspective: The more hookups you have the more successful you'll be in spreading your genetic heritage.
@@balinfundinul8728 right people just hate when they have to pay more for the same thing. The truth is in 2022 MOST girls have had casual hook ups before so you are always over paying with dates or relationships
@@balinfundinul8728 looool.... we don't care about genetic heritage, 'spreading' our seed or reproducing. We care about connection - that's what we need! (ie, physical, sexual, emotional, social, etc). All of those things in brackets are more important to us to get right than the nonsense such as passing on your genes! Our DNA can get its 'exercise' through a relationship.
Hookups come with a lot of risk and aren't satisfying to anyone who has an actual soul within them. Risks of hookups are STD's, unwanted pregnancies, angry boyfriends/husbands, and defiling yourself.
Only losers and low lives hook up. And that goes for both men and women. People need to learn to just be single until you find someone you connect with spiritually and physically.
@@ozone8259 lmao i can tell who's been cheated on before. news flash, not every one wants to be in a relationship or believes in souls, you can move on with your christian beta nonsense
I witnessed a guy get body slammed on the dance floor in my 20’s at a club once. I felt so bad for the guy who got slammed but who knows what transpired. The worst is going to a restaurant just to eat and not drink but stay long enough for the place to turn into a club atmosphere. I was exiting a restaurant/club once and a young girl pushed me from behind so hard for absolutely no reason and turned around to see her and the guy she was with scowling at me. I figure someone else stepped on her shoes or something and thought it was me.
Bro club scenes are the fookin worst
#11 Nightclubs are the worst places to search for a serious relationship
Now that I've watched it, you nailed every issue. The only thing to add is on the health part at the end and on the one benefit.
For the health part - stress levels. If you're unsuccessful, it'll get you down, if there's any tension/fights or the hangovers the very next day and the knock on effect to diet, your goals and other social engagements the next day or few days.
The benefit - repetition. If you have any game or you're struggling, practising in a club is perfect, you get in a lot of reps for any openings (cold or warm approach as you won't be going alone). The smoking area is perfect for practising a close. Get practise in and get out before midnight
I don't think the aspect of practice will interest a lot of blackpillers lol. 50% just gave up
@@noahaltdorf5311 Yeah, I can understand why but its like a job interview, you don't want to blow it when its the one you want. All they'll be doing is the same as everyone else, except going home rather than being chad
@@leonrobinson2053 absolutely, but still I think a lot of guys just gave up and like to think there is nothing they can do to improve their life except watching blackpill and MGTÒW and eventually hate on chads and girls
Dating is a game completely controled by women(even for chad)
The best way to handle it is dont play the game. I say, live your best life. If they come to you, then proceed on your own terms. If they dont come to you.....oh well.
people who get angry over someone accidently bumping their shoulder are either on steroids or cocaine
Some of them are on steroids AND cocaine.
As someone who's been messed about in mind and soul with night life I say THANK YOU for making me fully realise how waste of money, time and effort clubs are.
I will never go to one again and rather be single for however long it takes than make a fool out of myself again in club culture.
Man you really hit the nail on the head with this video. Couldn't agree any more. Quit nightclubing over 6 years ago now and am much happier.
Festivals/ carnivals > nightclubs. Nightclubs are only really good for hookups and that's the truth. For the majority of the time, I go just to drink or catch whines. Alot of socials I get from girls (Snapchat, insta etc) they go nowhere and most of the girls there are a mess.
I prefer day drinking for sure.
Totally agreed! Also Tinder is not for the most of us... Cold approach is for chads only. Is there anything left?
Nope it’s over
Bars and nightclubs are some of the WORST places to meet women. Try school, college, recreational activities and online. NO POINT 🤣🤣🤣
I never liked going to bars/clubs anyway, i’m a big introvert. I always want to go home as soon as possible to recharge. I just don’t like being around a group of people for long periods of time.
We are the same
This video need to reach the 1M. I never seen something so true than this video. This guy breaking down the game so well, it’s funny to watch 🤣