Captain Anshuman Kirti Chakra controversy पर उनके पिता ने सारी बातें दुनिया के सामने रख दीं
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- Captain Anshuman Kirti Chakra controversy: In a special conversation with Lallantop, Ravi Pratap Singh, father of martyr Captain Anshuman Singh of Deoria, openly expressed his opinion on all those controversies, about which questions were being raised continuously. What did Ravi Pratap Singh, father of Captain Anshuman Singh, say? Watch in this interview.
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Past life को भूलना हैं...par past life ke benefits लेना नही भूलना है !!
She had done love marriage . Not seen the family of boy. She has full right as wife.
@@induchopra3014 ghanta full right
@@anilrajput6451 the case of lady officers should also be discussed
Husband gets all money,pension
That should be discussed too. He remarried his money should be stopped too. Why not one lady officers parent crying? Why not one female employees parent crying. Why only boys parent think every sacrifice only they have made. His bahu became civil engineer without money? Her marriage happened lavishly he accepts,
without money? He remembers his own benefits but forgets his responsibility. His responsibility is to settle the girl. Give her part of his property if girl lives with him. Girl is slso leaving her rights. She is not claiming her rights as bahu. She is not claiming her share of his house property. Accept that. Girl had love marriage
She had relation with boy. He died,she went back home to study. Took only her rights as wife
She gave up her rights as bahu
This father himself not staying with his parents after retirement. This father forcing bahu to live with him. Why he is not living with own father? He has broken tradition himself
@@induchopra3014 tmrhi jesi soch hi desh ko aur khrb krhi hai feminism n tmhra dimag band krdia hai
Wife ka right Bahu bankar rahna bhi h
भले ही पत्नि को दूसरा अंशुमान मिल सकता है पर माँ के लिए अंशुमान नहीं मिलेगा
माँ बच्चों की जान होती है , ❤ ❤
Society wife ko torchure kregi Maa ko nhi
@@MansoonLover2wife dusri shadi kr legi aur Anshuman ko bhool bhi jaygi, society bhi bhool jayegi but kya Anshuman ke father mother ko beta bapis milega
@@MansoonLover2exactly. Bahu ok ye sasur torture hi kiya hoga. Bete ke shaheed hokar thoda hi dino mein yeh baap, bahu ki dusre bete ke saat shadi ka baat karta hai. Dirty person
@@sriranjanim1460sukha Nasha Kiya hua h tune lagta h
@@sriranjanim1460sharm kariye .. iss baap ne apne beta ka balidan diya hai . Paisa sara uske pass hai 6 mahine ki shaadi me .. 6 mahine me ek company ka probation period khatam nahi hota .. aap jaise log hi aaise ladkiyon ka dimag kharab karte hai support karke.
Wah रे जमाने जिसने बेटा दिया उसी को कीर्ति चक्र छूने को नहीं मिला
bhai har cheez emotional fool nahi hona chaiye, chakr lene ye bhi gaye the president ke paas to aisa to hain nahi chune ko bhi nahi mila. or army rule hain isliye widow ke paas rakha hain usme bhi kya galti hain uska bhi haq baki har cheez me hiss mila hain parents ko pension pehle se hi milta hain
@@user-rm2kn6jy4bto aapke hisab se unke pita jhuth bol rahe hain, kya dimag paya hai aapne😂 Paisa, penshan en sab ki baat to tum kar rahe ho unke Mata pita ne to kabhi nahin kaha ki ye unko chahiye, ladaki ke man baap ko paison ka lalach ho sakta hai anshuman ke man baap ko nahin
Shadi kabhi bhi apane parivesh, apne jile, apne samaj aur apne jan pahchan men karni chahiye
@@manojyadav0223 ye baat aaj kal ke log samaj jaye tu kya he dikkat hai
@@manojyadav0223 kyu jhuth nhi bol sakte hain bhagwan hain kya wo? baki lalchli nhi hain to medal medal kyu kiye ja rhe or ye kyun start me bola tha ki bahu sab leke bhag gyi. paisa thoda bhut mila hain tbhi kuch nhi bole baki tum aise bole tum antar yami tumhe sab pata hain wo kya sochte hain. itne hi ho case karke army ka rule change karao aise sm pe tez banke kuch nhi hoga
अंशुमान जी के पिता बहुत अच्छा कर रहे है नहीं तो समाज में ऐसी बहुत लड़किया है जो परिवार को बर्बाद करने मे लगी है।
Sahi kah rhe aap mere ghar me khud aisa j bhai mera army me h jb bhai se bhabhi ki ladai hoti h o kahenge mai suicide kr lunga to bhabhi meri kahti h ki kr lijiye mujhe koi frk nhi padta h bahut dukh hota h ye sb sun kr padhai krti hu pr is sb problem ko dekh kr padhai ho nhi pati
Haan priwar barbad karne k thek to ladki ne liya h aise log shaadi krte he kyun h apne bete ki
औलाद खोने का दर्द माँ बाप के सिवा दुनिया में कोई नहीं समझ सकता❤❤
pita ka Dhyan pura bahu ke paise khane par laga hai
@@leothelittlesimba2682bewkoof insan ho
@@leothelittlesimba2682Your comment is not fair. Grief need not be shown 24x7 through tears. This interview is much later. What the girl has done is very wrong.
@@sudharavishanker4594 What has girl done? Her husband nominated her for money and pension his father was not. What is your problem? Whatever is happening is as per the law. Why are you criticising the girl?
@@sudharavishanker4594 It is absolutely fair. you have a anti women mentality. Gov has given her money and medal. She did not snatch it from gov. Will this couple feel proud after snatching them from her?
Lallantop Thanku very much nice interview, सब बाते clear कर दी.
7:08 इतना बड़ा अन्याय देखकर कौन से मां बाप अपने जिगर के टुकड़े को फौज में भेजना चाहेंगे.
जो लोग स्वार्थी पत्नी की बजाई मां बाप को नसीहत दे रहे हैं उन सब को धिक्कार है.
If the wife is not interested in keeping any relationship with your family, I’m sure you all have taunted her enough in 5 months for her to do so !
Your daughter had no rights to tell her father what he should & shouldn’t teach her daughter.
Father's views are very clear
कफन वाली बात मुझे भी चीर गयी अंकल जी
This is family matter - but i think they are fighting for respect and equality rather than money or dominance. All the best to
every Indian.
ahh!! family matter dont lose your brain somewhere
@@akash919 am intrigued…what do you mean?
Good interview - handled a very sensitive topic. I am glad that Anshuman’s parents are calling out such unacceptable behavior from their daughter-in-law. Parents can never move on from such a loss, everyone else will 🙏
Yeh buddha bahut jhut and methhi baat bolte hai........Bahu ne shi kiya hai..I support Anshuman Wife
Tu guitar baza @@Sonia-tu8gw
The interviewer was not taking sides and was showing due respect.
Totally agreed❤
If someone going to be remarriage then govt. Should take off all rights frm them and transfer to the Parents. Parents should have equal rights as Wife.
Mene kl suna army se the sir उन्होंने बोला कांंटिन्यू रहता h
abe aaj kal living i k zamane me marrige re-marrige ka jhunhuna baja raha hai,...
@@GauravYadav-fg3zz same rule should apply to husbands who remarry. Lady officers parents are facing same. My lecturer died,near her dead body the marriage of her husband was being discussed this is reality. Noone questioned what her parents are getting. She was govt employee. Why only boys parents cry. And cry so much. Have you heard one girls parent cry. They spend on her education
Her wedding. Her dowry. Her in laws
All gone with daughter. Husband returns anything? Her dowry,jewels? No
That’s exactly what govt does dear
दुबारा शादी करने पर पेंशन बंद हो जाती है
Such a humble person
Greedy for money. Unhappy that wife got the medal money
@@induchopra3014 you people can write anything for likes...... If you don't know how to respect parents, stop disrespecting parents of veer Anshuman.
The media should show some respect to the person who laid his life for our country and his widow. Rest of the people look too smart. 😢
यदी स्मृतिजी दुसरी शादी करना चाहती है तो उन्हे कीर्ती चक्र को शहीद अंशुमन के माता पिता को लौटा देना चाहिए. जिस भी नये परिवार मे वे शादी करके जयेंगी वहा इस कीर्ती चक्र का कोई सन्मान नही होगा.
kyon, naye parivaar walon ko keerti chakra ki ahmiyat nahi pata hogi kya? Naye parivar wale ek shaheed ki respect nahi karenge kya? Kya woh uss kirti chakra ko keval smriti ke pehle pati ki nishani samajhkar nakaar denge? Kya Anshuman smriti ke pati hone ke saath saath desh ke sipahi nahi the? kya soch hai bhai tumhari.
कृति चक्र पर शहीद का हक है।
तो मैडल को शहीद के घर में रखना चाहिए।
स्मृति की माँ के घर में नहीं।
Smriti chakra biwi ke pass hona chahiye. Shaadi kar aap ek ghar basate hain aur wo ghar he aapka primary hona chahiye
Kuch din vo rakh legi to tumhare ghamnd ko thes pahunchegi kya? Thori izzat kar lo us shahid ki aur uski vidhwa ki.
@@leothelittlesimba2682
vice versa
Izzat kr lo thodi us sahid or uske maa baap ki
@@Raodharmesh Uske maa baap ne khud hi nilam ki hai apni. Apna apna karm hai. Buddhe ko ekta Kapoor ke serial me leja. naya bana rahi hai 'Har pariwar ka ek hi villain - Kyonki Sasur bhi kabhi Daddy tha.'
Pati patni ka ek dusre ki cheezo pr pehla hak hota he
Baki sab bad me ate he
They r life partner for each other 😅
I 100% agree with ravi sir there should be change in NOK Rule 🙏
Salute you Sir 😢❤
Mullantop channel should understand that his parents are appear toxic. Better she stay seperately. These people might blamed her on their sons death.
Salute to this Father, Namastey !!
Yeh buddha bahut jhut and methhi baat bolte hai........Bahu ne shi kiya hai..I support Anshuman Wife
Tu uska ghar ki hogi
@@Sonia-tu8gw Feminist didi😂
@@Sonia-tu8gwtere jese randia hi ladko ko apne parivartan se alag kardete hai. Ja karle moj fir divorce v jaldi hoga
@@Sonia-tu8gw aa gyi feminist ki c***i
यह बहुत toxic व्यक्ति है। लालची है।
Ravi Pratap ji Naman hai aapko! I salute your bravery and support you.
Don't judge anyone, every story has two sides....
Girl is not fighting,only the father.
Agreed.
It's single side story and bitter truth
दुसरी शादी जाब और सारा पैसा ले कर शहीद के बूढे मां बाप को बेसहारा छोड़ कर मौज की लाइफ जी रही है ऐसे कितने ही केस हो रखे हैं
प्यार किया है तो सब कुछ समर्पित कर दो , उसमें अच्छा बुरा फायदा नुकसान नहीं देखा जाता, जिसके नाम जीवन कर दिया फिर किसी और से शादी और उसके मां बाप को छोड़ देना यह मतलबी प्यार है , बिक्रम बत्रा जैसे पत्नी और प्यार भगवान का उपहार है
These so called parents of the Army Officer should first clarify what they want.The money,the Medal or something else? If they are rattled by any behaviour of their daughter in law, that's a personal thing they should discuss privately with her.They already have got money,they are well off also monetarily,So they must clear what they want.
Clearly they want money
They want
1. Honer of having chkra at home
2. Change in NOK rule if daughter in law is remarried
कुछ solution भी करवाओ बस सब interview पे interview लेने में लगा है सबको अपने TRP से मतलब है problem जाए भाड़ में।
well said ye media vale yhi krrhe hai sale sab
Trp milega bhi Paisa hi Paisa hoga...sare media chut** hai sab interview karke views kama raha hai
Koi solution ka baat nhi kar Raha hai...gali dene man karta hai inlogo ko
Baap bhi toh interview mein ho busy hai
@@sriranjanim1460samrti ka baap bahut girra hua ensan h
@@sanjay25090 bhai ye log nhi hain gire hue? ye sab family mamle ko tv pe udana shi hain kya? army rule ke hisab se sabko sab mila inhe bhi paisa mila hain pension already mil rha to aise tv pe lanchan lagan widow pe shi nahi hain. Baki koi dikkat hain to court ke rule ke khilaf case karo
this is a family issue , should be handled there
Family issue since 1 year.
The NOK rule needs to be modified.
पिता के साथ घोर अन्याय हुआ है फौज में निकटतम संबंधी के बारे में नियम को तुरंत ठीक की जाने की आवश्यकता है.
इस बेहूदा और पक्षपात पूर्ण नियम के रहते कोई भी मां बाप अपने बच्चों को फौज में नहीं भेजना चाहेगा
Ye aadmi bahu ko moveon karne nahi dena chahta apne ghar ki naukarani bana kar rakhna chahta hai aur pure paise khud rakhna chahta hai
Agar bahu move on karna chahati hai to past relationship ka paisa kyu la rahi hai. Wo dusri shadi kar sakti hai par us admi ke mata pita dusra beta peda nahi kar sakte
Jab sasural me nhi rhna h to pension bhi Mt lengi moveon kr lengi
स्मृति का आप बाद चालक और मतलबी इंसान है.
उसका अंशुमान के पिता को यह कहना कि हम पस्त लाइफ भूलना चाहते हैं आप भी भूल जाइए शाहिद के मां आप के सीने में आग लगाने जैसा है.
उनका अंशुमन कुछ नहीं था उनके लिए तो रात गई बात गई, तुम कौन हम कौन .
लेकिन जिसने बेटा खोया है वही उस दर्द को समझ सकता है वह अंतिम समय तक उसे भूल नहीं पाएंगे
आपने अभी तक विधवा का पक्ष नही सुना बिना उसका पक्ष जाने कोई उसके विरुद्ध विचार बनाना ।
Lallantop a good and clear interview, some points of my own, which cleard in this interview. Thank u
अंशुमन का पिताजी हिंदी का कवि ,शायर से कम नही है
Very honest parents.. great
Ravi sir you are strong by heart. Our feelings are with you and especially with mother who lost her son.
ये क्या सास बहु का सीरियल चला रहे हो ....मेडल पर बीवी का ही हक होता है और वो उसे ceremonial occasions पर पहन भी सकतीं हैं left side पर....पर उनके ये पिताजी नही पहन सकते .....सारी कहनी पैसे की है और news channel वाले उस शहीद की शहादत का अपमान कर रहे हैं .....शर्म करो
SUCH LIES. ANSHUMAN NAMED HIS WIFE NEXT OF KIN SO SHE GOT KIRTI CHAKRA AND HIS MONEY... BUT HIS PARENTS GOT 50 LAKHS BY CENTRAL GOV AND 15 LAKHS FROM UP GOVERNMENT. STILL THEY ARE EYING ON DAUGHTER-IN-LAW'S RIGHTFUL MONEY.... THEY ALSO SUGGESTED DAUGHTER IN LAW TO MARRY YOUNGEST SON.. LIKE REALLY ... PARENTS ARE NOT ALWAYS RIGHT AS MEDIA POTRAYS...
Thankyou poori baat ko ekdm saaf prastut krne ke liye
After listening him, with due respect, his father should have introspect his behaviour.
There are many ques in this interview which clearly shows that this misunderstanding is due to teasing and ego.
अंशुमान सिंह की विधवा का कीर्ति चक्र लेना और माँ बाप का मीडिया इंटरव्यू . अगर बेटी मरती तो किसको फ़र्क़ नहीं पड़ता कि पति चक्र ले गया । बेटे ने बीवी का नाम NOK में दिया, इसका ही सम्मान कर लेते
जब अनुशूमन ने ही अपनी पत्नी को ही पेंशन का फूल नॉमिनी बनाया है। तब पेंशन में माता पिता का रोल कहा से आ गया । पिता खुद ही फौज से पेंशन प्राप्त कर रहे है ऐसे में उनका विधवा से पेंशन में हक मांगना सही और उचित भी नही है।
कोई भी family member को सोशल मीडिया मैं नहीं आना चाहये, खुद को downgrade करते है.
Ye bahu ki chhavi kharab krke usko jine hi nahi dena chahte.....kya khurnas hai inko?usko jine dijiye..sati pratha na laaiye phir se
Kirti chakra army unit me rakhna chahiye. Shaheed ko samman milta hai bharat mata ki raksha ke liye na ki apni maa aur biwi ke liye jitta hai.
Ye private medal nahi hai.
It should be at army unit
Ansumann sir ye deserve ni karte the 😢😐
Guys, don't jump into conclusion without hearing the other side. Abhi yahi lg rha hai ki ye sahi hai wo galat. But the truth can be twisted.
सीधी बात है- लड़कियों तुमको अगर ससुराल में नही रहना है तो कृपया शादी मत करो, दुसरो की जिंदगी बर्बाद मत करो। मायके में रहने का इतना ही शौक़ है तो वही रिश्ता ढूंढ लेना था।
Ladkon agar tum biwi ki izzat aur samman ki raksha nahi kar sakte to shaadi mat karo
@@AS-ux1vw raksha to desh ki karte hue jaan de di to biwi ki izzat to bacha hi leta, ha ab to mar hi gya hai to sasural ka ac band karo jao apne asli ghar, sasural ki jimmedari kyo lena. Shadi to kewal pati pane ke liye ki jati hai.
Enough of this Indian SaaS bahu Drama... if she doesn't want to be with u let her be... wrong part was she didn't let the honour in their hands for even some time... rest the son made her eligible for all rights after death..why didn't u ask your son when he signed all papers. .
Having been through what I have, I will side with Smriti
Many are commenting here about the widow and how she has acted, but tell me one fact how are these parents acting who are washing their dirty linen in front of society. Are they also considering the fact that in doing so they are maligning the image of their son. Who is this father to say if his widowed daughter in law will marry his younger son, are we living in the dark ages where there is no personal freedom? I would rather say atleast the widow and her family has shown tremendous elegance that they have not said a single word in the open.
Wah paise chahiye but past se koi matlab nhi 😢
Sahi bole bhai😢😢
फौज में चले आ रहे हैं इस बेहूदा कानून को देखकर कोई मां बाप अपने बच्चों को इच्छा से फौज में नहीं भेजना चाहेंगे
Will a man who loses his wife have to deal with such expectations from his in-laws?
No. Many lady officers husbands got all money. Noone cried like this
@@induchopra3014 It seems like you have all the knowledge. You should work with the government to empower women for forgetting moral values. Why are you here?
Maa❤ ka hak sabse upper hona chahiye
Soldier ka Hak sabse upon hey. He should decide whom to give. Thats what Anshuman did.
सरकारी नौकरी करने वाले लड़कों की पत्नियां आजकल उनके गुज़र जाने पर यहीं व्यवहार कर रही हैं पैसा और नौकरी लेकर परिवार को किनारे कर दे रही हैं। सरकार को इस पर बदलाव लाने की ज़रूरत है। जो मां बाप सारा जीवन तपस्या की तरह बच्चों को पैरों पर खड़ा करने में लगा देते हैं वहीं बेटे के न रहने पर बुढ़ापे में बेबस और लाचार,दर ब दर हो जाते हैं। उन्हें क्या मिलता है।
Sahi ksh rhi
WTF she is wife thats it . And from ages this rule is there thats it. These parents they have just lost there son and they want the medal by gaining sympathy. Wow hights !
Typical in laws lusting over son. Refusal to accept that he married and came to love someone else dearly building his future life with her. Whether its 5 months or 5 day marriage, does it matter?
It looks more like a smear campaign run by a father-in-law. If Uncle Ji's only goal was to change the NOK rules, he would have approached the authorities or considered filing a case. However, he is going to every media house and giving interviews as if the media can bring about this change. It seems more like an attempt to tarnish Smriti Singh's image. His desire to defame his daughter-in-law is so strong that he disregards the respect for his son's sacrifice, turning this into a very distasteful family drama.
*_कभी भी शादी दूसरे प्रदेश में न करे, हमेशा अपने जिले की लड़की या अपने प्रदेश की ही लड़की से शादी करे, हर राज्य का परिवेश अलग होता है, चाल चलन अलग होता है_*
Right
Yahi hota h jab log apni biradari k bahar jaa k shadi karte h. Jo ladki aap ki riti riwaaj culture boli bhasha , rahne ke taur tarike ko nahi janti or bulkul different culture se aayi ho , us se ideological differences hamesha bane rahtey h.
bhai galti yha parents ki nahi hain? aise tv pe mudda uchal ke kya hoga, sabko rule ke hisab se saman mila, inhe bhi paisa mila hain, pension already mil rha hain. baki kuch hain to case karo. ghar ka mamla ghar me sulana tha or ye aurat 9 saal se saath thi to widow ka bhi haq hain chakr pe
@@user-rm2kn6jy4b bhai jaise gharelu hinsa ek samajik burai h waise hi ye b ab ek social muddda h. Bahut saare sahido k maa baap iss samasya se pidit h
@@user-rm2kn6jy4b aaj tk bi to wo chup hi the na bhai. Jb kuch hd se jyada ho gya hoga tbi to wo mjbur ho gye h.. Paise se unhe mtlb nhi baat samman ki hai. Kya us maa baap ka koi hq nhi us bete hi sahadat p jinhone use paal posh kr bda kia.
Ese chize samne aati h tv samaz ko v pta lgta hai ki kya kya buraiya samaz m h.
Kitna bakwas logic h iss father ka
Ye ek fauji hai aur unaki maang bhi sahi hai
May be both sides are wrong. But one thing is clear NOK rules should be changed
To every son out there parents are always first' no matter what
That's reality of world.... Nobody cares about you except your parents.... it's so sad to see these things happening
जिसका जवान बेटा जाता है वही दर्द समझ सकता
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मेरे यहां भी यही स्टोरी है भाभी की
झूठ बोलकर अपने घर चली गई बाद में जो भी मिल सकता ले लेते है।
बाद में अपने भाई चाचा ताऊ को भेजते है।
न सास ससुर के दर्द से कोई मतलब रखा ।
सिर्फ जितनी चीज सास ससुर से मिल सकती जबरदस्ती ले लेते है ।
Teri bhabhi Thi to kya sari auratein aisi hi hogi chaman
To sasur ji chaahte hain ki Smriti apne ko busy bhi na rahen aur naukari na kare ?
Ye ek pita ka dard hai........rect kerna jaruri hai.........nahi tho log kamjor or murkh samjhte hai
सर को न्याय मिलना चाहिए जय हिन्द सर
स्मृति का परिवार बहुत ग्रेसफुल है। वो ही अंशुमन का सम्मान कर रहे हैं।
कोई महिला ऐसे परिवार में नहीं रहना चाहेंगी। सारा पैसा बहु के नाम कर दें फिर कीर्ति चक्र की बात करें।
WTF is going on these days...these parents don't want any nyaaya..they want all the money , pension and what not.
Laalchi hai
Not only money pension but
dominance and full control over the poor lady
Such a shameless man
@@kumkumsingh6480 agree
I think ,the father of Anshuman is very logical.
Excregia amount has been devided as per law already and as per law pension is going to martyr's widow.Rule should be there ,that till she got remarried ,all amount shOuld be given to her and thereafter ,it has to be divided between parents and widow.
Regarding not allow to touch Kirti chakra by martyr's father ,it's shameful for daughter in law.
Govt.should adress this issue seriously ,so this type of issue didn't raised again.
Bete par maa baap ka bhi pura huq hai ,aur unka bhi utna hi utna nuksan hua hai ,jitna shaheed ki patni ka.
शदीद को शत शत नमन।
Such a shame this father in law is doing his dirty laundry in front of the entire world!! Who needs to know what jhola or sim the young widow took with her?? Ridiculous, disgraceful man!! And media is giving him so much attention, the young lady isn’t coming forward, suppose she cannot match his level of stupidity and greed. He doesn’t look sad for the loss of his son, so much anger for what the bahu took away. Shameful.
Inn sir ko paise jne ka dukh h bas......beta bhau kisi k jane ka jyada dukh ni h .....y insaan khud ex army person h ,inko paise s mtlb h bas😢😢😢
This explain why she don't want to stay with them even his daughter is like him. And if he was in army he should know that army never salute to ordinary civilians. Army is known for it discipline and this guy is trying to collect fame and sympathy by sabotaging everything his son stand for.
Cheap man. Fighting for money, medal. He wants control over the girl and money. She is not fighting for his property house. She can say give me half house to stay. Give my jewellary. He also has to give daughter in law his property. When is he giving? How much money he has spent on the girl? Zero.
@@induchopra3014 As per law, the daughter-in-law gets nothing unless she has any issue. All she wants is peace. She will return once things have normalized for her. People respond to grief in different ways.
Watch out your toungue. You are talking about an ex-army soldier and a father of martyr
fake aadmi ek larki ko badnaam kr rhy jiska dukh koi nhi smjh skta.. money mil jaati fir shant rahty ye fake log.. hr channal ko ye aadmi interview de raha h ye aadmi
He is an ex army personnel. He has also served for the country. It needs high values to understand the pain of losing a husband which is clearly missing in her character. Because of these interviews the fact is getting clear that army is also facing issues with these kind of things...... If you want equality then remember men are also a part of the society.
@@arghadeepdas2004kaun se values?? Bete ka pura Paisa chahta hai saath me bahu ki life parr pura control bhi chahiye. Isko is baat ki acceptance hi nahi hai ki inlogo ke toxic behaviour ki wajah se bahu inke saath rehna nahi chahti.
She is not bound to live with them
@@arghadeepdas2004 log beta paida karte hai as an investment ki lifetime bete ke paiso par khaayenge aur uski biwi ko naukarni bana kar rakhenge.
Kabhi dekha hai kisi working women ke parents ko aise nautanki karte.
Beta means investment
Isliye itne female foeticide hote hai
@@Raythelightlife Don't make any random assumptions in your mind. She hasn't replied any of these allegations. If allegations were fake she should definitely reply. Don't forget that Anshuman's father was an ex army personnel..... Koi sadakchap adhmi hain hain jo bol raha hain, faltu ke assumptions mat karo just to save a women from the allegations which might be true.
Pita ko 65 lakh mila he wife ko 80 lakh and pension so pita dukhi he.. kirti chakra chuna bas ek emotional gudgudi he.. lalach buri bala he.
65 lakh kaha se mil gya
@@reenemukherjee6244 agree ....love marriage ka bhi dukh hai...ek chammach tak nahi liye ...ye statement tha unka....jaise ye normal nahi bhot special hai.
@@reenemukherjee6244 50 lakh insurance aur 15 lakh state govt se mila ...total 65 lakh hua
गलत बोला आपने कि - कीर्ति चक्र छूना एक emotional गुदगुदी है, शायद आपको यह नही पता कि एक Respectable person अपने लाइफ में first preference अपने Respect को देता है,
और उनके अपने कलेजे के टुकड़े की बात है!
शायद आपकी ही सोच ही उसी स्तर तक है,feel करने तक।
Aap usi स्तर से सोच रहे!
Kin rule should change. Parents has equal rights for their son. If a lady remarriage pension and other benefits should be given to parents.
Shameless media !!
The parents should not have washed their dirty linen in public. Humiliating the wife is disrespect to your son’s family
Past life bhul jana chahte pr usi past k paise se future banana chahte h.....prabhu ki maya h...kya din dekhna pad raha h maa baap ko
Yeh buddha bahut jhut and methhi baat bolte hai........Bahu ne shi kiya hai..I support Anshuman Wife
Respect your son's decision! It was his decision to choose her. Kids are not our safety deposits. Expectations hurt. Everything is done as per the law. Respect it. You sound very greedy, bossy and demanding.
अंशुमान की विधवा का पक्ष जाने बिना उसके विरुद्ध किसी भी कॉमेंट को करने से बचना चाहिए । हमारी सबकी सहानभूति विधवा पत्नी और मां बाप के साथ है।
क्या जो लोग aged हो गया उस कोई respect नही होना चाहिए?
या maa ने जिसने अपना jawan बेटा देश के सहिद हो गया उस को कोई respect नही।
शमे ऐसे लोगो जो maa अपने बच्चे को खोया उस का दर्द कोई भी बयान नही कर सकता।
मेरी राय मे maa baap को respect मिलना चाहिए।
Great pita
She disrespected her husband right after death, by going to her parents so early after death, then taking her belongings from Noida house, in a bag after emptying Anshuman clothes from the bag, why not she took her husband any clothes, but took award and money????
To kya sati ho jaye
Husband ki album le gayi to ye log itna drama kiye. Reality is these people are so toxic ki wo bhaag gayi
Have you heard her replies to sis in law?
Is this her love / respect to her husband, by disrespectful to his mother' womb, ?
Congrats Lallantop on conducting this interview in a mature fashion. Kudos for ensuring professionalism & decorum throughout. It's unfortunate things have come to this pass for the families... A death can change things so much, certainly not unheard of in our society, nevertheless an eye opener for sure. A relook at the rulebook is certainly called for.
It's a very impressed and sensitive issue. In our society the position of parents is very high. So the award should be handed over to the parents. Financial matters should be solved equally
Respected Anshuman sir ji bat samaj me ya bhi hai ki jab kisi ki wife mar jati hai to samajh ke yahi ezzatdaar log apne bete ki dusri shadi karne or sab kuch bhul ke aage badne me jara bhi deri nahi karte us time samajh ka khayaal nai aata family problem ko ghar me suljhana chahiye na ki puri duniya me tamasha banana...
अंशुमान की सिर्फ माँ पिता नही स्मिरित जी वो आप के भी अर्जित माता पिता है अंशुमान जहाँ भी होंगे आप से बहुत दुःखी होंगे ,स्मिरित जी अंशुमान से मोहब्बत का मतलब अंशुमान की हर इंसान ,समान और हर चीज से आप को भी मोहब्बत होनी चाहिए तभी आप सच्चा प्रेम होगा आप को दुःखी होना लाजमी सबसे ज्यादा काष्ठ आप को होंगा एक उस माँ और पिता के बारे सोचे जो आप के दिल दिमाग शरीर तीनो के सबसे करीब था जिसके लिये आप मैं से हम बने होंगे ,आप एक वीरांगना है और वह वीरांगना का परिवार आपस मे बैठ कर बात करे जो भी मत भेद उसको सुलझा लीजिये बात जरूर करे अपने अर्जित माता पिता से शादी के हर इंसान के दो माता पिता हो जाते उनके लिये भी सोचे ।
घर की बात घर में ही रहे कोई बाहरी समाधान नहीं निकलेगा । पिता को चाहिए कि शहीद के आत्मा को शांति प्रदान करें
घर की बात घर में ही रहना चाहिए, लेकिन अन्याय को चुप चाप सहना भी ठीक नहीं है।
जैसा की शहीद कैप्टन अंशुमान के पिताजी ने बताया कि बात करने की हर संभव कोशिश की, लेकिन वो असफ़ल रहे...
Kirti chakra samman parents ko milna chahiye ☑️☑️☑️☑️☑️
आप को सैल्यूट है सर।
Ravi ji ek mahan insan ho
Lallantop has let me down with this biased reporting. The other aspect of this situation can be summed up by the lines from Khalil Gibran's poem - 'your children are not your children, they are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, you may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls for their soul dwell in the house of tomorrow'.
Lets all respect the will and choice of the martyred soldier, and not dwell on what his parents want or what society expects.
The great martyr Anshuman Singh has made a choice to put his wife as his 'NOK'. So be it. He made a will on her name, so let her fullfill his wish.
Indian society should realise that Parents are guardians, not Owners of their children.
We should learn to accept Agency and Autonomy of our grown up children.
BS. That's not how Indian society works neither it should. If that happens no parents will send their kids to the army. Parents don't own you but neither does your wife. A wife can have a second marriage but old parents can't have a second son.
Why is he constantly talking about her remarriage??? She’s not a piece of property jiske faisle aap loge uncle. She’s a grown adult, if she wants help, she will ask for it. She has her parents too.
Patriarchy doing what it is best at.
- controlling women, telling them how to mourn and how to move on. Unless women are financially independent women will continue to be dictated and led by these insensitive men.
To us Soldier ka medal apne dusare husband ke ghar me nahi le Jana chahiye us ghatiya aurat ko medals to Soldier ke ghar me hi rahna chahiye
You are absolutely right .
He has kept the grand
childs name also. Foolish man. He is crying for toll paisa. He is crying for clothes. He is crying crying crying
The real lesson of this saga is that social norms in India are changing very fast with time and the age old cultural beliefs and traditions that " marriages last till the death set you apart, a son is your insurance for your old age etc etc " no longer hold true. Even without Anshuman's unfortunate death, there was no guarantee that the tension between two families wouldn't have flared up. "me first" attitude of today's generation - particularly with the person coming into the family through marriage ( love or arranged ) - makes more often than not the parents or in-laws not so desirable members of the family.
So, parents need to learn to be pragmatic. They still need to raise their offsprings with as much of dedication and love as before, but also ensure not to sacrifice their own financial future for the sake of the future of their son and daughter. Just like in western societies, take care of then till they turn 18 and then let them own up their own responsibility for college education etc afterwards. Help them , but not through non-returnable gifts of your retirement money and rather as a facilitator or guarantor of the loans. If tomorrow , if their spouse take them away - they will also take with it their liability.
Had Anshuman's parents loaned him the cost of at least his medical education which could easily had been to the tune of 20-30 lakhs, it wouldn't have lessened their pain in any big way, but it would have spoilt the party for the other party.
We still do not know the truth. There is no statement from the daughter-in-law and family. What is pretty clear is that this fight is all about money. There is a reason the daughter in law has ghosted them. There are always two sides to the same coin. i am not sure if this is about the money or the medal. Whatever be the case, people are developing mistrust on each other due to few families.
Why we cant see any interview from daughter in law side ?
Did thwy dont wanna interview or they they cant reach them ???
They know that they made a big blunder. Thus they don't wanna show their face in media after this controversy started.
We are not interested yaar mujhe suunna hi nahi hai.😂😂
Faltu ka interview aisi kahani har ghar me hoti hai.
Just think if She was your Daughter you will find all her actions OK.
You think she is your daughter- in- law then she is totally wrong.
TYPICAL CULTURE
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ki dusre k mamle me sb waqeel hote h. Bhle hi unhe puri khbar pta ho ya na ho.. Koi smriti ko galiya rha h koi uske papa ko koi in uncle ko hi... Pr kisi me jra sa sanyam nhi ki jra soch smz k kuch bole.
Maa pita ka haq patni se bada hai