Remembering Our First Times: Feeling Loved, First Job, Feeling Loss, and More!

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  • čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
  • From your first kiss to your first big purchase, we all remember those milestone moments that stay with us forever. We open up about some of our firsts.
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Komentáře • 179

  • @DKDiva804
    @DKDiva804 Před 2 lety +189

    Even tho she can be a lil talkative Adrienne is so good at doing this show... being vulnerable, reading the promoters with little adlibs, even her transitions into topics/breaks that you don't get to see from youtube clips she does so effortlessly. I hope she continues in this line of work bc she is made for it.

    • @indigobeauty1
      @indigobeauty1 Před 2 lety +7

      Completely agree!!

    • @jayg5391
      @jayg5391 Před 2 lety +9

      She really is! She has the confidence to speak up and I like that.

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita Před 2 lety +130

    I love a lot of things about the Way Adrienne's mom chose to raise her kids.

  • @SuperNany200
    @SuperNany200 Před 2 lety +186

    How is Garcelle not crying talking about her story 😭 I’m sitting here and my eyes are buuurning with tears

    • @cookiemonsterglendy
      @cookiemonsterglendy Před 2 lety +10

      Same 😭

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 Před 2 lety +9

      She probalbly was trying not to I guess that was the whole point awe😭 😭I kinda of heard her getting a little emotonal in her voice a little when this first aired 😮😧😥😔

    • @SuperNany200
      @SuperNany200 Před 2 lety +4

      @@alexandraanderson3988 i wish i could hold crying like that 😭

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 Před 2 lety +3

      @@SuperNany200 I know like how do they or people do that. I personally don't know if I could do it my eyes would have probably been watery the whole time and people would be able to see right through me😊🤭😥😭🥴

    • @Noura-ii1uw
      @Noura-ii1uw Před 2 lety +3

      I'm straight bawling.

  • @ssmith6963
    @ssmith6963 Před 2 lety +157

    The loss of a parent is horrible. My mother passed last Sept two days before my bday and I feel so alone. Garcelle's answer touched me because I too miss the noise of my mother's jewelry. She wore a crucifix and a medal and I can still hear it. 💔😪

    • @HR-re6mr
      @HR-re6mr Před 2 lety +9

      her response made me cry. I lost my mom in 2014 and its still so painful at times. It does get better. I send you so much peace.

    • @h3artands0uLL
      @h3artands0uLL Před 2 lety +7

      I am so sorry for both of your losses. That day is a day I dread so badly. Since childhood I’ve always feared my mom passing. I’m glad to know it’s gets a little better.. though the pain still seems like it’s there? I suppose that’s obvious for a loved one.. much more your mom. No one can replace.
      I send you both so much peace and comfort. May the rest of your lives be filled with so much joy from the memories, and if you believe in an afterlife.. the joy of seeing her again one day. Love ❣️

    • @littlejoe9381
      @littlejoe9381 Před 2 lety +4

      @@h3artands0uLL : As a child I also used to think often about my parent’s ( especially my mother ) dying. When I thought about it, many times it would make me sad to the point of crying. When I got older, and it actually happened, I think the fact that I thought about it so much sort of prepared me. My faith is the main thing that has helped me to deal with the death of both my parents. However, when they died, (not at the same time) it was not a shock to me because they were older and had health issues. Even though I have brothers and sisters and we are close, my mother was my best friend besides God. So I definitely miss her. Of course I miss both of them, but I talked to my mother every day and was able to talk to her about anything.

    • @conversationswithkhanyie777
      @conversationswithkhanyie777 Před 2 lety +4

      I'm so so sorry about your loss, losing a parent is so heartbreaking and I hope that you continue to heal❤️I lost my father a month ago and life has not been the same, I feel as though I am emotionally paralyzed and I don't know when I'll stop feeling like this....but somehow I still have faith that I will be ohk. We will be ohk, S Smith. We will be happy again. I'm so sorry🙏🏾

    • @cookiemonsterglendy
      @cookiemonsterglendy Před 2 lety +2

      I lost my dad last year and we were not that close at the time but just the reality sets in that you will never see or hear from them again is devastating. Nothing like it

  • @steph_steph876
    @steph_steph876 Před 2 lety +125

    Its AMAZING how the "The Real" especially in this last season can feel like a classroom, a party and a therapy session all at once. What am I going to do?❤❤💞💞

  • @snowpants123
    @snowpants123 Před 2 lety +63

    All women of color and all from humble beginnings. Very inspiring and I'm sure alot of us can relate. Will miss this show!

  • @milambo9276
    @milambo9276 Před 2 lety +32

    I will miss this show...

  • @stephanieellah
    @stephanieellah Před 2 lety +42

    I was balling through out Garcelle's response 😭 sending love 💛

  • @noik_11
    @noik_11 Před 2 lety +19

    That first one was DEEP and so sweet.

  • @empath3133
    @empath3133 Před 2 lety +32

    I remember Adrianne talking about that before 💖

  • @Tm-se5mv
    @Tm-se5mv Před 2 lety +41

    I liked Garcelle’s response. Made me a little emo.

  • @RusselnetWork
    @RusselnetWork Před 2 lety +18

    I can surely see Adrienne having her very own show.

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 Před 2 lety +19

    This is random... But i took Garcelle's advice about the broom 😅... I had guests at work that were lingering hours after closing, hoours!! I said, well i have nothing to lose. I put that broom upside down by the door, not too long after, they left. Thank you Lord 🥰

  • @laurenhahn890
    @laurenhahn890 Před 2 lety +17

    Adrienne is great on the show. She tells rly personal stories with depth

  • @michelledowner5148
    @michelledowner5148 Před 2 lety +5

    Yes I truly understand the lost of a mom🙏🏾 RIP 2011. Some days I wake up and want to call her ❤️

  • @coolnicegirl8
    @coolnicegirl8 Před 2 lety +65

    LOVE this segment! Just really helps us connect with you ladies on a very personal level with life experiences.

  • @AshleyLasha
    @AshleyLasha Před 2 lety +6

    This blue on Loni is beautiful!!!

  • @alexisking8495
    @alexisking8495 Před 2 lety +29

    Adrianne! 💘💘 love you and your moms relationship. Its beautiful. God bless you and your family!

  • @mandys1038
    @mandys1038 Před 2 lety +39

    I just love these kind of segments where you learn about these ladies in depth, I am going to miss this show so much it was truly different in terms of diversity and just how these ladies interact on various topics. You just really felt like these ladies understood you on a personal level, that connection!

  • @rayannarose444
    @rayannarose444 Před 2 lety +8

    I remember Loni telling this story in the prom episode of The Real💕

  • @dilciaenid57
    @dilciaenid57 Před 2 lety +5

    Ohhhh Garcelle 🙏🏼 🕊

  • @mapulemampuru6584
    @mapulemampuru6584 Před 2 lety +7

    GARCELLE 🥺🥺🥺💙💙💙

  • @empath3133
    @empath3133 Před 2 lety +11

    Adrianne’s outfit 😍😍😍

  • @canadianravenbrook
    @canadianravenbrook Před 2 lety +3

    Wow. I don't watch this show, so I found this through Divine Intervention and timing! CZcams put it on next and wow, wow, wow. What a beautiful, powerful series of shares from some incredible women. I'm so glad this came on! I've listened through twice now! The REAL indeed. Bless!

  • @ItsNicckster
    @ItsNicckster Před 2 lety +23

    “or somebody that broke your heart…”
    “that bitch” - loni 🤭😩💀

  • @fauxange5105
    @fauxange5105 Před 2 lety +24

    Love this transparency.. those conversations brings me back to my childhood memories and conversations with my mom

  • @minnieciaminniewinston7158

    Garcelle, I know how it feels to lose a mother, because I lost my mother 6-in-a-half months ago!!!

  • @kimaustin8193
    @kimaustin8193 Před 2 lety +5

    Aww I loved this topic! The ladies got to open up and let us in to their worlds. I’m so going to miss this show.

  • @nittyarizza
    @nittyarizza Před 2 lety +2

    I feel the the question that each of them picked was perfectly meant for them, they answered them so beautifully. I'm going to miss their insight.

  • @shaynaloveswiss1
    @shaynaloveswiss1 Před 2 lety +3

    8 seasons in, and just when I think I've heard it all from Jeannie, she shares a new tip about her business mind and thinking and hustle. SHE IS, and I mean it, ONE with JEEZY. their brains are great - meant to produce generational wealth. probably why they named their child Monaco - the playground city for the rich.

  • @inezphillips3265
    @inezphillips3265 Před 2 lety +3

    The lost of a child has to be the worst especially when your child is killed coming from school that's the worst feeling of my being

  • @lissetsanchez5316
    @lissetsanchez5316 Před 2 lety +5

    I can't believe this week is the last episode. 😔

  • @nikkiperrymann5522
    @nikkiperrymann5522 Před 2 lety +5

    Loni looking like T-boz in the Creep video🔥💙

  • @leandergates8204
    @leandergates8204 Před 2 lety +9

    I had a first a couple weeks ago, I had my first child and also lost that child😢😢 RIH baby Raelynn

    • @ALJacksonBSNRN
      @ALJacksonBSNRN Před 2 lety +4

      🙏🏾🙏🏾💔🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @ajokeAgbas
      @ajokeAgbas Před 2 lety +5

      So sorry about your loss.. may the good lord comfort you 🙏

    • @cocodiva893
      @cocodiva893 Před 2 lety +1

      Awww sorry about that 💔💔💔😞 I lost my first baby a few years ago to a still birth too, take your time us women go through too much in life 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🌹

  • @spoiledmommyalvarez3146
    @spoiledmommyalvarez3146 Před 2 lety +4

    lonis outfit is fire 🔥 go girl

  • @ismahanm1118
    @ismahanm1118 Před 2 lety +15

    So umm…. when is Jeannie releasing a book?

  • @cherrysIushie
    @cherrysIushie Před 2 lety +7

    This was a wonderful segment !!! I love these women.

  • @zilungiletutshana8715
    @zilungiletutshana8715 Před 2 lety +4

    Going to miss this show ☹

  • @MrsAmy24.7
    @MrsAmy24.7 Před 2 lety +4

    Adrienne story was touching.my parents almost never spank us because my mom had us very busy so we didn't really get into trouble,my parents showed us love when we go out to eat in big family groups because we just all talk for like 2 or 3 hours straight just talking and learning,also they would have 3 cars going to the beach or six flags just so we could bring our friends, now that I'm a mom i see how hard they work because i sometimes just want to lay around the house.

  • @cherrymakena
    @cherrymakena Před 2 lety +8

    This show has had the biggest impact on me and has helped me GROW in ways that I could NEVER have imagined❤.
    I'm definitely gonna make a tribute video for this show on my channel bc you guys have become a part of mine (and I'm sure so many other people's lives)💌💜!
    Idc what anyone says, you guys are the OGs of daytime tv! No one can take that away from y'all!

  • @Lucy-tz8xu
    @Lucy-tz8xu Před 2 lety +1

    This was fun to watch. What a nice way to start a storytelling session and get to know someone on a deeper level!

  • @emmymoon2208
    @emmymoon2208 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Sharing your Story Adrienne,
    It's a leason to hear it ,i am a Mom of 3 and it's touch me so deep.

  • @SunshineKarebare
    @SunshineKarebare Před rokem

    OMG Jeannie is so smart!!! I would've never thought of that.. shows how much of a hustler she's always been.

  • @teestylesmyhair
    @teestylesmyhair Před 2 lety +10

    I love Garcelle ❤️

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos1 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow..ad story is so relatable..this is how I've felt with my son and have had to adjust.

  • @zulikashanaz
    @zulikashanaz Před 2 lety +8

    I love these kinds of episodes

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos1 Před 2 lety

    Having your mom and being able to ssk her what to do..I cherish it even more as I go thru life..I pray I have mine for years and years and in her right mind and able body and the same for me. The world can be so hard to navigate thru and doing it alone..I can't imagine.

  • @juliemariga943
    @juliemariga943 Před 2 lety +1

    This is one of the episodes I have loved most. I really really love this deep content

  • @erikverikv3107
    @erikverikv3107 Před 2 lety +75

    Jeannie totally cheated 😂 She said she was already working for MAC at the time, which means she was first hired by MAC.

    • @jazzyj904
      @jazzyj904 Před 2 lety +8

      Ummm… She’s talking about what happened after she got hired, and one thing that came out of it. She didn’t cheat. She was still working for MAC when she did that.

    • @erikverikv3107
      @erikverikv3107 Před 2 lety +9

      @@jazzyj904 she was supposed to talk about the first time she got hired for a job, which would have been when she got hired by MAC. Instead she talked about the second time she got hired, which was probably a more interesting story, but still definitely not the first time she got hired for a job.

    • @anischasharla3079
      @anischasharla3079 Před 2 lety +1

      Ha

    • @herimaya3466
      @herimaya3466 Před 2 lety +1

      Petty

    • @erikverikv3107
      @erikverikv3107 Před 2 lety +5

      @A C Actually on her CZcams channel she talked about being hired and working at MAC at the mall. So she definitely did a formal interview for her MAC job. She talks about moving up within the company and hosting events as a MAC employee too.

  • @canadianravenbrook
    @canadianravenbrook Před 2 lety

    Damn this was so good I think I'ma need to stay tuned! You got a new subscriber, the Real! Thank you for this REALness!

  • @angelmax404
    @angelmax404 Před 2 lety +12

    Loni in the first 10 seconds in the background lol

  • @forroses.2445
    @forroses.2445 Před 2 lety +12

    Aweee I remember Loni's prom story from a few seasons ago

  • @liliankamara4208
    @liliankamara4208 Před 2 lety +5

    I love you guys❤️❤️❤️ we will miss you guys 🤗🤗🙏

  • @OtraAmelia
    @OtraAmelia Před 2 lety

    I remember Loni telling this story

  • @atongagwom214
    @atongagwom214 Před 2 lety +2

    I will miss this show ♥️♥️♥️

  • @dinayg
    @dinayg Před 2 lety +8

    I’m gonna miss this show SO much!
    I’ve been watching since season 1 day 1 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @schnitzel1024
    @schnitzel1024 Před 2 lety +9

    Loni has told that story before and people said that she was lying. This is at least the second time and all the details are the same. Y’all love to say she be lying.

  • @BelindaJoy
    @BelindaJoy Před 2 lety +20

    I just don't understand why the powers that be, made the decision to cancel this show. Clearly they must see how unique it is. It's not like any other talk show on TV, and the conversations are definitely real and thought provoking.
    Turn on any other talk show and guaranteed you won't hear conversations like this. With each question, (I can't speak for others) but they make me think. By way of posting comments I have legitimately started to understand my own actions in the process. Sometimes even leading to change.
    I just think the cancelation is premature. These ladies have a good 5 years left in them to grow and evolve on the show. Look at how different it is compared to its first year. It's like day and night.😘

    • @A.Shawnee
      @A.Shawnee Před 2 lety +3

      the other shows have higher ratings consistently. that's the reason for the cancelations.

  • @makaylabanton1521
    @makaylabanton1521 Před 2 lety +1

    Awwww Garcelle 🥺❤️

  • @alfbecky9061
    @alfbecky9061 Před 2 lety +17

    What a poignant moment...hearing Garcelle share her loss! I lost my mom

  • @rowannesaleh5669
    @rowannesaleh5669 Před 2 lety +2

    Ok lonnie killed me 😂

  • @claudiamartin9982
    @claudiamartin9982 Před 2 lety +9

    Loni you look beautiful.love love the outfit

  • @DDgurlss4lyfe
    @DDgurlss4lyfe Před 2 lety +3

    Please create a podcast! Imagine this with nothing off limits!

  • @kawiramucheke
    @kawiramucheke Před 2 lety +2

    Garl,
    Death is so overpowering such that without really taking Refuge in God the Almighty, you can never feel at ease.
    But if you believe our days 're wholly in his hands, you'll start viewing your Mom's demise as fulfilment of his will and agree that we can never challenge it.
    We can only pray to God to overcome the Spirit of death in our families and bless us with long life, for it is Biblical.
    That's why l always say 'May his will be done' when l remember my dad and try to live thro' his lessons as a form of feeling him in my life ❤

  • @aneesahmorehouse3868
    @aneesahmorehouse3868 Před 2 lety

    Love this show!!!!

  • @vonniebrooklynskies4791
    @vonniebrooklynskies4791 Před 2 lety +1

    This show gave me more ideas for interesting conversations with my girlfriends 😃💖

  • @teetawn9454
    @teetawn9454 Před 29 dny

    Felt so sad hearing Garcelles narrative. I cant imagine that sort of loss.

  • @kinghiggins5021
    @kinghiggins5021 Před 2 lety

    Wow wow wow

  • @dancinginthepurplereign4126

    Loni is so beautiful. 🔥

  • @BrandonCM4
    @BrandonCM4 Před 2 lety +1

    I caught that Tamarism towards the end Adrienne lol. 😭

  • @longisland2009
    @longisland2009 Před 2 lety

    I’m really going to miss this show.

  • @vickiannmalenga
    @vickiannmalenga Před 2 lety +6

    Loni is stunning 😍

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife Před 2 lety

    Aww

  • @career101.tanzania
    @career101.tanzania Před 2 lety +8

    I honestly knew Loni’s gonna be the funniest one…. I promise 😂

  • @RTA6226
    @RTA6226 Před 2 lety +2

    My mother spanking me didn't work either. I felt major resentment.

  • @liztan1723
    @liztan1723 Před 2 lety +2

    Loni looks stunning 🤩

  • @mariaisabeljamilloroldan8557

    Thats a good tip to cry or act like your crying so your kid can behave

  • @annefrewen8109
    @annefrewen8109 Před 2 lety +1

    WHY IS THIS SHOW ENDING. ITS ONE OF MY ABSOLUTE FAVOURITES. THERES NOTHING ELSE LIKE IT ON. I NEVER COMMENT BEFORE BUT😢😢😢

    • @iats1
      @iats1 Před 2 lety

      It’s time. It’s over

  • @tfkdandsvkc
    @tfkdandsvkc Před 2 lety +13

    Am I the only one who can't stand people anymore am at the point where I would rather live in a mansion on an island everyday I get so much hatred because of my age and am only 27 I have been feeling so so suicidal over this

    • @teetawn9454
      @teetawn9454 Před 2 lety +8

      Please feel better soon.
      life and people are difficult, yet it gets better. Hope the best for you and happiness :)

    • @missshay1502
      @missshay1502 Před 2 lety +3

      i totally get it,,,,,sometimes i just wanna be alone ,,,just so i can connect with my inner self and enjoy my inner peace. I hope that you'll be okay and i hope that you'll spend more time with the people that make u feel good, even if its with yourself,,,, than to be around anyone who makes u sad. Stay positive,,,,its a bad day,,,not a bad life

    • @josephlovely7759
      @josephlovely7759 Před 2 lety +5

      It will get better, surround yourself with different people. I am really sorry you feel this way. Could you please promise to give us some updates in this comment section soon. I will look for it. Feel better

    • @tamaraglo845
      @tamaraglo845 Před 2 lety +2

      Just remember it gets better. Whatever you are going through/feeling will soon pass. In the meantime allow God goodness and mercy to move through you and transform your heart and mind. I love you and I’m praying for you.

    • @teetawn9454
      @teetawn9454 Před 2 lety

      @@josephlovely7759 yes, updates :)

  • @victoriairias7703
    @victoriairias7703 Před 2 lety +1

    My dad's spanked me and they always had a conversations with me... Now when we are older they just talk.
    So when raising a child you ha e to hav3 both.... Because I do know kids who by talking just doesn't work. I do know that my parents also didn't like spanking but follow the Bible. And it worked.

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 Před 2 lety

      Yeah scare them with that bible that’s usually a good strategy 🥴😄😏😁

  • @ibrahimvicuna7479
    @ibrahimvicuna7479 Před 10 měsíci

    I will never understand why they did my girl Loni that wrong with the broom like 6 pair o lashes. Killed everything else

  • @lifeofTartarh
    @lifeofTartarh Před 2 lety +3

    Tell me again why this show got cancelled??

  • @johnnephelim589
    @johnnephelim589 Před 2 lety

    I love their chemistry unlike the viewIts very toxic and the opinions are terrible.

  • @Joejoyoyoyo
    @Joejoyoyoyo Před 2 lety +1

    No, but why was Jeannie Mai a pioneer influencer? 😅

  • @brendal1156
    @brendal1156 Před 2 lety +2

    Physical abuse is not love. Never should be interpreted as a breakthrough moment.

  • @ceeceedior21
    @ceeceedior21 Před 2 lety

    The first time I felt loved???? I’m not sure

  • @ThePurepoison88
    @ThePurepoison88 Před 2 lety

    Jeannie looks pregnant!

  • @donatgalin5918
    @donatgalin5918 Před 2 lety

    Felicidades, es un buen ejemplo. 4 sentadillas son unos Mirabellee.Uno muchas y un buen ejercicio. Se deja ver que hay muy buenos resultados 😍👍 Saludos desde la Cd.. de world 🌹😉💖 los mortalesh abian apreciado tan hermosa mujer.k

  • @sy8266
    @sy8266 Před 2 lety +2

    Loni always sound like she's lying

  • @missmindyourbusiness3975

    Is jeannie pregnant again??

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 Před 2 lety +1

      Is that possible?

    • @familytv9585
      @familytv9585 Před 2 lety +3

      This is an old clip

    • @familytv9585
      @familytv9585 Před 2 lety

      @@TT.3123 yes

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 Před 2 lety

      @@TT.3123 Lmaoo of course if she wants too have another one

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 Před 2 lety +1

      @@alexandraanderson3988 no I just didn’t know how long it’s been since she’s had the baby. Most people don’t start trying immediately after the first baby is born - especially if it’s their first child
      So like….I meant….has it been the recommended six weeks since she’s had the baby in order for it to be possible lol. But then I saw on another clip she said she did not wait 6 weeks 🤭

  • @Buggu3
    @Buggu3 Před 2 lety

    Lani lie n🤥🤥🤥

    • @Buggu3
      @Buggu3 Před 2 lety +1

      @@LadiiRis793 so if it’s in her book it’s real. Ok…

    • @iats1
      @iats1 Před 2 lety

      She always lying and making up stuff. Do you see garcelle facial express when Lonnie is lying

  • @iats1
    @iats1 Před 2 lety +1

    Is it just me or is Lonnie the worst storyteller. Her stories always seems made up and without any substance. I cringe when she speaks. I don’t get how she was ever chosen for this show

  • @ladymissy5078
    @ladymissy5078 Před 2 lety

    Okkkkkk! I wish ppl would really stop involving God in their craziness. God DID NOT send your boyfriend's best friend to ask you to prom my dear sister Loni Love. THAT'S MESSY AND MY GOD AINT A MESSY GOD!!

    • @iats1
      @iats1 Před 2 lety +1

      All she does is make up stuff. Why would you accept a prom date from your ex best friend? She never makes sense

    • @ladymissy5078
      @ladymissy5078 Před 2 lety

      @@iats1 I thought I was the only one that believe's she makes up most of her stories. I love some of her points of view about certain important topics.