How Introverted Feeling (Fi) Makes an INTJ Human
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- čas přidán 18. 05. 2023
- This video describes INTJ's third cognitive function Introverted Feeling (Fi) and how it affects our daily lives.
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As an INFP, I think that Fi is what draws me to INTJs (& vice versa). INTJs are like overbaked chocolate chip cookies, crisp on the outside with ooey, gooey morsels inside 💓🍪
Overbaked chocolate chip cookie 😂. That's a cute and funny analogy!
It’s so freaking true. Realizing my parents were abusive was like someone telling me 1+1=3. The hardest shit I’ve ever had to rewire.
I hope that parenting style ends with them and that you learn from their mistakes ✊
I'm an INFP with dominant Fi & your comment hit home with me. At 48 years old, I'm still coming to terms that my family was toxic & highly dysfunctional.
As a supposed INTJ I will say this much:
- Only 2 people I know were able to improve my opinion of them once they messed up enough to get to the point of supposed no return.
- "No" is a full sentence but sometimes I will add a whole storyboard of 2 sentences to tell somebody why I don't agree to something (most of the time this is where people stop trying to convince me),
- Don't attack my core values if you don't have strong and logical arguments for your case, otherwise you are asking for it (all of you INTJs know what I mean).
- Don't attack people important to me if you don't want to be mercilessly butchered with statements you don't want to hear. I let these people into my inner circle because I believe in them and they stood by me when I needed it. This might be just me being very protective and territorial but I value people important to me more than I will ever value someone's opinion of me.
- I abhor the idea of lying to save someone's feelings. It is better to tell somebody truth than let them live a lie as truth provides the possibility to better oneself.
- My artistic niche to call it that way are TTRPGs. I love playing RPGs with my friends. It is my retreat and outlet and I do all I can to improve my skills as a player and as a game master even though it's just a hobby and seeing/hearing them talking with big smiles on their faces about the game gives me this warm and fuzzy thing people call happiness.
💯 on everything that you wrote!
I've always liked how a lot of INTJ creators on CZcams use tons of final fantasy imagery in their thumbnails or videos. I'm not into tabletop RPGs, but I love final fantasy, and I play 14 a lot. Delving into the game is almost like experiencing my brain coming to life. I also love using my values and principles in an epic hero's journey.
David West Keirsey was quoted as once saying that the Mastermind (INTJ) can be a closet romantic and an possibly a more effective counselor than the INFJ. This video illustrates it. PLEASE keep developing your content. You are serving a great cause!!
Thank you for the kind words! I've been told that I should be a teacher and I feel I am in a sense through these videos 😀
Add Sasuke's intense feeling for his family in the end.
He was runner up 😂
I'm like Sasuke about my narcissistic wife in the beliefs of the person I knew.... After 30 years, I am now having to defend myself in court from her accusations to protect her life when I'm getting alone time😅
The Fi explanation about love made everything make sense to me. I remember when I was watching Eren do the rumbling in Attack on Titan and thinking that I would do the same to protect the people I love without a second thought.
The people I care about are more important to me than all the rest in the world.
💯, the world means nothing to me without the people I care about in it
As an INTJ, I have had the greatest happiness in my life these past years working to intentionally improve my emotional intelligence and embrace Fi as a tool for outward engagement with others. In fact, I recently decided my romantic relationship with an INFP based on Fi and Te bonding and it has been the best mutual respect and support I may have ever known at such early stages. This video is absolutely solid advice for the INTJ as well as valuable for those that care to know an INTJ better.
Super happy to hear that you found an INFP to bond with! It takes a while for an INTJ to get to the stage of self reflection and engaging Fi but boy is it a game changer once we get there. I'm happy for you fellow INTJ ✊
Whenever I try talking to someone about Fi stuff, they never seem to understand how deep the rabbit hole goes. Sure, I could boil my motivations down to one single thing, but it's so much more than that.
Also 100% on the unknown emotion. For example, it took me way too long to figure out I was experiencing loneliness. I was surrounded by loved ones and was active in online communities, so I didn't think anything of it. Once I figured out what it was and was able to acknowledge the emotion, I was able to deal with it better.
Word of advice to other highly introverted intjs: parasocial relationships aren't good enough.
Fi runs so deep that I feel like I barely scratched the surface! 100% on the callout about parasocial relationships. I believe that an Se component is a requirement for any healthy relationship. ✊
"Art is used to express our feelings", so damn true.
Intj become cry baby when alone and still don't know the reason why they cry 😂
and then get annoyed that we're crying because it doesn't make sense 😂
And start to analyze what made us feel the emotion but still it doesn't make sense.
This video hit home SO HARD and I love it. Especially that call out that we recognize the world isn't built for us, so we end up spending a lot of our time trying to build our own space in a world that, for lack of a less extreme example, can feel like is constantly smiling to our face, while we can clearly see the knife behind the back and left to wonder if that knife meant for me or someone else. It's also why integrity and authenticity are SO important to us especially as we grow and mature into our later years. I liked that you called out art as being an outlet for our Fi to express itself and reminds me of a time when I was going through a rough patch in life, and there was this very short piano melody that was very somber and almost lonely that came from an anime that seemed to PERFECTLY encapsulate how I was feeling every day during that period. I remember my girlfriend, who was just a friend at the time needed a ride and as we were on our way she heard this track and she was like, "Wow. This seems like a really sad song." And I was like, "yeah, but it's making me feel a little better right now, so can you just roll with it for now..." Naturally she was surprised at that response and just said, "This is making you feel better?" And without missing a beat I just said, "Yes, because it's letting me know that somewhere out there someone else has felt the same way I'm feeling right now, which means I'm not alone. So, please, just let it be."
As a people manager I've found that the biggest conflicts usually come up when it comes to decisions on how and when discipline needs to be administered. Sometimes this is due to company rules seeming incredibly arbitrary or "open to interpretation" leading to decisions feeling extremely hypocritical. Other times it's due to knowing for a fact that the "rules" weren't laid out clearly for the person about to catch some trouble and now you're in the position that you have to be the messenger and the only thing you can hear is your inner Fi screaming, "This is bullshit and you know it!" While that the same time Te is right in the other ear with, "These are the rules, and they were broken. You can't call yourself a leader if you are always letting things slide so reign it in and do what needs to be done." And it's that exact same duality that can make me look at one employee who may be very slow on reaching a needed competence level, but they are actively trying every day and I feel like I need to do what I can to tank and mitigate any danger that comes their way because some people just take longer than others, while being able to look at another employee and be ready to deliver the harshest action within my scope because I know for a fact that they are being willful in their negligence of their work an I don't have time for it.
Even when it comes to gaming, when I'm leading my raid team I'm sure there are people that get frustrated when we take longer to clear because someone is struggling to work through a mechanic and get it down, but as long as I see they are making an honest and earnest effort to improve with each attempt I might have a small sigh and just say, "let's go again." Where others would be ready to kick, I'm like "It's a game, we're here to have fun and be entertained. Let's all just chill and try a different way." But on the flip side of that coin, if you don't show up for raid, or call out last minute three times, I'm like "We're done here. Find someone else's time to waste because you've gotten all you're going to get here," because at that point I'm valuing not just my time but the time of every other person who did show up and was ready to play.
Also shoutout to the Lelouch feature as an INTJ example, because that character was a prime example of Fi leading an INTJ type character to essentially burn the world down for your closest and most precious tribesmen.
It really is difficult being a leader sometimes when what's required of you goes against your values. Been there as well and hated every moment of it. INTJs really are patient once we mature and will advocate for those without a voice. It sounds like you're taking care of people at work and in your guild so keep it up!
"I have been a selfish being all my life, in practice, thoughbnot in principle." that words are nearly perfekt. I love your Videos, love to learn about mbti and so on and most important I feel understood the very first time thank you soooo mutch.🙃
I got you ✊
the romance/daydreaming bit has me biting down my fist DAMN, so embarrassing but so real
I feel you. I considered removing it a few times from the video 😅
Another great video Jon. The part about art is very true and something I don't think others understand. I think people are surprised the first time they're over and see the artwork that I have in my house and that they're real pieces and not Target or Walmart wall art.
Then when it comes to music I don't think anyone I know understands how it can affect me. The stuff that I connect with connects to me right down to my core and can really alter my mood and day. I can use it to shape my mood, get me out of a funk, etc. if I play the correct songs.
Then there are songs that I even have trouble listening to because they move me so much. I have to be in the right setting and mind set for them. "Five" by Sleeping at Last is one. He did a song for each of the enneagram types and that one (my type) really hits me hard.
Most people don't seem to connect that way. Even my ENFPs don't get it and I had thought that they would with being Fi tool.
I can't imagine life without music! I also don't expect any type to understand the depth that our Fi goes when it comes down to art because again, the process in which the INTJ goes through to arrive at our conclusions is unique to our type. Because we don't have a grasp on our emotions the same way an Fi dom/aux does, art hits us harder because it helps us navigate our emotions whereas they can change theirs at will (seemingly) ✊
@@justcallmejon22 Using it to navigate emotions is so true. Thinking about it I think that I actually use music to Te my Fi at times. I know that if I'm getting into funk X that if I play song Y that it will help me process what's going on. It's basically a music system to help process and navigate emotions.
I'm INTJ and this vedio made me cry with a sense of relief from understanding coming from somewhere. And a few seconds later I calmed down and sighed glad that's over...moving on, back to what I was doing.
I hope you're feeling better now my INTJ brother ✊
I can relate to INTJ's expressing their feelings through art.For me, I express through poetry & stories😊 I also have a very special list of songs that deeply resonate my Fi
Writing has always been a emotional release for me and I can't imagine life without music 🙂
There is so much truth in everything you said... as an INTJ I can relate to every single word of yours, point by point (including the love of art).
I am saddened by the misunderstanding about us: many people just ignore INTJs' Fi, and always portray them as the insensitive villains of the moment, uncaring machines without morals and without feelings (even in the Personality Database any cruel character is automatically placed among INTJs).
They can't imagine what we could do for those we love and care about, nor our romanticism and daydreaming, searching for sincerity, deepness and beauty. What Fi's loyalty has to offer, once you overcome the mistrust of Ni and (especially) Te.
More people should see your videos to better understand INTJs.
Once again, thanks for explaining this so well!
Continue embracing your Fi my INTJ sister! It's a lonely world for sure but I will not allow anything to get in the way of my Fi again and I hope you do the same 😁
@@justcallmejon22 ...Yep, ever and ever 😎💪🌹✨ Thanks and many good things to you!
Watching your videos has really helped me to understand myself and most importantly the changes in my psyche over time as I learn to become a mature and emotionally intelligent INTJ.
Specifically in terms of emotion, when we talk about INTJ's obsession with knowledge and learning in a project and single-minded focus... in the past 3 years I've actually turned that inward on myself to my emotions. Understanding feeling and processing my emotions has become my number one project and OH MY GOD I'M BLOWING MY OWN MIND lol. I could never explain it though to other people on the outside even though I have an intricate web of understanding and now know exactly how I feel and what I feel at all times as a result. How could I communicate all that to another human being? I can't even begin to skim the surface with words.
I'm always happy to hear that my video is having a positive impact on the community! Trust me when I say that I understand you completely because I'm currently going through a similar process of self-discovery. Life really is different once we engage and understand our Fi so I keep going through your journey fellow INTJ, I fully support you ✊
23:02 God damnn it Jon...😆
I'm not afraid to admit it fellow INTJ 😁!
I agree😂
he unlocked Pandora's box lol
I so agree with this! I’m with you, Jon!
It's really interesting to see how you INTJs experience Te-Fi.
As an ENFP, Fi-Te is the source of both my greatest joys and my greatest confusions. In my last job, I was let go because I was so disconnected from my Fi that no human power could make me efficient. It's really frustrating for me that if I don't believe in something deep down, I just can't do it. This has led me to have very deep and serious introspections since I was very young, and I spend a lot of time crying, haha. I cry from both good and bad emotions, at weddings, at work, during movies, when I sing (and then I can't sing anymore because I'm already crying) 😂 I can't help it.
Sometimes, it's maddening that my efficiency depends so much on my emotions, but at least I know that everything I do, I do with conviction. It's a complex function, but I wouldn't change it; it makes you feel alive.
Fi-Te is a foreign language to me as well so likewise. I understand how it manifests but I can't imagine life not being able to be productive if the feeling isn't right. I will say that seeing a Te user that has it in your 3rd or 4th slot in action is a sight to see...sometimes it scares me because of how forceful your Te is 😂
@@justcallmejon22 Well, imagine that! The corporate world doesn't see Fi-Te as a logical way to operate either, haha. They hate me, and I hate them too XD. By the way, what's the logic behind an INTJ leaving their well-paying job (in technology, right? I'm not sure if you mentioned it or if I assumed) to focus on their MBTI channel?
I work in tech as well, and I really enjoy programming and the nerdy side of being a data scientist... but I despise corporate dynamics (writing documentation, hierarchies, and especially knowing that ultimately I'm working for some billionaire, exploiting me and the planet). However, the opportunity cost of leaving that profession is enormous, and I haven't dared to do it yet. What was your thought process in making that decision? What advantages do you see in your life with this new career?
I just heard what Dave Chapelle had to say. Wow, just wow. I have no words. On another note, my INTJ and I are moving forward. He actually used the L word! Only once, but that's enough for me. I have been so busy, I haven't watched you in ages, Jonathon. It's so nice to hear your voice. I absolutely adore and love listening to you. I see everything you speak of about my guy. It so helps me to learn. I almost wish you were every one of the personalities so you would teach on them as well. lol. Naaa, I'm joking. You and the two dearest friends I have, who are INTJs are perfect.
Congrats on reaching the next level with your INTJ! It's official, you're part of his Fi! I also wish that I could experience the life of other MBTI types as well so that I can make as in-depth videos but not being their type won't stop me from trying. 😁
Oh, i feel sooo caught with the Fi romance daydreaming thing...while on a flight, i once brought myself to cry my eyes out over a starcrossed lovers situation, I'd made up in my head...the person sitting next to me, looked at me worried, like i was suicidal...😅
Tell them to mind their own business next time!! Jk 😁
"You're telling them the equivalent of one plus one does not equal two"
damn....I felt that, that is the best explanation I've come across of how it feels to have your values attacked
I'm glad the analogy made sense 🙂
Perfectly explained, thank you. ❤
I enjoyed every second of this!
😁
Best intj channel ❤️💜🧡
You're always so kind Lara 🙂
Well explained.
Thank you 🙏
It's been a while... Good to see you Jon!
Happy to be back 😁
Thank you for making this video.
Glad it was helpful 🙏
I found myself laughing at the absurdity of my distaste when someone asks me "How are you?" when you mentioned it. I almost always pause to analyze and gauge my emotional state at the query because I actually have to 'think' how I am feeling and feel almost compelled to answer seriously rather than just offer the casual response of "I'm fine thanks". Also, I was curious, is that a hematite ring on your finger?
I learned just to give a canned response of "Fantastic, how about you?". I forgot what type of ring it is since I bought it so long ago 😂
They don’t actually care though, it’s just a social norm
Awesome video as usual. In particular, this is great at explaining why we understand people and their motivations even though we don't always get or care about social expectations.
Yup! Something that most people will never understand about INTJs 😭
Excellent⭐Surely one of the best video about INTJ and Fi that I watched.
I don't know what I feel until my body send me signals, and I surely use all the other functions (mainly Ni Te) to determine the possible feeling.
😂
Great video here! I would also suggest making video regarding the differences between us INTP’s and INTJ’s.
Are you suggesting a comparison video? I made an 'INTJ loves INTP video', I'm not sure if you missed it 🙂
The advice my mom, whom I suspect to be an ESTP, gave me about just lightly brushing off negative emotions or brush them under the carpet didn't work on me and after several mental breakdown that land me with another psychological diagnosis (yes, I had a different one before), I had to do my own research and figure out how to deal with my emotions and related problems on my own.
I hate to admit this but there werr a reasons, no matter how wrong or unacceptable they are, that my dad who is clearly an INTJ and has similar mental issues like me seeked comfort somewhere else.
Learning about cognitive functions really does help provide clarity on a lot of things especially how emotions are handled. I hope you're in a better place ✊
Fi = passion
In this video 3 things of your felt pretty impressive , First one is the explanation of 1+1=2 which was told to explain Fi, Second thing is your vocabulary which diversified the usage of word 'walking' and third is that you are using more clips in middle of the video like the clip of dave chappel or scarlet witch . These things were pretty impressive
Thanks man! It's always nice to hear that the effort I'm putting into my videos is being noticed 🙏
On point.
Thank you ❤
I recently re-discovered that i m an INTJ but one thing that many INTJ videos mentioned that I didn't relate to was "not being able to socialize". Listening to those made me think that I might be socially adjusted INTJ or have unknownly developed high level of empathy. I don't know what is that in psychology jargons. I haven't learnt typing in detail. But i dont feel anxious in most social events, if I have to attend, except those that are organised by my husband's family. Btw, i find your videos very informative and validating for what I have experienced till date.
Happy to hear that my videos are helpful! I don't particularly agree with the INTJ videos you mentioned because although there is some truth to it, socializing is something that we can learn to perform on command if we put time and effort into learning it. Whether you are or aren't an INTJ, just remember that MBTI is a tool for self-discovery and not your identity, so take what makes the most sense to you and most importantly, enjoy your time here 😁
I am a 17y.o INTJ and a lot of the stuff you mentioned sounds like me. I never know how to answer to “how are you?”, because I simply don’t know. I know something is off, but my te(?) says I’m fine cause like.. nothing bad happened. I tend to put my emotions off, but when I actually remember I have them it becomes difficult to manage them, so I start listening to some sad ass music and crying cause it’s hard to live. I’m Emo af.
Trust me when I say that I know how you feel. The best advice that I can give you is to start listening to your emotions. You don't have to deal with them right away but if you handle them in small bites, you'll start understanding yourself a lot more since it'll be easier to pinpoint what caused specific emotions. Keep improving my INTJ niece/nephew ✊
Great video as usual, I'm curious what my fellow INTJs think about journaling? Personally I love journaling, because the act of writing my thoughts is relaxing, I can read my thoughts and know what I am going through and what I need to change in my life. The act of writing and writing itself is a form of art, that's why I love it.
I'm personally not too into journaling but I know a lot of people are and it's been helpful for them! I'm more into writing poetry to help me organize my thoughts 🙂
Journaled much of my young life. I found that it relieved the Fi pressure, and I liked it because often an INTJ is not ready to open up to others yet and needs space to freely express thoughts and emotions. In my young life, rather than not knowing how I felt, I actually probably would say, I felt multiple conflicting things at the same time, Ni and Fi combining to abstract out many feelings and looping to try and hone in on the ONE feeling so to make a decision. But, in time, you learn after hundreds of pages of journalling, welp... I guess all these disparate emotions really do co-exist. Journalling can be amazing, but don't let it keep you from connecting with people you need to talk to about issues. Don't have a one way conversation too often, if you have a struggle with another person. Use the journal as a place to collect some thoughts, but then, imperfectly get out into the world. I may try dance next, ping Fi off of Se instead of Ni for once. = )
@@clairecanby14 I get the feeling of relieving the Fi pressure, it helps a lot, I also use my journal to collect some thoughts and ideas. I also might try other artistic hobbies.
I have noticed that animals, especially mammals, have all our feelings, too. So, I pay attention to my feelings, but think about whether they are useful in the context and situation. Many times they aren’t, and I always understood they could be powerful and surprising, but not necessarily helpful.
Novelists must have coined the phrase, “felt a stab of jealousy.” When I found out my little sister wanted to spend more time with her boyfriend, I actually felt a sharp pang in my heart, and it felt like a stab. I figured it was jealousy that was unjustified, and that was that. I don’t think I would have known where it came from without having read about it in books. I’ve never felt jealousy since. I rarely feel envy at all, but my core values include a deep respect for property rights, which causes me to successfully return found cash to its owners without any envy. I believe feelings are important and should be respected, but that we need to be humble and realize we aren’t the only species to have them. Thinking is an adaptation that adds flexibility and leverage to our motivation and feeling.
Thank you. This made my te ni se feel fi happy to know your ni te feels fi deeply. But makes my te ni se feel fi sad that if I mess up I will be te kicked off the ni te fi se team because you see no ni future with us in your ni fi life. But I do the te ni same thing so that's te fair.
Same same but different, but still same 😂
Mid slots act more complementary to eachother compared to the end slots which is harder to balance of complement.
Exactly ✊
Nice... Yes that shows what my problem with older members in my society... They tried to force "I am telling you this" and I find their concept and value to be highly stupid and outdated..
I fought as a proud INTJ and being seen as someone that is hard to work with...
Oh and for me, I can "tolerate" pathological liar as long as that person can be useful... but I find my hardest part is to tolerate dumb people...
But then again, I dont ignore the bad aspects of people.. I filter people based on their capability and avoid the negative aspect... So yeah, I might put a pathological liar to do groceries and I might trust a dumb person to handle money, mainly because I can control both
I've had a previous manager tell me that I don't enjoy working in groups and got upset at me when I fixed her and told her that I don't enjoy working with dumb people. The rest of your comment sounds like you're utilizing Ni & Te to it's fullest potential and I'm all for it 😆
@@justcallmejon22 and I once asked my lecturer a permission to work alone in a group project. Not because I didn't get along with others.. But more importantly I just wanted to do it myself. My lecturer reluctantly agreed, my classmates were shocked and I waltzed happily..
But that was not all sunshine... I got a long lecture from my lecturer that this would be the last thing I could do alone... And I had to learn to cooperate in groups.
Oh and yes, I tend to rely on Ni and Te most of the time... They are actually wonderful... Without having these traits, I wouldn't be able to predict what to do most of the time..
I generally don't trust anyone. I need time to tell if you're fish or fowl.
A true intj always give anyone the right ni te fi answers, a true entp always tell any one right unique value by ne ti fe--- its just we both forget somehow... For entp his real path, for intj his real people❤ if even intj tells me this is the real pathway, and i am telling the intj this 5 are your real people... Both just asked why? And its so difficult to answer lol...so we dont just asked why in this❤
So, yes if entp messes with fe people by his power so will be choosing bad people later
If intj messes with ni te fi power he will be going wrong pathway later
Circle of life
Hey friend. Did you listen to my audio response regarding TeFi? So much of this video relates to what I was dealing with. #uncanny
I haven't yet! I just finished searching for it and noticed that CZcams held it for review thinking that it's spam which those comments are held somewhere else. I'll make sure to check it out soon!
@@justcallmejon22 Ohhhh. That's good to know!
@@justcallmejon22 Are you open to coaching? I'm looking for someone like you.
I read somewhere that WALL·E the movie character is an INTJ but people don’t see it but it’s the Fi there
If he is, he's one of the cutest INTJ out there 😂
12:03 I'm curious to know how the speaker would define logic ("logic and efficiency") and truth ("authenticity and truth") precisely. Interesting take.
To simplify it some more, logic and efficiency are based on known work, whereas authenticity and truth are more emotionally charged that may discard logic. This simplification removes a lot of nuisances that are necessary for understanding but I think it works to separate the two 🙂
How does the heart steer the brain, when the brain steers itself?
I'm learning putting the value systems and emotions into words, with the cage unlocked and ajar.
You're talking semantics now lol. What's the purpose of doing something if you won't find fulfillment either doing it or at the end of it. Sounds like a waste of time to me 🙃
@@justcallmejon22 That's the point. There is no fulfillment of doing the things I do, so there is a necessity to chart it. And because life taught me to do the things I do, I've never thought of needing to know if this corresponds to what I believe to be good for me. Auto piloting the systems implemented by family and educational systems won't get me anywhere. But a conciousness to use what I know to build what I want, that would be the ideal situation. And I'm only now starting to learn this. It's pushing through the subjegation. A waste of time for ones who already know and have developed it already, but uncharted waters for myself. This investment in me is what will pay off when the alignment of desire, values, and responsibilities come together.
I am an autistic INTJ men .whenever i try to show empathy to others men ,they think i am gay.😢
Sounds like you gotta tone it down a little 🙂
fi topic asside, i want to hear your opinion about something,
I talk to psychology student and she says that mbti and cognitive functions are not reliable and outdated, unreliable means not enouch research backing up on it... Ive been watching, reading about mbti on yt, qoura, reddit, social media groups and page about that too for 3 years and its makes sense, i mean even in workplace or marriage it kinda reflects their partner's behavior and how they processed, so why its always been disproven by other psychology students?
I just want to hear your thoughts about this? Im kinda curious
There's no way to argue over what is traditionally accepted in society (Fe/Si) and there's really no point. MBTI is huge in Korean pop culture and not in the Western world but the Western World prioritize more prescription drugs and therapy, methods that will never fix a problem but instead create a a customer for life. It's a losing battle until your friend realizes that modern day medicine is ignoring holisitic methods of healing that has helped human throughout our existence and instead making us additcted to manufactured drugs.
Hi Jon I watched this video again I was wondering to myself how does Fi show in INTJ vs ISTJ. My brother is an ENTP but my sister ISTJ. My brother told me that I’m more loyal to some extent and I feel others pain and I’m there to some extent more so than an ISTJ
I don't think there's much of a difference and siblings are difficult to gage since you're forced to be with them instead of choosing them like the friends you decide to hang out with. But if I were to guess, you and your brother probably connect better because you're both Intuition doms and ignore Si. Si-Te show they care differently than Ni-Te so I think your best bet is to first figure out all the Si things that your sister takes care of that you both tend to overlook.
@@justcallmejon22 the catholic gaming nerd - is an ISTJ and he made a video about it’s actually pretty good. You should make a video with him. He interviews people from MBTI 🙂
Is being in your 20's considered being a young INTJ? There's so many confusing things - weird feelings (doesn't make sense why) and most things that once made sense, don't :/
20s is young for all types because that's when you learn who you are as a person. Trust in the process and make mistakes, there's no such thing as the right path in life, there's only your own path. One of the things that I had to learn is that there are things that will never make sense, it's okay my fellow INTJ ✊
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It's true that It takes time to be more comfortable with Fi, specially, If we just stay focused on Te. To realize how important is Fi for an INTJ takes time and that could cause mental health problems or nihilism. Also, we experience the Ni-Fi loop as a result of not being aware of our emotions, how to feel them and talk about them when It's necessary to do it. Authenticity is really important but efficiency usually takes place first. But, as we get older is easier to find the balance.
I agree 100%. I've concluded that I'm a nihilist, but an optimistic one. Because there's no meaning, that means I get to create me own, which makes me happy to approach each day 🙂
you say stack when you mean slot
Potato, potato. As long as everyone understands what I'm trying to say 😅
Hello jon
I am INTJ-A and my best friend is INFJ-T.
She feels overwhelmed by her emotions most of the time and this leads me to ignore her sometimes for days, because i don't want to deal with so much emotions all at once.
And i am aware that my behavior is not good for our friendship in a long run.
Please suggest how i should deal with this situation.
I'm glad you're reaching out for help pre-emptively! I also don't think I will say anything that you don't already know. You're being a jerk for ignoring your friend that needs someone to talk to. If your friend expressing her emotions is overbearing, then communicate it to her and then figure out a medium. I think something that you need to figure out as well is why it's overwhelming for you. INFJs typically only open up to people that they trust and respect so it sounds like you have both. She needs someone to talk to, don't ignore her. If anything, treat this as a Te project, to create an efficient way for the both of you to communicate. You got this INTJ, don't allow the INFJ to feel lonely ✊
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I will make sure to let her know about this strategy.
Thank you.
@@justcallmejon22 thank you.
I suppose I have scrutinised the reason why I feel/felt overwhelmed now. And I think i am little bit on unhealthy side for being jerk to her in her vulnerable times. But I firmly believe that I will develop more maturity in my coming 20s,30s,40s and so on.
And oh, I assure you she won't be lonely.
Can you brain typed by Jon Niednagel? I suspect You are ENTP brain type.
I might be, I like ENTPs!