Yes, I'm repaying a house loan also - and want to repay it as soon as possible, and I've previously been excessively shopping, so I have so much stuff already. I'm dedicated to not buy anything but necessities for the next 55 months (!). ;) I'm exactly 22 days in, but I know I'm good at sticking with decisions. Also, as I said: I really need to shop my own closet - I have so many items that I love (and have completely forgotten about). It's an eye opener to actually REALLY organize your belongings, because chances are if you want something specific that you already have it. An example - I was thinking I needed more sports bras, but as I went through my sportswear it turned out I had 5-6 more sports bra... So, I'm looking forward to becoming debt free AND getting to wear some of the awesome I already have. :)
Currently down sizing and working in small areas to minimize any unwanted unused items draw by draw and only taking $20 with me so Iâm not tempted to spend .
i agree - only try to follow those who inspire you. as soon as i start to feel crappy/comparing about myself in response to something i see on social, i have to mute it/unfollow
I'm on a no-buy for the entire year. Exceptions are: food, meds and household consumables (detergent, vacuum bags, etc). Half way through, I feel very light and free. I don't care about frivolous shit anymore, like I've completely lost interest in keeping up with all of the new things. I have more time and energy so I started reading books again, which I haven't been able to do for the last I dunno ten years..? I can't imagine going back to my old ways. Just wish I had done this for myself a lot sooner. Thanks for a great video. â€
After only five minutes of watching I really love and respect this woman for being SO HONEST about herself! We can all learn from this, not only tho shop less, but also learn from her skills of self reflection. Being truly honest to ourselves is the way to change our lives for the better.
Thank you for this video! I am actually at the other end of the spectrum, an extreme minimalist. I donât even have a bed. I sleep on a yoga mat. Itâs hard for me to spend money even on basic things (like clothes!) that I need. So, this year Iâve allowed myself to buy good quality basics. Nothing trendy or fast fashion. I feel extreme consumerism and extreme minimalism are both ends of the same spectrum and caused by the same emotion: fear. Fear of missing out or fear of spending money. Both indicate a lack of trust. Itâs fascinating to see how we all relate differently to things. Love your channel! ~Sarah
I totally agree on the extremes of both sides; I am working on myself to find that balance too, because you're right - fear drives the extremes - but why are we afraid of finding balance? it's what i'm trying to learn. xo
@@Christinamychas It's the ego that fears its own death. The ego is strengthened, and identity is reinforced through the actions of both sides. It's hard to give up an identity and to "just be." That's why. Have you read "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle? He talks a lot about consumerism, ego and identity in that book. Highly recommend reading for a low-buy year. :)
Considering my bed is where I spend 30% of my life, I invest on a good one which hopefully will last for a very long time. Good sleep turns into good quality of life.
Unsubscribing is definitely a game changer. When I want to but something I transfer the amount to my savings or acorns account. It feels just as good as buying something I didnât need
That's exactly what I'm starting to do. I am trying to find youtubers fashion vloggers who do shop your closet for fashionable outfits. Like Alyssa Beltempo is a great one. I need to find more though. czcams.com/video/BBrFVquVzfE/video.html
I have savings but I should have a lot more than I do. I seem to feel the need to just buy anything in order to cure my bordem and I need to stop. I don't even need most of the stuff I buy.
I have learned that as i sort stuff or declutter that i see what i have and not need. others have even said they declutter some and discover what they got and forgot they had it any. so as u stop buying and use what u have already , u find that what u thought u needed u already had and can save more after decluttering for space.
I shop at the thrift store and find designer clothes that look like they've never been worn. After losing 32 pounds, that was how I built my wardrobe for less money.
Animals, Nature, Beauty thank you so much for your beautiful words - itâs comforting to know Iâm not alone and even more so that sharing this could help and inspire others đđ»
Christina, we each have our demons to overcome. Over the past two years, I have been successful in gradually overcoming a sugar and binge eating addiction which resulted in my weight topping out at 296 pounds. Now, I am tackling my finances, and you have inspired me to begin 2020 in no-buy/low-buy mode. Thank you for your honesty which is helping so many people! Best wishes!
I finally figured out that there is no end to 'things', and what I already have is more than enough. So I just stopped buying 'stuff' and I'm alright, lol.
Hana Tanana ABSOLUTELY thatâs what I learned too and often need to remind myself of; thereâs always a âhuntâ and a craving thatâs never really satisfied
I find it so refreshing that you actually call yourself shopping addict and not trying to look for excuses and reasons somewhere else. Iâm same. I started thinking more rationally towards end of last year. My situation is a bit different, I donât have many good basics in my wardrobe because my wardrobe is full of crap. So now I limit myself to only buying basics that I absolutely need and only of good quality and fabrics. And I hardly buy anything or feel an urge to go shopping. Good luck and keep inspiring us!,
m.y. Thatâs an amazing shift you made! Basics are just so easy and really are the foundation to an amazing wardrobe and personal style. Iâm fully an addict - changing my habits, mindset and family tree slowly. Iâm only hoping to share my experience and hopefully inspire others to do the same. Thatâs amazing how you have made your change! Slay! đđ»đđ»đ„°
My furniture, kitchenware, linens and clothes are more than 25 years old. I take good care of everything I have. Everything is still like new. Happily retired.
Diane R you are goals, Diane! Itâs so easy for me to get caught up in trends and whatâs ânewâ - itâs why I had to stop for a while and slow down to appreciate and take care of what I already have. Youâre an example of that! Love it!
I stopped buying the thing I found to solve a problem- and instead focused on the quality of the thing I was buying so I would never have to buy it again. Since then (a few years ago), I havenât bought any kitchen items, lawn furniture, new clothing, shoes, interior furniture, and home decor. I bought good quality items to replace the cheap ones I disposed of. Quality is key. Quantity is a goal Iâm aiming toward (or, technically, AWAY from).
The older I get the more I realize its not about the amount of things but how well you take care of the things you already have. I find that everything I own I love, all I had to do is learn to appreciate it. I am now taking care of my things more and more and find that opening my closet, or kitchen cabinets makes me want to use my things not replace them.
Alexandra Kineta Iâm so happy youâre inspired! Thereâs some things I am still struggling with trying to balance not shopping and style blogging, but itâs all a process. You can do it, girl! đȘđ»đȘđ»đżâđ»
My parents used to give me 20 or 40 dollars each month and i would spend it all in like a week without any concern. Even if i didn't needed anything i would feel the need to buy something just to get rid of the money, now that i started my first job and earn money by myself i dont want to waste a single penny. I dont know what happened lol. I want to save money for no reason really, im 17 so i still live with my parents and i have no responsibilities to pay. Im Saving every paycheck and not waste anything until i get out and move out hopefully in like 2-3 years.
I fall easily YES! Good for you! Youâre way ahead of the game if this is your mindset now. đđ»đđ» I highly recommend dave Ramsey to keep you on your path to wealth, giving, and good habits â€ïž - wish I found him when I was your age!
THANK YOU!!! CZcams and Instagram really make me feel like there is always something else I need. Trying to save and become more conscious of what clothing I purchase.
I actually keep an clothing/accessories inventory in an Excel spreadsheet. I review it seasonally. It is so helpful. If Iâm out & see something I think I need or want I check to see what I already have.
Love this! I started decreasing my spending overall, & right now Iâm focusing on using up all my bathroom / hygiene / make-up products before buying new ones. Itâs amazing how much shit I have on my countertop & in my shelves - I canât wait to get it down to the bare bones of what I truly need. đ
Love this video. I exactly changed my ways this very year. I sold a lot of my purses, shoes, and jewelry that I could. Give away a lot of clothes in my closet that didnât make me happy when I would wear it because I wasnât comfortable. So I now start with the basics that I know I like. I had a $1400 purse that I wonât wear and I wore wear my purses that were less than $100. I have paid off 3 credit cards because of selling my stuff and not buying clothes all the time. I wish you can see more influences that repeat their clothes and that are not always buying luxury purses.
I really appreciate your straight-forward approach to this. As someone who gets a little burnt out by watching...pretty much everyone buy into this culture of constant consumption. I think it's an issue that many people have, and the fact that you're speaking out about your issues with it and being honest and open about how you're trying to grow is really admirable.
Julia Daughton thank you SO much, Julia! I really did get caught up in it - 6 months in I feel like Iâm getting caught up in it again. Need a reset and feeling that exhaustion of âwantingâ. I think the shift is slowly moving towards loving what you own ; if there are holes in what you need, fill them mindfully, you know? At least itâs what Iâm trying to do!
Honestly as soon as my size is sold out, I feel at peace. Like theres no I WANT IT BUT I DONT NEED IT BUT ITS SO BEAUTIFUL. cuz its gone. I missed it, and i don't feel as bad as i thought I would when it sold out.
My name is Christina too. And I'm working on STOP ALL this BS shopping. I'm working on getting rid of all this stuff. To get rid of it,it feels so good. The crazy part is,the more I declutter my mind is clear,and I feel free. I have never heard of low buy,I'm trying the NO BUY. Thanks for sharing,more videos pls.. You have a new subbie.
I'm working on a low buy year. I keep better inventory of my items. I still buy stuff that I want. I keep a tighter budget. I use the 30 day rule when purchasing an item that I want. I also set aside a impulse buy budget and won't feel guilty about it.
WishaWii the 30 day rule is great! My friends and I call it âthe testâ - wait on an item to see if you still want it or not, and if you do, donât feel guilty about purchasing as long as itâs within ones means. I think what youâre doing is really balanced! Xo
I have an addiction for about 20 years ...... idk đ i get myself in to depths but it never hit me hard .....i buy not only for my self n for my familyâs n friends. It make me happy but Iâm the only one suffering with the credit cards monthly bills n late fee đ im a shame of it but i cant đ thankyou for the video i ll try ur plan.... its like walking into the wall n hurting urself but u cant turn around even if ur blooding out đ€Šââïž
I'm happy I stumbled upon your channel. I can identify with the impulsive shopping, the emotional shopping, and the range of emotions (guilt mostly) accompanying this habit. In 2019 I tried to go low-shop but only lasted 3-4 months. Now, I'm back on it and really want to make it this time around. I've downloaded Money Matters app on my phone and first I did reality check. Listing all my purchases for 2 months, then I budgeted how it should be from now on, and I find that tracking every single purchase really helps.
Iâm doing a low buy too! Iâm trying to make sure I use all the product before I buy another product. This is really working for me with skincare because I tend to buy a lot of skincare I never use.
Iâve recently started to live more minimal which has changed my mindset a lot! This low buy series is helping me SO much. I have an impulse shopping habit and never really need things but I act like I need it and then end up with so much clutter and no money. I am not no longer watching hauls or being consumed into sales and things that will try make me spend money. Thank you so much! You have inspired me and helped my mental health. I have learnt to appreciate the things I have now â€ïž
Wow I definitely do the same thing.... Like I feel like, once I have this thing, I'll be complete and can really enjoy who I am. So weird. Then once I get it, I want another thing.
Great video! Iâve been a shopaholic ever since I got my first pay check. Iâm now 33. My usuals are clothes, shoes, bags, make up, sunglasses, skincare. Basically things that I can wear. Itâs how I express myself. I used to be so bad. Iâd be obsessed with something and have to get that specific item. Iâd love it and wear it but also be onto the next thing then the next then the next. Itâd go on and on and on for years. Some things were stupid money that I didnât have, some things I wouldnât even wear or use and were a complete waste of money. This year we had a cash injection. I paid off all my debts and have had disposable income. Itâs been really hard! Iâve been shopping loads. Iâve tried to be sensible though and to be fair I absolutely love every piece I have. People would (still do) stop me around the office saying âyou look fabulousâ âI love that shirt or jumper, where did you get it?â âyet another stunning outfitâ âyou are always so well put togetherâ I loved it, I still love it. I love wearing beautiful clothes, even if they are cheap (most of my clothes are not designer) itâs not the price, itâs the style. I feel like Iâm finally starting to plateaux with my spending. Iâve realised that I like to have enough outfits on rotation but itâs not too extensive. Iâve watched videos of people decluttering their wardrobes and have 10x what I have. I threw a lot away to be replaced with new and I feel like Iâm there. This month (June) has been good for me. I bought a couple of summer off the shoulder tops and I bought a spare of a shirt I already have. No make up. Nothing. Iâm in a really good place with my wardrobe and make up. I still browse but most of it I donât like or donât feel I need and this month Iâll have ÂŁ300 left over at the end of the month which Iâm really proud of. Iâm still getting so much joy out of the things I already have. I will look at an item and remember how I felt when I first bought it and I feel that still appreciating the things I have helps keep me on track. It helps me to not get obsessed with something new. Hope everyone else is doing well this year!
Hayley Lisa Tim Iâm in tears this makes me so happy - I think we have had very similar experiences and very similar realizations around very similar times. Iâm so proud of where youâve gotten and where youâll still go. Thank you for following along here too. Xo đ
I just discovered you by accident but Iâm so glad I did. I feel like listening to you was listening to myself. I am impressed with you. I am going to start a low but no buy because of your video. I am inspired by you. I totally understand how buying stuff can only make you happy for short time and then you are filled with guilt and stress. Thank you for changing my day and hopefully my life đ€
Hi there! Iâm in a low buy life for two years now, since I was pregnant đ€°đŒ and I wanted to save money for my daughterâs arrival. Iâve also made a huge declutter of our home since my husband and I decided to move to a smaller apartment. Weâve started this new minimalist life together, focusing in our favorites activities and do not spending money on things that are not necessaryđ
My daughter just flew to Toronto today for school. She has a shopping habit so she's now on a 2 year no buy zone. I sent her the link of this video. Thanks for posting
"I wasnt enough too I got the thing..." I can totatly relate, everything is so perfect in a lot of youtubers videos and therefore you dont feel like you or your home is good enough compared... we should be better at not comparing... it hurts us
Iâll be honest - I needed to hear this. I donât have debt (other than a mortgage, will be gone next year), have money in the bank and retirement, and live a comfortable life. The issue is that I donât need one single thing. I have WAY more than enough clothing, shoes, skincare, makeup, etc. I had set a goal to sell items on Poshmark and do a no buy this year, and Iâve failed miserably. Iâm really disappointed in myself, especially because Iâm very disciplined in several areas of my life, but a couple areas where I struggle really bother me. I need to make the change, and Im going to continue to watch your videos and look at Hannahâs, as well (already a fan of Dave). Thank you again for being open and honest, and giving us tips to make our lives better!
I love what you said about taking an inventory of your own clothes. I really love what I have but I rarely shop in my own closet. Itâs funny when you pull something out that you havenât worn in a while you are reminded of how much you love it and that you really donât need anything new. I just found this video and really enjoyed it and look forward to watching more with the same type of content. I truly feel like wearing what you already old is the secret to spending less!
i can't tell you how much this has helped me. everything you're saying is exactly what i've been going through and as soon as i made the decision to stop shopping and be more intentional, your channel appeared like a frkn angel T_T thank you so much
I watched these videos way back when you first posted them, but recently found myself needed a behavior change again and love that I can come back and rewatch them!
This is such a great video. I love how real you are and you sound like you are at that "fed up" point that Dave Ramsey talks about. My husband and I follow the financial principles he lays out and I am definitely low buy, but the pull towards buying clothes and eating out is always there for me, it just kinda waxes and wanes. Can't wait to follow your journey with this!
sunbirdsc Iâve definitely had that âGET MADâ moment Dave talks about. The low buy and habits definitely wax and wane, so going back to these and Daves fundamentals have been SO key. You and your husband sound like a great team - I love it. xo
Congrats! I have gone through the same thing. Only realized I was addicted to on line shopping when I decluttered. Now I have only bought supplies in order for us to go green. I will definitely follow u for motivation
Patrick Byrne I love it! What kinds of green supplies have you acquired so far? I think decluttering and doing a Low Buy inherently makes you more aware of living low waste and greener. I love it!
after watching your video I started journaling - in an Excel Sheet - everything I wear. This has forced me to wear the clothes I adore but "save for good moments" and to wear the clothes I see myself in. Now I started using clothes I wasn't used to to see what I love and what I don't - and donating the ones I don't love that much âš This has been LIFE changing . Thank you đ
good for you! my shopping addiction has definitely delayed my moving on into life and reaching big goals like this. another reason to stop. i hope you find your amazing home soon! xo
I came across this video as a I am decluttering my closet because i just canât do it anymore and I have to say.. this is the first time I hear someone hit it right on the spot... the not feeling enough definitely applies to me. Thank you for this.
Love your passion to consciously make a lifestyle change in the way you look at shopping for clothing items, etc, which in reality are a result of boredom, impulse, envy & mindless urges. Well, I actually should say... that's my personal statement on the subject but I'm now shopping from my own closet now and it feels real good !!!!! đđ You're doing a great job choosing to inspire all shopaholics !
Linda Caffalette totally bang on! And isnât shopping the closet so fun? I often forget what I already own - rediscovering it is both fun and awakening
Having my morning coffee, and I love watching your videos. Itâs amazing how decluttering branches out to every aspect of your life. I decided to Swedish death clean after my parents passed. I never wanted my daughter one day to have to deal with ridding our possessions. I knew we had years before this would happen, but I was just so upset after my siblings and I had to sell my parents home. This was 4 years ago. I never was a over buyer, but still had so much I didnât wear, or use or love. Fast forward to,now , and 6k worth of donations, and also selling my unwanted items. I have a nice bank account, plus I only have what I use, want, love. I lost the 20 lbs I had always wanted to, I became plant based, I am really aware of the environment, I only buy something if I need it, or to replace something that is no longer good, like this week my soup ladle broke, I needed to buy a new one. My walk in closet has about 4 empty racks, I find I donât need a lot of clothing, I just mix and match my capsule wardrobe, and use accessories to change up the look. I donât go browsing, which is key... I just adore your your content. Your straight and to the point. Some inspired you, I think you inspire many xo
Thank you for this! I found your channel very recently and have decided to do a low buy in an aim to gently but firmly shift my mindset for the long haul. I'm watching loads of your videos and planning to rewatch all of Hannah Poston's no buy videos to keep me motivated. Being so vulnerable and sharing your story is honestly life changing for those of us that need to hear it, so once again, thank you.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I have been struggling with a lot of the same issues and need to get a handle on my spending. Thank you for your honesty and good luck with your goals. â„ïž
I love how real a teary-eyed you are in this video. It's raw and real and im glad to see this. It's exactly how I feel right now and really needed this! Thank you â€ïž
You know you have an addiction when your watching a video of How to stop shopping/ No buy and all your you can think about is âI want that shirt and necklace.â Haha Thank you for you inspiration.
I've totally been on the same path for not shopping. My motto now is, if it's not replacing another item, I won't buy it. It's made me more aware of the clothes I have and only buying when I absolutely have to. Love your tips. Also, what's that lipstick you're wearing? I can't help but be curious. It's beautiful!
Nyree Feijoo thatâs the perfect motto! Itâs definitely part of my âground rulesâ which I will be talking about in my next video! And itâs Freckle by Fenty! đđ
Such a great reminder defintely unsubscribe helps not be tempted. I spent about a week clearing out my email box. Another thing to help me stop is tracking the categories you have the most trouble with.
This video popped up and it was a God thing Iâm sure. I am a makeupaholic and have been trying to figure how to stop this crazy shopping!! Thank you so much!!!
Mary Davidson I am/was too! I had to declutter and give away so much and really tried to hone in on what I actually used; turns out itâs a lot less than I thought. You can do it! Xo
Great Video Christina! Iâm from Vienna, am working as a general sales manager assistant in a big fashion company and have the same problem like you Starting from 1st of July I also start my year of not buying new clothes! Iâm so excited how this is going to effect my mind and my view about certain things. Going to keep watching your videos and your progress! All the best! Julia
Debbie Daniel Iâm so glad you enjoyed it! I really get I had to share ; youâre never alone in a struggle. I hope people can relate and find the tips helpful! Xo
Over the last year or so Iâve been getting into minimalism and getting rid of so many kids toys kitchen gadgets home decor even my own skincare makeup clothes etc but for some reason new clothes(esp t shirts) and PURSES get me every time đ« I need to stop. My last big purse purchase was the new Marc Jacobs black edit purse now I absolutely love it I am regretting it and know itâs time I need to stop! Watching this video opened my eyes again. I screen shot the thumbnail and sent it to my hubbyđ he said âsee! Listen to her!â
This is totally validates my transition to low-buy. After realizing that debt has been gradually piling up, and due to the need to save up for my wedding and subsequent honeymoon, I also felt the need to do something drastic/substantial (I sometimes find that a 'cold turkey' approach works well for me). Your mention of feeling 'not enough' definitely resonates, and I would often find that if I felt bored, anxious or stressed, I would use shopping to regulate or give a little boost - which just creates issues and compounding debt - not relaxing or anxiety-reducing at all.. Many thanks :)
Linds B yes girl! Your wedding and honeymoon will be so much more enjoyable too knowing that itâs paid for and experiences always mean more than stuff! You can do it! Xo
I keep my spendings on track in an excel sheet. It gives me an overview of where my money goes. Clothing and skincare are my most spendings. I just came into a realisation that 'I have enough'. Buying things give me a temporary happiness and let me long for more. I'm going to do a 3 months no buy clothes challenge. đ
Wow what an honest video. So much of what you spoke about resonated with me. I too am going through a shopping detox of sorts. About a year ago I was fed up and overwhelmed at the amount of clothing, shoes and accessories I had accumulated and yet still felt I had nothing to wear which was ridiculous! I decided to take stock of what I had and take back control. The game changer for me was discovering an app called Stylebook which is your virtual closet on your phone. It took me ages to photograph everything I owned and populate it on the app but I havenât looked back since. I found that Iâm a visual person so if something is out of sight itâs out of mind. But now everything is catalogued and I can easily see everything that I have to put outfits together, pack for trips and thoughtfully plan to buy items that I discovered I needed from styling my outfits. I have bought a minimal number of things this last year but miraculously everything I have bought I am using and enjoying because they were purchased with thought and purpose. Iâm getting more use out of the things I have instead of just wearing the same 10 - 20% of my wardrobe. I also use the app to put together inspiration outfits I find on the internet and continue to be amazed that I can mimic the majority of them without buying anything. And the best part is that I have put together a catalogue of outfits I can refer to when Iâm feeling uninspired. I have received so many more compliments on my look this last year as Iâm more put together. Iâm writing about this here in case this kind of tool could help someone else. Thanks for the video!
I don't know if you read comments from your old videos, but I'm sitting here listening to this playlist on no-buy/low-buy you have while I sort through my clothes. Your growth from this point to your last video is wonderful. You are so much kinder to yourself now than when you started. I hope you realize how powerful that mindset transition is. It is inspiring to me. Happy New Year đ
This completely describes me! đł only, I move from one shopping addiction to another...fragrances, to shoes, to designer bags, to clothing, to makeup and skincare....SO many things, so much money wasted and never enjoyed, and arguments with my spouse about it...
I have decided to do a no buy this January 1st. I like you am a shopping addict. It is overwhelming me. I am watching you daily to get support. Thanks for this. đ
I enjoyed this video very much. I found it very thought provoking and inspirational. I have been thinking about doing a no buy and some of points you made were right on point for me. Good luck on your journey. I hope to start mine soon.
Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Unsubbing from sales emails is so true! I've felt the same way about buying new things often, so I soon reliazed I needed to cultivate a resolve to use all my shadow palettes, serum, etc. before buying more makeup. New booties? I need to run my current booties into the ground and try taking them to a shoe repair before buying new ones. Hole in a dress? Strap break? Get out my sewing kit and try to fix it before I buy a new one. For that new face care product thrill, I have a small subscription box with 4 masks for $8 and I'm not allowing myself to buy more masks outside of that sub. There's room for improvement but you're right, this is about growing and learning to find an individualized strategy that works. Hang in there! â„
I tried doing a no buy September. I lasted 20 days and then shopped all day until I overdrawn my account. I needed to hear this! Going to write my why down and make it my background wall paper on my phone.
I love your channel itâs like sitting down with a wise friend, Iâm working my way backwards through your videos. I love Hannah Louise Poston too, your content is great.
My only clothing-related Pinterest board is called "Style My Closet" which is where I stash images of outfits made up of pieces similar to what I already have in my closet, and it has been an absolute game changer!
I want to do a low buy or no buy for year 2020. First I'll unsubscribe all fashion and makeup channels. I just subscribed to your channel. Your video is very inspiring. Thank you!
Good video - thank you! I have really reached a low ebb with compulsive shopping. Iâm sick of being in debt. I âfall in loveâ with stuff, then as soon as I get the item home I lose interest and forget about it.
Great video! I have also been trying to have a low buy year. It's so awesome to hear your thoughts. It is really hard, and for us in America, we get bombarded by Sales all the time. I have had to unsubscribe from a lot of companies.
This video is so relatable! I'm in baby step 2 since October 2018 and love Dave Ramsey. You are right, he feels like a dad that is just giving it to you straight. đ Every dollar app has changed.my.life Thank you for speaking with such honesty and caring about others that are going through this. You popped up because my CZcams history is Dave Ramsey and minimalism. I'm excited about not only having no debt but also a decluttered home . Great advice, thank you!!!!
You can do it. When I see the stuff I have I feel sick, or the mountain of receipts. Iâm only buying a few staples, getting rid of multiple cheap crap. I will buy comfy sneakers, but absolutely no clothes. I wanted two ripped jeans, and a white pair and a white pair of shorts and thatâs it. I went through my closet and go rid of a lot of shit. Iâm still decluttering. I got rid of some of my suites and the ones I kept Iâm wearing with sneakers even if going to the mall. If you love something and have not worn it in a long time, but donât want to give it away....create your own style and wear it , donât wait for a special occasion. Wear that suite to the mall with your runners, and a white tea shirt. Do you, and enjoy the things you have by creating your style. I feel sick when I see how much I have spent on crap, and Iâm done. I went into the mall with my daughter, and when I looked at all the clothes I felt nothing, no temptation. All I saw was me packing my closet with crap. After de cluttering, I enjoy going into my closet, because I can see everything. Another thing I use to do was go to the mall when I was bored, and I would spend like an idiot. I no longer go, unless I need something. I also will be using all the makeup I have, I flipping donât need anymore. I ran out of a blush, and I went and purchased one, then I ask myself... could you not find something in your collection to give you that same look...I did, and I returned the blush. I have also returned things with tags on them, or things I have never used. I have store credits, and I can use the store credit to use as gifts for my grand kids. I canât believe how I was so addicted. I racked up my cards, and I could have had 100s of thousands saved in stead of debt. Wear what you have, if you are weak, leave your credit / debit cards at home . Just bring a little cash maybe 20 dollars when going to the mall. Think about where you could be financially, and what spending has caused you. Many of us spend so much, we would sneak bags into the house so our husbands donât see. That is being dishonest to your partner, and will affect the relationship. Ladies letâs do this, we CAN!
Also I watched âThe deal costâ on Netflix and I was sick to my stomach. We need to stop adding to the problem of ruining the environment. Watch that documentary it may help you
This is just a resounding EFF YEAH., Mitzy ! I feel everything you feel about this - amazing insight and growth. I will have to watch that Netflix special as well. Just learning about the environment and minimalism as a result of this
Just did a low spend with food. So only 1 going out and strict limits on processed foods. So hardly any store bought snacks and the only processed food we allowed ourselves was tofu and peanut butter. You can save so much going back to eating mostly whole plant foods đđž
Thank you so much for this video. I struggle so badly with buying stuff I donât need simply bc I think it looks cute. Itâs very frustrating. I did a no buy for a few weeks but I always end up shopping again out of boredom.
Great video!! Loved listening to your tips and learning how you're going about it! Social media and the influx of emails and ads can totally trigger behavior we don't want. Totally respect you for realizing what's going on and working to change it. Keep going, you're really doing amazing! xx
Are you currently doing a or thinking of doing Low Buy Year? How are you keeping on track?
reminding myself to be economically friendly
I try to buy more sustainable items and because these are more expansive I am not buying everything I like đ
This video couldn't have get in to my life in a better moment. Thanks!
Yes, I'm repaying a house loan also - and want to repay it as soon as possible, and I've previously been excessively shopping, so I have so much stuff already. I'm dedicated to not buy anything but necessities for the next 55 months (!). ;) I'm exactly 22 days in, but I know I'm good at sticking with decisions. Also, as I said: I really need to shop my own closet - I have so many items that I love (and have completely forgotten about). It's an eye opener to actually REALLY organize your belongings, because chances are if you want something specific that you already have it. An example - I was thinking I needed more sports bras, but as I went through my sportswear it turned out I had 5-6 more sports bra... So, I'm looking forward to becoming debt free AND getting to wear some of the awesome I already have. :)
Currently down sizing and working in small areas to minimize any unwanted unused items draw by draw and only taking $20 with me so Iâm not tempted to spend .
Unfollow influencers. Game changer đđŸ
i agree - only try to follow those who inspire you. as soon as i start to feel crappy/comparing about myself in response to something i see on social, i have to mute it/unfollow
Iâm definitely going to try these rules thank you very much
Choose them carefully. Examine the vibe. Some lead us home.
I don't even follow influecers and I still spend money lol.
I do that apart from people like this page who I find inspirational xx
I'm on a no-buy for the entire year. Exceptions are: food, meds and household consumables (detergent, vacuum bags, etc). Half way through, I feel very light and free. I don't care about frivolous shit anymore, like I've completely lost interest in keeping up with all of the new things. I have more time and energy so I started reading books again, which I haven't been able to do for the last I dunno ten years..? I can't imagine going back to my old ways. Just wish I had done this for myself a lot sooner. Thanks for a great video. â€
Car washes? Shoes? (Needed)
@@lavendergilly5843 I only have 3 pairs of shoes i have been using the past 10 years. Just need to keep them clean.
Good for you. The more people stop buying useless crap the better
I need serious help
I find it so respectful when one you tuber gets ideas from another and takes a second to credit that person!
Instead of "I am a shopping addict," maybe say "I am a recovering shopping addict." I think it helps convince your brain you're recovering. đ
After only five minutes of watching I really love and respect this woman for being SO HONEST about herself! We can all learn from this, not only tho shop less, but also learn from her skills of self reflection. Being truly honest to ourselves is the way to change our lives for the better.
My mantra is that whatever the amount of clothes I have, I can only wear one outfit at a time.
What a concept! I read an organizing book and underlined "the space you have is the space you have." I never thought of that.
Thank you for this video! I am actually at the other end of the spectrum, an extreme minimalist. I donât even have a bed. I sleep on a yoga mat. Itâs hard for me to spend money even on basic things (like clothes!) that I need. So, this year Iâve allowed myself to buy good quality basics. Nothing trendy or fast fashion. I feel extreme consumerism and extreme minimalism are both ends of the same spectrum and caused by the same emotion: fear. Fear of missing out or fear of spending money. Both indicate a lack of trust. Itâs fascinating to see how we all relate differently to things. Love your channel! ~Sarah
Sarah Lighthipe wow sleeping on
a yoga mat is a commitment. My back would hurt so much doing that.
I totally agree on the extremes of both sides; I am working on myself to find that balance too, because you're right - fear drives the extremes - but why are we afraid of finding balance? it's what i'm trying to learn. xo
@@Christinamychas It's the ego that fears its own death. The ego is strengthened, and identity is reinforced through the actions of both sides. It's hard to give up an identity and to "just be." That's why. Have you read "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle? He talks a lot about consumerism, ego and identity in that book. Highly recommend reading for a low-buy year. :)
Considering my bed is where I spend 30% of my life, I invest on a good one which hopefully will last for a very long time. Good sleep turns into good quality of life.
love that Sarah
Iâm only 8 minutes in and all of a sudden I want to return all of my recent purchases and cleanse my life LMAO
Allie Bangor lol get it girl!!
Me too! I just cancelled a Dior bag that I definitely do not need!
Me too đ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđđđ
Start with what you have girl! And limit what comes in in the future âïžđ
@@dixiesmitherman6898 save it for Chanel.
Unsubscribing is definitely a game changer. When I want to but something I transfer the amount to my savings or acorns account. It feels just as good as buying something I didnât need
Marie Designz FOR SURE! And thatâs an amazing way to quantify how much you saved vs almost spent - I love that
I started doing this too! Its nice to see the savings grow.
#1 Stop watching You Tube fashion bloggers!
Buffy Alten *if you cant: replacement them with thrift fashion bloggers :)
Thank is exactly what I am going to do!!
That's exactly what I'm starting to do. I am trying to find youtubers fashion vloggers who do shop your closet for fashionable outfits. Like Alyssa Beltempo is a great one. I need to find more though.
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Buffy Alten i already unsubscribe and stop following channels or persons that dont inspire me to grow, and i feel much better
I have savings but I should have a lot more than I do. I seem to feel the need to just buy anything in order to cure my bordem and I need to stop. I don't even need most of the stuff I buy.
pt123 that was def my problem too and one I feel creeping up again
I have learned that as i sort stuff or declutter that i see what i have and not need. others have even said they declutter some and discover what they got and forgot they had it any. so as u stop buying and use what u have already , u find that what u thought u needed u already had and can save more after decluttering for space.
pt123 same
This is so me
Once you have decluttered I think it would help to apply the one in one out rule.
I shop at the thrift store and find designer clothes that look like they've never been worn. After losing 32 pounds, that was how I built my wardrobe for less money.
Royal Navarre AMAZING! Good for you! You must feel so great! And I think thatâs the smartest way to shop! Totally inspired!
So do I. Iost 40 lbs. Bought a Dooney Burke at a thrift store for 25 dollars yesterday.
@@victoriaring3846 what a snag! awesome! congratulations on your healthy journey! xo
I love thrifting!! Some times I get really lucky and find a lot of good stuff!! Congratulations on your goal of losing weight!
@@isol Thank you so much!!
I think you've probably helped more people than you may realize by making this video. Thank you and keep up your great work! God Bless.
Animals, Nature, Beauty thank you so much for your beautiful words - itâs comforting to know Iâm not alone and even more so that sharing this could help and inspire others đđ»
Christina, we each have our demons to overcome. Over the past two years, I have been successful in gradually overcoming a sugar and binge eating addiction which resulted in my weight topping out at 296 pounds. Now, I am tackling my finances, and you have inspired me to begin 2020 in no-buy/low-buy mode. Thank you for your honesty which is helping so many people! Best wishes!
I finally figured out that there is no end to 'things', and what I already have is more than enough. So I just stopped buying 'stuff' and I'm alright, lol.
Hana Tanana ABSOLUTELY thatâs what I learned too and often need to remind myself of; thereâs always a âhuntâ and a craving thatâs never really satisfied
I find it so refreshing that you actually call yourself shopping addict and not trying to look for excuses and reasons somewhere else. Iâm same. I started thinking more rationally towards end of last year. My situation is a bit different, I donât have many good basics in my wardrobe because my wardrobe is full of crap. So now I limit myself to only buying basics that I absolutely need and only of good quality and fabrics. And I hardly buy anything or feel an urge to go shopping. Good luck and keep inspiring us!,
m.y. Thatâs an amazing shift you made! Basics are just so easy and really are the foundation to an amazing wardrobe and personal style. Iâm fully an addict - changing my habits, mindset and family tree slowly. Iâm only hoping to share my experience and hopefully inspire others to do the same. Thatâs amazing how you have made your change! Slay! đđ»đđ»đ„°
Admire people like you courageously admit your problems and openly discuss your solutions. Very inspiring đ
I was about to buy a 1300$ handbag (again...) and who saved me from pointless shopping again? Christina and her life-changing videos! Thank you!
My furniture, kitchenware, linens and clothes are more than 25 years old. I take good care of everything I have. Everything is still like new. Happily retired.
Diane R you are goals, Diane! Itâs so easy for me to get caught up in trends and whatâs ânewâ - itâs why I had to stop for a while and slow down to appreciate and take care of what I already have. Youâre an example of that! Love it!
Tight arse
I stopped buying the thing I found to solve a problem- and instead focused on the quality of the thing I was buying so I would never have to buy it again. Since then (a few years ago), I havenât bought any kitchen items, lawn furniture, new clothing, shoes, interior furniture, and home decor. I bought good quality items to replace the cheap ones I disposed of. Quality is key. Quantity is a goal Iâm aiming toward (or, technically, AWAY from).
The older I get the more I realize its not about the amount of things but how well you take care of the things you already have. I find that everything I own I love, all I had to do is learn to appreciate it. I am now taking care of my things more and more and find that opening my closet, or kitchen cabinets makes me want to use my things not replace them.
Iâm so inspired to see that even a style blogger is doing this! I needed to hear this so much as a shopaholic myself. Great video, Christina!
Alexandra Kineta Iâm so happy youâre inspired! Thereâs some things I am still struggling with trying to balance not shopping and style blogging, but itâs all a process. You can do it, girl! đȘđ»đȘđ»đżâđ»
My parents used to give me 20 or 40 dollars each month and i would spend it all in like a week without any concern. Even if i didn't needed anything i would feel the need to buy something just to get rid of the money, now that i started my first job and earn money by myself i dont want to waste a single penny. I dont know what happened lol. I want to save money for no reason really, im 17 so i still live with my parents and i have no responsibilities to pay. Im Saving every paycheck and not waste anything until i get out and move out hopefully in like 2-3 years.
I fall easily YES! Good for you! Youâre way ahead of the game if this is your mindset now. đđ»đđ» I highly recommend dave Ramsey to keep you on your path to wealth, giving, and good habits â€ïž - wish I found him when I was your age!
This popped up in my recommendations at the perfect time after buying 3 bags and 6 wallets in less than a month. I needed this. Thank you. đ
THANK YOU!!! CZcams and Instagram really make me feel like there is always something else I need. Trying to save and become more conscious of what clothing I purchase.
Dana Turner I totally got trapped in that world - we all likely have more than enough! Xo
I actually keep an clothing/accessories inventory in an Excel spreadsheet. I review it seasonally. It is so helpful. If Iâm out & see something I think I need or want I check to see what I already have.
This is so smart!
Cris Gomez but if you need a spreadsheet kuyabheda
I do, too just in a Word. Doc. This really helps me see at a glance how many clothes and what possibilities of outfits I have.
I just did a closet purge. It felt so good! Now, everything in my closet are only things I actually love and wear.
D. Bennett yessss this is the best feeling!
Love this! I started decreasing my spending overall, & right now Iâm focusing on using up all my bathroom / hygiene / make-up products before buying new ones. Itâs amazing how much shit I have on my countertop & in my shelves - I canât wait to get it down to the bare bones of what I truly need. đ
It is great when you reach that point. I'm finally there đ. Just be mindful not to keep bringing in more. It can be a vicious cycle
oh yes!
Love this video. I exactly changed my ways this very year. I sold a lot of my purses, shoes, and jewelry that I could. Give away a lot of clothes in my closet that didnât make me happy when I would wear it because I wasnât comfortable. So I now start with the basics that I know I like. I had a $1400 purse that I wonât wear and I wore wear my purses that were less than $100. I have paid off 3 credit cards because of selling my stuff and not buying clothes all the time. I wish you can see more influences that repeat their clothes and that are not always buying luxury purses.
I am crying watching this. It's reaching me.
same đ
Me too đ
I really appreciate your straight-forward approach to this. As someone who gets a little burnt out by watching...pretty much everyone buy into this culture of constant consumption. I think it's an issue that many people have, and the fact that you're speaking out about your issues with it and being honest and open about how you're trying to grow is really admirable.
Julia Daughton thank you SO much, Julia! I really did get caught up in it - 6 months in I feel like Iâm getting caught up in it again. Need a reset and feeling that exhaustion of âwantingâ. I think the shift is slowly moving towards loving what you own ; if there are holes in what you need, fill them mindfully, you know? At least itâs what Iâm trying to do!
Honestly as soon as my size is sold out, I feel at peace. Like theres no I WANT IT BUT I DONT NEED IT BUT ITS SO BEAUTIFUL. cuz its gone. I missed it, and i don't feel as bad as i thought I would when it sold out.
My name is Christina too. And I'm working on STOP ALL this BS shopping. I'm working on getting rid of all this stuff. To get rid of it,it feels so good. The crazy part is,the more I declutter my mind is clear,and I feel free. I have never heard of low buy,I'm trying the NO BUY. Thanks for sharing,more videos pls.. You have a new subbie.
I have a paper planner and I make a checklist for the week, so I check off each day that I donât purchase anything!
I'm working on a low buy year. I keep better inventory of my items. I still buy stuff that I want. I keep a tighter budget. I use the 30 day rule when purchasing an item that I want. I also set aside a impulse buy budget and won't feel guilty about it.
WishaWii the 30 day rule is great! My friends and I call it âthe testâ - wait on an item to see if you still want it or not, and if you do, donât feel guilty about purchasing as long as itâs within ones means. I think what youâre doing is really balanced! Xo
I have an addiction for about 20 years ...... idk đ i get myself in to depths but it never hit me hard .....i buy not only for my self n for my familyâs n friends. It make me happy but Iâm the only one suffering with the credit cards monthly bills n late fee đ im a shame of it but i cant đ thankyou for the video i ll try ur plan.... its like walking into the wall n hurting urself but u cant turn around even if ur blooding out đ€Šââïž
I love how honest you were, it really sat right with me. Proud of you for detaching from shopping and choosing yourself!!
I'm happy I stumbled upon your channel. I can identify with the impulsive shopping, the emotional shopping, and the range of emotions (guilt mostly) accompanying this habit. In 2019 I tried to go low-shop but only lasted 3-4 months. Now, I'm back on it and really want to make it this time around.
I've downloaded Money Matters app on my phone and first I did reality check. Listing all my purchases for 2 months, then I budgeted how it should be from now on, and I find that tracking every single purchase really helps.
Iâm doing a low buy too! Iâm trying to make sure I use all the product before I buy another product. This is really working for me with skincare because I tend to buy a lot of skincare I never use.
Iâve recently started to live more minimal which has changed my mindset a lot! This low buy series is helping me SO much. I have an impulse shopping habit and never really need things but I act like I need it and then end up with so much clutter and no money. I am not no longer watching hauls or being consumed into sales and things that will try make me spend money. Thank you so much! You have inspired me and helped my mental health. I have learnt to appreciate the things I have now â€ïž
Wow I definitely do the same thing.... Like I feel like, once I have this thing, I'll be complete and can really enjoy who I am. So weird. Then once I get it, I want another thing.
Same
This feeds my soul.
Mar Carrera you feed mine! Xo thank you âșïž
Me too
Great video!
Iâve been a shopaholic ever since I got my first pay check. Iâm now 33.
My usuals are clothes, shoes, bags, make up, sunglasses, skincare. Basically things that I can wear. Itâs how I express myself.
I used to be so bad. Iâd be obsessed with something and have to get that specific item. Iâd love it and wear it but also be onto the next thing then the next then the next. Itâd go on and on and on for years. Some things were stupid money that I didnât have, some things I wouldnât even wear or use and were a complete waste of money.
This year we had a cash injection. I paid off all my debts and have had disposable income. Itâs been really hard! Iâve been shopping loads. Iâve tried to be sensible though and to be fair I absolutely love every piece I have. People would (still do) stop me around the office saying âyou look fabulousâ âI love that shirt or jumper, where did you get it?â âyet another stunning outfitâ âyou are always so well put togetherâ I loved it, I still love it. I love wearing beautiful clothes, even if they are cheap (most of my clothes are not designer) itâs not the price, itâs the style.
I feel like Iâm finally starting to plateaux with my spending. Iâve realised that I like to have enough outfits on rotation but itâs not too extensive. Iâve watched videos of people decluttering their wardrobes and have 10x what I have. I threw a lot away to be replaced with new and I feel like Iâm there. This month (June) has been good for me. I bought a couple of summer off the shoulder tops and I bought a spare of a shirt I already have. No make up. Nothing. Iâm in a really good place with my wardrobe and make up. I still browse but most of it I donât like or donât feel I need and this month Iâll have ÂŁ300 left over at the end of the month which Iâm really proud of.
Iâm still getting so much joy out of the things I already have. I will look at an item and remember how I felt when I first bought it and I feel that still appreciating the things I have helps keep me on track. It helps me to not get obsessed with something new.
Hope everyone else is doing well this year!
Hayley Lisa Tim Iâm in tears this makes me so happy - I think we have had very similar experiences and very similar realizations around very similar times. Iâm so proud of where youâve gotten and where youâll still go. Thank you for following along here too. Xo đ
Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this. The way you described yourself and your addiction is how I feel, swept them under the table.
I just discovered you by accident but Iâm so glad I did. I feel like listening to you was listening to myself. I am impressed with you. I am going to start a low but no buy because of your video. I am inspired by you. I totally understand how buying stuff can only make you happy for short time and then you are filled with guilt and stress.
Thank you for changing my day and hopefully my life đ€
You can do this! xox
Hi there! Iâm in a low buy life for two years now, since I was pregnant đ€°đŒ and I wanted to save money for my daughterâs arrival. Iâve also made a huge declutter of our home since my husband and I decided to move to a smaller apartment. Weâve started this new minimalist life together, focusing in our favorites activities and do not spending money on things that are not necessaryđ
TCB congratulations !
My daughter just flew to Toronto today for school. She has a shopping habit so she's now on a 2 year no buy zone. I sent her the link of this video. Thanks for posting
"I wasnt enough too I got the thing..." I can totatly relate, everything is so perfect in a lot of youtubers videos and therefore you dont feel like you or your home is good enough compared... we should be better at not comparing... it hurts us
Iâll be honest - I needed to hear this. I donât have debt (other than a mortgage, will be gone next year), have money in the bank and retirement, and live a comfortable life. The issue is that I donât need one single thing. I have WAY more than enough clothing, shoes, skincare, makeup, etc. I had set a goal to sell items on Poshmark and do a no buy this year, and Iâve failed miserably. Iâm really disappointed in myself, especially because Iâm very disciplined in several areas of my life, but a couple areas where I struggle really bother me. I need to make the change, and Im going to continue to watch your videos and look at Hannahâs, as well (already a fan of Dave). Thank you again for being open and honest, and giving us tips to make our lives better!
I love what you said about taking an inventory of your own clothes. I really love what I have but I rarely shop in my own closet. Itâs funny when you pull something out that you havenât worn in a while you are reminded of how much you love it and that you really donât need anything new. I just found this video and really enjoyed it and look forward to watching more with the same type of content. I truly feel like wearing what you already old is the secret to spending less!
i can't tell you how much this has helped me. everything you're saying is exactly what i've been going through and as soon as i made the decision to stop shopping and be more intentional, your channel appeared like a frkn angel T_T thank you so much
I watched these videos way back when you first posted them, but recently found myself needed a behavior change again and love that I can come back and rewatch them!
You are honest and genuine about your lifestyle you choose and I admire it. Keep up the good work!
This is such a great video. I love how real you are and you sound like you are at that "fed up" point that Dave Ramsey talks about. My husband and I follow the financial principles he lays out and I am definitely low buy, but the pull towards buying clothes and eating out is always there for me, it just kinda waxes and wanes. Can't wait to follow your journey with this!
sunbirdsc Iâve definitely had that âGET MADâ moment Dave talks about. The low buy and habits definitely wax and wane, so going back to these and Daves fundamentals have been SO key. You and your husband sound like a great team - I love it. xo
Congrats! I have gone through the same thing. Only realized I was addicted to on line shopping when I decluttered. Now I have only bought supplies in order for us to go green. I will definitely follow u for motivation
Patrick Byrne I love it! What kinds of green supplies have you acquired so far? I think decluttering and doing a Low Buy inherently makes you more aware of living low waste and greener. I love it!
after watching your video I started journaling - in an Excel Sheet - everything I wear.
This has forced me to wear the clothes I adore but "save for good moments" and to wear the clothes I see myself in.
Now I started using clothes I wasn't used to to see what I love and what I don't - and donating the ones I don't love that much âš
This has been LIFE changing . Thank you đ
I am currently in a low buy year because I want to purchase a house.
good for you! my shopping addiction has definitely delayed my moving on into life and reaching big goals like this. another reason to stop. i hope you find your amazing home soon! xo
@@Christinamychas Thank you! XOXO
Thank you for your honesty, I feel the same way. I am looking forward to your videos to help inspire me as I work on buying less.
I came across this video as a I am decluttering my closet because i just canât do it anymore and I have to say.. this is the first time I hear someone hit it right on the spot... the not feeling enough definitely applies to me. Thank you for this.
Love your passion to consciously make a lifestyle change in the way you look at shopping for clothing items, etc, which in reality are a result of boredom, impulse, envy & mindless urges. Well, I actually should say... that's my personal statement on the subject but I'm now shopping from my own closet now and it feels real good !!!!! đđ You're doing a great job choosing to inspire all shopaholics !
Linda Caffalette totally bang on! And isnât shopping the closet so fun? I often forget what I already own - rediscovering it is both fun and awakening
Having my morning coffee, and I love watching your videos. Itâs amazing how decluttering branches out to every aspect of your life. I decided to Swedish death clean after my parents passed. I never wanted my daughter one day to have to deal with ridding our possessions. I knew we had years before this would happen, but I was just so upset after my siblings and I had to sell my parents home. This was 4 years ago. I never was a over buyer, but still had so much I didnât wear, or use or love. Fast forward to,now , and 6k worth of donations, and also selling my unwanted items. I have a nice bank account, plus I only have what I use, want, love.
I lost the 20 lbs I had always wanted to, I became plant based, I am really aware of the environment, I only buy something if I need it, or to replace something that is no longer good, like this week my soup ladle broke, I needed to buy a new one. My walk in closet has about 4 empty racks, I find I donât need a lot of clothing, I just mix and match my capsule wardrobe, and use accessories to change up the look. I donât go browsing, which is key...
I just adore your your content. Your straight and to the point.
Some inspired you, I think you inspire many xo
Thanks for keeping it real with us and being so vulnerable †you are a good egg
Thank you for this! I found your channel very recently and have decided to do a low buy in an aim to gently but firmly shift my mindset for the long haul.
I'm watching loads of your videos and planning to rewatch all of Hannah Poston's no buy videos to keep me motivated.
Being so vulnerable and sharing your story is honestly life changing for those of us that need to hear it, so once again, thank you.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I have been struggling with a lot of the same issues and need to get a handle on my spending. Thank you for your honesty and good luck with your goals. â„ïž
HaveLouisWillTravel thank you so much! You as well! We can do this! đȘđ»đȘđ»
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I love how real a teary-eyed you are in this video. It's raw and real and im glad to see this. It's exactly how I feel right now and really needed this! Thank you â€ïž
You know you have an addiction when your watching a video of How to stop shopping/ No buy and all your you can think about is âI want that shirt and necklace.â Haha Thank you for you inspiration.
I want to do this in 2020
I've totally been on the same path for not shopping. My motto now is, if it's not replacing another item, I won't buy it. It's made me more aware of the clothes I have and only buying when I absolutely have to. Love your tips. Also, what's that lipstick you're wearing? I can't help but be curious. It's beautiful!
Nyree Feijoo thatâs the perfect motto! Itâs definitely part of my âground rulesâ which I will be talking about in my next video! And itâs Freckle by Fenty! đđ
Another good tip is: can I survive without it within a week? A month? If the answer is yes, then you don't need it.
You need to do what is right for you and Iâm here for it. I have started my journey like this almost 2 years ago and itâs liberating.
Carasforever that is AMAZING! Totally will keep your success in mind whenever I waiver. Congratulations!
She has me when she drops the odd 'Shit 'Bomb here and there .
Such a great reminder defintely unsubscribe helps not be tempted. I spent about a week clearing out my email box. Another thing to help me stop is tracking the categories you have the most trouble with.
This video popped up and it was a God thing Iâm sure. I am a makeupaholic and have been trying to figure how to stop this crazy shopping!! Thank you so much!!!
Mary Davidson I am/was too! I had to declutter and give away so much and really tried to hone in on what I actually used; turns out itâs a lot less than I thought. You can do it! Xo
Great Video Christina! Iâm from Vienna, am working as a general sales manager assistant in a big fashion company and have the same problem like you
Starting from 1st of July I also start my year of not buying new clothes! Iâm so excited how this is going to effect my mind and my view about certain things.
Going to keep watching your videos and your progress!
All the best! Julia
No, I'm not doing this yet but kudos to you. I am working on de-cluttering though.
that's a perfect place to start!
Thank you for this honest, from the heart video! Great tips for so many of us who struggle with always thinking we need more...
Debbie Daniel Iâm so glad you enjoyed it! I really get I had to share ; youâre never alone in a struggle. I hope people can relate and find the tips helpful! Xo
Over the last year or so Iâve been getting into minimalism and getting rid of so many kids toys kitchen gadgets home decor even my own skincare makeup clothes etc but for some reason new clothes(esp t shirts) and PURSES get me every time đ« I need to stop. My last big purse purchase was the new Marc Jacobs black edit purse now I absolutely love it I am regretting it and know itâs time I need to stop! Watching this video opened my eyes again. I screen shot the thumbnail and sent it to my hubbyđ he said âsee! Listen to her!â
This is totally validates my transition to low-buy. After realizing that debt has been gradually piling up, and due to the need to save up for my wedding and subsequent honeymoon, I also felt the need to do something drastic/substantial (I sometimes find that a 'cold turkey' approach works well for me). Your mention of feeling 'not enough' definitely resonates, and I would often find that if I felt bored, anxious or stressed, I would use shopping to regulate or give a little boost - which just creates issues and compounding debt - not relaxing or anxiety-reducing at all.. Many thanks :)
Linds B yes girl! Your wedding and honeymoon will be so much more enjoyable too knowing that itâs paid for and experiences always mean more than stuff! You can do it! Xo
I keep my spendings on track in an excel sheet. It gives me an overview of where my money goes. Clothing and skincare are my most spendings. I just came into a realisation that 'I have enough'. Buying things give me a temporary happiness and let me long for more. I'm going to do a 3 months no buy clothes challenge. đ
A. Deffrianti YES! Thatâs awesome! And I love the spreadsheet- so satisfying, right?
Wow what an honest video. So much of what you spoke about resonated with me. I too am going through a shopping detox of sorts. About a year ago I was fed up and overwhelmed at the amount of clothing, shoes and accessories I had accumulated and yet still felt I had nothing to wear which was ridiculous! I decided to take stock of what I had and take back control. The game changer for me was discovering an app called Stylebook which is your virtual closet on your phone. It took me ages to photograph everything I owned and populate it on the app but I havenât looked back since. I found that Iâm a visual person so if something is out of sight itâs out of mind. But now everything is catalogued and I can easily see everything that I have to put outfits together, pack for trips and thoughtfully plan to buy items that I discovered I needed from styling my outfits. I have bought a minimal number of things this last year but miraculously everything I have bought I am using and enjoying because they were purchased with thought and purpose. Iâm getting more use out of the things I have instead of just wearing the same 10 - 20% of my wardrobe. I also use the app to put together inspiration outfits I find on the internet and continue to be amazed that I can mimic the majority of them without buying anything. And the best part is that I have put together a catalogue of outfits I can refer to when Iâm feeling uninspired. I have received so many more compliments on my look this last year as Iâm more put together. Iâm writing about this here in case this kind of tool could help someone else. Thanks for the video!
Good video. I am now on a no-buy journey and I know it wonât be easy. Your advice speaks the truth and is no-nonsense. Thanks for your inspiration.
Kathleen Olszewski yes Kathleen! Slay your low buy! Youâve got this!
I don't know if you read comments from your old videos, but I'm sitting here listening to this playlist on no-buy/low-buy you have while I sort through my clothes. Your growth from this point to your last video is wonderful. You are so much kinder to yourself now than when you started. I hope you realize how powerful that mindset transition is. It is inspiring to me. Happy New Year đ
This completely describes me! đł only, I move from one shopping addiction to another...fragrances, to shoes, to designer bags, to clothing, to makeup and skincare....SO many things, so much money wasted and never enjoyed, and arguments with my spouse about it...
I have decided to do a no buy this January 1st. I like you am a shopping addict. It is overwhelming me. I am watching you daily to get support. Thanks for this. đ
I love fashion too and Iâve been trying to curate my wardrobe but honestly I am using that as an excuse to go shopping đ© I can tell whenever Iâm bored or having a breakdown that I gravitate towards shopping therapy
This is so straightforward and helpful, especially when you broke down the insecurity, search, purchase, letdown cycle.
Missy Kemp you broke down the emotions of that cycle perfectly! Thatâs exactly what happens. So true.
I enjoyed this video very much. I found it very thought provoking and inspirational. I have been thinking about doing a no buy and some of points you made were right on point for me. Good luck on your journey. I hope to start mine soon.
nikki e. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch, and I hope some of it helps when you are ready xo - always here for support
Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Unsubbing from sales emails is so true!
I've felt the same way about buying new things often, so I soon reliazed I needed to cultivate a resolve to use all my shadow palettes, serum, etc. before buying more makeup. New booties? I need to run my current booties into the ground and try taking them to a shoe repair before buying new ones. Hole in a dress? Strap break? Get out my sewing kit and try to fix it before I buy a new one. For that new face care product thrill, I have a small subscription box with 4 masks for $8 and I'm not allowing myself to buy more masks outside of that sub. There's room for improvement but you're right, this is about growing and learning to find an individualized strategy that works.
Hang in there! â„
Thank you Im really going to try this because I've had a spending problem for years.
Rita Gildon YES! You can do it! I highly recommend also listening to some Dave Ramsey rants on CZcams - they always motivate me đ„°đđ»
Girl, thank you for your honesty. I struggle with buying little things and I really enjoy your honesty! Thank you so much for making this video!!
I tried doing a no buy September. I lasted 20 days and then shopped all day until I overdrawn my account. I needed to hear this! Going to write my why down and make it my background wall paper on my phone.
I love your channel itâs like sitting down with a wise friend, Iâm working my way backwards through your videos. I love Hannah Louise Poston too, your content is great.
My only clothing-related Pinterest board is called "Style My Closet" which is where I stash images of outfits made up of pieces similar to what I already have in my closet, and it has been an absolute game changer!
I want to do a low buy or no buy for year 2020.
First I'll unsubscribe all fashion and makeup channels.
I just subscribed to your channel.
Your video is very inspiring. Thank you!
Unsubscribing and the budget where my #1 helpful ways to keep me on track â€ïž you can do it
I'm loving your delivery "konmari that shit" I'd buy a mug that says that but I'm on a no buy month đ
hahah I would also love a mug that says that đ
Good video - thank you! I have really reached a low ebb with compulsive shopping. Iâm sick of being in debt. I âfall in loveâ with stuff, then as soon as I get the item home I lose interest and forget about it.
Great video! I have also been trying to have a low buy year. It's so awesome to hear your thoughts. It is really hard, and for us in America, we get bombarded by Sales all the time. I have had to unsubscribe from a lot of companies.
This video is so relatable! I'm in baby step 2 since October 2018 and love Dave Ramsey. You are right, he feels like a dad that is just giving it to you straight. đ Every dollar app has changed.my.life
Thank you for speaking with such honesty and caring about others that are going through this. You popped up because my CZcams history is Dave Ramsey and minimalism. I'm excited about not only having no debt but also a decluttered home . Great advice, thank you!!!!
You can do it. When I see the stuff I have I feel sick, or the mountain of receipts. Iâm only buying a few staples, getting rid of multiple cheap crap. I will buy comfy sneakers, but absolutely no clothes. I wanted two ripped jeans, and a white pair and a white pair of shorts and thatâs it. I went through my closet and go rid of a lot of shit. Iâm still decluttering. I got rid of some of my suites and the ones I kept Iâm wearing with sneakers even if going to the mall. If you love something and have not worn it in a long time, but donât want to give it away....create your own style and wear it , donât wait for a special occasion. Wear that suite to the mall with your runners, and a white tea shirt. Do you, and enjoy the things you have by creating your style. I feel sick when I see how much I have spent on crap, and Iâm done. I went into the mall with my daughter, and when I looked at all the clothes I felt nothing, no temptation. All I saw was me packing my closet with crap. After de cluttering, I enjoy going into my closet, because I can see everything. Another thing I use to do was go to the mall when I was bored, and I would spend like an idiot. I no longer go, unless I need something. I also will be using all the makeup I have, I flipping donât need anymore. I ran out of a blush, and I went and purchased one, then I ask myself... could you not find something in your collection to give you that same look...I did, and I returned the blush. I have also returned things with tags on them, or things I have never used. I have store credits, and I can use the store credit to use as gifts for my grand kids. I canât believe how I was so addicted. I racked up my cards, and I could have had 100s of thousands saved in stead of debt. Wear what you have, if you are weak, leave your credit / debit cards at home . Just bring a little cash maybe 20 dollars when going to the mall. Think about where you could be financially, and what spending has caused you. Many of us spend so much, we would sneak bags into the house so our husbands donât see. That is being dishonest to your partner, and will affect the relationship. Ladies letâs do this, we CAN!
Also I watched âThe deal costâ on Netflix and I was sick to my stomach. We need to stop adding to the problem of ruining the environment. Watch that documentary it may help you
This is just a resounding EFF YEAH., Mitzy ! I feel everything you feel about this - amazing insight and growth. I will have to watch that Netflix special as well. Just learning about the environment and minimalism as a result of this
Just did a low spend with food. So only 1 going out and strict limits on processed foods. So hardly any store bought snacks and the only processed food we allowed ourselves was tofu and peanut butter. You can save so much going back to eating mostly whole plant foods đđž
Thank you so much for this video. I struggle so badly with buying stuff I donât need simply bc I think it looks cute. Itâs very frustrating. I did a no buy for a few weeks but I always end up shopping again out of boredom.
Great video!! Loved listening to your tips and learning how you're going about it! Social media and the influx of emails and ads can totally trigger behavior we don't want. Totally respect you for realizing what's going on and working to change it. Keep going, you're really doing amazing! xx
Amanda Weldon thank you so much Amanda! đđ so are you! Xo