10 YEARS IN GULF CAME BACK HOME EMPTY NOW LIVING ON STREETS IN NAIROBI.MY SON STOLE THE MONEY

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  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 Před 4 měsíci +208

    If you can't trust your own child who can you trust jameni 😢. These stories remind me just how blessed I am. In two years I sent my sister 16 million to build my apartments and she accounted for every cent. She even put her own money in to pave the compound so tenants can move in. I don't think thank you is enough. I've tried treating her to vacations, but she cancels the reservations. She wants nothing in return, in fact she's always sending me stuff from home. This is the way all my siblings are, I can trust them 100% and they wouldn't touch money that doesn't belong to them.

    • @reginahmwanzia927
      @reginahmwanzia927 Před 4 měsíci +10

      Your story is same my story , I have a wonderful sister 👩 😅I can’t replace her with anyone 😅wherever she’s let almighty Allah bless her and protect her 😅

    • @senges6751
      @senges6751 Před 4 měsíci +8

      I was also blessed with a wonderful sister. God bless them.

    • @lK-hs1xq
      @lK-hs1xq Před 4 měsíci +11

      Your sister is a rare breed, you are VERY lucky. I have relatives I have been trying to get them to UAE/Qatar for better opportunities. Instead they chew the funds meant to assist them with paperwork. It's a sad world. Nyani haoni kundule!!!!

    • @estherwambui1072
      @estherwambui1072 Před 4 měsíci +7

      My familly is the same. My parents will go ahead and take loans with their names to secure something for us wakiona kama mtu anauza land ivi na hatujajipanga alafu tunawatumia baadae. My siblings would also never touch anything that is not theirs

    • @kandisphere8828
      @kandisphere8828 Před 4 měsíci +6

      I can relate to your story. My mum, dad and my sister are just like your sister., very trustworthy. Yaani, they even send me stuff to Europe from Kenya. I even complain because when I send them money for a project, they even spend their money on my projects. I am so blessed to have them. I thank God for them.

  • @MissOgake
    @MissOgake Před 4 měsíci +34

    Ooh my good Lord, this is very heartbreaking aki! I will never take another person’s money..
    My husband’s brother sent me all his salary while in gulf and I deposited every coin for the two years religiously .
    I am always very proud of myself for this😊

  • @SirBranso
    @SirBranso Před 4 měsíci +12

    This lady i realy salute you 10yrs in gulf iky ur a hero just sacrificing your own life ❤❤❤

  • @marywanjiru5217
    @marywanjiru5217 Před 4 měsíci +24

    Painful aki,,,,,but this kids of now a days hawana huruma,,God be with us

    • @user-cp6mg8we7i
      @user-cp6mg8we7i Před 3 měsíci

      Niko gulf aki Nashukuru Mungu kijana yangu ata kusikia nafuliza huniambia mam acha nitajua vile nitafanya

  • @marypatrick6667
    @marypatrick6667 Před 4 měsíci +30

    Woiii wakenya pesa za ulaya ni painful..Tunachoka sanaa😢😢..

  • @maggiebernard
    @maggiebernard Před 4 měsíci +38

    You are still strong rudi gulf chapa kazi for yourself na the othet son

    • @ruu6592
      @ruu6592 Před 3 měsíci

      After 35 Kenya uendi kwa kazi ya ndani pengine cleaner

    • @maggiebernard
      @maggiebernard Před 3 měsíci

      @@ruu6592 wanakuja Hadi 40yrs mtu Ako willing.

    • @margretwambui8690
      @margretwambui8690 Před 3 měsíci

      45 ni ngumu kuja Gulf 😢

  • @maryjones3523
    @maryjones3523 Před 4 měsíci +22

    Please be kind on ur comments....this lady is suffering. No one will come to expose themselves to the whole world if it's not true... May God see you through Ma' it shall be well... Pole sana

  • @charlesmathenge528
    @charlesmathenge528 Před 4 měsíci +22

    Such happened to many living pia in the USA sending money home and pesa ikakuliwa yote by trusted relatives...It's easy for us to judge her by saying what she should have done sijui nini but i believe when a child you trusted with your money did this, your reactions wouldn't be positive.lets pray for her

  • @pastorannneema
    @pastorannneema Před 4 měsíci +53

    That boy has automatically cursed himself even without the mother cursing him. Some curses are automatic and the boy needs to come back to the mother and sort out this issue, as he asks for forgiveness.

    • @winniemathu3168
      @winniemathu3168 Před 4 měsíci +5

      We should never entrust your money with anyone, even if it's your mom.dad.children or siblings as well as friends. Nobody knows your sweat better than yourself. Kindly just trust Jesus only.

    • @Luxury52items
      @Luxury52items Před 4 měsíci +1

      Love JEREMY content. I feel for this lady. BUT why is no one talking about if the son never rerurns???? Is she going to move on with her life???

    • @wanjikumwaura9229
      @wanjikumwaura9229 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Next time use the correct word. Special children. Not abnormal not correct word to use.

    • @anneakinyi4916
      @anneakinyi4916 Před 3 měsíci +1

      True

  • @immanuelkamau1614
    @immanuelkamau1614 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Raphael go back home and say sorry. You will recover.

  • @annmacharia711
    @annmacharia711 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I thank God for my mum she held my hand i never lost even a dine she is just amazing mum may God bless her for me aki

  • @randombeb
    @randombeb Před 4 měsíci +6

    Losing money to family is so painful lost my saving in 2019-2020 ,I even tried suicide juu I felt the struggle in gulf then going home to an empty account and 3 prime years gone is sad , I struggled sana especially 2021, but I went for therapy and am back in gulf going home in few days ,now am more wise and nimejipanga, pole sana for your experience...

    • @miriamwanjiru6707
      @miriamwanjiru6707 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I'm typing this in Dubai I have been depressed for last 4months I wish my dad,my mum all my family can see this story they try to change I have lose my savings 4yrs now I'm typing this with tears I just sleep only 3hrs sometimes 1hrs God help me

    • @randombeb
      @randombeb Před 3 měsíci

      @@miriamwanjiru6707 am sorry the hurt never goes but u will overcome it with time

  • @charitywanjohi884
    @charitywanjohi884 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Jeremy I Wish One Day You May Bring Raphael We Hear His Side Of The Story. This Mum Trusted Her Son So Much n Never Thought He Would Do Such.

    • @user-nn7ld9ej3b
      @user-nn7ld9ej3b Před 4 měsíci +1

      He will never accept to come back until he die coz the devil have already taken his mind

    • @charitywanjohi884
      @charitywanjohi884 Před 4 měsíci

      @@user-nn7ld9ej3b east or west my sister home is the best, he will recollect himself. Haya maisha haina rehearsal. Asiyefunzwa na Mamaye Hufunzwa na Ulimwengu

    • @njokikiongo7066
      @njokikiongo7066 Před 2 měsíci +1

      The way I trusted mine bt akaniangusha sana sana 8

    • @charitywanjohi884
      @charitywanjohi884 Před 2 měsíci

      @@njokikiongo7066 ohh pole aky, hawa watoto wetu jameni

  • @scheffertomar2069
    @scheffertomar2069 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Kwa kweli dada nimesikitika sana Kwa hii shida yako.ni inbox .nenda msa Niko na nyumba uko Iko empty.nenda ukakae. Ata mwaka .usinilipe niombee TU Mungu anipe Pepo njema.na anifungulie rizki.nq urudi kazi Bado una nguvu zako.just in box God is with you

  • @vincej9275
    @vincej9275 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Same thing that happened to me after sending more than one million kshs to my sister from the States over a period of one year. That was a lesson that I learned. Don't trust even family members with money.

    • @maryanne88
      @maryanne88 Před 4 měsíci

      Usichoke my dear trust in God that is blood money n only God will repay u. Mwachie MUNGU just pray

  • @maurynpainto4007
    @maurynpainto4007 Před 4 měsíci +19

    Lets come thru for this lady just for the kids...God will bless you one way or another. lets not judge her ,anything can happen to anyone, anytime.

  • @faithjulius2506
    @faithjulius2506 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Rundi kazini Mama that is the only Solution maisha ningumu

  • @wanguibundi4017
    @wanguibundi4017 Před 4 měsíci +13

    I hope this young 🌱 will get back to his senses and see what he's done to his mom after the hard jobs she's done to raise them.Rafael come out and talk to your mom and see how you can help her coz what you did to your family is devil 👿 and doesn't display a good picture.As a mom this makes me fail to understand who we can trust if your own child 🚸 can do this to you it's so 😭 and 💔 breathing.Jeremy congratulations 👏🎉 for reaching 400 subscribers God bless you for the good job you do every day,we ❤ you 🔥🙏🎚️🕊️🛐💙🌹

  • @hannahw4769
    @hannahw4769 Před 4 měsíci +11

    She ignored a lot of huge red flags, relying on family often fails.

  • @faithjulius2506
    @faithjulius2506 Před 4 měsíci +11

    You have learned a lesson and many more people have learned too pole sana money is evil 😈

  • @rosemarywambeti
    @rosemarywambeti Před 4 měsíci +19

    I trust my daughter more than my son I sent my money from Europe and she is not touching unless I tell her to withdraw I thank God. And when my daughter was in gulf she was sending money to me to banking for her and I was not touching until she came back

    • @mercy4427
      @mercy4427 Před 4 měsíci +9

      Thanks momi for trusting me❤❤

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 Před 4 měsíci +3

      my father also trusts me while he is abroad. he wouldnt trust the firstborn son who already aliwahi mwibia!

    • @mercy4427
      @mercy4427 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@MyJOSE2013 ni poa kuheshimu pesa za mwingine juu ni kuchoka anachoka

    • @user-px4pd2ir6j
      @user-px4pd2ir6j Před 3 měsíci

      Children are the same mine stool my 150000 from my account ad run away with her 2 children.

  • @gachanjamacharia1974
    @gachanjamacharia1974 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Raphael was made to become an adult too soon. Being a deputy parent is not easy. Some mothers make their sons to become adults with adult responsibilities. Children should be treated as children.

  • @user-ml9of4if2d
    @user-ml9of4if2d Před 4 měsíci +3

    I stopped trusting my son with my money after he spend the money i was sending to him to back in lock account. I desided to lock in mpesa then he just supervised the house construction materials money i send to hardware n for labour fee send to the fore man .My son is to make sure materials imemwagwa.

  • @rositanjuguna7561
    @rositanjuguna7561 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I understand this woman aky pole ata me Kuna siku ilinilamba 100k ikaeda hivo na my son frm that day weee ata kumi hawexi pata but food ad fees namlipianga cz ako college so wenye Wana blame huyo mama kitawaramba dio mtajua

  • @ESSYWAJAYMOThegachanjas
    @ESSYWAJAYMOThegachanjas Před 4 měsíci +6

    This is sad...😢Ngai miaka 10maa chini i know the feelings of going home

  • @lilianngonyereamata2079
    @lilianngonyereamata2079 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Mama i can feel your pains but as we read bible and pray to our God who died for our sins.forgive your son cos if anything happens to him you will feel it.dont curse your son.

  • @tabithamulwa3629
    @tabithamulwa3629 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Therapy, is counseling pole my dear,this kids will make us die at early age let not trust our children ,that boy he will not have peace
    🙏

  • @leyanadd9421
    @leyanadd9421 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Good job JD
    Road to 500 kaende kaende❤❤❤❤

  • @Odero9linet
    @Odero9linet Před 4 měsíci +6

    Gulf sio kila mtu anateseka kuna boss wazuri

  • @annngigi2319
    @annngigi2319 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Waoh ❤we are over 400k suscribers congratulations Jeremy Damaris

  • @mariamwololo4282
    @mariamwololo4282 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Umeneeeena mwanangu!....forgiveness tuu ndio njia!

  • @faithjulius2506
    @faithjulius2506 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Kinjana life has a long way to go please pray for your brother God bless you

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 Před 4 měsíci +29

    Hi story ni kama ile ya tuko mschana alikula Doo za mamake za ten years na boy friend wake woooi

    • @LeahWambui-tj9mu
      @LeahWambui-tj9mu Před 4 měsíci +1

      Yes nilisikizaaa uyoo mama akuulaani mtoto wake but akasema akuje waongeee yes uyoo mama Ako na hekima

    • @sarahngugi2779
      @sarahngugi2779 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@LeahWambui-tj9mu Ata yeye alikuwa na bitterness kama huyu it's painful for real

    • @sarahngugi2779
      @sarahngugi2779 Před 4 měsíci

      @@LeahWambui-tj9mu True but hio miaka those kids didn't do good your those mum's according to there age

    • @rerisamba
      @rerisamba Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@LeahWambui-tj9mupengine ulisikia nusu huyu mama alisema hata hataki kumuona kabisa

    • @millicentjepkemboi5476
      @millicentjepkemboi5476 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Imagine mimi nalala na yangu polepole bora wako na food mbele mzuri kilamtu abambane na ali yake

  • @marywangari2555
    @marywangari2555 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Congratulations for 400k subscribers 🎉🎉this is what the devil was fighting

  • @shalommacharia9340
    @shalommacharia9340 Před 4 měsíci +2

    May God intervene in this issue. He is indeed the restorer.

  • @webnejs5365
    @webnejs5365 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Mungu saidia huyu mama Raphael na usaidie watoto wetu

  • @catherinemutindi5031
    @catherinemutindi5031 Před 3 měsíci +2

    ❤Money is good but has some evil spirit.so we bear careful with it because it can can break many families.pole sana mum but forgive him.

  • @johnkalulukalulu9521
    @johnkalulukalulu9521 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Instead of lecturing this lady about curses , help her financially. In anger people say stupid things , this lady needs financial help and her son , curses can be dealt with later . Let’s not be self righteous we have committed worse abominations than her curses . 😊

    • @ezekieljacob5795
      @ezekieljacob5795 Před 3 měsíci

      Im willing to marry her please connect me im single, she look young on her 40s im more older

  • @margaretmumby2411
    @margaretmumby2411 Před 4 měsíci +13

    Mama rudi gulf ufanye kazi wachana na mtoi coz ata remain wako..mimi nilifanya kazi gulf for 8yrs bila kwenda home na ikawa same story na yako bt si ku give up nilirudi na saa hii niko atleast.::

    • @auntiepiarants2238
      @auntiepiarants2238 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Haw ezi amepata age blanket

    • @shufaaesala3511
      @shufaaesala3511 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@auntiepiarants2238siku hizi huna content ya mum Virginia woi mama mushene

  • @mwendapoleee
    @mwendapoleee Před 4 měsíci +6

    Lakini bro hakujua ndungu yake anatumia pesa mama agewapea wote uwezo wakuhakikisha pesa ziko at least angepata habari.

  • @MyJOSE2013
    @MyJOSE2013 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Sorry mum. We are used to seeing mothers embezzle the children's funds and which most of you will dismiss as 'she is still your mother', but stealing your mother's funds is very rude of someone. It is even worse that the mother cant get closure because that ijiot keeps blocking her, hata heri atengeneze uongo aje amwabie.Since you have spoken out, it is one way to heal. Stop following that ijiot around now. Akikaa atajirudia arudi mwenyewe na akirudi mwabie alipe pesa yako by instalments. Omba Mungu baba akusaidie. Ikiwezekana rudi gulf au hope you get funds to start a business. But pls ma acha kililia mtu tena. .Lilia Mungu Baba

  • @monicanduta8167
    @monicanduta8167 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Shida yangu inakuanga gani juu huu ni mwaka wangu wa kumi kwa mwarabu na sijawahi change nyumba😂.Back to the story...This is so sad to hear that your own kid mwenye anafaa akuhurumie ndiye anakuua.Lord have mercy..Mamaa rudi tu gulf juu hajakukata mikono.life lazima iendelee.

    • @mumblessed001
      @mumblessed001 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Pia mimi mimi Niko 10yrs saudi nyumba moja nashukuru mungu 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @WaRoboh
      @WaRoboh Před 4 měsíci

      A big Grace from God..more of it sister

    • @linetkhavugwi209
      @linetkhavugwi209 Před 4 měsíci

      Mwaka wa Tatu national nikisonga kwenda ingine

    • @stephenwanyeki9751
      @stephenwanyeki9751 Před 4 měsíci +1

      🙆mwaka wa kumi?😟🤔hiyo sio shinda kubwa😟ni shinda tu ya kutaka kukaa mahali tu mo..ja🤔😂😂

    • @stephenwanyeki9751
      @stephenwanyeki9751 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@mumblessed001mwaka 10?😟one house?usibadilishe nģanģana tu hapo saudi ni noma🤔🤔

  • @jacintapeters2831
    @jacintapeters2831 Před 4 měsíci +50

    Never trust anybody when it comes to money

    • @drumsmix33
      @drumsmix33 Před 4 měsíci

      Pesa pesa pesa

    • @kaninamargaret8025
      @kaninamargaret8025 Před 4 měsíci +1

      SPECIAL FAMILY MEMBERS!!!! NEVERRRRRRRR

    • @tabsangie1035
      @tabsangie1035 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Personally I don't trust my self with my money.My trust issues can't allow me to trust someone with my money.Daddy I love you lakini ikifika ni peaa no!!😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ndungu7592
      @ndungu7592 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@tabsangie1035 😂😂😂me too

    • @canon5059
      @canon5059 Před 4 měsíci +3

      My dad is an army officer AMISON, he's been in Somalia for 8years. For 4 years I've held his account details plus ATM card with all the money I see I can never think robbing him. Trust should come first don't make money first priority

  • @smilenovember7287
    @smilenovember7287 Před 4 měsíci +20

    I need double tot 😳😳 im sorry hii story nikama sielewi kabisa😳😳.Ongea tu na hiyo family ya mwisho urudi job Mama.

    • @VeronicaDunbar
      @VeronicaDunbar Před 4 měsíci +6

      Ati, "Ongea tu na hiyo family ya mwisho" Kwani hukusikia wameajiri mu Ethiopia sasa? Punguwani au nini?
      Je hiyo damage yote already caused? Hata wacha pesa. Hujui psychological na emotional na.... ni VERY Serious? It can take years n years haata kukubali tu.
      Mama, son, grandma n all affected, poleni. May God awabariki na awalipe na double double blessings Amen.

    • @monicalewisky4925
      @monicalewisky4925 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​@VeronicaDunbar she has both hands and legs ,Qatar is well advanced with money transfer system kama mpesa ya Kenya.
      Instead of sitting there and wallowing in her mysteries ,aamke akuje gulf tuchape kazi.
      You can't entrust such a huge responsibility to a kid that age mwenye ndio anaanza kujitambua ,with alcohol etc

    •  Před 3 měsíci

      ​Mimi hizi story za pesa kukulwa Zina niweka kisirani sasa. Why can't they save the money in mpesa and mshwari?? Nkt

    • @linetgraciah4724
      @linetgraciah4724 Před 3 měsíci

      Kuna boss wengine wanajua tu western union.lzm pesa ifike Kenya kwanza ndio upange vile unataka ama utumiwe

    • @monicalewisky4925
      @monicalewisky4925 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Tuko na mpesa kwa Western Union apa Qatari, when I tell you its advanced ,its advanced here in Qatar hakuna excuse .Her first mistake is leaving her sim card to her son

  • @charly5782
    @charly5782 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Never TRUST anyone or your SHADOW when it comes to money na uko majuu. Poke sana mum

  • @vero57
    @vero57 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Nakumbuka yule dada aliye kua anatumia wazazi wake pesa zake , kurudi akakuta hakuna kitu, na waka mfukuza, sasa amekua mkulima huyo dada wa gulf.
    Inauma sana!!! Pole sana mama
    Rudi tena kama inawezekana huko gulf. Usi mkasi mtoto wako sio vizuri mama , wewe neda tuu , mungu atakusimamia .mitiani ni mingi mnoo hujui labda watu wanamdaganya.

  • @BenjaminWaithaka-pm5ux
    @BenjaminWaithaka-pm5ux Před 4 měsíci +1

    Pole mama,nugu zingine they only know how to judge.I trust no one in this life especially on matters money,Immaculate utainuka tena

  • @tida3727
    @tida3727 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Some Kids tho ...Pole sana Mom.
    May God see you thru❤❤❤

  • @savannacollection5205
    @savannacollection5205 Před 4 měsíci

    pole sana sis Immaculate kwa mtihani munayo pitia, I pray that Allah make this rough patch to go away and open the door of His blessings . Rafael popote ulipo rudi umuombe mum radhi bila hio utapata taabu sana, laani hio shetani ilikuingia itoke rudi kwa family uonge na mum ask for forgiveness. na ujirekebishe usiwahi rudia when you needed her she was there now she needs you don't live like a fugitive coz to make it .
    Coz vile analia those tears is your curse son.

  • @raphaelmurage5527
    @raphaelmurage5527 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Saving money for 10years..pooradvice..aanza kujenga na..ile..kidogo..umepata

  • @elizawanarumoro6867
    @elizawanarumoro6867 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Kijana amenifanya nilie may God strengthen this lady 🙏 may God provide. May the peace of the Lord be with you mm Refael

    • @isaacchumba
      @isaacchumba Před 4 měsíci

      Kuwa careful na vitu unawatch online, preserve hizo machozi kwa vitu unajua

    • @millicent3275
      @millicent3275 Před 4 měsíci

      What do you mean????​@@isaacchumba

    • @isaacchumba
      @isaacchumba Před 4 měsíci +1

      @millicent3275 90 percent hapo ni uongo

  • @jacklinenjambi4450
    @jacklinenjambi4450 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I like you because you are very honest.

  • @rosemarywambeti
    @rosemarywambeti Před 4 měsíci +1

    I feel good nakulana kunyua everything boss ananifanyia nakamura salary sikabaya .I thank God 😊

  • @janenjuguna7904
    @janenjuguna7904 Před 4 měsíci

    It’s true. Jeremy I went back to Kenya in 2019 the Covid-19 pandemic got me there I spent every coin I had and one day I called an old friend of mine whom we used share a lot Kitambo weeeee she told me it can’t be that way after coming from where dollar is made she spread the gospel to whoever we shared as friends

  • @carolinetalam5832
    @carolinetalam5832 Před 4 měsíci +2

    pole sana mama may God see you through

  • @mercynderitu2669
    @mercynderitu2669 Před 4 měsíci +55

    Never curse your child because of material things kindly,just punish him but dont curse him you'll regret later.

    • @pastorannneema
      @pastorannneema Před 4 měsíci +13

      The boy has already cursed himself automatically whether the mother speaks a curse or not. It can not be well with him even where he's hiding now. There are principles that work accordingly in our lives. Unless he comes back and sorts the issue out and repent to the mother, nothing can work for him in life. It's usually terrible.

    • @wanjikublessing9189
      @wanjikublessing9189 Před 4 měsíci +3

      My dear shukuru God.if at all your kids have been the best..sometimes children can make you go crazy.

    • @janekagure8807
      @janekagure8807 Před 4 měsíci

      Sure....Why

    • @janendegwa5462
      @janendegwa5462 Před 4 měsíci

      It's when you're self distractive what's the difference between her and her son they are one and the same thing and gulf is not a joke he could be suffering from trauma but a foolish woman destroys her home with her hands when she is done she starts lamenting to God

    • @pastorannneema
      @pastorannneema Před 4 měsíci

      Yes but some curses and blessings are automatic according to our deeds. That's why I gave a solution to what the boy must do for the consequences to be lifted away.

  • @jwkkiko8230
    @jwkkiko8230 Před 4 měsíci +4

    @ Jeremy wa Damaris.. Congratulations for the 400k subscribers. You’re a very talented and with a kind soul. Your personality is something I wished for my children.
    The same thing happened to this lady happened to me as well😢. But my son asked me for forgiveness and I forgave him and praying for him to succeed in life. I became very sick after all that, in and out of the hospital until the time I decided to forgive him and myself for trusting him so much.

  • @jwkkiko8230
    @jwkkiko8230 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I can relate, 😢because have been through the same and I don’t know how I trusted my son so much and now I am in a big mess. We tend to trust our children so much and they end up breaking our trust and heart big time.

    • @margaretmacharia7330
      @margaretmacharia7330 Před 4 měsíci

      i can never trust some of my children

    • @mwendapoleee
      @mwendapoleee Před 4 měsíci

      Mimi siwezi kama tuko hapa na hapa namtuma anakuja oooh sijui nini naje nikikuwa mbali that is temptation zero experience it happens.

  • @sarahm316
    @sarahm316 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Watching from Seattle

  • @jacobchege500chege3
    @jacobchege500chege3 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Advice to this family,
    - Adjust your lifestyle there’s no shame in it, relocate to a less expensive house which you can afford rent.
    - Either the mother or the second child to look for a job that can provide the basic needs.
    - Get financial literacy.
    - Forgive, Forget and trust in God; bitterness won’t pay the price of mistakes.

    • @usiniletee
      @usiniletee Před 4 měsíci +1

      I don't think it is that easy to forgive and forget the way you put it surely. This lady is hurting, after working for 10 yrs really

    • @susanatieno208
      @susanatieno208 Před 3 měsíci

      Forgive what

  • @anneakinyi4916
    @anneakinyi4916 Před 3 měsíci

    Kumbe nakuanga mzuri na hawajawahi niambia.....twenty years managing all the stuff na hakuna kile kimeenda zigzag na hata si relatives wangu...... Mungu nibariki nisingojee shukrani ya binadamu. Pole mum

  • @gw7768
    @gw7768 Před 4 měsíci +7

    A young man is a young man. Just because he had managed before doesn't mean he had matured. She should have had two accounts even if with one bank so that he can only access the account that pays budgeted expenses. Because if he failed say to pay rent, they would have been thrown out and you'd have known. Access to all the money for a junior is just unwise. Suppose a thug or someone taking advantage could manipulate him???

  • @uniquecritical7628
    @uniquecritical7628 Před 4 měsíci +13

    Stop cursing your 😢😢children because of money and bitterness. God will pave way into more riches just like HE opened up your way to Saudi

  • @gladyswangeci8663
    @gladyswangeci8663 Před 4 měsíci

    Wooooi NGAI Raphael wiku uka uhoe muhera its too painful 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @user-yk6ft9ni1k
    @user-yk6ft9ni1k Před 3 měsíci +1

    Am so sorry my dearest sister and i feel your pain as a single mother of 2 boyz too and still working in KSA for 9 yrs now. Just have a heart and forgive your son , don't mention any negative words please, the tongue has power and he is your own flesh and blood no matter what he did, and you can't compare money with your own son. I'm putting myself in your shoes too. I can't either trust my son too , remember the Bad company corrupt good morals. Your son was misguided by his friends and I'm sure he is regretting of what he did. Calm down Njeri, recollect your to avoid health issues and your son's as well. God Almighty will intervene in all situations.

  • @rakivrakiv3023
    @rakivrakiv3023 Před 4 měsíci +5

    In whose hand are we save😢😢

  • @tracynyambura4494
    @tracynyambura4494 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Congratulations JD for 400k subs

  • @faymay4118
    @faymay4118 Před 4 měsíci

    Sad indeed, huyo Mum aachie Son to God. God will deal with him and hopefully restore him and restore this family.

  • @shelmithwilliams8747
    @shelmithwilliams8747 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Najiuliza when will my son turn 18 nifungue fixed account n train him how to be a responsible man bt siwezi weka all eggs in one basket

    • @Shiepaul
      @Shiepaul Před 4 měsíci +1

      Sure kabisa pia mmi next year nitafungulia wangu fix account but nitapima doo c yte Ni Ile ya kumfunza Kua mwaminifu Na God amusaidie Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @shelmithwilliams8747
      @shelmithwilliams8747 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Shiepaul lazima tuwafunze kua strong men,unamwambia ukichukua kiasi Fulani unaweza fanya aje

    • @WanjiruShii-jq1vl
      @WanjiruShii-jq1vl Před 4 měsíci

      Same here

    • @ellie75677
      @ellie75677 Před 3 měsíci

      Dont wait for him to fika 18...teach him earlier ata na savings kidogo kidogo

    • @shelmithwilliams8747
      @shelmithwilliams8747 Před 3 měsíci

      @@ellie75677 I do taught him to be responsible I usually send him 10k afanye shopping yake n surprisingly hubuiya ata sisters wake too hajipendi

  • @faithi7216
    @faithi7216 Před 4 měsíci +4

    This story is very tough 😢😢

  • @JulietNabwire-nc2yr
    @JulietNabwire-nc2yr Před 4 měsíci +2

    For give him my sister and my husband did that to me also and people don't listen even when you explain to them i don't know why I left them also

  • @sarahnyawira858
    @sarahnyawira858 Před 4 měsíci

    Pole sana mama, hujazeeka Rudi KAZI, it happened to a daughter of my sister, same ten yrs but she went back.

  • @wachiramary3721
    @wachiramary3721 Před 3 měsíci

    Mum I feel your pain but because of the soul of your son relax, forgive him and pray for next step

  • @user-ul6do9nc5o
    @user-ul6do9nc5o Před 4 měsíci +7

    Beautiful lady, JD Fanya Ile kitu tafutia huyo mom bwana. Bado ni manyaga na sauti ni nyororo.

  • @terrykinuthia2607
    @terrykinuthia2607 Před 4 měsíci +1

    pole sana mama,i feel your pain,am also ten years in Qatar,i pay for my childrens rent direct to landlord via mpesa also their school fees i pay na mpesa coz staki kuskia story kama hizo. woiee pole sana mama.God will see you thru,try different agency wakati huu tunaapproach ramadhan huwa hawachagui miaka sana,am 48yrs and still strong.

  • @shikohshikoh8380
    @shikohshikoh8380 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I wish she was sending money to her mother
    With Co-op bank, you can diposit money from anywhere in the world directly and see your account. It's not easy what she is going through
    😢

  • @magg_iemwangi
    @magg_iemwangi Před 4 měsíci

    So sad aki watoi wanajuaga ile mambo tunapitia huku gulf aki hiyo ni roho baya aki so sorry mama be strong 💪 Mungu yuko mamaa

  • @edithonyango5021
    @edithonyango5021 Před 3 měsíci

    The moment ulikosa kuona messages zikiingia ungewacha kutuma dooh mamaa pole sana❤

  • @nancykaranja2933
    @nancykaranja2933 Před 3 měsíci

    😭😭😭 Jesus Christ wah soo painful I salute my son aki pesa yangu nilimtumia nikiwa Dubai aki na akanijengea. May God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @mwendapoleee
    @mwendapoleee Před 4 měsíci +7

    Akuje yy aende gulf akurudishie pesa zako.

  • @margaretwachoro7532
    @margaretwachoro7532 Před 4 měsíci

    Am sorry dear 😢its very sad hio pesa yote ikiwa imekunywa maji na vile hio kazi ya nyumba ni ngumu all will be well dear

  • @dianangugi8498
    @dianangugi8498 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Pole sana mama Raphael.

  • @kaninamargaret8025
    @kaninamargaret8025 Před 4 měsíci +5

    AM A MOTHER TOO!!!!! I CAN NEVER TRUST MY TEENAGER KIDS WITH MY MONEY!!!!! NEVERRRRRRRR!!!!! PESA SHETANIIIII

    • @florencemuthoni6301
      @florencemuthoni6301 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I thank GOD, my son anafanya kila kitu kujenga, kupeleka dadake shule, my mom and my little cute son,,GOD is faithful

    • @kaninamargaret8025
      @kaninamargaret8025 Před 4 měsíci

      @@florencemuthoni6301NOT ALL!!!!

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 Před 4 měsíci +1

      pesa si shetan otherwais unatafuta ya nini. watu ndio shetan kubadilika wakiona pesa

  • @wangarijane1669
    @wangarijane1669 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Pole sana, keep hope alive. Lakini Nyinyi watu wakuenda gulf mbona msifungue tu 2 accounts ya watoto and a money market account. Why sacco, mshwari bla bla,

  • @Blessedjoy001
    @Blessedjoy001 Před 4 měsíci

    Poverty spirit craws in one's life in so many ways.Like this one.However, financial literacy is a subject that needs to be introduced into our schools early years.Pole mama, restructure your life.

  • @jacklinewamuyu4536
    @jacklinewamuyu4536 Před 3 měsíci

    Hugs 🫂 Imma, please don't curse your kid 😢, you have come from far. There is a God of second chance. Forgive him and go back to Gulf. Hizo amekula maisha London. Uhai muhimu, let him come back home safe. Pesa utapata zingine.

  • @lydiahkaranja4275
    @lydiahkaranja4275 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Pole for what happened mama but in this case the solution ni urudi tu job atleast ndio maisha isikuwe ngumu zaidi. Don't trust anyone this time round

  • @susanwangare2911
    @susanwangare2911 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I don't want to judge her but no need of cursing your own son.Mine I don't send him money unless it's foodstuffs and bills as money is a breakdown of Many families.so forgive go hustle again and now know where to deposit or keep your money mama.wishing you all the best

  • @assumptamuhia8826
    @assumptamuhia8826 Před 3 měsíci

    Pole Mom,Rudi Qatar talk to the last family if your in touch ama yenye tu utapata...take your safaricom line ,Kua unatuma doh through Oreedo una jipangia better ukatwe izo Qr20 every transaction than utumanie mtu mwingine, You will Stand Again🙏🙏🙏

  • @janekopp4491
    @janekopp4491 Před 4 měsíci

    Ooh My God. Even own kinds Jameni no Trust 💔💔🤔🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️heartbreaking 😢

  • @lydianyambura2618
    @lydianyambura2618 Před 4 měsíci

    You r ok rudi job mzazi ni mzazi hata kama ni single room jifinyilie hapo .but Pole all the way but i

  • @piuswekesa5191
    @piuswekesa5191 Před 4 měsíci +1

    i feel for the young brother too is very hard.

  • @susanbiermann6931
    @susanbiermann6931 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Never trust anybody with your Money even if is your Children, they can let you down. It's better to follow your money es quickly as possible

  • @ezekielndungugithinji1884
    @ezekielndungugithinji1884 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Lesson to guys wenye mnaenda diaspora, fungua account ya banks yoyote na ikuwe unai control na mpesa.
    Mpesa iko world wide.
    Usifanye hesabu ya pesa yenye unalipishwa na mpesa ya kutuma.
    Kuliko kutumia mtu pesa akuwekee.

    •  Před 3 měsíci

      Hata mimi nashangaa kwanini wasi save kwa mpesa na mshwari

  • @usiniletee
    @usiniletee Před 4 měsíci +1

    Maybe your son is in Gulf. I hope he will soon start sending you the money. Otherwise, that boy will never have a good life. People thinks that a loss is when someone dies. This is a big loss to this lady. 10 years of hard worker is no jokes.

  • @petersagwe4923
    @petersagwe4923 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Sorry for the incident,however all the mess could have been avoided.With co-operative bank app.you can monitor every single transaction at the comfort of your seat.

    •  Před 3 měsíci

      Hawa wamama wa gulf huwa hawaskii. Hata Kuna mshwari na mpesa

  • @wilsonwilson2417
    @wilsonwilson2417 Před 3 měsíci

    I f you work in gulf,and would need to be assisted on buying land and building, I can honestly help.

  • @petermuiyuro2889
    @petermuiyuro2889 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Mbona hii mambo inafanyika kila time na watu bado they still fall in the same trap...

    •  Před 3 měsíci

      Ni kulalia masikio, huwezi endelea kutumia mtu pesa na hakupi receipts, si ange acha kutuma basi

  • @faithjulius2506
    @faithjulius2506 Před 4 měsíci +8

    May be God wants to take you to a higher level you never know

  • @akhuuihalal_ninja4578
    @akhuuihalal_ninja4578 Před 3 měsíci

    Pole mama kwa yote unayopitia nakuobea mola akufanyie Rahisi.Ameen